Ifk Right! My sisters Aren't too far off THIS sister, & THAT is why whenever I see another woman displaying Certain characteristic behaviours, I leave them Be W a 20Ft Clearing.
It will never fail to piss me off when a sibling claims OP "stole" their crush or one true love when A. They never once mentioned or even hinted to having romantic feelings for said person and B. When the person the sibling claims to be "theirs" has made it very clear that they don't see the sibling that way ever
Story one: when op’s mother called op a wh”re… I’d asked her back… wouldn’t the same be said about my sister as she’s been sending inappropriate pics and texts to my bf??
She was probably not in a good headspace yet. She thought she was finally going to escape from all that drama at first, so she must have been desperate to stop thinking about it. I am glad the comments convinced her to help Jim.
People can wish to dodge drama as much as they want it doesn't change the fact that they know the truth about somebody doing something behind their significant others back and that truth needs to be told.
@@AnimeGamer501st it’s a fine line. I lost my best friend of 20 years because I exposed her boyfriend for cheating. He dumped her a year later but we still aren’t friends. He left her for the girl he cheated with
Story 2. Frenemy is absolutely trying to ensure you dont leave. Degrade him in public, ruin his ego and if needed, take his dirty secrets to his fav pub and mock him while he cant defend himself.
2nd OP makes bad decisions. She needs to ghost both the ex fiance and the bully. Why does the ex fiance think she would want to get back together after dumping her on their wedding day? And after doing that, why does he think he can have anytjing to say about her hooking up with any guy? And why the hell is she still hooking up with the bully? People infuriate me and this story has 3 AHs.
I'd tell Jane and mommy dearest "you know he rejected you right.? He is his own person with thoughts and feelings. You can't steal someone. He chose me. He confessed to me. He proposed to ME. The fact you guys seem to forget that shows how narcissistic and selfish you are." Then I'd walk away. I'd also tell everyone before parents tried to flip the script on Op.
Story 2: OP... LEAVE and seek THERAPY, please. This a wash n rinse cycle you've acknowledged you're in, but won't fix out of despiration to not be alone that both these males saw and preyed upon. Your intention to not be alone has instead made you more alone and isolated than you were before. They're predators. Do not continue to be their prey.
Story 1, NTA naw op's husband rejected the sister before he got into a relationship with op, that should be the end of it period, Everything that happened afterwards was just creeper behavior from the sister, like girl pls he wasn't "stolen" because it's like first of all he is human with his own thoughts and feelings, and second of all he told you to your face long before he met & dated op he was not interested in you, so you and him still would never be together even if he didn't ask out op stop being full of yourself, Seriously you are just a creep at this point, you are harassing him by messaging him, sending him nsfw photos of yourself to him when again he is not interested and in a relationship, and honestly op and him was being very nice just by sending to jim and her dad, because people would have went ham on the sister's behind to have that type of audacity.
What's funny to me is she confessed that she loved him and he said no twice! How does she and the mother feel op stole him? I never understand that when someone says that.
3rd story….. the wife should NOT have gone up there to confront her husband. I was cringing the whole time that the last update would be her friend saying he killed her. Like seriously…confronting your husband about cheating, somewhere that is remote and you have no service…. do you not have self preservation instincts? If any of you watching this end up in this type of situation, do NOT confront in person. do it over video or phone or text. Men have been known to kill their partner in these types of circumstances. and most of those women also thought “he would never”
It's so dumb to forbid your sister from dating your friend because "he's my friend," any time my friends get a boyfriend or girlfriend I'm fucking happy for them and wouldn't want to spoil it. If anything I'd be raking my friend over the coals to treat my sibling right lol. Red flags that the older sister was into OP's bf/husband from the beginning but wanted to have her cake and eat it too
2nd. Story. It doesn't matter he is sweet sometimes he's doing it cause you allow him to. If you break up and he says mean things. Just say, look I started sleeping with you cause I was bored and upset and still am, but you served your propose and I am done. Ok. Bye! As for your fiance just don't take him back.
Your sister does not love or even like you she thought he would use and abuse you went you started seeing him. Then when you got serious she showed you what she really feels for you. your mother and sister are toxic and your dad is is a follower to. Go no contact with all of them
Wait something doesn't add up in the second story. The fiancee must have made crap up to his friends if his friends we're telling her they'd leave her too for the things she's done.
story 2 - therapy there's some sorta self destruction hurting herself thing. I worry about her and she needs to cut off therelationship and seek help. Her ex- really ruined her. if he just broke off the wedding and talk to her. but now she's in a low key abuse cycle. story 3 - that woman who had no idea she was with a cheating man. I mean I've hit the point where when a man says he's separated NEver believe him and wait to see the papers. because it seems to be a lie.
Hey man. In story 2, loneliness kills. She can think she’s worth the moon, stars and the Sun but 0 affection kinda becomes the major problem. I believe I’m amazing and dope and hot af, but due to the pandemic all of my loved ones became too busy to talk with me. I would go weeks without talking to anyone and months without touching another human. I too eventually started scrounging for any scrap of love I could get. Even if it was fake and just for a few hours. I am fucking amazing but circumstances left me alone and isolated.
