I am in a relationship very far away across the other side in europe problem pandemic 7 hour difference. Please give me simple examples of questions to ask allready in. Four months he said i am perfect asked i travel there thx you have helped a great deal want a permanent relationship long term
I actually stopped seeing someone because I felt too strongly for him. I could not deal with the feeling of being extremely attracted to him. He was doing the pull back thing. I recognized it, stopped it quickly. It was so freeing to release a really attractive man who plays games. I got my confidence and power back. I exercised self control. It is so powerful.
Yes im In a situation like that right now , but if he’s a high value man I feel that we must put in the work and yes playing the game of I don’t care , works great .
I just did the same and you are right, it felt so good to be the one who held the power this time.around. I was able to detach easily and am so happy I did because just a couple of weeks later a good one showed up on my doorstep and if I would have still been with the one I just got rid of, I would have never met him.
1. Be unattached of the outcome of the relationship/date. Release outcome dependence by being present and curious without pushing anything: this liberates him from being responsible for your happiness and makes him feel safe and attached. 2. Inspire him to take action by a cycle of positive invitations using feeling statements followed by space and trust in him to step up to do what makes you happy. 3. Honor his "heroes journey". Cheer him on and show acknowledgment, respect, admiration and deep curiosity for what he is doing in his life/career/passions. 4. Be his emotional sanctuary: an outlet for his feelings where he can be vulnerable and put down his walls. Do this by being vulnerable yourself, by asking questions and through physical touch. 5. Ask better and deeper questions that challenge his worldview, evoke stories and make him connect with his passions at a deep level. To avoid: pretzeling, manipulating by leaning back and withholding attention or affection, using seduction, keeping things surface level.
@@Jhdjdld Sorry to be Blunt. But you don't seem to have Anything!! 5 years!! Still don't feel Special and Adored?? Sorry. It's never going to happen... With him. Move on.
@@ivanrodriguez268 ah but if you use the technique he'll be thinking about you!!! Even though he's with the new one...so there's the proof of this theory you've become unforgettable!
I don't want to have to play games, I'm too old for that. I just want to be my authentic self, if he needs someone to play hard to get games, he's not for me.
I am a 33 year old woman living alone (lost both parents through the years i was their caretaker for many years, have, one sibling who lives in another country) so i live on my own now during this pandemic and it has made me realize so many things about myself and about self-reliance that i feel like i am on a hero's journey myself. And i wish i had a man who admires, sees, respects and acknowledges my journey as much as i do his.
Sorry. That doesn't work. You can't be "yourself" you can't call him every time you want to hear his voice. You can't always be available. You can't. Because you will Bore him. Men like a Challenge.
I watched this video a year ago. I finally attracted my first high value man. I was myself and not nervous. I was surprised at the end of the date he was looking forward to a second date. He also sent me the first text after the date. He said he like my positive energy. I told life is to short for negativity and I know I am in charge of my own happiness
As Coco Chanel said "To be irreplaceable, one must always be different". I'm inter changing irreplaceable with your word "unforgettable". As a woman, I've obviously had many women friends and have seen how they behave or respond to men. Most of the time, their efforts have fallen flat. Therefore, I've usually taken the opposite approach with men in my life and its usually worked. Women somewhere along the way started chasing men. And when the men run - they chase more which is ridiculous and never works long term. You discuss making invitations... I think there is a line that most women have a hard time staying away from, which is being invitational and vulnerable without being aggressive or chasing. It's a very tough balance to navigate. We should never give more than we are receiving. If you give and it is not reciprocated, BACK OFF! Don't do what the majority of women will do which is to push harder. What Mat is saying here makes sense for a man who is ready for a mature, adult relationship; but not all men are ready. You'll know which type he is by doing what Mat suggests because if he doesn't match your interest or ask YOU anything about YOU...then you'll know. *Just thought I'd take your thought process a bit farther.. I'm thinking, however, that you agree!
@@eunicegantt3069 yes Eunice.... I was lucky enough to pay attention while observing some of my girlfriends chase men in vain when I was younger. I actually had one guy admit to me later that he was actually afraid of one of my friends back then - 😳 haha! I know she wasn't dangerous but he was still freaking out and any attraction he might of had for her in the beginning was completely obliterated by her starting to chase him. Lessons learned!
@@npkrn6764 Absolutely, it pushes men away, learned the hard way, however, I used to do most of these things in a relationship and found the man saying I knew him better than anyone but the truth is I didn't know how I got to him. But I always want to know the person but sometimes that can be too much for a man to handle if he's not used to it or doesn't expect it from you.
Right, if he's not ready it won't work. That's the sad truth. Not asking questions about me is a theme i have seen in EU men. I naturally do a lot of this stuff, but I'm older, and they are too. Some really dig in to their habits, lifestyle, and comfortable with their ability to pull any women they want, which is addictive and hard to give up, I exchange for the hard work of accepting someone warts and all, and committing indefinitely. They are usually WAAAAY far from that thought process. This is still GREAT advice ...thanks Matt!
Thank you for supporting more women who believe in their womanhood and love. There are so many broken cynical cold women out there who have no idea how to love anymore and they are angry and judging others that are in relationships. We need to revert their pain by educating them, they can always find love no matter their age.
I always look forward to listening to your videos because you speak so passionately with SO MUCH VALUE in each videos! I can see you writing an amazing book just on this ONE video 🙌🏼 By the way, do you do any live group events for women? I’d buy your book and or attend your live event! Anyone else agree with me? ❤️
Thank you SO MUCH for your kind words my dear!! Im am committed to STARTING LIVE EVENTS in 2020 (AND write my first book), so I will absolutely keep you posted on the schedule
Hi Mat! This lesson was excellent. While giving the man space and asking him questions about his work his life and what he aspires to do in his life, he feels relaxed and wants to talk about it all. Asking deeper questions. Let him get excited. He will open up and think that this woman really is interested in my life and you should be.
