LtGirlablaZe absolutely! The chemistry between them is absolutely palpable! I do too! I love seeing couples really in love and having an amazing and happy life as well! It’s a beautiful sight to behold!
Everyone has their own thing. Some like bondage and spanking, interracial, same sex, multiple partners, or platonic. It’s what’s best for you. Don’t criticize another’s choice. Some of these style relationships work really well, where as platonic relationships fall apart. Give them credit for exploring and experiencing their feelings
Exactly! Well written. I say to each their own. I'm starting to see what this swinging is all about through a friend n I'm excited to see where this goes!😉😁
@@sunny_dhende6289… Absolutely! 👏🏽 I completely agree! 😁 Have fun exploring the (SWINGING UNIVERSE) my dear… 😏 You deserve to discover new and exciting galaxies as a result from the orgasmic cosmic high you’re going to experience each and every time you have fun to end up going beyond space and time darling…. 😉
1. Live and let live 2. To each couple its own 3. Different strokes for different folks 4. Mind your own business If you truly believe that swinging is that abominable, demeaning, sickening, or whatever negative adjectives that you can think of, then don't participate in it, or even think about it. Read your Bill of Rights of our United States Constitution.
John and Jackie, it takes A LOT of guts to share about your lifestyle and I congratulate you both. I'm sorry for alot of the judgement you have received here in the comments section. I don't know why people click on a video about something they obviously think badly about and then go on a rage against it.
@@openlove101 you are more than welcome. The level of transparency and commitment you have is beautiful in itself. If more couples had it, there would be far fewer divorces in this world. Much love, and it sounds like it was a great vacation!
Bless your hubby Antonette! I’d love to thank him man to man for his support of you fulfilling your fantasy for many years now! I’m so happy you enjoyed your experience and was able to fulfil your fantasy by meeting the man of your dreams eventually who supported and supports your fantasy!! Congratulations! Yeah… I can imagine how the experience after not experiencing that particular fantasy within the lifestyle before most certainly must’ve been so different for you… Feel free to contact me if you ever want us to play together too… Take care.
I am a single guy that love to swing. I've been to hedo twice and am planning on going back. Swinging is a mind set and your awake to being open from both sides. The female pleasure side and the male pleasure side. Jealously is a control emotion. Not a good trait to have in a swinging relationship
Jackie and John. I’m the original poster of the question. It was actually a comment on your page if I recall. I really appreciate and was surprised to see it addressed and I thank you for it. While I have no doubt you’ve had Mmf and men outside, the crux of the question was in the context of a romantic weekend. I was skeptical that John would enjoy a extended romantic weekend with Jackie and the company of another male. A hour or two romp vs a weekend romance and sex with another guy was the distinction I was hoping to draw out. Thank you
People confuse judging something, ie having an opinion about something, with forcing their judgment/opinions on others. It’s fine to feel anyway you want about a topic without believing others have to conform to your pov.
Thanks for sharing your lives, guys. This is such a practical guide to the lifestyle. I'm a baby poly-person who is just now realizing this as an option that fits my innate personality so perfectly, but practicing the lifestyle is still something I have less experience with, so I've been binging these episodes. Thank you for speaking so candidly.
great vid guys and I'm happy for you two doing what you want and both accepting each others sexual desires and supporting each other ...you only live once so why not enjoy life and your desires
I find it super sexy that my body is just for my husband and his for me. That just the two of us share each other’s secrets. I think I’m officially old. 😁 I love my husband.
Yeah it is super sexy and that would be great if you actually had sex. When was the last time? There are only two acceptable answers: 1. Yesterday and 2. Today. What your husband will never tell you is that men need sex like oxygen. EVERY DAY! But women don't give a sh8T what their husbands need and the men are too polite to say anything.
Thanks for posting. My ex and I were into the lifestyle over 12 years, mostly with other women and a few couples. We wound up having one Bull by default -"just kind of happened". He was a part of a couple we had been seeing over a year. They broke up, she moved out of province but he asked to continue seeing us. My wife really liked him so I agreed. It actually worked out really well. He was always respectfully, a bit younger and full of energy. He wound up moving into the apartment building next to ours.
It seems to me, those who criticize others choice of living their lives as they please, are actually bitter because they didn't have the courage to do it themselves.
Its not about courage as much It is a consensus choice, because they lack vital components in their marriage. So they seek out in opening up their relationship with other couples to explore intimacy again, and getting introduced to new things. But It never ends, there's always unsatiated needs.
OK, I saw the Openlove101 newsletter post and come here to see. I had already watched the video (and most of the others on the channel). I don't normally read down to see what the comments say unless I am leaving on of my own., so these comments were new to me. WOW. I share many of the same viewpoints and beliefs about open relationships that Jackie and John have. Much like John, I grew up with a very open and natural attitude towards sex. As I read the comments on this video two things jump out at me. The first is the judgement and labeling that some users have engaged in towards two people that they know very little about. Yes, Jackie and John have chosen to share certain parts of their lives with us through their videos and blogs, but we don't really know WHO they are. Applying labels to others and making assumptions about their feelings and motivations based on the limited knowledge we have about these people is misguided at best and downright destructive at worst. Ask questions to try and understand others. Don't assume that you already do. The second is the repeated idea: "Why get married to this person if you want to have sex with others?" In my mind, getting married to another person (or persons) IS a commitment. It is a commitment to share your lives with each other. Read that again. Share your (individual,separate, varied, and full) lives with each other. Not limit your lives to each other. If your chosen path includes having relationships with others then you should do that whether or not you are married to another. Why would you want to be married to someone who does not support and accept you being whomever you want to be? My commitment to my marriage has much more depth to it than just who we have sex with. There are thirty years of shared experiences and life lessons that form the foundation of our love. For me, the commitment is about giving each other the encouragement, support, and acceptance to be the person we each dream of being. I think that is the biggest "takeaway" I have from the videos and blogs that Openlove101 have shared. I see two people who care deeply for one another. I see two people who want to help the other achieve happiness and joy. As long as all people in the relationship are both informed and consenting to what is happening, there should be no reason for someone outside the relationship to question that. Jackie and John, you two keep doing you. Keep the conversation going. That is how we will all learn.
