yes watched your video for the first time , i am an older man , never had a threesome in my life , it was something I never had a change to even be around one, but always thought as you two said it is an experience that takes a lot of nerve and understand about each other, and yes doing it the first time would be a nervious time at first, and yes John as your wife said it is not something she is doing to compare how good the other man than you , it is about enjoying what your doing , and never compare each pattner to each other, it is to set back and learn how they other woman is satisfying your husbad how she is doing it different than you,/ then you can try them on your man in your own personal life, and yes the big thing would be communication,/ and yes as you said it is alright to talk about it afterwards but not be mad and upset with each other, personality I think that might be hard to do,, but after listening to you two talk , that both people husband and wife have to both agree that you want to try it together, and if you don't like it then you don't have to do it again, I always wanted to try it but never did
I'm bisexual man, mmf is very common play for us. I found after talking with other men..this is unique, because I was never having jealousy issues. And we've played this way from day one. Only complaint I have is wife only likes mmf, so do I but variety is the spice of ls..but we're working on that
I don't think anyone could do better than you two ! You seem so genuine and pleasant with a really squared away attitude toward each other...Just plain nice people who love each other and enjoy the same things ...And her smile is spectacular ! Wish you all the Best..............
From my personal experience, I've had many married wives in the past reach out to me wanting to know if I was interested in a threesome with them and their husband, (I'm a good looking guy, it happens), only to have the husband ultimately shoot down the idea out of fears that because I'm a bi guy, he'll get trapped into something with me, or that I won't be able to control myself and honor his boundaries. (Like bi guys are all sexed up pervs with zero self control, or something). Ultimately, I made the decision last year to only consider couples where both considered themselves bi or bi-curious, and that has worked out well. It weeds out the people who are not comfortable in their own skin by intentionally seeking out people where it's known (not hiding behind a false profile preference) exactly where others stand. I'm now in a Poly relationship with a great married couple where all three of us are bi.
Threesomes are great for people that enjoy them. Some people (men and women) need a little more at times and to have trusted friends to live those moments is great. Great friendships have grown out of threesomes. We have learned that couples that play together, stay together. The rule is, no solo play! That will become a problem…. Always, but always play together.
Thanks for the look at how great communication works to reward couple's, we love to watch your new posts together and have have grown a tighter bond because of it, even after 39 years together..
I had my first threesome with a couple twenty years ago, that time I didn't know about this lifestyle and I'm glad that I met many open mind couples like you guys, greetings from Perú!
First times for me,mmf.Straight guys.The female had a huge hunger for the situation.We got together a few times.Had ffm later on.So much satisfaction for all.No issues.Just a great time.
A dream beyond words to experiment such a adventure , never done it , would be a absolute privilege and respectful pleasure to share moments of greatness as these , it's tooooò beautiful to even contemplate
As a male, from my own perspective I would think that in the MFF threesome scenario. The GIRLS ARE IN CHARGE! Guys you are NOT the captain of the ship! You are along for the ride! 😏😉
....but then again for 99.9% of us average Joes, (myself included) the chances are one in go-zillion that it would ever happen. I think they should change the titles to ALL X-rated videos, and films to, “Things That Will Never, Ever Happen to YOU, EVER!”
The swinger lifestyle is about: respect, love, connecting and just feeling good. Sex is actually not the head goal here: it's a a part of swinging. I have a lot of good friends who do this and I have very good friendships! But if you are jealous then that lifestyle is not for ment for you.
hpv, herpes, aids, clap, gonereah and colds and coughs just arent for me. one can never be jealous of the swingers who petri dishes, most of us cant go to the gym and use shared gym equipment let alone shared pig holes.
My Wife and I were in the "Lifestyle" before it was called the "Lifestyle". We just stumbled along as best we knew how and most of the extra activities were fun, but there was a down side and again it was because we didn't have any guidelines , we didn't have John & Jackie to past on their knowledge and tips. Not in all situations, but there are drugs involved and we got hooked. After 15 years we stopped being a part of the lifestyle and got into drug recovery and have been clean & sober 32 years. Getting involved in the first place was her idea and even today the ladies have all the power and Consent is essential. You are so right also about if your relationship is on shaky ground, the Lifestyle is not for you.
Love the new hair color Jackie! Can you make a video of how you worked through those fears? What kind of conversations did you have with yourself and John to get through it? Often I don't fear what's happening in the bedroom between my s/o and play partner, it's fears about what happens outside of the bedroom between them and how they can develop something deeper than what we have based on that experience
That’s a valid fear. This fear is a trigger response in your brain (ex: hypothalamus, hippocampus, amygdala) These fears don’t just go away after 1 or 2 conversations
It's majorly Female-Female-Male Threesomes or FFMM Foresome or Lesbian couples and Straight couples FF-FM Foresome that are highly craved for!! Each situation gives different scenario-based craves...well to have great harmony!!
Why are you liking my comments....I know you are the RUclips gatekeeper to block my comments from reaching the audience or the publisher...Why are you blocking my comments from the public? Why???
