I thought Sam did amazingly it’s hard raising kids and she took on 10 she was better there then how she was at her house I felt bed for how they all made her look husband should took up for her
I am actually very concerned about Lee and his children. You could see that his older child is obviously very nervous around the dad. Also, there was absolutely no excuse for him becoming so enraged all the time with the other woman. She was having a mature adult conversation with him.
Yes exactly.... Total lack of responsibility doesn't want to take accountability, he shouldn't have made so many kids as he is OBVIOUSLY STILL a kid himself mentally & emotionally.
I found Sam on TikTok and she was commenting about her experiences in the show. One of Emma & Lee’s daughter was also commenting too. Sam’s kids are all grown up and daughter Ella is now happily married.
Let’s all blame Sam - even wifey accepted her hubby as telling the truth. She even accepted his foul language in front of the kids. Lee went off at the slightest thing - but he’s never like with his wife? As if.
It's both of them. Sam is a manipulator and creates issues out of the smallest things. She also doesn't take responsibility for anything she does (such as sleeping in). And Lee is the biggest child on the planet. Those two are perfect for each other. On the other end of the spectrum we have two great parents that really seemed to like each other and understand each other. I say keep the wife swap permanently. Sam and Lee will divorce in a week as Sam will never be happy and has a warped perspective like her loving, doting actual husband being a deadbeat. And Lee is a child and requires diapers most likely.
Most beta males can't handle assertiveness period. They believe women should serve them hand and foot and should just be quiet when women are helpmates, not slaves.
Lee is a terrible person who wouldn't even try when it came to other people's ways of doing thing!!! He really is a horrible person. Sam tried her best, yes she said things about her partner but that is her view on how she felt it was through her eyes!!! Lee made the kids look more mature & smarter than himself!!!
Could he also put on paper that he thought she was completely useless cause he felt like that? Come on. She and the controlling guy made me think of Trump and Hillary with that lovesong. ruclips.net/video/R8Wde1fFvPg/видео.htmlsi=oTxC-_nyU1s6ib9O
Emma knows full well that Lee is a psycho. Hope Emma watches this show and sees how psycho Lee is. Sam did so well with that family and took so much abuse.
I remember the big family were also on a benefits family programme, the dad shows himself completely different in this! In the benefit programme he didnt seem controlling or stubborn. His wife is completely brainwashed
No she was right. She critisized her own husband very bad, calling him useless and she criticized the other guy indeed like she was his mom, while he's used to never being critisized and having an obedient wife. They put 2 people who played the boss in the house together. That's gonna clash of course.
Wrong. Sam is a manipulator herself. Lee is a child trapped in a man's body, but she plays a lot of mental gymnastics herself. With the nasty things she wrote about her husband in the rule book and the annoying little things she went after Lee about. Every little thing she went after him. His behavior is non-excusable but Sam is never happy no matter what and always finds problems with something in order to create arguments. Both are rancid. Emma and the other husband are beautiful people.
Felt sorry for Sam she is a devoted working mom trying to run on her own business and raise her 2 children . On the the other side 10 children probably living on benefits , Lee is awful
Sam is a manipulator and has a skewed perspective about things. That's how you can tell she's manipulative. She wrote nasty things about her husband in the document. She finds every tiny little thing an issue so she can pick arguments. Not a devoted anything. Lee isnt any better. lees wife and sams husband are the good ones.
I disagree. The whole premise of this show is to get an outside opinion on your life. How can you get to know people if your not allowed to ask questions? They all knew what they were signing up for. If you don't want your personal life invaded then inviting a stranger and a camera crew and essentially the whole world in to watch and criticize is probably not the best choice for your family. I think it was a valid question in order to get to know the dynamics of the host family. If she didn't want to answer no one was forcing her. She did have free will. Could've just said "I'd rather not talk about that" end of it.
I felt sorry for the camera crew that had to stay neutral throughout the 2 weeks or whatever it was! That guy was drinking and playing on a bandit and going out to Chelsea matches whilst the Mrs was cooking, cleaning and even managed to pour him a pint and reach around the corner 9give it too him then at the end he's smug saying it's about time he was appreciated, that was the strangest 40 minute's of wife swap i ever saw!
Exactly. Because both of their partners are bad partners. Lee is an absolute child. And Sam has a wrapped perspective of reality and causes issues with any minor inconvenience If both didn't have their own children at home I would have hoped they would have stayed with each other and let the other two wallow in their own pity.
Wow the father of 10, would talk to me like that, he would not have any left on his shoulder. He treat his wife like really bad, That is verbal abuse, I would not be surprise id he hit her, the children, and other people, He needs to learn to CALM HIS ASS DOWN.