If I was unforgettable I wouldn't be single 🤔😅 Jokes aside, I'm just working on improving myself, have self-discipline, controlling my emotions, be grounded, have strong morals and values, being energetic fun and exciting. Make the man be the man and me be feminine with my energy. Also make them laugh is key. 🤗
I just set a guy free because he wouldn't move any further than just texting me and asking me to come over in the evenings ...Yet all the while claiming he was "addicted to me"...In six weeks, we only went out for our initial meet and greet. I followed all advice you guys offered and quite frankly, naturally follow techniques as I always have. Finally grew weary of his texting approach and finally asked him to join me for a walk on the beach to the which, he never responded. Then he texted me the following week as if I had never broached the subject. After careful thought, I answered back with a message removing myself from his equation and wished him all the success in his search by stating that I felt we were seeking different outcomes between us as I am seeking more than just a texting buddy or hookup. Right or wrong, I needed this to move away from such a status. I also let him know I liked him but would not be reduced to this level of relationship.
Thank you for the incredible video! Just what I needed!! When you say to use invitation and space to empower him what ways could you use this as a tool to bring him closer to you?
fantastic so glad you liked it! Im gonna do a whole video outlining more ways to implement the cycle - where do YOU think it would apply in your relationship??
I love this. We should use these tips for everyone in our life. Be authentic and actually, genuinely be interested in being supportive and curious about the other person- both their space and letting go of expectations of outcomes of other people.
Hello Mat! Thank you SO much for your content. I have gained such a wealth of knowledge about relationships from your videos. I have a question for you and I would be forever grateful if you could tell me your opinion. I met my boyfriend about 3 months ago and it has been intense, I feel a deep connection to him and everything has gone great. I was a bit confused about our "label" for a bit there until one day he introduced me as his girlfriend. That's great, I was very happy (and I asked him about it to clarify), but now I want us to have a day that we use to celebrate our month and year (if we get there) anniversaries. How can I ask him about this without seeming needy? Is it too soon? Please help!
I would bring it up to him within the context of a feeling statement around the title he's put on your... something along the lines of "It felt so good to hear you call me your girlfriend the other day! Im curious, what do you think/consider our "anniversary day" is? Our first date?" and see what he says! With the right energy it wont seem needy at all :)
Hmmm....that Hasn’t been my experience. Many men are surprised and glad when you say hello to them, in the right setting, and with the right approach. There’s always going to be ‘uppity’ ones, but that’s a GOOD thing, because it shows you right away where their head is at.
Yo Mat, off topic, you ever notice how you crinkle your forehead when you talk lol not hating. I do it too, and since I've realized I do it, I am obsessed lol some people rarely do it, some people can't stop doing. Completely a subconscious thing, not bad at all.
Hi, Mat! I watched your recent Monday’s with Mat on FB. BTW Congrats for accomplishing 3 years 🎉🎉🎉!! I’m learning so much about me & men from your videos. I would love to see your very 1st video on Monday’s with Mat. Can you share that link here on RUclips? Happy New Year 2020 to you & yours!🎇🎇🎇
BOOM thanks my dear! HA you wanna see the orig mondays with Mat?! here ya go :) facebook.com/IamMatShaffer/videos/vb.5218651/10108826987353433/?type=2&video_source=user_video_tab
Mat Shaffer Thank You So much for sharing, Mat! 💥Wow!💥 Your first vid touched my heart so much. Why? A dear friend of mine is going through the self-loathing & blaming himself. I’m not a psychologist or psychiatrist, but I can tell he’s hurting inside. I feel helpless, but he knows I’m here for him & his daughter. Mat, I feel So proud of you! 🤩You’ve come a long way. You are changing many lives around the 🌎 including mine. I wish you continued success. Cheers!🍾🥂 I’m So grateful I found your channel in 2019. 🙏 😄 This is Jocelyn from sunny California☀️🌴🌈 Take care, Mat! ❤️
really good advice. tho i hope not all ladies are going to learn that because then there's perhaps no longer that easy to stand out lol. competition between women for a man's attention is an emotionally cruel thing for a woman's heart to be participating in. especially if the outcome is not sure at all but you're still catching feelings and attraction, and then having this one-by-one time with someone and also someone else getting to do just the same. i haven't even been in a relationship so perhaps i haven't got a clear view on this stuff, but still since i've always been "the third" who's eyeing people i like, i kinda sense how sour all of this feels. i wish there was a way to avoid this polluted cold competition between women around desireable men. i wish relationships worked in a way that everyone who's having mutual emotional ties with The Mister are getting their share. and not that one Mrs snips him away and that's it.
I guess I’ll do better next time. I finally met a guy I liked a lot but never really been thought how a healthy relationship works. But I did everything right except the comfort part. But it’s nice to know that I’ve healed and grown enough to attract high value men. Growing and developing. Great video!
I have watched many relationship advise videos on RUclips, but yours is just perfect! Mainly because of your voice 👌 it's soo soothing and wanted us to keep on hearing it🤗 the way u present with your expressions and body language, it is more realistic and lively! 👏 No dramas no fake creativity.. 👍 good job!
Mat, I heard from an other dating coach that asking emotional questions can scare men off, because than we force them to be vulnerable and that could be received as violating their boundaries. How do you think about that? I loved hearing your view about asking deep questions, because I love going in depth haha. But yeah I don't wanna violate men their emotional boundaries..
That’s what I am curious about too. I love it when men are emotionally open because it means they trust me, and I can build a lasting connection only when they let their guard down... was wondering why some hold back... Mat’s insight helps!
i think people should watch this video keeping in mind that these tips are just different ways for YOU to be able to show YOUR TRUE personality in the best way possible to the high value man, in order for him to do the same. You should be actually trying to look for a real relationship as a high-value woman yourself, with a high-value man. This can be misleading, because you can't just memorize these tips and use them to "score" him if you just see him as someone you can use and manipulate for your benefit. Ideally, this video is for a high-value person who wants to be in a genuine, honest relationship with a high value man they saw, but don't know how to let their true nature present itself well.
I been in love with this loving man since I was 16 years old and I'm 40 now he is 41and I'm so ready to Merry him he asked me 5 months ago he is my best friend and always been but at times I had let fear get the best of me and I learning how to let all that go with faith Amen💖 Amen🥰 ❤️ Loving my journey with the both of us thanks Mat🙏🌟
He is really attentive to me.This something he never been before. I respect what his dreams are. He is a musician and that part of him really excites me. I like to go to his gigs but I don't invade this part of his life. I will support him in everything he does. I bought a keyboard just recently. He was so excited about this, I told him that I want to make music with him. This made his eyes tear up and I recieved the most passionate kiss I have ever been given by him. He is on cloud nine knowing that I want make music with him. Things shifted into a more positive connection to him. He can't wait to get started, I can't either.
