BOOST train: how've y'all been? do you like the new setup now that I've finally decided to sit down and record in it Edit: HIS VIDEO GOT TAKEN DOWN ALREADY PLSSS
IT'S VERY NICE! i've done better but i'm also getting better i think. I hope you are okay after this cus it is scary, i loved your response to this issue tho!
lovely! and its absolutely perfect!! also PLS this video is everything-the whole situation is so funny, and omg his replies to me are ALWAYS illiterate LMAO (i love youuuuu!!)
Please don't ever refer to a stalker by my stalker! That makes them think they have some form of control over you. Always refer to them as the stalker or a stalker! Heads up for anyone in an awful situation like Frederic :(
Guys like that only want the best for people under their small narrow minded view of how people should perform and behave in society 😂 like people being happy in finding freedom to express themselves is a thing they don’t like lmfao
“I took debate club specifically to debate my parents” is the most Asian American phrase I’ve ever heard, truly amazing😂you made a Chinese girl laugh so hard
I can't speak to the cultural side, but I respected the hell out of that. Glad it worked. Having these discussions with my parents now, without the foundation.
@@theoneweirdgirl Facts!! I definitely feel like it’s a mix of that with self-hatred, undiagnosed mental illness problems, and the fact that he wants to go viral for being the next grifter like Kevin Samuels/Andrew Tate/Sneako/etc. Seems like he wants to have a Live debate so he can blow up from that and be embraced into the “black/red-pilled” community as another enlightened tour-de-force… just reads delusional and unhealthy all around.
@@theoneweirdgirl lol one thing you need to know about niggas, is that they love talking all that tough shit😂. I knew it was cap when he said he'd pull up to his city and debate...like bro sit your black ass down! 🤣👍🏽. He ain't about that life and I don't know why he feels the need to force his views on someone like Freddy lol.
I love how Frederic just dragged this dude through dirt but with grace and such fucking confidence. Honestly, such composure and level headedness sprinkled with wit and sarcasm is really "manly" in my eyes, because people with this aura make me feel confident and most importantly SAFE. I see people like Frederic and I know that they protec, they attac, and they got their own and my back
right? i love that frederic isn't backing down, holding his tongue, or shying away. (i'm the same way, only when it comes to dealing with bigots, but i always get told it's too much. frederic is a "too much" person also so i feel a bit better😅)
Same thing here! The way it popped up in my head watching the video was “wow the man has balls of steel” 😅 With his gorgeous make-up and pixie smile he’s teaching that troll a lesson in masculinity 😊
@@zaink.7243 Good for you! Tbf when it comes to bigots and the likes of them, they themselves are always crossing the line, so being "too much" towards them is prolly the only effective counter measure
I think I am going to start using "radical homosexual" to describe my queer friends. I think that has to be just about the most hilarious term I have ever heard a homophobe use to slander a popular person, I love it.
as a Black woman, a few years ago, i would've been embarrassed on behalf of him. but _now_ as a Queer Black woman, i just feel so sorry for him. he's pathetic in the truest sense of the word. he didn't speak one truth. not one. not about Black women, not about Queer folks, not about himself. i can't imagine living in such delusion. iDK who hurt him but i can take a guess. as a grown ass man, his hurt is his responsibility. + instead of trying to heal he's trying to harm others. so.... fuck him. 🤷🏾♀ glad you're doing well + glad this stalking isn't physical. i hope it never gets to that point. stay safe + stay well, Frederic. thank you for being you! love + power to you! 🖤✊🏾
Yes but i do really hope forces could be joined more one day, because everybody needs help for real, that's why it is just sad and pathetic to watch and listen to that man talking trash like that
I will never understand why some people are so obsessed with what kind of make-up people wear or don't wear, what they do or don't do with their hair... just everything they aren't doing it for you?? just let them be and don't try to fill your sad life with hate for them, it's not gonna make it any less sad
It's because you're obligated to look the way I want you to look, so I can enjoy looking at and thinking about you. Plus it will make me feel better about myself. 👆 I feel like that's probably what goes through these people's heads. I saw a comment on someone's video complaining that the video creator wasn't attractive and the commenter had no interest in dating him.
I love so much that you were able to shut him down without being anti black, and thank you so much for checking that ugly shit he said about Black women. Please stay safe Frederic! Also I love the petty & you look amazing, what’s the lip combo??? ❤❤❤
I just don't understand people who say "I don't trust LGBT+ people around children", when many LGBT+ people were victims of this, judged by their conservative families, never cared for and only found shelter in the community. The only ones interested in hiding evidence and protecting peds are these people Amazing video Frederic, hope you're better now ❤️ Do not hesitate to file a police report if you feel your integrity is threatened!
Every time i see a comment about how drag queens/queers are predators to children or some bullshit i keep thinking Well were the drag queens the ones who shot children and teachers at schools?
The "thank you, I love women" line was such a mood. Whenever I get those comments about presenting more traditionally feminine despite being a man it's like "yeah, I wanna look hot. Stay jealous."
