Why men don’t take you seriously

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024

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  • @efe3097
    @efe3097 6 месяцев назад +77

    💯.....As a woman i learnt its important to have self respect,self love and boundaries.

  • @sharchannel1836
    @sharchannel1836 7 месяцев назад +90

    Dating is hard when people string others along using them as place holders etc ...

    • @AnnaParada-x3y
      @AnnaParada-x3y 6 месяцев назад

      GREETINGS FROM ARKANSAS Well in the AMISH AND JEWISH CULTURE THEY ARE NOT PLAYING THESE GAMES...TOXIC PPL DO THIS ALSO NEVWR REACH OUT TO A MAN WHO IS IN PRISON ...UNLESS YOU ARE RELATED TO THE MAN...THOSE PRISON MEN ARE SICK AND PERVERTED THEY LIKE TO USE GOOD WOMEN AND THEY TRY TO EXTORT MONEY FROM HER DO NOT DATE GO INTO COURTSHIP DATEING FOR A REASON NOT FOR FUN SAVE SEX FOR MARRAGE ONLY PERIOD

    • @hereisayana8207
      @hereisayana8207 5 месяцев назад +4

      That's abuse to do that too...

    • @wandasmith4755
      @wandasmith4755 5 месяцев назад +6

      If you’re clear on your boundaries, you will end up as a place holder….no ring 💍 no baby, no shackling up unless I am your fiancee, a ring, dating or engagement over two, excluding worthy circumstance, again no ring 💍, end that relationship relationship!! To be clear, this is for women that DESIRE and want to be married and/ or have a family with a committed partner….if this is NOT you….feel free to ignore…there are plenty of alternatives today for both men & women to live and create family, choose what works for you and understand and evaluate the OUTCOME and shut up 🤫!!

    • @Marcycat7
      @Marcycat7 3 месяца назад

      Men like that have std's because they are messing with anything and everything. Broke men have nothing to offer which is why they like easy women. Plus the guy doesn't have to spend money on taking her out because she is easy.

  • @rosiechic5590
    @rosiechic5590 5 месяцев назад +27

    I'm not giving any of my energy away for Nothing in return anymore ...

  • @Jenishabadoo
    @Jenishabadoo 6 месяцев назад +72

    Lost my husband two years ago at age 40. Tried dating last summer and omg 😳 it’s different out here. Man this has been so helpful. Last two guys I dated both acted like they wanted exclusivity and when I gave it to them, they both pulled away.. I don’t think they really wanted that. They just told me what I wanted to hear. Time to watch actions and stop just listening to words.

    • @lorraineolivera24
      @lorraineolivera24 6 месяцев назад +13

      Yes it's very hard out there. I've been a widow for 14 years! STILL SINGLE it is no joke. Alot of men play way too many games. I don't have time for nonsense. MR. kirk is soooo right I changed up and NOW have boundaries that was a big part of my problem. I'm OK being alone now till I meet the RIGHT one my person. 😊😌

    • @lorraineolivera24
      @lorraineolivera24 6 месяцев назад +5

      Yes I can hear and see u

    • @SandraHewitt-wg2lk
      @SandraHewitt-wg2lk 5 месяцев назад

      😅😂​@@lorraineolivera24

    • @Pauline-zn8ev
      @Pauline-zn8ev 4 месяца назад +2

      Games ain't nobody have time for this. Rather stay by myself.

  • @estheranasu162
    @estheranasu162 4 месяца назад +20

    You are absolutely right when a man likes you you do not have to struggle

  • @nomessnostress
    @nomessnostress 5 месяцев назад +40

    The women i see half dressed, drinking, and partying is the ones i see in relationships

  • @angiepurpleyoda
    @angiepurpleyoda 6 месяцев назад +37

    The shorter your acceptance time, the more at peace you will be. You see things and hear things the first time, believe it…put that man/woman back on the shelf before you get to the checkout counter.

  • @alexatoure3407
    @alexatoure3407 6 месяцев назад +36

    Lots of women were not provided for, protected, prepared or even respected by their male relatives including their fathers since childhood. Too many were molested or raped young. Subconsciously they go into or stay in abusive relationships reinforced by toxic families. Obviously that woman needs support and healing, new patterns and new healthy relationships. What is the role of a healthy man towards a woman who has this experience? Because when I have come across broken men, I have loved them. What is the responsibility if any of a healthy man to the state of things now?

