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Hi Fredric.
I have heard from other people who have/have had stalkers, that referring to them as “my stalker” is a kinda bad decision because it gives them more of your attention. Therefore I would recommend calling him “The Stalker” rather than yours specifically as it gives him more of your attention.
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some people are just stupid in the head
Try to remember to call them "the stalker" and not "my stalker". The small change in wording can keep them invested so use words to distance yourself. They're not your stalker just a stalker.
Yes, very true! When I saw the notification for like 30 minutes before it premiered, I was thinking the same thing. It’s a small difference but words can be really powerful.
I learned from boze (who does true crime/the human condition, and talked a lot about psychology on twitch) that using words like “my” makes them feel like they are attached or have a connection to you and that is like an achievement for them. Calling them “a stalker” or “the stalker” or just “a weirdo” is less personal and you should always try to not engage with them because that’s what they want but if you can’t, the less personal and more distant you can be, the better.
@@Jiminie53421Chimmy! Fancy meeting you here. 💜
This is what I was going to say :)
@@Jiminie53421 Omg yess I love Boze. My grandpa actually introduced me to her loll 💗
I'm so glad someone made this comment because I WAS JUST ABOUT TO TYPE THE SAME SHIT
i bet he’s in love with you and insecure about it💀
he's not even a little bit subtle about it lol
FR like the things he says... you wouldn't know that shit if you were straight idk 👀👀👀
Frrrrr
He wants the Freddy bussy
Nah fr bruh is obsessed 💀
As a gay man from Uganda, this man's rhetoric is not only homophobic, it is also anti-black and racist. Black people are not a monolith. Not all Ugandans agree with whatever nonsense our government does. Power to you Frederic for dragging his ass and bringing attention to this. A lot of times, it's our very own who spread such bigotry. He says he is not bending over for any man, yet he is out here bending over to white supremacist ideology and prejudiced hate speech. I sincerely hope you are doing okay Frederic. I wish there was a way to prevent such people from harassing others.
We know who's fault it is.... Whites
I hate that people just assume people are always on board with what their governments do. As a general rule, I separate what the government does and what the people believe, because often I think they aren't the same. I wish more people could appreciate that.
Thank you. I'm Jewish and having people equate antisemitism with not supporting the actions of Isreal's government, it drives me insane. Especially with the atrocities that Isreal is perpetrating at the moment.
So many people needed to hear this ❤️ Thank you for speaking up and be safe!
My heart goes out to you and all my queer family in Uganda dealing with the new laws that have passed. I hope you're safe!
I'm sorry, he's 23???? I thought he was like 40. Just shows that hatred ages you 🤷♀️
WORD-Love is what keeps people beautiful
It is honestly really sad how his dad told him, as a child, that he'd kill him for being gay, he's scared of himself being gay... and now he has fixated on you. I am guessing it is because you are beautiful, outspoken, and intelligent.
It is really sad that he can't see the connection of love and sex, this was clearly driven into him as a child and he has since internalized it based on fear. So sad when people are so brainwashed as children with hate and fear and then they take it out on everyone else as adults.
i agree but i was also told so and still am. im queer myself and i know a lot of other queers (closeted from their family) who are also still being told that by their parents in my country and it's just so sad. some bi/pan/omni/poly people i know even said that theyd never date a person of the same sex cuz thereyre also attracted to the opposite one and it's just easier that way for them. so yeah it's definitely affected this guy and everyone who was raised this way in one way or another.
It's sad, but also pretty disgusting. It shows the kind of person he is to be perfectly fine with imposing onto another person the same kind of hatred and judgement and belittlement that I'm quite sure he himself didn't enjoy being the subjected to.
He finds more power and safety in being a bigot and punching down because he doesn't have the balls simply to say, "Oh fkg well. Let them them be who they are"
I’m Black, Gay and Trans a triple whammy so to see him deny racism plus being homophobic & transphobic is crazy like what is this dude on anyway I have nothing else to say because I’m stunned at his stupidity
"black and gay don't even belong in the same sentence" well shit I guess my lesbianism is cured. I love men now.
as someone who is biracial and bisexual i guess it's just the white half of me that's bi, like just split down the middle or some shit /s
@@jasperjazzierainbow ereo
“I’m providing for my family by harassing a gay man over the internet because I haven’t learned to cope with the fact that my father verbally abused me as a child when he told me that he would end my own life if I were gay.”
as someone who's part of the Black community, he's wrong - no one race is innately homophobic. "it's a cultural thing" is a bad excuse for bigotry.
also i'm so glad you mentioned the colonization part. not many would bring up that important point (or would know enough to do so.) you're so awesome frederic💕
I love this comment.❤❤❤
1000000% THISSSSSS!!
