Story 2: I think I've heard this story before, the reason why they emotionally shunned OP at 13 is because the mother suddenly got scared that puberty would make OP dangerous to her daughters and they did it to "protect the girls". Of course OP was never inappropriate with his sisters.
I'm pretty sure that's a different story. In that one the adopted brother wasn't cast into the basement and the sisters never treated him badly. It was the parents that just ignored him. So he left around 19, and it was a few years later when everything came out and the parents admitted their horrible treatment. Similar, but I think they're different.
Why should he go to their wedding, the two people who betrayed him and the parents who hid it, not to mention none of them bothered turning up to OP's wedding that he was so generous to invite them in the first place despite what those four did to him.
if I was op, I'd see it this way, they want me there? I'll go. But they better not give me the microphone for the best man's speech because I'd tell everyone what happened. just make sure you save the messages when they ask me to be there, just in case they later change their minds and say I crashed the wedding with no invitation. Edit: should have heard the comments before posting. seems like I'm not the only petty one
Because story one is an r/AITA post, and the family doing that or something similar is quite literally a space on the "fake AITA posts for updoots" bingo card.
story 1: of course someone would laugh at that the brother and ex betrayed him and the family covered it up "wanting her sons to get along" is an impossibility after such a backstab. Story 2: OP's sister "never realized how bad he was treated" who the hell does she think she's fooling he was never at dinner and shoved into the basement like an unwelcomed guest never any gifts given to him on special occasions either like it couldn't have been more obvious he was neglected.
Story 1, the favoritism is blatant. Now it's op's turn to play favorites. In this case picking the family he's making with his wife over his birth family. I believe he chose wisely.
I REALLY dont get why the family started harrassing first OP and his wife after everyone learned mom lied. OP kept his distance and his "Family" should have done the same.
I like the only thing the wife is upset is OP downplay her reaction in this case, but he did it with good intentions too. Honestly i would react like his wife to the ridiculous propose and the audacity of his family as well. Kudos for the wife to laugh at that situation and letting them know how she think of them.
2nd story: Willing to bet the golden child is lying to save the family. DM the family with the posts and let them all sort this out. OP is a threat to the golden child. Him leaving is going to push the parents into pushing the much older birds out of the nest.
I never understood why so many people get so uptight about a wedding. If you can and want to, go, if not, that's fine. Same thing if you make the invites. Not worth getting all bent out of shape over.
I mean hopefully its a once in a lifetime experience, you'd be extremely hopeful your favorite people would be able to go even if its a bit of a sacrifice, with that being said, if they really can't make it, then yeh just accept it and move on essentially
@@mannyparrilla1807 I get it but at least for my wedding 20 years ago, about 50 people showed up. There is no way I could have talked with everyone for enough time to make it worth their time of traveling 300 miles or more for some.
It's a massive milestone for some people. Hell, some people's entire mission in life is to get married and start a family. Imagine being one of those people and your parents and brother straight up ghost you when you try and invite them to your wedding.
One plausable reason might be the person really doesn't have anything deep or more significant than the relations they have in their lives so they will be bent out of shape for superficial reasons like someone even somewhat important being a no show. They might struggle to move on becuase the superficial has at some point become all or most of what their lives revolve around and they'll choose to stick with what's comfortable and not make any effort in learning alternatives that require deeper understanding. Or they're just old and stupid idk.
Are you dyslexic??? so many stories where you say like 8 different names for one person and then a lot more where words just don't make sense.. This is not a jab I'm just curious as to why the mistakes when its a video?
Somebody suggested he was simply using chat gpt to produce videos and none of these videos are based on real accounts. Seems plausible as other channels usually post the link to the original post but I haven't seen any links in the description. Since chat gpt is not perfect it often makes mistakes involving perspective.
@@ddw34 It's not the stories that are AI generated, but rather the voice being an AI, and the fact that whenever some of these not so great reddit channels get ahold of the stories they tend to modify them even further which in turn makes the originals harder to find
Story 2: I believe I've heard this tale before; the mother suddenly became afraid that OP would become dangerous to her children throughout adolescence, so they emotionally distanced themselves from him in an effort to "protect the girls." Naturally, OP never behaved inappropriately with his sisters.
