Are EMPATHS arrogant and judgmental?

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  • Опубликовано: 12 май 2024
  • Empaths are often misunderstood and viewed as pretentious and judgmental. Any person who is afraid that you can see though them will belittle and undermine your gift.
    Own your gift, because each human has their own unique gift. We should not hide or be ashamed or our personal gift. Instead, we can use it to help others.
    To learn more about my book, PINK IS THE COLOR OF EMPATHY, webinars and coaching, visit www.VitalGermaine.com
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  • @spb8039
    @spb8039 21 день назад +29

    We are not arrogant or pretentious. We are the protectors of the truth. People who don't live in the truth will always have problems with empaths.

  • @Yarrg
    @Yarrg 24 дня назад +111

    I am an empath, and I am not arrogant. But the minute a narcissist believes they have a right to hurt me. Or hurt an innocent person. I'm totally gonna post the f. Up.

    • @Youalreadyknowthis
      @Youalreadyknowthis 24 дня назад +37

      This is me. And then they are disturbed by my nerve to speak up and then will look for help to gang up on me.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  24 дня назад +10

      Well played

    • @ctrichequeen1
      @ctrichequeen1 22 дня назад +11

      You just give them back their energy. It’s like throwing the ball back with intensive speed. Then release

    • @Yarrg
      @Yarrg 22 дня назад

      @@ctrichequeen1 They don't bother me much anymore. I think that they were wanting to see pain and suffering instead. What they received back was mockery ridicule and challenges to fights. I insulted their parents saying they're p***** poor parents that didn't know how to raise kids, right. I insulted their intelligence. I shamed them. I rocked them. I ridiculed them interestingly enough. They all disappeared. I can't figure out why.

    • @rem-144
      @rem-144 21 день назад +5

      Same.

  • @veliciawilliams3776
    @veliciawilliams3776 20 дней назад +10

    Empaths have to be careful who they give access to them.

  • @nivak11
    @nivak11 24 дня назад +42

    I am sensitive to external energies and protect myself accordingly. I don't think it's arrogance or pretentious. It's survival.

  • @nathalieduverna6963
    @nathalieduverna6963 24 дня назад +65

    I constantly humble myself because I can be arrogant and judgemental. I have to remember people aren't me. Enjoyed this video

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  24 дня назад +7

      Great self awareness

    • @CorinaGilligan
      @CorinaGilligan 7 дней назад +1

      Same, I remind myself that my feet will walk in those shoes, if I'm not careful. 😊

  • @lionspirit360
    @lionspirit360 25 дней назад +66

    It gets very explosive when empath get together with narcissists, who pointlessly compete over anything, even things they have no Idea of...
    Thank you for speaking to us.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  25 дней назад +10

      very explosive indeed

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe 25 дней назад

      You find it's a competition to stop human trafficking, sexual assaults, pedophilia, torturing in camps etc.? If so you're clearly not an empath.

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe 24 дня назад

      @@RTiff lIkE kRypRonIte tO sUpeRmAn. You mean Superman is a narcisist? If he was why would he stay hidden and not shout 'I am Superman"?

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe 24 дня назад +3

      @@RTiff you bet we are...

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe 24 дня назад

      Again... real empaths don't compete as you like to believe so it will work out your sadistic narative. This way fake empaths will be unmarked as well. So stop trying being wise.

  • @TK-un1pu
    @TK-un1pu 24 дня назад +45

    No, but we are constantly told that we (empaths) think we are better than others.
    And we don’t have time for bullies, we will stick up for others.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  24 дня назад +7

      Indeed indeed

    • @jennifermoody6987
      @jennifermoody6987 24 дня назад +14

      Absolutely agree! Growing up, and even still to this day, I was always extremely protective of those who were defenseless and were getting bullied by others.. eventually I became a sort of bully to the bullies in a way, and would make them look foolish and pathetic in front of others for behaving so deplorable and unacceptably towards others who couldn't defend themselves.. lol.. my favorite thing to remind others is this: "I can be cooler than the other side of the pillow or colder thana polar bear's toenails.. it's all about how you treat others and myself when you're in my presence that determines which one you're gonna get." STAY BLESSED NOT STRESSED 😊❤