As someone who is black, nonbinary, and bisexual, to witness people like this makes may brain glitch and my ass itch because the hypocrisy is killing me and the obvious avoidance of questions that point out his bullshit makes me laugh. It takes a single self-taught history lesson to find resources on how the effects from the tools of colonization (such as homophobia as an effect and religion as a tool) is so prevalent in the black community today (and other communities of color as well)
OOOH with the "growing out of being transgender" study, I think I know which one he's referring to, if he's referring to one at all!
It's a nightmare of a study. They got 100 RANDOM kids, including kids who NEVER identified as trans or showed any genderqueer signs, and then came back later to see who identified as their agab. Resulted in those weird statistics, not because people "grew out of it," but because they were never even trans.
Better studies are the more recent ones, which actually show a slight spike around puberty. And a less than 1% detransition rate. So, he's just so wrong.
wow that nightmare of a study reminds me of the "vaccines cause autism" study, which turned out to be scam to make money, so idk what the backstory on this study you mentioned was...
Also, out of the people who detransition only a small percentage does so because they realized they identify with their agab, most people who detransition do so because of discrimination.
I’m genuinely worried, this man seems unwell, like genuinely. I’m worried he might try to do something. Please stay safe Frederic.
Same, this man seems fairly unhinged.
@Zephyr Sanctum he even sent him gore just to get even more angry that he exists and is gay.. he had so much enjoyment over that that he wanted him to see it. This guy's not well, and I feel bad for his cousin. I hope he stays online.
Yeah this is scary
Agreed...with how easily people can be stalked nowadays and how easily psychos can get guns in this messed up country, and with there being mass shootings EVERY DAMN DAY, not to mention the horrific uptick in Asian/LGBTQIA hate crimes, it just serves to incentivize people to do their best at being their worst possible selves...it's like we've entered *The Forever Purge* , and obviously this deranged individual won't stop until he gets the reaction from Frederic he wants
Being in this situation is scary. We hope you're staying safe no matter what.
Don’t worry the New York Police Department is incredibly reliable and stalking laws are very strict in the US because they care about our safety! /S
@@FredericChen thats why we worry😔
He did it to himself and deserves all the repercussions coming his way. Bullies are typically indignant once people start to fight back (i almost called you his ‘victim’, but you are no one’s victim Frederic!! ❤). He started it, and people have the right to fight back. Screw him.
BTW, why are the people who claim to be the most religious also the most hate filled??
Because there usually raised in strict religious households, and religion is pretty much entirely based on judgement lol.
I would use 'target,' rather than 'victim,' because it only shows the bullies intent, and you're right, Frederic is no victim.
@@loner844 he kinda is in this situation and stop saying victims are weak you are a horrible person
he is a victim
"STDs don't discriminate, unlike you" even STDs know better than this man 😭😭
for someone who hates gay sex, he sure does talk alot about gay sex 💀
FR and the comment at 6:48 why that boy wanna shove things in boys throat huh /j
that's usually how this goes 😭
If our justice system actual worked this type of stalking would be taken seriously & he'd face consequences. this country fails us/almost everyone all the time :(
This is frustrating in a way they're so in their head and denial as hell 😀
He's talking about lust but his ig page is the one filled with lust 🤓
@@Tamichuii LMFAOOO FR
I’m a black lesbian genderfluid Muslim, id blow his mind lmafo 😭😭
In his mind you don’t exist, it’s impossible!
same 😃just im aromantic
Same but pansexual
I forgot he existed tbh, but good to know his hair line is a bit farther back. 🧡
LMFAO 🤣🤣❤
havent watched the video yet but a reminder to never refer to a stalker as "my stalker"! you need to distance yourself as much as possible, because that little affirmation that you know about them/think about them or that they have any sort of impact on your life is exactly what they're looking for. they want to be part of your life no matter the cost or consequences, even if it means being in your life in a terrible way.
