I have been a health care provider for over thirty years and have never known of this condition. I witnessed my father and brother suffer from this through their lives and I have also inherited this OCD condition and have suffered from it through my life. I now know it is a named diagnosis which one is able to overcome. At fifty +, the journey continues. More health care providers need to know about and understand this condition and how to help their patients and possibly themselves.
Really sorry to hear this, there are many resources and ways to seek help. Your situation doesn't have to stay this way. I hope you find healing soon!!
@@overcomingrelationshipanxiety Thank you. I thought I was doing okay but then I realized this same issue is popping back up in a new relationship now that love has been affirmed. The insecure floodgates opened completely, and I’m also having ROCD. Luckily, he’s been patient, and I’ve been able to control my reactions better to things. My thing is to not stay home and force myself to deal with my issues and reactions around him. I slipped up once or twice so far but I’ve been doing better. It’s all in my head.
Thankyou so much Eva! really thank you so much. I'm still recovering, currently these thoughts and mental movies still have power and i will start to resist and take its power. I will keep that in mind, It motivates me a lot
The RJ I go through is crazy sometimes, sometimes I will go through my partners fcb and see posts and photos he took or posted before he met me and will look at the likes and also comments.
Eva, how did you cope with the spontaneous, graphic mental movies that don't seem to have a specific trigger? They just begin playing... I've tried distracting myself with some other visual stimuli like finding short videos about some of my other interests, but this only offers temporary relief, and they return... 🙁
what if my partner’s past overlapped a little bit with my timeline with him in the beginning? she was present when he met me and he took awhile to make a choice? how do you get over this jealousy that keeps coming back even after you were chosen?
I don't know how to handle this because my boyfriend continuously asking questions about my past and get hurt. Sometimes hi think he didn't important for me or i don't love him 😞
You can tell him and show him, but if he doesn't believe you that's not your responsibility. I hope this video helps ruclips.net/video/deuGEm1FIus/видео.html
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I have been a health care provider for over thirty years and have never known of this condition.
I witnessed my father and brother suffer from this through their lives and I have also inherited this OCD condition and have suffered from it through my life. I now know it is a named diagnosis which one is able to overcome. At fifty +, the journey continues.
More health care providers need to know about and understand this condition and how to help their patients and possibly themselves.
Please never stop I love you 🥺 you’re saving lives
It gets so bad, I don’t even want to go anywhere where there might be someone I know he’d find attractive, and all I want to do is stay home.
Really sorry to hear this, there are many resources and ways to seek help. Your situation doesn't have to stay this way. I hope you find healing soon!!
@@overcomingrelationshipanxiety Thank you. I thought I was doing okay but then I realized this same issue is popping back up in a new relationship now that love has been affirmed. The insecure floodgates opened completely, and I’m also having ROCD.
Luckily, he’s been patient, and I’ve been able to control my reactions better to things. My thing is to not stay home and force myself to deal with my issues and reactions around him. I slipped up once or twice so far but I’ve been doing better. It’s all in my head.
Thankyou so much Eva! really thank you so much. I'm still recovering, currently these thoughts and mental movies still have power and i will start to resist and take its power. I will keep that in mind, It motivates me a lot
The RJ I go through is crazy sometimes, sometimes I will go through my partners fcb and see posts and photos he took or posted before he met me and will look at the likes and also comments.
Yes it's a common compulsion checking social media
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Eva, how did you cope with the spontaneous, graphic mental movies that don't seem to have a specific trigger? They just begin playing... I've tried distracting myself with some other visual stimuli like finding short videos about some of my other interests, but this only offers temporary relief, and they return... 🙁
what if my partner’s past overlapped a little bit with my timeline with him in the beginning? she was present when he met me and he took awhile to make a choice? how do you get over this jealousy that keeps coming back even after you were chosen?
Hi, I have made a video on this, I hope it helps: ruclips.net/video/s0vSRKgvdl4/видео.html
Thank you very much! Be blessed!
I don't know how to handle this because my boyfriend continuously asking questions about my past and get hurt. Sometimes hi think he didn't important for me or i don't love him 😞
ruclips.net/video/deuGEm1FIus/видео.html
I would recommend this!
@@overcomingrelationshipanxiety thnk uh so much
How do i tell him that he's important to me and i love him? 🥺
You can tell him and show him, but if he doesn't believe you that's not your responsibility. I hope this video helps ruclips.net/video/deuGEm1FIus/видео.html
@evathompson, when was _your_ last regression?
Can you please elaborate? I'm not sure what you mean :)
Do you mean setback? As in, the last time I experienced RJ?
is using self-harm (not dangerous) as a way to cope okay?
I don't think it's a healthy way to cope. I recommend you seek professional help.
@@overcomingrelationshipanxiety i did get an appointment for next week🙌