In my 40s, I've learned that it's perfectly okay not to be liked by everyone, and even if someone hates me for whatever reason, it's not my business and problem.
@nahjacutler Thank you for this comment. I’ve heard this before but something about the way you phrased this just clicked right now. It’s like I get it now and I literally feel free from the need to be liked by others.
I started a new job this week. I'm 39 and the HR lady seemed to go through everything too quickly... I started questioning my personality and character when I had that thought. No matter how nice or polite I am, some people won't like me and they don't have to.
1. I dont show up if I don't feel pretty and put together 2. Embrace the change (body and life) 3. Marriage is easy (you make the decision) 4. My time is my most valuable asset. 5. Self acceptance ( just be yourself) 6. ?? Learn something you didnt learn before 7. Quality over quantity 8. Setting priorities/boundaries (increased my inner peace) 9. Health is my greatest priority. 10. My purpose and passion drive my fulfillment.
Girl when I turned 50 I stopped caring about what people say or think about me. I wear what I want say what I want and do what I want. I am 57 now and I'm loving on me. I so appreciate you and the content you put out keep it coming I'm here for it.
Is it really that late though? At 33 you still have been a child for longer than you’ve been an adult. We put all this pressure on ourselves to be instantly good at adulting once we’ve reached our 30s like we’ve been here all our lives. At 33 you’re still relatively new to being an adult. Plus many of us were not nurtured as children in healthy environments that would encourage us to thrive in adulthood. It’s okay to give yourself time and grace ❤
I’m 30 and I’m learning to pour all the love I wanted to give out in my 20s back into myself, fill me up first and then give only to those who are able to reciprocate. I spent so much time looking outward, I just want to have fun be authentic, collect my coins, travel, love and live. So far so good 😊. Thank you for sharing!
Dating is NOT hard when your intentions are clear and are unwavering in your vision. If you are happy with YOU, NOTHING is hard. I've learned that this year...I turned 45 recently. 😉
Yes and when you know what you want, how you want to feel and how you want to be treated you can easily get rid of whatever and whomever doesn’t align🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Although we are a little late to starting, it's the perfect reason why we have to double down on self care. Our temples deserve the best so they can sustain us ❤️🫶🏾❤️
I’m 35. I’m finally content and have acceptance for the first time in my life. With that I’ve gained a sense of peace and happiness from it. That has attracted more people than I ever have in my life… I finally love me. And that’s feels so damn good
@@TharaMesseroux1just learning to accept what I see in the mirror. To stop focusing on my flaws because we all have them. Praying for acceptance of self. Not worrying about the next chick. Not focusing on a relationship. It takes work and time on self reflection.
At 47, I just learned to value my time. I always felt like I had to spend hours on the phone talking to my friends in order to keep them. I now talk only if I have free time/ my chores and whatever else is done first.
This comment here! I hate feeling like I wasted hours not talking about anything. And half the time the person that your talking to is watching tv or has something else going on. Also, I’m so tired of forcing myself to go out when I don’t feel/look my best. I never go out with the hopes of meeting someone (looking for love) but who will approach you when they pick up on the energy that comes along with not feeling your best.
@@DoubleA-ou7pj wow I can relate so well. As stated in the video, we don’t get that time back. It makes me feel so childish to let hours go by being unproductive.
I'm 32, and it's refreshing to see advice for people my age because most of the advice you see is for people in their 20s. This made me feel like it was too late to shift my life around because, according to those videos and articles, I should have gotten my life together in my 20s. So I thank you. PS I love the clip-ins, and the color is gorgeous!
Girl, just consider me as your big sister. You are not too late. It's your time sis. This is your moment. You have plans and goals. It's time to activate. I am rooting for you babe. You got this 💕 Ps. I flipped my hair while reading your compliment. Thanks babe😍
Awww, congratulations on your braces. Girllll, let me tell you... they are not comfortable at all... but it doesn't last forever. Just get ready for a lot of smoothies your first few weeks 😋
Congratulations with your decision girl ! I decided to have invisaligns at 50 and in May this year I finished the treatment (now I am 52). I am so happy I did it ! Now I look at myself in the mirror and I see a beautiful row of perfectly aligned teeth and it makes me happy every day and makes me enjoy smiling a lot more 🥰
My favourite big Sis, I'm 39 this year, I have no anxiety about turning 40 next year, watching 40+ women like yourself, I know my life is about to get even better!! If I work on something, results will eventually come, love you Sis💞
You said something so important...if you work on something, change will happen. This applies to anything. I love your mindset. It's so important to success in anything, including turning 40. Baby, your future is so bright ✨️
Yes. I'll be 44 soon I feel like I wasted my 20s and 30s because I was male identified and wanted to be loved. I'm learning to love myself and set boundaries. I'm freeing myself from other people opinions and worry about how I feel ❤
Yes honey... step into your sunshine. I am so proud of you and so happy that you are enjoying every moment of your glow up journey. Cultivating boundaries is a daily decision and the most freeing feeling there is. I am rooting for you sis💕
I can relate. I feel like I wasted my 20s focusing on men and I regret it. I wish I focused on myself and my dreams instead. I am not making that same mistake in my 30s.
That’s fantastic, you wasted your 20s and 30s and now you’re sealing the deal by ensuring you have a miserable next few decades as well. Hint: you’ve identified the wrong issue
Turned 40 last month and the boundaries and health hit home! I too have started thinking about how many more years i have left on this earth and refuse to spend it being unhealthy and wasting on people and things that don’t appreciate me or my time. I still feel bad sometimes for saying no but ultimately feel better in the end because it was a no that I needed for my peace! Here's to reinventing a new me at 40!!
The title of this video alone made me click to watch immediately. I'll be 40 in a couple of months and I literally just sat and talked to God and said Jesus what did I do with my 20s and 30s. I worked kept procrastinating going back to school didn't build my credit etc etc. I sat and cried telling myself you should have a paid off house and car by now money in the bank for retirement a loving relationship etc etc. After a good hug and cry I got off my butt to start doing the work cause I owe myself the life I've always dreamed.
Faith without works is dead🤷🏾♀️. God had placed a dream in your heart and fire in your belly. You can do this. You've not wasted time, the time is NOW. I am rooting for you sis 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾
I'm 54 and I have lost both my parents and quite a few friends. I totally agree that we have make our own health a priority. If we don't take care of ourselves how can we show up for others.
I lost my Dad 3 months ago and girl, it's so hard. I am speaking from a place of grief when I say how important our health is. Its so important and we dont live forever so enjoying each and every day is a must. I am sending you love sis💕
I just turned 40 this summer and I'm excited. I also feel like I wasted my 30's but in my 40's I will change that. I'm closing doors and becoming who I'm supposed to be.
Loved your video! Ladies its never late to change up your life for the better. I turned 40 this year and in the process of joining the Navy Reserves. I take the ASVAB and medical exam next week. I'm so excited. Wish me luck!
Turning 30 this year and I didn't do things in my 20s that my peers did. Like traveling, partying, going out, living their best lives. I was delayed for a while and now in my 30s, I hope to start living. I had FOMO and still do, hopefully my life will change for the better
Listen sis... as your new big sister its time for your glow up. There is nothing wrong with starting later than others. It's your time now. I am going to love watching your glow up journey. It's time to shine sis⭐
At 43, I couldn't agree more in saying that my 40's have thus far been the best years of my life! 🙌🏾 I have finally accepted who I am and have learned to prioritize myself in order to work on the things that I would like to improve about myself..for MYSELF.
