Interview: "I'm so lucky...I got out with my family."

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 37

  • @billwilkinson8609
    @billwilkinson8609 7 месяцев назад +20

    I left the Jehovah's Witness organisation many years ago ( when age 21 ). I became a christian sometime later ( another story... ). About 6 months after Ieft, two elders came to my door and asked if I attended a local church; I said I was and they ( in an annoyed manner ) said something like I was disfellowshipped...I am now 75 ( still a christian...) , happily married ( 47 years ) with 2 wonderful adult children/ grandchild. I went on to university and enjoyed a professional career. I'm so glad I left the controlling, abusive and misleading cult of the Watchtower organisation. There is fulness of life outside the dehumanising grip of the Watchtower organisation.

  • @greenleaf4681
    @greenleaf4681 7 месяцев назад +8

    My big problem is I was "raised as a Christian" by my Presbyterian Dad but he couldn't even explain one scripture in the Bible about ANYTHING! He just pointed at the Bible and the Buildings and the Rituals and said to Believe It. I had so many questions, even to tears, and all he could do was give me a vacuous Children's Book of Bible Stories.
    After many years of searching, (without realizing what research really was back in the day) the JWs were the only ones who even OPENED a Bible and explained a whiff of what it said, so I was hooked. Dad did the full "You're in a cult" speech but had nothing to say except "It's not what we believe" plus a little bit about Rutherford, which in hindsight, is understandable.
    That being said... Been through an entire full cup of hell with the JW's.
    Baptised in 1989, married a "Brother" in 1990. Wanted to commit suicide by 2004, but I knew for sure God wouldn't approve.
    I just said, 'Well, if I'm in a place that makes me want to not live, even if "they" say this is what I need to do and where I need to be, I absolutely can't do this anymore. Let me know what to do next God, even if leaving will separate me from this organization who say they are your representatives."
    I'm still here to talk about it, thank God.
    The Pharisees and Sadducees are alive a well to this day and their burdens are just as heavy.

  • @alisatriglia7798
    @alisatriglia7798 8 месяцев назад +25

    My best friend wrote a letter when she left. When I faded, my thought was I don't need to do it in the way they set up. I don't owe anyone an explanation.

    • @cherylhudson325
      @cherylhudson325 5 месяцев назад +1

      Same here,no explanation needed

    • @AJTyler-r3s
      @AJTyler-r3s 2 месяца назад

      How I did it too. I don’t owe anything to anyone especially since they shunned me as if I was DF’d but wasn’t.

  • @angelaedmund5836
    @angelaedmund5836 7 месяцев назад +8

    I left in 2021. I'm not a born in but I've lost all my friends (so called friends). I was in 35 years and I just turned 60 and I find it hard to make friends. I know there are others out there like me, I just don't know how to find them. I really enjoyed listening to all three of you. I'm so happy your wife woke up too. My husband is a born in and it's really hard. Your videos will definitely help others.

    • @DiffiCULTChildhood
      @DiffiCULTChildhood  7 месяцев назад +3

      #1 Congratulations! #2 You are definitely not alone! After 35 years on the inside, that's a huge adjustment & I'm sure it's been emotional but man oh man, what a road that's stretching out before you! We are truly proud of you & if you need resources on ways to connect, just send us a message! -F🩷

    • @vusimngomezulu2500
      @vusimngomezulu2500 3 месяца назад +1

      Which church are preaching the gospel of the kingdom around the world to all nations as Jesus Christ said? Matthew 10:16, 24:14, 28:19-20, Mark 13:10, if not only only only the Jehovah's witnesses..

    • @vusimngomezulu2500
      @vusimngomezulu2500 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@DiffiCULTChildhoodWhich church are preaching the gospel of the kingdom around the world to all nations as Jesus Christ said? Matthew 10:16, 24:14, 28:19-20, Mark 13:10, if not only only only the Jehovah's witnesses..

