Why do WOMEN have a hard time being OBEDIENT? X Love and Respect Podcast

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
  • #relationships #genderroles #rakimnotthem

Комментарии • 11

  • @dravenlee1829
    @dravenlee1829 5 месяцев назад +1

    This hits on what I was just saying the other day 💯. If he makes a decision on what’s going to happen, I can trust him. Sometimes the woman doesn’t know everything that’s going on and he doesn’t have time at that moment to explain every detail and do that whole back & forth mess. Trust that you chose the right man by trusting him & his decisions fully. If the woman is being fully authentic then her husband knows her and is already taking her views/thoughts/feelings into account where there is room for it.

  • @OctaviaMonique2
    @OctaviaMonique2 5 месяцев назад +1

    This is a good conversation. I grew up around a lot of strong minded and opinionated women. And it’s safe to say in most if not all of their relationships (marriages) there is a power struggle. I have learned over the years and have recently just understood that agreeing to disagree doesn’t always work or warranted. Understanding is key. I want to be able to trust whoever I choose to lead me with no doubt or uncertainty. There’s no teamwork or relationship without it! Thanks for sharing Ra will be tuning into more.

  • @msbabyd
    @msbabyd 5 месяцев назад +2

    I have no problem being submissive to my king. A woman should have enough faith and trust in a man/ husband to lead. If not then we have no business being together in the first place period. First mistake ladies.... You guys are bringing that heat🔥🔥🔥sheeshhh!!

    • @Rakimnotthem123
      @Rakimnotthem123  5 месяцев назад

      🫶🏾

    • @HeyyitzSteph
      @HeyyitzSteph 5 месяцев назад

      I trust my man to the fullest. It doesn’t mean that I’m going to sit back, watch and allow him to make an incorrect decision because he is the head of our relationship. The mistake is NOT speaking up when you know something is wrong. It doesn’t mean it’s an argument because you and your man should be able to talk about whatever without argument, at least me and mine do. In my opinion, the man is the leader, the woman is the strength. When things aren’t going great, who do they depend on being there? Their woman. Again, just my opinion though.

  • @HeyyitzSteph
    @HeyyitzSteph 5 месяцев назад +2

    I think the term “obedient” makes it different. Even though being submissive is basically the same thing, it’s how “obedient” is used. A healthy debate is ok. A man can be wrong as well, the view should be able to come from both sides. Because my way may just be better than his. I’ll accept most but not all because my opinion will matter too. He could be leading me to west hell, doesn’t mean I’m gonna go.

  • @shood96
    @shood96 5 месяцев назад +3

    Its about trust with women. If she doesn't trust the leadership of a man she will struggle to submit. Took me years to trust him and when I did it was no longer a problem to submit. I was able to put my guard down and be the support, respect and nurturer that he needed and not try to always take the lead. Submission should not feel like you less than or do not have say so. Just means that I trust he is the leader and provider. Shortcake75😊