As a black person we do not claim this individual and I love you so much Frederic
As another black person I support this statememt
@@kaiheejeu period
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Homie is projecting SO HARD damn, almost feel bad for him because he's so beyond brain washed.
Since he's threatened your life, you can fill out a form online and report him to the FBI. They WILL follow up 🤭
As a black and questioning person I’m actually dumbfounded by this man 😭😭😭
As a black and a homosexual, that 15 minute live for me angry.
I could smell his breath through the live stream. 💀💀
i think you should get legal help against this dude… i hope you stay safe
I had this one guy who kept bullying me for so long. I was so fed up and was about to just leave, but then he confessed he had a crush on me 😂 I Still left because I’m not messing with anyone who can’t admit to what they want in life.
he is so incredibly ignorant to an entire community of black queer people that i am proud to be apart of. he is beyond saving and is just digging himself deeper into this hole of lies and hatred. love ya frederic☺️
yeah…it’s really sad. he’s clearly hurting on the inside and taking it out on you. it’s strange that he even brings up counseling because it’s clear that he’s never gone to counseling himself. i’m sorry you’re having to deal with this.
“gay and black people don’t even belong in the same sentence” i literally disintegrated on the spot, i no longer exist
Just turned into a cloud of dust I bet 😭
"How does it feel being gay all your life?"
"Sickening bitch."
Lmao😂 I'm going to use that.
…*stares in black and gay as the sun is bright* 👁️👄👁️
I was on that live and when he said racism doesn't exist I left because hes just brainless 😭
frederic i don’t know how you put up with all this from one person. i would honestly have went to the police by now
he's currently showing his gun in his ig story.
What in the Reese peanut butter fyuck is wrong with this guy? The part that got to me was "From one Minority to another, you should know what bullying is like" and yet.... ???????? I'm really glad you're staying on top of this tho. Having a stalker isn't fun especially if you're LGBTQIA+. I seriously hope this guy finds Jesus or gets some help because he's going to be stressed for the rest of his life if he keeps going on like this. Hope you're doing well Frederic and really looking forward to your Pride Content!
Edit: This man really pulled out the bible and couldn't even quote the correct scripture... To my young gays in the comment, PLEASE WATCH OUT for idiots like this. They use religion and religious rhetoric to push their agenda and justify their idiocy and yet they've never read the bible and you can ALWAYS tell because their immediate go to is Leviticus. They tell on themselves all the time and yet they're still dangerous as hell. Clown on them but keep your distance.
Your lips look so good. I kinda wish I could do makeup as good as you but I don't have the attention span to put that much effort into myself at this time. You look great!
I saw the first video and I'm surprised this guy is still going. In a way at least he's wasting his energy on someone who can handle it and not little kids or something. Anyway, you look beautiful
"what up sugarbutt" might be the funniest thing i've seen all day
Please be safe as always. The video was nice and it shows how hate can cloud your judgement. I appreciate so much how people clap back at him and how you have receipts for everything
I recommend not saying "my stalker". It personalises and rewards their bad behavior (especially if you know and say their name!) Most of the time, any attention is good attention to them. I hope this freak gets a hobby. ❤❤❤❤
Javohn has showed up several times when I’ve been watching Fred’s streams and we built a graveyard for all of the accounts he’s made to harass Frederic 💀
LMAOO
Frederic, people with PMS don't have higher testosterone. Maybe you meant PCOS? For PMS it's quite the opposite, taking testosterone shots (partly) supresses the PMS symptoms (in FTM treatment). PMS is just being oversensible to the own estrogen/progesterone, giving symptoms when these hormones rise. Typically in the 2nd half of the cycle, starting a week before the menstruation. I'm 1+ years on Testosterone treatment now, I immediately notice when the levels of testosterone are too low, because my PMS symptoms come back as soon as the levels go under a certain point. I'm also wondering about this agressiveness people talk about when saying they have "high testosterone." I do notice a sort of restlessness in my body after getting a shot, but it's not really affecting my emotions. It just gives me more energy and more sexdrive. In fact, I was a lot more instable, emotional and agressive on female hormones than male hormones cuz male hormones are so much more stable and less fluctuating.