Enjoy your videos and of your relationship is amazing. I've been enjoying the virtual parties. Cant wait until the next one. My partner and I are alil mew to the lifestyle. We visited your club in new Orleans last year and it has really opened doors in our relationship. Cant wait to go back
We really enjoy them. When we came to your club and decided to try the lifestyle my partner and I had just lost our 4 month old son. You guys has really helped us to live again and bring the spark back into our lives. I will definitely be joining the party on the 9th and will shoot you guys a message take care. See you then 😘
@@shakerra2010 thank you for sharing such a personal story. Our hearts go out to you and your partner. We are glad you were able to find peace through the lifestyle.
Myself & a male friend did a lot of MMF back in the day (35+ years ago) and the main thing WAS the main thing, the woman. Only 1 wanted DP, the others just a one-after-the-other balling, and 1 would do a blowie while the other 2 was busy.... they are a LOT of fun IF you trust everyone you are with!
My husband and I are just starting our journey and have had 2 Threesomes so far which were Great! Of course we’re learning each day and love hearing advice! You two seem healthy and calm, Thank you so much for sharing! 🥰
Love Jackie's hair - the change was a good look for her. I think she looks younger, John, I've been married 52 years and it's ashamed that we are both Happily Married!
You guys are pretty lucky coz wherever u are, its provably easier to find someone who shares the same view about this lifestyle. Not so with with where i am, im Singapore.
I'm NOW, comfortable with my wife with another man. I enjoy her enjoying herself and it does spice our relationship, and I trust her because i know it's just sex not a love relationship. She does have a fear of me with another woman and I've explained many times it's just sex to me and I'm not going to chase or go behind her back not sure how to convince her other wise so we don't explore that mff option much.
My boyfriend & I are in a very similar relationship, this is all new to me too, BC in my previous relationship well my ex was extremely jealous! So for my boyfriend now to be so open minded & understanding & realizing that's its "just sex!" We discussed it for a long time & each time we always agreed on how would handle the situation & not get jealous. As long as we're still together & still in love with each other at the end of the day that's what matter's! I LUVED this video, makes me feel good, the only ones & that we're not totally crazy for our lifestyle choices!! Lol
@@dwilliams658 I think no matter how you slice it you have to just get over the negativity and rewire your mind. For myself, its something I have fantasized about but I'm not sure I or my wife could ever overcome the obstacles. Plus, we could never agree on which partner to bring in. There's no way I'm getting into bed with another guy and there's no way she's bringing in another woman..... To add. Its for different reasons. Im just not into dudes, but for her, there is NO WAY she is allowing me to bang another woman. So its a no for us.
@@Lambdamale. that's all right, totally understandable. It really just depends. My wife and I would never have considered this, but now after all of our experience we're talking about it. Might bring a guy in.
It has been so hard finding someone we can have one with. We live in a rural area where there is not much options. We have been in the current place we live and also have a little one. So even though we are ready we havent had luck. On date nights we go out to the closest city but still no luck. we enjoy dancing and going to see live bands . Just bummed out. Any tips?
If you are after a female could be difficult but there must surely be LOTS of boys aged 18 and 19 who would love to be involved. Just make sure he's at least 18.
This video is good but it was indeed, or at least sounded like a sales pitch to have a 3some. It has to be talked about with like minded couples and made fun. NO expectations!!!! I have had 3somes before and its the greatest thing ever. I never lost a friend or anything because there were no jealous feelings and all close friends getting together for a good time.
One of most arousing and sensual things for me is sitting back a bit and watching my wife's expressions and body movements while she is with another lover male or female. I love watching her enjoying herself before motioning me to join in.
we have had a MFM that did have some MM contact. It was all good we did enjoy it, MM, but the main focus was her. She did enjoy the show that we put on for her
My wife and I are looking to have one one day. Definitely on the fantasy list that we are open to do. Looking for a single girl is dang near impossible. 😫
@@ericfreshcorn3590 cool. You have to fit what we want, though. Have to have a good personality, not pushy and all that. And have a good sized tool. You could meet my wife in a bar, she will be wearing shorts or a short skirt with no panties, after you start talking to her and getting a bit intimate you can slip a finger into her and get her really turned on.
I wonder how people that claim to be morally against this type of lifestyle wind up here, it's not like this just popped up on their suggested views. I would like to hear from them how and why they came to comment here.
@@mikeslintz8281 So I have to ask, why are you here? Is it to show your (in your own mind) moral superiority? Or, more likely, view things you fantasize about? You didn't just open up youtube and this popped up.
Let’s not forget about men who are bisexual who like mmf 3 ways! Also, sometimes men don’t want another man because they can’t be honest about their own attractions to men. So, speaking of stepping up to 2020 or actually 2021 now!
Why the sales pitch ??? There is too much talk about the constant positive outcomes in the "lifestyle". The negatives are sold as " Obstacles", "Fears" , "Unnecessary Jealousies" and the positives are always "Healthy", "Maturing ", Growing Together" and "Building Stronger Relationships". Fears are never recognized and negatives are never confirmed as realities. In the end there is only a very small percentage of people who survive the "Lifestyle". Caution is a must and measure the Fantasy VS. Reality before you open Pandora's Box.
