What He Learned Growing Up Without a Father 🥺

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @charlesnorm4883
    @charlesnorm4883 Год назад +3170

    That’s a great man right there. His kids will remember the time he chose to spend with them forever.

    • @berytus6746
      @berytus6746 Год назад +3

      Hey. Lebanon we love you .the inventors of the alphabet the glorious phoenicians who discovered America and gave their princess name Europa to the European continent. From Byblos Lebanon comes the word BIBLE . Lebanon 7000 year old biblical state is all over the bible , was founded as a modern state by the Christians ✝️. Is now under a hellish siege , from its powerful ennemies .

    • @cino4919
      @cino4919 Год назад

      ​@@berytus6746Who are the hellish enemies? You mean USA and Israel right?

    • @berytus6746
      @berytus6746 Год назад

      @@cino4919 i wonder why you thought of them first?

    • @christicrenshaw2772
      @christicrenshaw2772 Год назад

      Yes

    • @Me_di
      @Me_di Год назад

      Agrred

  • @susanmurphy958
    @susanmurphy958 Год назад +127

    Sounds like a great father. I am deeply touched by his sentiment towards his children and life in general.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @MC-hj5du
    @MC-hj5du Год назад +2311

    The only distinction between a hero and villain is how they deal with tragedy. The hero thinks “I never want anyone else to feel this pain” and a villain thinks “I want to make everyone feel what I felt”. Good man

  • @dr.100purrscent5
    @dr.100purrscent5 Год назад +186

    Without him knowing, he has made his parents incredibly proud. For his Mother, she just wanted to do the best she could so he could be the best he could. For his Father, for whatever reason, could not be his Father...that defeat never leaves you. Now his son was able to give what he could not. The pain is over, and the stress on their spirits is elevated. That man eliminated generational curses just by not giving into fear. His children and grandchildren will be forever changed just because he decided to Love his Family. Just like that a new life of Happy Life is threaded into the cosmos.

    • @Kitiwake
      @Kitiwake Год назад +1

      I can tell you the reason, it's because the mom cut him out of the family.

    • @crystalyn2855
      @crystalyn2855 Год назад +8

      Yes, he did cut the generational curses by being the man his father was not to him and not repeating the cycle.:)

    • @Mira-pm3ni
      @Mira-pm3ni Год назад

      ​​@@Kitiwakeyou are just woman hater . That's it . Just because your mom or wife is bad doesn't mean all women are like that 😂

  • @YuLeeIco
    @YuLeeIco Год назад +5757

    When you lost your father you become a man, but when you lost your mother you become an orphan. That hits me

    • @veraaddoyobo8482
      @veraaddoyobo8482 Год назад +70

      Wow, I thought this was only a saying in Ghana 🇬🇭 with the Akan tribe

    • @bushramansoor4243
      @bushramansoor4243 Год назад +73

      It's the truth, I experience loosing a mum it's like you loose both

    • @junglekutz5625
      @junglekutz5625 Год назад +51

      Same applies to women. You step up to be your own woman. Without the need to mimic anothers ways and behavior.

    • @adolphinethequeen
      @adolphinethequeen Год назад +3

      Me too 😭

    • @isabellalora6533
      @isabellalora6533 Год назад +6

      @@junglekutz5625 so true !

  • @rosebud7722
    @rosebud7722 Год назад +34

    Wow! Profoundly said. His kids must be so proud of their dad..He brings love and structure to the family..God's blessings always to him and his family.

  • @sheneedsme
    @sheneedsme Год назад +1542

    I was an extremely involved Dad. Never missed a single school event, single sporting event or concert. I volunteered at my daughters school so much even the staff thought I worked there. My daughter is 27 now and she recently called me the perfect man, which of course I’m not but it’s the highest compliment I will ever get. I love being a Dad!

    • @brahtrumpwonbigly7309
      @brahtrumpwonbigly7309 Год назад +62

      My buddy just had his first child saturday, a little girl. A month premature but healthy as all get out. I hope he gets a similar experience someday.

    • @sheneedsme
      @sheneedsme Год назад +89

      @@brahtrumpwonbigly7309 When my daughter was little she liked me to describe the day she was born because I’ve always told her it was the best day of my life. To have a baby girl is the greatest blessing any man will ever have and I wish your friend well. The time and love I invested in my girl really paid off. By age 23 she had 4 degrees including a masters in Business from Michigan and a high paying job at Google. She played in the Michigan Marching Band for 4 years where she met and married a man a lot like me. Now they have a new baby girl themselves and I can’t believe I get to help raise another one!