  • @leogolive
    @leogolive Месяц назад

    This was really great to listen to. Thoroughly enjoyed it. I can relate to a great deal of it as someone who was raised as a JW child.

  • @AeroHawke2294
    @AeroHawke2294 3 месяца назад

    This resonated with me so much! When i left, i had no family except for my, then, newly wed wife. But it's so true that there is indeed a life waiting for anyone wanting out.

  • @robotaholic
    @robotaholic 6 месяцев назад +4

    If I could go back in time 20 years, I'd start a RUclips channel to help other people just like you did.

    • @DiffiCULTChildhood
      @DiffiCULTChildhood  6 месяцев назад +2

      You're helping people more than you know, just by living a free, happy life! Thank you so very much for joining us! -Falon 😘

  • @gaetanodetorrice5555
    @gaetanodetorrice5555 8 месяцев назад +5

    I always called the ministerial servants assistant managers😂

  • @robertmanderfield9580
    @robertmanderfield9580 Месяц назад

    I so enjoyed your experience, you made me laugh and cry. My wife and I decided together to leave. And we've decided that we are not giving them any kind of satisfaction or power over us to write a letter of disassociation.

  • @alicedowntherabbithole6456
    @alicedowntherabbithole6456 5 месяцев назад +1

    This was a good experience to hear. I’m still adapting 2 and half years on from fading - the freedom is amazing,but knowing where you now fit in and what you like is something I’m still working through. I had the same experience buying Christmas decorations too! I’m having therapy because you can’t downplay the impact of leaving. Thanks x

  • @judyarellano6196
    @judyarellano6196 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you all for your RUclips channel!
    It helps me deal with my religious trauma caused by The Watchtower.
    I bought some old WT books 📚 to help me understand how The Lie got started.
    One of Joseph Rutherford’s books “The Kingdom Is At Hand” copyright 1944 contains some outrageous illustrations of a clean shavenJesus wearing short bob haircut.

  • @ooklathemok7322
    @ooklathemok7322 8 месяцев назад +3

    I just wanted to say I am overjoyed to know you and your wife left together! A testimony to your deep love for each other.

  • @gaetanodetorrice5555
    @gaetanodetorrice5555 8 месяцев назад +10

    Because watchtower is a real estate publishing company disguised as a religion.😮👍.

  • @dannycasey8261
    @dannycasey8261 8 месяцев назад +5

    Go to Wikipedia and see what GB is. Its the leadership that has total control over all the underlings.

    • @TJS7124
      @TJS7124 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@ronhansen8471 absolute bullshit. Show me the one scripture that says Jesus came back invisibly. Governing body have already said they're not inspired and not God's mouthpiece. Wake up and smell the coffee, they're laughing at you

    • @robotaholic
      @robotaholic 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@ronhansen8471Wikipedia actually shows its sources, authors, etc and is open to criticism.....when the governing buddies use the word inspired it doesn't mean what the proper word inspired means, they mean the bible author WAS POSESSED and wrote every single word exactly how god wanted it...which is not how it works lol the Bible is true because the Bible says it is lololol
      I don't agree the word spiritual contains any meaning whatsoever. It is all made up garbage.

  • @nowandafter3258
    @nowandafter3258 7 месяцев назад +4

    JW 💯CULT💰

  • @WatchtowerHunter
    @WatchtowerHunter 2 месяца назад

    Dave is a very unusual guy, he actually put in the work to get out of Watchtower for good. I agree with him, if you actually read the works of Rutherford you see what a megalomaniacal madman he actually was. Every person around him either became a complete sycophant or were out of the Watchtower in fairly short order. (See any parallels in the modern US political landscape?) Dave, the guy who helped Rutherford write the bonkers 7th volume of Studies in the Scriptures was George Fisher. He stood up to Rutherford for Rutherford going to burlesque shows in NYC and worked on removing him. Rutherford slandered him in the pages of the Watchtower and Fisher died from the stress of the situation. That is one of several bodies, literal and figurative, that Rutherford left in his wake. Like you, when I came out I wanted to know everything. Wish we knew each other, I feel we are kindred spirits.