As a SLIGHTLY older gay man, knowing that Frederic is the next generation… makes me SO F*ING PROUD! HE and EVERYONE like him are the future, and seeing such a Well Informed, Proud, Genuine, Beautiful, Fearless, Driven individual actually gives me hope for ALL of our future. A future where hate has no place and Knowledge and Openness reign supreme. Get it Frederic, You own EVERYTHING!❤
I have a stalker and she literally stalked my work accounts without me giving her any personal info and she was causing chaos in all of my livesteams. I finally got rid of her a year ago after like two years of it and I'm just like, how do people have time for this???
as soon as I saw Frederic, I didnt see a "man" in "women's" makeup. I saw Frederic. I saw a sickening, stunning, and beautiful person. we love you Frederic
Listen hon, as an AFAB person... WEAR. THAT. MAKEUP. You do a damn fine job at it, way better than I ever can. Also, thank you for slipping some trans positivity in there and the call to action. The political climate has been terrifying as a trans man and I genuinely fear for my life. I do what I can to support and protest, but I am so terrified of something happening. And yes, I know, that's what the oppressors want, but I'm trying to support by donating, by speaking out online, by empowering my siblings. I want to protest. I want to attend vigils. I want to live in a world that's safe. And if you have the ability and mental capacity to attend protests, please do, because there are so many of us that aren't okay enough to do so for any number of reasons.
Always these insecure men trying to pull confident men down with their "you're not masculine" stuff. To me the definition of masculinity are people like Frederic, who are confident enough to show their happy self, especially if it includes wearing "feminine" clothes, makeup or jewelry. You're a big example to many, Frederic ✌️ And I just want to mention about the kids thing. Kids are going to see you in your videos and you'll be their example, not that stalker dude 😊
The way you described masculinity and how he clearly is insecure in his own masculinity was so elegantly put and such an important message that more men need to be aware of!!!!! (Plus he’s just jealous you’re out here being more comfortable and gorgeous in your own skin than he ever will be at this rate 😌💅✨)
ugh i hated seeing this guy in ur comment sections on instagram. i think after a while we've just said he's secretly in love with you. im happy youre able to talk about this and i hope you stay safe.
as a trans masc/enby person who likes to wear makeup and dress femme, you inspire me so much, to create art and look beautiful without it necessarily reflecting my gender. thank you so much
@@Jsarmy87124 don't apologise! enby is the internet abbreviation for nonbinary, an umbrella term for genders that exist outside of the male-female gender binary. hope this helps!
Obviously he's not mentally well, and he's dangerous. I know you can take care of yourself, but just be careful. I know I'll never even meet you, but I promise I have your back. I will fight against homophobia and anti-trans jerks till my last breath. I've seen this stuff before, I was a teenager during the famous Satanic Panic of the 80's. People's lives were ruined by that series of events, and in my opinion, this moral panic is worse. Well not on my watch, not if I have anything to say about it. I don't care how bad it gets, I will always stand up against these lying bullies.
Its best not to call a terrible person “unmentally well” bc this also brings down actual ppl w mental illnesses and disorders. Illnesses dont excuse morals. You can have a mental disorder and still be good. That man however doesn’t even have any, he knows whats bad and whats good, and hes bitchy enough to choose to sit on his musty crusty ass all day and make fun of those who knows what true hygiene is
As a Jewish bisexual trans man I know all to well about ppl like this. The amount of ppl who have threatened me, told me to kms, called me a terrorist, and way more (it's a very long list) all seem to have something in common, they don't think for themselves And they feel so bad about themselves that they have to put others down. I never take what they say to heart, I just feel bad for them (And sometimes argue with them because I enjoy that). I do remember once when I was seven I was verbally attacked in a park in public for being Jewish and then another little kid came over to me to tell me don't worry, I won't hurt you. I know this experience is not unique to just me and a lot of other Jewish and queer fellow human beings out there have gone through similar things at various different ages. These people are crazy! I hope you're doing ok!! And I hope all my fellow queer people stay safe!!
Despite the clothes that you like wearing (and good on you, you look so great king!) you're one of the most masculine people I know of online, because you are completely comfortable in your gender identity. I love what you make and I'm so glad you're getting more popularity because you deserve it!
frederic making videos about this level of homophobia and misogyny and just casually spitting out those fire burns literally fuels me. the confidence is inspiring 🔥
A good thing to do is to not treat the stalker special. Don't call em "my stalker" don't give them good or negative attention and more. They thrive on that shit
Ugh, this really hurts me about my people and I'm really sorry you have to deal with this. 🤦🏾♀ As always though, you handle these things flawlessly and I honestly have no notes. Just love and support from an embarrassed (queer, oh no!) black woman. 💚💜
Oh my god the way you said “you look like a THUMB” was the icing on this phenomenal gender-analyzing cake. I was so happy when I first really understood sex vs sexuality vs gender, my empathy capacity maxed out
I’m so sorry you experienced this! Being stalked is one of the most horrible and dehumanizing experiences. I hope you’re able to stay safe and surround urself with supportive ppl that respect your boundaries and privacy. ❤️
He thinks you’re beautiful and doesn’t know how to get your attention or doesn’t know how to deal with his sexuality and takes out on you. 🤦🏽♀️ Keep doing you gorgeous ❤❤
Some people need to get a life instead of wasting their time hating on successful people living their life and who are not harming anyone while doing so. Hope you’re okay Frederic!
