1) No one is coming to save you: life is consistency 2) A good relationship takes sacrifices 3) Building wealth is about owning assets: real estate, equity 4) Pros and cons don't work, what will you regret not doing? 5) Health is the main priority, not aesthetic 6) Black swans happen 7) Don't be afraid to change 8) Be able to lose your old self 9) Lifetime learning 10) Don't blame others, learn to work around, how did your actions contribute to this? 11) Grass always looks greener 12) Try and fail 13) Be the partner that you want to have 14) No one thinks about you as much as you 15) All your actions compound over time 16) Internet keeps lifetime archive 17) Fuel your body accordingly (food choices) 18) Shed people 19) Wedding is for a day, marriage is for life 20) Control your reaction to outcomes and events
After 3 years of marriage I've come to the conclusion that comparing your relationship with others is a waste of time. Everyone is different and as you said, everyone creates their own boundaries. My partner and I create a unique union that will never be the same as other couples in social media or even real life. Thanks for sharing this! I love your videos!
thats super beautiful! and honestly a really important lesson and learning that i feel we need to implement more of. comparison robs us of the beauty to actually CREATE and shape our own relationships into whatever we want them to be. 💗
The "no one is coming to save you" hit me hard. I'm 26 and in my culture I should've been married but I'm not. A man is expected to take care of the woman which I am not against but when you also tie in the the factor that marriage is lifelong and not just a wedding night , you realize being with a partner that you actually see eye to eye with is hard. I am now going to be going back to school for my masters in counseling and aiming for a career to take care of myself.
Don't worry Everything is gonna be alright 😊 Just focus on living rather than fitting into stereotypes made by society Remember marriage was invented for women to help them survive in a world where it was very tough for a woman to survive without a man But now things are not that bad,women can survive on their own so prioritize your wellbeing and never ever forget to LIVE your life fully I am not saying just avoid marriage as plague 😂 Just saying try to remember not everyone gets the chance to survive and live in this world,so don't take this chance for granted😊
The biggest mistakes I've ever made in life are the ones where I listened to other people telling me what they think I should do and I listened for some bizarre reason. And it cost me big time. Nobody knows what's best for you except you.
Wonderful video. We are about the same age (I am 37) and I agree with all of these. Another one I want to add is: You are responsible for your own happiness. You cannot expect your partner, friends, family or children to make you happy.
No one is coming to save you but many people will help. No one is going to do the job for you, but there will be people who will support you on your journey.
Hello dear, I just would like to thank you for sharing these content with us. At 33, whenever I listen to motivational talks don’t inspire or motivate me anymore, unlike when I was in my 20’s where I get inspired and start going for my dreams. However now in my 30’s, nothing excites me anymore. I learned that learning new things, and other people’s stories inspire me more to create my own, and to rediscover myself and what I love to do. Knowing more about myself, and the purpose of my life keeps me going more than aspiring to become rich and successful. I don’t know.. but I just became lowkey and relaxed nowadays, simple things make me happy. Oh and I don’t have a partner yet, but somehow I’m still at peace and happy I have so much time to do all the things I wanna do and just focus on becoming a better version of me. I realized that before someone commits to me, I must commit to myself first. Your videos help me realize these things. Thank you for doing what you do. ❤
The opportunities will arise when it is time. -work hard, but don’t beat yourself up to achieve your goals. You’ll own that house or that car as long as you continue to make conscious decisions. You don’t have to have those things all at once. Trust yourself is the key to peace. -do not rely on what you have, income, status, job title, etc. to define who you are. Trust that whatever comes your way, you will figure it out.
It's a humble admission of yours that in the past, you expected romantic overtures from your partner while not stepping up equally to do the same. It's something we, as women, are conditioned to expect -- to always be the recipients of these lovely gestures. And the occasional unexpected gift IS lovely! But it's absolutely poor taste to keep upholding a higher standard for your partner than you yourself can satisfy. I try to be very aware of this in my personal life, and it's good to see you share this so others can be aware too.