Story 1) I've heard a few stories like this before, and my opinion still has not changed. NTA. It's _literally _*_physically impossible_* to prevent yourself from laughing at something that suddenly comes up and catches you off guard 😅
story 1 is interesting in that the mom wants her sons to get along but apparently thinks that missing the wedding of one of them on the whims of the other is not taking sides or something. i mean, once you do that you have clearly choose, and you already had a poor relationship with the other one, what did she expect exactly? either she is stupid, or thinks her son is, which is worse
Barley (Hordeum vulgare), a member of the grass family, is a major cereal grain grown in temperate climates globally. It was one of the first cultivated grains, particularly in Eurasia as early as 10,000 years ago.[2] Globally 70% of barley production is used as animal fodder,[3] while 30% as a source of fermentable material for beer and certain distilled beverages, and as a component of various foods. It is used in soups and stews, and in barley bread of various cultures. Barley grains are commonly made into malt in a traditional and ancient method of preparation.
I’d have done more than just laugh.. her crying over you laughing when unless she’s delusional she should already have known how wrong even asking that of you was so hey you took it better than most people would do, don’t know what your mum expected.. celebrations and an instant yes?😂🤷🏻♀️
Story 1: OP's "family" basically consists of pure sociopaths. He made the best decision to cut his trash family out of his life. His mother shouldn't call herself a mother, the blatant favoritism is so obvious and she had the audacity to lie to his face about becoming the brother's best man. Even if that was true, why should OP be the best man of two backstabbing snakes? His whole family is just crazy. 😂
Right so let’s get straight to the point, what ever you say about you being the ahole, yes you are but for the right reasons! You decided to stick up for yourself and get loads of crap for it, now you know the truth about what has happened etc, so use everything that they have said and/or done to you and become even better, stronger and live your life to the fullest without all the bs! This is also for every single person going through some kind of bs, Also proud of you for standing up for yourself
Story 2: recommend that you keep an open mind, never listen to the first perspective and believe it to be the truth, there are different sides to a story to be told, finding the truth in them is up to you
Yes but the part in the second story where lots of people suddenly started claiming the story is fake sounds like a desperate tactic of the family to save face after the story became well-known.
Story 2 is fake. I've heard it at least 5 times by now and every version is just slightly different than the other. Last one I listened to OOP was 2 years old when his parents died in the car accident and the family that adopted him was friends with his bio parents.
"And I realized that if my wife were ever in an argument with someone, even if she was wrong, I'd always have her back" this isn't romantic, it's unhealthy and enabling bad behavior and just tells me that he is scared of confrontation and the relationship is doomed to fall or become superficial when the wife realizes her husband is just scared of speaking against her and is a total pushover
Though you're right in saying that backing someone up when they are wrong is bad behavior, what the OP said isn't necessarily what you think they're saying. "I'd always have her back" can just as well mean he will be there to support her despite her being wrong, which is objectively the correct thing to do for your spouse.
@@ImHomiesexual If you think supporting your spouse and excusing her when she displays undesirable behavior are the same thing, I feel sorry for your partner. "You're wrong. But it's okay for you to be wrong, because I still love you." is having their back.
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Story 2: I think I've heard this story before, the reason why they emotionally shunned OP at 13 is because the mother suddenly got scared that puberty would make OP dangerous to her daughters and they did it to "protect the girls". Of course OP was never inappropriate with his sisters.
I fucking hate parents like that. You raised him, if you really think he's capable of that, that's on your parenting! The worst kind of people.
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I'm pretty sure that's a different story. In that one the adopted brother wasn't cast into the basement and the sisters never treated him badly. It was the parents that just ignored him. So he left around 19, and it was a few years later when everything came out and the parents admitted their horrible treatment. Similar, but I think they're different.
@@darthmadeus Ah maybe, I did say I _thought_ I heard this story before.
@@thenerdbeast7375 I know, but I hope I didn't come across as a know-it-all. Too many a-holes on the internet
Laughing at absurdity isn't childish. It's a natural reaction to a heap of bullshit.
Why should he go to their wedding, the two people who betrayed him and the parents who hid it, not to mention none of them bothered turning up to OP's wedding that he was so generous to invite them in the first place despite what those four did to him.
if I was op, I'd see it this way, they want me there? I'll go. But they better not give me the microphone for the best man's speech because I'd tell everyone what happened. just make sure you save the messages when they ask me to be there, just in case they later change their minds and say I crashed the wedding with no invitation.
Edit: should have heard the comments before posting. seems like I'm not the only petty one
Because story one is an r/AITA post, and the family doing that or something similar is quite literally a space on the "fake AITA posts for updoots" bingo card.
story 1: of course someone would laugh at that the brother and ex betrayed him and the family covered it up "wanting her sons to get along" is an impossibility after such a backstab.