I’m here for the 40 something bits, cause I chuckle at the 20 and 30 something’s talking about “starting over”. Baby… yall ain’t even STARTED YET! Slow down… life is coming… don’t rush it!
I appreciate you I’m 41 and I’m the youngest of all my friends and they don’t talk about getting older .. Thanks girly you’re definitely giving big sister energy ❤🥰
As a 37 year old woman I'm so excited for my 40s and to embrace every single bit of it. I use to say the total opposite in my 20s. But I'm so happy with who I am today ❤
Yes! I'm turning 40 soon and am SOOO excited! I "started over" at 37 met my forever person and had our son at 38 and these have been the best 2 years of my life (I recently even started a RUclips channel documenting my motherhood journey- something I NEVER though myself capable of). After spending my 20s going through the stress of obtaining my PhD and early 30s proving myself in academia with long hours, publications, conferences in a toxic marriage I was a shell of myself. 40s HERE I COME!!!!
I'm 27 and I'm checking in to class! I honestly cant thank my mother enough for all that she has taught me, I am seriously blessed to have her and my youtube aunts to learn from. Thank you for your advice, i always take what i need and leave what doesnt align with me but for the most part i find it valuable to listen to different experiences and perspectives. I have a lot to do in this life and i already thought i was late or the time had past but im really getting myself back up
Awww, you are so welcome. I love being your auntie sis, putting you on so you can learn from my mistakes and experiences and don't have to make your own 🫶🏾💕🫶🏾
Ma’am thank you for this video! I just turned 30 this year 2024 and I’m so happy RUclips recommended this video to me. Everything is geared to the 20s girlies, but I’m glad I found your channel in the right time.❤❤❤
This came on ny feed right on time! Im 40 and recently married and soooo glad i waited for the person who loved me into rethinking my choice on marriage ❤
Yesss, I love this for you sis. It's scary to marry the wrong person, typically for the wrong reasons. Waiting on God and listening to wisdom around you helps lead you to the partner God has intended for your life ❤️
I am glad to hear your point number 1 I started that at 32 and I intend to do forever. I will be 35 next month and this year I have been working hard when it comes to boundaries. Thank you for sharing
Happy early BDay sis 🎂 what I learned about boundaries is it's a never ending. Small things will arise in life and you will realize... yep, I don't like that and up forms a boundary. I'm rooting for you sis 💕
Omg I loved this video! I just entered my 30s and this advice was so needed as a woman in my next phase of life as a newly married woman and doctor. You give me feeling of when I use to watch the beautiful OG youtubers! So happy to have just subscribed! ❤
Congratulations on the new nuptials sis. I LOVE being married. You are headed into the best years of your life. Happiness is a choice love. Choose to love you and your man every day. Just consider me your big sister... I got you sis 💕
You are so gentle with yourself … I’m definitely going to implement “I’m good at a lot of things and this might not be one of them, but I’m having fun” into my self talk. Thank you for this video.
It doesn't come naturally but I learned that my negative self talk had broken my spirit. I love affirming my actions and decisions. It's another level of self love. I'm rooting for you sis 👏🏾 💕 🫶🏾
the health part hit home for me just got diabetes and I knew for years I had to be careful and now I am praying I can reverse it and get back on track. About to turn 44 and health is becoming my number one concern
I was pre diabetic so I am speaking from a place of complete understanding. Our bodies are our biggest responsibility sis. I am so proud of you for creating a reversal plan. It's completely possible. I'm rooting for you 💕🙏🏾💕
So happy you said marriage is easy!!! I get triggered when people say it's so hard. Not for everyone. I've even had an old friend ask if my husband and I even argue? 😅
Girl, it's so sad how society has villainized marriage. Nobody says anything bad about having a baby or adopting a pet, but marrying the person who makes you happy is the hardest part of your adult life? I don't buy it. I feel like it's a lie from the enemy to keep us unmarried and unhappy. I clearly need to make a video on this topic cause I clearly have a soap box
I’m not in my 40s but I’m in my late 30s.. however, I love this and will definitely take it to heart. Also, there is a black owned beauty brand called Naché Cosmetics and she has beautiful lip colors , including a seductive red shade that I think would look beautiful on you! God bless! And thank you for your transparency and vulnerability!
My husband and I believe the same thing. Marriage is not HARD work. But we are two people that outdo each other in love and see the spouse as the bestest friend in the whole world.
Yessss! I love this so much for you guys. It's so important to share this with other couples... together we can change mindsets and marriage mentalities ❤
Still trying to figure it out at 46...had a tragic loss that broke me and now I'm trying to rebuild and relearn who I am. Thank you so much for this video.❤
I am so so sorry for your loss. I completely understand how these moments can use you to feel broken but every day of life is another chance to choose to heal, to choose joy, to choose to forgive. I am praying for you love. There are better days ahead💕
It's so much change but I love being in my 40s and started therapy because I needed help. Dating is so awful in my 40s. Find that one person is so tough.
Yesss sis for starting therapy. When you find your person you will be emotionally ready. I know dating sucks but keep your heart open. God has plans for you sis ❤️
This is the big sister talk I never knew I needed, I was so engaged in the video nice to know I’m on track cause sometimes I think I’m alone, also you have such an infectious smile 😊 have a good day!
Awww, you are so welcome little sis. I love putting you on so you can skip to the good part. This life is amazing and you deserve to have all good day ❤️🫶🏾❤️
I am 33 and I have been listening to older women,I do not care what people think about me,I love fashion for me,i care about my children and my health.
Thank you so much for this video and your content, I’m 36 and I’m determined in becoming the best version of myself. I actually made a post the other day saying that there isn’t much RUclipsrs who are in their 40s or 50s that’s giving advice to use girlies who’s positive. A lot of the ones I’ve come across sounds miserable, and makes it seem like if you don’t do it in your 20s or early 30s that’s it! Like girl let me be optimistic! Let me be delusional! Because God plans is in another level!!! Thank you for giving me that little hope of girl it’s not too late, it’s ok, and that I got it! Much appreciated😘😊🤗
Girl, I used to feel the same way but as I started approaching my 40s my whole life started to change. I am so optimistic. Life and God have been so good to us girl, we can't complain about anything. I CHOOSE to live the best day ever every day! I am so glad you now have a big sister in me 😘💕
I absolutely love your attitude and advise. You give me new perspective every time I watch one of your videos. I didn't learn until my 50's about the value of my time, and self acceptance. Thank you for the enlightenment.
Wow, you are so welcome love. My passion is helping women realize their full potential and reinvent themselves. Thank you for your support. It means everything to me ❤️
Girl I'm with you on not knowing a great deal about hair. I couldn't do my own hair to save my life😊 I really loved finding your RUclips channel and you've got yourself a new subbie.
Baby, listen... I thought I could do it, and it quickly got away from me 🤣 I should have recorded me cutting this hair. Girllllll it was a disaster 😬 this proves that it's less about how you start but more about how you finish 🤷🏾♀️❤️
I’m 37 and the body change….. my body weight distributes differently! It’s crazy but I’ve learned to embrace it and maintain a healthy diet and eating schedule. Loving my 30’s
I just came across this video cos of the description and I want to say a big THANK YOU. I am 33 now, and i al just now starting to show up for myself, and everything you have outlined are very important. Thank you
Honestly, you’re very on point! When my hair is not done I’m off. Period! So for me I love just making myself looked dolled up! I have to work on casual clothing, but I loveee dressing up for events and work. You’re on point queen!
