How to Overcome Retroactive Jealousy.
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Hi there, we are Eva & Sean Harrison.
A married couple that has overcome retroactive jealousy, ROCD and general relationship anxiety. The first few years together we really struggled with these issues and today we work together to help individuals and couples who feel overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated and stuck due to intrusive thoughts and mental movies regarding their partner’s past and/or doubts about their relationship today.
Whether you suffer from Retroactive Jealousy, ROCD, Relationship Anxiety or just want some invaluable relationship advice we hope our content helps you.
If you’re an individual or couple suffering with anxiety, confusion, anger, disgust, judgement, intrusive thoughts, trust issues, numbness, uncertainty in your relationship and are trying to keep it together on the outside but are suffering daily on the inside or if you’ve Googled or looked up “Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy”, “Overcoming ROCD”, “Relationship Anxiety symptoms”, “ROCD / Retroactive Jealousy why do the thoughts feel so real?”, “How to stop wishing your partner's past was different”, “How to treat ROCD”, “Intrusive thoughts and compulsions in relationships”, “Feeling doubt/questioning my relationship”, “Cure for Retroactive Jealousy?”, “How to overcome Retroactive Jealousy”, “ROCD / Relationship Anxiety or wrong relationship?”, “Relationship OCD urge to break up”, “ Retroactive Jealousy symptoms”, “ROCD symptoms” you’ve come to the right place.
The people we have worked with have experienced and processed how and why these things showed up in their relationships. As well as how it lead to them having intrusive thoughts, feeling angry, sad, anxious and like they are self sabotaging their relationship.
DISCLAIMER: Any information or advice we give is purely based on our own experience, learning and research as well as the methods utilised in Rapid Transformational Therapy, NLP and Hypnotherapy. These methods can be used to get to the root cause of any issue but are not for everyone. There is no guarantee as there are many variables that will impact your success. We are not doctors and always encourage you to work with your doctor for your medical care. If you are in a life threatening situation or contemplating suicide, please seek appropriate medical and professional help.
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It still just hurts SO much despite knowing these valid points. It’s literally like being trapped in hell
I hear you brother! My gf told me that she dated a famous rapper for "weeks" while he was touring here in Australia. Essentially she was a groupie. This happened 18 years ago. But I did some snooping and found a heap of letters and gifts and a hand drawn card he sent her when he returned to the USA. In the letter he wrote "I miss our sex, a lot!". Now I don't care about all her cells dying when I have the mental image of her being fucked by this rapper, who has now passed away, but was extremely significant in the hip hop Business. Make me want to throw up, all because I compare myself so poorly to him, nothing to do with her at all.
Tell yourself that she didn't know you at the time. Now she is with you ! It's was at this guys to be jealous of you ! She was young, your Brain mixes the past and the present, the emotions is the same. If you hate this guys, tell yourself that the best way and the worst for him is that you will never thinking him . Tell yourself that this guys would like that you thinking him so to continue to exist, so...if you hate him , don't thinking him 😈. You are with this women, you are quality that she love in you , this guys would be jealous of you
It's said that we die two Times....a first Time and a second Time when we stop thinking about you .....don't think this guys ! And he will really die !
Why do you compare with him ? You are unique, exceptionnal ! Your Brain invent a story, the story of this guys with your gf was rotten ! Be the best that you Can and this guys will disappear !
@@Hectorheroichow are you now? So sorry to this
Your point at the end about how the person you love isn't the same person because of all the cells changing is something I have really tried to tell myself a lot. Those people who were with her in the past have never been with the person that I'm with now because she is literally not the same person physically, mentally or emotionally, and I am the one responsible for a lot of those changes in her that have occurred for the better.
But neurons mostly stay the same during whole life
Love that
@@marekx2849 yes but no how she is thinking
I think the key to the problem is the self esteem and self confidence. More I have self confidence and more my rj disappear. I go to the gym, I am cuplting a beautiful body that my gf has never had by the past , I take care of myself, I take care of my mind, I want be the better person that my gf has never had. And the past disappear
Realizing these thoughts had a name and that I wasn’t alone and that this isn’t just a me problem really helped me. Cause it made me realize that this is something that I’m dealing with, not something I was born with, and therefore I can work to get rid of it.
The last part is something I came up with on my own and then to hear someone else say my words is amazing! I keep telling myself, that was the old girl back then and I have the new one. Still so much work to do im in such a new relationship It started out amazing! the first 3 weeks were pure bliss of love and emotion! After RJ tore into her past I dont feel that anymore and it hurts because she is such an amazing person. I still have feelings for her and like her so much I know this is just RJ taking control but I really dont want to loose her because she is an incredible person. Thank you for your videos
Great reply. All our symptoms and feelings appear to be exactly the same.
Thank you for such a beautiful content. It helped me realize how to overcome the "RJ" that's been bothering me for 15 yrs. I realized how many relationships of mine have suffered and should've been in full blossom by now if it wasn't because of this mental condition. Pls continue with your advices and insights, it's a great start for people like me..
Thank you so much for your comment. I really appreciate it 😊
Finally someone talks about this in useful way .. thank you 💔💔♥️♥️♥️
Thank you for your comment! I’m glad you found it useful:)
Eva you don't understand the relief of 5:25. I'd just written down my list of "ands" which led to what you said about other men. I felt so stupid until you said out loud exactly what I'd just discovered. All of a sudden I didn't feel as alone
There's a battle ahead but I'm feeling so much more positive after watching your videos. Thank you for the amazing content
Thank you so much for your comment! I'm glad you find the video helpful!!
Thank you Eva. This is very well explained. Beautiful! 🥰
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but I suffered this for so long and what helped me was a combination of self help videos, therapy, meditation and Zoloft (medicine).
Couping mechanism don't work especially with BPD. Medicine is needed.
That video is so relaxing for me
..❤️. specially the last part..🙏
Thank from France 🇨🇵🇨🇵🇨🇵
This is so helpful 😢❤
Thank you for your comment! So happy it helped:)
You are great eva
Ur a saviour
Thank you for this video it's helped a lot.
You are exceptionnal. Have you thinking to write a book ?
Thank you. X
I love you so much for this❤❤
Very good
Hi, my gf is having these thoughts, can i share this video to her.. Will she be fine
Your gf har same past as your ?
@@shivamrai5749 no
You're amazing
My husband is my angel and I am his, because of what we’ve experienced in the past, because of our past trauma and issues that have shaped us into exactly what each other needed and desired, and because of our willingness to grow and transform into higher beings together, and as one. 🤍