    • @SequoiaMoonSpeaks
      @SequoiaMoonSpeaks 19 дней назад +4

      Been told that since I was 12 years old

    • @TK-un1pu
      @TK-un1pu 19 дней назад +3

      @@jennifermoody6987 🙏🏾❤️

  • @jennifermoody6987
    @jennifermoody6987 24 дня назад +23

    INTRIGUING TIDBIT: Narcissism is on the same, but extreme opposite, spectrum that Empathy is on.. which is why Empaths (or HSP=highly sensitive persons) seem to naturally be a magnet for attracting Narcissists into their lives.. I discovered this a few years ago, because as an Empath, I couldn't figure out why I've always attracted so many Narcissists to me throughout my life, but after doing some indepth research for a few years, I found out that they're drawn to us because, subconsciously, they know they need to work on their deep psychological issues, but their egos refuse to allow them to do that.. Empaths natrually, and usually without even realizing it, trigger Narcissists to HAVE to look at themselves and see where they're lacking in their morals.. which is why Narcissists despise Empaths for seemingly no apparent or valid reasons that they can articulate, and why they will try to attack them without provocation.. basically, Empaths have the innate ability to breakdown a Narcissists barriers in ways others don't, in order to subconsciously push them into healing their suppressed psychological damage.. it's truly quite profound and intriguing when you really contemplate it.. so for those of you who seem to have a knack for attracting Narcissists into your life, you might wanna explore and educate yourself on how to better deal with the Narcissists in your life more effectively.. STAY BLESSED NOT STRESSED

  • @mschoy1597
    @mschoy1597 24 дня назад +30

    I sure am....WITH GOOD REASON. I judge righteously!

  • @BrianMurfitt
    @BrianMurfitt 24 дня назад +26

    When I was younger I was very empathetic and a people pleaser. It's true people think you're pretentious or a 'do-gooder'. Also, you become a magnet for , histrionics, narcissists, sociopathic individuals. Female empaths are more accepted as it's considered a typical female trait, but not male empaths, it's considered effeminate and weak and you're looked on as a pushover! So these days I use selective empathy only to those individuals who will appreciate it and repay your sympathy.

    • @mschoy1597
      @mschoy1597 24 дня назад +7

      I agree that female empaths are WAY MORE ACCEPTED than male empaths. Male empaths have got it rough!

    • @BrianMurfitt
      @BrianMurfitt 24 дня назад +6

      @@mschoy1597 That's right and that's why male empaths need to use selective empathy and use their empathy discreetly and wisely.👍😣

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  24 дня назад +6

      Selective empathy 👏

    • @BrianMurfitt
      @BrianMurfitt 24 дня назад +4

      @@VitalMGermaine Thanks Vital. I'm glad you approve of my expression and use of empathy. 👍🤗

    • @user-lw4fv2hn5c
      @user-lw4fv2hn5c 23 дня назад +6

      Liked the video, thanks for this mention. I could relate to this. I realized that as a sensitive person and empath, I did a lot to support and help folks who took advantage. Now older and I can see that I was also a people pleaser which helped toxic and manipulative people who were supposedly "close family" to take benefits. These days, I an selective with empathy and being part of people's issues so that I am not left drained. I do wish I learnt these few years back but that is the lesson I had to go through.

  • @Akenya
    @Akenya 24 дня назад +31

    Interesting video. I agree with a lot of this, but there's a nuance here I'd like to add.
    Regarding my empathy, it's so high that most of the time I'm not feeling my own feelings. I'm feeling everything and everyone around me. So a lot of the time I'm feeling someone else's energy and then end up lashing out because I've internalized too much of it, especially when it's bad energy. Or I'll subconsciously try to change the energy by transmuting it inside of me, and then of course I feel exhausted and terrible. I also often won't say how I'm feeling or what I'm picking up on, because I want to keep the peace in the environment, which can then lead to me inadvertently lying to myself AND them about my true emotions.
    I've had to realize that much of this is not my responsibility. Not only that, but it's kinda...not fair. Like...I'm doing all of that instead of just having clear boundaries and saying "Hey you're too anxious and it's making it hard to work," or "Hey this thing you're saying/doing is making me feel _ kind of way" or whatever the case may be. Also, it keeps me hyper focused on my external environment and other people which can lead to avoiding self-accountability/proper self-care. I think this is why we're attracted to narcissists -- they do well what we don't. And the vice versa is the main spiritual reason of why they're drawn to us.
    Learning when and when not to use this incredible gift is necessary for maintaining healthy sense of self and healthy relationships. Honoring both my own boundaries and other people's boundaries is important; Knowing when to help someone vs. when to keep whatever I'm feeling/noticing to my damn self and just let them be. There's a fine line between actually being helpful vs. acting as a savior which inadvertently can infer superiority and judgment. It's been a fascinating journey and now at the age of 31 I think I'm learning how to balance this thing by not self abandoning, being clear about where I begin and other people end, and how to kind of be more accepting on a subconscious level by not taking someone else's issues on as my own when they didn't ask me to.