Wonderful insights! But why did you call them harsh truths? May I suggest #21? Remember to integrate your wins and give yourself grace. Integrating your wins improves confidence and empowers you to reach for more. Giving yourself grace is so important when things don't go as expected. I wish I'd had the insights in my 30s that you have now (and really lived by them). You're exactly where you need to be in your life right now, and on your way to the next best version of yourself. Enjoy the ride. Based on what I've seen in your content, you're doing great! 🎉 P.S. Thanks for the SkillShare suggestion! 🙏🏼😊
Thank you for the 21st tip! 🙌 And I do agree, appreciating the wins and giving yourself grace is certainly something we all should learn to do more. I'm trying to practice gratitude every night before bed and that's kind of my version of integrating the the daily wins and it really helps me having a better mindset about the day and gives me strength to deal with the next 😃
@@reinventingpoppy I so agree. Having an attitude of gratitude - even for the things that don't go well - makes a big difference. What a wonderful practice to have at the end of the day. 👏🏼 If you haven't seen Wayne Dyer's talk about programing our subconscious mind, you might enjoy this: ruclips.net/video/Kvs-_22lwjA/видео.htmlsi=CV3ZlHFgWogTs-my 😊
Sad to burst your bubbles, but for your benefit, it has to be said. Instagram is not the prime example of optimum/grand/fulfilling life experiences. Because those who fake it to make it on the Instagrams of the world continue to fake it for the rest of their lives. There's no peace or fulfilment in that. When you think about life, think long-term not short-term and you'll be happier.
True. I know a girl who has tons of followers, and posts amazing videos on Instagram which make her look beautiful and rich, when in reality she's poor and unattractive.
I figured this out at 33 Changed countries and jobs at 33. From 37 to 47 made my first million. For 99%,your family or friends or job is not going to save you. Time to try something new.
Me being a soon 26 year old adult,feeling behind my peers and wasted my entire youth with no talent and overwhelmed to restart my life😢 kindly do comment, if you have something to tell me ❤
All your life-experience up to now, have prepared you for what is ahead of you. Think about the lessons you've learned. Be brave and take new steps towards what really matters for you! The word "talent" is a trap. Clear misson, grit, humility to learn and improve and change, being mindful about where to put in one's energy, and what to let go - these are better assets than talent. Keep an out-look for a mentor, which even could be a video or a book to start with. If you procrastinate, baby-steps are the way out of the rut, and not over-thinking (self-criticizing) too big. Sometimes breaking down tasks into five minute portions release the overwhelm-blockades - you don't need to like that little portion, just do it, if you know it would be more meaningful than doing nothing, and you do know it. OK? Feelings are not our best guides, but our core values are. Write your core values, for example on your bathroom mirror, and do smile and nod when you read them, do say Yes! aloud. You are not quite adult, yet, and needn't be. For many the best years come after 50, but don't drag your feet, just because of that statistic. Allow yourself to be fully alive, just as you are in this phase of your life. Ask yourself what that would mean, make a guess, and try it out. You can do it - keep guessing and trying, the picture of who you are, what you want, what you are capable of, it all gets clearer, by and by. And then it also might change when needs be. All the best wishes. Thank you for opening up to asking for suggestions. One day you are going to be a very good mentor yourself, with that honest and open mindset!
Oh Wow! 😳 I love ❤this message 🙏. I am glad that am your age mate and ready to listen 👂🏿 to this powerful podcast 💪. Thank you God 🙏 and for sharing this powerful message 🙏 today.
The compounding effect can’t be underestimated. Im turning 40 this year and it’s quite apparent the compounding effects of people’s life choices my age and the positions it lands them in life.
There's a reason why you learned those lessons at 38 and not 20. You did not learn those things at 20 because you weren't ready to learn them at 20. You did not at that time possess knowledge, experience, nor did you put in the process and change your vibrational frequency at that age to know the things you know now. You know and have learned them now (at 38) because you are ready to learn them now. Not 10 years from now and certainly not 20 years ago. This type of mindset can often leave a person in resentment over what hasn't been learned or experienced in the past. Life doesn't work this way. So, be at peace knowing that you are experiencing and learning exactly what you are supposed to and this is based on the daily process that you engage in, which shifts your vibration in the direction that you wish to go. Good luck.
Agreed. But the reason why many feel “I wish….” is mankind cannot be young forever or at least till the end. With age the ability to do things will decline, so as accomplishments.