Well it's my turn to say...WOW! Thank you so much for sharing your views. You bring to the forefront the importance of acceptance, especially when others views differ from our own. John & I know the content of our message will be controversial for some, way outside the lines for others, and intriguing to still more. Like you, we hope to reach those singles or couples who value their relationship and their individuality in such a way as to combine the two and come out the other side stronger in the love they have cultivated. We don't expect everyone to agree with us, heck that's what makes diversity so amazing! The coming together of different perceptions. I am reminded of the beauty found when peering through a kaleidoscope...all those reflecting surfaces coming together to create a thing of beauty. Thanks again for sharing.
What you say is true... . Opening your mind to the possibilities is certainly a good place to start. We did' and had a experience we once never thought possible..
Whitney Taft that’s (EXACTLY) what I’ve realised and exactly what I thought so I said to myself recently after discovering this in recent times, “This is my kinda lifestyle!” I can’t believe Iike you I’ve been missing out on fulfilling my sexual fantasies with more than willing single and attached women! At least it’s not too late for me and I have many more years to play! Feel free to join me if you like… 😉 x Lol!
Ya it’s so fun! Maybe for pretty people that get what they want others may not be as lucky and end up shut down all the time and on pure judgment because of looks and that is all people are fucked up! I’m happy for everyone who is in the same shoes as you both thanks for sharing your content
Man you guys got it made!! A healthy relationship and you can explore your sexual side. I’m so jealous lol . I trying to muster up the courage to ask my spouse about this.
It requires lots of trust. My wife and I have been married 19 years and together for 23. Just started swinging a year ago and loving it. Never thought we'd have so much fun. Best of luck to you and yours.
You might want to ask what he thinks of the concept in general or bring up a fictional couple that’s doing it. For all you know he’s afraid to bring it up with you
Marci Shears they sure have got it made!! A healthy relationship AND they can both explore their sexual side!! Wow!!.. I love them!! I can completely understand you being jealous! Lol! I wish you all the courage in the world to ask your spouse about this because when or if you ever do and when or if he ever agrees then it’d be an honour to play with you if you want me to and of course with the consent of your partner. Take care.
done it a few times. great way to get a woman worked up into a frenzy. after the 1st time many friends started dropping in wanting to try. i liked the attention
I have a great functional relationship with my wife. She is happy when I am happy and I am happy when I can do as I please. These days this involves lots of fishing, the sort you do from a boat that also feeds the family.
Steve Wilson . No, my wife and her lover both think my boat stinks to much of fish. You would think it would be heaven for a couple of woman that like other woman.
I get it. it's all in how you look at it. Sex to me is a sacred thing that I share with the person I love. I've never cheated on my girlfriend I never will. I won't judge if that's what you want to do. More power to you. It's just not for me. When I commit, I commit. And when you love someone the sex is so good. It's not like kicking a ball in the backyard with a friend, that's not how I look at it.
I am the boyfriend of a couple. I am partially moved in with them. We have many very open and painfully honest discussions about our lives together. Our relationship is accepted by almost all of our friends and the ones that don't are simply left to stew about it. It's a great deal for all of us.
what a fortunate couple you are,, I wasted my life trying to hang on to someone who, I discovered later n, really did not love me, but I was desperate and very insecure,,dummy me!
Don't beat yourself up over it. We all make mistakes, none of us are perfect, and the ones who try to say they are, almost always hiding something. Just be true to yourself and think that tomorrow is a new day with new possibilities.
It’s their life. It’s a choice they make. Those that are into it must find something they enjoy about or it wouldn’t exist. So you can stand on the Bible and shout your opinion for e everyone to hear but what it really boils down to it’s really none of anyones business what swingers do as long as it does not interfere others daily life.
Facts!!! If you are not interested in a Topic why click on it? Its just weird to me that you would listen to a video about something you are not interested in or agree with.
Just wondering, where does this end after all? Pursuing lust constantly seems so shallow. Besides , sexual connection is that special thing that you share with your partner. They seem to be cool but the majority of couples trying this lifestyle, end up devastated.
geez....fucken judgemental people chiming in. Throw the first stones why don't you, well done (sarcasm, yeh?). To Jackie and John, keep it up with the vidz. Informative, great perspective, appreciate it.
Yeah the judgments ones are almost always single, or divorced. No reason really for them to be commenting unless they're very bitter about their own relationship.
As much as there are people out there like myself who going to approve the swinging or open relationship lifestyle, there will always be bigots out there. The people who are judgmental will have their right to express their attitudes when they post their comments on any episode that they see on this channel. Unfortunately, that is the price that open minded people like myself have to pay for living in such a free and democratic society. Take this comment for what it's worth.
Who knows man. Divorce is over 50%, hey if u can make it work good for you. I've had girls I've dated I've trusted some not, but I think trust is the big factor.
Look at all the judgmental people- does it make them feel more secure to put down others ) Meanwhile most traditional marriages end in divorce , or the couple's exist unhappy. I know because I practice Family Law. This may not work for me but the "swingers" I've represented seem to have had longer relationships. There are millions of people doing this - on underground sites- its way more common than you might believe.
Im a clinical psychologist and agree with you. I am not a swinger, my husband was with a former wife. They were married 20.yrs and were swingers all except the fIrst three. Their marriage did not fail due to swinging but due to his bankruptcy... she could not bear the loss of wealth. I had my own professional career and investments and just did not care about HIS money. We did not marry but chose to live together 40 yrs and very happily. He brought up the lifestyle early on to inform me and I knew about it having studied human sexuality but did not want to try it. My mate is the most ethical honorable man I have ever l known. I really dont like the moralizing I see in comments here. Sybil Francis PhD
@@peterclark4128 that’s so true. Jealousy is a big killer. Most definitely. It’s why I chose to kill that emotion within me. I’m so happy swinging has worked and is working for you both as a couple. (THIS IS WHY I LOVE IT.) You’ll continue to stay together because of the lifestyle you both willingly agree to take part in. Feel free to contact me if your partner would like another man to play with her one day. It’d be a pleasure. Take care. Stay strong.
For those of you who say this will cause them problems in their relationship- is this just your gut feeling or are you basing this on some sort of research?
