As for Myth #1. Does anyone in a monogamous relationship even think that you won’t have desires or attractions toward other people besides their spouse? Of course not. Having the respect and dedication to not act on those urges is what makes a monogamous relationship special.
@sunny your speaking to self discipline in a relationship. Thats just maturity in a person, but even with that you can and probably get to a place where you want your partner to be happy in their who life.
Love the hair Jackie - you too John. Being married for 51 years starting at the age of 18 we have done it all. She cheated, I cheated, we did the lifestyle before it was called the lifestyle and we almost got a divorce four times, but Dad said why get a divorce and go out and mess up two other people's lives. Due to her medications the sex dropped off, but due to your videos I have started flirting with her, giving her compliments, telling her how much she turns me on, a little touch here and there, a massage, etc. - the fire is still there - I just have to put a little more effort into it and that is half the fun is it not?. We may be Vanilla now but I can add whipped cream, sprinkles, nuts, and a cherry on top. Besides, if you've never made love with swim fins and a Rubber Chicken - well, you just haven't lived.
Hey guys. Another great video. What strikes me is how well both of you express yourself verbally, especially Jackie (the Hotness). It just makes the sapiosexual in me go Yesyesyesyes!!
Great, great stuff you two! I've owned "The Ethical Slut" for many years now; a decade or so. May be time to grab the newest version, huh? I have made their 21 Do's and Don'ts of the Lifestyles my personal Love Guide, or my stone tablet of "The 21 Commandments of Expansive Love," so to speak. (wink) What is amazing is that though I've mastered many of them, still working on others, and 1 or 2 are REALLY challenging and sometimes seem impossible to achieve, BUT... not impossible if I keep learning to fail better, right!? (wink) As always Jackie and John, fantastic stuff, great v-blog and subject!
This book was life changing for my wife and I. We needed some counseling at one point and i reached out to Dossiê, the author. She was very kind and referred us to a lifestyle-friendly counselor here in Florida. It changed our life, for the better and we’re in a much better place. Book highly recommended!
It is totally disrespectful to lie with anyone that is not your partner. The Bible states one man and one woman come together as one. Sir how in the world can you say you love your wife while another adult male has his hands all over her or is penetrating her or vice versa? It is a man that is supposed to protect his woman from acts like this. You can't possibly care for this person other than getting off sexually watching your partner having sex with another person. It is perversion.
Because your putting illusioned boundaries aslong as your still being honest with your partner and both of younger okay with it and set boundaries then you can still love your wife. Unconditional love is the greatest love out their
Say, didn’t Solomon, “the wisest man in the bible, have 300+ concubines? I highly doubt they were there just to serve tea and fan him with palm fronds. Was Solomon being disrespectful to god’s “1 man + 1 woman come together” rule? Also, why are you watching swinger videos? I’ll bet you have a colorful browsing history.
rubbish , whatever you feel for one person says nothing per se about what you feel for someone else , the bible is written by humans not by god , a belief in god is a belief there is NO proof of gids existence, in some regards the bible is full of metaphores, you judge other people (contrary to bible preachings) based on some religious moral docrtrine based on a belief for which there is no proof, you read about so many people who feel love for more than one person and yes you can love one person and still feel for someone else as well it doesnt have to be just sexual you are very judgemental = a sin according to your own bible , thy shall not judge , treat others as you want to be treated, hate the sin not the sinner etc. read you bible again P.S. I am agnostic not an atheist
As for Myth #1. Does anyone in a monogamous relationship even think that you won’t have desires or attractions toward other people besides their spouse? Of course not. Having the respect and dedication to not act on those urges is what makes a monogamous relationship special.
So says you.
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@sunny your speaking to self discipline in a relationship. Thats just maturity in a person, but even with that you can and probably get to a place where you want your partner to be happy in their who life.
@@brucem555 Thank You
Just ordered a copy of the book. Thanks for creating the video.
Thanks, for all of the helpful information you two!!!!!
It takes a high person to see two other stoners. Never thought I would find myself in that kind of situation.