28 here and I’m in a rut. I’ve been questioning the quality of my life i.e. my relationships, career and health. I decided to stop focusing on others and stop diminishing myself to make others feel comfortable - that’s not my responsibility. I am the designer of my own life. Thanks for this video! ☺️❤️
I’m in my 30s and I felt this! You are amazing and I too lost my father and after losing him I lost what the knowledge of what was important to me. Life is truly a gift and our health is super important mentally and physically. Thank you for these reminders
I'm so sorry for loss sis. I hate for anyone to experience the pain of lossing a Dad 😢. I'm so glad you enjoyed this video and that we are connected sis 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾
Aligned content..... I've been feeling a way as I am currently 37 and at the midlife crisis stage. Defo wasted my 20's and now 30s following close behind. I'm ready to be my authentic self and go get what I'm worth. Sitting in my talents with self doubt/sabotage. I will be saving this to watch when I retire to the couch. Thanking you for this kind of content🙏🏽
I think it was destined for me to hear this video today. I'm not in my 40's yet but I enjoy learning and being in community with other women. I love your energy and confidence. Thank you for authenticity.
I’ve learned that saying communication is important does not always make it easy. It’s always an effort you have to make and decide to communicate in relationships. I’ve also learned and have come to appreciate that therapy is helping me a great deal because I can easily be stuck in my own way. I’ve also learned that doing my morning devotion absolutely centers my spirit. It calms me down and makes me aware of the holy spirits leading. ❤🌸🙏🏾
Since I was in my late 20's, I made a commitment to myself by not caring what other people think of me and not allowing anyone to take advantage of me, and not allowing BS in my life. I've cut off friends and family that serves me zero purpose, I rejecting men who want to waste my time, and I quit my job at a hair salon because I was dealing with racism and sleepless nights. Honestly, I don't feel bed about it at all cause I feel free
Thanks so much for sharing! I'm 38, ready to reinvent myself as I prepare for my 40s. I love all these tips...I plan to continue (and start some so I'll be ready). ❤
Thank you for these gems!❤ I turned 31 this year and I’ve been feeling a shift, so I can resonate with some of these lessons. Your words have definitely put some things in perspective for me and I thank you so much for sharing.
Yess honey, you can have the most amazing life with the right mentality. God's blessings are abundant and new every morning. I'm rooting for you sis 💕 💓💕
At 41 I can totally relate to everything you said. I’m newly divorced and have been on a crazy emotional rollercoaster but I’m learning some crazy lessons and finding myself. Glad this video was recommended. Loved it ❤
Life can pull us up and down but the "ups" are so amazing and last longer. I am glad you found me too sis. I am praying for your emotional healing and personal growth. You got this sis... the best days/years are ahead of you 💕
I will be turning 40 this year! And I agree with everything you said. And my hubby has a gap and if he changed that it would be weird to me. I love his gap. Oh and I am a new sub today. ❤🎉God bless you.
❤ This is just what I needed to hear to start off my workweek. I appreciate you for sharing your knowledge and experiences. I turn 40 in about a year and I am seeing a lot of your statements occurring in my life of faith. The journey God has me on allows me to interact with such amazing individuals as yourself who are living in their purpose. Keep being your God-led, authentic self, living your best life. I’m so here for it, sis!
Thank you so so much love. I hope you have had the most amazing week so far and that you still feel motivated and inspired. I'm rooting for you sis 👏🏾 💕 🙌🏾
In my 40’s love this💪🏾 love this positivity🎉 I love the clip ins the length and roots are pretty. But I understand. Definitely doing the things that make me feel good. New to your channel love it
Love these tips. Heavy on the not wasting any more time and being myself. I wasted time in my 20s building others and now I’m building myself so I’ll be ready for my future. Btw I’m keeping my gap too as long as my teeth are healthy.
I’m 31 and I’ve always done whatever I wanted to do since I was a child. It got me into trouble a lot as a young woman but guess what?! I’m the happiest person I know. Everyone around me is stressed out for some reason or the other etc when you live for yourself you have no problems… also certain people can be included in your happiness but be picky !!!
Girl, it's so hard learning lessons late in life, but you are so right... It's all about moving forward! The lesson is learned, and now you don't have to repeat the same mistakes 💯
I looovvveee your planner! TY for creating it, so helpful, helpful like when I almost got in a rut but I opened your planner and got right out of it! God is good!😙💕💐💐💐
Love this so much!✨❤️ I am turning 40 this year and I have been embracing me more and more it’s truly beautiful. Self love and self awareness is the best love ❤🥰
This just popped up in my feed and I love your outlook! Also, can’t believe you are in your forties 😮 I just turned 38 and the last few years I’ve really been starting to love myself and out myself first after sooo long being preoccupied with other people’s opinions. Looking forward to turning 40 ❤️
I am so glad I just came across your channel sis!! I’m 26, still a baby…but I am so eager to learn from the sisters who have wisdom to share. Your valuing freedom really resonated with me; I’m being as intentional as possible about saving, investing and generating income as I can so that I can benefit from those choices in the future. Thank you so much for this video. You look beautiful.
Girl this post was so relatable because I am looking back on my 20's and early 30's and I wish I could turn time around but I try not to have regrets just lessons but it do make me sad about some of my decisions. You look great by the way!!!♥ if you are in your 40's
44yr old single woman here, that has Allowed Sooo My Much BS‼️ I Always reflect, and start with saying...How or Why did I ALLOW this or That! Im learning to give myself GRACE! AnyWho,... Embracing It All!! 🫶🏿
Ohhh, I love this so much because their are so things we have allowed to happen because we want to be accepted, liked, and loved. But baby, when your heart wakes up so stop excusing poor behavior. Yess honey, I'm rooting for you 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾
I'm turning 40 this year Lord willing. I have just been extremely grateful for life health and family. This video resonated with me and I thank you. 🙏🏾
I soo needed this today! I’ve not seen my girl friends for a while. Just life getting in the way, I’m single, no kids (dog tho lol) but I came across your vid/ post/ channel?? I’m sorry I’m 45 and have no idea what these things are. Anyway you made me go put on tunes, dye my hair and feel a bit more me. I found my first grey eyebrow hair today so I saw this as a sign I definitely need to follow you..Thank you gorgeous xx
Wow sis. I will be keep you lifted in my prayers, sincerely. We are a sisterhood. I'm so glad we are connected and you are enjoying my videos 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾... I'm rooting for you love
Hey! New follower here❤ I appreciate your content. I'm 33, and I have been married to my H.S. sweetheart for 7 years, and a business owner. I can attest to all things shared in this video as I have been going through the motions of rediscovering me. I appreciate your courage for taking time out to share your experiences and wisdom. I've been journaling (something serious ) reading, listening to podcasts, praying, working out, and just trying to find my way. It's been such a liberating journey. I'm certainly anticipating the rebirth🦋 Thanks again, sis❤
I just recently turned 35 last month. I'm still a work in process. What I'm learning is stop putting off what I said I wanted to learn such a multiple languages. I am also transitioning into IT. I see so many young people who are killing it in tech industry and it can be a bit intimidating because you feel so far behind. Just stay focused, mind your business, take care of yourself and everything will fall into place. If you want to give yourself a deadline, that's ok as well. I hope to have everything aligned by the time I hit 40. All the best ladies. 🙏🏾
I started my first tech company at 40. Now it's powered by Google, and im 42. It's completely possible, love. You are not too late. God's timing is always right. Your steps are ordered, and it's your time sis.
So glad I ran across this video. I love how u did your hair for the first time doing clip ins, they are so cute and match really good, and you do not even look 40 aging so gracefully.