I'm sorry you went through what you did☹ (purposely not gonna say the thing 'cause you said you didn't want to talk about it and I will respect that) I know you said you're fine, so my comment won't mean much, but I thought I'd just let you know that your channel has been a beacon of light to me in some fairly dark times. I'm a recovering self-h#rmer and a s#*cide attempt surviver and really, there have been so many nights where I have fought against my own thoughts for survival and the only thing that got me through was watching one of your videos. Your sass, your style, your uplifting words, they have had the insane ability to make the bad thoughts go away (at least long enough to fall asleep). I want to say thank you for all you've done and I want you to know that I'm thinking about you in this rather crappy time. I know you said you're fine and I believe you, but still acknowledge that these types of major life changes do still suck regardless of how well you handle it. Wishing you only the best♥️
Honestly, you’re just such an amazing person like if this person was coming in my contacts instant block but you just let it happen in a way that put you in the upper hand and also didn’t know you were cancer cancer besties
Frederick, may I just say you handled this with grace, a lil sass lol but imo very respectful. You showed more respect and empathy than he deserved, but you are trying educate and as a mother I am so proud my daughter is one of your followers and has someone like you with a calm demeanor, level head, artistic, intelligent, ALL THE THINGS LOL to look up too. For that, I thank you. On another note, people in the comments and maybe even in your real life joke that this person is attracted to you, but I honestly think he is attracted to you and does not know how to process his feelings. That's how it's coming off to me.....but just please be safe everyone be safe. Know your surroundings, always have your location on your phone. Unfortunately we live in a world where people take things to extreme, so y'all just be safe out there. ✌️💕
No you don't have a stalker, you are being stalked. NEVER refer to a stalker as YOURS. It makes them think you're connected like saying “MY friend” or “MY partner”
I hope you're doing better after this video and that whole mess. The whole time I'm watching this, I just kept thinking "Yeah! Get em' Frederic!" *SHUT HIM DOWN!* You slayed him queen, from throat to balls.
I wish this video came out years ago when I was also dealing with online stalkers. And honestly it's a genius idea to just blast them on social media, I'm going to keep this idea tucked away for the future. ❤
got this in my recommended, and woah dude you are so cool! so confident yet soft-spoken and chill. and like, the bald dude? you totally destroyed him! i relate to having a stalker, had one for 4 years, and i wish i was as composed as you at that time!! i hope the stalker learns his lesson and stops with the bullshit, and i hope that you continue thriving! 🥰💖
I met up with a few old friends one day, the topic of "political correctness" popped up, they were all like "I can't deal how everyone is so pc these days" and in my mind I was like "ohhhhkay here we go". So, we started talking, the topic of trans people came up, and I tried my dammmmm hardest to keep it civil and not get upset by the sheer ignorance. I could clearly see that they were influenced by some all right propaganda and it made me so sad. But anyway, I kept going, I talked about trans people and debated them, and after that I sent in our group chat a RUclips link with a playlist from a trans creator, that describes what being trans is, the issues they face etc. Bc they were sooooo uneducated goddam. I lost a little faith in humanity there, but as long as my talk and the video I sent helps them learn a little more, it was worth it.
This person is exhausting to just listen about, I can't imagine having this person trying to harass me like this. I'm sorry you are going through this.
SO sorry this is happening to you! Terrifying. There is this one dude who follows me around, tries to sit near me, and just stares at me from a distance. He's asked me out twice and I say no. I know how uncomfortable unwanted attention is, and hate that you had to go through this. I am hoping to have the opportunity to confront him soon (With s friend of course)
Omg im so sorry that must be horrible- hopefully you manage to sort things out!!! No one should be making u uncomfortable random stranger >:((( no but fr good luck with that person-
My guy has no idea wtf he's talking about and I'm so sorry you have to deal with him 😭 But you're spittin facts. Also you are literally so pretty 😭💖 I've never seen the lip style and it's so gorgeous
I love your attitude in this video but please also be careful. There's people like him who have went to extreme measures over way less, so please make sure you're staying safe
I wasn't sure what to expect, but such a total, down to the core, completely annihilating burn of Javon was defenitely not expected and I just gotta say you killed it 💯🔥❤ Also a reminder, though I'm sure you don't really need one but compliments are nice to get~ You are so awesome, absolutely amazing, smart and beautiful. I really sincerely hope this doesn't get any worse, preferably after seeing this Javon finally takes a hike (or gets a job) so he can work on his insecurities in a healthy way instead of harassing you.
