Oh my goodness, my new guy keeps telling me how he loves how I just accept him for who he is and how he is. He has literally said this more than anything and like a million times.
Reciprocity! Some aren’t ready for an amazing relationship like this. Grace and gratitude... as long as he is emotionally available. You can’t love a person into loving you.
Mike, this is absolutely amazing. This makes so much sense and you made it so understandable. Thank you so much. You absolutely blow my mind with your insights which are always spot on.
Woman need to chill!! People need to take classes on how to communicate with one another and stop taking all things so personal! To take a look in the mirror and fall in love with yourself and stop paying attention to what they are doing
There are no wrong guys or right guys.. There are guys that have assets and flaws as women have. And if you are talking of acceptance, you have to accept flaws and help him being a better person.. Get out the better in him.
Being a high value woman is not having a job, having activities or having good relationships with your family.. It's being yourself and having high values in life as respect, being open minded, open hearted, non judgemental, accepting things and people how they are.
Not sure about that. If you are jobless and no activities either nor have a good relationship with your own family then I don’t know what kind of a high value woman you are.
Mike, here's an Acronym for the high school/college partner. CRAP - Compromising Reactionary Accessible Pushover. Any or all these applied to our early dating partners. Thanks to you, we know better now!
Ask for anything you want, for example, I love our fun Zoom dates. You would make me so happy if you planned one of those fun zoom game nights sometime."
NOOOO, nowadays relationship is NOT about love but about financial security....if you can offer me this .....as long as you earn.......I dont mind, I will be the great person staying at home and you provide for everything I will take care of you, us house , car and the cat.
Thanks for the reminder! It makes so much sense 😊 How can we show a man he is needed in the early stages of dating? I lean I cannot ask him to rebuild my home 😅 Do you have some examples? I know men need/want to feel needed, but how? Just tell him I want to see him, spend time with him? Wouldn’t that be ‘pursuing?’, aren’t we told to ‘lean back’? I feel confused right now 🤯
Leaning back is not the whole story. It is telling the man what you need and then allowing him to act. "I would love some Italian food." Then, he can Google a place and take you to dinner.
Most men still hold dear those old school morals and values in a woman , the advise I hear from you is exactly that , I have them now I just need to come out of my hermit hole , in a pandemic lol, lol😂🤣 . At least I’m trying to. Great advice Mike.
What if your partner says “I don’t need to feel appreciated or admired” when you tell them how great they are? What if they don’t communicate what is special about you or why they appreciate you but just want you to be there to support them when they might need you?
It sounds like you both have different love languages. Perhaps you should both take the love languages test and then give each other love the way you both prefer to receive it. Thoughts?
EZ Dating Coach Yes, we did. He’s more acts of service where I am physical touch and words of affirmation. That’s a good point to make; showing appreciation will look different to different people.
Maybe Words Of Affirmation are not his Love Language. There's like 4 or 5 Love Languages. Words of Affirmation. Words and love notes Acts of Service. Doing stuff. Receiving gifts. Thoughtful & personal Quality Time. no words, no gifts no service, just good quality moments.
You know the old adage of not calling it texting a man Is it bothersome to text first .like say you've met someone on line he expresses admiration and you responded...you've been chatting a month or so with a minor break After a sess.if texting and he goes off or gets preoccupied Is it bothersome to text first the next day or do You wait for him
@@julielynchbuettner3906 Professional pictures, the 50-12-1 strategy, a great profile, and match.com. If you want help on the strategy, watch the free training on my site: www.ezdatingcoach.com/
It'd be really cool if you didn't specify for him for him the woman do this for him but also like use it to talk to both because some of the things and topics that you talked about can relate to what a woman wants as well from her man and if a man hearing this one-sided I know it's for a woman but maybe I just need a counseling one that address is both man and woman if you said this to her you would accomplish this if you said this to him you can accomplish this or questions on how does it make you feel when you're put in the situation how can we work together to where it's not just one-sided you are a very good coach and I have learned I am not crazy bye the things that I've heard so far I think it would be cool to see you address both man and woman because I think you can I would be interested in watching those videos as well we all need help because I feel not all of us understand each other completely and there is a point where you understand that that is them and you either accept them or you don't know what you want to deal with you know what I mean but when it comes to boundaries relationship communication those are solids that need to be addressed by both
This advice typically get goods feedback from listeners and I personally think these 4 things are the most important thing you can do for a man. Not to mention you need to hear something 7 times to retain it. My apologies if you already have this down. (80% of my views still come from new folks so I try to balance new info with the golden oldies). Thanks for watching. 🙏🙏💜💜
@@constancerichman8787 - Thanks for watching! I am constantly trying to make my content, new, innovative, and better so hopefully there won't be much repeat, but more enhancements.