    • @Nimshidesilva28
      @Nimshidesilva28 Год назад +24

      @@sheneedsme you are lucky ❤

    • @adaakukisahke
      @adaakukisahke Год назад +25

      That's why you are best dad.

    • @sakuraesther6309
      @sakuraesther6309 Год назад +25

      What a treasure you are😭

  • @Allofanl
    @Allofanl Год назад +35

    Totally relatable I am sobbing, never seen my father i am 25, I'll takecare of my mother as much as I can🥺

  • @jai9952
    @jai9952 Год назад +957

    “Don’t do what was done to you” man that was intense!

  • @Hibomm1
    @Hibomm1 Год назад +323

    Him saying when you loose a father you become a man but when you loose a mother you become an orphan hits hard 😢

  • @Kiwi--nk6dq
    @Kiwi--nk6dq Год назад +272

    Don’t do what was done to you.. Profound words right there.

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Год назад +2

      Unless you were treated well!

  • @zedekswai9684
    @zedekswai9684 Год назад +13

    I grew up without a father and this is exactly how I want to treat my kids. Great man!

  • @griffstratz6495
    @griffstratz6495 Год назад +58

    Very wise response “if you learned what you were missing you would make sure you would never miss it” we struggle so that we may give a better life to our children

  • @isabellrc
    @isabellrc Год назад +6

    He seems like a decent man! I wish him and his family the best

  • @Sour.Vanity
    @Sour.Vanity Год назад +112

    As a man raised by a single mother, fathers are underrated but I seriously don’t know how I’ll do it without my mom. Even we live countries apart as long as she’s breathing I feel like she’s on my side and the day that stops will be a HARD day

    • @rubinamirza688
      @rubinamirza688 Год назад +7

      May your mom be blessed with healthy long life..Ameen

    • @Lovelyone1
      @Lovelyone1 Год назад +1

      😢😢😢

  • @meemee5660
    @meemee5660 Год назад +7

    Good dad...glad he didn't repeat the mistakes of his father....and he right, there's nothing like losing a mother.😔

  • @caitia7212
    @caitia7212 Год назад +86

    My husband is an amazing man. He grew up without a father, but made sure to study good male examples in his life. Our daughters seriously have the best dad!

  • @PSA3377
    @PSA3377 Год назад +3

    His posture and countenance says alot . A wise man indeed .

  • @buffalogal9139
    @buffalogal9139 Год назад +22

    This man is an absolute treasure.

  • @gb_the_accuser
    @gb_the_accuser Год назад +1

    He embraced the father within himself. A father is great to have, however you can give your children the guidance you wanted from your father. This is a good man.

  • @judemichaelhanna4867
    @judemichaelhanna4867 Год назад +55

    I am also Lebanese...and my father died when i was a kid...My mom raised 5 kids pretty much by herself..

  • @justicewillprevail1106
    @justicewillprevail1106 Год назад +234

    He’s absolutely right. I’ve seen two types of men. Men who vowed to never repeat the mistakes his parents made. And men who just passes the mistakes straight down to the next generation. Smart vs dumb.

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Год назад +18

      Women as well. Some women change. Some pass on the abuse. Although my mom was abusive she did improve from her mother. So it isn't always a black and white issue.

    • @sruthi2708
      @sruthi2708 Год назад +4

      @@Catlily5 what was the need of posting this? We are talking about one thing dont bring something else

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Год назад +13

      @@sruthi2708 We are all human beings. This seems to be an issue that applies equally for both sexes. That is why I mentioned it.

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Год назад +9

      @@sruthi2708 Also I mentioned it because some people improve upon their parents but are still abusive. It is not always an all or nothing situation.

    • @frutcakes6370
      @frutcakes6370 Год назад

      @@Catlily5 haha ok true but statistics show it goes one way more than the other 😁

  • @M_A_N_H_A_T_T_A_N
    @M_A_N_H_A_T_T_A_N Год назад +1

    A very good & wise man…two very good, smart men.

  • @grahamluna6935
    @grahamluna6935 Год назад +71

    My dad was my Rock. He's got alzimers now but... What a man. And of course, mam was the best mam in the world 😉. Both equally special.

    • @larazeesk7080
      @larazeesk7080 Год назад +1

      Your blessed

    • @macpere7
      @macpere7 Год назад

      I lost my dad too 😓. So sorry for your loss 🙏🏾

  • @dalagamble3164
    @dalagamble3164 Год назад +1

    This is a real man right here. Don’t repeat the same mistakes your parents did.

  • @arabionjames9290
    @arabionjames9290 Год назад +76

    I am black American and strait male.
    I feel this.
    I saw my father 5 times tops.
    I still miss my father.