I must have needed to watch this video. I appreciate this so much Definitely a start of something phenomenal. I’ve been so bummed lately. Ugh you have no idea. Thanks again sis ❤️
I am so glad the algorithm connected us right when you needed it. I hope you're feeling better emotionally. Tap into what's going on sis. Perhaps journal it out to find clarity. I'm rooting for you love ❤️
I just love ur energy and confidence. I love u sis. Keep going. I just turned fourty and I feel like I'm stuck in mommy mode. Plus everything today is too much trying to figure me out in it all is my tangle. While still keeping boundaries and standards in tact for me and my girls. God has me tho.
Getting stuck is Mommy mode, which is easy to do before you know it. Try to schedule some intentional time for you. Date yourself. It might cost you for a sitter, but it's worth it every once in a while, just so you can tap in ✨️ I'm rooting for you sis
I'm 32 and your video just popped up. it was meant for me to see this after the things I've been dealing with! Definitely will be here to learn more from you.
32 and loving this video. Thank you for sharing; I’m feeling some “friction” within this current phase of life and this video was very refreshing! ❤❤❤ new subbie
Omg this video came right on time. I'll be 40 on Monday 10/7. Thanks for making and sharing this video. My 1 year anniversary is next month and you're right. Marriage is wonderful.
Aww, you are so welcome sis. I am just checking in with you to see how your week has been. I pray you are still inspired and working hard on your goals.
In my 40s, I've learned that it's perfectly okay not to be liked by everyone, and even if someone hates me for whatever reason, it's not my business and problem.
Yessss, your mindset is amazing 👏🏾 ❤️🫶🏾
@@thefaceofambition thank you Queen
Yessss siStar ✨
@nahjacutler Thank you for this comment. I’ve heard this before but something about the way you phrased this just clicked right now. It’s like I get it now and I literally feel free from the need to be liked by others.
I started a new job this week. I'm 39 and the HR lady seemed to go through everything too quickly... I started questioning my personality and character when I had that thought. No matter how nice or polite I am, some people won't like me and they don't have to.
1. I dont show up if I don't feel pretty and put together
2. Embrace the change (body and life)
3. Marriage is easy (you make the decision)
4. My time is my most valuable asset.
5. Self acceptance ( just be yourself)
6. ?? Learn something you didnt learn before
7. Quality over quantity
8. Setting priorities/boundaries (increased my inner peace)
9. Health is my greatest priority.
10. My purpose and passion drive my fulfillment.
✅️🫶🏾✅️🫶🏾✅️ yessss honey you got it. I love reading back your list ❤️
Could you could elaborate on what you mean by 3 please, Thank you!😊
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Girl when I turned 50 I stopped caring about what people say or think about me. I wear what I want say what I want and do what I want. I am 57 now and I'm loving on me. I so appreciate you and the content you put out keep it coming I'm here for it.
Yessss 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾You know who you are and live out loud every day. I love this for you ❤️
Me too !! Love it! New subbers! About to enter 40s
Yasss I'm 45 and I share the same sentiments!
Thank you so much for your obedience, I really needed to come across this video. Thank you for the encouragement ❤❤❤
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Finally! Something the newly 30’s club members can learn from instead of everything geared to the 20’s ✨
Yesss honey. I love being the big sis 😘 I'm so glad we are connected 💓
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@@Godfavorsmi Same! I want the tea on the 30s!
Just turned 32!♍️♍️♍️
Yup ❤🎉
I’m 33 and feel like I’m not getting it!! I’m rebuilding and inventing myself now. I feel delayed. But better late than NEVER
It's never to you late. Find your process and be intentional about showing up for yourself every day. You for this sis... I'm rooting for you ❤️🫶🏾❤️
Is it really that late though? At 33 you still have been a child for longer than you’ve been an adult. We put all this pressure on ourselves to be instantly good at adulting once we’ve reached our 30s like we’ve been here all our lives. At 33 you’re still relatively new to being an adult. Plus many of us were not nurtured as children in healthy environments that would encourage us to thrive in adulthood. It’s okay to give yourself time and grace ❤
I’m 33 and I appreciate this comment.❤
Thank you 🥹❤@@nameunknown1519
@@nameunknown1519what about 36? I feel like the 30s is fun but it’s like your young but old at the same time 🙃
I’m 30 and I’m learning to pour all the love I wanted to give out in my 20s back into myself, fill me up first and then give only to those who are able to reciprocate. I spent so much time looking outward, I just want to have fun be authentic, collect my coins, travel, love and live. So far so good 😊. Thank you for sharing!
Yes this. In the same season 🎉❤
I love so much love. You get it. You are your most valuable resource ✨️ once you are full, you can pour from your overflow 🥰❤️🥰
@@thefaceofambition❤ indeed!
@@thefaceofambition❤ indeed!
@@tmr5974yasss 🎉❤
Dating is NOT hard when your intentions are clear and are unwavering in your vision. If you are happy with YOU, NOTHING is hard. I've learned that this year...I turned 45 recently. 😉
Listen honey... you get it. Happiness is a choice. Nothing has to be hard unless you say it is. Glow on sis 💕
Yes and when you know what you want, how you want to feel and how you want to be treated you can easily get rid of whatever and whomever doesn’t align🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Girl I'm 44 and I'm finally starting to understand how important it is to take care of myself. I agree with you. Good video❤
Although we are a little late to starting, it's the perfect reason why we have to double down on self care. Our temples deserve the best so they can sustain us ❤️🫶🏾❤️
I’m 35. I’m finally content and have acceptance for the first time in my life. With that I’ve gained a sense of peace and happiness from it. That has attracted more people than I ever have in my life… I finally love me. And that’s feels so damn good
Yes yes yes sis! I am so proud of you little sis. Protect your peace and shine on 💕
@Diaryofaqueen777 that's so cool! How did you do that? I've been trying to get there myself. May you please help me?
@@TharaMesseroux1just learning to accept what I see in the mirror. To stop focusing on my flaws because we all have them. Praying for acceptance of self. Not worrying about the next chick. Not focusing on a relationship. It takes work and time on self reflection.
At 47, I just learned to value my time. I always felt like I had to spend hours on the phone talking to my friends in order to keep them. I now talk only if I have free time/ my chores and whatever else is done first.
Girl, you will find yourself so far behind in a day and they none the wiser. It's not selfish to prioritize your time. You are a wise woman 💯🫶🏾❤️
This comment here! I hate feeling like I wasted hours not talking about anything. And half the time the person that your talking to is watching tv or has something else going on. Also, I’m so tired of forcing myself to go out when I don’t feel/look my best. I never go out with the hopes of meeting someone (looking for love) but who will approach you when they pick up on the energy that comes along with not feeling your best.
@@doridarling exactly. They are able to get other things done but I can’t. Can’t watch tv or anything because I have to focus on. 😤
@@DoubleA-ou7pj wow I can relate so well. As stated in the video, we don’t get that time back. It makes me feel so childish to let hours go by being unproductive.
That's me at 41 🎉
I'm 32, and it's refreshing to see advice for people my age because most of the advice you see is for people in their 20s. This made me feel like it was too late to shift my life around because, according to those videos and articles, I should have gotten my life together in my 20s. So I thank you.
PS I love the clip-ins, and the color is gorgeous!