Lee needs to grow up…. Omg, why do some women allow men to act like this?! Shame on you, Emma, for that AND for trying to break up Sam and Darren. Jealousy is a horrible thing….
Do you hear yourself? Why are you shaming the woman for the way the man is behaving? Yes she puts up with it but your acting like it's her fault? It's his fault for acting like a spoiled child and HIS moms for raising him like that. No one else's. I didn't see where she tried to break them up either. If having open honest communication is trying to break someone up then call me a homewrecker!! Wow. Just wow.
@@chronicallycassandra8907 well's if he's still so comfortable acting like a spoiled child, it's cause he's still being treated as one. Of course the main problem is him, but the wife pretending their life is so perfect and her house is so harmonious, that's just insanely delusional. If he's so comfortable yelling at a woman in front of his children, WITH CAMERAS around, it's cause he's used to it and sees nothing wrong with it. I'm sure the wife and the kids must be terrified of ever disagreeing with him.
And Emma responding to his man-child's tantrum phone call saying "Yes, I know how she is, I know how she is" when she's never even seen her in person and having no idea how her man treated her, no idea of how the situation went, that was disgusting! I would be horrified if I knew my husband treats other women like that! She should apply the techniques she was trying to use to discipline the other woman's kids but with her husband.
I also think we need to acknowledge how inappropriate Emma was with Sam's daughter . Her intentions may have been good but totally misplaced, the daughters experience and living arrangements were absolutely none of Emmas business
I’m on the fence with this. Probably not ideal for it to be aired publicly, however they wouldn’t have included her if they didn’t want stuff like that recorded and maybe it gave the girl an outlet and place to finally be heard if she never has been before 🤔
Wow what an amazing woman to confront the other husband about him cooking dinner. The mom of 10 was SO incredibly emotionally supportive and intelligent.
She helped them draw around their hands. Good on her for turning off the TV and spending time with them. Her opinion of the father was way off - mostly because he was acting as if he always helped around the house
@@babsywoman4212not true. I have one son and spend most my days at home with him. Granted I'm disabled but when I worked I spent every minute I had at home with my son. I do know of people who stay home whether it's 1 kid, 3 ,5 or 10. And they have online businesses, or side businesses or their partner works. It's about priorities not numbers.
I'm sure Sam has flaws and maybe things to work on in her family and marriage but Lees's behaviour was very disrespectful in front of the kids I reckon he must of felt tense with Emma with another man or something. I think Emma is a saint but very unfair the narrative they came too when obviously she was very stressed with 10 kids!
The parents of the ten kids were on another show about raising big families on small budgets. The dad came across like a total matyr, a Saint. He looked like dad of the year. I think wife swap shows a more real representation of these families.
not that crazy women trying to destroy their marriage "awww i know how good you are" when the fist thing she did when she first put her foot in their house was complaining about cooking and how he was doing nth. she and her husband are despicable
How can you win as a man in modern society 1.If you are alpha and man in the house the woman call you aggressive and call the police 2.If you are a nice guy narcissistic woman like Sam will walk all over you
We now know that Wife Swap is totally scripted. The manuals are written by the producers. Sam and Darren were 20,000 in debt and had just opened the sweet shop. They thought it would be good publicity. They split up soon after and are now divorced. I strongly suggest the producers put up the full-time mum into doing a midwifery course. She got too much satisfaction from being a mother. If she became a full-time midwife, does she realise that she will hardly ever see her children?
@@laragrove75 The book that I was recommended to read on the subject is called _Small Towns Dark Secrets_ by Eileen Ormsby. Other information can be gleaned online. It is important to have an overall understanding of the WOKE narrative that is running through television. In the UK, a soap opera aimed at teenagers is called "Hollyoaks." The UK government tells them what to put in scripts. They have introduced a child who wants a sex change. I doubt there is going to be any information in there about regret, botched operations ruining people's lives, or the rise in liver cancer among girls given testosterone. I doubt any of the incredible research in _Irreversible Damage_ by Abigale Shrier will make its way into the show. This is just one example of how TV intended for the masses is plugging a very dangerous narrative. This isn't some conspiracy theory. The public is so manipulated that the information can be easily found. Hiding in plain sight, as it were. One of the reasons this is so dangerous to free thought is that...take this message. I am speaking to you directly and providing references and easy to find information. You will read it with your analytical mind. If something is slipped into fiction, our brains shift gear and the analytical and cognitive areas essentially "go offline." We are being taught what to think all the time. Reality TV is completely rigged.
Lee 🤮 he's vile! Absolute pig!! Poor Emma and kids. As for Sam being a lunatic, its disgusting the way they spoke about her. She was honest and raw!! Xxx
I don't like the way Emma is a pot-stirrer. She should have let it play out and see how little he cares for herself instead of doing it how she did. She's a stay at home mom, not a therapist.