Openlove101 Hi Jackie, If it’s not too rude of me may I ask how old you are ?.... Theres is no doubt you are a very attractive woman and your husband is an extremely lucky guy. I found your video really Interesting although I personally wouldn’t want to share you with another guy. I guess I’m just too vanilla 😂 I’m off to check out some of your other videos 👍
It comes down to after the same person u get bored so u have open relationships I would help these married couples if they need help I’ll jump in bed w them
Easy Eagle for sure there are a lot of blokes out there like that, but the same amount like to share and have their wives and gf flash and flirt and see where it leads
Great post Thanks for sharing My late wife and I were full on swingers for a while The best for us mmf 3 some with a men who turned out to be very close friends
I truly believe being able to have an open relationship takes very evolved people. If it can go on unhindered by jealously or negativity, it is because the people involved realized we are not shackled by society and the expectations they place upon us. It is liberating and I hope I can get to a place where I am so evolved and sexually (and romantically) confident. I love my partner and being monogamous... but I can also appreciate the possibility of this in the future. There are too many people on the planet who have parts of what you- as a human- need, to close off yourself to one person for the rest of your life. And to love someone so deeply before and after they fuck another person, is mind boggling and to me, probably real love. After all, jealously isn't love; Its manipulation, and is bred from your ultimate desire to control somebody under the guise of love. I'm am prevy to it as well though... so as I said, I understand. Jealousy is a human instinct and happens to all of us & THAT'S where the evolved part comes in! You must evolve or you will fall victim to never enjoying life as it should be-- Free.
eckhoff michael - Hey!! if you’re looking for a bull, or just have any concerns in general, plz do not hesitate to reach out via IG w/ any questions that either of you may have☺️ My instagram is: Ryankelly____
So well said! I believe we weren't meant to be with one person that we are to share parts of ourself to fit our many different needs! I love myself first and I have an AGAPE love for others. I'm a free🐦😄
I have been part of a Thrupple for almost two years, my girlfriend and her husband have taken me in and I live with them part time. We talk openly and honestly about everything and it is great. Her husband and I are like best friends and hang out like a couple of 14 year old buddies out for a good time! We are all really happy and are all semi monogamous only playing as a three some when we are at parties or resorts. All of our children are in on it and for the most part are really accepting of our arrangement. It's a new economy baby!
I’m genuinely curious - What’s the difference between a thrupple and being the technical outsider though? Although there’s differences in dynamics, but what about day-to-day lifestyle and responsibilities with contributing to the relationship?
@@ryankelly8077 I genuinely am confused myself. All the adult kids are ok and know we are all together. The dynamics are interesting, I pay my fair share.and contribute to day to day plus bring other resources into the relationship. Husband 1 says I prime the pump before he hits it...lmao. she says she has the best of both worlds.
buelfuel2001 I ABSOLUTELY LOVED READING THIS!!!! To see you guys are a Thruppe and both of you men are the best of friends and act like two 14 year old boys has made my day brother!!! I wanna be friends with ALL three of you guys! (I’D COMPLETELY RELISH) having a friend’s wife as my girlfriend mate! Honestly! All the best to you all!
You should have started running away immediately fast as you could theres not going be a good ending to this at all you playing Russian roulette with your life now dealing with a Gay male period
Gary Johnson I feel that nobody is 100% straight or gay. And also we have a preference for not just man or women but what kind of men and women. Some men like slimmer women. Others like curvier. Some women like tall men. Others like short men. Alot of people are of a certain body type and their partner is sexually attracted to another body type than their own. I allow my husband to have this. Its his absolute preference. That does not mean that we have a non existent sex life. Quite the contrary. It has really opened us up to all new great adventures together.
@@Alex10daysago your first statement is weird by itself but am not surprise I am a 100% straight Male I like women only sexually I dont know were you get that theory from that everybody not 100% straight person you first statement is not totally true at all your Husband you dealing with is bisexual like I said before you playing Russian roulette with your health and life theres nothing good going come from that kind of relationships
I've been with my fiancé and she's had multiple partners during our relationship and I enjoy taking my fiancé back and claiming her body after her lover has used her. She enjoys me watchingand her being taken and her lover not knowing about it. I enjoy watching her being pleasured more than anything.
You sound like my mate this is what he wants me to do...I am unsure. He was in swinging many years before me. I have never experimented. The only difference is he wants to be involved with me at the same time not just watching, but participating MMF that was his favorite part of swinging he says. He did do MFF too but found it isnt easy to satisfy two women at ONCE. He says its the most popular male fantasy but wasnt that terrific for him. He did separately have sex with an average of five women a night and that he enjoyed esp when most were women he knew ...he liked to include one or two new women but really enjoyed repeats with women he esp enjoyed and really liled as people.He said often the best sex was not with the best looking women. He says its the personality you enjoy as much as or MORE than the sex itself, just like regular dating. It's the WHOLE person. I have slept with men I liked instead of loved and enjoyed it so maybe it is like that. BUT I never had sex with a stranger...I always knew a man fairly well and at least liked the man, a couole I loved as friends and we stayed close friends after we slept together for years. I cannot imagine sex with a stranger. I am a psychologist and highly trained in theory but just completely a babe in the woods re experience. Sybi Francis PhD
What I’ve read looks (ABSOLUTELY DIVINE) Ronnie… It would be a (COMPLETE HONOUR) for me to be an (INCREDIBLE PARTNER) to your fiancé while we exchange energy with one and other and take each other to heights we both have become addicted to only for you to claim your blessing and make love to her after she’s been pleasured by me Mr Benoit… I look forward to meeting her for a drink or perhaps dinner one day to manifest yet another fantasy into reality between us… Good day to you sir.
Yeah it figures, normally I probably wouldn't even bother. I have a lover, beautiful woman, who I have discussed with having threesomes with other men. she enjoys flirting and kissing other men which is a big turn on for me.
Plen122 go for it , we played for 5 years. Single guys with us m-f-m They all nice guys and we had a ball It’s hard to find right venue and people, my wife hated clubs Some houses parties were fantastic Some dreadful We ended up with guys, in hotel rooms or their houses are occasionally our house. But you need to find a place where you’re lady is comfortable to let go Everybody is different
I will say, while I have never done the swing thing, I do know people who have and only a couple times did it ever workout. And before hand, when your emotions aren't involved, it seems like it's just not a problem. Then they see the other person having sex with someone else and enjoying hell out of it and suddenly, it's not so clearly ok. Mind you, if it works for you, then cool, but if it doesn't then in strangely can lead to a divorce or breakup.Yes, even though all parties talked about it beforehand. Once seen it can't be unseen and if everytime you try to have sex together and all you can think about is them with someone else, then it could be a problem.
