2nd story: No matter how much OP pleads and tries for reconciliation, it’ll never undo that sort of betrayal the ex and her baby went through. They were kicked out because the ex was defending herself due to BEING ASSAULTED FIRST. HE didn’t even hesitate and kicked her and their newborn baby out of their home. Ex will never be able to unlive that. Hope she’s living her best life
If you needed space, why not go for a walk, sleep in separate beds, or put matters on hold until you were ready to discuss what had happened? Kicking your wife out of her own house after she responded to years of provocations from MIL was such a major fumble.
I was gonna say that. Asking for space doesn’t mean kicking out the LITERAL VICTIM of the violence that he claims triggered him. Oh, he’s triggered? Then he can manage it like a grown adult without compromising the emotional and physical safety of his wife. What a pathetic excuse of a man.
Yea like his partner had just been fucking ASSAULTED and she honestly had more to fuckin process at that time than he did who wasn't even there for the whole thing. She needed his comfort and attention as she processed shit in that moment but he was selfish and made it all about himself instead of his partner who was attacked.
It disgusts me how people like OP do nothing about abuse and expect the victim to just sit there and take it and only jump in when the victim reacts to the abuse. Then they only try to reconcile when it's convenient;
How does a normal personal take time to think things over? You go for a walk or you spend the night on the couch or in the guest bedroom. You do not kick out your spouse. That woman is doing right by herself with that divorce.
The husband story. He has proven that he handles difficult situations as well as a landmine. If i was his wife, i would be scared to leave my child with him, worried that if a chihuahua rushes towards him, he might throw the baby at it and run away,
Its funny how hes excuse is "the violence scares me" but have no problem kicking out the victim of the violence. The only think i would said is "your dad must be proud of you" bc OP is the same as his dad
He wanted her to leave so he could have some space.. Well she gave him what he ask for. The lesson from this story. " be careful what you wish for you might just get it"
Oh my God the fact that he kicked her out is a big no-no. You don’t kick your wife out unless she’s a threat to you or your baby, but she wasn’t a threat to you or your baby. She only defended herself against your mother big whoop. she punched your mom. She’ll get over it. She’ll heal but now you’ve lost a wife good job bro, two OP oh my goodness of the year award goes to not that guy
The part in the 2nd story that piss me of the most. Is that the husband keeps saying that he " can't handle violence," but it was only triggering to him was the wife punching the mother?? Even when the mom slap her belly so hard, everyone could hear it? And he even down played the slap when he first explained it. Absolute bastured He shows just how much he sides with mommy still!
I'm still mad at them for putting the niece on the spot in their stories. They didn't need to go on about her weight and eating habits like that. Felt like OP was almost trying to blame her being hungry for this all happening. Even if he wasn't what was the point of fatshaming her on the internet?
I feel like the people in the first story who had the audacity to message her how horrible she is for not going to the cops or CPS has never been in the system and it shows. Especially considering she mentioned that her younger brother has autism. It's like you're begging for her to put them both in a position where they're abused just separated so they don't even have each other. Assuming this is in America the system we have in place for these kind of things is absolutely trash and completely riddle with abuse and trafficking cases. Is this already let's do the trauma of being in the system one time why would she want to subjugate her brother to this s***. Y'all need to do more research before you go curse out a f****** 17 year old doing her best
He isn’t deserving of the chance to change in his wife’s eyes which is tragic since having a happy family is best, but can you blame her?To be honest if I was her I would have gave him a chance but I’m not her so I don’t really know
Actually nvm I read some more about what he said on Reddit and she 1000% should divorce him,he never really even took accountability or actually tried to think about how his wife felt at all
Yes to NC because emotional Incest is disgusting, but No to the therapy with the wife. She deserves better than this man. He just needs therapy for his trauma but he can do that alone.
Why is the niece catching strays? None of this was her fault, wtf OP? He really thinks he can scapegoat the fucking kid who's as much as victim of his mom, because if she wasn't hungry none of this would have happened? That shit was inevitable. His mom would have found one way or another to bully his mom. They don't need to shame and shittalk the kid, fuuuuck. If it was actual concern for the kid then they would be discussing it with her parents not talking shit about her behind her back on reddit. I hope the poor kid never finds the damn story.