‘I don’t wanna be treated like a child’ he says…After literally acting like a child; needing reminders to do the bare minimum like washing up a few bowls from breakfast, reminders to buy something for dinner, considering he was literally home ALL DAY. she’s right, what has he been doing? Don’t get me wrong I live alone and work full time, so I don’t always get round to washing things immediately but damn if I was kicking around all day best believe I could find some time to wash some bowls and buy some salad 🥴weaponised incompetence at its finest 😷
Not defending any of them but these guys were set up for "good" TV and entertainment value. Who in their right minds would swap a working mom with a stay at home mom, 2 kids for 10?
So…. What I took away from this episode was: - Darren wanted to put on a good show and appear to be an all involved father because he had a camera in his face. - the dark haired woman lacks autonomy and a voice in her marriage so projects rules and order onto her kids as it’s the only area of her life she’s able to exert control - Lee is emotional ally immature and completely unhinged and incapable of having an adult relationship where other opinions are heard - Sam has realized that she is maternal but isn’t in her relationship likely because her husband is not a provider or strong and therefore doesn’t give her the safety she needs to relax into motherhood and instead she’s run from it.
Sam wasn’t always at fault no way the dad of the larger family didn’t like anything and his aggressive shouting was awful. He did nothing while the kids was at school left that for the kids as the chore list lol 😂. I felt sorry for Sam’s husband with the book made out he didn’t do anything n that seamed not true. It all went so wrong 😑
Anger management needed lee He controls by being uncontrollable. The other guy will be happier when he gets back to work, in his trade, and not a sweet shop like the first toy shop a kid gets. The women in this come out great.
The mother of the 1000 children is evil and nasty. She deliberately belittled Sam to make herself good and in the process tried to ruin Sam's marriage. She has far too many children which she probably largely relies on benefits for their care and their home is dilapidated and needs urgent decorating. Her so called husband is a complete disgrace. What a hypocrite!
Wow y would u want to do this show than act like a 2 yr old an throw a fit when the rules change... Very selfish an nasty .... Hatred is a seed deeply planted.... 😢
Angry, nasty, abusive, overly defensive husbands who behave like children. They throw more tantrums than the kids and while doing nothing, blame the wives for everything. I feel ground down just watching these shows. Lee's wife plays into it by running to placate him when he throws a hissy fit. I tried really hard he lied.
How can Emma say she knows what “Sam is like” based off what? I think everything that Sam wrote in her manual initially was true and her husband is blatantly lazy. Lee obviously has some issues and his wife definitely knows it which is why Sam received all the blame in the end.
She wasn't as horrible as she was made out. She said somethings that werent nice about her partner but Lee was insufferable, his way or no way if you ask my opinion.
Who actually works in that household of 12? Because Lee doesn't? And poor Sam! She's been totally scapegoated by everyone! Lee blamed her and Emma ran with the ball too Because it makes her feel like the better mum.
Team Sam here. Lee needs angermanagement therapy. Wow, she would put soap in the kids mouth! I'd call child services. And really weird reactions from the dad who's told she found Alfie with a dice in his mouth. Instead of being scared for his son, he gets offensive. How selfish must you be then! Darren: "Kids are not a reason to stay together", that's one of the things that's wrong with the world, so selfish! Of course they are a great reason to stay together!
No he’s a full time dad who doesn’t actually work. Neither does the mum, so I imagine they’re claiming state benefits to support all these children. Hope this answers your question.
Doesn't seem fair when some disabled people struggle to claim benefits and surely they need them more than someone who doesn't know how to use contraception
No they are full time parents due the generosity of the working British taxpayers. I don´t know how she kept a straight face trying to pretend she would like to work LOL. She said she couldn´t find a job because she had 10 kids, well she has an unemployed father to those kids sitting at home all day, nothing stopping her getting a job, other than the amount of free money they would lose.
Neither work! As a tax payer I have no issue with my contribution being used to help people genuinely in need (those unexpectedly out of a job and looking for a new one, genuinely disabled people, elderly, pregnant/new mothers etc). But I have a really big issue with career benefit claimants who never really plan on getting a job and either spin the system for maximum gain or have tonnes of voluntary kids that the state then has to support and compensates them with huge houses, cars, money etc to cover their decision to have so many children with no way to support them independently
The wife should off opened up to Darren not have find out by another women in a manual she terrible as he said if she that bad why with him instead off him finding out on tv on a wife swap programme he looked completely heartbroken and surprised she is bad for not telling him he not mind reader 😢
They get over 50 grand a year free rent/free council tax for bringing their own kids up. Yet the average working class couple get around the 35/40k a year and they have to pay everything.