Anyway, hope this guy leaves you alone soon. You deserve only positive fans, no stalkerfans. =^-^=
the sudden end of the vid scared the heck out of me during the premiere
“STDs don’t discriminate, unlike you” my new favorite quote :>
He's trying too hard at this point. As someone who is black, pansexual, and queer I would just like to say...Javon is the most disturbed person I have ever seen and he's making it obvious he's obsessed and highly insecure and weird. I honestly wanna know what his thought process is when saying these things and making threats. I hope every bigot knows this thing Called digital footprint exists.
He is 23 years old. There is no reason for him to have this much hatred and malice for anybody. He needs to focus his energy on being a good person and not persecuting somebody just for who they are. The only reason you will be worried about who is sleeping with who is if you have an interest in that person. People like that are a waste of oxygen
ok but w h e r e did you get that dresser behind you frederic you have such good taste in EVERYTHING
West elm
why he so OBSESSEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD I bet he’s battling his internal issues with possibly being gay, and he’s taking it out on you because he probably likes you or find you attractive and it’s triggering him 😭😭😭😭
seriously how does he have the time to do all that like i WISH i could be unproductive for that long every day
As a transgendered kid, i can confirm Frederic did transgender me despite the fact that i didn’t know about him until after i identified as trans
He crept into my house and whispered words of transgender into my ears to influence me.
💀💀💀
same he broke into my house before I knew he existed and hypnotized me into becoming non-binary. The influence is crazyy man.
(before anyone threatens me I would like to state this is a joke)
He's genuinely so hateful and evil that it makes me sick. The black community certainly has a LOT of issues and the effects of colonialism and christianity has literally caused irrevocable damage and it deeply saddens me. I feel like people like him will never change and are just too far gone. Another black man lost to being spiteful and vindictive. Just awful...
Please be safe Frederic, stalkers rarely (if ever) stop on their own accord, and the chances of drastic escalation is almost a guarantee 😬
I don’t like speculating on random people but theres a point where I think ppl that do this are either 1. just jealous that you’re more confident and able to express yourself more than them or 2. They find you attractive and want to suppress it by being hateful
When I genuinely just dislike someone or don’t like what they stand for I simply block and move on. there’s something deeper abt this type of harassment idk idk
Geez I think this stalker dude is suppressing some... ✨FEELINGS✨
If my dad told me he'd push me off a cliff I think I would too.
Thx for being fabulous Frederic💅
Stay safe and much luv❤
7:21 honestly, you should make the wait bigger like one day or something so he would rage wait for a whole day before being banned in an instant lol
Frederic is literally the most gorgeous human ever
As someone of the queer black community, I think I can say CONFIDENTLY for everyone in the black community (gay, straight, ally or not, etc.) what this man is doing is loser shit and we don’t claim him. It is undeniable that what he is doing at EVERY LEVEL, is loser shit. If he was truly successful he would be about himself rather than stalk and berate Frederic 24/7 like it’s his actual day job.
Edit: I never wish badly upon people but I really hope he doesn’t reproduce or gets help before he reproduces. If not that, some divine medical intervention that causes him to have azoospermia. Peace and love girlies🥰🫶🏾
He "bullies" you because he likes you💀💀
That guy has some insane devotion, its actually kinda scary. The part about him sending you gore is especially worrying. I think he really needs to go to therapy or something.
14:36 my mom has literally always said this! "I don't need an old book to tell me how to be a good person"
“Homophobia doesn’t exist” even though he’s been stalking you for months now, sending you death threats and gore and openly admitting it’s because you’re gay. Hating gay people won’t pay your bills baby girl
this is terrifying omg,, frederic you're so strong! stay very safe from this weirdo :(
NEVER REFER TO THEM AS MY STALKER ur giving them the personal relationship they want with you. the best way to go is the keep them off ur social, go straight to the police, and treat them as the weirdo they are that should be kept at a distance
As a gay woman... can he set me up with some of those girls he was talking about ??? You know to "cure" me of my homosexuality 😏
lol yeah, me too please! I'm just dying and aching to be "cured."
You are so freaking pretty. I'm non binary but also amab and once I move out, I'm gonna try some make up and mix masc and femme clothes together! Thank you for giving me confidence
I am here to tell you that your backgrownd music is the best choice ALWAYS. SLAY
Not Frederic mentioning the book I made him read in videos now
Prob jealous of your beauty and is stalking you to get to know about the secret
"i hate it when people say studies show" and you literally said the same thing before 😭😭 love u tho
And I’d say it again!