    • @hereisayana8207
      @hereisayana8207 5 месяцев назад

      It's sad that men know these things about some women and use it against them to manipulate them...

    • @key_aria3475
      @key_aria3475 5 месяцев назад +1

      This is my upbringing

    • @aeliciaallen8268
      @aeliciaallen8268 4 месяца назад

      True

    • @lanettawilliams4393
      @lanettawilliams4393 3 месяца назад

      ​@key_aria3475 If your heart so desires it, may God bless you, heal you, lead and guide you to His blessed and perfect will for your life. In Jesus Name. You are loved.❤

  • @wandasmith4755
    @wandasmith4755 5 месяцев назад +15

    Coming out of a 30 plus year relationship, starting over in this current dating environment is challenging, the bar is in hell…. Women have made it too dam easy for these men… if you’re a real AZZ woman maintain your boundaries & requirements!!!

    • @nomessnostress
      @nomessnostress 5 месяцев назад +3

      Toooo easy and even people in their 20s complaining both men and women.... especially with social media! Everyone thinks their more attractive then they are! And men can study a woman better by watching her social

  • @MS-qf2ob
    @MS-qf2ob 3 месяца назад +5

    We need women and men who are mentally and emotionally balanced, nothing more, nothing less.

  • @MEEMEETHATCAT
    @MEEMEETHATCAT 4 месяца назад +12

    A man don't take me seriously. Because that's his loss. Because I know I'm a dam good woman. That's his loss and my gain. I'm not going on a job for a man. Because I know my worth. Not desperate at all.

  • @melindapear4798
    @melindapear4798 6 месяцев назад +17

    I was there before.I was disrespected in the worst way.He didn't like me.

  • @Meganreed885
    @Meganreed885 4 месяца назад +9

    I read Steve Harveys book, "Act like a lady and think like a man"!!! And the info was sooooo eye opening!!!!! Ladies fall in love faster and short change themselves.
    A man moves slllooowww like a predator!!! BUT WHEN he falls, HE FALLS HARD!!!!! Life, love and hearts are SOOO FRAGILE!!!! I hate the adjusting period!!!! Thanks for your great information, keep teaching!!!!!

    • @Meganreed885
      @Meganreed885 4 месяца назад

      I needed this information years ago, lol!!! Keep educating folks!!!

  • @charlenehartfiel7580
    @charlenehartfiel7580 2 месяца назад +2

    Good men are so hard too find until the right one comes along my friend ❤❤just pray and it will help🙏

  • @MphoSehube
    @MphoSehube Месяц назад +1

    True intuition if you use it wrongly it will give you exactly that

  • @fixitladie
    @fixitladie 6 месяцев назад +10

    This ain't nothing but 100% spiritual truth! Thank you for this beautiful clarity Brother Kirk!

  • @t.5021
    @t.5021 6 месяцев назад +10

    I can literally listen to you all day. 😂 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @AmericanDreamer
    @AmericanDreamer 7 месяцев назад +21

    you said no lies 100% - that is how we, women are indeed!! yes, those games work, so shame on us for allowing them to work! I think, men can only go as far as we allow them to go, what we accept and so on. True, that too many of us make bad decisions based on living in the past, incorrectly assessing mans character and many more factors.

  • @ingridwiggins9575
    @ingridwiggins9575 3 месяца назад +3

    Hurt comes from u looking for something u don’t get . Or wanting n searching for badly .

  • @mawusivivor5546
    @mawusivivor5546 4 месяца назад +3

    This is so painful to hear, but it’s the truth
    I believe there should be a video on “how to know if a man likes “
    Because for those of us who have had daddy issues, been treated badly, accepted the unacceptable, because we were afraid of rejection. I am healing. I’m in a better place, but i sometimes find myself bending my boundaries. So I’d rather be with a man who likes me. Period!!! Please do a video on that. Thank you

  • @classybrassy5
    @classybrassy5 3 месяца назад +2

    Wow to hear someone say the same things you've been thinking is total validation, yay!!!! Thanks ❤️

  • @Sommictales
    @Sommictales Месяц назад +1

    Wow! One of the real channels I've come across. Thanks Big Bro

  • @OlisaBoden
    @OlisaBoden 2 месяца назад +1

    We try to read the man before we get serious with a man . I want to look 👀 in his spirit, and I know he sizing me up.