So unfair how they put everything on Sam. Lee is clearly not the type of man you're allowed to say no to.
Sam's husband bringing up the manual in that momemt in front of the kids was horrible.
Yeah I would love to see what happened when they both watched the episodes!
Lee is a bully
Both husbands are idiots
I thought Sam did amazingly it’s hard raising kids and she took on 10 she was better there then how she was at her house I felt bed for how they all made her look husband should took up for her
I am actually very concerned about Lee and his children. You could see that his older child is obviously very nervous around the dad. Also, there was absolutely no excuse for him becoming so enraged all the time with the other woman. She was having a mature adult conversation with him.
Yes exactly.... Total lack of responsibility doesn't want to take accountability, he shouldn't have made so many kids as he is OBVIOUSLY STILL a kid himself mentally & emotionally.
He was quite scary wasn't he
Its true what you say, but you do know this was aired in 2008? Aaaages ago
His kids are adults now.
Also Sam was super sketch. Just as much as him.
The dad with 10 kids is an absolute disgrace
Yes he's a giant pain in the arse. I like the other guy, he's sweet, as he does more than his wife let on
Insufferable
From the moment he said he surprised his wife every now and again with holidays etc (with 10 kids?) I knew he was a delusional manchild
So is Sam.
Lee is such a coward he sly'd out of the table meeting cos he knew he was in the wrong and would get called out for it ...
I found Sam on TikTok and she was commenting about her experiences in the show. One of Emma & Lee’s daughter was also commenting too. Sam’s kids are all grown up and daughter Ella is now happily married.
What’s her TikTok
Can you share the link?
What they say overall
I was the one commenting to Sam.. there’s A LOT that happened that wasn’t shown! I’m on no one’s side I’ll just say that
Darrens kids are absolutely georgous sitting at table feeding each other ahh so cute ❤
Let’s all blame Sam - even wifey accepted her hubby as telling the truth. She even accepted his foul language in front of the kids. Lee went off at the slightest thing - but he’s never like with his wife? As if.
Obviously because clearly Sam is scared of him and obeys him
It's both of them. Sam is a manipulator and creates issues out of the smallest things. She also doesn't take responsibility for anything she does (such as sleeping in). And Lee is the biggest child on the planet. Those two are perfect for each other.
On the other end of the spectrum we have two great parents that really seemed to like each other and understand each other. I say keep the wife swap permanently. Sam and Lee will divorce in a week as Sam will never be happy and has a warped perspective like her loving, doting actual husband being a deadbeat. And Lee is a child and requires diapers most likely.
I wish we got to see the reaction of Emma watching how Lee acted 😂
He’s an absolute clown
That guy has insane anger issues
I feel sorry for the kids having to listen to the arguments
Anyone think Lee couldn't handle an assertive woman?
Spot on, he felt intimidated by Sam from the start...
Most beta males can't handle assertiveness period. They believe women should serve them hand and foot and should just be quiet when women are helpmates, not slaves.
Absolutely, his manhood was threatened whenever a woman told him what’s what. He clearly uses his wife to have tons of kids to give himself a purpose.
And his wife acting like she was so taken aback 🫢 at the one of the two littles cussing 😂😂
Lady get real 🤦♀️
OOOOOORRRRR she was an insufferable bitch ?
Hearing that father of ten rant and rave made my boring day into a hesterically entertaining one 😂
How can Emma say to Darren ‘ I know you…’ she’s just met the guy. You don’t know someone until you’ve had to live with them in a relationship
Sad to see a woman demonise another woman like that based on nothing.
Sad to see a woman demonise another woman like that based on nothing.
@@NuggingTheDumbexactly!
She’s the type of woman that throws another woman under the bus cos her own life has no purpose other than being a maid
Because she is fake.
Lee is a terrible person who wouldn't even try when it came to other people's ways of doing thing!!! He really is a horrible person. Sam tried her best, yes she said things about her partner but that is her view on how she felt it was through her eyes!!! Lee made the kids look more mature & smarter than himself!!!
Absolutely 💯 Agree 👏
Could he also put on paper that he thought she was completely useless cause he felt like that? Come on. She and the controlling guy made me think of Trump and Hillary with that lovesong. ruclips.net/video/R8Wde1fFvPg/видео.htmlsi=oTxC-_nyU1s6ib9O
Holy shit what a temper when he doesnt have his way. Thats insane. Wonder if the other wife knows and thats why she just keeps quiet .
i was wondering the same thing
Emma knows full well that Lee is a psycho. Hope Emma watches this show and sees how psycho Lee is. Sam did so well with that family and took so much abuse.
she is more psycho
I remember the big family were also on a benefits family programme, the dad shows himself completely different in this! In the benefit programme he didnt seem controlling or stubborn.