@@FredericChen as you should!
nobody deserves to have to deal with someone like this, please stay safe frederic
this is not only incredibly annoying but dangerous and signs of insanity and obsession
"Disrespect me harder Daddy!"
- This dude in five years when he realizes why he's so bothered.
he's the meme of "I have 70 alt accounts" with twitch.
Fun fact! There are now more new HIV cases in heterosexual people than there are in gay people! (In the UK but still-) We're making such HUGE strides on this issue and I'm so happy for these people who are getting to live out their full and happy lives!
I kinda feel bad for this guy, he's clearly got baggage, doesn't give him the right to harass people though. I love the confidence you use when dealing with your haters, make sure to stay safe thought
You always look too good Fredric you are a queen!
My god. They are obsessed with you. Stay safe && making money 😎😎
I don’t understand how people can have so much hatred towards someone because of their sexual orientation.
He's bored. Imagine stalking someone that much.
frederic, you speak so smoothly and kindly but assertive- i’m so glad i found ur channel. keep shining 🧡
ooooohhh he likes you. 🤦🏾♀ JFC iDK how i didn't see that the first time.
it's either that or he envies your self-love, self-acceptance, ability to be out, etc.
internalized white supremacy is a helluva drug.
it's envy or lust. + i'm not saying that as an insult. that's exactly what his behavior is giving.
honestly i love how much more confident you've been lately its really nice to see, Especially when addressing a stalker
I’m sorry for what you are going through….but still love you queen…..forever and always
I am so so so sorry for you. You seem to be handling this really well, but this isn’t something that should happen to anyone. Sending love!
Also THEY BOTH DIE AT THE END IS SO GOOD OMFG I READ THE PREQUEL AND IT WAS SO HEARTBREAKING AND SAD AND CUTE ANDOQ WKXJKDJSKSID
I feel so bad for people like you going through this. Being stalked, harassed, and threatened is plain awful - wtf is wrong with some people. Also a lot of what the stalker was saying is untrue. And I bet he’s just mad because u got more followers than him. Also I dare bet his hate stems from his father whom threatened to shove him off a cliff if he turned gay. I swear to goddess, if I ever meet a person whom is being harassed by a crazy person like this. I’m damn well going to greet u like a friend and get u the hell out of there. Or defend on social media.
Hydrophobic dousen't mean scared of water it means water proof. So phobic doused technetly mean afraid, it means to avoid, bothered, or repelled by it. For some people with phobias it means the fear makes them avoid or disturbed by it or makes them turn away. But dousen't nessisarily mean fear or scared.
A little worried these videos just make him more engaged but so long as you feel like the risk isn’t high get that bag I guess lmao
what he said ab SHOCK THERAPY sounds like... he's been through it. like he's talking so specifically about the queer experience it honestly sounds like he's queer himself. this guy has some deep rooted hate for himself👀👀👀
also, i'm pretty sure he has a little crush on youuuu, it's kinda obvious💅💅🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈✨😌🌟🌟💓💓💓
I thought the fellow-sister-in-Christ Christian girl that tried to talk to me over discord was wacky (I’m openly queer and also willingly Christian), but he’s a whole other level of disgusting.
Also what you said about STDs kinda reminds me of the line “death doesn’t discriminate” from Hamilton-no reason why, just popped in my head
Stay safe Frederic!
When he read the comment about asexuality and says being gay is all sex, but here I am a 34 year old asexual homoromantic guy who has never had sex. Huh
and by training to be a pilot we mean he plays x-plane. It's just sad how much energy people invest in hate. Also there's no point in debate it's a childish approach to conversation and consensus building.
im waiting for the day your stalker gets grinded up into a new makeup
HUH
PROUD OF U
STANDING UP TO A BULLY
Girl u got me waking up the whole house cackling at 5 am ilysm like legit the "animals" was SENDING ME ur so real for this vid
how is this man gonna get anywehre in any of his 'jobs/pursuits' spending this much time and attention on you. he's obcessed. if he harnessed this energy into creating content he may actually get soemwhere.
also side note your cat is super cute.
I hope you’re okay!! I’m sorry you gotta go through this:(