I think that lite blue looks great on Jackie!
That blue on Jackie would look better on my floor . I want to see her rack !
Love the hair Jackie - you too John. Being married for 51 years starting at the age of 18 we have done it all. She cheated, I cheated, we did the lifestyle before it was called the lifestyle and we almost got a divorce four times, but Dad said why get a divorce and go out and mess up two other people's lives. Due to her medications the sex dropped off, but due to your videos I have started flirting with her, giving her compliments, telling her how much she turns me on, a little touch here and there, a massage, etc. - the fire is still there - I just have to put a little more effort into it and that is half the fun is it not?. We may be Vanilla now but I can add whipped cream, sprinkles, nuts, and a cherry on top. Besides, if you've never made love with swim fins and a Rubber Chicken - well, you just haven't lived.
Look at you living life with a wonderful attitude and a bit of gusto...this post made our day!
Religion also has a HUGE part to play in all this. Something they didn't mention in the video.
I can completely relate to what you are saying Jackie...thank u!
Hey guys. Another great video. What strikes me is how well both of you express yourself verbally, especially Jackie (the Hotness). It just makes the sapiosexual in me go Yesyesyesyes!!
Great, great stuff you two! I've owned "The Ethical Slut" for many years now; a decade or so. May be time to grab the newest version, huh? I have made their 21 Do's and Don'ts of the Lifestyles my personal Love Guide, or my stone tablet of "The 21 Commandments of Expansive Love," so to speak. (wink) What is amazing is that though I've mastered many of them, still working on others, and 1 or 2 are REALLY challenging and sometimes seem impossible to achieve, BUT... not impossible if I keep learning to fail better, right!? (wink)
As always Jackie and John, fantastic stuff, great v-blog and subject!
Thanks for your perspective...always appreciated!
That's a great book, one of the first we read when considering the lifestyle.
This makes so much sense. I really do understand the reasoning and I think you are speaking truth.
Great stuff
The echo! ouch! Yes, please move to a more insulated space, if not a small studio. Thanks.
This book was life changing for my wife and I. We needed some counseling at one point and i reached out to Dossiê, the author. She was very kind and referred us to a lifestyle-friendly counselor here in Florida. It changed our life, for the better and we’re in a much better place. Book highly recommended!
thanks
Cute couple and well spoken.
I like Carol of Canada 😁
Bad echo in your room. Kinda distracting
Wifey is really beautiful
The echo is almost unbearable to listen too. Please move to another room.
I think I know why we never see Jackie in sexy out fits or with other guys.
There's no such thing as open relationships.
There's lust and infedelity.
And whatever needs one has can be resolved through other means but sex.
Hello
It is totally disrespectful to lie with anyone that is not your partner. The Bible states one man and one woman come together as one. Sir how in the world can you say you love your wife while another adult male has his hands all over her or is penetrating her or vice versa? It is a man that is supposed to protect his woman from acts like this. You can't possibly care for this person other than getting off sexually watching your partner having sex with another person. It is perversion.
Because your putting illusioned boundaries aslong as your still being honest with your partner and both of younger okay with it and set boundaries then you can still love your wife.
Unconditional love is the greatest love out their
Say, didn’t Solomon, “the wisest man in the bible, have 300+ concubines? I highly doubt they were there just to serve tea and fan him with palm fronds. Was Solomon being disrespectful to god’s “1 man + 1 woman come together” rule? Also, why are you watching swinger videos? I’ll bet you have a colorful browsing history.
rubbish , whatever you feel for one person says nothing per se about what you feel for someone else , the bible is written by humans not by god , a belief in god is a belief there is NO proof of gids existence, in some regards the bible is full of metaphores, you judge other people (contrary to bible preachings) based on some religious moral docrtrine based on a belief for which there is no proof, you read about so many people who feel love for more than one person and yes you can love one person and still feel for someone else as well it doesnt have to be just sexual you are very judgemental = a sin according to your own bible , thy shall not judge , treat others as you want to be treated, hate the sin not the sinner etc. read you bible again P.S. I am agnostic not an atheist
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