My mate was in swinging before we met, he says seeing his wife enjoying sex was his greatest thrill. He had sex himself with 5 or so women in a night. He says the best sex he HAD with his wife was being the last after she had several men. I'm with you I dont get it, but I know he is sincere.I know its called compersion and other people do have that too, that great desire to see their mate have maximum enjoyment...theoretically I want him to have a great time but doubt I could share him. He really WANTS to share me....Im of mixed feelings so far. I just dont know HOW I would react! I have zero moral.issues about it. Just confusing.
if u feel u can handle it as couple then it will work out for u remember if u love each other that much u have worked it out that isnt jealousy will ruin it for u so make sure u work it out first and know when u leave u go home together
Not sure how true it is maybe you can elaborate but I did read in a popular magazine that swinging couples have a much lower divorce rate than standard couples
I have also read studies that show open relationships feeling more secure. Most studies associate a greater sense of trust, communication and honesty within the relationship as being success factors. Regardless of the relationship model chosen, the degree of "success" or "failure" depends on those involved.
Openlove101 - there’s no real way of generating a study of this kind that is supported by empirical evidence... do not mistaken a “study” (based off scientific principles) for what is really a “survey” (which is not based on any science).
@@AY-pw7hz lol safe and moral? Don't know what that means. No sex is safe, really, unless you absolutely trust your partner. Plenty of people in supposedly monogamous relationships have been cheated on.
If this Guy would have some self respect, he would not let this happen. It seems that he is afraid to lose her if he would stop it. Sorry people, this is not my pair of Shoes. However,others can do what they want, I dont have to like it or even endorse it.
The ability both have to openly discuss their experiences shows how strong their bond is .
The chemistry between them is palpable! Love seeing couples really in love and having an amazing happy life!
LtGirlablaZe absolutely! The chemistry between them is absolutely palpable! I do too! I love seeing couples really in love and having an amazing and happy life as well! It’s a beautiful sight to behold!
It's amazing how he keeps his eyes on her. It's toxic love
Everyone has their own thing. Some like bondage and spanking, interracial, same sex, multiple partners, or platonic. It’s what’s best for you. Don’t criticize another’s choice. Some of these style relationships work really well, where as platonic relationships fall apart. Give them credit for exploring and experiencing their feelings
Agree 💯
You just described porn for men. Congrats, youre basic
Exactly! Well written. I say to each their own. I'm starting to see what this swinging is all about through a friend n I'm excited to see where this goes!😉😁
@@sunny_dhende6289… Absolutely! 👏🏽 I completely agree! 😁 Have fun exploring the (SWINGING UNIVERSE) my dear… 😏 You deserve to discover new and exciting galaxies as a result from the orgasmic cosmic high you’re going to experience each and every time you have fun to end up going beyond space and time darling…. 😉
@@sunny_dhende6289when In doubt give me a shout 😉
1. Live and let live 2. To each couple its own 3. Different strokes for different folks 4. Mind your own business If you truly believe that swinging is that abominable, demeaning, sickening, or whatever negative adjectives that you can think of, then don't participate in it, or even think about it. Read your Bill of Rights of our United States Constitution.
swingers are people who are really really nice to each other...woohoo
To each his own. I think these two are truly happy in what they think is correct, when the world is full of hate and manipulation. 👍
John and Jackie, it takes A LOT of guts to share about your lifestyle and I congratulate you both. I'm sorry for alot of the judgement you have received here in the comments section. I don't know why people click on a video about something they obviously think badly about and then go on a rage against it.
Thank you so much for the kind words.
@@openlove101 you are more than welcome. The level of transparency and commitment you have is beautiful in itself. If more couples had it, there would be far fewer divorces in this world. Much love, and it sounds like it was a great vacation!
My Hubby is very supportive of my fantasy for years.
Just having the experienced is phenomenal.
The energy is different.
Bless your hubby Antonette! I’d love to thank him man to man for his support of you fulfilling your fantasy for many years now! I’m so happy you enjoyed your experience and was able to fulfil your fantasy by meeting the man of your dreams eventually who supported and supports your fantasy!! Congratulations! Yeah… I can imagine how the experience after not experiencing that particular fantasy within the lifestyle before most certainly must’ve been so different for you… Feel free to contact me if you ever want us to play together too… Take care.
If You Need A Bull Baby I Am Your Bull
Definitely 😁
Where are you from plz
@@itellwalker7923ur comment is really appreciated
I am a single guy that love to swing. I've been to hedo twice and am planning on going back. Swinging is a mind set and your awake to being open from both sides. The female pleasure side and the male pleasure side. Jealously is a control emotion. Not a good trait to have in a swinging relationship
Hey sexy
Thank you melody for the compliment
Ya I'm to jealous and would be fight the guy fucking my wife !
This is great, knowing such a strong bond and willingness.
Love how open minded they are, just adore that.
Lovely couple 💞
@@davidtaylor613 ✔
@@chloeratchford4854 hello be nice to chat x
@@chloeratchford4854 be nice to chat
I like to meet swingers 😊
Jackie and John. I’m the original poster of the question. It was actually a comment on your page if I recall. I really appreciate and was surprised to see it addressed and I thank you for it. While I have no doubt you’ve had Mmf and men outside, the crux of the question was in the context of a romantic weekend. I was skeptical that John would enjoy a extended romantic weekend with Jackie and the company of another male. A hour or two romp vs a weekend romance and sex with another guy was the distinction I was hoping to draw out. Thank you
This is great as long as everyone agrees and feels well.
People confuse judging something, ie having an opinion about something, with forcing their judgment/opinions on others. It’s fine to feel anyway you want about a topic without believing others have to conform to your pov.
Thanks for sharing your lives, guys. This is such a practical guide to the lifestyle. I'm a baby poly-person who is just now realizing this as an option that fits my innate personality so perfectly, but practicing the lifestyle is still something I have less experience with, so I've been binging these episodes. Thank you for speaking so candidly.
You two are awesome. Thanks so much for sharing both your experiences and your wisdom. Blessings to you both 🙏
Thank you!
Sounds like she is happy. Keep Mama happy and you will be.
great vid guys and I'm happy for you two doing what you want and both accepting each others sexual desires and supporting each other ...you only live once so why not enjoy life and your desires
I find it super sexy that my body is just for my husband and his for me. That just the two of us share each other’s secrets. I think I’m officially old. 😁 I love my husband.
Your husband is blessed to have you, it sounds like he found a hidden gem.
Ain't nothing wrong with that.