While I may agree...what happens when you are with a narcissist? A woman can turn into a pretzel and this concept won’t work. I believe you have to feel like your man walks on water to show him he does. And he needs to show a woman that he can.
1. Needed (naab a guy)
2. Appreciation, admiration
3. Acceptance
4. Boundaries (giving road maps in the relationship)
That's it!!!!
Oh my goodness, my new guy keeps telling me how he loves how I just accept him for who he is and how he is. He has literally said this more than anything and like a million times.
Acceptance is a beautiful thing!!! Thank you for sharing. 💜💜
Reciprocity! Some aren’t ready for an amazing relationship like this. Grace and gratitude... as long as he is emotionally available. You can’t love a person into loving you.
Mike, this is absolutely amazing. This makes so much sense and you made it so understandable. Thank you so much. You absolutely blow my mind with your insights which are always spot on.
Thanks Linda. 🙏🙏💜💜
If you are looking to change anyone else. You should keep going on. Not only wrong, but it will not be good . You have to be yourself.
Woman need to chill!! People need to take classes on how to communicate with one another and stop taking all things so personal! To take a look in the mirror and fall in love with yourself and stop paying attention to what they are doing
There are no wrong guys or right guys.. There are guys that have assets and flaws as women have. And if you are talking of acceptance, you have to accept flaws and help him being a better person.. Get out the better in him.
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Are you involved?! 😇😂😂 you sound like the ideal man!! Great info. but it's not easy to do, practice practice practice!
Love this Mike! Your perspective has really helped me adjust my mindset. Thank you!!
You're welcome! 💜💜
Very insightful things you said. THANK YOU!
Scribbling notes here!!! 🖊️ 📄
Being a high value woman is not having a job, having activities or having good relationships with your family.. It's being yourself and having high values in life as respect, being open minded, open hearted, non judgemental, accepting things and people how they are.
Not sure about that. If you are jobless and no activities either nor have a good relationship with your own family then I don’t know what kind of a high value woman you are.
Some times they expect millions of things but ask for nothing.
Mike, here's an Acronym for the high school/college partner. CRAP - Compromising Reactionary Accessible Pushover. Any or all these applied to our early dating partners. Thanks to you, we know better now!
HaHa, that is amazing and so true!
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Absolutely amazing massage to made Men and women strong deeper conaction thank you so much video beautiful couple God bless.
How can I make a man feel needed, when dating during the pandemic, via long distance?
Ask for anything you want, for example, I love our fun Zoom dates. You would make me so happy if you planned one of those fun zoom game nights sometime."
Great question, and such a helpful answer!! Thank you!
@@keshakellogg5995 you're welcome 💜💜
NOOOO, nowadays relationship is NOT about love but about financial security....if you can offer me this .....as long as you earn.......I dont mind, I will be the great person staying at home and you provide for everything I will take care of you, us house , car and the cat.
"Liked"! Great examples..
Mike , were is your new video' s I only see old things 4 years back ?
Were are you ?
@@susanboshoff5926 I have new videos twice per week. Go to my ezdatingcoach homepage and click new. 🙌🙌
Thanks for the reminder! It makes so much sense 😊
How can we show a man he is needed in the early stages of dating? I lean I cannot ask him to rebuild my home 😅
Do you have some examples? I know men need/want to feel needed, but how?
Just tell him I want to see him, spend time with him? Wouldn’t that be ‘pursuing?’, aren’t we told to ‘lean back’?
I feel confused right now 🤯
Leaning back is not the whole story. It is telling the man what you need and then allowing him to act. "I would love some Italian food." Then, he can Google a place and take you to dinner.
Most men still hold dear those old school morals and values in a woman , the advise I hear from you is exactly that , I have them now I just need to come out of my hermit hole , in a pandemic lol, lol😂🤣 . At least I’m trying to. Great advice Mike.