Story 2. What happened to her wasn't nice. But just went full moron, by sleeping with the stereotypical frat bro and then being with him? Wtf is she thinking?
1st story: girl needs a hard reject. Don't let her live her delusions, they're all thats keeping her barely sane. She married a guy for the money so that she could live off the fantasy that the man she actually wanted was in proximity. Bob should have told Jim immediately. I would have.
OP is very insecure. She was probably raised being told to take what she could get. I was told by some people growing up to never turn a guy down if he was interested in me. Fortunately for me, I never bought into it, but it sounds like OP did.
STORY 2 JAMY THE CLOSURE WHEN THE CLOSURE WHERE THE SUN DON'T SHINE YOU LEFT A WOMAN CRYING AT YOU WANT CLOSURE OP PLEASE TELL THAT MAN TO GET BENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
3rd story….. the wife should NOT have gone up there to confront her husband. I was cringing the whole time that the last update would be her friend saying he killed her. Like seriously…confronting your husband about cheating, somewhere that is remote and you have no service…. do you not have self preservation instincts? If any of you watching this end up in this type of situation, do NOT confront in person. do it over video or phone or text. Men have been known to kill their partner in these types of circumstances. and most of those women also thought “he would never”
With that kind of sisters why need archenemies?
*who*
Ifk Right! My sisters Aren't too far off THIS sister, & THAT is why whenever I see another woman displaying Certain characteristic behaviours, I leave them Be W a 20Ft Clearing.
It will never fail to piss me off when a sibling claims OP "stole" their crush or one true love when A. They never once mentioned or even hinted to having romantic feelings for said person and B. When the person the sibling claims to be "theirs" has made it very clear that they don't see the sibling that way ever
It's the delusion of some girls; esp. between competitive sisters. Nothing new. Why surprised? 😮😊
Story one: when op’s mother called op a wh”re… I’d asked her back… wouldn’t the same be said about my sister as she’s been sending inappropriate pics and texts to my bf??
If OP's mom called me a whore i'd have been really petty and said "You seem to know a lot about whores...i take it you speak from experience?"
*Golden **_"Sister"_** Made Her Own Bed, Now She Must Lie In It !!!*
Story 3. Girlfriend of 4 months, and he is paying for an appointment? Nah. That won't last long.
Not letting the husband warn "Jim" immediately was pretty scummy, but at least she changed course.
She was probably not in a good headspace yet. She thought she was finally going to escape from all that drama at first, so she must have been desperate to stop thinking about it. I am glad the comments convinced her to help Jim.
Probably wanted to dodge the drama.
People can wish to dodge drama as much as they want it doesn't change the fact that they know the truth about somebody doing something behind their significant others back and that truth needs to be told.
@@AnimeGamer501st it’s a fine line. I lost my best friend of 20 years because I exposed her boyfriend for cheating. He dumped her a year later but we still aren’t friends. He left her for the girl he cheated with
@@Emjay_blackdogranchthat wasn't your friend. A real friend would appreciate you for looking out, no matter how much it hurts.
Story 2. Frenemy is absolutely trying to ensure you dont leave. Degrade him in public, ruin his ego and if needed, take his dirty secrets to his fav pub and mock him while he cant defend himself.
“My mom even called me a wh*re for leaving to go to Bob’s place” but had no problem with Jane trying to homewreck your relationship?
2nd OP makes bad decisions. She needs to ghost both the ex fiance and the bully. Why does the ex fiance think she would want to get back together after dumping her on their wedding day? And after doing that, why does he think he can have anytjing to say about her hooking up with any guy? And why the hell is she still hooking up with the bully? People infuriate me and this story has 3 AHs.
I'd tell Jane and mommy dearest "you know he rejected you right.? He is his own person with thoughts and feelings. You can't steal someone. He chose me. He confessed to me. He proposed to ME. The fact you guys seem to forget that shows how narcissistic and selfish you are." Then I'd walk away.
I'd also tell everyone before parents tried to flip the script on Op.
Story 2: OP... LEAVE and seek THERAPY, please.
This a wash n rinse cycle you've acknowledged you're in, but won't fix out of despiration to not be alone that both these males saw and preyed upon.
Your intention to not be alone has instead made you more alone and isolated than you were before.
They're predators.
Do not continue to be their prey.
I literally can’t with the second OP 🤦🏽♀️
#3, gf was under the impression they were separated and divorcing... well, now it is the truth
Story 1, NTA naw op's husband rejected the sister before he got into a relationship with op, that should be the end of it period,
Everything that happened afterwards was just creeper behavior from the sister, like girl pls he wasn't "stolen" because it's like first of all he is human with his own thoughts and feelings,
and second of all he told you to your face long before he met & dated op he was not interested in you, so you and him still would never be together even if he didn't ask out op stop being full of yourself,
Seriously you are just a creep at this point, you are harassing him by messaging him, sending him nsfw photos of yourself to him when again he is not interested and in a relationship,
and honestly op and him was being very nice just by sending to jim and her dad, because people would have went ham on the sister's behind to have that type of audacity.
