4 Money Beliefs That Limit Your Wealth Inside and Out w/ Kate Northrup
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- Опубликовано: 20 янв 2014
- Know your worth to get over your money anxieties and start living abundantly. In this video, you'll learn from Kate Northrup the four money beliefs that keep you broke, and what you can do to change them.
Belief #1: Someone else should/will do this for me. This belief gives another person your power. Instead, know your worth and believe that you're capable of solving your own financial problems, like getting out of debt.
Belief #2: I'm not good with money. This belief only holds you back. We've all learned the skills we have, and being "good" with money is one of them. Know your worth and understand that your beliefs become your actions, and your actions become your life. Pay attention to your money and you'll start to build a better relationship with it.
Belief #3: People with money are greedy OR it's not spiritual to have money. When we have a negative judgment against others, our subconscious will never allow us to have that abundance we're judging because we believe it's negative. Know your worth and your worthiness to have abundance, and understand that money is just a tool to trade value for value.
Belief #4: I'm not ____ enough. This thought takes you out of the game. No one will value you more than you value yourself -- know your worth and begin to put your attention on what you value about yourself and the ways you bring value to the world. Write down three of these things before bed each night so that you begin to grow that muscle.
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“If you free yourself financially, you can be fully present to your purpose on the planet”! 🙌🏼 precisely!
What is holding me back is. the belief that I am not smart enough to take care of my money issues
Money beliefs that have been holding me back: "Money is scarce." "That's expensive."
When I spend money, I will start to look at it as a transaction of value. I am giving money in order to receive something that I value. I will remind myself every day that I am valuable and abundant. I attract money into my life because I add an abundance of value to the world and the people around me!
Thank you for sharing this knowledge and encouragement!
"No one will value you more, than you value yourself." Powerful quote. Great information Marie and Kate. Thanks.
It is a powerful quote, however, it is not correct. Fortunately, there are people who see value in others and their contributions. And there CAN be people who value someone more than they value themselves. And I'm sure if you think about it, you've heard or whitnessed those stories, too. Yes, there might not be man of them. And most of the time its our close friends and relatives. But even "out in the world" there can be strangers, who value what you have to offer. It's just that you shouldn't rely on these few people to show up. But in my opinion, it's not good to cement the believe that those people can't or won't exist at all. When you meet one of these, be open and grateful.
Just sounds like a load of crap to me.
It's not their original quote either
I love this!!!! I'm going to 1. start checking my bank account balance every day and practice gratitude for three things of value in my life, and 2. think of myself as having worth and adding value to others' lives.
“I will become more prosperous to the degree that I add value to someone's life.”
Right! Living is giving
The bad money belief is this: If you are a good person, money will just come to you and you don't actually have to be responsible about it or pursue it in any way. The change I could make: Stop believing that because it's obviously not true because there are so many good, beautiful, wonderful people who don't have money.
What kind of person are you, if you don't take any responsibility. Does not sound like a good person... but what is good ;)?
N1mro8 There are many kind people who do a lot for others that are struggling financially. And many mean, selfish people that are wealthy. Money doesn’t make you a better person.
@@fayepatrice1672 I was not talking about money at all ;).
Not taking responsibility about trying to make more money is not about money?
@@fayepatrice1672 Not taking responsibility in any sense, not only money.
Wow..."3 things you value yourself and 3 things you add value to somebody that day"...write them in your journal...that is such a revelation. i started writing Daily Journal because of my Dad's passing last months when he wrote on 12/17/2015 in his journal "i thank my son (me) whom took me to happy birthday breakfast this morning". i wrote only about whatz up what's happenning but never about others or people i add value to...
My negative money belief is that I don't think I have enough money to grow a successful business. The way I've been tackling it is writing a list of every single thing I can do to improve my money with the finances that I do have. Thanks for this video, it gave me a new perspective!
Something that's been holding me back is the belief that money is hard to get and there isn't much of it. Thanks to these videos I'm opening up my mind and realizing money is only as hard to get as I make it. I'm reminding myself that it actually ISNT hard to get and there is PLENTY to go around. Thanks guys!