    • @Portia620
      @Portia620 24 дня назад +8

      Keeping what you’re noticing to yourself is definitely something I need to do😂😂

    • @doctajastrologyandmetaphysics
      @doctajastrologyandmetaphysics 24 дня назад +7

      This was phenomenal! I totally resonate with all that you said. It’s been a journey to master the empathy while respecting yourself in the process.

    • @indaciamarie
      @indaciamarie 24 дня назад +6

      @@Portia620whew, same. I am so bad at it.

    • @KM-zb9eg
      @KM-zb9eg 24 дня назад +6

      Thank you for this I have been here a 1000 times....l am learning more gratitude and boundaries

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  24 дня назад +6

      Great share

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 24 дня назад +24

    Oh we can tick off the ego or evil people. We are rough and praying they will fix it but they don’t! We need to be careful

  • @diepiriye
    @diepiriye 23 дня назад +7

    I can add that because empaths tend NOT to share with folks whom we sense are struggling or even just ill-at-ease, then folks literally KNOW less about our inner worlds than we know about theirs. This will make an insecure person very uncomfortable.

  • @user-yg3dy8ei5u
    @user-yg3dy8ei5u 24 дня назад +15

    We want what's right and for everyone to be alright so we offer opinions that we think can help where it is not appreciated or understood and it comes off as thinking we are better.

  • @monalisa9598
    @monalisa9598 25 дней назад +24

    I found I would water myself down due to narcissists calling me judgmental or a martyr and didn’t know I was an empath at the time or that they were narcissists.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  24 дня назад +5

      That is a common behavior/dynamic between the empath and narcissist.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  24 дня назад +7

      Yes, we water ourselves down until we become conscious or empowered

  • @sarabrittlegill9587
    @sarabrittlegill9587 21 день назад +5

    My opinions and values are thought through and considered from many angles. I am frankly sick of trying to dumb myself down for people who don’t want to put the work in to really THINK about things. I mostly stay quiet unless I’m sure my comments will be accepted gracefully. I’m also in INTJ which means I do tend to be dismissive and impatient with people who I see as foolish. I need to balance this.

  • @latasha9898
    @latasha9898 24 дня назад +10

    Growing up, it was drummed into me that I should put others first. I was agreeable and learnt to mould myself around others to please them. As an adult I've given a lot of myself to others and have felt repeatedly let down. I permanently feel shame, like i'm inherently lacking somehow. I don't know if I'm am an empath or not, but I do feel i'm overly sensitive to other people and how they are around me, or more specifically, the effect their mood has on me. I'm highly tuned in to changes in them towards me, usually in a subtle or negative way. Sometimes I question if i'm being paranoid, but often something happens after the feeling that proves to me that my instinct was right. I wish I didn't care what others think about me, but I do and I feel very misunderstood to those closest to me. Can you learn not to care as someone with these sensitivities?

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  24 дня назад +1

      🙌🙌🙌

    • @jennifermoody6987
      @jennifermoody6987 24 дня назад +4

      I understand exactly where you're coming from darlin and my heart goes out to you.. there isn't a definitive answer to your question because of the fact that everyone is different and so are their circumstances.. however, in my personal experience, I've realized that the older I get, the less I seem to care or be affected by others opinions or judgments about me.. I believe that's because I have taken the time to REALLY get to know myself deep down, which helped me to learn to dismiss what others say about me because I knew it wasn't TRUE.. I realized that they were almost ALWAYS projecting their OWN insecurities and egos onto me whenever they were judging me.. it's a complex dichotomy that requires immense determination to strive to understand and liberate yourself from allowing others to dictate your mindset, attitude and life.. ANYTHING is possible if you believe it is and are willing to devote yourself to reaching your highest potential my friend.. SENDING YOU SO MUCH LOVE, PEACE, LIGHT AND INFINITE BLESSINGS DEAR FRIEND 😊😊❤❤

    • @latasha9898
      @latasha9898 23 дня назад

      @@jennifermoody6987 Thank you for this response. I've copied it to reflect on. At the moment i'm observing people around me rather than reacting (in my mind). I've had some huge knocks recently which has made me doubt myself, but I agree that if I can get into a position where I trust myself for validation, that will help me to disregard other peoples negativity. 🙂

  • @cherich7025
    @cherich7025 24 дня назад +5

    It took me a long time to accept it, but yup, I surely am Sir, and proudly- it's my super power! Especially judgmental part, because I don't have time for energy vampires, soul suckers, and brain gamers. I am too old, and I know time is a very valuable commodity that I prefer not to squander on low vibrational crap..