One should marry a filthy rich person. Sad, but true. Brutal truth. It's kinda conniving, immoral......call it as you see fit. But if you're by yourself or (even worse) married to a _regular_ person - life is gonna be *hell* .
Hey boss. Thanks for another biscuit of wisdom. I think a lot of us folks feel just a tad bit more courageous, and maybe even invincible with your insight in our pocket. Happy weekend. Already looking forward to the next video :D
It's funny how all of these lessons can sometimes seem so obvious. Maybe because of social media and the internet, it feels like we've heard them all in one form or another. But sometimes we're not ready to fully receive any particular piece of advice and it just bounces off of us at the moment. What makes videos like this helpful is that they serve as a reminder. Maybe someone found this video at just the right time or one the lessons popped out at them at a particularly relevant point in life. By the way, I just made a video very similar to this, so I'd love to hear if any of those life lessons have impacted your life as well. Great vid Poppy.
I wish, as a man, that in my 20s I had realised that what women say they want and what they really want are often two completely different thing … and more importantly … Go where you’re wanted, not necessarily where members of the opposite gender are. The difference is subtle but total. And … A one % advantage is often a 100 % of the difference or outcome.
Thanks for sharing these honest truth❤. Recently a lot of things has been happening in my life and i really need some encouragement in an honest way rather than saying honey coated words.
💯.…. Hermosa(Beautiful) Plus , move! Live in a like-minded enviroment... So we can have , build ; maintaining our familia, tribe, village - commuinty... Union. Vida es Familia. While evolving in your gift, gifts, purpose. -poetaV. Vivían
I made this mistake. I had 100k usd saved up in my bank at the age of 23. I felt like I was already becoming and an old man and went through The YOLO phase and moved overseas to a country where my dollar went far. Now being 39 yo and looking back, I was actually still young and should I had continued to invest my money (Instead of spending it all) I would have been a multimillionaire by now considering how much all the stock markets have grown since.
Thankss! You gave me some very important fundamental aspects and advice for life. I recently realized I need a big change and in order to change I need to let go of things. Thanks to your insights I regained motivation in order to do so and become the main character in my own life again!! 😊
What you haven't mentioned is that I've always wanted to find an Asian woman to be my life partner and based on your example I'll start looking among Thai girls now. Thank you for that hint. And good luck at your new place!
> 4) Pros and cons don't work, what will you regret not doing? This is one I need to learn lmao. I try to be all mathematical about everything. Then lose out on experiences.
With most people in there is that hope of someone or something making our lives meaningful and contented. It doesn't mean that it will fix your life. God created us. He is the One that will give us life with meaning and contentment. "For God so loved the world (His creation, you) that He gave His only Son Jesus, to live, die, and rise to life again for the payment of death forour sin" "Who ever believes this will have life eternal and peace and contentment both now and forever"
I’m in my twenties trying to embrace everything I have in the moment. Making the best out of my twenties is so important. Your video gives me that motivation❤
Thanks for being here and sharing valuable lessons. It’s a good reminder. Sometimes we have done the work and are doing the work but we still need to change our mindset to positive. Make changes if need be but keep pressing forward. And find the positive if you are doing the work. Appreciate the things you are doing and have already done. 💕
Dearest young lady...you are not at all correct...someone has come to save you...someone has come to save everyone, who wants to be saved...and that is me. I am the universe...and...I will save you...if, you want it. I love you...Stanley ❤
Wait, where did the pink ponies and purple unicorns go that everyone is chasing? R u saying life takes actual hard work and sacrifice and life coach is not an actual job???
If you want a person to fight through life with, then you will need to find a like minded person who is willing to sacrifice with you. Yeah, you must think more than yourself if you are going to have kids. You cannot take your money with you but you can leave children to live after you die.
The economy benefits those who have managed to invest in various opportunities. However, many people view investing as something too daunting, often feeling hesitant to get involved out of fear. Despite the abundance of opportunities today-whether in commodities, stocks, cryptocurrencies, and more-some still see it as a challenge and shy away from it.
Due to my demanding job, I lack the time to thoroughly assess my investments and analyze individual stocks. Consequently, for the past seven years, I have enlisted the services of a fiduciary who actively manages my portfolio to adapt to the current market conditions. This strategy has allowed me to navigate the financial landscape successfully, making informed decisions on when to buy and sell. Perhaps you should consider a similar approach.