  • @tladimakuse7445
    @tladimakuse7445 Месяц назад

    🙏🏽this is not hate speech, it's the mistakes we do now and then, and when someone is verbalize it, it starts to make sense, it's true no man will tolerate a leaking bladder 😅that's common knowledge, keep up the good work young man, thank you

  • @karolpavlin3871
    @karolpavlin3871 Месяц назад

    Not afraid of love, but afraid of the pain

  • @heidialina
    @heidialina Месяц назад

    Boundaries - Yes!! So important.

  • @petuniaorca2003
    @petuniaorca2003 4 месяца назад +5

    Your channel was in my recommendations, and I am so grateful to whomever sent it. Babyyyy, you are the realist, and I wish that I heard your messages years ago.You have a call on your life, and you're fulfilling your purpose. Thank you.

  • @ingridwiggins9575
    @ingridwiggins9575 3 месяца назад +2

    Mentally disturbing n psychologically disturbing.

  • @nelisiwendlovu9678
    @nelisiwendlovu9678 Месяц назад

    Amen. I agree with this prayer in Jesus mighty name!!!

  • @tinahumphrey4495
    @tinahumphrey4495 3 месяца назад +2

    That’s True Intuitions it’s to protect you as well and Insecurity isn’t what ppl always put it to be as well…. Listen his right! ❤💯👏🏾👏🏾🥰

  • @ingridwiggins9575
    @ingridwiggins9575 3 месяца назад +2

    Selfies r ridiculous . Consider yourself more than a selfie.

  • @janessaburgin4349
    @janessaburgin4349 3 месяца назад +2

    You have to know yourself Worth!!! Stick to what you say and do!!! Love yourself!!!

  • @FaithMovezMountains
    @FaithMovezMountains 4 месяца назад +2

    ❤ your shirt 👕, necklace, and wisdom. “Somebody get mad at
    your boundaries that’s their problem!” Amen

  • @denisemeletiche8816
    @denisemeletiche8816 5 месяцев назад +3

    I appreciate your words you are 100 % correct GOD bless you

  • @petronadonegal3150
    @petronadonegal3150 4 месяца назад +3

    As a matured female, what you're saying is so factual and to the point. I hope ladies are taking note. Men are sooo easy to read and Manage. However, we need to listen to the stories we are telling ourselves and others regarding relationships. We project become and attract what we think about. Nevertheless, you can wear fashionable tight clothes and still meet a decent man who will become your husband.

  • @cryptoconfused3400
    @cryptoconfused3400 Месяц назад

    Loved this live replay!!!!!

  • @ingridwiggins9575
    @ingridwiggins9575 3 месяца назад +2

    I’m 60 yrs old . So I kinda caught these shows already. But as a Man U tell it .

  • @kingltllifalami6884
    @kingltllifalami6884 7 месяцев назад +4

    "I agree with you my Teacher" 💯 ❤

  • @leahdestin5135
    @leahdestin5135 5 месяцев назад +3

    Wen u set boundaries they leave n go to their house

    • @hereisayana8207
      @hereisayana8207 5 месяцев назад +4

      Good , that means they didn't care about you enough... you deserve better

  • @angeg100
    @angeg100 4 месяца назад +1

    I am listening to you more and more, I find you funny and factual. 😂😂 Thank you for what you do, raw and real.

  • @tamaradoe7602
    @tamaradoe7602 7 месяцев назад +5

    Oh my.. you killing me 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @zoilarodriguez1532
    @zoilarodriguez1532 6 месяцев назад +3

    😂Arby's we got the meat...❤❤❤

  • @ingridwiggins9575
    @ingridwiggins9575 3 месяца назад +1

    Asheville Nc is here. Blessings to all.

  • @rhodanthenya8694
    @rhodanthenya8694 4 месяца назад +2

    Hello Kirk,true sound...love your T shirt. Bless up

  • @llla4242
    @llla4242 2 месяца назад +1

    I enjoy listening. You tell us the truth, especially with the humor.