And I loved how Kate talked about spending $ on workshops. Buying "spiritual" growth products is basically the same as buying designer clothes, just camouflaging it
My re-occurring thought is- "There's not enough. I don't have enough. It's going to run out, its not going to last."
Steph Gallo ask yourself, how much would be enough? then work on it. eveything is transient - the bad thoughts as well. good luck ;)
Thank you!
yeah, those are the thoughts to let go of...let just pass through your mind and then counter with the complete opposite thoughts until the opposite thoughts are the ones that pop up more in your mind. If you worry about those things and think those thoughts, you can only continually attract the same things you think. Hope in the past 10 mos. you've found a way to think different and attract differently. If not, employ the method above immediately and change your life. Lack is a lie. the energy of life is abundance until we are born into a life where people have poverty mentality and/or we have a poverty mentality. We can have an abundant mentality and find that things flow into our life that have less to do with money and more to do with 'having everything we need and want in abundance'.
Me!! This and the fear/belief that I can't make money
I'm going to watch this every morning this week. So many truths and golden nuggets.
First time watching, tremendous personality and voice Marie ✨💋🌹✨
07:25mins onwards
1) having the mentality that someone will save you financially... 😒
2) "I'm not good with money" 08:40
Solution: check ur balance, pay attention, make a budget, give gratitude.
3) I'm not _____ enough 😑
You are more than enough
Solution: journal 📓3 things you value about urself and how u added value in someone's life that particular day 💥
OH MY GOSH, THIS VIDEO COMPLETELY SPOKE LIFE RIGHT INTO ME!!!!! It is literally one of those videos where my eyes and ears completely perked up, even though I do not share the same money beliefs discussed on this video, what Kate Northrup was saying was COMPLETLEY what I needed to hear today, so thank you for creating this video and interviewing her!!!!
If we're not seeing our worth, we're not going to get the value and exchange for that- very true quote.
Lillie Thomas II 😍😍😍😍😍😍💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
My belief is always "its not enough!" "This amount won't cover everything I want"
It's time to change this. I thank every cent that comes my way because it ALL adds up!
we don't turn on our full potential because we think someone else will take care of it...good stuff.
I always have this fear deep inside of me when it comes to looking at my bank account or looking at the amount of debt I owe due to school. When I look at my bank account I right away compare it to the amount of debt I owe crumbling inside I start to think 'I will never get through this debt' or 'I need more money to even make a dent in my debt and still be happy doing things I love to do in life'. This video has changed the way I think and I have made my first financial budget planning out how I can control my debt and still be who I am and do what I love!!! Thank you for your guidance and amazing conversations!!!!!!
I have been working on changing this thing I say all the time... "I'm not a lucky person." Though I have always held that I make my own luck... Just saying out loud that I'm not a lucky person seems to be a terrible thing that stands in my way. I feel this is part of the "Not being enough" concept that I do know plagues me. So there it is I AM A LUCKY PERSON, because I am enough, I am smart enough, I am strong enough,I am committed enough, and I really deserve good things... AND I DO make my own LUCK!!
Thanks for telling the truth lady.
"Seeing money as a means of value exchange" is a sentence that stuck with me. Good talk.
Thats what it is baby.
@@danishsiddiq941 True!
Greetings Marie, just discovered your channel 18 minute ago, heartfelt topic that needed to be spoken about. This discussion definitely pierced through some stone-wall ideals I've somehow carried with me without awareness. The disguised for me was that those I'v deemed as financial stable had someone to help them along the way! My resolve to the matter is, I desire a better story then suffering without a cause. We all go through challenges BECAUSE we are advancing to a better version of ourselves. You BOTH have been enlightening the process. Thanks
hiding my "financial chaos" resonates 11:37 changed my life years ago. I've seriously drastically changed the way I look at money and I just bought a house with a 794 credit score. Thanks!
What a fantastic video!
One belief that's holding me back, "One can't make a living doing what one likes to do, unless you're extremely lucky"
I could try (& look into it)
Jake I have a free test you can take if you'd like it will give you a glimpse into some of your top money blocks. Let me know ifyou want me to send it to you.