    • @cherich7025
      @cherich7025 24 дня назад

      It's crazy that I wrote my comments as soon as the video started playing, only to hear you say back to me what I wrote as well as what I was thinking when I hit play.

  • @robertbattison4136
    @robertbattison4136 22 дня назад +5

    I am simply forthright and honest which confuses most people and can be wrongly mistaken for arrogance. I simply speak my mind, the honest brutal truth which many people cannot understand or more importantly refuse to accept. I'm learning to be more 'diplomatic' to help other people understand what is going on in a situation.
    Not all people are like me, this I now understand!
    I am/was hypervigilant, now learning to control/eradicate this which will take time after parental emotional neglect and abandonment together with a toxic, narcissistic controlling marriage but I AM / WILL getting there!!

  • @ansr3538
    @ansr3538 21 день назад +5

    I'm an empatth and I've suffered mentally over the years because i was brought up by a narcissistic step parent.....i can spot these types a mile off now and yes i do hold them accountable for their disgraceful behaviour in the hope i can help them but realising now they are too arrogant to seek help.....those tyoes of sick individuals spresd their sickness and its our job to stop them .... narcissists are egotistical awful people who thrive on competition and wanting to cause another mental pain. I've out grown their mind games and i make every point to hold them accountable for their disgraceful behaviour. We empaths see, hear what is true......we see exactly who you are 💝

  • @kathleenwharton2139
    @kathleenwharton2139 24 дня назад +8

    I am an empath and I follow Jesus closely. I am aware of Pride..Lust Greed Anger and Worry. I Hate people who Love money and their Own religiousity. 😊❤

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 24 дня назад +9

    Yes doesn’t mean we are better! We are just good at this stuff which is hard to deal with it! Agree if your a genius on it if you’re an empath own it

  • @moniqueseverino8593
    @moniqueseverino8593 24 дня назад +8

    We trigger those who haven’t done the work on themselves. To those individuals, yes, we can appear to be arrogant and judgmental. To me, we are like human mirrors 🪞 who simply show them who they really are… and most times that does not sit well with them at all.

    • @moniqueseverino8593
      @moniqueseverino8593 24 дня назад

      I paused the video at 4:59 to comment. Shortly after I continued to listen, you said “we hold the mirror 🪞 up…” Gotta love empaths. Thank you for posting this. Great video.

    • @Dreamsareareality
      @Dreamsareareality 17 дней назад +1

      This is a good post. So so true. ❤️

  • @user-q2Rftt8
    @user-q2Rftt8 19 дней назад +3

    To own our gift/ability is very heavy on us sometimes, especially when the world is run by darkness, power, deception which we hate. Then we get stuck being silenced, hated and attacked. How can we live peacefully?

  • @itsonlythairu
    @itsonlythairu 24 дня назад +5

    being a moon in pisces,i feel everything and honestly im on the verge of not caring if im judgemental or rude,if i don’t like your energy i will let you know.

  • @im_noToKa
    @im_noToKa 24 дня назад +8

    I am heyoka , I have boundaries that toxic humans do not respect .
    so my answer is NO

    • @abbakaastralboobaby
      @abbakaastralboobaby 24 дня назад +6

      You've said the key word 'boundaries'... When they are set, those who want to use, abuse and take advantage of those who refuse to allow it, will run their typical mind-games and begin spreading lies in or ON, one's name... WE MUST set *boundaries* with these people and care not about what they say or think about it.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  24 дня назад +3

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @im_noToKa
      @im_noToKa 24 дня назад +3

      @@abbakaastralboobaby my silence and indifference provoke toxicity 🤷

  • @cjayconrod
    @cjayconrod 17 дней назад +3

    I truly am identifying with your videos. Thank you for making sense out of what often feels like a lonely existence.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  17 дней назад

      ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

  • @MaaDurga-tu8xq
    @MaaDurga-tu8xq 19 дней назад +6

    We all are a little bit of everything, but I think it's about what we are going through at the time, because people think I'm stuck up, but I'm not, I just will not tolerate people treating me bad anymore because I have been mistreated a lot. Also, life is a great teacher and when a person goes through a lot, the individual can learn a lot which can make the person judgemental but being judgemental is not a bad thing. People need to be judged especially when operating in destructive energy like being a alcoholic and driving. People like that need to know it's wrong because innocent people can get hurt. We can naturally be a judge without being a judge in the court room. If not, we are responsible for not helping when we gain life skills we can use it to help someone without even needing a degree for this..