His wife is completely brainwashed
I thought it was them
Do you remember the programme ?
Wouldn't be surprised if they're on benefits. 10 kids is a lot of child support coming in.
They were on a programme about big families.
Ĺee was working as a carer.
He and Emma got married.
They were also on Jeremy kyle
The dad of 10 is absolutely horrible. Wow.
of course the story had to be that "Sam is a lunatic", poor thing
She a Narcissistic person and walks all over her nice husband Darren making him feel like shit
Emma is wrong "i know wat shes like"... u arent there Ur clearly an enabler to ur oldest child LEE!!
She had never even met her!
No she was right. She critisized her own husband very bad, calling him useless and she criticized the other guy indeed like she was his mom, while he's used to never being critisized and having an obedient wife. They put 2 people who played the boss in the house together. That's gonna clash of course.
Wrong. Sam is a manipulator herself. Lee is a child trapped in a man's body, but she plays a lot of mental gymnastics herself. With the nasty things she wrote about her husband in the rule book and the annoying little things she went after Lee about. Every little thing she went after him. His behavior is non-excusable but Sam is never happy no matter what and always finds problems with something in order to create arguments. Both are rancid.
Emma and the other husband are beautiful people.
Dad of ten is a absolute muppet
Felt sorry for Sam she is a devoted working mom trying to run on her own business and raise her 2 children . On the the other side 10 children probably living on benefits , Lee is awful
Sam is a manipulator and has a skewed perspective about things. That's how you can tell she's manipulative. She wrote nasty things about her husband in the document. She finds every tiny little thing an issue so she can pick arguments. Not a devoted anything. Lee isnt any better.
lees wife and sams husband are the good ones.
Lee was truly pathetic.
Found Lee on Facebook, it says he's single!
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Send me the link for his profile
Really?
Oh no! How sad. No matter the type of people especially with small children.
Bloody good, he needs to live on his own x
It's none of Emma's business why the older daughter has primarily lived with her dad. That was a major overstep, and to do it on TV is terrible.
I disagree. The whole premise of this show is to get an outside opinion on your life. How can you get to know people if your not allowed to ask questions? They all knew what they were signing up for. If you don't want your personal life invaded then inviting a stranger and a camera crew and essentially the whole world in to watch and criticize is probably not the best choice for your family. I think it was a valid question in order to get to know the dynamics of the host family. If she didn't want to answer no one was forcing her. She did have free will. Could've just said "I'd rather not talk about that" end of it.
No wrong. There is something very wrong with Sam and if you couldn't see it in 40 minutes then you must not be able to read people very well.
I felt sorry for the camera crew that had to stay neutral throughout the 2 weeks or whatever it was! That guy was drinking and playing on a bandit and going out to Chelsea matches whilst the Mrs was cooking, cleaning and even managed to pour him a pint and reach around the corner 9give it too him then at the end he's smug saying it's about time he was appreciated, that was the strangest 40 minute's of wife swap i ever saw!
42:50 they look like they wanted to stay with each other 😅
I thought that, too when he touched her leg!
Exactly. Because both of their partners are bad partners.
Lee is an absolute child. And Sam has a wrapped perspective of reality and causes issues with any minor inconvenience
If both didn't have their own children at home I would have hoped they would have stayed with each other and let the other two wallow in their own pity.
Wow the father of 10, would talk to me like that, he would not have any left on his shoulder. He treat his wife like really bad, That is verbal abuse, I would not be surprise id he hit her, the children, and other people, He needs to learn to CALM HIS ASS DOWN.
Get that lady an IUD stat. My god…
Lee needs to grow up…. Omg, why do some women allow men to act like this?! Shame on you, Emma, for that AND for trying to break up Sam and Darren. Jealousy is a horrible thing….
Do you hear yourself? Why are you shaming the woman for the way the man is behaving? Yes she puts up with it but your acting like it's her fault? It's his fault for acting like a spoiled child and HIS moms for raising him like that. No one else's. I didn't see where she tried to break them up either. If having open honest communication is trying to break someone up then call me a homewrecker!! Wow. Just wow.
@@chronicallycassandra8907 well's if he's still so comfortable acting like a spoiled child, it's cause he's still being treated as one. Of course the main problem is him, but the wife pretending their life is so perfect and her house is so harmonious, that's just insanely delusional. If he's so comfortable yelling at a woman in front of his children, WITH CAMERAS around, it's cause he's used to it and sees nothing wrong with it. I'm sure the wife and the kids must be terrified of ever disagreeing with him.