Finding financial advisors like Sophia Maurine Lanting who can assist you shape your portfolio would be a very creative option. There will be difficult times ahead, and prudent personal money management will be essential to navigating them.
no one? but my partner said he woudl save me form anythign. so i shouldnt trus thim. hes been hones twith me so far.he said no matter what happens we will always be frends at least and that hes always gonan be there for me at any tiem i need him. what do i do? i thought i had a safty net , so do i trust him now or not?
29 years old soon to be in my thirties this month I don't like going to gym because in my eyes it is just waste of time and also when you go to gym you have to remember that you have to upkeep those gains you have earned, well I"m okay without going to the gym I"m not that muscular anyway, I"m okay with walking and eating less. As for success I"m not interested in earning billions of money and becoming succesfull al this is toxic, I"m happy with ordinary life, I don't need that so called success. I'm an introverted male have zero interest in people especially in this selfish and narcissistic timeline, never dated or married anyone, and I'm okay with it, because not all people are meant to be in relationships. I have already faced the fact that I will live single all my remaining life, maybe it's for the better, at least I won't have to deal with infinite drama and play circus monkey to entertain my so called wife which is never happy about anything. Single life is the most sane choice people can make right now, it hurts but it hurts way more when you are not compatible with a person you chosen and you have to break up because life with that person is impossible.
Really interesting take, here. Thanks for sharing it. I've been contemplating the idea that I may never have children or a wife and maybe some people aren't meant to, and that I'm on of them. I'm not closed to the idea but I think there is something about being willing to not have something that can be very powerful.
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1) No one is coming to save you: life is consistency
2) A good relationship takes sacrifices
3) Building wealth is about owning assets: real estate, equity
4) Pros and cons don't work, what will you regret not doing?
5) Health is the main priority, not aesthetic
6) Black swans happen
7) Don't be afraid to change
8) Be able to lose your old self
9) Lifetime learning
10) Don't blame others, learn to work around, how did your actions contribute to this?
11) Grass always looks greener
12) Try and fail
13) Be the partner that you want to have
14) No one thinks about you as much as you
15) All your actions compound over time
16) Internet keeps lifetime archive
17) Fuel your body accordingly (food choices)
18) Shed people
19) Wedding is for a day, marriage is for life
20) Control your reaction to outcomes and events
thank you
Thank you 🙏
❤
Thank you 😊
THANK YOU! 😀
I wish I knew in my 20s that "done is better than perfect".
I agree, was such a big lesson for me too.
Thank god I’m still in my 20’s. Y’all old af
Well said.
After 3 years of marriage I've come to the conclusion that comparing your relationship with others is a waste of time. Everyone is different and as you said, everyone creates their own boundaries. My partner and I create a unique union that will never be the same as other couples in social media or even real life. Thanks for sharing this! I love your videos!
Do you mind giving examples of what you mean by creating a unique union?
thats super beautiful! and honestly a really important lesson and learning that i feel we need to implement more of. comparison robs us of the beauty to actually CREATE and shape our own relationships into whatever we want them to be. 💗
You shouldn't even look at social media . It's cancer
Nah leave them. There’s always someone better
@@rickysampson8759 Hopefully take half and monkey branch! Monkey branch to being the next multi millionaire! Female logic!
The "no one is coming to save you" hit me hard. I'm 26 and in my culture I should've been married but I'm not. A man is expected to take care of the woman which I am not against but when you also tie in the the factor that marriage is lifelong and not just a wedding night , you realize being with a partner that you actually see eye to eye with is hard. I am now going to be going back to school for my masters in counseling and aiming for a career to take care of myself.
good luck with your masters!!!! 💗
@@JenniferAguilera oh thank you🥹🤍
@@ya9321 absolutely!!! 💗
Are you Indian?
Don't worry
Everything is gonna be alright 😊
Just focus on living rather than fitting into stereotypes made by society
Remember marriage was invented for women to help them survive in a world where it was very tough for a woman to survive without a man
But now things are not that bad,women can survive on their own so prioritize your wellbeing and never ever forget to LIVE your life fully
I am not saying just avoid marriage as plague 😂 Just saying try to remember not everyone gets the chance to survive and live in this world,so don't take this chance for granted😊
I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
-i felt that.