Girl, just consider me as your big sister. You are not too late. It's your time sis. This is your moment. You have plans and goals. It's time to activate. I am rooting for you babe. You got this 💕
Ps. I flipped my hair while reading your compliment. Thanks babe😍
I’m getting braces this week at 41 took me sometime to realize wanting to be pretty isn’t me wanting attention it’s so I present my best self always ❤
Congratulations
Awww, congratulations on your braces. Girllll, let me tell you... they are not comfortable at all... but it doesn't last forever. Just get ready for a lot of smoothies your first few weeks 😋
Congratulations with your decision girl ! I decided to have invisaligns at 50 and in May this year I finished the treatment (now I am 52). I am so happy I did it ! Now I look at myself in the mirror and I see a beautiful row of perfectly aligned teeth and it makes me happy every day and makes me enjoy smiling a lot more 🥰
Do it girl, I got mine before my 40th and its the best thing
Me next 🎉❤
My favourite big Sis, I'm 39 this year, I have no anxiety about turning 40 next year, watching 40+ women like yourself, I know my life is about to get even better!! If I work on something, results will eventually come, love you Sis💞
Same, I'll be 40 in October 🤗 I'm ready
You said something so important...if you work on something, change will happen. This applies to anything. I love your mindset. It's so important to success in anything, including turning 40. Baby, your future is so bright ✨️
@@thefaceofambition 💝
Turned 39 this yr too!
39 too ❤. Here’s to 40!
Yes. I'll be 44 soon I feel like I wasted my 20s and 30s because I was male identified and wanted to be loved. I'm learning to love myself and set boundaries. I'm freeing myself from other people opinions and worry about how I feel ❤
Yes honey... step into your sunshine. I am so proud of you and so happy that you are enjoying every moment of your glow up journey. Cultivating boundaries is a daily decision and the most freeing feeling there is. I am rooting for you sis💕
I can relate. I feel like I wasted my 20s focusing on men and I regret it. I wish I focused on myself and my dreams instead. I am not making that same mistake in my 30s.
That’s fantastic, you wasted your 20s and 30s and now you’re sealing the deal by ensuring you have a miserable next few decades as well. Hint: you’ve identified the wrong issue
Me too thank you for your honesty I’m 38 and refuse to lose myself again
Same I’m 36 in had 2 failed relationships I’m focusing on myself
Turned 40 last month and the boundaries and health hit home! I too have started thinking about how many more years i have left on this earth and refuse to spend it being unhealthy and wasting on people and things that don’t appreciate me or my time. I still feel bad sometimes for saying no but ultimately feel better in the end because it was a no that I needed for my peace! Here's to reinventing a new me at 40!!
Yes honey... cheers to reinventing yourself, finding your voice, and loving your boundaries 🍾💕
The title of this video alone made me click to watch immediately. I'll be 40 in a couple of months and I literally just sat and talked to God and said Jesus what did I do with my 20s and 30s. I worked kept procrastinating going back to school didn't build my credit etc etc. I sat and cried telling myself you should have a paid off house and car by now money in the bank for retirement a loving relationship etc etc. After a good hug and cry I got off my butt to start doing the work cause I owe myself the life I've always dreamed.
Faith without works is dead🤷🏾♀️. God had placed a dream in your heart and fire in your belly. You can do this. You've not wasted time, the time is NOW. I am rooting for you sis 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾
I'm 54 and I have lost both my parents and quite a few friends. I totally agree that we have make our own health a priority. If we don't take care of ourselves how can we show up for others.
I lost my Dad 3 months ago and girl, it's so hard. I am speaking from a place of grief when I say how important our health is. Its so important and we dont live forever so enjoying each and every day is a must. I am sending you love sis💕
You look damn good for your age! I'm 36 just getting Grey's. Please tell me your secret so I can age gracefully like you lol
I’m 44 and finally working on reinventing myself. I’m now subscribed to your channel. Thanks for sharing 🌹
Awww, thank you for subscribing and joining the family. I am rooting for your success love ❤️
I’m 43 and same! I’m tired of being on hamster wheel. I’m changing now and for good! Lately I’ve been so less bothered and I love that for me!!!
I just turned 40 this summer and I'm excited. I also feel like I wasted my 30's but in my 40's I will change that. I'm closing doors and becoming who I'm supposed to be.
Yessss honey, welcome to your new chapter. God has so many plans for your life... its your season sis ❤️🫶🏾❤️
you look 10 years younger ❤ im 33
Loved your video! Ladies its never late to change up your life for the better.
I turned 40 this year and in the process of joining the Navy Reserves. I take the ASVAB and medical exam next week. I'm so excited. Wish me luck!
Yesss honey. I am so proud of you sis 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾
Go Air Force Reserve, you will not regret itz
Turning 30 this year and I didn't do things in my 20s that my peers did.
Like traveling, partying, going out, living their best lives.
I was delayed for a while and now in my 30s, I hope to start living.
I had FOMO and still do, hopefully my life will change for the better
It will sis. Start putting you first.
Listen sis... as your new big sister its time for your glow up. There is nothing wrong with starting later than others. It's your time now. I am going to love watching your glow up journey. It's time to shine sis⭐
@@thefaceofambition omg thank you. 🥺🥺❤❤
I won't give up on myself this time around. ❤
At 43, I couldn't agree more in saying that my 40's have thus far been the best years of my life! 🙌🏾 I have finally accepted who I am and have learned to prioritize myself in order to work on the things that I would like to improve about myself..for MYSELF.
Yesss 1981 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 we are finally learning who we are and falling in love with ourselves. I'm so proud of you sis and I'm rooting for your success 🙌🏾
@thefaceofambition yes indeed! Likewise, and thank you for your support and content! 🫶🏾
I’m here for the 40 something bits, cause I chuckle at the 20 and 30 something’s talking about “starting over”. Baby… yall ain’t even STARTED YET! Slow down… life is coming… don’t rush it!
Exactly 🤣 you have to start to start over. So much life to live. I love the lessons I've learned. They've made me so much stronger 💕
I appreciate you I’m 41 and I’m the youngest of all my friends and they don’t talk about getting older .. Thanks girly you’re definitely giving big sister energy ❤🥰
Yesss little sis 🫶🏾 this is the most beautiful part of life that we just don't celebrate enough. Our best years are ahead of us ❤️✨️❤️
As a 37 year old woman I'm so excited for my 40s and to embrace every single bit of it. I use to say the total opposite in my 20s. But I'm so happy with who I am today ❤
Yesss queen, I love to hear that you are loving who you are today. Glowing and growing. Your 40s are about to be amazing. I am rooting for you sis 💕
Yes! I'm turning 40 soon and am SOOO excited! I "started over" at 37 met my forever person and had our son at 38 and these have been the best 2 years of my life (I recently even started a RUclips channel documenting my motherhood journey- something I NEVER though myself capable of). After spending my 20s going through the stress of obtaining my PhD and early 30s proving myself in academia with long hours, publications, conferences in a toxic marriage I was a shell of myself. 40s HERE I COME!!!!
I'm so happy for you! It's never too late to find your joy and to become the very best version of you🫶🏾
I'm 27 and I'm checking in to class! I honestly cant thank my mother enough for all that she has taught me, I am seriously blessed to have her and my youtube aunts to learn from. Thank you for your advice, i always take what i need and leave what doesnt align with me but for the most part i find it valuable to listen to different experiences and perspectives. I have a lot to do in this life and i already thought i was late or the time had past but im really getting myself back up
28 && Same!🫶🏽💯
Awww, you are so welcome. I love being your auntie sis, putting you on so you can learn from my mistakes and experiences and don't have to make your own 🫶🏾💕🫶🏾
Ma’am thank you for this video! I just turned 30 this year 2024 and I’m so happy RUclips recommended this video to me. Everything is geared to the 20s girlies, but I’m glad I found your channel in the right time.❤❤❤
It does seem like it's only 20 year olds on YT with life advice. Well consider me your new bestie sis 😘
This came on ny feed right on time! Im 40 and recently married and soooo glad i waited for the person who loved me into rethinking my choice on marriage ❤
Yesss, I love this for you sis. It's scary to marry the wrong person, typically for the wrong reasons. Waiting on God and listening to wisdom around you helps lead you to the partner God has intended for your life ❤️
I am glad to hear your point number 1 I started that at 32 and I intend to do forever.
