The Journey.... being open to the fact that all people are different and our bodies and chemistry can work differently with different people. I allow honesty and nonverbal communication and body language to be the guide...
Hi guys I was just wanting to ask if you guys could help my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years but have known each other for 30 years dated when we were 17 but lost touch for 27 years well up until 2 years ago , and we love one another always have then and now and so we were both in and out of unhealthy relationships and marriages so we both came with a lot of issues and insecurities so my thing is would you guys recommend or when would be the right stage in our relationship to invite another female in ? He says he loves me and only me that nothing or no one would ever change that and it's only a one time thing , I believe him kinda but there is also the side of me that says what if this or what if that how do you know it wouldn't cause problems ya know
@@openlove101 Love to see what Jackie has done in the garden because I know John is only the hole digger.. 😁 How do I know? I've been married 54 years that's how.
I’m new to the “lifestyle” and I’ve noticed something that really puts me off. Clubs don’t welcome single men as much as they welcome single women. It makes me feel like I’m not welcome or that being a male and interested in meeting new women, men or couples, means that I’m perverted or an outlier. I’m as respectful as anyone when it comes to relationships and would like to be available to someone that might be interested in my company. Any thoughts you two and anyone else for that matter. Thank you
I can only speak for our clubs (coletteclubs.com) but we welcome single men. We have specific nights single men are welcome and other nights where it's couples only.
Single guys are very much looked down upon in certain clubs and parties. Hell, even at certain clubs couples are charged more while solo women pay next to nothing. It's very one sided the way single dudes are treated.
@@julianmoreno2922 It is all about attracting a market...clubs want more female singles unicorns, they dont want TOO many single men, couples are thier bread and butter. Couples swap in the general population more of them than do threesomes those are in the overall population based on research. For threesones, females are wanted more often for a threesome than are males...more women are comfortable with F on F than men are M on M in a threesome. A club swarming with male singles who cant hook up ismt a nice feel for anyone. And there are always more males open to going to a sewinging club than any other demographic.
@@julianmoreno2922 It is understandable to encourage a desirable balance since woman are less likely to go to a club and if there are not enough women the a club will quickly get a bad reputation. I would not go to a club of any kind if it was primarily men, except possibly my gym where the ratio is 4 to 1 usually, and there is not an goal of interacting with other people regardless of gender. I like to go to dance clubs and luckily the clubs in the country I moved to, it is normal to have 60-70% females and it makes a better environment for both men and women. When a dance club has more men than women, women stop going. I do not go to dance clubs when visiting back in the US because there is a high level of aggression due to the majority of attendees are men and fights are common. I have never seen a fight or even an argument in 2 decades where moved to. Cater to women, and a club of any type has a better chance of staying in business with consistent crowds. In a swing club, this is especially true, provide a safe comfortable atmosphere for women and it will be popular with both sexes, a simple reality in a club or the society at large. The main reason single woman are rare in clubs is because it is intmindating to them, despite woman often have more drive and diverse sexual opportunities. 35% of males in the US are virgins at age 30, the entire culture has become dysfunctional, and marriage rates have dropped dramatically in the last 20 years so there are a lot of thirsty guys out there who do not know how to interact with women in a positive way. So the majority of sex involves a smaller percentage of males who are having more partners because females are having more sex than historial averages. In my adopted country it was rare to find an unmarried woman by age 24, 25 years ago. Now the median age at marriage is 31 and far more women never marry. .
@@stanspb763 💯agreed plus you don't want a surplus of horny men gawking at women in a couple or unicorns. I'm a woman and I would definitely not go to a club that allowed unlimited single men being a woman. I went to a LS club in NY like that and it was the most uncomfortable feeling ever being stared at like a piece of meat
I love the adventure of meeting someone new!! It's a new time to explore...and learn
Thank you for acknowledging the fact that ‘this goes both ways’.
I've watched your channel for a while now and I've learned a lot. Thank you.
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Love you both with bottom of my heart . You are so nice people.
The Journey.... being open to the fact that all people are different and our bodies and chemistry can work differently with different people. I allow honesty and nonverbal communication and body language to be the guide...
Your "outros" always make me laugh. Great topic. Take care.
For me it's always about chemistry...when it's there you'll know it.