Yeah it is super sexy and that would be great if you actually had sex. When was the last time? There are only two acceptable answers: 1. Yesterday and 2. Today. What your husband will never tell you is that men need sex like oxygen. EVERY DAY! But women don't give a sh8T what their husbands need and the men are too polite to say anything.
@@thomasbeaver1 lol that's very strange
Wow it's not easy to find a women like you..
Thanks for posting. My ex and I were into the lifestyle over 12 years, mostly with other women and a few couples. We wound up having one Bull by default -"just kind of happened". He was a part of a couple we had been seeing over a year. They broke up, she moved out of province but he asked to continue seeing us. My wife really liked him so I agreed. It actually worked out really well. He was always respectfully, a bit younger and full of energy. He wound up moving into the apartment building next to ours.
Thank you for sharing❤️
See her eyes light up when he said Jamaica 🇯🇲
duane colbert yes, she knows it, that’s what she is for!
Strange how he stares at her. I can't be the only one wondering ??
He is constantly looking for her approval ;)
Maybe he thinks she's beautiful and he loves her.
She is also staring at him. Maybe they like each other. Quit hating.
It seems to me, those who criticize others choice of living their lives as they please, are actually bitter because they didn't have the courage to do it themselves.
swagonwheels absolutely
Its not about courage as much It is a consensus choice, because they lack vital components in their marriage. So they seek out in opening up their relationship with other couples to explore intimacy again, and getting introduced to new things. But It never ends, there's always unsatiated needs.
A threesome isn’t courage wtf 😂
@@AY-pw7hz You mentioned the threesome, not me???
@@swagonwheels
This video is discussing that topic along with many more. Stop acting oblivious.
OK, I saw the Openlove101 newsletter post and come here to see. I had already watched the video (and most of the others on the channel). I don't normally read down to see what the comments say unless I am leaving on of my own., so these comments were new to me. WOW.
I share many of the same viewpoints and beliefs about open relationships that Jackie and John have. Much like John, I grew up with a very open and natural attitude towards sex. As I read the comments on this video two things jump out at me.
The first is the judgement and labeling that some users have engaged in towards two people that they know very little about. Yes, Jackie and John have chosen to share certain parts of their lives with us through their videos and blogs, but we don't really know WHO they are. Applying labels to others and making assumptions about their feelings and motivations based on the limited knowledge we have about these people is misguided at best and downright destructive at worst. Ask questions to try and understand others. Don't assume that you already do.
The second is the repeated idea: "Why get married to this person if you want to have sex with others?" In my mind, getting married to another person (or persons) IS a commitment. It is a commitment to share your lives with each other. Read that again. Share your (individual,separate, varied, and full) lives with each other. Not limit your lives to each other. If your chosen path includes having relationships with others then you should do that whether or not you are married to another. Why would you want to be married to someone who does not support and accept you being whomever you want to be? My commitment to my marriage has much more depth to it than just who we have sex with. There are thirty years of shared experiences and life lessons that form the foundation of our love. For me, the commitment is about giving each other the encouragement, support, and acceptance to be the person we each dream of being.
I think that is the biggest "takeaway" I have from the videos and blogs that Openlove101 have shared. I see two people who care deeply for one another. I see two people who want to help the other achieve happiness and joy. As long as all people in the relationship are both informed and consenting to what is happening, there should be no reason for someone outside the relationship to question that.
Jackie and John, you two keep doing you. Keep the conversation going. That is how we will all learn.
Well it's my turn to say...WOW! Thank you so much for sharing your views. You bring to the forefront the importance of acceptance, especially when others views differ from our own. John & I know the content of our message will be controversial for some, way outside the lines for others, and intriguing to still more. Like you, we hope to reach those singles or couples who value their relationship and their individuality in such a way as to combine the two and come out the other side stronger in the love they have cultivated. We don't expect everyone to agree with us, heck that's what makes diversity so amazing! The coming together of different perceptions. I am reminded of the beauty found when peering through a kaleidoscope...all those reflecting surfaces coming together to create a thing of beauty. Thanks again for sharing.
Chris Boyd I
As long as your comfortable with your relationship it’s all good
@Best Tongkat Ali I do
@Best Tongkat Ali Mmm I saw some of the content, not so sure about that lol
Best advice ever!
why does the guy just ''stare'' at his wife? is he afraid she's going to run away?
I'm really starting to understand that it's ok to explore my sexual fantasies and try new things and I'm missing out on alot!!!
Yes Whitney you are,I'm here for you if you need anything lol
What you say is true... . Opening your mind to the possibilities is certainly a good place to start. We did' and had a experience we once never thought possible..
Mee to❤❤
Whitney Taft that’s (EXACTLY) what I’ve realised and exactly what I thought so I said to myself recently after discovering this in recent times, “This is my kinda lifestyle!” I can’t believe Iike you I’ve been missing out on fulfilling my sexual fantasies with more than willing single and attached women! At least it’s not too late for me and I have many more years to play! Feel free to join me if you like… 😉 x Lol!
if your in or near Ohio i,m ready
Ya it’s so fun! Maybe for pretty people that get what they want others may not be as lucky and end up shut down all the time and on pure judgment because of looks and that is all people are fucked up! I’m happy for everyone who is in the same shoes as you both thanks for sharing your content
i like the respect and trust for sure.
Man you guys got it made!! A healthy relationship and you can explore your sexual side. I’m so jealous lol . I trying to muster up the courage to ask my spouse about this.
It requires lots of trust. My wife and I have been married 19 years and together for 23. Just started swinging a year ago and loving it. Never thought we'd have so much fun. Best of luck to you and yours.
You might want to ask what he thinks of the concept in general or bring up a fictional couple that’s doing it. For all you know he’s afraid to bring it up with you
My wife and I are looking for a hot couple to have some good times Thanks
Do you ever vacation in Hawaii?
Marci Shears they sure have got it made!! A healthy relationship AND they can both explore their sexual side!! Wow!!.. I love them!! I can completely understand you being jealous! Lol! I wish you all the courage in the world to ask your spouse about this because when or if you ever do and when or if he ever agrees then it’d be an honour to play with you if you want me to and of course with the consent of your partner. Take care.
done it a few times. great way to get a woman worked up into a frenzy. after the 1st time many friends started dropping in wanting to try. i liked the attention
Did you ever join in? Or was she always alone with the other guy?
@@kbanghart your so nawtee 😈
@@ronniebenoit4081 I knowwwww 😁
@@kbanghart have you had any adventures like these?