Story 2: OP's sister "never realized how bad he was treated" who the hell does she think she's fooling he was never at dinner and shoved into the basement like an unwelcomed guest never any gifts given to him on special occasions either like it couldn't have been more obvious he was neglected.
Story 1, the favoritism is blatant. Now it's op's turn to play favorites. In this case picking the family he's making with his wife over his birth family. I believe he chose wisely.
The kid in the second story got a bad start in life with his adopted family but the whole thing is complete nonsense.
Complete nonsense?
Really? I thought story one filled more spaces on the "fake story for updoots" bingo card.
I REALLY dont get why the family started harrassing first OP and his wife after everyone learned mom lied. OP kept his distance and his "Family" should have done the same.
I like the only thing the wife is upset is OP downplay her reaction in this case, but he did it with good intentions too. Honestly i would react like his wife to the ridiculous propose and the audacity of his family as well. Kudos for the wife to laugh at that situation and letting them know how she think of them.
That's what he gets for trusting Maria, but it could have been much worse if Alicia hadn't tipped her hand
2nd story: Willing to bet the golden child is lying to save the family. DM the family with the posts and let them all sort this out.
OP is a threat to the golden child. Him leaving is going to push the parents into pushing the much older birds out of the nest.
Honestly why does he actually believe the sister about his other sister when she has literally been manipulating everyone???
Story 2: why the hell would your "parents" adopt a boy who they supposedly always wanted then immediately treat you like sh1t.
Because some people can't even bother to make their fake stories reasonable.
@passingrando6457 it's happen before I saw it happen with my cousin he became a criminal no surprise there
I never understood why so many people get so uptight about a wedding. If you can and want to, go, if not, that's fine. Same thing if you make the invites. Not worth getting all bent out of shape over.
I mean hopefully its a once in a lifetime experience, you'd be extremely hopeful your favorite people would be able to go even if its a bit of a sacrifice, with that being said, if they really can't make it, then yeh just accept it and move on essentially
@@mannyparrilla1807 I get it but at least for my wedding 20 years ago, about 50 people showed up. There is no way I could have talked with everyone for enough time to make it worth their time of traveling 300 miles or more for some.
It's a massive milestone for some people. Hell, some people's entire mission in life is to get married and start a family. Imagine being one of those people and your parents and brother straight up ghost you when you try and invite them to your wedding.
One plausable reason might be the person really doesn't have anything deep or more significant than the relations they have in their lives so they will be bent out of shape for superficial reasons like someone even somewhat important being a no show.
They might struggle to move on becuase the superficial has at some point become all or most of what their lives revolve around and they'll choose to stick with what's comfortable and not make any effort in learning alternatives that require deeper understanding.
Or they're just old and stupid idk.
because weddings are the ultimate exercise of narcissism in our culture.
Story 2: holy shit that is scary, the downright manipulation of Maria...
I'm not saying its honorable but this is why we have hitmen.
Kinda get blindsided between stories, had to replay a couple of times to make sure i didn't get confused.
story 1 and 2 are both equally painfull to listen to
Sometimes it really pisses me off that people get more support and help from strangers on fucking reddit then from anyone in their own lives.
Are you dyslexic??? so many stories where you say like 8 different names for one person and then a lot more where words just don't make sense.. This is not a jab I'm just curious as to why the mistakes when its a video?
I wish they stopped doing that it’s confusing I think he does it as a joke but it’s just making the story inconsistent
Somebody suggested he was simply using chat gpt to produce videos and none of these videos are based on real accounts. Seems plausible as other channels usually post the link to the original post but I haven't seen any links in the description. Since chat gpt is not perfect it often makes mistakes involving perspective.
@@ddw34 It's not the stories that are AI generated, but rather the voice being an AI, and the fact that whenever some of these not so great reddit channels get ahold of the stories they tend to modify them even further which in turn makes the originals harder to find
They use AI to read the posts
Story 2: I believe I've heard this tale before; the mother suddenly became afraid that OP would become dangerous to her children throughout adolescence, so they emotionally distanced themselves from him in an effort to "protect the girls." Naturally, OP never behaved inappropriately with his sisters.
Last story. I would publish their names, address and pictures.
You realize that's a felony, right?
Very illegal
Story 1 OP needs to learn how to block a number on his phone.