Thank you for sharing and just being a light that just is such a comfort to me and everyone who comes across your content❤ EDIT: NM I found it through the tik tok and we're reporting both! Let's go Already reported his RUclips and multiple videos on there so here's to hoping it gets taken down & there's actually consequences for his hate, bigotry, & harassment
Some people out there having such insignificant lives they have to start harassing successful, brilliant people to feel noticed. That, or alternatively they just can’t cope with the fact they’ll be looking like they’re 50 when they’re 30 and Frederic probably gonna look like he’s 20 when he’s 40.
the points you make in this video are so powerful. i like how you dont just call javeon out but you correct what he says and educate your audience!! great video as always!!
OMG, I'm in love with your power, your centeredness, your confidence! Yes!!! You'll be fine. You'll be great, winning at life, in fact. (He'll be going crazy, death-spiraling until self-implosion) Love ya bestie!
BOOST train: how've y'all been? do you like the new setup now that I've finally decided to sit down and record in it
Edit: HIS VIDEO GOT TAKEN DOWN ALREADY PLSSS
IT'S VERY NICE! i've done better but i'm also getting better i think. I hope you are okay after this cus it is scary, i loved your response to this issue tho!
Set up is fire 🔥
Also Omg that guy is creepy, sorry you has to go through that 😞
I'm good. And yes. Oh also I wrote a song for my civics class about mental health and I'm really proud of it!
Yes! Your new setup is great and I love it so much!
lovely! and its absolutely perfect!! also PLS this video is everything-the whole situation is so funny, and omg his replies to me are ALWAYS illiterate LMAO (i love youuuuu!!)
Please don't ever refer to a stalker by my stalker! That makes them think they have some form of control over you. Always refer to them as the stalker or a stalker! Heads up for anyone in an awful situation like Frederic :(
I learned this from Boze. Never refer to a stalk by "my stalker". They enjoy it and will continue to do much more
Boze's advice is really out here sticking with us. In all seriousness, that is very true. We don't need to give them that upper hand
I was about to say the same thing lmao
I love that others also learned from Boze such phrasing. I've heard it in the past but it didn't land right until I heard her say it.
@@ad_kk16 I love Bozeman she's amazing.
javon: bullying people online, making contradicting points, bullying people online more
also javon: "i want the best for him"
Guys like that only want the best for people under their small narrow minded view of how people should perform and behave in society 😂 like people being happy in finding freedom to express themselves is a thing they don’t like lmfao
like, is the bro r u dumb or stupid? >:>
Long as it's the best that fits their little box
“I took debate club specifically to debate my parents” is the most Asian American phrase I’ve ever heard, truly amazing😂you made a Chinese girl laugh so hard
Not just Chinese... Every Asian ever.
I can't speak to the cultural side, but I respected the hell out of that. Glad it worked. Having these discussions with my parents now, without the foundation.
@@shepardvasnormandy she means that she's Chinese
@@shepardvasnormandy she's not every Asian dummy
AHAH FORREAL
We love you Frederic ❤
WENDYYYY
Indeed we do love ya ✨❤✨
OMG WENDYYYY AHHHHH
Hey wendyyyy
It’s seriously crazy to see how some people have no life but just attack someone, I hope you are alright Frederic
Exactly ! I’m thinking it’s a crush
Fan behavior 😑 but too scared to come out so he insults him instead
Frederic* and I’m okieee
@@FredericChen OMFLGGFGFD I JUST REALIZED- IM SO SRRY typos 😅
@@theoneweirdgirl Facts!! I definitely feel like it’s a mix of that with self-hatred, undiagnosed mental illness problems, and the fact that he wants to go viral for being the next grifter like Kevin Samuels/Andrew Tate/Sneako/etc. Seems like he wants to have a Live debate so he can blow up from that and be embraced into the “black/red-pilled” community as another enlightened tour-de-force… just reads delusional and unhealthy all around.
@@theoneweirdgirl lol one thing you need to know about niggas, is that they love talking all that tough shit😂. I knew it was cap when he said he'd pull up to his city and debate...like bro sit your black ass down! 🤣👍🏽.
He ain't about that life and I don't know why he feels the need to force his views on someone like Freddy lol.
I love how Frederic just dragged this dude through dirt but with grace and such fucking confidence. Honestly, such composure and level headedness sprinkled with wit and sarcasm is really "manly" in my eyes, because people with this aura make me feel confident and most importantly SAFE. I see people like Frederic and I know that they protec, they attac, and they got their own and my back
right? i love that frederic isn't backing down, holding his tongue, or shying away.
(i'm the same way, only when it comes to dealing with bigots, but i always get told it's too much. frederic is a "too much" person also so i feel a bit better😅)
Same thing here! The way it popped up in my head watching the video was “wow the man has balls of steel” 😅
With his gorgeous make-up and pixie smile he’s teaching that troll a lesson in masculinity 😊
@@zaink.7243 Good for you! Tbf when it comes to bigots and the likes of them, they themselves are always crossing the line, so being "too much" towards them is prolly the only effective counter measure
@@lililangtry1881 true. Setting an example with style👏👏👏
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I think I am going to start using "radical homosexual" to describe my queer friends. I think that has to be just about the most hilarious term I have ever heard a homophobe use to slander a popular person, I love it.