Oh such powerful words thoughts love its everything and I feel your love massage effective my heat come to me for loving care i fell so great full and blessed to have love of my alway my side
I think this applies to gay men too. I tend to be like this and I'm not lying when I say that I have been proposed to several times by high quality men. I didnt understand why and now I do. I'm just genuinely curious and I admire the passion a lot of men have towards their jobs and hobbies. I also don't have an expectation about them at all and I always help them feel safe to communicate their emotions with me. Their secrets are safe with me. ;) So this is very true. I don't know how this guy figured it out but it's ON POINT.
Yes! One of the first points was the best: let him know that YOU'RE the type of woman that HE is worthy of being in a relationship with. Great tips, Mat. Thank you!
It takes a high quality woman -- confident, intelligent, empathetic, commonsensical, caring -- to follow your excellent tips.(Actually, it's not easy to be a man.) THANKS!
Mat, I love your advice and insights. Thank you for sharing! I believe the best thing is to be yourself, be authentic, be curious and be present in the moment.
Mat i have a question. If a man is earning less does it make him low-value? If he is ticking all boxes in other areas by showing care, protection etc..does moneyy realllly matter then?
absolutely not, value is determined by so many factors :) a big part of value is what YOU consider valuable, so if income isn';t a big deal for you it shouldnt devalue him
Hina B. if he is overall smart, caring, protective, kind and has other great "man" qualities, I would overlook the income -- hopefully it doesn't affect how he views the relationship. And, perhaps in the future it would change.
This is excellent advice. I just want to know what the men will give to us in return? Honestly it seems like we are getting the shorter end of this stick
Wow, Mat, thank you- you’re a beautiful soul 😍 thank you for this amazing information! Connection is what I’m searching for and this is a treasure trove of information to help get me there. I’m so grateful!
How to DO these with a new person? So you're in the meat of connecting and all the fun new stuff, HOW? It's so hard to toss yourself out there sometimes, how can I as a shy lady, get this ball rolling? 😁🎷🎸🥳
Well.... I've been through a LOT the past 5 years from laying the last of my family down to being in an abusive relationship that ended me and my kiddos living in our car. I've done a LOT of healing and inner work, and this guy?? He melts me from the inside out and I don't even know his name... We're in the same circle briefly almost every day, and no matter what... He's on my brain. I'm so afraid to start over to begin with. That in itself, I'd a huge step for me that I'm ready enough to want to try... And I've watched and listened to the tips and I take it all in, now fearing I may be too much for many, just with my past 5 years alone... 👀
Also shy but learned to accept it and actually not see it as an obstacle, just make the effort to feel good about yourself, whatever insecurities just let them go... one tip I heard of is to think of something fun you like to do, so when things should get tense you can make your body more relaxed
I gave him space then why he turned his attention to other woman? I gave space because of everyday communication its draining. And even for myself i dont want to invest too much but he turned his attention to someone else. I am passionate woman im very into photography and i play instrument and best in cooking. I focus on myself but still not works. He rather want someone else.
Maybe I'm just slow but if (#1) Men don't want the responsibility of "being" a woman's happiness... Isn't (#2) contradicting? Because her happiness is laying solely on how he handles said responsibility...?
Breaking into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me
Thanks for your thoughtful comment! If you're debating whether it's the right time to date again, our 'Are You Ready to Date Again?' quiz can offer some clarity. 😊 mat-nlcmdzyq.scoreapp.com/
RE: Reply to your nice invitation for your classes to dating younger men: Not on the fence Matt. All men are two year olds or four year olds. Older women with children know this and can wrap any guy of any age inside out with a little psychology. There are society lables for people who date more than 6 months to a year outside their own age group. Those lables are not so kind and generally used behind a couples back in whispers. With that knowledge, how emotionally damaged would someone be to be a Cougar Momma or a Toy Boy? Those are the polite lables. These are not healthy adult relationships. Nothing in your videos discribe insight to healthy adult attachments. Healthy adults don't plan play dates and sleepovers. They schedual responsibilities with vacations and self care. Yup!! You deffinatly remind me of most attorneys I have known. California attorneys! What does your Momma say? Not the momma you are dating. I had a curiosity when I saw your channel after having had way too many recent approaches by really young men. These types of relationships are for a season. A little more than a one night stand but extreamly dangerous to both parties. People don't need classes for this type of life. They need classes to break free of it. Some people need maturity and responsibility classes.
She : How to be Unforgettable to Him & stand out from the other girls. God : Be a VIRGIN & save yourself for marriage - else you are only worth pumping & dumping.
Thank you so much. So my question is. You talk with this guy and basically you have shown your deepest concern. But he just tries to be nice all the time. Should one quit this. Or give it time?????😊
I don't agree with the use of techniques in relationships. I'm a social sciences student and l believe in spontaneity. First, you need be a good person; second, you need to have a good self-esteem (to place yourself before everything else without being selfish); and third, you need to be temperate (i.e., to have self-control). I use some techniques, such as in the case of conflict: don't you argue, blame, or complaint, just state facts and open up about how you feel.
WOW, just WOW - you give amazing information - loving and learning through your videos. I cannot believe it took me this long to find you. Thank you for all that you are and all that you give !
Unattached by the outcome wowzaaa Howbdo I do this? I think the inner work like you said in a previous video. I seem to pick guys that are so excited at the Start they want you to trust them they have sex with you then i get bread crumbs ot just completly ignored until he wants to come back for sex. Aghhh
Mat, What makes you a high value man? Just because a man has many interested in him does not make him a high value. Maybe he is just a player. You don't need to chase a high value man nor do you want to chase him. High value women make informed choices.
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I love this video. I also love that I feel like I do this all more intentionally now because of you. I feel like it was always in my nature to do these things but after working with you I feel more confident in showing up that way. I have noticed that I have had really lovely connections and responses from men because of this.. ..on both ends it has been very authentic. Thanks Mat :)
AMAZING Lisette thank you so so much for your share... it's been SO BEAUTIFUL to watch your journey and expansion!! grateful to have connected with you : )
It's great to see that your channel is all about honesty instead of the manipulative tactics I see people use on a daoly basis. Thanks for keeping it real!!!