    • @DiffiCULTChildhood
      @DiffiCULTChildhood  2 месяца назад

      I've never heard the name 'Fisher' before, I'll have to look him up. Thanks for the info! 🙂

    • @WatchtowerHunter
      @WatchtowerHunter 2 месяца назад

      @@DiffiCULTChildhood Watchtower History did a multi-part series called The Man Who Stood Up To Rutherford. It is fascinating.

  • @irresistible743
    @irresistible743 8 месяцев назад +2

    The person was asked how he was able to get access to the online watchtower library of publications going back well before 1950 when the rank and have never had access to such and you got a bit side tracked and never really explained how you were able to access them. Don’t misunderstand me I believe what you said about you discovered (writings of Rutherford and Studies in the scriptures etc).

    • @omegared1210
      @omegared1210 8 месяцев назад +5

      Betheliites are given full access to the archive, some have shared that information with others

    • @irresistible743
      @irresistible743 8 месяцев назад +1

      Ah ok thanks for clearing that up.@@omegared1210

  • @gaetanodetorrice5555
    @gaetanodetorrice5555 8 месяцев назад +2

    Just make up your hours I know a lot of witnesses that did that. That's no biggie😂😂😂

  • @g45crrt
    @g45crrt 11 дней назад

    In your dreams, "They Not Like Us"
    The witnesses are the only ones that do the preaching work, follow The Model Prayer and Jesus' New Commandments and remain separate from this wicked world. The only ones who honor God's name, restored God's name in their Bibles, and do what the Bible commands us to do.
    Organized religion hates God's name and his people and have removed God's name from their Bibles 6,828 places and only worship the son, sports and holidays. They have made themselves enemies of Jehovah God, along with you!
    Christians is not the name of God's people.
    Guess who's going to heaven and who's going to hell?
    If you hate God's name and his people, it means that you are wicked!!!!
    "You are my witnesses," is the utterance of Jehovah, even my servant whom I have chosen. There are no other witnesses other than Jehovah's Witnesses (who are called by his name).
    Isaiah 42:8
    I am Jehovah. That is my name.
    Isaiah 43:7
    Everyone who is called by my name, And whom I created for my own glory, Whom I have formed and made.
    Isaiah 43:10
    "You are my witnesses," is the utterance of Jehovah, even my servant whom I have chosen.
    - This scripture is very clear that the witnesses and Jesus Christ, both belong to Jehovah God.
    Isaiah 43:11
    I am Jehovah, and besides me there is no savior.
    Isaiah 43:12
    So you are my witnesses,” declares Jehovah, “and I am God.
    Revelation 1:5
    and from Jesus Christ, “the Faithful Witness,”
    - Even Jesus Christ was a witness.
    Ezekiel 3:19
    If you warn them and they refuse to repent and keep on sinning, they will die in their sins. But you will have saved yourself because you obeyed me.
    Revelation 14:20
    And the winepress was trodden outside the city, and blood came out of the winepress as high up as the bridles of the horses, for a distance of a thousand six hundred furlongs.
    Revelation 19:21
    But the rest were killed off with the long sword of the one seated on the horse, which [sword] proceeded out of his mouth. And all the birds were filled from the fleshy parts of them.
    Psalms 9:17
    The wicked shall be turned into hell, and all the nations that forget God.
    Psalms 37:20
    For the wicked themselves will perish, And the enemies of Jehovah will be like the preciousness of pastures. They must come to their end. In smoke they must come to their end.
    Matthew 7:14
    But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.
    When the wicked enter hell - that will REALLY fix their thinking!

  • @graciehart1001
    @graciehart1001 8 месяцев назад +5

    Thankyou for sharing I can hear your peace in your heart. A penny dropper in that it’s a buisnes cooperation is that we go to meetings not church.🙏🏼✌🏼🫶🏼🦘💃🤩