My limiting money belief is that someone else has to qualify you (or you have to have another degree etc) before you can ask for more money or increase your abundance. I think Kate's last tip about recording how you add value will be an awesome way to smash that belief on its ass!
speaking of loving yourself....I have a great story. My nephew asked his 6 year old son why he is so happy ALL the time. His response: "Because I love myself"
At 6 years old, he's got it figured out already!
Betty Sheppard It is great how kids offer more wisdom than what we give them credit for, thanks for sharing this, you made me smile (:
This is gold! That little boy has a lot to teach us all.
- Jillian, Team Forleo
Checking my bank balance daily and taking responsibility were 2 great tips. I have handed over my money power, but it is not a safe place to be as I once thought. Thanks guys, will start the diary
I just went through my debts and totalled them up, also my monthly expenses.
One of my negative feelings about having money is my dad was stressed and sick all the time because of his business, and ended up retiring early.
I love the idea of writing down 3 things I value in myself and I can't remember the other part.
The money belief I had that was holding me back, was to think that working in something other than my passion was a detriment to my freedom. And then I realised that only working in my passion didn’t give me any freedom, because I had no money to enjoy my life and being free... For many of us, make money from our talents take many years, and now I’m finally manifesting that abundance, but also I had to get a normal job a few days a week. I feel happy to receive money from multiple areas!! I had to change the perception freedom/work to be able to start receiving money and abundance to my life... It was such an amazing shift!!
You posted this 9 years ago and it’s the message and actionable items I needed today in 2023. Thank you Marie and Kate!
So glad you enjoyed it Erin! :) May this start and continue a journey of financial abundance. 💗 - Monauar, Team Forleo
I love how these are small & doable tasks that can really make a huge difference other than BIG tasks that can feel way too overwhelming to start off with.
"Wanting money is a shame. Wanting money is shallow." That's been holding me back. Thank you for your videos. I'm learning to building a good relationship with money. And learning to respect money.
Love this channel Marie!
Patricia Bright xifzz
Love you both. Thank you for these points. I know my ‘mantra’ is I need ($20,000) to do what I need to do to become successful. Whatever amount of money I determine I NEED to have to (1) become successful, (2) start the road to success (3) extract myself from an abusive environment is ALWAYS 100x more than I have...
If I BELIEVE the universe will support me in my steps toward my goals, that could be the action I could take... Move forward (somehow) as if ..
Before listening, I wasn't sure I had any of these counter-productive beliefs but I do. I identified with several of them. Great tips. Thank you! Already shared with BFFs.
My holding back belief is that if I charge for all of the time that I'm putting in, the customer will leave because they are spending too much money, so I don't charge for all of my time.
Ive done that as well!
My negative belief is that pursuing more money will take away the little bit of peace I have managed to find exactly where I am. More money means more stress, more responsibility, less family time and less happiness at this point in time. I am dealing with it by thinking of the ways that money will add to my life and recognizing that I will still have free time when I am earning more.
I'd been avoiding checking my business account....I watched this and checked it....extra unexpected money had gone in....now I check it every day thanks!
This is so amazing not just on the money side of it but in valuing and empowering yourself to think better. Next semester I am eligible for internships but I keep looking at companies and think I am not good enough to apply or they'll shoot me down. This has been another big eye opener for me! Thanks again Marie!
I truly loved watching your video Marie with your guest Kate.I am quite good at earning money but poor in saving.From today I am going to change this belief and start making affirmations that I am a saver.I will start looking at my bank account everyday ,to spend less than I save.Thank you so much Marie.Lots of love and prayers. (Remy from Mumbai India)
I think this is my absolute fave MarieTV video! I'm pretty sure what's holding me back from fulfilling my best potential is the fact that I'm afraid of not having money and thinking I'm not good with money at the same time. Money is always a topic I swerve around or try to think about indirectly. I've never been in a place of financial freedom (mentally or otherwise) so a constant fear and apprehension lurks around.
I have had 2 beliefs: Who's got the money is the one to blame and the other one is that I was scared of money: what to do about it- keep shining and offering the value to my people!!