The biggest mistakes I've ever made in life are the ones where I listened to other people telling me what they think I should do and I listened for some bizarre reason. And it cost me big time. Nobody knows what's best for you except you.
Lesson I learned over the years "stop looking for yourself in others"
"No one thinks about you as much as you think about yourself"
Right
Wonderful video. We are about the same age (I am 37) and I agree with all of these. Another one I want to add is: You are responsible for your own happiness. You cannot expect your partner, friends, family or children to make you happy.
No one is coming to save you but many people will help.
No one is going to do the job for you, but there will be people who will support you on your journey.
beautifully put!
Effort doesnt always equal success
38 😦 i dunno about u guys but she looks 27
Yes I agree
makeup
It's the Asian genes
@@bugra320 she looks even younger without make up lol didnt you watch the clips?
@@alwaysdisney2665 no she doesnt
Hello dear, I just would like to thank you for sharing these content with us. At 33, whenever I listen to motivational talks don’t inspire or motivate me anymore, unlike when I was in my 20’s where I get inspired and start going for my dreams. However now in my 30’s, nothing excites me anymore. I learned that learning new things, and other people’s stories inspire me more to create my own, and to rediscover myself and what I love to do. Knowing more about myself, and the purpose of my life keeps me going more than aspiring to become rich and successful. I don’t know.. but I just became lowkey and relaxed nowadays, simple things make me happy. Oh and I don’t have a partner yet, but somehow I’m still at peace and happy I have so much time to do all the things I wanna do and just focus on becoming a better version of me. I realized that before someone commits to me, I must commit to myself first. Your videos help me realize these things. Thank you for doing what you do. ❤
The opportunities will arise when it is time.
-work hard, but don’t beat yourself up to achieve your goals. You’ll own that house or that car as long as you continue to make conscious decisions. You don’t have to have those things all at once.
Trust yourself is the key to peace.
-do not rely on what you have, income, status, job title, etc. to define who you are. Trust that whatever comes your way, you will figure it out.
Love these thanks for sharing!
It's a humble admission of yours that in the past, you expected romantic overtures from your partner while not stepping up equally to do the same. It's something we, as women, are conditioned to expect -- to always be the recipients of these lovely gestures. And the occasional unexpected gift IS lovely! But it's absolutely poor taste to keep upholding a higher standard for your partner than you yourself can satisfy. I try to be very aware of this in my personal life, and it's good to see you share this so others can be aware too.
Wonderful insights! But why did you call them harsh truths? May I suggest #21? Remember to integrate your wins and give yourself grace.
Integrating your wins improves confidence and empowers you to reach for more. Giving yourself grace is so important when things don't go as expected.
I wish I'd had the insights in my 30s that you have now (and really lived by them). You're exactly where you need to be in your life right now, and on your way to the next best version of yourself. Enjoy the ride. Based on what I've seen in your content, you're doing great! 🎉 P.S. Thanks for the SkillShare suggestion! 🙏🏼😊
Thank you for the 21st tip! 🙌 And I do agree, appreciating the wins and giving yourself grace is certainly something we all should learn to do more. I'm trying to practice gratitude every night before bed and that's kind of my version of integrating the the daily wins and it really helps me having a better mindset about the day and gives me strength to deal with the next 😃
@@reinventingpoppy I so agree. Having an attitude of gratitude - even for the things that don't go well - makes a big difference. What a wonderful practice to have at the end of the day. 👏🏼 If you haven't seen Wayne Dyer's talk about programing our subconscious mind, you might enjoy this: ruclips.net/video/Kvs-_22lwjA/видео.htmlsi=CV3ZlHFgWogTs-my 😊
This was the kick in the butt I needed today. Thank you! And I have come to the same conclusions just turning 40 💪🏻
Sorry madam, there is a typo, think you meant 28
😂😂
Best thing I learned is that not everything is possible but so so much is possible. Stay Uncommon!
Fake it til you make it… don’t ever show your cards. 🃏 Instagram is a prime example. Everyone looks happy, taking trip pics and looking rich.