Well said! However for many 1st timers this is not a "lifestyle" at first but simply an experience they want to explore before becoming a lifestyle. 🤷♀️🙂
@@sunny_dhende6289 1st timers can't possibly experience the lifestyle. Many times 1st timers are brought into the experience by veterans . Most times it's the husbands who become friendly and the veteran using his wife as an offering to the prospect through introduction. Most times it's the veterans wife who works to convince the prospects wife. I have seen this many times. My experience was meeting a woman who I dated for 5 years who was a divorced swinger and very slowly let me know her past. After a few months we where invited to a party and it turned out the be a "Key Party". I saw 4 couples that were friends of my GF and was surprised that they were surprised to see me. The hostess asked for my car keys and put them in a large bowl. My girl friend then explained what was going to happen and made sure I was willing to "play". We "played" for 2 years until my GF couldn't deal with it anymore, I was confused at first but enjoyed NOT "Playing" anymore. Way too much drama to experience while witnessing the fallout. My GF told me later that she never wanted to bring me into the "Lifestyle" but was shamed into it by her friends. Sorry for the long post but I wanted to make my opinion crystal clear upon MY life experience.
Ive been with wife for 15 year's, and i am in no way jealous of a mmf, before we got together she had done both a mmf, and a mfm, but I've wanted to do a mmf, for her, cause it's all about the women, in that scenario, it's all about the pleasure for her. But the 2 guy's she was with, it wasn't about her, it was about what they wanted, gonna have to show her this so she can see what I'm talking about. So she understands what I'm saying.
Great video. You two people look great at your age. I'm 59 and enjoy the swinging lifestyle... do you think you will be swinging when you are in your sixties?
My SO and I have never done anything like this, and likely never will, but like most couples we have discussed it. In our fantasy talks I prefer the FFM version and she does as well, she doesn't like the MFM version at all. IMO the thing that makes the FFM better is everyone could interact with each other in all combinations, something that wouldn't happen in a MFM. When we've discussed the fantasy with her GF's almost every one of them said they would prefer a MFM. That being said we have had two say they wanted to play with us when we were out partying with them and they had a couple of drinks, I guess is a woman's prerogative to change her mind.
@@kbanghart In our case, if we were to act on the threesome fantasy and it was a FFM, she would play with the other female, I would play with the other female and we would play with each other. So everyone could be both giver and receiver of anyone's attention at any time. In a MFM scenario she would play with him and I would play with her, no MM interaction. She doesn't like the MFM scenario anyway so that is off the table for both of us. I know a lot of women like the idea of being with two men, my SO just isn't one of them, even in fantasy.
@@khanKHAN-gi5eb mfm are fun, I'm straight but it's exciting working together with another man to please a woman and erotic knowing she gonna get us both of us off
I use to swing with a girlfriend. Now that I'm marrief to a different lady she says no I'm not a lesbian. I don't want to push her into it however I did explain to her she didn't have to be. She could watch or both could service. You are a beautiful couple especially the feminine part.
Both could service?? You've got some nerve to say that. You sound so selfish and entitled. The only aim of a ffm 3some isnt to please the man but for all 3 to enjoy and please each other.
technically speaking MFF is a disaster unless 2F agree w each other n trust each other to an extent that M runs through the whole course w just one condom. I m a Man its my experience.
That's what I'm concerned about too. Are you looking for a guy, or a girl? I Imagine it's easier to find a guy to screw my wife, although finding a decent guy is the key. I've heard that it's easier maybe if you go with a couple.
@@LaMondre08 I've heard it's really hard trying to find a woman, I thi k they're called a unicorn for the obvious reasons. Much easier to find a guy probably, but then there's the risk of guys being weird.
If they are so great you should do 2 dudes and 1 Girl. I am going to assume this is 1 dude 2 girls. That way it is fair to your Wife/Girlfriend. Also the Way he said we are look for Girl tells me he is selfish and wants his cake and eat it too..
A little off topic but, with the lower number of marriages/"divorces" and single-men not welcomed (unless specifically invited by a couple) in the lifestyle what options do they have....talking about single men 45 years old and older? I don't see couples wanting older chaps participating in the fun so their options seem to be slim and none....thanks..
While not all clubs or parties may invite single men to attend, I know our clubs coletteclubs.com/ have an approval process for both couples and singles (both men and women). To say no one would be interested in any men over 45 is just not true. Remember those couples in swinger or open relationships are just a slice of society. All ethnicities, ages, body types and backgrounds.
They could be incredible. I want ask you a question? Is a threesom Is it all about the sex? Or is there another underning reason a couple or one of the couple wants to do this? I feel that its not just about the physical act of being horny for some of us. 😊
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@@jdanielzuk Not necessarily, most women who haven't talked about it yet just aren't comfortable with it at all, because it's still taboo. But with open and honest communication, anything is possible with a lot of people. Not all, of course, but many, imo. For example, my wife would have never even considered it, now after having brought it up and discussing it, she actually may be ready to go for it.
Men and women are so different when it comes to straight . Men and women . The man wants no part .more straight women are more exceptional . Women to women . When it comes to man to man with 1 woman ,the man has to have some gay undertones to allow it . Simply a man is so masulan . Just saying for most men . And i think married to a women would most likely would rather share the women . And not see her man with another mab
I like to do it with my husband bit am afraid that he will love her or enjoying with her more than me Am so confused I love him and he loves me but we wanna try this experience Still confused
i just came across you all and have a ? Is it wrong for me to be excited about the thought of my wife being hit on and possibly touched?by another male?