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  19 дней назад

      Indeed indeed

    • @timharris1675
      @timharris1675 18 дней назад +3

      I don't call it judgment. It's just discernment.

    • @MaaDurga-tu8xq
      @MaaDurga-tu8xq 17 дней назад

      @@timharris1675 use Google dictionary, judgement and discernment is the same thing..

  • @lilas1999
    @lilas1999 22 дня назад +2

    We only are "hyper"sensitive in comparison to those who have little to no sensitivity.🇧🇷

  • @jessicaduncan4647
    @jessicaduncan4647 7 дней назад +2

    You articulated this beautiful 🎉 Thank you for putting words on such a difficult journey... walking a healthy life path as an empath!!! Inspiring ❤

  • @samgoldfinger8744
    @samgoldfinger8744 19 дней назад +2

    I am an empath and sometimes I used to wish I wasn’t due to negative energies from others who may be people I do not want to be around I am not arrogant but will speak up a lot more than I used to and sometimes feel I need to speak up more I protect myself accordingly against psychic attack and negativity. I have been told I am a martyr but I’m far from that I’m very sensitive to negative energies and sometimes I am not very trusting as I know when someone is not genuine or sincere I can read a room or person quite well and I’m very caring and do not like injustice
    Thankyou this was informative and made a lot of sense

  • @reginalddrummers4gh349
    @reginalddrummers4gh349 22 дня назад +1

    I've just found your channel and I feel like I'm finally getting confirmation for the lifelong struggles I've faced, while feeling and knowing a person before they reveal their true nature.(NARCISSISTIC ) ..and by then , It's time wasted, I KICK MYSELF , BECAUSE I KNOW IT. I'M LEARNING A LOT THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

  • @Iriebobo78
    @Iriebobo78 25 дней назад +17

    I'm always judging but not judging if that makes sense🫡✌️🏾🫶🏾👊🏾

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  25 дней назад +8

      Evaluating

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe 25 дней назад +6

      It does make sense, because it is called judging when you look at someone's behavior like e.g. someone torturing an animal, and also wanting to stop that person torturing that animal.
      it's judging when someone dresses the uniform of what should be a defender of the good cause but instead is whoring around.

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe 24 дня назад +7

      Discerning*
      Yes, I do that as well.

    • @angelagoodwin5758
      @angelagoodwin5758 23 дня назад +1

      Discernment is a good quality to cultivate.

  • @wisethescholar5779
    @wisethescholar5779 19 дней назад +1

    I myself am I Sigma Empath and it's rare to find this combination in character as well as hearing a discussion about it. Add on Sapiosexuality to being a sigma empath and we are leaders and healers that truly stand out.

  • @and93077
    @and93077 12 дней назад +1

    I’m in the uk and went to a wedding abroad. My daughters had the exact same dress on as the bridesmaids!😂Co-incidences like this happen about twice a week. I don’t think of myself as an empath.

  • @joseenoel8093
    @joseenoel8093 22 дня назад +1

    Better believe it, I'm judgemental as to not pass along my short comings and disappointments to othersand arrogant to make light/have a laugh, bring light into darkness and that takes energie!

  • @JeremyHopkins-gy7ji
    @JeremyHopkins-gy7ji 11 дней назад +1

    When they know and speak it comes off as a know it all and arrogant depends on how people see your gift.

  • @cherylgibbons4574
    @cherylgibbons4574 19 дней назад +1

    Thankyou Vital, so very helpful. I’m starting to realise that peoples sometimes wariness of me is because of the light and perceptions that is a part of me. I can see who they are and their dark places are lit and they feel more comfortable with those who indulge in the dark places. I am starting to feel not so alone but complete because in reality I am, this I accept with the utmost humility. We all have that spark of the divine within us, I want to celebrate that in my life. ❤️🤗❤️

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  19 дней назад

      Yes we all have a UNIQUE spark... please do celebrate YOUR spark.

  • @logical-perspectiveculture2695
    @logical-perspectiveculture2695 20 дней назад +1

    He dissceted this down to the T. This is the type of stuff I go threw and nobody discusses this mess.