@@ronniebenoit4081 not yet
love and trust....its hard work but being honest with the one you love the most makes your life work...its the only way it works.best wishes
I have a great functional relationship with my wife. She is happy when I am happy and I am happy when I can do as I please. These days this involves lots of fishing, the sort you do from a boat that also feeds the family.
does ur wife bring her lover with you fishing?
Steve Wilson . No, my wife and her lover both think my boat stinks to much of fish. You would think it would be heaven for a couple of woman that like other woman.
I get it. it's all in how you look at it. Sex to me is a sacred thing that I share with the person I love. I've never cheated on my girlfriend I never will. I won't judge if that's what you want to do. More power to you. It's just not for me. When I commit, I commit. And when you love someone the sex is so good. It's not like kicking a ball in the backyard with a friend, that's not how I look at it.
I am the boyfriend of a couple. I am partially moved in with them. We have many very open and painfully honest discussions about our lives together. Our relationship is accepted by almost all of our friends and the ones that don't are simply left to stew about it. It's a great deal for all of us.
Are you all bi
@@jamesgore7860 no, you are wrong, not bi at all. He is a great friend and we both love his wife.
@@buellfuel2001 every one loved his wife
@wingsandstrings why are you watching this video then????and then spending the time to read the comments?
@@larrykelly2010 not really...lol almost all women are hard to get along with...lol
i like the even steven idea better. seems like more to talk about and more fun.
She's such an amazing woman
Not for me but good on you for finding something that works for the both of you.
what a fortunate couple you are,, I wasted my life trying to hang on to someone who, I discovered later n, really did not love me, but I was desperate and very insecure,,dummy me!
Don't beat yourself up over it. We all make mistakes, none of us are perfect, and the ones who try to say they are, almost always hiding something. Just be true to yourself and think that tomorrow is a new day with new possibilities.
Yeah I buy into the trying things... most often it’s food.
It’s their life. It’s a choice they make. Those that are into it must find something they enjoy about or it wouldn’t exist.
So you can stand on the Bible and shout your opinion for e everyone to hear but what it really boils down to it’s really none of anyones business what swingers do as long as it does not interfere others daily life.
Facts!!! If you are not interested in a Topic why click on it? Its just weird to me that you would listen to a video about something you are not interested in or agree with.
Hearts never break in even pieces. I wish all of you the best.
Kako to da ovde stranci vladaju??? Zar u Srbiji nema svingeraj???? Zašto se hrabri neoglase, da čujemo njihovo mišljenje!!!?
Just wondering, where does this end after all? Pursuing lust constantly seems so shallow. Besides , sexual connection is that special thing that you share with your partner. They seem to be cool but the majority of couples trying this lifestyle, end up devastated.
Sordid Mayhem agreed good point
Because it's not all about just pursuing list. And remember, all kinds of supposedly monogamous relationships fail.
You bring up a VERY common theme that occurs & ask a valid question
... monogamous, non-monogamous... neither immune to pitfalls
Great looking couple...she is gorgeous!
geez....fucken judgemental people chiming in. Throw the first stones why don't you, well done (sarcasm, yeh?). To Jackie and John, keep it up with the vidz. Informative, great perspective, appreciate it.
Yeah the judgments ones are almost always single, or divorced. No reason really for them to be commenting unless they're very bitter about their own relationship.
One last thing I forgot to mention in my last comment this kind of thing is murder murder of a marriage
Oh. Hey. Thanks for clearing that up. We were all wondering.
My wife and I love it
long as there no secrets or jealousy , it works perfectly for us for a long period
How does one become a bull? Are there certain sites or secret groups on FB?
Steve Wilson - hi. How does one become a bull? Are there certain sites or secret fb groups?
That is awesome!!
As much as there are people out there like myself who going to approve the swinging or open relationship lifestyle, there will always be bigots out there. The people who are judgmental will have their right to express their attitudes when they post their comments on any episode that they see on this channel. Unfortunately, that is the price that open minded people like myself have to pay for living in such a free and democratic society. Take this comment for what it's worth.
Great looking woman.
It's amazing how happy Jackie looks when the subject is something about a 3some
It might be fun for a little bit but in the end it will only cause problems in the relationship.
..and if you have a religious strict monogamous relationship there will be no problems?
Michael McDaniel sorry I wasn’t clear with my comment. I was referring to the problem of fucking someone else while married.
@Dwayne Neal oh you can tell us that? Cuz you're an expert? LOL
@Dwayne Neal riiiiiight
If y'all think that right then you crazy
Some of the people commenting negatively must be very... and I do mean VERY, insecure about themselves. Best to you.
Most of them are probably either single, or divorced. Go figure.
Outstanding! Live life to the fullest.
weird to me to share your wife/husband
Open relationships are based on lust not love no matter what way you present it.
BINGO!
Am sorry..... I cant
It's great to see you do this, should be more partners open to this idea .
Love to enjoy meeting new friends at Cupid's swinging club in Manchester.met some lovely people x
It takes special couples to do this.
Does anyone else fell it’s weird the guy is staining directly at her the whole time?
If you mean staring, no I don't. If she was naked, there wouldn't be any stains. 😊
Yea, it’s a little awkward
Beautiful couple
Who knows man. Divorce is over 50%, hey if u can make it work good for you. I've had girls I've dated I've trusted some not, but I think trust is the big factor.
Trust is definitely a factor.
I was asked today by a husband if I’d get with his wife. Thanks for the info
Look at all the judgmental people- does it make them feel more secure to put down others ) Meanwhile most traditional marriages end in divorce , or the couple's exist unhappy. I know because I practice Family Law. This may not work for me but the "swingers" I've represented seem to have had longer relationships. There are millions of people doing this - on underground sites- its way more common than you might believe.
Jealousy a big killer, we don't have that and why it works for us
Yep
Im a clinical psychologist and agree with you. I am not a swinger, my husband was with a former wife. They were married 20.yrs and were swingers all except the fIrst three. Their marriage did not fail due to swinging but due to his bankruptcy... she could not bear the loss of wealth. I had my own professional career and investments and just did not care about HIS money. We did not marry but chose to live together 40 yrs and very happily. He brought up the lifestyle early on to inform me and I knew about it having studied human sexuality but did not want to try it. My mate is the most ethical honorable man I have ever l known. I really dont like the moralizing I see in comments here. Sybil Francis PhD
@@peterclark4128 that’s so true. Jealousy is a big killer. Most definitely. It’s why I chose to kill that emotion within me. I’m so happy swinging has worked and is working for you both as a couple. (THIS IS WHY I LOVE IT.) You’ll continue to stay together because of the lifestyle you both willingly agree to take part in. Feel free to contact me if your partner would like another man to play with her one day. It’d be a pleasure. Take care. Stay strong.