Sad to burst your bubbles, but for your benefit, it has to be said.
Instagram is not the prime example of optimum/grand/fulfilling life experiences. Because those who fake it to make it on the Instagrams of the world continue to fake it for the rest of their lives. There's no peace or fulfilment in that.
When you think about life, think long-term not short-term and you'll be happier.
True. I know a girl who has tons of followers, and posts amazing videos on Instagram which make her look beautiful and rich, when in reality she's poor and unattractive.
I figured this out at 33 Changed countries and jobs at 33. From 37 to 47 made my first million. For 99%,your family or friends or job is not going to save you. Time to try something new.
Me being a soon 26 year old adult,feeling behind my peers and wasted my entire youth with no talent and overwhelmed to restart my life😢 kindly do comment, if you have something to tell me ❤
You are not behind focus on you and what’s important you will get there 💖
@@GoldenKay19 Thank u so much for your kind words 💛 God bless u 🙏
You are still young. Start the life you want to live right now. I am almost 38 and my youth was wasted. I have to start over in certain ways too.
@@nia.gregory thank u nia💛
All your life-experience up to now, have prepared you for what is ahead of you. Think about the lessons you've learned. Be brave and take new steps towards what really matters for you! The word "talent" is a trap. Clear misson, grit, humility to learn and improve and change, being mindful about where to put in one's energy, and what to let go - these are better assets than talent. Keep an out-look for a mentor, which even could be a video or a book to start with. If you procrastinate, baby-steps are the way out of the rut, and not over-thinking (self-criticizing) too big. Sometimes breaking down tasks into five minute portions release the overwhelm-blockades - you don't need to like that little portion, just do it, if you know it would be more meaningful than doing nothing, and you do know it. OK? Feelings are not our best guides, but our core values are. Write your core values, for example on your bathroom mirror, and do smile and nod when you read them, do say Yes! aloud. You are not quite adult, yet, and needn't be. For many the best years come after 50, but don't drag your feet, just because of that statistic. Allow yourself to be fully alive, just as you are in this phase of your life. Ask yourself what that would mean, make a guess, and try it out. You can do it - keep guessing and trying, the picture of who you are, what you want, what you are capable of, it all gets clearer, by and by. And then it also might change when needs be. All the best wishes. Thank you for opening up to asking for suggestions. One day you are going to be a very good mentor yourself, with that honest and open mindset!
Oh Wow! 😳
I love ❤this message 🙏.
I am glad that am your age mate and ready to listen 👂🏿 to this powerful podcast 💪.
Thank you God 🙏 and for sharing this powerful message 🙏 today.
The compounding effect can’t be underestimated. Im turning 40 this year and it’s quite apparent the compounding effects of people’s life choices my age and the positions it lands them in life.
There's a reason why you learned those lessons at 38 and not 20. You did not learn those things at 20 because you weren't ready to learn them at 20. You did not at that time possess knowledge, experience, nor did you put in the process and change your vibrational frequency at that age to know the things you know now. You know and have learned them now (at 38) because you are ready to learn them now. Not 10 years from now and certainly not 20 years ago. This type of mindset can often leave a person in resentment over what hasn't been learned or experienced in the past. Life doesn't work this way. So, be at peace knowing that you are experiencing and learning exactly what you are supposed to and this is based on the daily process that you engage in, which shifts your vibration in the direction that you wish to go. Good luck.
She didn’t put in the process and change her vibrational frequency? What a condescending comment
Agreed. But the reason why many feel “I wish….” is mankind cannot be young forever or at least till the end. With age the ability to do things will decline, so as accomplishments.
One should marry a filthy rich person. Sad, but true. Brutal truth. It's kinda conniving, immoral......call it as you see fit.
But if you're by yourself or (even worse) married to a _regular_ person - life is gonna be *hell* .
Hey boss. Thanks for another biscuit of wisdom. I think a lot of us folks feel just a tad bit more courageous, and maybe even invincible with your insight in our pocket. Happy weekend. Already looking forward to the next video :D
38 but still looking very youthful
With age comes wisdom.😂
It's funny how all of these lessons can sometimes seem so obvious. Maybe because of social media and the internet, it feels like we've heard them all in one form or another. But sometimes we're not ready to fully receive any particular piece of advice and it just bounces off of us at the moment. What makes videos like this helpful is that they serve as a reminder. Maybe someone found this video at just the right time or one the lessons popped out at them at a particularly relevant point in life. By the way, I just made a video very similar to this, so I'd love to hear if any of those life lessons have impacted your life as well. Great vid Poppy.