  • @rosemilton1837
    @rosemilton1837 7 месяцев назад +3

    You Sooo Right 😂 I'm Crying Over Here 😂😆😂😆😂

  • @CC-nj9zw
    @CC-nj9zw 6 месяцев назад +3

    😂😂arguing about who is going to pay... made me lol with you ❤

  • @ingridwiggins9575
    @ingridwiggins9575 3 месяца назад +1

    A lot of people don’t have common sense. But true that . 👍🏽🤗

  • @MS-qf2ob
    @MS-qf2ob 3 месяца назад +3

    Talk about men There are a lot of them that are emotionally and mentally unbalanced please do a video about that

  • @napagaportuphy8509
    @napagaportuphy8509 7 месяцев назад +4

    You nailed it.
    God bless you

  • @rosehamilton2665
    @rosehamilton2665 7 месяцев назад +4

    Oh my God your killing me here you have me cracking up lol ❤

  • @Jojo-i9d
    @Jojo-i9d 6 месяцев назад +4

    Sir after the 30 minute mark you have me screaming In laughter! Ha! Too funny. Whoouuu I needed that laugh.
    New subscriber here❤

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  6 месяцев назад

      lol. Thank you. I’m honored. And welcome 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ingridwiggins9575
    @ingridwiggins9575 3 месяца назад +1

    Got that right u don’t have to prove urself to him. Lol 😂 ur a trip but hey 👋🏾 tell it

  • @RealLadi228
    @RealLadi228 7 месяцев назад +5

    Brokenness vs Wholeness

  • @yudollia
    @yudollia 7 месяцев назад +7

    But I luhhhh hieeemmm 😂😂😂😂

  • @dashellgary7271
    @dashellgary7271 7 месяцев назад +5

    This was so encouraging

  • @rosemilton1837
    @rosemilton1837 7 месяцев назад +7

    You So Silly!!! When people tell me we're not on the same vibe...I Say Good, I read Your Vibe when you opened your mouth 😅

  • @tinafricker1122
    @tinafricker1122 3 месяца назад

    MUCH LOVE❣️ N PEACE COMIN FROM ARKANSAS ...YOUR INSIGHT N ADVICE IS 🔥 PLEASE KEEP IT COMIN

  • @Darshie-c9b
    @Darshie-c9b 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for teaching ❤️

  • @devimcneely8004
    @devimcneely8004 6 месяцев назад +3

    I just love your realness

  • @ivorycainion7570
    @ivorycainion7570 3 месяца назад

    39:17 Kurt you crack me up!!! I appreciate how you get to the truth of the matter of how we are responsible for how we engage in relationships.

  • @hopemason170
    @hopemason170 5 месяцев назад +1

    You were too funny on this one!!😂 I’m 54 with hot flashes 😂😳😳😳

  • @ermaedwards-hatcher4719
    @ermaedwards-hatcher4719 Месяц назад +1

    I want a man that’s whole and love God first

  • @mariabbanks
    @mariabbanks 6 месяцев назад +1

    So much wisdom and you have such a personality😂😂😂 thank you for teachings and belly laughs!

  • @Queen_D33
    @Queen_D33 7 месяцев назад +3

    You’re spot on!!!

  • @MZIAMTHATIAM
    @MZIAMTHATIAM 7 месяцев назад +2

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Sensai you are hilarious but keeping it 100%

  • @cryptoconfused3400
    @cryptoconfused3400 Месяц назад

    I just subscribed! You spit so much facts!! I wish I had u in my ear all day!!❤

  • @lannaking8153
    @lannaking8153 6 месяцев назад +1

    You are speaking truth Conscious, I love this ❤

  • @moyrawinton8502
    @moyrawinton8502 7 месяцев назад +5

    G'day from Australia

  • @empathicmisslady
    @empathicmisslady 6 месяцев назад +2

    I'm enjoying this message. You crazy lol You speaking facts

  • @ingridwiggins9575
    @ingridwiggins9575 3 месяца назад +1

    They put there selves out there any kind of way. N not sure of there selves. Booty calls don’t make u look to great it’s cheap but if u think ur cheap that’s another book.

  • @ConsciousSista9ether
    @ConsciousSista9ether 4 месяца назад +1

    😅😂 you're hilarious. Plus you give great advice!

  • @ayeshalewis4064
    @ayeshalewis4064 4 месяца назад +2

    Brotha I love your shirt!!!