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yes watched your video for the first time , i am an older man , never had a threesome in my life , it was something I never had a change to even be around one, but always thought as you two said it is an experience that takes a lot of nerve and understand about each other, and yes doing it the first time would be a nervious time at first, and yes John as your wife said it is not something she is doing to compare how good the other man than you , it is about enjoying what your doing , and never compare each pattner to each other, it is to set back and learn how they other woman is satisfying your husbad how she is doing it different than you,/ then you can try them on your man in your own personal life, and yes the big thing would be communication,/ and yes as you said it is alright to talk about it afterwards but not be mad and upset with each other, personality I think that might be hard to do,, but after listening to you two talk , that both people husband and wife have to both agree that you want to try it together, and if you don't like it then you don't have to do it again, I always wanted to try it but never did
I'm bisexual man, mmf is very common play for us. I found after talking with other men..this is unique, because I was never having jealousy issues. And we've played this way from day one. Only complaint I have is wife only likes mmf, so do I but variety is the spice of ls..but we're working on that
I don't think anyone could do better than you two ! You seem so genuine and pleasant with a really squared away attitude toward each other...Just plain nice people who love each other and enjoy the same things ...And her smile is spectacular ! Wish you all the Best..............
Aawww...thank you!
From my personal experience, I've had many married wives in the past reach out to me wanting to know if I was interested in a threesome with them and their husband, (I'm a good looking guy, it happens), only to have the husband ultimately shoot down the idea out of fears that because I'm a bi guy, he'll get trapped into something with me, or that I won't be able to control myself and honor his boundaries. (Like bi guys are all sexed up pervs with zero self control, or something).
Ultimately, I made the decision last year to only consider couples where both considered themselves bi or bi-curious, and that has worked out well. It weeds out the people who are not comfortable in their own skin by intentionally seeking out people where it's known (not hiding behind a false profile preference) exactly where others stand.
I'm now in a Poly relationship with a great married couple where all three of us are bi.
good as it gets, friend.......
@@hippiewithacowboyhat sounds gay and ungodful. Stop being gay dude. Learn to be smarter.
Threesomes are great for people that enjoy them. Some people (men and women) need a little more at times and to have trusted friends to live those moments is great. Great friendships have grown out of threesomes. We have learned that couples that play together, stay together. The rule is, no solo play! That will become a problem…. Always, but always play together.
Solo play may not be a problem though
My wife and I prefer to play solo. It works for us, and we're going on 25 years of marriage this year.
@@hippiewithacowboyhat How did that start for you both?
@@hippiewithacowboyhat Are You From Ohio
you guys seem so healthy, loving and nurturing ... thankyou for sharing
thank you!
Thanks for the look at how great communication works to reward couple's, we love to watch your new posts together and have have grown a tighter bond because of it, even after 39 years together..
Our pleasure!
Would love to chat X David IAM 56 slim very genuine be nice to chat X
WOW! I am green with envy with the open relationship you two have. Thank you for sharing.
I had my first threesome with a couple twenty years ago, that time I didn't know about this lifestyle and I'm glad that I met many open mind couples like you guys, greetings from Perú!
U are all sick
We have been in the LS for 23 years.
LOVE IT
Are You Still Doing it?
First times for me,mmf.Straight guys.The female had a huge hunger for the situation.We got together a few times.Had ffm later on.So much satisfaction for all.No issues.Just a great time.
How did you choose the other man?
A dream beyond words to experiment such a adventure , never done it , would be a absolute privilege and respectful pleasure to share moments of greatness as these , it's tooooò beautiful to even contemplate
As a male, from my own perspective I would think that in the MFF threesome scenario. The GIRLS ARE IN CHARGE! Guys you are NOT the captain of the ship! You are along for the ride! 😏😉
....but then again for 99.9% of us average Joes, (myself included) the chances are one in go-zillion that it would ever happen. I think they should change the titles to ALL X-rated videos, and films to, “Things That Will Never, Ever Happen to YOU, EVER!”
Lol that sounds very true. Although honestly also with two men and one woman, the guys aren't in charge either, it's about the girls pleasure.
Nope.. I'm in charge, and that's how they want it to be
@@gboogie360 Then YOUSIR are a better man than I, and my hats off to you!
@@deanbunnell4155 nahh... doesnt make me a better man
The swinger lifestyle is about: respect, love, connecting and just feeling good. Sex is actually not the head goal here: it's a a part of swinging. I have a lot of good friends who do this and I have very good friendships! But if you are jealous then that lifestyle is not for ment for you.
hpv, herpes, aids, clap, gonereah and colds and coughs just arent for me. one can never be jealous of the swingers who petri dishes, most of us cant go to the gym and use shared gym equipment let alone shared pig holes.
Hi dear 😘
Looking for couple for threesome not less than 30 in canada
My Wife and I were in the "Lifestyle" before it was called the "Lifestyle". We just stumbled along as best we knew how and most of the extra activities were fun, but there was a down side and again it was because we didn't have any guidelines , we didn't have John & Jackie to past on their knowledge and tips. Not in all situations, but there are drugs involved and we got hooked. After 15 years we stopped being a part of the lifestyle and got into drug recovery and have been clean & sober 32 years. Getting involved in the first place was her idea and even today the ladies have all the power and Consent is essential. You are so right also about if your relationship is on shaky ground, the Lifestyle is not for you.