I had to cover my hand over my mouth to prevent myself from screaming when it came to that part 😹
Every time I hear the phrase "radical homosexual," I just think 90s surfer dude, like... "I'm a 🤙🏻radical🤙🏻 homosexual!" 🤣
as a Black woman, a few years ago, i would've been embarrassed on behalf of him.
but _now_ as a Queer Black woman, i just feel so sorry for him. he's pathetic in the truest sense of the word.
he didn't speak one truth. not one. not about Black women, not about Queer folks, not about himself. i can't imagine living in such delusion.
iDK who hurt him but i can take a guess. as a grown ass man, his hurt is his responsibility. + instead of trying to heal he's trying to harm others.
so.... fuck him. 🤷🏾♀
glad you're doing well + glad this stalking isn't physical. i hope it never gets to that point. stay safe + stay well, Frederic. thank you for being you!
love + power to you!
🖤✊🏾
Yes but i do really hope forces could be joined more one day, because everybody needs help for real, that's why it is just sad and pathetic to watch and listen to that man talking trash like that
You go girl! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 So eloquently put!
@@jacopo373huh
I don't even feel sorry for him 😂😂😂
When you don't have brain it's on you 😂😂😂
We hope you're doing okay now, Frederic. No matter what happens, just know that we will always be here for you.
Got that right!
I got an electric shocker, and I am not afraid to help Fredrick and yall take him down
thanks y'all
@@natasha6395 you got it.
😮 I love your profile tho😅
I love those guys whose "masculinity" is so fragile that can be destroyed by a bit of makeup
“that’s an insult to black history” THANK YOU
I will never understand why some people are so obsessed with what kind of make-up people wear or don't wear, what they do or don't do with their hair... just everything
they aren't doing it for you?? just let them be and don't try to fill your sad life with hate for them, it's not gonna make it any less sad
B/c Every accusation is a confession
It's because you're obligated to look the way I want you to look, so I can enjoy looking at and thinking about you. Plus it will make me feel better about myself.
👆 I feel like that's probably what goes through these people's heads. I saw a comment on someone's video complaining that the video creator wasn't attractive and the commenter had no interest in dating him.
I love so much that you were able to shut him down without being anti black, and thank you so much for checking that ugly shit he said about Black women. Please stay safe Frederic! Also I love the petty & you look amazing, what’s the lip combo??? ❤❤❤
it's a dark brown colorpop lip liner, a rare beauty brown nude lipstick , then a red lip tint in the center and a gloss!
I just don't understand people who say "I don't trust LGBT+ people around children", when many LGBT+ people were victims of this, judged by their conservative families, never cared for and only found shelter in the community. The only ones interested in hiding evidence and protecting peds are these people
Amazing video Frederic, hope you're better now ❤️ Do not hesitate to file a police report if you feel your integrity is threatened!
Homophobic ppl are so funny bc they have like 2 jokes.
“Gay people are pedos.”
“Thot daughter or gay son.”
Like stfu
Also, most abuse/SA cases are within the family, not strangers...
Every time i see a comment about how drag queens/queers are predators to children or some bullshit i keep thinking
Well were the drag queens the ones who shot children and teachers at schools?
@@coldspaghetti9372That’s true, but sometimes the abuser is a stranger. Either way, it fucking sucks.
@@coldspaghetti9372hmm strangers are there too
What a sad guy. I hope he can find happiness and a real, useful purpose in life. While you, Fredric, keep on shining. 💜
“Being a man means being comfortable with yourself” that’s very true that stalker needs to hear this! ❤🙌
The "thank you, I love women" line was such a mood. Whenever I get those comments about presenting more traditionally feminine despite being a man it's like "yeah, I wanna look hot. Stay jealous."
I don’t get it how someone feels the need to stalk someone for being who they are I hope your doing fine Frederic
Frederic* PLS Y’ALL
@@FredericChen LMFAO THE AMOUNT OF CORRECTIONS BEING DONE 😭😭
@@FredericChen it’s in ur channel name you shouldn’t have to clear this up lol.
@@FredericChen but it looks like she spelled, it right I looked at your channel. Please inform me if IM wrong though.
As a SLIGHTLY older gay man, knowing that Frederic is the next generation… makes me SO F*ING PROUD! HE and EVERYONE like him are the future, and seeing such a Well Informed, Proud, Genuine, Beautiful, Fearless, Driven individual actually gives me hope for ALL of our future. A future where hate has no place and Knowledge and Openness reign supreme. Get it Frederic, You own EVERYTHING!❤
No worries Frederic! We love you!