I like the way they explain things
Thank you
Wow. She is beautiful! I wouldn’t mind!!
For those of you who say this will cause them problems in their relationship- is this just your gut feeling or are you basing this on some sort of research?
Or experience, perhaps?
It contributed in ending my marriage. I wish I had never heard of swinging.
@@bodyer2120 That sounds so sad. I feel for you.
You guys are a great looking couple but Jackie, you are beautiful.
Thank you so much!
This is a situation you have to talk about and progress with caution.My hubby and I have done a few tings with others and are both happy.
Openlove101 Hi Jackie, If it’s not too rude of me may I ask how old you are ?....
Theres is no doubt you are a very attractive woman and your husband is an extremely lucky guy.
I found your video really Interesting although I personally wouldn’t want to share you with another guy. I guess I’m just too vanilla 😂
I’m off to check out some of your other videos 👍
@@mariarod9284 you havent ask me
Asked you about what?
People are going to try this weather you agree or not, some people wonder were you get off at ,then I remember at the session.
It comes down to after the same person u get bored so u have open relationships I would help these married couples if they need help I’ll jump in bed w them
Very interesting...!
You interested?
@@jonburrows2684 Yes I am...
@@jonburrows2684 Yes....very...!
I now it it’s
U are willing to give a chance for something that could be something new and incredibly amazing experience experience of your life time.
Most Men: I would never want my wife sleeping with another man!
Me: Aren’t you cheating on your wife now?
Facts @ Easy Eagle
Yeaj
Easy Eagle for sure there are a lot of blokes out there like that, but the same amount like to share and have their wives and gf flash and flirt and see where it leads
Great post
Thanks for sharing
My late wife and I were full on swingers for a while
The best for us mmf 3 some with a men who turned out to be very close friends
Andy Dunn
Yes .We became great friends with our bull too ..l loved being used ..so sexy
CATHY B it is the best.....
@@cathyb7573 i love to watch my wife getting pleasured by another man. Even just her flirting makes me want to cum x
Michael Evans completely
Agree
It’s what I always wanted to us to do
And it way exceeded expectations
@@andydunn5673 its the best experience ever xx
I truly believe being able to have an open relationship takes very evolved people. If it can go on unhindered by jealously or negativity, it is because the people involved realized we are not shackled by society and the expectations they place upon us. It is liberating and I hope I can get to a place where I am so evolved and sexually (and romantically) confident. I love my partner and being monogamous... but I can also appreciate the possibility of this in the future. There are too many people on the planet who have parts of what you- as a human- need, to close off yourself to one person for the rest of your life. And to love someone so deeply before and after they fuck another person, is mind boggling and to me, probably real love. After all, jealously isn't love; Its manipulation, and is bred from your ultimate desire to control somebody under the guise of love. I'm am prevy to it as well though... so as I said, I understand. Jealousy is a human instinct and happens to all of us & THAT'S where the evolved part comes in! You must evolve or you will fall victim to never enjoying life as it should be-- Free.
Thanks so much for sharing such beautiful insight.
eckhoff michael - Hey!! if you’re looking for a bull, or just have any concerns in general, plz do not hesitate to reach out via IG w/ any questions that either of you may have☺️ My instagram is: Ryankelly____
So well said! I believe we weren't meant to be with one person that we are to share parts of ourself to fit our many different needs! I love myself first and I have an AGAPE love for others. I'm a free🐦😄
@@sunny_dhende6289 I Am Open On Swiiging
Reset. This twisted and broken world is in a desperate need for a reset.
@@cesarhvillalobos6578 Stfu sick perv
You guys are amazing ❤️
Thank you!
Beautiful 💕
I have been part of a Thrupple for almost two years, my girlfriend and her husband have taken me in and I live with them part time. We talk openly and honestly about everything and it is great. Her husband and I are like best friends and hang out like a couple of 14 year old buddies out for a good time! We are all really happy and are all semi monogamous only playing as a three some when we are at parties or resorts. All of our children are in on it and for the most part are really accepting of our arrangement. It's a new economy baby!
I’m genuinely curious - What’s the difference between a thrupple and being the technical outsider though? Although there’s differences in dynamics, but what about day-to-day lifestyle and responsibilities with contributing to the relationship?
@@ryankelly8077 I genuinely am confused myself. All the adult kids are ok and know we are all together. The dynamics are interesting, I pay my fair share.and contribute to day to day plus bring other resources into the relationship. Husband 1 says I prime the pump before he hits it...lmao. she says she has the best of both worlds.
buelfuel2001 I ABSOLUTELY LOVED READING THIS!!!! To see you guys are a Thruppe and both of you men are the best of friends and act like two 14 year old boys has made my day brother!!! I wanna be friends with ALL three of you guys! (I’D COMPLETELY RELISH) having a friend’s wife as my girlfriend mate! Honestly! All the best to you all!
I love this couple . She looks amazing. I hope you guys come to New York someday.
Fuckin hell lad. What kind of comments that? As if theyre gonna look u up and come knockin at your door FFS
@@justsomelid4402 relax
as long as 2 agree, ok by me. no hay cosa mas sana q todos hagan lo q les venga en gana.
They clearly love each other, and they are enjoying their lives. What is the harm?
Any couple who tries or is into swinging have broken the sanctity of marriage and the vows they made to each other.
I think their vowes have evolved into something that works for them. Who are we to judge?
Those vows are bs. Half of married couples cheat
Definitely my opinion. But I’m sticking with it
My husband told me he was gay and I allowed him to have a 3 some with me and another men. And now our relationship is stronger.
You should have started running away immediately fast as you could theres not going be a good ending to this at all you playing Russian roulette with your life now dealing with a Gay male period
Gary Johnson I feel that nobody is 100% straight or gay. And also we have a preference for not just man or women but what kind of men and women. Some men like slimmer women. Others like curvier. Some women like tall men. Others like short men. Alot of people are of a certain body type and their partner is sexually attracted to another body type than their own. I allow my husband to have this. Its his absolute preference. That does not mean that we have a non existent sex life. Quite the contrary. It has really opened us up to all new great adventures together.
