this saddened me that he was trying to play me like THIS! but, it is what it is. didn't work! he pushed. i went! never returned! i'm all good! NEVER, EVER AGAIN!!!!! the end!!!!!
When he does this, it lets you know he's already devalued/discarded you. He's labeled you the "bad object" (he's all good, always - black and white thinking), so when you go off with someone else, it solidifies his opinion of how "bad" you are. He's also letting you know that you should go have your needs met elsewhere, because he has no intention of meeting any of them.
This one right chereee!!! You're really breaking it down in this vid. If someone tells you they can get into your head you better believe them, normal people don't just utter words like that. This person has had practise with this.
When that happened, I was not happy but relieved. At that moment I told here okay your choice. I blocked her and all related people and deleted all pictures and mail etc so she was out of the head.
UM-HUH!!!!!!! i was confused and in A LOT OF PAIN. but i kept it moving in the opposite direction!!!! good for you! good for us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PEACE!!!!!
This is so true. He tried to break up with me. I freaked out and convinced him to stay.. i said " how do you go from one minute trying to leave me till the next telling me you love me" he said " because you convinced me like a good girl' so glad i finally left that abusive a hole
5:20 I like this part: to make your opinion don't matter. Because I had an opinion/idea, and he said I talk sh*t. I was baffled by that. Like, his mask slips.
I had a guy I was dating do this after a month and I had no reaction and I didn’t care since I know a lot about narcissistic abuse. He’s the one who kept coming back to me and then trying to reject me but it wouldn’t work because i didn’t care. Then he started gaslighting me by changing the narrative and acting like I wanted a relationship with him. I never said anything about that and I called him out and told him I never asked you for a relationship with laugh emojis… lol it was fun to make him feel stupid every step of the way. 😊 eventually I told him I know he’s a narcissist and it’s not gonna work on me because illl just be his worst nightmare and he blocked me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 they are really just weak pathetic people. I told him he’s actually very powerless since he has to get his power by controlling others lol they are just trying to get you to feel their feelings which are powerless empty afraid and worthless. Once you recognize that it’s easy to not give into their games ❤
you a MUCH BETTER person than me BECAUSE i do NOT want ANY more exposure to one. ONCE was enough!!! the two weeks of NONESENSE i endured was enough to last my hyper-empathetic heart a lifetime!!!!!!! never mind not giving into them ... I DON'T WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING AT ALL EVER TO DO WITH THEM!!! i'm not angry. i don't hate them. i pity them and i just can't be exposed to THISSSSSSSS!!!!! PEACE!!!!!
@@ItsSoarTime I’m at that place now I understand…. I’m more disgusted by them than anything. My whole family is that way so I thought it was normal for a long time I was used to it. Now I am healthy and healed
um-huh! but i did NOT block him. i WANT him to KNOW I AM IN CONTROL ... and that i was telling the truth when i told him two weeks after encountering him and when i last saw him: "MY.SELF-ESTEEM.IS.STILL.INTACT!!!!!!!" i just don't acknowledge him IF/WHEN he calls/text, because i don't be checkin' for him!!! PEACE!!!!!!
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Funny how they want love so badly yet don’t just understand natural, easy, peaceful reciprocated love.
no, not funny.
pitiful.
heartbreaking.
smh
PEACE!!!!!!
this saddened me that he was trying to play me like THIS!
but, it is what it is.
didn't work!
he pushed.
i went!
never returned!
i'm all good!
NEVER, EVER AGAIN!!!!!
the end!!!!!
When he does this, it lets you know he's already devalued/discarded you. He's labeled you the "bad object" (he's all good, always - black and white thinking), so when you go off with someone else, it solidifies his opinion of how "bad" you are.
He's also letting you know that you should go have your needs met elsewhere, because he has no intention of meeting any of them.
APPLAUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BOWING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! appreciating YOUR input!!! PEACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@ItsSoarTime Thank you kindly. Peace🙏
This one right chereee!!! You're really breaking it down in this vid. If someone tells you they can get into your head you better believe them, normal people don't just utter words like that. This person has had practise with this.
"right cheree"
SMILING, WIDELY!!!!! brought back...some great childhood memories ...
LOVE your closing sentence!!!!
PEACE!!!!
When that happened, I was not happy but relieved. At that moment I told here okay your choice. I blocked her and all related people and deleted all pictures and mail etc so she was out of the head.
UM-HUH!!!!!!!
i was confused and in A LOT OF PAIN.
but i kept it moving in the opposite direction!!!!
good for you! good for us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PEACE!!!!!
He completly humiliated me when I left he wanted me to stay its was aweful.You explain it now i get it.
This is so true. He tried to break up with me. I freaked out and convinced him to stay.. i said " how do you go from one minute trying to leave me till the next telling me you love me" he said " because you convinced me like a good girl' so glad i finally left that abusive a hole
The best explanation ever.
5:20 I like this part: to make your opinion don't matter. Because I had an opinion/idea, and he said I talk sh*t. I was baffled by that. Like, his mask slips.
I had a guy I was dating do this after a month and I had no reaction and I didn’t care since I know a lot about narcissistic abuse. He’s the one who kept coming back to me and then trying to reject me but it wouldn’t work because i didn’t care. Then he started gaslighting me by changing the narrative and acting like I wanted a relationship with him. I never said anything about that and I called him out and told him I never asked you for a relationship with laugh emojis… lol it was fun to make him feel stupid every step of the way. 😊 eventually I told him I know he’s a narcissist and it’s not gonna work on me because illl just be his worst nightmare and he blocked me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 they are really just weak pathetic people. I told him he’s actually very powerless since he has to get his power by controlling others lol they are just trying to get you to feel their feelings which are powerless empty afraid and worthless. Once you recognize that it’s easy to not give into their games ❤
you a MUCH BETTER person than me BECAUSE i do NOT want ANY more exposure to one. ONCE was enough!!! the two weeks of NONESENSE i endured was enough to last my hyper-empathetic heart a lifetime!!!!!!! never mind not giving into them ... I DON'T WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING AT ALL EVER TO DO WITH THEM!!! i'm not angry. i don't hate them. i pity them and i just can't be exposed to THISSSSSSSS!!!!!
PEACE!!!!!
@@ItsSoarTime I’m at that place now I understand…. I’m more disgusted by them than anything. My whole family is that way so I thought it was normal for a long time I was used to it. Now I am healthy and healed
That's what he tells me
What if he hid the fact that he is gay.....but used me as a cover for his sexuality.???
Very common.
all the more reason for you to MOVE ON, right?
PEACE!!!!!
He did this I blocked him and never heard from him since
um-huh!
but i did NOT block him.
i WANT him to KNOW I AM IN CONTROL ... and that i was telling the truth when i told him two weeks after encountering him and when i last saw him:
"MY.SELF-ESTEEM.IS.STILL.INTACT!!!!!!!"
i just don't acknowledge him IF/WHEN he calls/text, because i don't be checkin' for him!!!
PEACE!!!!!!
@@ItsSoarTime your still in a dangerous place untill you get rid of him completely, that's the only way
Thank you for explaining this 💛💛💛-Xclusyph Icon
um-huh! this was another great one i'm adding to my playlist: "RAW TRUTHS for ..."
PEACE!!!!!
I would love to hear you.Speak.How a narcissist can be in your life.
As a friend Or family member.
A a romantic situation. Thank you.
go to his channel and chose a video.
PEACE!!!!
The reason why they are ok with pushing you away is because they always have back up supply.
He has told me several times to find someone else,
I can't afford to pay to Ur help program and left in a mess
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