Frederic* y’all 🥲
@@FredericChen Sorryyy not the best at spellling-
You always look stunning ❤
I have a stalker and she literally stalked my work accounts without me giving her any personal info and she was causing chaos in all of my livesteams. I finally got rid of her a year ago after like two years of it and I'm just like, how do people have time for this???
wow that’s very strange that stalkers actually exist sometimes the things they do aren’t even normal…
@@Kimichicha20 i mean they've always existed. There's always gonna be some crazy people that just don't exist with normal logic
@stob it!. I'm fine I just think stalkers are weird af
Seriously even if he had blue foundation and green contour he would still look amazing, this man could pull off anything
NO ONE MESS IT UP IT IS AT 333 LIKES
@@kathypince515 You just jinxed it 😭
as soon as I saw Frederic, I didnt see a "man" in "women's" makeup. I saw Frederic. I saw a sickening, stunning, and beautiful person. we love you Frederic
this comment is really sweet but the "sickening" is sending me 😭😭
Javohn sees the world through grease colored glasses 🤢
Javohn trying to save lives? Bro can't even save his hairline. That's wild, keep doing you Frederic.
Frederic*
@@FredericChen Oop. My bad. 😂
Listen hon, as an AFAB person...
WEAR. THAT. MAKEUP.
You do a damn fine job at it, way better than I ever can.
Also, thank you for slipping some trans positivity in there and the call to action. The political climate has been terrifying as a trans man and I genuinely fear for my life. I do what I can to support and protest, but I am so terrified of something happening. And yes, I know, that's what the oppressors want, but I'm trying to support by donating, by speaking out online, by empowering my siblings. I want to protest. I want to attend vigils. I want to live in a world that's safe. And if you have the ability and mental capacity to attend protests, please do, because there are so many of us that aren't okay enough to do so for any number of reasons.
I am genuinely alarmed Frederic. I sincerely hope you continue to be safe. Never stop being true to yourself! 💛🙏🏼
Frederic*
@@FredericChen My apologies, I just changed it now 😅
“Womanface” is the funniest word ive heard
never call the stalker “my stalker” just call them the creep, they want to think that they’re in your life
if javon is upset about makeup, wait until he finds out about high heels and the color pink
Wait until he figures out men used to wear high heels too lol
Always these insecure men trying to pull confident men down with their "you're not masculine" stuff. To me the definition of masculinity are people like Frederic, who are confident enough to show their happy self, especially if it includes wearing "feminine" clothes, makeup or jewelry. You're a big example to many, Frederic ✌️ And I just want to mention about the kids thing. Kids are going to see you in your videos and you'll be their example, not that stalker dude 😊
I agree 100% with your definition!
Radical homosexual?! Frederic I didn't know you could skateboard!
LMAO
Stay safe. people are crazy and have no boundaries
The way you described masculinity and how he clearly is insecure in his own masculinity was so elegantly put and such an important message that more men need to be aware of!!!!! (Plus he’s just jealous you’re out here being more comfortable and gorgeous in your own skin than he ever will be at this rate 😌💅✨)
Love how he isn't even here after wanting to debate💀💀
I hope you're doing well now Frederic. Sending loves and comforts. ♥️
ugh i hated seeing this guy in ur comment sections on instagram. i think after a while we've just said he's secretly in love with you. im happy youre able to talk about this and i hope you stay safe.
as a trans masc/enby person who likes to wear makeup and dress femme, you inspire me so much, to create art and look beautiful without it necessarily reflecting my gender. thank you so much
What's enby ? I am sorry I am French and old😢
@@Jsarmy87124 don't apologise! enby is the internet abbreviation for nonbinary, an umbrella term for genders that exist outside of the male-female gender binary. hope this helps!
Obviously he's not mentally well, and he's dangerous. I know you can take care of yourself, but just be careful. I know I'll never even meet you, but I promise I have your back. I will fight against homophobia and anti-trans jerks till my last breath. I've seen this stuff before, I was a teenager during the famous Satanic Panic of the 80's. People's lives were ruined by that series of events, and in my opinion, this moral panic is worse. Well not on my watch, not if I have anything to say about it. I don't care how bad it gets, I will always stand up against these lying bullies.
Also, why don't people like him ever understand how algorithms work? I mean, I'm 60 and I get it! 😂
Its best not to call a terrible person “unmentally well” bc this also brings down actual ppl w mental illnesses and disorders. Illnesses dont excuse morals. You can have a mental disorder and still be good. That man however doesn’t even have any, he knows whats bad and whats good, and hes bitchy enough to choose to sit on his musty crusty ass all day and make fun of those who knows what true hygiene is
As a Jewish bisexual trans man I know all to well about ppl like this. The amount of ppl who have threatened me, told me to kms, called me a terrorist, and way more (it's a very long list) all seem to have something in common, they don't think for themselves And they feel so bad about themselves that they have to put others down. I never take what they say to heart, I just feel bad for them (And sometimes argue with them because I enjoy that). I do remember once when I was seven I was verbally attacked in a park in public for being Jewish and then another little kid came over to me to tell me don't worry, I won't hurt you. I know this experience is not unique to just me and a lot of other Jewish and queer fellow human beings out there have gone through similar things at various different ages. These people are crazy! I hope you're doing ok!! And I hope all my fellow queer people stay safe!!
