What it's like to grow up without a father...

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024

Комментарии • 39

  • @prosimulate
    @prosimulate 2 года назад +13

    Wise words. My Mom grew up without a father, had a fractured relationship with my Dad. I look after her now.
    But I keep myself sane because I follow David Goggins 🔥

    • @lollettehelmarkos7459
      @lollettehelmarkos7459 Год назад +1

      This video brought tears to my eyes but don't tell anyone cos then I will lose all respect. Fortunately this awesome comment you made meant the tears stopped before falling. Crying avoided!

  • @megansinnett2003
    @megansinnett2003 Год назад +4

    Hearing these stats makes me feel like such a winner.. I didn't drop out, kill myself or run away! My mom had a one night stand an my dad bailed when I was only 3 weeks old in my mom's belly...
    I did however become a recovering alcoholic 5 years ago.. an feel happy I have found a new happiness an new freedom! I'm one blessed girl!

  • @mikehagan4320
    @mikehagan4320 Год назад +1

    Speaking as a Father of two. I would bet big money that your Father would be Extremely Proud of you if he could see you and know you today.
    My Sincerest Best Wishes from Montana! M.H.

  • @PearlLover
    @PearlLover Год назад +4

    Don’t remember him be around before I was 6 and then he just left. I was raised by a “pack of women”! I survived, became a husband of 38 years, a father to my daughter that he never was to me. She has a Masters in Education and is a teacher for special education at the PreSchool level.

  • @anthonyyannotta51
    @anthonyyannotta51 4 месяца назад

    My malignant narcissistic exwife told a judge that I was holding her and our kids hostage. Without any proof or looking into what she said. The judge took my kids away and my son is failing out of 8th grade. Besides that, there’s more stuff going on but Family Court, destroyed my family and what she's saying in this video is absolutely true.

  • @mr.posted9858
    @mr.posted9858 Год назад

    Thats why the only good thing for a young man to do these days that are fatherless is to become a soldier.

  • @yvonnebaur4485
    @yvonnebaur4485 Год назад +5

    I became a widow when my son was 7yo. If you have no partner, try to ask extended fam & friends to provide male bonding. No matter how much you love them, they need that male influence. Save our future men!

  • @CarletoKing
    @CarletoKing 2 месяца назад

    i have no father.
    i have nobody to teach me the things i need to know.
    i have no older siblings or older cousins or uncles.
    my mother didnt know her father either.
    the world does not care about you.
    & there is nobody i can talk to.
    idk the stuff i need to know.
    how do you ask questions, you have no idea what to ask.
    how do you pay attention to something not taught to you.
    my siblings know there sperm donors.
    those people have never wanted to teach me.
    both genders just talk down on this kind of lack of education.
    i had to work so hard to know everything that i know.
    there is no rest.
    no help.
    no comfort.
    no safe place for my thoughts.
    life is a war.
    & im shown i need to just deal with it.
    to not to give up.
    nobody told me there is a bill weather you work, or quit.
    nobody told me i had to lead.
    nobody taught me how to be confident.
    without a father.
    i feel like i have noone.
    i only know tough humans.
    but they all know both parents.
    that's just the icing of my cake.
    i still have the regular human every 💩 i need to learn, & get through.
    i wasn't asked to be here.

  • @Yan_Yan209
    @Yan_Yan209 Год назад

    My father left when i was 9, now i am 13. I feel so lonely. I am stressed about the future.

    • @mikeypeinado383
      @mikeypeinado383 Год назад

      Did he leave cuz ur mom tho ?? Idt most guys would leave unless he put up with 9 years and just had enough of the spouse . I’m sure he still cares for u jus n careful of ur mom speaking bad on him etc brainwashing is huge.