@@wasclit11 Cool thank you for sharing. Craigs would be pretty tough to deal with
Great episode, Jackie and John.... Threesomes are awesome... That's how I got into this fantastic lifestyle!!!
Are You And Your Wife Still Active?
Love the new hair color Jackie!
Can you make a video of how you worked through those fears? What kind of conversations did you have with yourself and John to get through it?
Often I don't fear what's happening in the bedroom between my s/o and play partner, it's fears about what happens outside of the bedroom between them and how they can develop something deeper than what we have based on that experience
Thank you! We have quite a few articles and blogs on the subject of fear. You might want to check out this video, openlove101.com/antidote-for-fear/
In our 3some experience, which is ffm. She always did the communication and set ups. Also set rules before hand i.e. no kissing.
That’s a valid fear. This fear is a trigger response in your brain (ex: hypothalamus, hippocampus, amygdala)
These fears don’t just go away after 1 or 2 conversations
Hi dear looking for couple for threesome not less than 30 in canada
@@chriswilson1098 you are right
But in threesome ffm or mmf
I think their are no rules
It's majorly Female-Female-Male Threesomes or FFMM Foresome or Lesbian couples and Straight couples FF-FM Foresome that are highly craved for!! Each situation gives different scenario-based craves...well to have great harmony!!
Why are you liking my comments....I know you are the RUclips gatekeeper to block my comments from reaching the audience or the publisher...Why are you blocking my comments from the public? Why???
Both of you are such a great couple. Great video, you both worked well communicating points and ideas off of each other.
Thank you!
@@openlove101 I Will Have One With You Guys But John No Offense But I Will Do Jackie You Can Be Involved
Enjoy your videos and of your relationship is amazing. I've been enjoying the virtual parties. Cant wait until the next one. My partner and I are alil mew to the lifestyle. We visited your club in new Orleans last year and it has really opened doors in our relationship. Cant wait to go back
Thank you so much! Glad you like them!
We really enjoy them. When we came to your club and decided to try the lifestyle my partner and I had just lost our 4 month old son. You guys has really helped us to live again and bring the spark back into our lives. I will definitely be joining the party on the 9th and will shoot you guys a message take care. See you then 😘
@@shakerra2010 thank you for sharing such a personal story. Our hearts go out to you and your partner. We are glad you were able to find peace through the lifestyle.
@@shakerra2010 how is it going so far?
Very true and good video , I've had girls living with me for many years and honesty is best for sure
Myself & a male friend did a lot of MMF back in the day (35+ years ago) and the main thing WAS the main thing, the woman. Only 1 wanted DP, the others just a one-after-the-other balling, and 1 would do a blowie while the other 2 was busy.... they are a LOT of fun IF you trust everyone you are with!
You'd eat the male and female?
Definitely eat both partners and enjoy to fun everyone is part of
Sage advice, as always. Love you guys, you are both great! Thank you!
My husband and I are just starting our journey and have had 2 Threesomes so far which were Great! Of course we’re learning each day and love hearing advice! You two seem healthy and calm, Thank you so much for sharing! 🥰
Who are you having as a third, a male or female?
Female💜
@@babesbikesbooze75 nice. I assume you and your husband both play with her (if it's the same person ) ?
@@babesbikesbooze75 did you have a successful 3some?
Hi there,it was a pleasure reading your comment I’m glad you enjoyed everything so far I’m in the lifestyle as well
I like her personality
I haven't even watched the video yet. ....("saved" for later). I just want to say how great Jackie's blonde highlights look in the thumbnail.
Oh thank you!
Great video! I love how down to earth you present this topic.
that Beautiful woman you have is perfect, not everyone has that luck that you have, take good care of her.
Love Jackie's hair - the change was a good look for her. I think she looks younger, John, I've been married 52 years and it's ashamed that we are both Happily Married!
You two make the best videos fun and informative
OMG Jackie. Your hair looks so awesome.❤ Love you guys😙
Thank you so much 😀
Do you swing MaryAnne?
@@chriswilson1098 We are working on it,Chris.😁 at least he's watching John and Jackies videos. It's a start👍🏻
@@openlove101 😚❤
MaryAnne Weldon are interested in mfm or fmf? Or both?
Jackie is adorable…
Great advice! We really like Jackie's hair!!
Thank you ❤️
You guys are pretty lucky coz wherever u are, its provably easier to find someone who shares the same view about this lifestyle. Not so with with where i am, im Singapore.
Awesome discussion, thanks for sharing.
Just one curiosity, have Jackie ever ahd a dp? Thanks for the video and information
Dvp and dping Jackie would be amazing.
Chris Wilson just too bad they dont answer the comments , but you are right , it would be amazing
Carlos Montoya I wonder if she gets loaded and filled with creampies?
Quite alot of eye contact between you both .seems like your both looking for reassurance which one really likes to do this mmf ?