  • @latarareed7321
    @latarareed7321 7 месяцев назад +2

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂LMBO😂at. THE MATRIX MESSAGE

  • @gerdagayhart866
    @gerdagayhart866 3 месяца назад

    Thank u for all the great positive help/ talks. Soo appreciated... ur daughter is a cutie 💓 hello cutie

  • @MPMMPM-vy9cu
    @MPMMPM-vy9cu 4 месяца назад

    You give advice lovingly. I appreciate you, Kirk! ❤ God bless! 🙏🏾

  • @latarareed7321
    @latarareed7321 7 месяцев назад +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤STRAIGHT MEN MENTAL FACTS. KIRK!!...KEEP ENLIGHTENING

  • @marythomas9687
    @marythomas9687 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, Koncious for the insight into the parana pit.They come to steal, kill,and destroy women.

  • @andziagreen4922
    @andziagreen4922 7 месяцев назад +5

    Hello from Ireland 🇮🇪🍀🤗

  • @901Amor
    @901Amor 3 месяца назад

    Needed to hear this!!! Give thanks!!!! 😂❤ thank you for keeping it light!

  • @reneehenry283
    @reneehenry283 2 месяца назад

    Sum of the best content on RUclips Kirk!!!!!❤

  • @icke11234
    @icke11234 5 месяцев назад +2

    The way he speaks about women it seems he's never had nor intends to ever have a decent and truthful relationship.

  • @GretaBenard
    @GretaBenard 5 месяцев назад +1

    Whoa!!! I’m taking advice from a kid. I’m nearly 60 and I’m seriously considering taking your advice and I’ve lived Five lives and made it through some tough times.

    • @andreareid6901
      @andreareid6901 4 месяца назад +1

      He looks like he's in his 50's so I don't think you are taking advice from a kid. I think he's your peer.

  • @TheLeopardGirl
    @TheLeopardGirl 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great advice Kirk, thank you. Also you have a lovely accent!🥰

  • @ramonafairy6964
    @ramonafairy6964 3 месяца назад

    Thanks so much 🙏

  • @ramonafairy6964
    @ramonafairy6964 3 месяца назад +1

    Time s are not the same no more from when I was was married and some men is full of it so until then I'm staying by myself

  • @avacunningham7189
    @avacunningham7189 7 месяцев назад +3

    I agree with you 💯

  • @latarareed7321
    @latarareed7321 7 месяцев назад +1

    VOLUTU OUS BBL TYPES 😂😂😂😂 I GOT YA

  • @zoilarodriguez1532
    @zoilarodriguez1532 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your so common sense and smart ....luv it...ty

  • @cornbreadfeddred
    @cornbreadfeddred 3 месяца назад

    You're are right babe you keeping it real ❤❤❤

  • @ann-marielafoucade
    @ann-marielafoucade 5 месяцев назад

    This is truth. I simply love these facts and i am going to apply this it to my life. Thank you for being realistic.

  • @portiarhodes2662
    @portiarhodes2662 7 месяцев назад +2

    God bless you, Kirk.
    Your content is great!

  • @Battleofthetwins1
    @Battleofthetwins1 3 месяца назад

    You are giving me life 😂 cuz I be telling my women friends the same thing

  • @dianemurphy9412
    @dianemurphy9412 3 месяца назад +1

    You are a very informative man. Bless you!

  • @sylvonneharry1738
    @sylvonneharry1738 3 месяца назад

    I agree. Some persons cannot deal with that.

  • @MphoSehube
    @MphoSehube Месяц назад +1

    How i wish this young girls to hear this

  • @DelilahRainey-n9h
    @DelilahRainey-n9h 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing information to me my father never told me.

  • @ingridwiggins9575
    @ingridwiggins9575 3 месяца назад +1

    It’s control . Dealing with the person is to personal the control is cheap n easy hell naw

  • @AnnaParada-x3y
    @AnnaParada-x3y 6 месяцев назад +2

    SIR BEING IN A ONE TIME TRUE LOVE IS A GOOD THING NOT A BAD THING WE DO NOT FALL I9N LOVE WITH EVERY MAN I SEE THATS JUST CRAZY ANND UNREALISTIC...UNLESS THE PERSON MUST BE A PERV...HOW ON EARTH CAN A PERSON THINK THEY LIKE AND FIND EVERYONE ATTERACTIVE .....TRUE LOVE IS RARE IN THIS CULTURE THESE DAYS PPL ARE SICK

  • @jrich9679
    @jrich9679 6 месяцев назад +2

    Facts was spoken in this video lol