I will be 35 next month and this year I have been working hard when it comes to boundaries.
Thank you for sharing
Happy early BDay sis 🎂 what I learned about boundaries is it's a never ending. Small things will arise in life and you will realize... yep, I don't like that and up forms a boundary. I'm rooting for you sis 💕
Omg I loved this video! I just entered my 30s and this advice was so needed as a woman in my next phase of life as a newly married woman and doctor. You give me feeling of when I use to watch the beautiful OG youtubers! So happy to have just subscribed! ❤
Congratulations on the new nuptials sis. I LOVE being married. You are headed into the best years of your life. Happiness is a choice love. Choose to love you and your man every day. Just consider me your big sister... I got you sis 💕
You are so gentle with yourself … I’m definitely going to implement “I’m good at a lot of things and this might not be one of them, but I’m having fun” into my self talk. Thank you for this video.
It doesn't come naturally but I learned that my negative self talk had broken my spirit. I love affirming my actions and decisions. It's another level of self love. I'm rooting for you sis 👏🏾 💕 🫶🏾
the health part hit home for me just got diabetes and I knew for years I had to be careful and now I am praying I can reverse it and get back on track. About to turn 44 and health is becoming my number one concern
Intermittent fasting along with a higher fat low carb diet can reverse it
I was pre diabetic so I am speaking from a place of complete understanding. Our bodies are our biggest responsibility sis. I am so proud of you for creating a reversal plan. It's completely possible. I'm rooting for you 💕🙏🏾💕
You can def reverse it. Exercise is essential. 🫶🏾
Plant based, raw food for a little while and it will clear up.
❤❤love you girl and appreciate you providing women 40 and older on how to improve, love, embrace our selves, and being ambitious ❤
Yes! You're welcome. It's important for us to see ourselves on this platform too 🥰
So happy you said marriage is easy!!! I get triggered when people say it's so hard. Not for everyone. I've even had an old friend ask if my husband and I even argue? 😅
Girl, it's so sad how society has villainized marriage. Nobody says anything bad about having a baby or adopting a pet, but marrying the person who makes you happy is the hardest part of your adult life? I don't buy it. I feel like it's a lie from the enemy to keep us unmarried and unhappy. I clearly need to make a video on this topic cause I clearly have a soap box
Yes! That really was so refreshing to hear someone say that marriage is easy - with the right person. We hear so much of the opposite about marriage.
@@judination1 Well do you? 😅.. I’m interested.. I am married, but I love to see/ hear ppl be truly happy in their marriage, not “social media” happy
@@thefaceofambition Yes! Make a video on it!!!! So many women try to make it sound miserable because they didn't make the best choice in a spouse.
i’m so happy I came across this video i’m 27 about to be 28 & i’m ready to be my true authentic self ❤ & focus on all God has for me
12:09
“I can’t get the time back and you’re not even grateful that I gave it to you.”
PREACH IT, the way I felt this in my soul.
Girlll, its so true. So many people take the best of you and are so ungrateful. Being more mindful helps me to prioritize me!
I’m not in my 40s but I’m in my late 30s.. however, I love this and will definitely take it to heart. Also, there is a black owned beauty brand called Naché Cosmetics and she has beautiful lip colors , including a seductive red shade that I think would look beautiful on you! God bless! And thank you for your transparency and vulnerability!
Ohhh. I live in a red lip. I will definitely check out this brand. I love supporting black cosmetics brands 💄 thanks for sharing
My husband and I believe the same thing. Marriage is not HARD work. But we are two people that outdo each other in love and see the spouse as the bestest friend in the whole world.
Yessss! I love this so much for you guys. It's so important to share this with other couples... together we can change mindsets and marriage mentalities ❤
Still trying to figure it out at 46...had a tragic loss that broke me and now I'm trying to rebuild and relearn who I am. Thank you so much for this video.❤
I am so so sorry for your loss. I completely understand how these moments can use you to feel broken but every day of life is another chance to choose to heal, to choose joy, to choose to forgive. I am praying for you love. There are better days ahead💕
❤❤❤@@thefaceofambition
Yeah it's rough. I just lost my Mom. I'm 47 and I took care of her for years. Now I'm like....now what? Sorry for your loss
@@tyelove4399My heart is with u. We will find our way.
It's so much change but I love being in my 40s and started therapy because I needed help. Dating is so awful in my 40s. Find that one person is so tough.
Yesss sis for starting therapy. When you find your person you will be emotionally ready. I know dating sucks but keep your heart open. God has plans for you sis ❤️
@@thefaceofambition 🙏🏾💋
I love the long hair on you ❤
This is the big sister talk I never knew I needed, I was so engaged in the video nice to know I’m on track cause sometimes I think I’m alone, also you have such an infectious smile 😊 have a good day!
Awww, you are so welcome little sis. I love putting you on so you can skip to the good part. This life is amazing and you deserve to have all good day ❤️🫶🏾❤️
I’ll be turning 40 next year! So excited for my new journey!! ❤
Yes honey. Enjoy every day of life. This journey is beautiful and complicated, but mostly beautiful ❤️🫶🏾❤️
I am 33 and I have been listening to older women,I do not care what people think about me,I love fashion for me,i care about my children and my health.
Yesss honey. I love this for you 💕💕💕
This was so "REAL" to me. Enjoyed. Thanks! Be blessed!!!
Thank you so much for this video and your content, I’m 36 and I’m determined in becoming the best version of myself. I actually made a post the other day saying that there isn’t much RUclipsrs who are in their 40s or 50s that’s giving advice to use girlies who’s positive. A lot of the ones I’ve come across sounds miserable, and makes it seem like if you don’t do it in your 20s or early 30s that’s it! Like girl let me be optimistic! Let me be delusional! Because God plans is in another level!!! Thank you for giving me that little hope of girl it’s not too late, it’s ok, and that I got it! Much appreciated😘😊🤗
Girl, I used to feel the same way but as I started approaching my 40s my whole life started to change. I am so optimistic. Life and God have been so good to us girl, we can't complain about anything. I CHOOSE to live the best day ever every day! I am so glad you now have a big sister in me 😘💕
@@thefaceofambition 🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰
I absolutely love your attitude and advise. You give me new perspective every time I watch one of your videos. I didn't learn until my 50's about the value of my time, and self acceptance. Thank you for the enlightenment.
Wow, you are so welcome love. My passion is helping women realize their full potential and reinvent themselves. Thank you for your support. It means everything to me ❤️
Girl I'm with you on not knowing a great deal about hair. I couldn't do my own hair to save my life😊 I really loved finding your RUclips channel and you've got yourself a new subbie.
Baby, listen... I thought I could do it, and it quickly got away from me 🤣 I should have recorded me cutting this hair. Girllllll it was a disaster 😬 this proves that it's less about how you start but more about how you finish 🤷🏾♀️❤️
I’m 37 and the body change….. my body weight distributes differently! It’s crazy but I’ve learned to embrace it and maintain a healthy diet and eating schedule. Loving my 30’s
I love to hear you are loving yourself, changes and all ❤️❤️❤️
I just came across this video cos of the description and I want to say a big THANK YOU. I am 33 now, and i al just now starting to show up for myself, and everything you have outlined are very important. Thank you
I love it when the algorithm gets it right. I'm so glad this was that you needed and you feel supported. I'm rooting for you sis💕
Omg so glad I found you sis!! I’m on my way to my 40s and I’m high key excited!! Thank you for sharing this video!!