Both
I'm NOW, comfortable with my wife with another man. I enjoy her enjoying herself and it does spice our relationship, and I trust her because i know it's just sex not a love relationship. She does have a fear of me with another woman and I've explained many times it's just sex to me and I'm not going to chase or go behind her back not sure how to convince her other wise so we don't explore that mff option much.
My boyfriend & I are in a very similar relationship, this is all new to me too, BC in my previous relationship well my ex was extremely jealous! So for my boyfriend now to be so open minded & understanding & realizing that's its "just sex!"
We discussed it for a long time & each time we always agreed on how would handle the situation & not get jealous. As long as we're still together & still in love with each other at the end of the day that's what matter's! I LUVED this video, makes me feel good, the only ones & that we're not totally crazy for our lifestyle choices!! Lol
@@dwilliams658 I think no matter how you slice it you have to just get over the negativity and rewire your mind.
For myself, its something I have fantasized about but I'm not sure I or my wife could ever overcome the obstacles. Plus, we could never agree on which partner to bring in. There's no way I'm getting into bed with another guy and there's no way she's bringing in another woman.....
To add. Its for different reasons. Im just not into dudes, but for her, there is NO WAY she is allowing me to bang another woman. So its a no for us.
@@Lambdamale. that's all right, totally understandable. It really just depends. My wife and I would never have considered this, but now after all of our experience we're talking about it. Might bring a guy in.
@@kbanghart Just make sure you're on the same page. I know people who live this way and are totally cool with it.
Are you from Ohio
Yeah the way to be special is to share you companion as they aren't your love
Really hot conversation.
It has been so hard finding someone we can have one with. We live in a rural area where there is not much options. We have been in the current place we live and also have a little one. So even though we are ready we havent had luck. On date nights we go out to the closest city but still no luck. we enjoy dancing and going to see live bands . Just bummed out. Any tips?
If you are after a female could be difficult but there must surely be LOTS of boys aged 18 and 19 who would love to be involved. Just make sure he's at least 18.
Try out some of the dating apps
Tiffany msg us
This video is good but it was indeed, or at least sounded like a sales pitch to have a 3some. It has to be talked about with like minded couples and made fun. NO expectations!!!! I have had 3somes before and its the greatest thing ever. I never lost a friend or anything because there were no jealous feelings and all close friends getting together for a good time.
One of most arousing and sensual things for me is sitting back a bit and watching my wife's expressions and body movements while she is with another lover male or female. I love watching her enjoying herself before motioning me to join in.
God, i so want to try this!!!!
Are You Still Doing That If So Let Me Know
@@ericfreshcorn3590 yes
@@paulnikola3289 Okay I Am Interested Do You Live In Ohio
@@ericfreshcorn3590 no sorry we are over 10 hours away from Ohio
we have had a MFM that did have some MM contact. It was all good we did enjoy it, MM, but the main focus was her. She did enjoy the show that we put on for her
My wife and I are looking to have one one day. Definitely on the fantasy list that we are open to do. Looking for a single girl is dang near impossible. 😫
My wife and I also, except we're looking for a guy
@@kbanghart I Will Do It
@@ericfreshcorn3590 cool. You have to fit what we want, though. Have to have a good personality, not pushy and all that. And have a good sized tool. You could meet my wife in a bar, she will be wearing shorts or a short skirt with no panties, after you start talking to her and getting a bit intimate you can slip a finger into her and get her really turned on.
@@kbanghart Are You To In Ohio
@@ericfreshcorn3590 nah CA
I wonder how people that claim to be morally against this type of lifestyle wind up here, it's not like this just popped up on their suggested views. I would like to hear from them how and why they came to comment here.
Lol good luck, I doubt any of them will give an honest answer
Somebody has to tell you Your sick if you believe in this type of behavior
@@mikeslintz8281 So I have to ask, why are you here? Is it to show your (in your own mind) moral superiority? Or, more likely, view things you fantasize about? You didn't just open up youtube and this popped up.
@@mikeslintz8281 have you tried a threesome then?
Great comment William ! 👍💪
Let’s not forget about men who are bisexual who like mmf 3 ways! Also, sometimes men don’t want another man because they can’t be honest about their own attractions to men. So, speaking of stepping up to 2020 or actually 2021 now!
I'm not attracted to men at all, I'm a guy, but I do want to play with a penis, hehe and see how it goes.
I'm into mfm where we work together to please her and not each, not my thing and it's erotic knowing she will get both of us off
@@kbanghart I'm straight too but do find circle jerk porn a real turn on
@@gregXxo that's hot!! I'm the same.
@@gregXxo my wife and I both agree it would be ecstasy to have her do a spit roast.
They can be if you get the right 2 girls but can also be awkward with the wrong girls
By wrong girls, what do you mean?
Why the sales pitch ??? There is too much talk about the constant positive outcomes in the "lifestyle". The negatives are sold as " Obstacles", "Fears" , "Unnecessary Jealousies" and the positives are always "Healthy", "Maturing ", Growing Together" and "Building Stronger Relationships". Fears are never recognized and negatives are never confirmed as realities. In the end there is only a very small percentage of people who survive the "Lifestyle". Caution is a must and measure the Fantasy VS. Reality before you open Pandora's Box.
Very small percentage? Do you have a good source for that?
So agree with you, Scott. And this is the reason why I haven't gone down this road with my husband.