And Emma responding to his man-child's tantrum phone call saying "Yes, I know how she is, I know how she is" when she's never even seen her in person and having no idea how her man treated her, no idea of how the situation went, that was disgusting! I would be horrified if I knew my husband treats other women like that! She should apply the techniques she was trying to use to discipline the other woman's kids but with her husband.
Right! Emma sounded like she was really jealous of Sam!
Jealous of nice husband. Simple. And so fake.
Sam is doing her best and making sure the kids are safe ( especially the babies )
16:38 "This is bullshit, you can shit" This quote had me creasing 😭
“Shove it up ya arse” lol
@@sarahbanks1527 That just tops it off 😭😭
When he says " shove it up your a*rse " does he mean as in the poop? Shove the poop back up her clacker? 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
He shouts before he thinks
Darren thought he'd found a plausible loophole 💪🏼
I also think we need to acknowledge how inappropriate Emma was with Sam's daughter . Her intentions may have been good but totally misplaced, the daughters experience and living arrangements were absolutely none of Emmas business
We would they have the little girl on the show if they didnt want the subject touch???
I’m on the fence with this. Probably not ideal for it to be aired publicly, however they wouldn’t have included her if they didn’t want stuff like that recorded and maybe it gave the girl an outlet and place to finally be heard if she never has been before 🤔
Having 10 children is wild.. i couldn't do it.
Well this is the only thing they can do 😂
They clearly don't wana work
I swear that lee and Emma were on another show aswell, one of Britain's biggest families one I think
Yes!!! They were that’s why they are so familiar and they are on benefits. But I’m pretty sure they aren’t together anymore tho.
Lee successfully made everyone in the show gang up and abuse Sam.
I think Emma is fake. Cant imagine she ever sits and colours with each of her children one to one. Its impossible. So busy criticising Sam.
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Her older children raise the younger ones while they make more
Wow what an amazing woman to confront the other husband about him cooking dinner. The mom of 10 was SO incredibly emotionally supportive and intelligent.
"Coz i gave them a piece of paper and a pen" 😂😂😂 stop it. No way you gave a little kid a pen and paper and they wanted to draw 🙄😂
She helped them draw around their hands. Good on her for turning off the TV and spending time with them.
Her opinion of the father was way off - mostly because he was acting as if he always helped around the house
I think Sam may be bossy but she has good intentions and a caring heart. ❤
The other mum (who isn’t Sam) was so condescending and ready to put Sam down. Who does she think she is?!
I know right?!!! You met the guy for a few days and now trying to make his wife look bad, as if you know their relationship inside out. Jeez
She immediately took Darren’s side and didn’t blink by his foul language in front of the kids. If was off to me
Lee is a BABYYYYY & nothing more..... His temper tantrums look more embarressing than anything any kid could do in a strop! 😂😂😂
10 kids and neither parent works, another reason why child benefit shouldn't exist, you want kids, pay for them yourself, not the taxpayer
I would of liked to be home to spend quality time with my son. Sadly that is not a possibility if you dont have loads of kids.
@@babsywoman4212not true. I have one son and spend most my days at home with him. Granted I'm disabled but when I worked I spent every minute I had at home with my son. I do know of people who stay home whether it's 1 kid, 3 ,5 or 10. And they have online businesses, or side businesses or their partner works. It's about priorities not numbers.
Educate yourself please. There is a benefit cap, you can only claim for 2 children.
@@katbagley3214 Was the cap already in place when the show aired?
@@babsywoman4212no, it was only put in place a couple of years ago. When this was filmed you absolutely got more money when you had more kids.
Thank you so much for your video.
Good video!! !
Lee seemed a terrible husband unless he was in control. I really felt sorry for Sam.
I just don’t understand why he just kicked off? He just went mental for what seemed to be no reason 🤷♀️
Lee is actually dangerous... Frightens me to watch this and how it can escalate... I endured this and dont wish it upon anyone
Ten kids wow 😮
I'm sure Sam has flaws and maybe things to work on in her family and marriage but Lees's behaviour was very disrespectful in front of the kids I reckon he must of felt tense with Emma with another man or something. I think Emma is a saint but very unfair the narrative they came too when obviously she was very stressed with 10 kids!
Emma was just as awful against Sam. They deserve each other.
That horrible dad is crazy he needs help
The parents of the ten kids were on another show about raising big families on small budgets. The dad came across like a total matyr, a Saint. He looked like dad of the year. I think wife swap shows a more real representation of these families.
Lee became Peter Kay for me quite quickly.
"I'll not tek it no more, sat on her fat arse in't room till aff past nine"
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@@shannonhamlin9078 🤣
not that crazy women trying to destroy their marriage "awww i know how good you are" when the fist thing she did when she first put her foot in their house was complaining about cooking and how he was doing nth.
she and her husband are despicable
Gosh . Men need to man up .