Hi Mat I watched and listened all your videos I'm your number 1 fan here in Dubai. Can you make videos regarding online dating as well? I'd love to hear you back.
Wow this is a very meaningful video,i have met a guy just a year ago and we get along very well ,it seems as it is my soulmate,we understand eachother without words we are in separation because he iis from another country and has a busy life..we text eachobher sometimes but for the end of 2019 he leaned back now i am confused and i don'nt want to be needy,i do'nt know what to do?🤲🙏💪
@Mat_Shaffer this video makes so much sense! I think this is really incredibly insightful. But it’s so terribly difficult to be detached from the outcome! How do you actually do it when you like someone so much?
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I am in a relationship very far away across the other side in europe problem pandemic 7 hour difference. Please give me simple examples of questions to ask allready in. Four months he said i am perfect asked i travel there thx you have helped a great deal want a permanent relationship long term
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I actually stopped seeing someone because I felt too strongly for him. I could not deal with the feeling of being extremely attracted to him. He was doing the pull back thing. I recognized it, stopped it quickly. It was so freeing to release a really attractive man who plays games. I got my confidence and power back. I exercised self control. It is so powerful.
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In a situation like that right now , but if he’s a high value man I feel that we must put in the work and yes playing the game of I don’t care , works great .
I just did the same and you are right, it felt so good to be the one who held the power this time.around. I was able to detach easily and am so happy I did because just a couple of weeks later a good one showed up on my doorstep and if I would have still been with the one I just got rid of, I would have never met him.
Going through this now, so I also have to pull back while I can
I went to something similar .. I call his shyt off.. I’m too old to play games🤷♀️
1. Be unattached of the outcome of the relationship/date. Release outcome dependence by being present and curious without pushing anything: this liberates him from being responsible for your happiness and makes him feel safe and attached.
2. Inspire him to take action by a cycle of positive invitations using feeling statements followed by space and trust in him to step up to do what makes you happy.
3. Honor his "heroes journey". Cheer him on and show acknowledgment, respect, admiration and deep curiosity for what he is doing in his life/career/passions.
4. Be his emotional sanctuary: an outlet for his feelings where he can be vulnerable and put down his walls. Do this by being vulnerable yourself, by asking questions and through physical touch.
5. Ask better and deeper questions that challenge his worldview, evoke stories and make him connect with his passions at a deep level.
To avoid: pretzeling, manipulating by leaning back and withholding attention or affection, using seduction, keeping things surface level.
YES beautifully laid out! :)
@@Jhdjdld You can't - this is not the right man for you : ( sorry someone needs to say it! Good luck
Thanks,!, ✌🏻🙏🏻
your so smart and you make it seem so simple. i wish i found you a long time ago!
@@Jhdjdld Sorry to be Blunt. But you don't seem to have Anything!! 5 years!! Still don't feel Special and Adored?? Sorry. It's never going to happen... With him. Move on.
Dissappear sometimes. How's he going to miss you if you Never go away! 😘
That is very true 👍
I disagree with this, if you disappear, another one will come in. Trust me, other girls are waiting in line.
@@ivanrodriguez268 ah but if you use the technique he'll be thinking about you!!! Even though he's with the new one...so there's the proof of this theory you've become unforgettable!
@@ivanrodriguez268 if he moves too quickly with another woman, he was never interested in you.
I don't want to have to play games, I'm too old for that. I just want to be my authentic self, if he needs someone to play hard to get games, he's not for me.
Th best relationship is be u
Never pretend
Accept each other th way u r
N it will b cool
N put God first
Absolutely. 🙌❤️
I am a 33 year old woman living alone (lost both parents through the years i was their caretaker for many years, have, one sibling who lives in another country) so i live on my own now during this pandemic and it has made me realize so many things about myself and about self-reliance that i feel like i am on a hero's journey myself. And i wish i had a man who admires, sees, respects and acknowledges my journey as much as i do his.
You're a brave soul...I hope that God brings you the perfect man as a gift for what you've done for your parents.
bless you
You want a man who admires, sees, respects you? - Are you a VIRGIN?
This is one of the best relationship advice for women videos I have seen on RUclips. It’s strong and built on solid principles that do work 😁
amazing really appreciate this feedback!!
Mr Mat I Love your advice it is helping me each day I have watched you on RUclips and I enjoy it Thanks woman it helps 🙏🥰🙏🙏🙏
Just enjoy each and every interaction with people whenever possible.
EXACTLY
I know what's up.... I agree much..
thNk you.. 👍🏿
exactly what I'm trying to do... I mean planning to do🤔🤐🤐
thanks... got to go!!!
Agreed 100%. Exactly... correct! Enjoy each other everytime. Bless everyone who are here - 🌷
I’d say just be yourself don’t lie or try to be somebody that your really not. Have fun🙂
YES all that is so important!!
Sorry. That doesn't work. You can't be "yourself" you can't call him every time you want to hear his voice. You can't always be available. You can't. Because you will Bore him. Men like a Challenge.
@Abundance Locally lmfao
I don't want a man who has a lot of women who wants him. Maybe I should get a fat bald one. 😂
What if he's the emotionally unavailable type who's inconsistant with his attention on you.
Women go on a Heroine’s Journey too!!!!🎯🦸🏻♀️💫😃🌟
I watched this video a year ago. I finally attracted my first high value man. I was myself and not nervous. I was surprised at the end of the date he was looking forward to a second date. He also sent me the first text after the date. He said he like my positive energy. I told life is to short for negativity and I know I am in charge of my own happiness
Yay! You deserve a great guy😊
As Coco Chanel said "To be irreplaceable, one must always be different".
I'm inter changing irreplaceable with your word "unforgettable".
As a woman, I've obviously had many women friends and have seen how they behave or respond to men. Most of the time, their efforts have fallen flat. Therefore, I've usually taken the opposite approach with men in my life and its usually worked.
Women somewhere along the way started chasing men. And when the men run - they chase more which is ridiculous and never works long term.
You discuss making invitations... I think there is a line that most women have a hard time staying away from, which is being invitational and vulnerable without being aggressive or chasing. It's a very tough balance to navigate.
We should never give more than we are receiving. If you give and it is not reciprocated, BACK OFF! Don't do what the majority of women will do which is to push harder.