@@erkakent3318 if you're open and honest like me and my wife are it's very satisfying
Well said! However for many 1st timers this is not a "lifestyle" at first but simply an experience they want to explore before becoming a lifestyle. 🤷♀️🙂
@@sunny_dhende6289 1st timers can't possibly experience the lifestyle. Many times 1st timers are brought into the experience by veterans . Most times it's the husbands who become friendly and the veteran using his wife as an offering to the prospect through introduction. Most times it's the veterans wife who works to convince the prospects wife. I have seen this many times. My experience was meeting a woman who I dated for 5 years who was a divorced swinger and very slowly let me know her past. After a few months we where invited to a party and it turned out the be a "Key Party". I saw 4 couples that were friends of my GF and was surprised that they were surprised to see me. The hostess asked for my car keys and put them in a large bowl. My girl friend then explained what was going to happen and made sure I was willing to "play". We "played" for 2 years until my GF couldn't deal with it anymore, I was confused at first but enjoyed NOT "Playing" anymore. Way too much drama to experience while witnessing the fallout. My GF told me later that she never wanted to bring me into the "Lifestyle" but was shamed into it by her friends. Sorry for the long post but I wanted to make my opinion crystal clear upon MY life experience.
Ive been with wife for 15 year's, and i am in no way jealous of a mmf, before we got together she had done both a mmf, and a mfm, but I've wanted to do a mmf, for her, cause it's all about the women, in that scenario, it's all about the pleasure for her. But the 2 guy's she was with, it wasn't about her, it was about what they wanted, gonna have to show her this so she can see what I'm talking about. So she understands what I'm saying.
I feel like Mosses, that just came down from the mountains after watching this…..
This is for Jackie. which do you enjoy more. Man man woman or the other ?
To each his own not for me
Has Jackie tried dp?
That doll on the shelf is creepy. Keep watching it to see if it moves lol
Great conversation
Begin the journey to where? For what?
I have had a 3 some with couples really good friends know love meeting new couples UK Manchester
David we are a couple based in London
Thank you!! john & jackie
Great video. You two people look great at your age. I'm 59 and enjoy the swinging lifestyle... do you think you will be swinging when you are in your sixties?
Absolutely
Great
@@openlove101 well I’m 26 so I have a long way to go but sixties??! Lol people still have sex at that age?
@@sidetrackbeatz5431
Of course! Mostly men though.
Ohhh yesss! Amazing experience !
My SO and I have never done anything like this, and likely never will, but like most couples we have discussed it. In our fantasy talks I prefer the FFM version and she does as well, she doesn't like the MFM version at all. IMO the thing that makes the FFM better is everyone could interact with each other in all combinations, something that wouldn't happen in a MFM. When we've discussed the fantasy with her GF's almost every one of them said they would prefer a MFM. That being said we have had two say they wanted to play with us when we were out partying with them and they had a couple of drinks, I guess is a woman's prerogative to change her mind.
What do you mean, would not be able to interact in all combinations?
@@kbanghart In our case, if we were to act on the threesome fantasy and it was a FFM, she would play with the other female, I would play with the other female and we would play with each other. So everyone could be both giver and receiver of anyone's attention at any time.
In a MFM scenario she would play with him and I would play with her, no MM interaction.
She doesn't like the MFM scenario anyway so that is off the table for both of us.
I know a lot of women like the idea of being with two men, my SO just isn't one of them, even in fantasy.
@@willammunny5589 Oh gotcha, ok. In my case, I wouldn't mind playing with the other M.
Ready here
@@khanKHAN-gi5eb mfm are fun, I'm straight but it's exciting working together with another man to please a woman and erotic knowing she gonna get us both of us off
Cant wait to hear about the open divorce.
Many monogamous couples get divorced, you can try there.
@@kbanghart what's you point? Isn't mine.
@@alharrison1038 divorce.
I have a life lesson for you. Not everyone thinks like you
I use to swing with a girlfriend. Now that I'm marrief to a different lady she says no I'm not a lesbian. I don't want to push her into it however I did explain to her she didn't have to be. She could watch or both could service. You are a beautiful couple especially the feminine part.
Both could service?? You've got some nerve to say that. You sound so selfish and entitled. The only aim of a ffm 3some isnt to please the man but for all 3 to enjoy and please each other.
Bring a guy into it then you can both work together to please her
@@sky-od8cq how do you know? You aren't them. The goal of a ffm is whatever they want it to be as they decide.
Lmao why does dude look like he’s gunna hull off and smack the shit outta bev?!😅
Someone once said that if a man cheats on his wife he still loves his wife...but if a woman cheats on her husband it's already over.
How does this relate to the video?
I won't say it can't work. But I will say you best know exactly what your partner is thinking and their psychology.
That's a weird quote. Who's to say the guy still loves his wife? LOL
technically speaking MFF is a disaster unless 2F agree w each other n trust each other to an extent that M runs through the whole course w just one condom. I m a Man its my experience.
modern 3 somes are nothing more then a man putting on 5 condoms and feeling the same thing.
What are condoms?🤪
Dvp with Jackie would be amazing.
for sure!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@HAMMER8181 gettin old now,could use the help...............
She has a banging body , nice rack . Outgoing girl .