Loved the discussion!!!
Thank you!
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Thank you for the insite.
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Great advice,
Hi guys I was just wanting to ask if you guys could help my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years but have known each other for 30 years dated when we were 17 but lost touch for 27 years well up until 2 years ago , and we love one another always have then and now and so we were both in and out of unhealthy relationships and marriages so we both came with a lot of issues and insecurities so my thing is would you guys recommend or when would be the right stage in our relationship to invite another female in ? He says he loves me and only me that nothing or no one would ever change that and it's only a one time thing , I believe him kinda but there is also the side of me that says what if this or what if that how do you know it wouldn't cause problems ya know
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Love your house but have you ever thought about using the garden?
Wouldn't that be fun?!
@@openlove101 Love to see what Jackie has done in the garden because I know John is only the hole digger.. 😁 How do I know? I've been married 54 years that's how.
I want come to ur party
How do you keep your marriage working with all the fun you have with other couples?
Because we enjoy each other's company and feel at home with each other. 😊 A relationship is more than just sex.
Tag me in bro!!
Are sex clubs better than regular night clubs? Is the fee true worth it vs a cover charge?
grreat video, firster here, trying to talk my spouse into this, anyone i can talk2via phone# on this? thank u and god bless
You can visit openlove101.com and schedule time to speak with us.
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I’m new to the “lifestyle” and I’ve noticed something that really puts me off. Clubs don’t welcome single men as much as they welcome single women.
It makes me feel like I’m not welcome or that being a male and interested in meeting new women, men or couples, means that I’m perverted or an outlier. I’m as respectful as anyone when it comes to relationships and would like to be available to someone that might be interested in my company.
Any thoughts you two and anyone else for that matter.
Thank you
I can only speak for our clubs (coletteclubs.com) but we welcome single men. We have specific nights single men are welcome and other nights where it's couples only.
Single guys are very much looked down upon in certain clubs and parties. Hell, even at certain clubs couples are charged more while solo women pay next to nothing. It's very one sided the way single dudes are treated.
@@julianmoreno2922 It is all about attracting a market...clubs want more female singles unicorns, they dont want TOO many single men, couples are thier bread and butter. Couples swap in the general population more of them than do threesomes those are in the overall population based on research. For threesones, females are wanted more often for a threesome than are males...more women are comfortable with F on F than men are M on M in a threesome. A club swarming with male singles who cant hook up ismt a nice feel for anyone. And there are always more males open to going to a sewinging club than any other demographic.
@@julianmoreno2922 It is understandable to encourage a desirable balance since woman are less likely to go to a club and if there are not enough women the a club will quickly get a bad reputation. I would not go to a club of any kind if it was primarily men, except possibly my gym where the ratio is 4 to 1 usually, and there is not an goal of interacting with other people regardless of gender. I like to go to dance clubs and luckily the clubs in the country I moved to, it is normal to have 60-70% females and it makes a better environment for both men and women. When a dance club has more men than women, women stop going. I do not go to dance clubs when visiting back in the US because there is a high level of aggression due to the majority of attendees are men and fights are common. I have never seen a fight or even an argument in 2 decades where moved to. Cater to women, and a club of any type has a better chance of staying in business with consistent crowds. In a swing club, this is especially true, provide a safe comfortable atmosphere for women and it will be popular with both sexes, a simple reality in a club or the society at large. The main reason single woman are rare in clubs is because it is intmindating to them, despite woman often have more drive and diverse sexual opportunities. 35% of males in the US are virgins at age 30, the entire culture has become dysfunctional, and marriage rates have dropped dramatically in the last 20 years so there are a lot of thirsty guys out there who do not know how to interact with women in a positive way. So the majority of sex involves a smaller percentage of males who are having more partners because females are having more sex than historial averages. In my adopted country it was rare to find an unmarried woman by age 24, 25 years ago. Now the median age at marriage is 31 and far more women never marry. .
@@stanspb763 💯agreed plus you don't want a surplus of horny men gawking at women in a couple or unicorns. I'm a woman and I would definitely not go to a club that allowed unlimited single men being a woman. I went to a LS club in NY like that and it was the most uncomfortable feeling ever being stared at like a piece of meat