@@Alex10daysago your first statement is weird by itself but am not surprise I am a 100% straight Male I like women only sexually I dont know were you get that theory from that everybody not 100% straight person you first statement is not totally true at all your Husband you dealing with is bisexual like I said before you playing Russian roulette with your health and life theres nothing good going come from that kind of relationships
Gary Johnson well he first opened up to me about 12 years ago. And we’ve been going strong since then. Even have an 5 and 3 year old.
I have never heard that, so he wants to be with you, since you are a woman an all.
I've been with my fiancé and she's had multiple partners during our relationship and I enjoy taking my fiancé back and claiming her body after her lover has used her. She enjoys me watchingand her being taken and her lover not knowing about it. I enjoy watching her being pleasured more than anything.
U r just an option bro when u'll need her she might fucking some one else. U r being used as a security,nurse, a t m & servant
That sounds INCREDIBLE
@@smarakhindustani.8678 nah...your just jealous and insecure
You sound like my mate this is what he wants me to do...I am unsure. He was in swinging many years before me. I have never experimented. The only difference is he wants to be involved with me at the same time not just watching, but participating MMF that was his favorite part of swinging he says. He did do MFF too but found it isnt easy to satisfy two women at ONCE. He says its the most popular male fantasy but wasnt that terrific for him. He did separately have sex with an average of five women a night and that he enjoyed esp when most were women he knew ...he liked to include one or two new women but really enjoyed repeats with women he esp enjoyed and really liled as people.He said often the best sex was not with the best looking women. He says its the personality you enjoy as much as or MORE than the sex itself, just like regular dating. It's the WHOLE person.
I have slept with men I liked instead of loved and enjoyed it so maybe it is like that. BUT I never had sex with a stranger...I always knew a man fairly well and at least liked the man, a couole I loved as friends and we stayed close friends after we slept together for years. I cannot imagine sex with a stranger.
I am a psychologist and highly trained in theory but just completely a babe in the woods re experience. Sybi Francis PhD
What I’ve read looks (ABSOLUTELY DIVINE) Ronnie… It would be a (COMPLETE HONOUR) for me to be an (INCREDIBLE PARTNER) to your fiancé while we exchange energy with one and other and take each other to heights we both have become addicted to only for you to claim your blessing and make love to her after she’s been pleasured by me Mr Benoit… I look forward to meeting her for a drink or perhaps dinner one day to manifest yet another fantasy into reality between us… Good day to you sir.
Everything in moderation
Thanks for posting
Love your openness.!!!!
My wife and I are swingers, we have trouble finding other females that are willing as well as clubs.
so thats normal
Yes
Roy Stacey don’t believe porn , they are very rare and often called unicorns for obvious reason
Yeah it figures, normally I probably wouldn't even bother. I have a lover, beautiful woman, who I have discussed with having threesomes with other men. she enjoys flirting and kissing other men which is a big turn on for me.
Plen122 go for it , we played for 5 years. Single guys with us m-f-m
They all nice guys and we had a ball
It’s hard to find right venue and people, my wife hated clubs
Some houses parties were fantastic
Some dreadful
We ended up with guys, in hotel rooms or their houses are occasionally our house. But you need to find a place where you’re lady is comfortable to let go
Everybody is different
Explain experiences ???
ur married?
Nice couple love to connect with a couple like this
I will say, while I have never done the swing thing, I do know people who have and only a couple times did it ever workout. And before hand, when your emotions aren't involved, it seems like it's just not a problem. Then they see the other person having sex with someone else and enjoying hell out of it and suddenly, it's not so clearly ok.
Mind you, if it works for you, then cool, but if it doesn't then in strangely can lead to a divorce or breakup.Yes, even though all parties talked about it beforehand. Once seen it can't be unseen and if everytime you try to have sex together and all you can think about is them with someone else, then it could be a problem.
It’s possible that the only ones you hear about are the ones that end badly.
My mate was in swinging before we met, he says seeing his wife enjoying sex was his greatest thrill. He had sex himself with 5 or so women in a night. He says the best sex he HAD with his wife was being the last after she had several men. I'm with you I dont get it, but I know he is sincere.I know its called compersion and other people do have that too, that great desire to see their mate have maximum enjoyment...theoretically I want him to have a great time but doubt I could share him. He really WANTS to share me....Im of mixed feelings so far. I just dont know HOW I would react! I have zero moral.issues about it. Just confusing.
I'd love to see a video from you.
if u feel u can handle it as couple then it will work out for u remember if u love each other that much u have worked it out that isnt jealousy will ruin it for u so make sure u work it out first and know when u leave u go home together
I wanna be the pool boy when I grow up!!
Wonderful experience.. amazing love and trust
Not sure how true it is maybe you can elaborate but I did read in a popular magazine that swinging couples have a much lower divorce rate than standard couples
I have also read studies that show open relationships feeling more secure. Most studies associate a greater sense of trust, communication and honesty within the relationship as being success factors. Regardless of the relationship model chosen, the degree of "success" or "failure" depends on those involved.
Openlove101 - there’s no real way of generating a study of this kind that is supported by empirical evidence... do not mistaken a “study” (based off scientific principles) for what is really a “survey” (which is not based on any science).
Oh SO progressive...
This will be all smiles, until it all goes wrong.
24 years doing, nothing going wrong as yet and doubt it ever will
Probably not any more wrong than a supposedly monogamous couple
g ride to each their own
@@kbanghart
Monogamous is Safe and
MORAL!!!
@@AY-pw7hz lol safe and moral? Don't know what that means. No sex is safe, really, unless you absolutely trust your partner. Plenty of people in supposedly monogamous relationships have been cheated on.
If this Guy would have some self respect, he would not let this happen.
It seems that he is afraid to lose her if he would stop it.
Sorry people, this is not my pair of Shoes.
However,others can do what they want, I dont have to like it or even endorse it.
Why judge? Are you a licensed analyst? Why not live whatever years you have left - and allow others to do the same?
@@stevefischer9336 Having an opinion does not mean to be judgative.
@R C :Vive la difference.
Sometimes the Bordon in the bedroom can lead to cheating. Its not cheating when you both envolved. I have seen it saves marriages
@Dwayne Neal you couldn't be more wrong
Bravo za ovaj Svinger par. Nije pogrešila kada je izjavila da je Svingeraj fantastičan. Volim Svinger, a i rado bi ih upoznao.