Despite the clothes that you like wearing (and good on you, you look so great king!) you're one of the most masculine people I know of online, because you are completely comfortable in your gender identity. I love what you make and I'm so glad you're getting more popularity because you deserve it!
ewie, im happy you see the funny side of this because id be creeped the fuck out. i hope everythings okay frederic, sending love
Glad you're ok! People need to get hobbies that don't consist of harassing people simply for being people.
frederic making videos about this level of homophobia and misogyny and just casually spitting out those fire burns literally fuels me. the confidence is inspiring 🔥
You know you've made it when you are the main conversation of your haters 🥰🥰
The way he got absolutely annihilated 💀💀💀 In all seriousness, take care, hope that creep stops trying to bother you.
A good thing to do is to not treat the stalker special. Don't call em "my stalker" don't give them good or negative attention and more. They thrive on that shit
Ugh, this really hurts me about my people and I'm really sorry you have to deal with this. 🤦🏾♀ As always though, you handle these things flawlessly and I honestly have no notes. Just love and support from an embarrassed (queer, oh no!) black woman. 💚💜
My children have a right to feel safe as they are but I am so scared for their futures.
Can we appreciate how gorgeous you look? True beauty inside and outside! We stan!
Never worry about being alone in your struggles, we're always there
Help he’s trying so hard to get to you it’s actually funny 😭😭😭😭 and your makeup at 9:39 is so pretty I think he needs some
Oh my god the way you said “you look like a THUMB” was the icing on this phenomenal gender-analyzing cake. I was so happy when I first really understood sex vs sexuality vs gender, my empathy capacity maxed out
It lows my mind how calmly you are adressing this kinds of things. Kuddos to that debate club it made wonders
i’m so glad you’re doing okay, and always stay safe
Most of the time I don't come out to people and I hate when self proclaimed "relgious people" try to "save me" and don't respect who I am
I’m so sorry you experienced this! Being stalked is one of the most horrible and dehumanizing experiences. I hope you’re able to stay safe and surround urself with supportive ppl that respect your boundaries and privacy. ❤️
reported him for bullying on all the accounts you gave us!
This it what it looks like when hate eats you up from within..
you ate him up FR!!!
You inspired me to finally be myself and I can't thank you enough for that
BULLIES are INSECURE of themselves.
PROUD of u to challenge him back..
❤💛💞
“Woman-face” lmao I’m 💀
That LOOK??? Frederic you ATE
You take "the best revenge is living well" to the max. Keep being an aspiration, Frederic!
You really do have a strong mentality. Gonna appreciate it ❤keep going
He thinks you’re beautiful and doesn’t know how to get your attention or doesn’t know how to deal with his sexuality and takes out on you. 🤦🏽♀️
Keep doing you gorgeous ❤❤
He also criticizes himself in the video 😂
Perfectly eloquent rebuttal with fantastic burns. Love to see it.
Love the earrings btw!
We're here for you!!! Giving out love to everyone here~ Please to get some rest to whoever that needs it~ ❤❤❤
Some people need to get a life instead of wasting their time hating on successful people living their life and who are not harming anyone while doing so. Hope you’re okay Frederic!
“Allies stand beside us, not behind us.” Facts!!! I don’t need a damn cheerleader, I need a fellow soldier. Get. On. Our. Level.
It’s ridiculous how the stalker was too you!… be safe craziness is everywhere..
Be careful broo, I agree with those types of mindsets are our worlds most reason for deaths of any kind but be safe while making these videos too❤❤❤❤
I'm sorry you went through what you did☹ (purposely not gonna say the thing 'cause you said you didn't want to talk about it and I will respect that)
I know you said you're fine, so my comment won't mean much, but I thought I'd just let you know that your channel has been a beacon of light to me in some fairly dark times. I'm a recovering self-h#rmer and a s#*cide attempt surviver and really, there have been so many nights where I have fought against my own thoughts for survival and the only thing that got me through was watching one of your videos. Your sass, your style, your uplifting words, they have had the insane ability to make the bad thoughts go away (at least long enough to fall asleep).
I want to say thank you for all you've done and I want you to know that I'm thinking about you in this rather crappy time. I know you said you're fine and I believe you, but still acknowledge that these types of major life changes do still suck regardless of how well you handle it. Wishing you only the best♥️
From a random commenter, I glad you're doing ok too.
@@BridgesProductions2024 Thank you♥️
Honestly, you’re just such an amazing person like if this person was coming in my contacts instant block but you just let it happen in a way that put you in the upper hand and also didn’t know you were cancer cancer besties
FR
Frederick, may I just say you handled this with grace, a lil sass lol but imo very respectful. You showed more respect and empathy than he deserved, but you are trying educate and as a mother I am so proud my daughter is one of your followers and has someone like you with a calm demeanor, level head, artistic, intelligent, ALL THE THINGS LOL to look up too. For that, I thank you.