Come on out! The world misses you! 💜💜
Some of them are very good at making us feel not needed.
OMG.... So enjoy your perspective!! How do feel about older women?!? 😏😅
Love this one Mike!
Excellent!
Thank you 🙏🙏
greatt examples especially for listening..thanksss
Thank you!! 💜💜
What if your partner says “I don’t need to feel appreciated or admired” when you tell them how great they are? What if they don’t communicate what is special about you or why they appreciate you but just want you to be there to support them when they might need you?
It sounds like you both have different love languages. Perhaps you should both take the love languages test and then give each other love the way you both prefer to receive it. Thoughts?
EZ Dating Coach Yes, we did. He’s more acts of service where I am physical touch and words of affirmation. That’s a good point to make; showing appreciation will look different to different people.
@@rachelleFM -Exactly!!! He doesn't need words as much as you do.
Maybe Words Of Affirmation are not his Love Language. There's like 4 or 5 Love Languages.
Words of Affirmation. Words and love notes
Acts of Service. Doing stuff.
Receiving gifts. Thoughtful & personal
Quality Time. no words, no gifts no service, just good quality moments.
Turn up the volume!
Great advice
Love u Mark, soo useful 💖
Thank you
You're welcome. 🤠
Man, I have been learning things for years but met no woman. What are the benefits for all this?
You are so right!
but accepting a man where he is..how wud he be inspired to become better..like financially for example
You know the old adage of not calling it texting a man
Is it bothersome to text first .like say you've met someone on line he expresses admiration and you responded...you've been chatting a month or so with a minor break
After a sess.if texting and he goes off or gets preoccupied
Is it bothersome to text first the next day or do
You wait for him
Where do I meet him?
Depends on where you live, what your age is, and what you are looking for?
@@EZDatingCoach 52 y/o. Quad Cities Iowa/Illinois
@@EZDatingCoach Chicago works.
@@julielynchbuettner3906 Professional pictures, the 50-12-1 strategy, a great profile, and match.com. If you want help on the strategy, watch the free training on my site: www.ezdatingcoach.com/
Should a woman be accepting of verbal and mental abuse when he has misinterpreted what she meant. Can we have a voice for ourselves?
That person will never give you what you need, but will make you crazy. Run.
It'd be really cool if you didn't specify for him for him the woman do this for him but also like use it to talk to both because some of the things and topics that you talked about can relate to what a woman wants as well from her man and if a man hearing this one-sided I know it's for a woman but maybe I just need a counseling one that address is both man and woman if you said this to her you would accomplish this if you said this to him you can accomplish this or questions on how does it make you feel when you're put in the situation how can we work together to where it's not just one-sided you are a very good coach and I have learned I am not crazy bye the things that I've heard so far I think it would be cool to see you address both man and woman because I think you can I would be interested in watching those videos as well we all need help because I feel not all of us understand each other completely and there is a point where you understand that that is them and you either accept them or you don't know what you want to deal with you know what I mean but when it comes to boundaries relationship communication those are solids that need to be addressed by both
If men can fall in love so quickly , cant they fall out of love as fast?
What they are good in that there are 3 billion guys there. You are not that important. That is what I felt so far.
Why are you repeating this information Mike ??
This advice typically get goods feedback from listeners and I personally think these 4 things are the most important thing you can do for a man. Not to mention you need to hear something 7 times to retain it. My apologies if you already have this down. (80% of my views still come from new folks so I try to balance new info with the golden oldies). Thanks for watching. 🙏🙏💜💜
@@EZDatingCoach thank you for your reply & yes I understand your repeat video. Always watch you
@@constancerichman8787 - Thanks for watching! I am constantly trying to make my content, new, innovative, and better so hopefully there won't be much repeat, but more enhancements.
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Nab
NAAB
N- NEEDED
A - Appreciated/Admired
A - Accepted
B - Boundaries (being high value)
While I may agree...what happens when you are with a narcissist? A woman can turn into a pretzel and this concept won’t work. I believe you have to feel like your man walks on water to show him he does. And he needs to show a woman that he can.
@@simplicynthia6191 ...you leave him.
You're cute!
Thank you!!! 💜💜
😊 You're welcome. I enjoy your channel. Be blessed!