    • @debbiewilder4738
      @debbiewilder4738 Год назад +12

      God in the name of Jesus we pray you meet this young mans needs of a loving father ♡

    • @arabionjames9290
      @arabionjames9290 Год назад +4

      @@debbiewilder4738 thank you

    • @irene4633
      @irene4633 Год назад +4

      Inshallah you meet him again if you desire to

    • @thefamily730
      @thefamily730 Год назад +5

      What a brave young man, to be honest and humble. You are very loved.

    • @troythemighty3683
      @troythemighty3683 Год назад +8

      @@arabionjames9290 don’t let men take advantage of that fact. There’s a lot of dudes who try to dish out unwanted advice because they see a boy has no dad and they want to help. Form your own views of the world and don’t take everyone’s advice as good advice. Use your best judgement brother. One love good luck to ya.

  • @donnaacker6282
    @donnaacker6282 Год назад +5

    Hes so right. Our trials can either make us or break us. So glad he chose to let it make him a better person and give his children what he missed. God bless him.

  • @omarluna3948
    @omarluna3948 Год назад +30

    I share this man comments. I went my childhood life was horrible but I promise to myself not to do the same to others. And I’m doing fine & living in peace💕

  • @billcounts9516
    @billcounts9516 Год назад +1

    This is what America is really all about. Never met this man but I've known him for eternity. A good family man. Very good words from the heart. I wish he was my brother. God bless you and your family.

  • @787maggie
    @787maggie Год назад +20

    Fathers have been so underrated.
    Essential for children to have both parents.

    • @hi2978
      @hi2978 Год назад +14

      Seems like he did fine with a single mother.

    • @brahtrumpwonbigly7309
      @brahtrumpwonbigly7309 Год назад +5

      @@hi2978 and many don't.

    • @Mayrita77
      @Mayrita77 Год назад +2

      Exactly. A father is essential for a proper mind development.
      Single mothers household are an epidemic in this country. A kid raised in those circumstances will never be as well developed and armed in life as a kid raised in a proper family

    • @Catlily5
      @Catlily5 Год назад

      ​@@Mayrita77 Usually a father is really good to have around.
      But if your father rapes you repeatedly it might be better if he is gone.

    • @AlexiosLair
      @AlexiosLair Год назад +5

      The problem is that fathers do it themselves. And we are forced to forge ourselves as men without their support.

  • @westemerson7464
    @westemerson7464 Год назад +2

    Special man. I never heard of the saying. When you loose your mother you become a orphan , my heart was frozen in that real moment o this reality

  • @nahiyan4564
    @nahiyan4564 Год назад +7

    Just beautiful. I aspire to be a father like him one day.

  • @ceciliatreasure702
    @ceciliatreasure702 Год назад +1

    I respect this man a lot, he is spitting facts. RESPECT!!!

  • @teeciewalk
    @teeciewalk Год назад +16

    I love this great interview very wise man. I’m sorry for his loss 💕

  • @aleksandrag9530
    @aleksandrag9530 Год назад +23

    His mom did a great job ❤ God bless them all and especially women like his mom 💖💖💖

  • @abhimanyusharma1
    @abhimanyusharma1 Год назад +28

    When I watch these videos , i actually want to get their numbers and talk to them, learn more and understand their story. Good channel.

  • @2late4date
    @2late4date Год назад +2

    What a wonderful man. God bless him!

  • @MrTeddyBoy89
    @MrTeddyBoy89 Год назад +3

    I respect this man. Made me tear up a bit.

  • @luzkhan7925
    @luzkhan7925 Год назад +1

    A beautiful human being.
    Blessed be.

  • @tochukwunjoku
    @tochukwunjoku Год назад +12

    This man is a legend! "When you a father you become a man but when you loose a mother you become an orphan" I completely agree - do true!

  • @lizwebster1521
    @lizwebster1521 Год назад

    What an fine example of a man. Just beautiful.

  • @cloveresraa
    @cloveresraa Год назад +3

    He's such great man and great father ❤️

  • @andrewnorris1514
    @andrewnorris1514 Год назад +1

    This man is Awesome. What a great man

  • @topiepo
    @topiepo Год назад +4

    He's kids are blessed to have him 🧡

  • @dariusjones5557
    @dariusjones5557 Год назад +2

    Respect to this man

  • @factenter6787
    @factenter6787 Год назад +10

    As a fellow Montrealer I thank you Sir for your channel and videos. And as a 60something I appreciate your taking the time to ask people what it is like to be older

  • @nathalienurse3336
    @nathalienurse3336 Год назад +1

    This is a real MAN. I envy his children they are so lucky!

  • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
    @peaceofmindofpeace1650 Год назад +6

    Exactly, life is a chance to give and be what we missed out on ourselves.

  • @HenJack-vl5cb
    @HenJack-vl5cb Год назад +2

    This was very emotional.Bless him and his family!

  • @JDG81-r3b
    @JDG81-r3b Год назад +17

    This made the tears well up, not gonna lie.

  • @anntrope491
    @anntrope491 Год назад

    ♡ ☆ ♡ This is a great man with an important message...♡☆♡ BLESSINGS ON THIS MAN, & HIS FAMILY. . . ♡ ☆ ♡

  • @danielfederico8315
    @danielfederico8315 Год назад +126

    Great advice...
    Finally a youtube channel that's not some self absorbed bullshit.
    👍

  • @austerejenings6979
    @austerejenings6979 Год назад +22

    Dang.. This one was tough for me..I just got off call with my 80 yr old mom.. Put my kids to bed.. And yes.. No Dad too.. This is seriously great part of YT! Keep it up!

    • @reflectionsinthebible3579
      @reflectionsinthebible3579 Год назад

      Yes same here. I talked to my mom, put my kids to bed and here I am. But yours was 3 weeks ago I guess. My dad did work and live at home, but he was addicted to pharmaceuticals for his foot pain and he just wasn’t involved in our lives much.

  • @gorunsko31
    @gorunsko31 Год назад

    Respect and admiration for this man. He chose to provide for his kids the kind of parenting he wished for. Bravo 🙌

  • @t_n_rasberry8387
    @t_n_rasberry8387 Год назад +10

    I like what he said about 2 schools of life and to take the positive choice. I wonder how he became wise enough to make the right choice.

  • @ashnagupta19
    @ashnagupta19 Год назад

    What a MAN, Love this Man.....Learn what you missed in life.

  • @Francis-of8cw
    @Francis-of8cw Год назад +12

    "When you lose a mother you become an orphan." Describes my life story. It's sad really, I honestly don't have a hope for being happy ever again. It sucks and sometimes I'd rather chose death. Maybe starting my own family one day will make me feel some warmth again, but right now I'm too depressed to even see that as a possibility.

    • @noelsergeant7512
      @noelsergeant7512 Год назад +4

      You will be happy again just think of the good memories, May God bless and comfort you ❤❤much love

    • @dominique7269
      @dominique7269 Год назад +3

      The best days are yet to come, if you wish to have children one day, you’ll know what I mean❤ keep pushing

    • @AamirMahboubKhan
      @AamirMahboubKhan Год назад +3

      Time and Faith in Allah can help you go through the toughest losses.

    • @miola2083
      @miola2083 Год назад +1

      You will have moments of warmth again. ❤️That is what your mom would want.

  • @trukarizma
    @trukarizma Год назад

    This man is the definition of "Do better!" Bless Him and bless his family 🙏🏽

  • @amritpalkaurkondal6999
    @amritpalkaurkondal6999 Год назад +4

    Really touched me💝 when you loose a father you become a man and when you loose your mother you become an orphan 🤗

  • @jamessatterfield5705
    @jamessatterfield5705 Год назад +2

    A great American. Thanks for being there for your children. I remember being at the ball field with my father, some of the best times.

  • @Sunnahiman
    @Sunnahiman Год назад +5

    ALHUMDUALLAH BLESSINGS ☪️

  • @Gramcracker72
    @Gramcracker72 Год назад

    Well said Dad, hope your children see this. They Should be proud.Blessings to you and yours.

  • @adjoaprempeh354
    @adjoaprempeh354 Год назад +3

    Don't do what was done to you.... word💯

  • @cheryllemme9332
    @cheryllemme9332 Год назад +1

    Good job dad!!! Bless you!

  • @JeffreyGillespie
    @JeffreyGillespie Год назад +12

    “When you lose a father you become a man” so true

  • @kensurrency2564
    @kensurrency2564 Год назад +26

    ‘let me tell you something’

  • @anithajose
    @anithajose Год назад

    Kudos to a great dad.... I hope his kids realise what a great treasure they have...

  • @justlift213
    @justlift213 Год назад +5

    Im Lebanese too, Lebanese Accent is so distinct, he sounds like my uncles

    • @mhd92aa
      @mhd92aa Год назад +2

      Its distinct accent but i feel their accent is the smoothest than any other arab nation.

    • @justlift213
      @justlift213 Год назад

      @@mhd92aa 💯

    • @JSamad
      @JSamad Год назад

      ​@@mhd92aa true, it blends well in English but it's still recognizable in a none-meme way

  • @booyah2u296
    @booyah2u296 Год назад

    This man is amazing. Ensuring his children never forget him and his love ❤️. An example to all fathers. He must miss his mother very much.