What Mat is saying here makes sense for a man who is ready for a mature, adult relationship; but not all men are ready. You'll know which type he is by doing what Mat suggests because if he doesn't match your interest or ask YOU anything about YOU...then you'll know.
*Just thought I'd take your thought process a bit farther.. I'm thinking, however, that you agree!
well put thanks for the deep insight!
So True!!
@@eunicegantt3069 yes Eunice.... I was lucky enough to pay attention while observing some of my girlfriends chase men in vain when I was younger. I actually had one guy admit to me later that he was actually afraid of one of my friends back then - 😳 haha! I know she wasn't dangerous but he was still freaking out and any attraction he might of had for her in the beginning was completely obliterated by her starting to chase him. Lessons learned!
@@npkrn6764 Absolutely, it pushes men away, learned the hard way, however, I used to do most of these things in a relationship and found the man saying I knew him better than anyone but the truth is I didn't know how I got to him. But I always want to know the person but sometimes that can be too much for a man to handle if he's not used to it or doesn't expect it from you.
Right, if he's not ready it won't work. That's the sad truth. Not asking questions about me is a theme i have seen in EU men. I naturally do a lot of this stuff, but I'm older, and they are too. Some really dig in to their habits, lifestyle, and comfortable with their ability to pull any women they want, which is addictive and hard to give up, I exchange for the hard work of accepting someone warts and all, and committing indefinitely. They are usually WAAAAY far from that thought process. This is still GREAT advice ...thanks Matt!
Thank you for supporting more women who believe in their womanhood and love. There are so many broken cynical cold women out there who have no idea how to love anymore and they are angry and judging others that are in relationships. We need to revert their pain by educating them, they can always find love no matter their age.
Many Thanks!
I always look forward to listening to your videos because you speak so passionately with SO MUCH VALUE in each videos! I can see you writing an amazing book just on this ONE video 🙌🏼 By the way, do you do any live group events for women? I’d buy your book and or attend your live event! Anyone else agree with me? ❤️
Definitely!
Thank you SO MUCH for your kind words my dear!! Im am committed to STARTING LIVE EVENTS in 2020 (AND write my first book), so I will absolutely keep you posted on the schedule
Mat Shaffer
Hola Mat, what is your advice in dating a much older man?
Thank you sooo much for your insights💕
Hi Mat! This lesson was excellent. While giving the man space and asking him questions about his work his life and what he aspires to do in his life, he feels relaxed and wants to talk about it all. Asking deeper questions. Let him get excited. He will open up and think that this woman really is interested in my life and you should be.
YES you totally get it!! thank you for sharing!!
I absolutely LOVE how you explain things, Mat!! You rock!
Glad you like them!
I feel like I just learned how to beat the game. This is NEXT LEVEL info.
Thanks so much for your feedback!
QUESTION OF THE DAY - What have you done in the past to be unforgettable to the man in your life? What did it inspire in him?
look forward to these responses!
Mat Shaffer don’t judge
Be more positive
If I was unforgettable I wouldn't be single 🤔😅
Jokes aside, I'm just working on improving myself, have self-discipline, controlling my emotions, be grounded, have strong morals and values, being energetic fun and exciting. Make the man be the man and me be feminine with my energy. Also make them laugh is key. 🤗
I became reactive due to His closeness w a co-worker. lesson learned over a 3yr exit. Very hard.
Endeavor to listen. Bring out the Best in Your Man & take physical & emotional cues to enhance His bond with You. Be a True Friend 💎
This is a truly GREAT video Mat! Please keep up the inspiring, realistic and truthful content you put forth!! Much thanks and gratitude.
amazing so glad you enjoyed it!! appreciate the feedback
@@Mat_Shaffer Looking forward to it!
Just beautiful... no manipulation! Love your videos. 👍🌹
YES you got it!!
I just set a guy free because he wouldn't move any further than just texting me and asking me to come over in the evenings ...Yet all the while claiming he was "addicted to me"...In six weeks, we only went out for our initial meet and greet. I followed all advice you guys offered and quite frankly, naturally follow techniques as I always have. Finally grew weary of his texting approach and finally asked him to join me for a walk on the beach to the which, he never responded. Then he texted me the following week as if I had never broached the subject. After careful thought, I answered back with a message removing myself from his equation and wished him all the success in his search by stating that I felt we were seeking different outcomes between us as I am seeking more than just a texting buddy or hookup. Right or wrong, I needed this to move away from such a status. I also let him know I liked him but would not be reduced to this level of relationship.
wonderful share thank you! :)
Good grief. I am shocked
You waited that long. The red flag was there from the get go..u refused to see it. You need to work on your own self respect.
I think she did good! Maybe she's not used to users like him.
@@annalore5513 and you're so perfect? She did good!
@@annalore5513 do not say that, she did great. does not have to be with self respect. She gave him the benefit of the doubt. Be nice
Wow, Mat...this is so helpful. None of it sounds stupid or "woo woo," either. It all sounds doable. I'll definitely try it with high-quality guys.
BEAUTIFUL thank you for the feedback appreciate it!! You can totally do this!
OMG a lawyer that knows how to handle personal relationships? That's a totally new breed.
haha why do you think I quit? ;)
As a lawyer too, what we most do is handle personal relationships, honey. Believe me 🤣
@@Mat_Shaffer never "quit." Move on 😁
Mat, You are awesome! It’s important to share vulnerability to have a real connection. I love your channel.
Thanks so much Dee Tran! 🙏❤️
Nope... Won't spend hours thinking about how to be loved..... I'd rather love myself.
lets love everyone including and especially ourselves! :)
I agree. So glad to enjoy loving myself and God!
Gets lonely though.
@@mixedchickULike not for me. I love it.
Thank you for the incredible video! Just what I needed!! When you say to use invitation and space to empower him what ways could you use this as a tool to bring him closer to you?
fantastic so glad you liked it! Im gonna do a whole video outlining more ways to implement the cycle - where do YOU think it would apply in your relationship??
I love this. We should use these tips for everyone in our life. Be authentic and actually, genuinely be interested in being supportive and curious about the other person- both their space and letting go of expectations of outcomes of other people.
Thanks so much for your feedback!
@@Mat_Shaffer thank you, Mat! This video was so great!
If I have to think About All of this, I will Just Screw it Up, I rather be MYSELF.