  • @colorfulsin
    @colorfulsin 25 дней назад +5

    I’m new to the channel, amazing content 👍

  • @dalidzucheredi2495
    @dalidzucheredi2495 20 дней назад +1

    It's just that narcissistic folks are never ready for negative feedback

  • @abbakaastralboobaby
    @abbakaastralboobaby 24 дня назад +3

    Perfectly stated... #KeepITGrowingAndFlowing

  • @Remadii
    @Remadii 17 дней назад

    Some see arrogance, some see confidence, they all see the truth

  • @willowsoul3
    @willowsoul3 19 дней назад +1

    Yes, we are …. Because we can see and feel things others do not understand.

  • @user-mj2yj3fy2s
    @user-mj2yj3fy2s 21 день назад +2

    "use it to make the world a better place "

  • @darlashaw1061
    @darlashaw1061 17 дней назад

    Thank you SO much for the clarification!

  • @KimberlyBarfield
    @KimberlyBarfield 20 дней назад

    I'm a beautiful Empath and brother you are absolutely right...and yes I've learned to own it and stop saying your bugging out. But nah I have learned who I am and I always Own it and Respect it. Shout out to my Empaths. Thank You My Brother Peace and 💕

  • @jacquelineallen8577
    @jacquelineallen8577 23 дня назад +1

    I'm an empath , I appreciate you because I'm learning so much that I didn't no . I don't have a high level of education but I understand what you are saying. I have suffered since childhood an now your videos are helping me 🤍✨🕊️.

  • @TheSoulsCenter
    @TheSoulsCenter 24 дня назад +3

    Thank you for this. It is very timely for me and I appreciated it!

  • @ctrichequeen1
    @ctrichequeen1 22 дня назад +2

    We are Gifts from Gods heart.

  • @Indiasmission
    @Indiasmission 24 дня назад +3

    New subscriber!!!!! 😇😇😇😇 May God continue to bless you brother!!!! 😇😇😇😇♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @BigSeppiWen
    @BigSeppiWen 16 дней назад +1

    The school for hypervigilance is being a child whose had to develop it with all the difficulties involved with not being wise enough or experienced enough to realize not everyone has that same level of awareness. You don't know why you're different you just are and other people aren't going to let you forget it. I believe the perceived arrogance is rooted in the fact that if you're kind to people long enough, eventually you'll be resented for it. Unfortunately these lessons don't come early in life.

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 24 дня назад +4

    That’s the issues!! Exceeding that of average person! 😢🤦‍♀️. Tired of fake!

  • @sugarfree1894
    @sugarfree1894 21 день назад +1

    Being brought up with a narcissistic parent is Empath School. If the training is thorough enough, it can become Narcissist School. I guess field in which you say empaths excel is less quantifiable than law or carpentry or whatever, and is also extremely tender for most people. Maybe that's why people feel judged when they are told they're lesser, worse or deficient. There's a difference between judgement and discernment.

  • @6Karina6Kaos6
    @6Karina6Kaos6 17 дней назад

    Yeah. Assuming you can feel the weight of the emotions, its perfectly ok to be picky about how much bad energy you'll expose yourself too without losing yourself.

  • @user-ml6dk8sk4e
    @user-ml6dk8sk4e 22 дня назад +1

    For the most part ,NO ! But not say some narcissist egotistical people aren’t empathetic also ! My husband (we were married 60years) was a narcissist egotistical man but he was also empathetic too! More narcissist non violent! And the same goes for the EMPATHETIC PERSON also ! My daughter is a bit of both too ! We are learning more about the human being everyday ! We don’t fit into one slot we are a faceted creature as are all animals ! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @THT01
    @THT01 24 дня назад +2

    I enjoy learning. Thanks.

  • @anthonydileonardo8156
    @anthonydileonardo8156 24 дня назад +3

    I've gone thrpugh life suffering fools and hoods and junkies ...etc...and when I avoid at all costs, I was branded a weirdo or an a-hole...but now, I don't regret it ...at all

  • @user-ov9qz6cu2o
    @user-ov9qz6cu2o 19 дней назад +1

    You have help me so much 😢 ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @juliemayhwang4469
    @juliemayhwang4469 24 дня назад +2

    only to those who are were first. Truly!!!!