On another note, people in the comments and maybe even in your real life joke that this person is attracted to you, but I honestly think he is attracted to you and does not know how to process his feelings. That's how it's coming off to me.....but just please be safe everyone be safe. Know your surroundings, always have your location on your phone. Unfortunately we live in a world where people take things to extreme, so y'all just be safe out there. ✌️💕
No you don't have a stalker, you are being stalked. NEVER refer to a stalker as YOURS. It makes them think you're connected like saying “MY friend” or “MY partner”
omg he wants to 'debate' you, what a freak >.< stay safe ♡
I’m so sorry I hope you are ok.
They aren't dating anymore honey
@@bluemetamorphosis1252 ???
@@bluemetamorphosis1252 I replied before I saw the video
Stay safe fam and good on you for speaking out about harassment.
I hope you're doing better after this video and that whole mess. The whole time I'm watching this, I just kept thinking "Yeah! Get em' Frederic!" *SHUT HIM DOWN!* You slayed him queen, from throat to balls.
I wish this video came out years ago when I was also dealing with online stalkers. And honestly it's a genius idea to just blast them on social media, I'm going to keep this idea tucked away for the future. ❤
got this in my recommended, and woah dude you are so cool! so confident yet soft-spoken and chill. and like, the bald dude? you totally destroyed him! i relate to having a stalker, had one for 4 years, and i wish i was as composed as you at that time!! i hope the stalker learns his lesson and stops with the bullshit, and i hope that you continue thriving! 🥰💖
Bro is just boosting Frederic’s content at this point-💀💅
I met up with a few old friends one day, the topic of "political correctness" popped up, they were all like "I can't deal how everyone is so pc these days" and in my mind I was like "ohhhhkay here we go". So, we started talking, the topic of trans people came up, and I tried my dammmmm hardest to keep it civil and not get upset by the sheer ignorance. I could clearly see that they were influenced by some all right propaganda and it made me so sad. But anyway, I kept going, I talked about trans people and debated them, and after that I sent in our group chat a RUclips link with a playlist from a trans creator, that describes what being trans is, the issues they face etc. Bc they were sooooo uneducated goddam. I lost a little faith in humanity there, but as long as my talk and the video I sent helps them learn a little more, it was worth it.
Can you imagine being so swallowed by hate that you do this kind of stuff? Crazy. Stay strong!
This person is exhausting to just listen about, I can't imagine having this person trying to harass me like this. I'm sorry you are going through this.
SO sorry this is happening to you! Terrifying. There is this one dude who follows me around, tries to sit near me, and just stares at me from a distance. He's asked me out twice and I say no. I know how uncomfortable unwanted attention is, and hate that you had to go through this. I am hoping to have the opportunity to confront him soon (With s friend of course)
Omg im so sorry that must be horrible- hopefully you manage to sort things out!!! No one should be making u uncomfortable random stranger >:((( no but fr good luck with that person-
My guy has no idea wtf he's talking about and I'm so sorry you have to deal with him 😭 But you're spittin facts. Also you are literally so pretty 😭💖 I've never seen the lip style and it's so gorgeous
“Saving people’s lives” to balance the death threats and desire to unalive queers I guess.
Pls stay safe stalkers can be so dangerous ❤
I love your attitude in this video but please also be careful. There's people like him who have went to extreme measures over way less, so please make sure you're staying safe
I wasn't sure what to expect, but such a total, down to the core, completely annihilating burn of Javon was defenitely not expected and I just gotta say you killed it 💯🔥❤
Also a reminder, though I'm sure you don't really need one but compliments are nice to get~ You are so awesome, absolutely amazing, smart and beautiful. I really sincerely hope this doesn't get any worse, preferably after seeing this Javon finally takes a hike (or gets a job) so he can work on his insecurities in a healthy way instead of harassing you.
Thank you for sharing and just being a light that just is such a comfort to me and everyone who comes across your content❤
EDIT: NM I found it through the tik tok and we're reporting both! Let's go
Already reported his RUclips and multiple videos on there so here's to hoping it gets taken down & there's actually consequences for his hate, bigotry, & harassment
I truly will never understand people who make it their entire life to hate.
Bro the Jovon guy went 🤓☝️ 6:09
Some people out there having such insignificant lives they have to start harassing successful, brilliant people to feel noticed. That, or alternatively they just can’t cope with the fact they’ll be looking like they’re 50 when they’re 30 and Frederic probably gonna look like he’s 20 when he’s 40.
Stay safe Frederic!
the points you make in this video are so powerful. i like how you dont just call javeon out but you correct what he says and educate your audience!! great video as always!!
Unrelated, but is that Mary in your pfp? :D
@@comrade_lenin4820 yess it is i love her!!
OMG, I'm in love with your power, your centeredness, your confidence! Yes!!! You'll be fine. You'll be great, winning at life, in fact. (He'll be going crazy, death-spiraling until self-implosion) Love ya bestie!