Story 1) I've heard a few stories like this before, and my opinion still has not changed. NTA.
It's _literally _*_physically impossible_* to prevent yourself from laughing at something that suddenly comes up and catches you off guard 😅
Story 1, I would have gone to the wedding and made sure it was ruined for everybody. Sometimes it's good to be the asshole.
Story 1 Archive the messages then send it to their employers maybe nothing happens maybe their lives implode either way
story 1 is interesting in that the mom wants her sons to get along but apparently thinks that missing the wedding of one of them on the whims of the other is not taking sides or something. i mean, once you do that you have clearly choose, and you already had a poor relationship with the other one, what did she expect exactly? either she is stupid, or thinks her son is, which is worse
Proof read the Ai. Story barley makes sense.
Barley (Hordeum vulgare), a member of the grass family, is a major cereal grain grown in temperate climates globally. It was one of the first cultivated grains, particularly in Eurasia as early as 10,000 years ago.[2] Globally 70% of barley production is used as animal fodder,[3] while 30% as a source of fermentable material for beer and certain distilled beverages, and as a component of various foods. It is used in soups and stews, and in barley bread of various cultures. Barley grains are commonly made into malt in a traditional and ancient method of preparation.
ah the irony of you saying proof read.
@@Only1199honestly😂
I’d have done more than just laugh.. her crying over you laughing when unless she’s delusional she should already have known how wrong even asking that of you was so hey you took it better than most people would do, don’t know what your mum expected.. celebrations and an instant yes?😂🤷🏻♀️
Story 1: OP's "family" basically consists of pure sociopaths. He made the best decision to cut his trash family out of his life. His mother shouldn't call herself a mother, the blatant favoritism is so obvious and she had the audacity to lie to his face about becoming the brother's best man. Even if that was true, why should OP be the best man of two backstabbing snakes? His whole family is just crazy. 😂
Story 2: you got a good friend
Right so let’s get straight to the point, what ever you say about you being the ahole, yes you are but for the right reasons! You decided to stick up for yourself and get loads of crap for it, now you know the truth about what has happened etc, so use everything that they have said and/or done to you and become even better, stronger and live your life to the fullest without all the bs! This is also for every single person going through some kind of bs, Also proud of you for standing up for yourself
Story 2 sounds like child neglect basically abuse
Story 2: recommend that you keep an open mind, never listen to the first perspective and believe it to be the truth, there are different sides to a story to be told, finding the truth in them is up to you
I am 39 year old but my mom allways turn my age and say that i am 93 year old 😂 hope it your day happy
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I called it with Maria in story 2.
Fake ass story, the kid didnt have his own sisters phone number?
I have 2 sisters, I don't have their phone numbers! Some siblings are not worth knowing.
Story 2:Why would you adopt if you don't want the child,just why?
not going to lie in story 2 op was kinda a dumbass all the coments and friend had warned op not to trust the middle sister but oh well
I remember story 1, love that story
I know grammar online can be rough, but why is every videos grammar so bad?
AI 'voiceacting'.
Finally found it
Id just respond with foh yall
Swear these stories need verification
Yes but the part in the second story where lots of people suddenly started claiming the story is fake sounds like a desperate tactic of the family to save face after the story became well-known.
Bruh
FIRST
Story 2 is fake. I've heard it at least 5 times by now and every version is just slightly different than the other. Last one I listened to OOP was 2 years old when his parents died in the car accident and the family that adopted him was friends with his bio parents.
Please don't go back. Find ur own way in the world.
"And I realized that if my wife were ever in an argument with someone, even if she was wrong, I'd always have her back" this isn't romantic, it's unhealthy and enabling bad behavior and just tells me that he is scared of confrontation and the relationship is doomed to fall or become superficial when the wife realizes her husband is just scared of speaking against her and is a total pushover
Though you're right in saying that backing someone up when they are wrong is bad behavior, what the OP said isn't necessarily what you think they're saying. "I'd always have her back" can just as well mean he will be there to support her despite her being wrong, which is objectively the correct thing to do for your spouse.
@@CaptainDCap It's still the same, he's excusing her
@@ImHomiesexual If you think supporting your spouse and excusing her when she displays undesirable behavior are the same thing, I feel sorry for your partner.
"You're wrong. But it's okay for you to be wrong, because I still love you." is having their back.
Sorry, but please don't be delusional. U r only seeing what u want to see.
U need to focus on just getting out.