  • @derekthomas8529
    @derekthomas8529 19 дней назад +1

    Right ... No Need to Boast or rather , Bragg ( contour dynamic ) ... as to Advancing and Accelerating Defense Mechanisms ...
    HVAC = Hyper Vigilance and Cautiousness ...
    Keeping Cool ... may Involve , turning down the Heat ... In Hells Kitschy Henceforth ... Kitchen which is Kitsch Hens ...
    🦷🦷🦷🦷

  • @StephenGrew
    @StephenGrew 23 дня назад +1

    Yes I'm an empath also. And I have other talents. And I have for the second time around, severed all ties with a family member in the last few days and I'm not going back this time. For me everything you have shared resonates and thank you.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  23 дня назад

      👏👏👏

    • @StephenGrew
      @StephenGrew 22 дня назад

      ruclips.net/video/4g_ENOwtwyY/видео.htmlsi=us0Nz0RbsHm5w7JF

  • @definitelydaphne777
    @definitelydaphne777 23 дня назад

    ❤ Thank You 🙏

  • @NineEleven9-11
    @NineEleven9-11 21 день назад

    THANKS

  • @alchemicalsoul
    @alchemicalsoul 18 дней назад +2

    An empath is another word for covert narcissist or borderline. In most instances, likely neurodivergent. Even using the word highlights that. It's in many aspects a trauma response. ALL souls using the human body have these abilities. There is nothing special about us as individuals. To even ask the question of whether you're arrogant means you know you are. Trust, I was there before my awakening.
    The challenge is you as a sage have achieved a level of awareness and ascension, but the people who follow you have not. They remain unconscious to their maladaptive ways and will only find through their own ego death that they still have much work to do in processing trauma. Their hypersensitivity is their stumbling block until they understand how it was developed. We are our own healers.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  18 дней назад

      You bring up some points i agree with and some in don’t. Thank you for sharing.

  • @marvanewborn2287
    @marvanewborn2287 19 дней назад +2

    😏 IT JUST MEANS, "WE 👀 YOU!!"

    • @susannelson1117
      @susannelson1117 17 дней назад

      😂 and they know it - we don’t drink the kook aid and we don’t buy the BS.

  • @claudiamanta1943
    @claudiamanta1943 22 дня назад +1

    Being emotionally perceptive (‘an empath’) is likely a combination of many things. What one does with it is a separate matter. Being sensitive doesn’t necessarily mean that one acts morally or even appropriately. The difference between this individual set and the norm can be so great that it can be a very unpleasant experience. I, for one, am so tired that I have decided to give up on it. I just want to be left alone. Yes, I am a quitter, but it’s my life and I resent people telling me what is best for me. As they don’t like me patronising them, so I don’t like to be told what to do with my life. It is extremely annoying, infuriating, and depressing. Essentially, I’m not a rude person, but I must tell them to fuck off. Back off! It is my life. Just fuck off, everybody. Fuck off, please.

  • @cesramm1120
    @cesramm1120 20 дней назад +1

    Just because you can point things out in people easily doesn't mean your mean

  • @penuelyahucodiyah.4678
    @penuelyahucodiyah.4678 21 день назад

    Realistic video ❤

  • @AzticAztin
    @AzticAztin 24 дня назад +1

    I am a super dark empath,
    I project an aura of quiet superiority, and help others by showing them true fear (themselves), and give them the tools to destroy their fear (themselves), ending up being a villain in their narratives sometimes

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 24 дня назад +2

    Maybe a little judgements but many times we need to be especially when you’re dating Fine Line between arrogance and confidence

  • @ThankfullyBlessed777
    @ThankfullyBlessed777 20 дней назад +2

    We are Bullshit Detector's , FACTS

  • @1MNUTZ
    @1MNUTZ 18 дней назад

    The empath superpower isn't or cannot be measured in material success terms but can only be valued in metaphysical ways like shining light into the darkness within others. This becomes draining to the empath when the person you attempt to shine light on only uses that light to keep their darkness going.

  • @newworldlove7031
    @newworldlove7031 21 день назад +1

    I know my worth, if someone has an issue ok I'm arrigont!!

  • @deborahriley1166
    @deborahriley1166 17 дней назад

    I have been wondering if I have the tendency towards narcissistic behavior.
    I deal with a narcissist martyr and I have been observing myself.
    I definitely am not a narcissist, however people who suffered childhood trauma can have some tendencies that appear that way.
    So im being very careful and aware of what I say and do.
    🙏☯️🙏

  • @starrleo12
    @starrleo12 18 дней назад +1

    Correct!I will call them out on everything,and alot ofpple dont like me but idc!On top of this ,Im Leo!So it more worse ,ion have tome for games !