JESUS LOVES YOU HE CARES ABOUT YOU READ THE BIBLE❤❤❤
I wish, as a man, that in my 20s I had realised that what women say they want and what they really want are often two completely different thing …
and more importantly …
Go where you’re wanted, not necessarily where members of the opposite gender are. The difference is subtle but total.
And …
A one % advantage is often a 100 % of the difference or outcome.
Both my family and God have saved me multiple times over.
Poppy - very happy to see your new 'life reflections' videos are getting you the following that you deserve.
Hey there, thank you! I think the universe listens when doing what feels right. Hope you're doing good!
I wish I knew that it takes more than love to sustain a healthy relationship. You have to truly do the work for yourself.
Guys learn this lesson around age 13
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Thanks for sharing these honest truth❤. Recently a lot of things has been happening in my life and i really need some encouragement in an honest way rather than saying honey coated words.
21. inhale pets...
ACCOUNTABILITY IS A WOMANS KRYPTONITE 😵
I agree, definitely better to try and fail than not at all. Love this video Poppy. Hope you’re settling in well 😘
Hey it's getting easier as the week goes by. Hope you enjoyed the video hun, thanks!
I invite you come to my place ..come silient inside ..don’t look around… just helping me
💯.…. Hermosa(Beautiful) Plus , move! Live in a like-minded enviroment... So we can have , build ; maintaining our familia, tribe, village - commuinty... Union. Vida es Familia. While evolving in your gift, gifts, purpose.
-poetaV. Vivían
Thanks for making us be real. Love it Poppy. Its kiff.
Thought the government will save you. That's what politicians say. Free this, free that....
Great content Poppy.. as always 😍
Thank you!! 😁
wish all u want. but each one has his/her own journey. and the best way to start living is not yesterday, not tomorrow, but today.
All you young people, save your first 100 k . Trust me in this one. Start at 20 years old.
I made this mistake. I had 100k usd saved up in my bank at the age of 23. I felt like I was already becoming and an old man and went through The YOLO phase and moved overseas to a country where my dollar went far.
Now being 39 yo and looking back, I was actually still young and should I had continued to invest my money (Instead of spending it all) I would have been a multimillionaire by now considering how much all the stock markets have grown since.
Why would anyone need to be saved?
Boring generic advice
Thankss! You gave me some very important fundamental aspects and advice for life. I recently realized I need a big change and in order to change I need to let go of things. Thanks to your insights I regained motivation in order to do so and become the main character in my own life again!! 😊
What you haven't mentioned is that I've always wanted to find an Asian woman to be my life partner and based on your example I'll start looking among Thai girls now. Thank you for that hint. And good luck at your new place!
I thought you‘d be like 28 years old😳
21. PPL who are nice to you can be more harmful, then ppl who are rude not, because their intensions are clear.
Don’t stress so much, things have a way of working themselves out.
Did we just become best friends? Lol i am married happily for almost 10 years but I can so relate! Youre so right! Comparison is the thief of joy!!
You look 20 for me
You're not wrong hun have definitely felt the heartless aspect of poor or rich peoples cruelty of greed and fakeness
> 4) Pros and cons don't work, what will you regret not doing?
This is one I need to learn lmao.
I try to be all mathematical about everything. Then lose out on experiences.
With most people in there is that hope of someone or something making our lives meaningful and contented. It doesn't mean that it will fix your life. God created us. He is the One that will give us life with meaning and contentment. "For God so loved the world (His creation, you) that He gave His only Son Jesus, to live, die, and rise to life again for the payment of death forour sin" "Who ever believes this will have life eternal and peace and contentment both now and forever"
I’m in my twenties trying to embrace everything I have in the moment. Making the best out of my twenties is so important. Your video gives me that motivation❤
I'm so happy to hear that - thank you!
Life is a journey... Embrace everything, the good and the bad life will be worth living.