Right 😂
I appreciate your opinion on this!
Love this video, Mat! Wonderful insights and ideas I will authentically use in my life! Thank you again for your great and powerful video’s! ❤️
YES love it!! you are so welcome, delighted to support you :)
Mat says “y’all.” He must be Southern or has been in the South long term at some point.
HAHA I just spent a YEAR in Texas soooo yeah I brought that home with me :)
I thought the latter. Not quite enough twang to be the real deal. Points for using that wonderful contraction. It is underutilized
Hello Mat! Thank you SO much for your content. I have gained such a wealth of knowledge about relationships from your videos. I have a question for you and I would be forever grateful if you could tell me your opinion. I met my boyfriend about 3 months ago and it has been intense, I feel a deep connection to him and everything has gone great. I was a bit confused about our "label" for a bit there until one day he introduced me as his girlfriend. That's great, I was very happy (and I asked him about it to clarify), but now I want us to have a day that we use to celebrate our month and year (if we get there) anniversaries. How can I ask him about this without seeming needy? Is it too soon? Please help!
I would bring it up to him within the context of a feeling statement around the title he's put on your... something along the lines of "It felt so good to hear you call me your girlfriend the other day! Im curious, what do you think/consider our "anniversary day" is? Our first date?" and see what he says! With the right energy it wont seem needy at all :)
OH PLEASE, Most Men these days, if You ONLY Say "Hi" "Hello" to Him they immediately think that you are "Desperate".
Right..?
Hmmm....that Hasn’t been my experience. Many men are surprised and glad when you say hello to them, in the right setting, and with the right approach. There’s always going to be ‘uppity’ ones, but that’s a GOOD thing, because it shows you right away where their head is at.
I think that's why he started.. HIGH VALUE MEN
Yo Mat, off topic, you ever notice how you crinkle your forehead when you talk lol not hating. I do it too, and since I've realized I do it, I am obsessed lol some people rarely do it, some people can't stop doing. Completely a subconscious thing, not bad at all.
Thanks so much Tiffany Fox haha nope I didnt notice that 🙏❤️
Hi, Mat! I watched your recent Monday’s with Mat on FB. BTW Congrats for accomplishing 3 years 🎉🎉🎉!! I’m learning so much about me & men from your videos. I would love to see your very 1st video on Monday’s with Mat. Can you share that link here on RUclips?
Happy New Year 2020 to you & yours!🎇🎇🎇
BOOM thanks my dear! HA you wanna see the orig mondays with Mat?! here ya go :) facebook.com/IamMatShaffer/videos/vb.5218651/10108826987353433/?type=2&video_source=user_video_tab
Mat Shaffer Thank You So much for sharing, Mat! 💥Wow!💥 Your first vid touched my heart so much. Why? A dear friend of mine is going through the self-loathing & blaming himself. I’m not a psychologist or psychiatrist, but I can tell he’s hurting inside. I feel helpless, but he knows I’m here for him & his daughter.
Mat, I feel So proud of you! 🤩You’ve come a long way. You are changing many lives around the 🌎 including mine. I wish you continued success. Cheers!🍾🥂 I’m So grateful I found your channel in 2019. 🙏 😄 This is Jocelyn from sunny California☀️🌴🌈 Take care, Mat! ❤️
This means my ex was a low value man
hmm interesting
lol...mine tooooo :)
agree.... 🆗🌟💯🙄😊many thanks. Sabdra H...
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Dk Dk how. what to call him
don't even know his name...... oh my!!!
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really good advice. tho i hope not all ladies are going to learn that because then there's perhaps no longer that easy to stand out lol. competition between women for a man's attention is an emotionally cruel thing for a woman's heart to be participating in. especially if the outcome is not sure at all but you're still catching feelings and attraction, and then having this one-by-one time with someone and also someone else getting to do just the same. i haven't even been in a relationship so perhaps i haven't got a clear view on this stuff, but still since i've always been "the third" who's eyeing people i like, i kinda sense how sour all of this feels. i wish there was a way to avoid this polluted cold competition between women around desireable men. i wish relationships worked in a way that everyone who's having mutual emotional ties with The Mister are getting their share. and not that one Mrs snips him away and that's it.
Thanks for sharing!
I guess I’ll do better next time. I finally met a guy I liked a lot but never really been thought how a healthy relationship works. But I did everything right except the comfort part. But it’s nice to know that I’ve healed and grown enough to attract high value men. Growing and developing. Great video!
thank sso much!
So nice! Just what I m experiencing and experimenting atm. So resonates with your this video. Thank you Mat🥰
so wonderful thank you for sharing !
I have watched many relationship advise videos on RUclips, but yours is just perfect! Mainly because of your voice 👌 it's soo soothing and wanted us to keep on hearing it🤗 the way u present with your expressions and body language, it is more realistic and lively! 👏 No dramas no fake creativity.. 👍 good job!
DEEPLY appreciate that !! I really work to use my voice and delivery as a way to create safety and connection in my videos :)
Mat, I heard from an other dating coach that asking emotional questions can scare men off, because than we force them to be vulnerable and that could be received as violating their boundaries. How do you think about that? I loved hearing your view about asking deep questions, because I love going in depth haha. But yeah I don't wanna violate men their emotional boundaries..
youll be surprised how many men are open to vulnerability if you bring it to them in the right energy :)
@@Mat_Shaffer Wow that's really interesting! Im so glad to hear this.. You mean with a warm soft intention?
That’s what I am curious about too. I love it when men are emotionally open because it means they trust me, and I can build a lasting connection only when they let their guard down... was wondering why some hold back... Mat’s insight helps!
Is the "Hero's Journey" a book? Where is that information expanded?
its a concept explored deeply by joseph campbell.... look it up theres lots of stuff on it :)
i think people should watch this video keeping in mind that these tips are just different ways for YOU to be able to show YOUR TRUE personality in the best way possible to the high value man, in order for him to do the same. You should be actually trying to look for a real relationship as a high-value woman yourself, with a high-value man.
This can be misleading, because you can't just memorize these tips and use them to "score" him if you just see him as someone you can use and manipulate for your benefit.
Ideally, this video is for a high-value person who wants to be in a genuine, honest relationship with a high value man they saw, but don't know how to let their true nature present itself well.