Watching videos like these have made me aware of where I have come up with my beliefs and how to banish them.
I've made strides in this past year and everything you have discussed here is changing EVERYTHING in my life for the better. I am well on my way to MORE success. I am healthier which is on the top of my list of abundance. My relationships are getting fine tuned in a better way. I am already a business woman and the wealth and good business decisions are rising......the sky is the limit :)
I love your videos....thanx for such wonderful tools and insight....I am truly grateful :)
A belief that keep holding me back is "you're going to have a huge unhappiness feeling and mental pressure when you have a lot of money" coz I saw many ppl around me was unhappy even when they have a load of money. And I'm trying to relearn about living in abundance including watching this. Coz actually I have a lot to feel abundance for, but lately, i seems forget about it. And I really think that I'm not living my life and not being myself because I was trapped with my financial situation right now. Thanks for this topic that you brought up, this really help me to understand better of respecting the value of myself
Thank you. Profoundly grateful for this episode. One money belief holding me back is my past. I am from a small town of poverty, welfare, and breeding like wild fire. Although I haven't lived there for almost 18 years and have found my purpose I am still holding myself back from earning income. Logically I know that I am not my past, I have cut chords in meditations, yet still when it comes to connecting to receiving money I my throat chakra swells and feel like I'm swallowing a rock. You are giving me tools to begin healing a painful money past and began living in the value of my potential and values. Just by watching you two do it!
This was AWESOME!
Be real and truthful and learn to be better with money, wow! love this!
I love this; every time I pay attention to finances regularly, my income increases. But I thought that I have to look at my full balance sheet and it is a bit overwhelming. But looking in my checking and savings accounts as well as my credit card, it's so much easier to do, and I will set a daily alarm to do so. A huge thank you!! xoxo
1: That I am not good, skilled, or at the same level as the people that make enough money ("enough") according to my own standards. Like money was somehow out of my reach. But this value exchange just shifted my perspective. I feel like a click was made in my heart and head.
2: Well the first action would be to sign up on a platform to put my art-work out there and basically offer value to the world. I will also continue with some classes to increase my value.
There used to be this belief of not being enough, of being worthless. I've become a long way with that but that beautiful practice Kate was talking about (writing down three things that one has done well that day) is something I'm totally going to try out. I can already feel how powerful that's going to be. Thank you for this video, it was really helpful to me. Love and greetings from Finland
My limiting belief: I am not smart/clever enough to make a lot of money or enjoy wealth. (one of the limiting phrases that Kate mentioned in the video!) And the most ironic part of this is that I have held jobs where my sales record is the highest in the company! But my upbringing and going back to my family business and falling back into our old family roles and dynamics has been killing my self-esteem. I am taking action now from Marie's videos to own my self-worth, to believe that I can make good money and eventually have wealth, and to say bye bye to my family business and be bold enough to pursue my own business.
I found your show a few days again. You've added so much value to my life in just a few days. Thank You!
Kate Northrup Is Officially My Spirit Animal. That Is Why I Chose Financial Advising.
belief #4 reminds me of the point behind the Parable of the Talents, which is; "use the assets you have got, and stop staring yourself blind by looking at the ones you don't have". In the parable, the bad servant was given 17.5 kilos of gold to play with! This is close on seven hundred thousand USD to invest, - which is start-capital enough for any self-respecting small business entrepreneur. But he was so busy comparing himself to the other two (who had been given 2 million USD and 3.5 million respectively), that instead of valuing the fortune he actually had and doing something with it, he buried his 17.5 kilos in a field and did nothing with it. In the meantime his fellow servants had increased their portfolios 100%!
'saving' and being cheap is the belief that was holding me back. When I was younger I didn't invest in outings with my friends enough and travels. Because of that I didn't have friends to help when I needed it. Money is just a tool. experience and social network is just as valuable.
I love these women. Not only they talk about money, they akso talk about virtues. They are classy, polite, relaxed. I like that. What is inside manifests outside. That is the fruit of right spirit.