  • @YuliaNoer
    @YuliaNoer 24 дня назад +3

    Honestly I will say Yes.....

  • @annebos4634
    @annebos4634 19 дней назад

    Many narcs believe themselves to be empaths... As they are very sensitive, just not to the feeling and wellbeing of their kinds. That would explain it. But I haven't watched the video yet.

  • @sylviabradford7926
    @sylviabradford7926 21 день назад

    I also believe God has given empaths this gift for a good reason. Ask how to understand and use it.

  • @bcharles-ms9hv
    @bcharles-ms9hv 24 дня назад +1

    It’s a double edged personality trait and maybe just an emotional trauma drama from childhood? I’m a bullied abused person who became very dark. It’s not an always a gift. Helpful videos and advice

  • @FaithJoneschannel
    @FaithJoneschannel 20 дней назад

    I get accused of being judgemental all the time 😅

  • @charlotteburton9483
    @charlotteburton9483 23 дня назад

    It may seem like it to others, personally myself I see and feel in black and white, I leave gray areas to God

  • @JOEYDEEZ369
    @JOEYDEEZ369 22 дня назад +2

    No fam they are nether arrogant nor judgmental but they are hilariously funny and somewhat brutally honest… they say how they feel and ask for what they want… straight up and direct cos passive aggression plays no part in their character or personality.. and yes..,this can often be misunderstood as judgmental and or arrogance but I assure you this is a wholly wrong observation… Empaths work for the betterment of society / the World and they do so by helping others discover the core value of themselves… they are here to teach love and compassion and it’s totally and truly a selfless mission they take on because they believe in humanity and their biggest and only wish is to make this world that we all share a more harmoniously peaceful one for all sentient beings… Empaths each have their own unique way on achieving this thankless task… they do this light work because that’s what they were programmed to do and they are all super awesome on how they go about enforcing change for the most part… yes.. some are a tad unconventional but as long as they achieve their objective then where’s the harm… they’re about all things ‘love’ related and I would certainly thank them all for being so kind.. humble… thoughtful and graceful… yep.. they’re all those things and more besides.. and that’s a fact !!
    There you go Mr V… that’s my sacred opinion on this mind baffling topic of conversation…
    You’re welcome…
    Cheers & Ciao ;)’

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  22 дня назад +1

      WORD!

    • @JOEYDEEZ369
      @JOEYDEEZ369 22 дня назад

      @@VitalMGermaine The bird is the hahah…. Thanks for your reply Mr V… it’s much appreciated bud ;)’

  • @Therubbersluggchannel
    @Therubbersluggchannel 25 дней назад +2

    As a Heyoka i agree.

  • @gretchenburton7184
    @gretchenburton7184 21 день назад

    No sound...

  • @Johns.Insight
    @Johns.Insight 20 дней назад

    💯

  • @vusimayhem7003
    @vusimayhem7003 21 день назад

    To my experience they will say you're arrogant or judgmental when you don't want to do things how they want you to(controlling type)..especilly useless stuff..

  • @marcellowoodford4048
    @marcellowoodford4048 20 дней назад +1

    Fuck this U tube for Not Allowing my Previous attempts at typing my respons e-Very Bad! x M

  • @mermaidme25
    @mermaidme25 20 дней назад +1

    We read body language. They don't like this

  • @jennifersmykala1108
    @jennifersmykala1108 16 дней назад +1

  • @elizabethfraser2996
    @elizabethfraser2996 22 дня назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @BrendaTyner-kh1tm
    @BrendaTyner-kh1tm 21 день назад

    I do own it

  • @laurynorder3965
    @laurynorder3965 19 дней назад +1

    No. Have a great day

  • @Joshdifferent
    @Joshdifferent 20 дней назад

    💯🗣️❤️

  • @juliemayhwang4469
    @juliemayhwang4469 24 дня назад +2

    & maybe misdirection, whoops!

  • @robbinhenry8726
    @robbinhenry8726 21 день назад

    Can't we be an empath without broadcasting that we are an empath?

  • @Shalom388
    @Shalom388 23 дня назад

    The Bible says to judge to protect yourself.. John:7:24

  • @worldsyoursent.1635
    @worldsyoursent.1635 18 дней назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥🙏🙏💚

  • @sushmasinha8054
    @sushmasinha8054 14 дней назад +1

    No, empath are humble,that’s why people take advantage 😢

  • @AuraAngelofTruth
    @AuraAngelofTruth 19 дней назад +3

    People don't know what they are talking about and please stay in your lane this is not one...