@@dwightdodd3734 been in a few mfm, they're is something I find masculine about working with another guy to please a girl
@@gregXxo Girl people require a LOT of stimulation.....Most of us can use the help.............
Communication is key
But how and where do you find a suitable playmate?? Me and my wife have looked in tons of places but can't find a third.
That's what I'm concerned about too. Are you looking for a guy, or a girl? I Imagine it's easier to find a guy to screw my wife, although finding a decent guy is the key. I've heard that it's easier maybe if you go with a couple.
You can call me up any time !!
@@peterfong2241 what are your stats?
We’re looking for a woman.
@@LaMondre08 I've heard it's really hard trying to find a woman, I thi k they're called a unicorn for the obvious reasons. Much easier to find a guy probably, but then there's the risk of guys being weird.
Great contant
If they are so great you should do 2 dudes and 1 Girl. I am going to assume this is 1 dude 2 girls. That way it is fair to your Wife/Girlfriend. Also the Way he said we are look for Girl tells me he is selfish and wants his cake and eat it too..
any club close to New Bedford ,MA
Y’all are great
How do you feel when jackie is with a nother man while you sit and watch. Has this happen? And if it did how did you feel was it a turn on?
I've thought about my wife being with another guy
love you guys !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
🥰
A little off topic but, with the lower number of marriages/"divorces" and single-men not welcomed (unless specifically invited by a couple) in the lifestyle what options do they have....talking about single men 45 years old and older? I don't see couples wanting older chaps participating in the fun so their options seem to be slim and none....thanks..
While not all clubs or parties may invite single men to attend, I know our clubs coletteclubs.com/ have an approval process for both couples and singles (both men and women). To say no one would be interested in any men over 45 is just not true. Remember those couples in swinger or open relationships are just a slice of society. All ethnicities, ages, body types and backgrounds.
My wife loves older men.
Plen122 Im 44 years old hit me up if you are interested
Young, hung, fit and good looking guys are treated like gods in the lifestyle unfortunately not every man fits that description
@@kurtlessnar8497 good point.
You look like jordon from the tv series “crossing jordon “
Aawww...thanks
They could be incredible. I want ask you a question? Is a threesom Is it all about the sex? Or is there another underning reason a couple or one of the couple wants to do this? I feel that its not just about the physical act of being horny for some of us. 😊
Jackie is gorgeous!!!!!!
No boundaries here. Yikes
I have so many questions
Jackie is a Goddess
My wife has been wanting to try DP for the first time. I was wondering how to find another guy to help me for filling her desires?
Please add reply if interested or have any suggestions on how to make this happen! P.S we're from Tn.
Are you interested in dvp as well?
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I am interesting in threesome not less than 30 in canada
Hi dear
Where you from
I am from Canada 🇨🇦
Would love my wife to experience mmf three some I truly believe if she would try it she would love it!
Interested
@@conniewilliams1129 hello Ms Williams.☺
@@jdanielzuk Not necessarily, most women who haven't talked about it yet just aren't comfortable with it at all, because it's still taboo. But with open and honest communication, anything is possible with a lot of people. Not all, of course, but many, imo. For example, my wife would have never even considered it, now after having brought it up and discussing it, she actually may be ready to go for it.
I would love my wife to let me and another guy play with her
Where you from??
hi
Men and women are so different when it comes to straight . Men and women . The man wants no part .more straight women are more exceptional . Women to women . When it comes to man to man with 1 woman ,the man has to have some gay undertones to allow it . Simply a man is so masulan . Just saying for most men . And i think married to a women would most likely would rather share the women . And not see her man with another mab
I to join you guys one day
So she has a boyfriend?
I'm not sharing my girl with anyone..
So why are you here lol
Oh crap , now u tell me ?
Whay married thin
I like to do it with my husband bit am afraid that he will love her or enjoying with her more than me
Am so confused
I love him and he loves me but we wanna try this experience
Still confused
keep watching the videos and be sure to check out our written articles on openlove101.com
i just came across you all and have a ? Is it wrong for me to be excited about the thought of my wife being hit on and possibly touched?by another male?
Not at all. Ive watched my wife being hit on and it turns me on like crazy
@@garyoleary7901 yes me too,where are you all from?
We are from atlanta,ga
@@expeditingwithbruthamarc618
we are from New Hampshire
I thank FFM is better.that my dream thing.but I trouble getting a girl.
Wonderful
What ever Happened to Just a Man and Women doing What The Lord Designed in the First z place! Two Shall Become ONE! , Not three or Four!
It appears that you two haven't experimented with MMF? I was hoping your video would talk about how that felt & played out.
Actually our very first threesome experience was a MMF. I've written about this in some of my blogs on our site, openlove101.com/
I can't wait to try MMF, as a guy.
Now do you mean a MMF or MFM?
@Openlove101 did Jackie get a dp or dvp?
@@chriswilson1098 dvp sounds way too difficult to manage, and not much fun. I guess it all depends.
Great episode, witch do you guys enjoy,? Mff fmf mmf mfm ?
Really nice being able to talk about and justify sexual perversions 🤠
Beautiful Wife - very visually attrctive.
She is definitely she's only with him to get money but she is definitely not straight at all should rather be with another woman and a guy any day
You got, that, 👉 right