I appreciate your opinion on this, Lekh C.🙌❤️
I been in love with this loving man since I was 16 years old and I'm 40 now he is 41and I'm so ready to Merry him he asked me 5 months ago he is my best friend and always been but at times I had let fear get the best of me and I learning how to let all that go with faith Amen💖 Amen🥰 ❤️ Loving my journey with the both of us thanks Mat🙏🌟
That is awesome! I’m so happy for you my dear!
I love your channel! And I love your eloquence and the energy with which you convey all your advice!! Thank you!
wonderful thank you for that feedback!! 😊❤️
This is one of the best advise videos I've seen in 6 months of looking often. Packed with good content! Thank you! Amazing work!
Thank you so much Ginger Howard, your beautiful words truly touch my heart! It's my honor and purpose to support you 🙏❤️
I've done all of these things naturally. It hasn't made any difference.
I appreciate your comment on this!
Thank you so much truly video I always look lesterning to your video Man high value.I appreciate you.I am lucky women Happy lovely day
so appreciate that Holli!!
Those ones who put dislikes i think they nolonger have love coz your words are so real,touching,and helpful☺
Thanks so much Ritah Nakiswa! 🙏❤️
@@Mat_Shaffer your welcome and thank reading our comments
He is really attentive to me.This something he never been before. I respect what his dreams are. He is a musician and that part of him really excites me. I like to go to his gigs but I don't invade this part of his life. I will support him in everything he does. I bought a keyboard just recently. He was so excited about this, I told him that I want to make music with him. This made his eyes tear up and I recieved the most passionate kiss I have ever been given by him. He is on cloud nine knowing that I want make music with him. Things shifted into a more positive connection to him. He can't wait to get started, I can't either.
Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts! So happy this hit the spot for you. 😉
Any examples or list of deeper questions that we might ask our man. Thank you
Ill do another video on this :)
Oh such powerful words thoughts love its everything and I feel your love massage effective my heat come to me for loving care i fell so great full and blessed to have love of my alway my side
I think this applies to gay men too. I tend to be like this and I'm not lying when I say that I have been proposed to several times by high quality men. I didnt understand why and now I do. I'm just genuinely curious and I admire the passion a lot of men have towards their jobs and hobbies. I also don't have an expectation about them at all and I always help them feel safe to communicate their emotions with me. Their secrets are safe with me. ;) So this is very true. I don't know how this guy figured it out but it's ON POINT.
Thank you! I really appreciate your opinion on this ❤❤❤
Yes! One of the first points was the best: let him know that YOU'RE the type of woman that HE is worthy of being in a relationship with.
Great tips, Mat. Thank you!
Happy to help, Briana 🙌❤️
cool, a bit too close for the camera, take two steps back :)
haha tanks for the feedback!
Better color background also
It takes a high quality woman -- confident, intelligent, empathetic, commonsensical, caring -- to follow your excellent tips.(Actually, it's not easy to be a man.) THANKS!
Interesting perspective, thanks so much!
@@Mat_Shaffer 🙋👍Thank you.
Mat, I love your advice and insights. Thank you for sharing! I believe the best thing is to be yourself, be authentic, be curious and be present in the moment.
love this feedback my dear!!
Mat i have a question. If a man is earning less does it make him low-value? If he is ticking all boxes in other areas by showing care, protection etc..does moneyy realllly matter then?
absolutely not, value is determined by so many factors :) a big part of value is what YOU consider valuable, so if income isn';t a big deal for you it shouldnt devalue him
Hina B. if he is overall smart, caring, protective, kind and has other great "man" qualities, I would overlook the income -- hopefully it doesn't affect how he views the relationship. And, perhaps in the future it would change.
Point number 5: Ask better questions. This is definitely worth doing. It shows creativity and intelligence.
YEP you got it!!
Excellent Video Mat! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💫😃🌟
This remind me of How To Be A Good Wife 1950s edition.
Thanks so much for your feedback!
Hi-quality advise!! I appreciate you very much for bringing this program to us to share!!!
Thanks so much my dear! ❤️
High-quality, mature, no game-playing approach!! However, I guess the advice is applied to both really mature and evolved men and women too!
You're right!
This is excellent advice. I just want to know what the men will give to us in return? Honestly it seems like we are getting the shorter end of this stick
Thanks so much for your feedback!
Amazing again! I like how accurate all these tips are, thank you Mat 🙏♥️
wonderful so glad you enjoyed it ! :)
Lol, I would like to know these guy personal love life.
Amazing!
Mat, thank you. I'm dating such a man...what you advise is very insightful. You are brilliant! Thank you. ❤
Thanks so much attilia marcon! 🙏❤️
Wow, Mat, thank you- you’re a beautiful soul 😍 thank you for this amazing information! Connection is what I’m searching for and this is a treasure trove of information to help get me there. I’m so grateful!
Wonderful! Happy I could be of help.
Thankyou, very insightful.
so welcome!
How to DO these with a new person? So you're in the meat of connecting and all the fun new stuff, HOW? It's so hard to toss yourself out there sometimes, how can I as a shy lady, get this ball rolling? 😁🎷🎸🥳
relax and trust yourself! What fears come up for you around connecting deeper with him? :)
Well.... I've been through a LOT the past 5 years from laying the last of my family down to being in an abusive relationship that ended me and my kiddos living in our car. I've done a LOT of healing and inner work, and this guy?? He melts me from the inside out and I don't even know his name... We're in the same circle briefly almost every day, and no matter what... He's on my brain. I'm so afraid to start over to begin with. That in itself, I'd a huge step for me that I'm ready enough to want to try... And I've watched and listened to the tips and I take it all in, now fearing I may be too much for many, just with my past 5 years alone... 👀
Yeah deep conaction too I love video Awesome both amazing
Amazing Hoili Swu love hearing that! Congrats on the breakthrough 🙌
I got a question OK I'm a very shy person so how I do I flirt with a guy without being so shy
a smile. a gentle comment. you dont need to be too direct!
@@Mat_Shaffer OK I will try
Also shy but learned to accept it and actually not see it as an obstacle, just make the effort to feel good about yourself, whatever insecurities just let them go... one tip I heard of is to think of something fun you like to do, so when things should get tense you can make your body more relaxed
I gave him space then why he turned his attention to other woman? I gave space because of everyday communication its draining. And even for myself i dont want to invest too much but he turned his attention to someone else. I am passionate woman im very into photography and i play instrument and best in cooking. I focus on myself but still not works. He rather want someone else.