Makes me even more glad im on my own with my children and made the right choice to remain that way 😂
How can you win as a man in modern society
1.If you are alpha and man in the house the woman call you aggressive and call the police
2.If you are a nice guy narcissistic woman like Sam will walk all over you
We now know that Wife Swap is totally scripted. The manuals are written by the producers. Sam and Darren were 20,000 in debt and had just opened the sweet shop. They thought it would be good publicity. They split up soon after and are now divorced.
I strongly suggest the producers put up the full-time mum into doing a midwifery course. She got too much satisfaction from being a mother. If she became a full-time midwife, does she realise that she will hardly ever see her children?
How do you know that?
@@laragrove75 The book that I was recommended to read on the subject is called _Small Towns Dark Secrets_ by Eileen Ormsby. Other information can be gleaned online.
It is important to have an overall understanding of the WOKE narrative that is running through television. In the UK, a soap opera aimed at teenagers is called "Hollyoaks." The UK government tells them what to put in scripts. They have introduced a child who wants a sex change. I doubt there is going to be any information in there about regret, botched operations ruining people's lives, or the rise in liver cancer among girls given testosterone. I doubt any of the incredible research in _Irreversible Damage_ by Abigale Shrier will make its way into the show.
This is just one example of how TV intended for the masses is plugging a very dangerous narrative. This isn't some conspiracy theory. The public is so manipulated that the information can be easily found. Hiding in plain sight, as it were.
One of the reasons this is so dangerous to free thought is that...take this message. I am speaking to you directly and providing references and easy to find information. You will read it with your analytical mind. If something is slipped into fiction, our brains shift gear and the analytical and cognitive areas essentially "go offline."
We are being taught what to think all the time. Reality TV is completely rigged.
'Sam is a lunatic" yea yea not her and her husband
There is nothing better than being a mum.....aka i dont ever want to work again 😂
Sam being blamed fir whats happened with that great big bully. I think shes written stuff about Darren that seems unfair.
Lee 🤮 he's vile! Absolute pig!! Poor Emma and kids. As for Sam being a lunatic, its disgusting the way they spoke about her. She was honest and raw!! Xxx
I don't like the way Emma is a pot-stirrer. She should have let it play out and see how little he cares for herself instead of doing it how she did. She's a stay at home mom, not a therapist.
Daren seems a lovely fella
‘I don’t wanna be treated like a child’ he says…After literally acting like a child; needing reminders to do the bare minimum like washing up a few bowls from breakfast, reminders to buy something for dinner, considering he was literally home ALL DAY. she’s right, what has he been doing? Don’t get me wrong I live alone and work full time, so I don’t always get round to washing things immediately but damn if I was kicking around all day best believe I could find some time to wash some bowls and buy some salad 🥴weaponised incompetence at its finest 😷
Not defending any of them but these guys were set up for "good" TV and entertainment value. Who in their right minds would swap a working mom with a stay at home mom, 2 kids for 10?
They always set up extreme differences.
All I know, if a father doesn't want his 3 yr old around someone, there's a reason... 👀
So…. What I took away from this episode was:
- Darren wanted to put on a good show and appear to be an all involved father because he had a camera in his face.
- the dark haired woman lacks autonomy and a voice in her marriage so projects rules and order onto her kids as it’s the only area of her life she’s able to exert control
- Lee is emotional ally immature and completely unhinged and incapable of having an adult relationship where other opinions are heard
- Sam has realized that she is maternal but isn’t in her relationship likely because her husband is not a provider or strong and therefore doesn’t give her the safety she needs to relax into motherhood and instead she’s run from it.
No way I'd make 3 different dinner's EVERYONE EATS SAME THING PERIOD AND THAT'S IT!!!!
Cant understand why the kids swear if im a lazy fucker who gos out all the fucking time fuck this fuck that 😅
Sam wasn’t always at fault no way the dad of the larger family didn’t like anything and his aggressive shouting was awful. He did nothing while the kids was at school left that for the kids as the chore list lol 😂. I felt sorry for Sam’s husband with the book made out he didn’t do anything n that seamed not true. It all went so wrong 😑
I found it all really off
Love how she calls it the bible ❤
Id have to leave immediately when i found out they had ten kids...omg what a nightmare
Lee and his family were on a benefit Britain show as well after this and got married on it
Anger management needed lee
He controls by being uncontrollable.
The other guy will be happier when he gets back to work, in his trade, and not a sweet shop like the first toy shop a kid gets.
The women in this come out great.