  • @milli6415
    @milli6415 Год назад +1

    YOU ARE A VERY GOID MAN, YOU TAUGHT ME SOMETHING, GOD BLESS YOU FATHER OF THE YEAR!!

  • @AbdullahAmar
    @AbdullahAmar Год назад +4

    My Arab brothers 😃❤️

  • @divinelyprotected144
    @divinelyprotected144 Год назад

    I lost my Mom when I was was 40. I described myself they same way, as an orphan. 🙏🏼 💔
    Everything he said was beautiful.

  • @unsaneone3638
    @unsaneone3638 Год назад +5

    I never had a mom or dad so I guess I’m just an orphan man.

  • @happyevardo3258
    @happyevardo3258 Год назад +2

    So full of wisdom.

  • @ojyochan
    @ojyochan Год назад +3

    Omg. I didn't think of all the older people I know, they are orphans😭💔

    • @HilaryB.
      @HilaryB. Год назад +2

      Sounds silly I know, but that's how it hit me. Lost my dad in my forties, having previously lost my mum. That's exactly how I felt, like I'd been orphaned. Never take your folks for granted.

  • @dinahassan4320
    @dinahassan4320 Год назад +1

    All respect to that man

  • @Missjiji33
    @Missjiji33 Год назад

    amazing! nothing beats a mother. I'm proud as a mom.

  • @ameya1559
    @ameya1559 Год назад

    Great words.. 👍 to all single parents ' kids n parents too...
    Very righteous man !

  • @maureenmellott5738
    @maureenmellott5738 Год назад

    Such a gentleman. His values are spot on.

  • @Deeliciousss
    @Deeliciousss Год назад +1

    Fathers are important

  • @SusiiUkraina
    @SusiiUkraina Год назад +2

    His words are so powerful and true

  • @princwillys
    @princwillys Год назад +1

    That's a good father figure who can attend their children basketball play and attend their trips that's a cool dad

  • @shaswai
    @shaswai Год назад

    God bless this man, his words were real and profound, Thank you for the wisdom!! God bless you Sir.

  • @maryannashenfelder5513
    @maryannashenfelder5513 Год назад +1

    Love this man and his words!!

  • @inezzbeadz
    @inezzbeadz Год назад

    Inteligent man. Don't do what was done to you. I lost my mom 1yr ago, i feel like an orphan, he is spot on

  • @teejayangel6638
    @teejayangel6638 Год назад

    Very true....a mother is everything. If you know, you know.

  • @thuuyoctruyenemkhuya6289
    @thuuyoctruyenemkhuya6289 Год назад

    His words touched me. So lucky i have my mom...

  • @habilitated_Soul
    @habilitated_Soul Год назад

    You are the truest definition of a father sir.

  • @faisalshaikh1289
    @faisalshaikh1289 Год назад

    I lost my mother very recently, and I always felt what this man articulated so beautifully. Really appreciate this man, and everything he shared. God bless you brother!

  • @ppmp9937
    @ppmp9937 Год назад

    He'a an inspiration. He displays a winner mindset. Not a victim mindset

  • @neoanderson4840
    @neoanderson4840 Год назад

    Thanks for being a father to your children very few are present nowadays ❤❤❤

  • @Arrow-wv9ww
    @Arrow-wv9ww Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤😢lovely man with a good heart. Dad’s are so important

  • @anabaird3835
    @anabaird3835 Год назад

    I LOVE THIS MAN!!! IM SOOOOO GRATEFUL HE'S HERE!

  • @nidamendoza8705
    @nidamendoza8705 Год назад

    Well said. He's a responsible and kind person. Be blessed.

  • @patriciasegage499
    @patriciasegage499 Год назад

    Wow… there’s is no one like ones mother.
    God bless you and your family ✨⭐️🌟

  • @monicanath4859
    @monicanath4859 Год назад

    What a really brilliant statement he made and what a fantastic strong, compassionate understanding gentleman this is 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼!

  • @bobanmolly9460
    @bobanmolly9460 Год назад

    Such a good man with values!

  • @anthonydesantis2907
    @anthonydesantis2907 Год назад

    AMAZING MAN… need more of him in this world! 🙏🙌🏼👏🏼

  • @katelash8597
    @katelash8597 Год назад

    What a guy! ❤ him and his values!

  • @lindadecosta4964
    @lindadecosta4964 Год назад +1

    Thts the best video u hv ever made.
    Hey man... You are a good father and esp as a person. Good values...