  • @Diamondisparis
    @Diamondisparis 11 месяцев назад +1

    It’s horrible and lonely learning how to be a man by trial and error

  • @tdog999100
    @tdog999100 Год назад +5

    I lost my dad at 10 years old too and DAM yeh I ran away from home, left school at 15, was homeless by 16 and tried to commit suicide shortly after 😂

    • @rainellx
      @rainellx Год назад

      I lost mine when I was 4 sadly…

  • @jadonjjj
    @jadonjjj 2 года назад +1

    protect this woman

  • @mikezellweger8249
    @mikezellweger8249 Год назад

    Sad truths

  • @bndxang2910
    @bndxang2910 2 года назад

    Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @b-man1232
    @b-man1232 Год назад +8

    My Wife and our son REALLY don't get along (there personalities are wayyyy too similar). I CAN'T imagine if he didn't have me to calm him down, talk logic, take him hunting/fishing, discipline him when needed, etc., etc. The kid would be a Trainwreck without me! I love him with all of my heart

  • @rjakob8073
    @rjakob8073 2 года назад +2

    It's a known FACT that children are more prone to violence and other negative behaviors.

  • @janostoth7572
    @janostoth7572 Год назад

    I had a lady that didn't have a father. Her stepfather was real bad to her,then she had bad bf's.And a mother that didn't care about her. When she got with me. I showed her love & gentleness..90% of her needs & wants were met. It took her time to get use to it. But she was always leaving go back to the crap= bad guys & drugs.Then come back. Apologize,then leave again. This went on for awhile.I was always running around for her, pick her up run to hospitals,rehabs.Made sure she wasn't getting hurt in anyway,she called me her knight shining armor. I tried to help her fix the broken pieces of her past.. Needless to say it finely got old after many,many years. She was manipulative & etc. A man that was suppose to be a father to her, Destroyed her. Along with her mom & drug dealers. Just guys using her. I know she hurt lil girl,in a woman's body.She was diagnosed with B-P. That only comes from two things. Trauma or Hereditary. In her case doctor believes it was both. Still love her today.

    • @mikeypeinado383
      @mikeypeinado383 Год назад

      Nah man all the druggie chicks r the same dog at least u learned and u got out quick because eventually they will flip the script on you because they eventually get so strung . See the thing is guys that do drugs will always want to do drugs with a girl and wen they do it more than likely always ends up sexual cuz if not the chick won’t even hit em up and if dude don’t got car or money for drugs they change up real quick so wen they do got all these guys they can call to get high They get em Real high . Cuz that’s what the guys want they want to smoke her tf out so they can fck and if they don’t fck then dude won’t hit her up vise versa. U got played man I know the feeling too just I knew my boundaries and never got intimate with em specially wen I knew 4 guys off top of my head that already hit it . What is the fun in explored land my love is too good for a crackhoe if I smashed them all then what wouldn’t I smash and what morals would I then have …. Nd also how many baby mommas would I have -___- never would I want a kid to reflect the traits or face of someone I don’t truly love

  • @joed.welder8299
    @joed.welder8299 Год назад

    I would like to talk to you personally. I grew up in an orphanage in AZ. I was taken away from my parents at the age of 7 and I was a ward of the state of AZ, till I turned 18.. I have stories that will make people's head spin.

  • @homeroraymundo5188
    @homeroraymundo5188 2 года назад

    Sorry to heard that

  • @thomaskanakos1125
    @thomaskanakos1125 Год назад

    👌

  • @johann53100
    @johann53100 Год назад

    What is it like for people with motherless homes?

  • @clydebalcom3679
    @clydebalcom3679 Год назад

    You ain't wrong

  • @martin5504
    @martin5504 Год назад

    Thank you. I'm sick of modern feminism.

  • @Immodest-ex
    @Immodest-ex 2 года назад

    Wow we love this🙄

  • @relaxinrod
    @relaxinrod Год назад

    What about no parents?

  • @supercoffeebean
    @supercoffeebean Год назад +1

    Mother's need stable Men. Single Mother Homes produce the majority of criminals that see jail and prison.

  • @lendifilippi5991
    @lendifilippi5991 2 года назад +3

    Don’t tell a Democrat this stuff

  • @hectorchalmers8183
    @hectorchalmers8183 Год назад

    Cap