The mother of the 1000 children is evil and nasty. She deliberately belittled Sam to make herself good and in the process tried to ruin Sam's marriage. She has far too many children which she probably largely relies on benefits for their care and their home is dilapidated and needs urgent decorating. Her so called husband is a complete disgrace. What a hypocrite!
sorry but Sam is not the problem in her household lol
Wow y would u want to do this show than act like a 2 yr old an throw a fit when the rules change... Very selfish an nasty .... Hatred is a seed deeply planted.... 😢
Angry, nasty, abusive, overly defensive husbands who behave like children. They throw more tantrums than the kids and while doing nothing, blame the wives for everything. I feel ground down just watching these shows. Lee's wife plays into it by running to placate him when he throws a hissy fit. I tried really hard he lied.
@@debbiemohekey1509I feel sorry for those kids, having to put up with that.
They get paid for appearing on the show lol
This was the most confusing episode. I couldn't keep the families straight with who was who.
It’s ludicrous to have 10 children.
They take care of them, provide & teach them well. Nothing wrong with a large family.
@@SayMyNameAgain There is if they’re on benefits. Not to mention overpopulation.
@@hearmeoutbrothe population growth rate is rapidly declining. There won't even be enough working adults to support the elderly at this rate.
@@SayMyNameAgainthey take care of themselves with the benefit money from the children
It's disgusting
That father of 10 is twisted
100% TEAM SAM ♥
How can Emma say she knows what “Sam is like” based off what? I think everything that Sam wrote in her manual initially was true and her husband is blatantly lazy. Lee obviously has some issues and his wife definitely knows it which is why Sam received all the blame in the end.
Darren is too comfortable using bad language in front of his children
10 kids and society pays 🙄
She wasn't as horrible as she was made out. She said somethings that werent nice about her partner but Lee was insufferable, his way or no way if you ask my opinion.
Who actually works in that household of 12? Because Lee doesn't? And poor Sam! She's been totally scapegoated by everyone! Lee blamed her and Emma ran with the ball too Because it makes her feel like the better mum.
Thank you!!
Team Sam here.
Lee needs angermanagement therapy.
Wow, she would put soap in the kids mouth! I'd call child services. And really weird reactions from the dad who's told she found Alfie with a dice in his mouth. Instead of being scared for his son, he gets offensive. How selfish must you be then!
Darren: "Kids are not a reason to stay together", that's one of the things that's wrong with the world, so selfish! Of course they are a great reason to stay together!
Does the father of the ten kids actually work to support them
No he’s a full time dad who doesn’t actually work. Neither does the mum, so I imagine they’re claiming state benefits to support all these children.
Hope this answers your question.
Doesn't seem fair when some disabled people struggle to claim benefits and surely they need them more than someone who doesn't know how to use contraception
No they are full time parents due the generosity of the working British taxpayers. I don´t know how she kept a straight face trying to pretend she would like to work LOL. She said she couldn´t find a job because she had 10 kids, well she has an unemployed father to those kids sitting at home all day, nothing stopping her getting a job, other than the amount of free money they would lose.
The language from parents in front of children 😮!
Neither work! As a tax payer I have no issue with my contribution being used to help people genuinely in need (those unexpectedly out of a job and looking for a new one, genuinely disabled people, elderly, pregnant/new mothers etc). But I have a really big issue with career benefit claimants who never really plan on getting a job and either spin the system for maximum gain or have tonnes of voluntary kids that the state then has to support and compensates them with huge houses, cars, money etc to cover their decision to have so many children with no way to support them independently
The wife should off opened up to Darren not have find out by another women in a manual she terrible as he said if she that bad why with him instead off him finding out on tv on a wife swap programme he looked completely heartbroken and surprised she is bad for not telling him he not mind reader 😢
Have I just seen a bike in the kitchen with 10 kids…😮
And a parrott 😮
Emma is sad because she doesn’t understand that she is used to the horror of doing everything and that’s why she is sulking with darren so much
Lee wears Stone Island so it means he’s really hard.
Any updates with families and did they sort out who was lying ?
Why in the world would ANYONE want that many kids???!!!! Seriously!!!
Benefits.
They get over 50 grand a year free rent/free council tax for bringing their own kids up.
Yet the average working class couple get around the 35/40k a year and they have to pay everything.
What a horrible man Lee is the way he goes on and in front of those poor kids 😢
is it just me is the father with 10 kids a narcisist , he is disusting
💯
Darren’s always pissed off !!
Sam is a narcissistic victim, lee is a control freak, Emma was loving being the "better" wife, and Sam's husband was milking it😅
Watch them on the 10 kids and counting or whatever it's called ....he's took his family on a few reality shows and he's gross.
Sam was simply returning Lee’s energy