You should be so excited about your 40s sis. Girl, the best is yet to come. Get excited! I am rooting for you!💕
Honestly, you’re very on point! When my hair is not done I’m off. Period! So for me I love just making myself looked dolled up! I have to work on casual clothing, but I loveee dressing up for events and work. You’re on point queen!
Yesss, so you get it. I just feel lousy when I know I could do better and I choose not to show up as my best self 💯 ❤️🫶🏾
28 here and I’m in a rut. I’ve been questioning the quality of my life i.e. my relationships, career and health. I decided to stop focusing on others and stop diminishing myself to make others feel comfortable - that’s not my responsibility. I am the designer of my own life. Thanks for this video! ☺️❤️
You sound amazing sis and when you realize you want to change and areas for growth you are going to succeed. I am rooting for you love ❤️✨️🥰
I’m in my 30s and I felt this! You are amazing and I too lost my father and after losing him I lost what the knowledge of what was important to me. Life is truly a gift and our health is super important mentally and physically. Thank you for these reminders
I'm so sorry for loss sis. I hate for anyone to experience the pain of lossing a Dad 😢. I'm so glad you enjoyed this video and that we are connected sis 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾
Aligned content..... I've been feeling a way as I am currently 37 and at the midlife crisis stage. Defo wasted my 20's and now 30s following close behind. I'm ready to be my authentic self and go get what I'm worth. Sitting in my talents with self doubt/sabotage.
I will be saving this to watch when I retire to the couch. Thanking you for this kind of content🙏🏽
Wow! Thank you so so much sis 💓. I am rooting for your success 🙌🏾
I learned to value my time at 29 when I started a business… I don’t plays about my time nor my mental state cuz if you stressful… BYE. I love it here!
Yesss boss babe! I love this so much for you 💕thank you for the love
I think it was destined for me to hear this video today. I'm not in my 40's yet but I enjoy learning and being in community with other women. I love your energy and confidence. Thank you for authenticity.
Wow, I love the algorithm connected us ❤️🫶🏾❤️
I’ve learned that saying communication is important does not always make it easy. It’s always an effort you have to make and decide to communicate in relationships. I’ve also learned and have come to appreciate that therapy is helping me a great deal because I can easily be stuck in my own way. I’ve also learned that doing my morning devotion absolutely centers my spirit. It calms me down and makes me aware of the holy spirits leading. ❤🌸🙏🏾
Yesss, I love that you understand the importance of the Holy Spirit leading your day. It's makes such a difference in your day ✨️
Since I was in my late 20's, I made a commitment to myself by not caring what other people think of me and not allowing anyone to take advantage of me, and not allowing BS in my life. I've cut off friends and family that serves me zero purpose, I rejecting men who want to waste my time, and I quit my job at a hair salon because I was dealing with racism and sleepless nights. Honestly, I don't feel bed about it at all cause I feel free
Yes 👏🏾yes 👏🏾 yes sis. I am so proud of you for taking your power back ❤️
Thanks so much for sharing! I'm 38, ready to reinvent myself as I prepare for my 40s. I love all these tips...I plan to continue (and start some so I'll be ready). ❤
I'm rooting for you sis ❤️
Thank you for these gems!❤ I turned 31 this year and I’ve been feeling a shift, so I can resonate with some of these lessons. Your words have definitely put some things in perspective for me and I thank you so much for sharing.
Yess honey, you can have the most amazing life with the right mentality. God's blessings are abundant and new every morning. I'm rooting for you sis 💕 💓💕
At 41 I can totally relate to everything you said. I’m newly divorced and have been on a crazy emotional rollercoaster but I’m learning some crazy lessons and finding myself. Glad this video was recommended. Loved it ❤
Life can pull us up and down but the "ups" are so amazing and last longer. I am glad you found me too sis. I am praying for your emotional healing and personal growth. You got this sis... the best days/years are ahead of you 💕
@@thefaceofambition thank you luv 💕
I will be turning 40 this year! And I agree with everything you said. And my hubby has a gap and if he changed that it would be weird to me. I love his gap. Oh and I am a new sub today. ❤🎉God bless you.
Your 40s are about to be amazing 🎉 Celebrate this milestone sis and enjoy all the blessing God has in store for you. I am rooting for you ❤️🫶🏾❤️
❤ This is just what I needed to hear to start off my workweek. I appreciate you for sharing your knowledge and experiences. I turn 40 in about a year and I am seeing a lot of your statements occurring in my life of faith. The journey God has me on allows me to interact with such amazing individuals as yourself who are living in their purpose. Keep being your God-led, authentic self, living your best life. I’m so here for it, sis!
Thank you so so much love. I hope you have had the most amazing week so far and that you still feel motivated and inspired. I'm rooting for you sis 👏🏾 💕 🙌🏾
9:19 Marriage is Easy when you find Your Person. True!
They have to be the right person. The wrong person will leave you at the first sign of hardship or heartbreak.
In my 40’s love this💪🏾 love this positivity🎉 I love the clip ins the length and roots are pretty. But I understand. Definitely doing the things that make me feel good. New to your channel love it
Aww, thanks babe. I am so glad you have joined the family sis 💕
I truly thank you 🙏🏾 for the positive vibes, energy, and love you show the people on your channel. Please keep up the good work.
You are so welcome babe 😘
New sub!! Thank you so much for this video. I just turned 40 in May, and it's line you spoke my inner thoughts! ❤
I'm so glad this video resonated with you sis! You're officially in the 40s club! We're in this glow-up journey together! 💕
Love these tips. Heavy on the not wasting any more time and being myself. I wasted time in my 20s building others and now I’m building myself so I’ll be ready for my future. Btw I’m keeping my gap too as long as my teeth are healthy.
I know we are supposed to help others but not at our expense. I love this for you... and listen sis our gaps are sexy 😘
I’m 31 and I’ve always done whatever I wanted to do since I was a child. It got me into trouble a lot as a young woman but guess what?! I’m the happiest person I know. Everyone around me is stressed out for some reason or the other etc when you live for yourself you have no problems… also certain people can be included in your happiness but be picky !!!
I’ve learned a couple of these this year at 28 & I hate that it took me so long but now I’m feeling ready to move forward. We’re always learning! 😌
Girl, it's so hard learning lessons late in life, but you are so right... It's all about moving forward! The lesson is learned, and now you don't have to repeat the same mistakes 💯
I looovvveee your planner! TY for creating it, so helpful, helpful like when I almost got in a rut but I opened your planner and got right out of it! God is good!😙💕💐💐💐
That's amazing sis! I love how you see the power of using this planner to jumpstart your glow up and spiritual journey ❤️ I'm rooting for you 🫶🏾
Love this so much!✨❤️ I am turning 40 this year and I have been embracing me more and more it’s truly beautiful. Self love and self awareness is the best love ❤🥰
Yesss honey. It can be a hard page turner if you're not prepared but you're doing the work. I'm so proud of you sis 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾
This just popped up in my feed and I love your outlook! Also, can’t believe you are in your forties 😮 I just turned 38 and the last few years I’ve really been starting to love myself and out myself first after sooo long being preoccupied with other people’s opinions. Looking forward to turning 40 ❤️
Yesss honey, I'm 42 and sometimes it takes time to truly fall in love with yourself ✨️ once you got it...keep it. I'm rooting for you sis ❤️
@@thefaceofambition thank you 🙏❤️
Just discovered your channel. I’m 37 and you’re very much accurate with a lot of these things for sure! New subscriber!