Sorry but op lc/therapy can fix the overwhelming problems and mom needs it more than op at this point, and I can't try forgiveness without having done this 1st...
The second OP kicked his ex out was the moment she finally realized that she wasn’t raising two kids, but three. Mommy’s special boy wanted space? Oh he’s gonna get plenty while ex can live a better life away from him and far away from that garbage in of sh-t.
The fact that everyone is attacking the 2nd Story Op for having a *TRAUMA RESPONSE* is disgusting. Clearly that marriage needed to end, because OP's wife clearly doesn't understand how trauma works, and that after she learned about it, she should have encouraged her husband to get some freaking therapy.
2nd story: so, after a year of abuse, she defends herself and your response was to make your wife get out? Just like when a bully finally gets punched, and the principal admonishes the one that defended itself.
LMAO you don't just get to kick your wife and baby out of their own home because you "need space." What the hell was he thinking? He couldn't just lock himself in a room to cool down? Or walk out to get some fresh air for a few minutes?
2nd story: No matter how much OP pleads and tries for reconciliation, it’ll never undo that sort of betrayal the ex and her baby went through. They were kicked out because the ex was defending herself due to BEING ASSAULTED FIRST. HE didn’t even hesitate and kicked her and their newborn baby out of their home. Ex will never be able to unlive that. Hope she’s living her best life
Well now he can just go back to mommy for the rest of her life...cause that is all he is good for now.
If you needed space, why not go for a walk, sleep in separate beds, or put matters on hold until you were ready to discuss what had happened? Kicking your wife out of her own house after she responded to years of provocations from MIL was such a major fumble.
I was gonna say that. Asking for space doesn’t mean kicking out the LITERAL VICTIM of the violence that he claims triggered him. Oh, he’s triggered? Then he can manage it like a grown adult without compromising the emotional and physical safety of his wife. What a pathetic excuse of a man.
Yea like his partner had just been fucking ASSAULTED and she honestly had more to fuckin process at that time than he did who wasn't even there for the whole thing. She needed his comfort and attention as she processed shit in that moment but he was selfish and made it all about himself instead of his partner who was attacked.
Good on her getting away from this thoroughly untrustworthy excuse of a husband. She deserves far better.
It disgusts me how people like OP do nothing about abuse and expect the victim to just sit there and take it and only jump in when the victim reacts to the abuse. Then they only try to reconcile when it's convenient;
I just needed space?
Then you step out
You do not kick your postpartum wife out along with the baby
He's got the stock standard "anxiety" defence, though.
“I’m not covering for my mom”
*proceeds to cover for his mom in every possible way
2nd story. The wife's update was perfect.
Man, if it were me, David would be needing a mortician, not a doctor.
I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels that way
1st story. It smelled like drugs before the spoons in the bathroom.😢
"Eu tu, junkie?"
@@anonmouse15Another reason why Jenkem is based
How does a normal personal take time to think things over? You go for a walk or you spend the night on the couch or in the guest bedroom. You do not kick out your spouse. That woman is doing right by herself with that divorce.
I want the wife in story 2 to get an award for defending herself.
S1: Sounds like mom made a string of errors in her life. Mother of the year, there. /s
The husband story. He has proven that he handles difficult situations as well as a landmine. If i was his wife, i would be scared to leave my child with him, worried that if a chihuahua rushes towards him, he might throw the baby at it and run away,
If he has any kind of visitation it needs to be supervised at all times.
Story 2. Good for the wife. OP f’ed up big time
Tell you mom that letting her boyfriend abuse her son is as bad as her getting abused as a kid
Its funny how hes excuse is "the violence scares me" but have no problem kicking out the victim of the violence. The only think i would said is "your dad must be proud of you" bc OP is the same as his dad
2nd story dude is completely the AH.. he really put out a freshly abused woman who just had a baby because he was in his fee fees
He wanted her to leave so he could have some space.. Well she gave him what he ask for.
The lesson from this story.