Don’t give up on love sister!
Wow Guy very attractions your voice president of the women thank you so much I love you sweetheart
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*We loved with a love that was more than love.*
I would love it if a man treated me exactly like this. And if he appreciated my hero’s journey that would be so sexy.
Amazing!
Maybe I'm just slow but if (#1) Men don't want the responsibility of "being" a woman's happiness... Isn't (#2) contradicting? Because her happiness is laying solely on how he handles said responsibility...?
Thanks for sharing!
Another Great Video Mat! In doing this, will he honor what we need and ask us what we are passionate about?
yes he very likely will!! You are activating him to ask you similar questions :)
Breaking into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me
Thanks for your thoughtful comment! If you're debating whether it's the right time to date again, our 'Are You Ready to Date Again?' quiz can offer some clarity. 😊 mat-nlcmdzyq.scoreapp.com/
RE: Reply to your nice invitation for your classes to dating younger men:
Not on the fence Matt. All men are two year olds or four year olds. Older women with children know this and can wrap any guy of any age inside out with a little psychology.
There are society lables for people who date more than 6 months to a year outside their own age group. Those lables are not so kind and generally used behind a couples back in whispers. With that knowledge, how emotionally damaged would someone be to be a Cougar Momma or a Toy Boy? Those are the polite lables. These are not healthy adult relationships. Nothing in your videos discribe insight to healthy adult attachments. Healthy adults don't plan play dates and sleepovers. They schedual responsibilities with vacations and self care. Yup!! You deffinatly remind me of most attorneys I have known. California attorneys!
What does your Momma say? Not the momma you are dating. I had a curiosity when I saw your channel after having had way too many recent approaches by really young men.
These types of relationships are for a season. A little more than a one night stand but extreamly dangerous to both parties. People don't need classes for this type of life. They need classes to break free of it. Some people need maturity and responsibility classes.
Thank you for your honest feedback. It’s important to hear different perspectives, and I appreciate you sharing yours.
She : How to be Unforgettable to Him & stand out from the other girls.
God : Be a VIRGIN & save yourself for marriage - else you are only worth pumping & dumping.
I appreciate your opinion on this!
Thank you so much. So my question is. You talk with this guy and basically you have shown your deepest concern. But he just tries to be nice all the time. Should one quit this. Or give it time?????😊
Being nice with no follow through or meaningful change means he isnt invested or willing to shift - probably good to let him go if its been a while!
@@Mat_Shaffer thank you there 😊
I don't agree with the use of techniques in relationships. I'm a social sciences student and l believe in spontaneity. First, you need be a good person; second, you need to have a good self-esteem (to place yourself before everything else without being selfish); and third, you need to be temperate (i.e., to have self-control). I use some techniques, such as in the case of conflict: don't you argue, blame, or complaint, just state facts and open up about how you feel.
Thanks for sharing!
WOW, just WOW - you give amazing information - loving and learning through your videos. I cannot believe it took me this long to find you. Thank you for all that you are and all that you give !
Wonderful!
Unattached by the outcome wowzaaa
Howbdo I do this? I think the inner work like you said in a previous video.
I seem to pick guys that are so excited at the Start they want you to trust them they have sex with you then i get bread crumbs ot just completly ignored until he wants to come back for sex. Aghhh
Thanks for sharing!
Mat, What makes you a high value man? Just because a man has many interested in him does not make him a high value. Maybe he is just a player. You don't need to chase a high value man nor do you want to chase him. High value women make informed choices.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! If you're wondering whether you're ready to dive back into the dating scene, check out our new quiz: 'Are You Ready to Date Again?' It might provide some helpful insights! 💖 mat-nlcmdzyq.scoreapp.com/
I love this video. I also love that I feel like I do this all more intentionally now because of you. I feel like it was always in my nature to do these things but after working with you I feel more confident in showing up that way. I have noticed that I have had really lovely connections and responses from men because of this.. ..on both ends it has been very authentic. Thanks Mat :)
AMAZING Lisette thank you so so much for your share... it's been SO BEAUTIFUL to watch your journey and expansion!! grateful to have connected with you : )
It's great to see that your channel is all about honesty instead of the manipulative tactics I see people use on a daoly basis. Thanks for keeping it real!!!
I appreciate that! Thanks much🙌❤️❤️
Hi Mat I watched and listened all your videos I'm your number 1 fan here in Dubai. Can you make videos regarding online dating as well? I'd love to hear you back.
AMAZING hi Jackie! YES Online dating videos are happening its been added to my list :)
Women, stop trying to impress men. Focus on improving yourself. That's it!
Thanks so much for your feedback!
Men and women hight value same too thank you for sharing I love you always happy life together. Men and women amazing prefect couple awesome
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Powerful video amazing again tips How much I love you guy sharing women live in forever.
Thank you so much!
Awesome video thank you!
so welcome
Looking for the list in the comments 😊
Wow this is a very meaningful video,i have met a guy just a year ago and we get along very well ,it seems as it is my soulmate,we understand eachother without words we are in separation because he iis from another country and has a busy life..we text eachobher sometimes but for the end of 2019 he leaned back now i am confused and i don'nt want to be needy,i do'nt know what to do?🤲🙏💪
so glad you enjoyed it! long distance is very tough... maybe open yourself to others?
Excellent video!!
@Mat_Shaffer this video makes so much sense! I think this is really incredibly insightful. But it’s so terribly difficult to be detached from the outcome! How do you actually do it when you like someone so much?
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
Hi there, If you're contemplating whether it's the right time to date again, our 'Are You Ready to Date Again?' quiz might provide some helpful insights. 💖 mat-nlcmdzyq.scoreapp.com/
Does this happen in all cultures of men ???? I like this guy who is Chinese
Thanks for sharing!
and if the guy doesnt even answer the simple questions.....why would they even answer the "different" ones?
because they know communiocation is important to you!
so....because communication is important to me and appartently not to them, get rid of those that dont answer. got it
Dude, I love your thought process and how efficiently you get your message out. Keep it up
Thanks so much my dear! I’m so glad this helped you!
Thank you.. Love all your videos..!!!
Glad you like them!