Aww, Thank you sis. Welcome to the family 💕
I am so glad I just came across your channel sis!! I’m 26, still a baby…but I am so eager to learn from the sisters who have wisdom to share. Your valuing freedom really resonated with me; I’m being as intentional as possible about saving, investing and generating income as I can so that I can benefit from those choices in the future. Thank you so much for this video. You look beautiful.
Yesss little sister 🫶🏾I am so glad you found me too ❤️ I am rooting for your success... you got this love
Girl this post was so relatable because I am looking back on my 20's and early 30's and I wish I could turn time around but I try not to have regrets just lessons but it do make me sad about some of my decisions. You look great by the way!!!♥ if you are in your 40's
Girl, those past decisions are 👀👀👀 but God's grace covers us 🙌🏾. Thanks for the love babe 😘
44yr old single woman here, that has Allowed Sooo My Much BS‼️ I Always reflect, and start with saying...How or Why did I ALLOW this or That! Im learning to give myself GRACE! AnyWho,...
Embracing It All!! 🫶🏿
Ohhh, I love this so much because their are so things we have allowed to happen because we want to be accepted, liked, and loved. But baby, when your heart wakes up so stop excusing poor behavior. Yess honey, I'm rooting for you 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾
@@thefaceofambition 🫶🏿🫶🏿 love your Content
I'm turning 40 this year Lord willing. I have just been extremely grateful for life health and family. This video resonated with me and I thank you. 🙏🏾
You are so welcome and Happy 40th Birthday love. I pray you enjoy the best decade of your life 🫶🏾💕🫶🏾
Girl, I just discovered your channel. Amazing and you look Beautiful! Love you're being you! Thank you for sharing these tips!
Thank you so much ❤️ I'm so glad we are now connected 😊
I soo needed this today! I’ve not seen my girl friends for a while. Just life getting in the way, I’m single, no kids (dog tho lol) but I came across your vid/ post/ channel?? I’m sorry I’m 45 and have no idea what these things are. Anyway you made me go put on tunes, dye my hair and feel a bit more me. I found my first grey eyebrow hair today so I saw this as a sign I definitely need to follow you..Thank you gorgeous xx
Your message made my heart smile. I love that this video activated you. Honey you are worth it! Live your best life. I'm rooting for you sis 💕
You definitely gained me as a follower. I’m only 33 but I’m really ready for change. I’ve been on a journey but this gives me hope. Thank you 😊
You got this babe. Just consider me as your big sister bestie. I am here for you girl. 💕
@@thefaceofambition thank you 🙏🏾
New Subbie here love your Energy & Positive outlook ❤ fighting stage 3 Breast Cancer 🎀 & your channel is speaking volumes Thank You for Sharing..
Wow sis. I will be keep you lifted in my prayers, sincerely. We are a sisterhood. I'm so glad we are connected and you are enjoying my videos 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾... I'm rooting for you love
@thefaceofambition Thank You!! God Bless You!! 🙏 ❤️
I’m 26 but somehow I landed on this video and found it very encouraging 🙏🏽❤️
You are never too young or old for these lessons. I am glad you found the video helpful. You got this sis 👏🏾
Hey! New follower here❤ I appreciate your content. I'm 33, and I have been married to my H.S. sweetheart for 7 years, and a business owner. I can attest to all things shared in this video as I have been going through the motions of rediscovering me. I appreciate your courage for taking time out to share your experiences and wisdom. I've been journaling (something serious ) reading, listening to podcasts, praying, working out, and just trying to find my way. It's been such a liberating journey. I'm certainly anticipating the rebirth🦋
Thanks again, sis❤
My heart warms for you sis. Journaling is so therapeutic and effective. I am so excited about your glow up love. I am rooting for you 💕
I just recently turned 35 last month. I'm still a work in process. What I'm learning is stop putting off what I said I wanted to learn such a multiple languages. I am also transitioning into IT. I see so many young people who are killing it in tech industry and it can be a bit intimidating because you feel so far behind. Just stay focused, mind your business, take care of yourself and everything will fall into place. If you want to give yourself a deadline, that's ok as well. I hope to have everything aligned by the time I hit 40. All the best ladies. 🙏🏾
I started my first tech company at 40. Now it's powered by Google, and im 42. It's completely possible, love. You are not too late. God's timing is always right. Your steps are ordered, and it's your time sis.
Thanks for being transparent, I appreciate it!
I love this!!!! We 30 somethings really need y’all going into level 4, to spill it and help us get better. 😊
Thank you 🙏🏼
Yesss honey. Your digital big sis is here to put you on 😘❤️🤣
Hey Sis! I’m so glad your video made it to my algorithm! I love your content and I’m subscribing. ❤
The algorithm finally did something right 🤣 I'm so glad we are connected sis. Thank you for subbing 🥰
So glad I ran across this video. I love how u did your hair for the first time doing clip ins, they are so cute and match really good, and you do not even look 40 aging so gracefully.
Thank you so much. I'm having fun with these clip ins while I am growing my hair 🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾
I must have needed to watch this video. I appreciate this so much Definitely a start of something phenomenal. I’ve been so bummed lately. Ugh you have no idea. Thanks again sis ❤️
I am so glad the algorithm connected us right when you needed it. I hope you're feeling better emotionally. Tap into what's going on sis. Perhaps journal it out to find clarity. I'm rooting for you love ❤️
I just love ur energy and confidence. I love u sis. Keep going. I just turned fourty and I feel like I'm stuck in mommy mode. Plus everything today is too much trying to figure me out in it all is my tangle. While still keeping boundaries and standards in tact for me and my girls. God has me tho.
Getting stuck is Mommy mode, which is easy to do before you know it. Try to schedule some intentional time for you. Date yourself. It might cost you for a sitter, but it's worth it every once in a while, just so you can tap in ✨️ I'm rooting for you sis
@@thefaceofambition thank u for this. Have a great day. I appreciate u
Gaps are signs of beauty where I’m from! I’m glad you didn’t close it! I wear mine with such pride 😍😍😍
Yes, clearly a sign of beauty. I'm glad I didn't listen 🥰
I'm 32 and your video just popped up. it was meant for me to see this after the things I've been dealing with! Definitely will be here to learn more from you.
Yesss little sis. I'm so glad the algorithm connected us 🫶🏾 welcome to the family ❤️
Amen!! My marriage is a blessing and is easy. Thank you for that sis
Yes it is. I am about to do a full episode on marriage. I have so much to say 🤔
32 and loving this video. Thank you for sharing; I’m feeling some “friction” within this current phase of life and this video was very refreshing! ❤❤❤ new subbie
Yesss, I'm so glad it was what you needed queen. Welcome to the family ❤️🫶🏾❤️
Omg this video came right on time. I'll be 40 on Monday 10/7. Thanks for making and sharing this video. My 1 year anniversary is next month and you're right. Marriage is wonderful.
Happy Birthday sis 🎂 I pray you have the most amazing year ever 💛
@@thefaceofambition thank you 😊 I appreciate that
Thanks sooo much for this. I’m 38 and starting to change my life and this truly helped me ❤
Aww, you are so welcome sis. I am just checking in with you to see how your week has been. I pray you are still inspired and working hard on your goals.
@@thefaceofambition it has been a DAY!!! 🤦🏽♀️😩
I really appreciate this video. I am about to turn 40 in a couple years and this is helpful.❤
You are so welcome love. Your 40s will be your best years ever ❤️
Thank you for this video. You are always dropping gems! I need to prioritize my health big time so this hit home for me.
Yes, I take my health so seriously now... I'm late starting, so I double down on self care. I'm so glad you enjoyed love ❤️