Someone can help me,,?
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Thanks for being here and sharing valuable lessons. It’s a good reminder. Sometimes we have done the work and are doing the work but we still need to change our mindset to positive. Make changes if need be but keep pressing forward. And find the positive if you are doing the work. Appreciate the things you are doing and have already done. 💕
Absolutely!
Dearest young lady...you are not at all correct...someone has come to save you...someone has come to save everyone, who wants to be saved...and that is me. I am the universe...and...I will save you...if, you want it.
I love you...Stanley ❤
38???? Girl Id have never guessed, you look 25!
It's getting late early.😂
I'm sorry, you said you were 28?
I have known all of these when i was in my 20s. Anyway You re 38 but looks 28. Sooo Beautiful.
Omg what a babe!
Everything is me me me and I I I. It's all baggage. Who wants baggage? If your want to be saved, save others
As a 25 year old watching this I feel kind of underestimated by being told this is the novel advice I need for my 20s…
Wait, where did the pink ponies and purple unicorns go that everyone is chasing? R u saying life takes actual hard work and sacrifice and life coach is not an actual job???
women not taking accountability is their biggest issue. If you don't you cannot only not learn but cannot change your self destructive ways.
If you want a person to fight through life with, then you will need to find a like minded person who is willing to sacrifice with you.
Yeah, you must think more than yourself if you are going to have kids. You cannot take your money with you but you can leave children to live after you die.
Nothing groundbreaking,deep or profound in that statement. I never asked anyone to come save me. The talking point is stale
Your parents could have been teaching you this. Instead of creating only a safe bubble.
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I just looked her up on the web and I would say she really has an impressive background in investing. I will write her an email shortly.
What's your thoughts on 50/50 in relationships?
Great lessons. I´m 50 plus and I think it's great if we can share life advice
I am in my mid 40's and I think all of these lessons are absolutely spot-on. Well said.
She is speaking the truth here
Needed this today ❤
Why do we always need to reinforce this point 😂it’s very peculiar…
I'm 60 years old I new what you're telling us a long time ago God is not going to save you you need to save yourself.
Appreciated and thank you for sharing ❤
If you knew these when you were 20 then you wouldn’t have learned these lessons.
Why does everybody seem to want support? Help and rely on yourself.
no one? but my partner said he woudl save me form anythign. so i shouldnt trus thim. hes been hones twith me so far.he said no matter what happens we will always be frends at least and that hes always gonan be there for me at any tiem i need him. what do i do? i thought i had a safty net , so do i trust him now or not?
Mam i am your new subscriber😮😮
8:54 not many girls can do chin up. Great job.
Your lucky you are not stuck with a fat husband and kids love ❤
Thank you Poppy !
Anytime ❤️
This title is more relevant to men: for women there's always a simp or a white knight to save them
You’re 38 and glowing ✨
Youngest looking 38 year old I've ever seen
thank you for sharing 💗 lets get our dream lifes yall
Or just get a rich boyfriend
If youth knew.
If age could.
Jesús is. ❤
You are my age mate
29 years old soon to be in my thirties this month I don't like going to gym because in my eyes it is just waste of time and also when you go to gym you have to remember that you have to upkeep those gains you have earned, well I"m okay without going to the gym I"m not that muscular anyway, I"m okay with walking and eating less. As for success I"m not interested in earning billions of money and becoming succesfull al this is toxic, I"m happy with ordinary life, I don't need that so called success. I'm an introverted male have zero interest in people especially in this selfish and narcissistic timeline, never dated or married anyone, and I'm okay with it, because not all people are meant to be in relationships. I have already faced the fact that I will live single all my remaining life, maybe it's for the better, at least I won't have to deal with infinite drama and play circus monkey to entertain my so called wife which is never happy about anything. Single life is the most sane choice people can make right now, it hurts but it hurts way more when you are not compatible with a person you chosen and you have to break up because life with that person is impossible.
Really interesting take, here. Thanks for sharing it. I've been contemplating the idea that I may never have children or a wife and maybe some people aren't meant to, and that I'm on of them. I'm not closed to the idea but I think there is something about being willing to not have something that can be very powerful.
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Nice note of wisdom, what city are you in? ;)