" be careful what you wish for you might just get it"
Oh my God the fact that he kicked her out is a big no-no. You don’t kick your wife out unless she’s a threat to you or your baby, but she wasn’t a threat to you or your baby. She only defended herself against your mother big whoop. she punched your mom. She’ll get over it. She’ll heal but now you’ve lost a wife good job bro, two OP oh my goodness of the year award goes to not that guy
The part in the 2nd story that piss me of the most. Is that the husband keeps saying that he " can't handle violence," but it was only triggering to him was the wife punching the mother?? Even when the mom slap her belly so hard, everyone could hear it? And he even down played the slap when he first explained it. Absolute bastured
He shows just how much he sides with mommy still!
I'm still mad at them for putting the niece on the spot in their stories. They didn't need to go on about her weight and eating habits like that. Felt like OP was almost trying to blame her being hungry for this all happening. Even if he wasn't what was the point of fatshaming her on the internet?
Buddy, if you needed space, you needed to take a walk
I feel like the people in the first story who had the audacity to message her how horrible she is for not going to the cops or CPS has never been in the system and it shows. Especially considering she mentioned that her younger brother has autism. It's like you're begging for her to put them both in a position where they're abused just separated so they don't even have each other. Assuming this is in America the system we have in place for these kind of things is absolutely trash and completely riddle with abuse and trafficking cases. Is this already let's do the trauma of being in the system one time why would she want to subjugate her brother to this s***. Y'all need to do more research before you go curse out a f****** 17 year old doing her best
2nd story op needs to be in NC with his mother and go to therapy with his wife,.
He isn’t deserving of the chance to change in his wife’s eyes which is tragic since having a happy family is best, but can you blame her?To be honest if I was her I would have gave him a chance but I’m not her so I don’t really know
Actually nvm I read some more about what he said on Reddit and she 1000% should divorce him,he never really even took accountability or actually tried to think about how his wife felt at all
Yes to NC because emotional Incest is disgusting, but No to the therapy with the wife. She deserves better than this man. He just needs therapy for his trauma but he can do that alone.
His mother says "Jump", he says "How high?"
Wife has a side she said he left out some info
Lol op got karma 😂
2nd story - OP, YTA!! You would have received divorce papers from me too. You sir, are a major jerk.
It's terrifying how quick people are to call CPS.
Op in the second story is completely trash, he should forfeit custody and let his wife move on since he will never be a man.
Story 2 I get that you needed to process that but kicking your wife out after the way mom was treating her yeah homie ya dug ya own grave
Why is the niece catching strays? None of this was her fault, wtf OP? He really thinks he can scapegoat the fucking kid who's as much as victim of his mom, because if she wasn't hungry none of this would have happened? That shit was inevitable. His mom would have found one way or another to bully his mom. They don't need to shame and shittalk the kid, fuuuuck. If it was actual concern for the kid then they would be discussing it with her parents not talking shit about her behind her back on reddit. I hope the poor kid never finds the damn story.
Sorry but op lc/therapy can fix the overwhelming problems and mom needs it more than op at this point, and I can't try forgiveness without having done this 1st...
The second OP kicked his ex out was the moment she finally realized that she wasn’t raising two kids, but three. Mommy’s special boy wanted space? Oh he’s gonna get plenty while ex can live a better life away from him and far away from that garbage in of sh-t.
Why didn't the husband who felt he needed space take a walk after forcing everyone BUT his wife and baby out of the house????
The fact that everyone is attacking the 2nd Story Op for having a *TRAUMA RESPONSE* is disgusting.
Clearly that marriage needed to end, because OP's wife clearly doesn't understand how trauma works, and that after she learned about it, she should have encouraged her husband to get some freaking therapy.
2nd story: so, after a year of abuse, she defends herself and your response was to make your wife get out? Just like when a bully finally gets punched, and the principal admonishes the one that defended itself.
That sound like my mom ex husband.
LMAO you don't just get to kick your wife and baby out of their own home because you "need space." What the hell was he thinking? He couldn't just lock himself in a room to cool down? Or walk out to get some fresh air for a few minutes?
Story 2
If reddit comments were miles/km, OP would have been yeeted out of space
Hey Voice second story OP wife made a post her name is u/ThrowAwayWifeNBaby