What's funny to me is she confessed that she loved him and he said no twice! How does she and the mother feel op stole him? I never understand that when someone says that.
Narcissists have some weird ass logic
And when op told her sister that she's dating with him she could have said "I don't know what to feel about it, I also loved him but he rejected me"
3rd story….. the wife should NOT have gone up there to confront her husband. I was cringing the whole time that the last update would be her friend saying he killed her. Like seriously…confronting your husband about cheating, somewhere that is remote and you have no service…. do you not have self preservation instincts? If any of you watching this end up in this type of situation, do NOT confront in person. do it over video or phone or text. Men have been known to kill their partner in these types of circumstances. and most of those women also thought “he would never”
It's so dumb to forbid your sister from dating your friend because "he's my friend," any time my friends get a boyfriend or girlfriend I'm fucking happy for them and wouldn't want to spoil it. If anything I'd be raking my friend over the coals to treat my sibling right lol. Red flags that the older sister was into OP's bf/husband from the beginning but wanted to have her cake and eat it too
Sounds like golden child sister wouldnt take no for an answer. People like the sister would take get lost as a come on . Op is NTA
Story 2. The mentality about sleeping with a random is understandable but that how you end up a single mom. Seen it a lot.
this is why i believe you gotta but a copper t or get a tubectomy if you want to get into hookup culture
2nd. Story. It doesn't matter he is sweet sometimes he's doing it cause you allow him to. If you break up and he says mean things. Just say, look I started sleeping with you cause I was bored and upset and still am, but you served your propose and I am done. Ok. Bye! As for your fiance just don't take him back.
I need another or two more updates of story 3
I think the sis always liked him, but he didn't reciprocate
Your sister does not love or even like you she thought he would use and abuse you went you started seeing him. Then when you got serious she showed you what she really feels for you. your mother and sister are toxic and your dad is is a follower to. Go no contact with all of them
Wait something doesn't add up in the second story. The fiancee must have made crap up to his friends if his friends we're telling her they'd leave her too for the things she's done.
So this is a case of wahhh! why can’t she just give me her man I want him! Girl bye
story 2 - therapy there's some sorta self destruction hurting herself thing. I worry about her and she needs to cut off therelationship and seek help. Her ex- really ruined her. if he just broke off the wedding and talk to her. but now she's in a low key abuse cycle.
story 3 - that woman who had no idea she was with a cheating man. I mean I've hit the point where when a man says he's separated NEver believe him and wait to see the papers. because it seems to be a lie.
Lmao now you know how men feel
Isn't the second OP in love with her bully? The embarassing denial that's coming from her at her age is so funny~
Hey man. In story 2, loneliness kills. She can think she’s worth the moon, stars and the Sun but 0 affection kinda becomes the major problem. I believe I’m amazing and dope and hot af, but due to the pandemic all of my loved ones became too busy to talk with me. I would go weeks without talking to anyone and months without touching another human. I too eventually started scrounging for any scrap of love I could get. Even if it was fake and just for a few hours. I am fucking amazing but circumstances left me alone and isolated.
OP #2 has the most mixed feelings about her frenemy I’ve ever heard lmao
You need to leave that town
2nd story: No good person is mean.
Story 2. What happened to her wasn't nice. But just went full moron, by sleeping with the stereotypical frat bro and then being with him? Wtf is she thinking?
1st story: girl needs a hard reject. Don't let her live her delusions, they're all thats keeping her barely sane. She married a guy for the money so that she could live off the fantasy that the man she actually wanted was in proximity. Bob should have told Jim immediately. I would have.
He literally rejected her and told her no. It doesn’t get harder than tbat
Story 2: Why does she keep in contact with her bully?
Women don't operate on logic, just pure emotion.
She wanted them
OP is very insecure. She was probably raised being told to take what she could get. I was told by some people growing up to never turn a guy down if he was interested in me. Fortunately for me, I never bought into it, but it sounds like OP did.
story 1: NTA
STORY 2 JAMY THE CLOSURE WHEN THE CLOSURE WHERE THE SUN DON'T SHINE YOU LEFT A WOMAN CRYING AT YOU WANT CLOSURE OP PLEASE TELL THAT MAN TO
GET BENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why put multiple stories on one post?!
Story 1 Speed read much? Sheesh...
how fake do u want it to be ?
3rd story….. the wife should NOT have gone up there to confront her husband. I was cringing the whole time that the last update would be her friend saying he killed her. Like seriously…confronting your husband about cheating, somewhere that is remote and you have no service…. do you not have self preservation instincts? If any of you watching this end up in this type of situation, do NOT confront in person. do it over video or phone or text. Men have been known to kill their partner in these types of circumstances. and most of those women also thought “he would never”