Money without love, humility, forgiveness, peace, generosity, kindness, respect etc...cannot bring happiness.
I love the idea of looking at my accounts and feeling abundance! And telling myself I AM GOOD with money, especially my retirement accounts.
I watched this video last night and knew it needed a second viewing so I had breakfast with you two this morning! I definitely struggle with believing that I am enough and love the actionable advice to write down three ways I added value every day. I have a day planner on my nightstand now specifically for that purpose...giving attention to the positive actions I'm already taking so that more will come!
Great episode!!! Thank you
I think my greatest limiting money belief is that I always doubting myself 😰
I love talking about money. I agree it is a tool to get things done. And I agree that $$ is neither negative nor positive. It's a vehicle to show up more fully in our purpose. Excellent interview & insight.
This video come on my feed for a reason and at the right time.
Omg so on point. Thank you!!!
This is so good!
The self love/ self value thing was absolutely priceless! love it! Totally using it
What holds me back is the belief that I am not wanted not supported not safe not free... So journal out 21 days Freedom here I come 💔💜💖💟
Thank you for putting this into words that brought a tear to my eyes when I felt it also. The first thing to fix a problem is to know what the problem is. May we all realize how very valuable we are.
Thank you for sharing! This was a powerful interview. For me, a money limiting belief I have is related to how life is supposed to be: "life is about survival", so I am noticing that I end up having just enough to keep moving, but honestly, it is not enough. I am starting to change my habits now :)
We're so proud of you, Saraj! We know you've got this, and we're sending you all the love and support as you "keep moving" - you've got the secret sauce right there. 💪💖
Amazing, I grew up a coptic orthodox christian and they keep on saying "the love of money is the root of all evil" now I understand it doesn't literally mean that way, and that it means loving money for selfish unhealthy reasons is the root of all evil. As for money and spirituality was still kind of a limiting belief to me because again I grew up in an environment that denies anything materialistic and life joys and in the same time says it's okay to go after getting better financially and it caused me confusion to be honest, but as Kate said I'm going to start seeing money as a way of adding value now.
Thanks Marie and Kate :)
Looking at my bank account with an abundance and gratitude mindset is going to be my new daily ritual. I hope to apply this to my monthly small biz book-keeping as well, making it a ritual of love and apprecation! Thank you for this intervew!
My belief that holds me back is that I will never know enough about money to start doing the smart things with it, paying off debt, investing. I have started to read financial books and listen to Marie's videos and trying to not be so afraid of educating myself about money.
Thank you, Kate and marie
Thank you Marie & Kate... Bless you all.... :)
in time all shall heal ... patience is a virtue & gratitude is gracious!
GREAT advice!
My husband and i spent the first 6 years of marriage in huge financial need. Anytime something extra came up such as a car repair or buying a car or kids clothes etc we needed help from his parents. My grandma helped as well and was more understanding. My grandma also gave us the opportunity to work for the money which felt more like an even exchange, although she was very generous in her payment for our work. My inlaws however would not let us work for their gift which I understand and am thankful for. Its just that their gifts always cane with strings attached. I didnt work because we got pregnant right away and also had health problems. Inlaws would scoff at my health issues and gossip with other family asking “why doesnt she get a job??” There was never good communication. It really hurt to need their help yet hate excepting it. I was just earlier talking about this with my husband. A big fear surrounding wealth is what it will do to our relationship with his parents. Even apart from money it is not a good relationship. We feel limited and misunderstood by them. Again their is very poor communication. We try but they wont open up or seek to understand. They want peace without doing the work. We cant just pretend because nothing will change. We will still “say the wrong thing” and it be taken the wrong way and vice versa.
Anyway we have gone back and forth for the past 3 years on whether or not to cut ties.
Financial freedom would allow and much cleaner cut from them but i dont want them to think our reason for no longer communicating with them is because of money and us not needing theirs. Thats not what the relationship is about. Many other things are wrong. But they would believe money was the only reason we kept talking if money is what allows us to leave.
Loved this Video. Thanks for all the advice.
Thank you ladies.. I am really grateful for those 4 guidelines to improve relationship
I LOVE this! Thank you so much for all you do Marie. I always learn something with each video I watch ☺
My mindset has never kept me "broke" - but I'm 100% sure I have an artificial ceiling on me. I grew up middle class and I subconsciously have been told from birth that money is shameful, and you're evil if you have it.
just had an epiphany while watching this, sometimes the reason why we want to let someone else take care of things for us (point #1) is a feeling of being not enough...that really resonated, finally shed light on some long standing behavior...can't thank you enough for discussing this topic!
First off, I've stumbled across your site by accident. I cannot express how lucky I am to do so! Your videos and blogs are helping me to look at myself honestly. Though uncomfortable most of the time, it is a task I must do to not only recognize issues I face or don't face, but to also make the necessary steps to change myself and my future. Thank you Marie!
In response to your video, "Change Your Money Beliefs", I feel that I am not smart enough to do anything. I appreciate the suggestions made by Kate Northrup in keeping a value journal and writing three things that I value about myself, or the value I add to others' lives. With this, I look forward to gaining the confidence to move forward and making bigger steps towards my goals.
A side note, I'll be watching your videos and reading your blogs daily. It really helps me to face my fears and to discredit the lies I tell myself. Once again, thank you, thank you, thank you!
I believe that I wasn't taught to know how to deal with money management. I know that I am ready to make a change because i'm taking steps to learn, instead of relying on the belief that I don't know. I made the action of signing up on mint.com. This was super helpful because I am now able to see all my assets (and debt at once). I am ready to take control, because I have the ability to learn instead of staying in the dark!
Great episode. I think my greatest limiting money belief is that I have to do things I don't like doing (usually boring things) in order to make money.
Katrina, this is a good one.
Uh! Thats a really good one! I will remind myself to this, thank you!
I really love the breakdown of transaction. Money is just an exchange of value. It is a very obvious point but I believe I'm speaking for many when I say that is easy to forget.
I vow to try to always remember to recognize my worth and check my bank account balance everyday and give gratitude for ways my life is abundant.
Thank you!
Wasn't my belief to begin with but one I've been told by my family (as recent as a year ago & I'm over 50 - damn, give it a rest already!) is that I am bad with money, always have been, always will be. Brings up such sadness. I am trying to move past it but honestly, have no idea. I tap, meditate & try to think positively.
Love this. I'm so grateful I discovered this video 🙏🙏🙏
Recently found this channel.. Very different but cool topics and these sort of personal development videos are helping me live productive
My money belief that's holding me back is 'I'm not the kind of person who has money'. But I'm changing it! :)
Great video! There's this thing people can do to help get rid of their CCs faster: Debt Snowball. You start with the smallest balance card first, add a set amount of extra you're paying on it every month. When it's paid off, move that amount of payment over to the next credit card. The amount of money you're paying on each goes up exponentially as the smaller one is paid off.
I love your channel. It's so positive,inspiring and uplifting! Keep it up!
Love this channel money work for me 👸🏻
This was a very Divine, Loving & Genuine experience. I thank you both.
you guys helped me, I needed this!
The first thing that I'm going to do this morning, is to look at my bank account. Amazing episode - thank you.
I have many money beliefs holding me back. 1. I can't start a business because I don't have a unique product to sell and also I'm not a good marketer.
2. What I studied in university has no job openings
3. This you already mentioned it; my mum will take care of it.
MakkiNjeri I am guilty of numbers 2 and 3 :(
I’ve been debt free a couple times and STILL didn’t find my purpose when I was completely debt free...soooo I ended up getting into debt once again...and again!😩 I’m in the process of paying it off again..for the LAST TIME! I’m older and wiser and finally ok with living within my means!
Awesome discussion. I am definitely going to purchase this book. People often tell you what you should do but seldom ever share their ideas on how to help create that mind shift.
Thank you for sharing your insight and wisdom...
Love both of you lovely ladies! Thank you x
Things are totally clicking right now. Thank you so much for doing what you do Marie and Kate.
the spiritual way to think about money was for me a real eyeopener !! Thanks Marie and Kate !! Both real amazing souls i guess