"YOU PUSHED ME TO CHEAT" - This BROKE Aba

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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @theothernodude3139
    @theothernodude3139 2 года назад +1426

    “You are a cheater”
    “You pushed me to that”
    Textbook definition of gaslighting. Dude is so goofy that even Mickey Mouse won’t let him in the clubhouse

    • @shook8855
      @shook8855 2 года назад +79

      I don't agree with it but men are starting to use the same excuses women do.

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi 2 года назад +56

      I agree, but she is pretty bad herself she sees what he is like is not fooled then she goes off on the beautiful babies to stay with him, she deserves him, but any possible children do not deserve that situation.

    • @lilp4000
      @lilp4000 2 года назад +13

      Well aba did say he "pushed" her to be crazy... Why can't she "push" him to cheat its the same logic really

    • @EagleZtoTheGrave
      @EagleZtoTheGrave 2 года назад +6

      @@lilp4000 Fair

    • @TheGreySage0
      @TheGreySage0 2 года назад +16

      Well ,she did say they will have beatiful babies so both of them are as bad as each other 😂

  • @Don_DeMarco
    @Don_DeMarco 2 года назад +1662

    After all these years of watching Aba and Preach, this might be the first time I have ever seen Aba’s soul truly being sent to the Shadow Realm.

    • @onesimonhaca1752
      @onesimonhaca1752 2 года назад +70

      And they still put down a face down card and ended their turn

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +3

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @NotExplicable
      @NotExplicable 2 года назад +2

      🤣

    • @wtfKwaku
      @wtfKwaku 2 года назад +40

      I never seen him care for a person in a video so hard then have them crush his being

    • @mackvoffical
      @mackvoffical 2 года назад +1

      @@onesimonhaca1752 🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂😂😂

  • @TrueDarkMajin
    @TrueDarkMajin 2 года назад +2257

    Aba got that “I was rooting for you and you just disappointed the hell outta me” face. I felt that.

    • @rebelrocksmm
      @rebelrocksmm 2 года назад +31

      Stole my line bru, we all felt like Tyra 😂

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +1

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @conorstewart2214
      @conorstewart2214 2 года назад +29

      @@ItzMalick stop spamming and advertising your channel, no one cares, all you are doing is annoying people and that won’t make them go and watch your channel.

    • @thebarringtonTV
      @thebarringtonTV 2 года назад +4

      @@conorstewart2214 hey man, just because he got you all riled up and into your feelings, I’m gonna check out the content. This is the internet age bruh, the most connected humanity will ever be. Let people comment or promote what they want, just like you do.

    • @tracym8952
      @tracym8952 2 года назад +1

      The Obi-Wan face is real. Some of Ewan's best work

  • @DBuilds
    @DBuilds 2 года назад +1652

    My mind cannot wrap around the fact that she knows he cheats. Called him a cheater. Wants to have his babies still. And she knows he's gonna cheat again. And you wanna raise kids in that environment? Bruh.... People need help.

    • @Eddybo22
      @Eddybo22 2 года назад

      She's hooked on him like a feen on crack.

    • @EyeofValor
      @EyeofValor 2 года назад

      Truth is, crazy just wants mixed kids.

    • @Gchildwarrior
      @Gchildwarrior 2 года назад +131

      MENTAL HEALTH!

    • @TrulyTamira
      @TrulyTamira 2 года назад

      hiooo9o9pppoplpolokkjji9okkojijuio0ppooklknklmmmmhuy799m b8ñbv6bxxfďď6

    • @atrueearthling4326
      @atrueearthling4326 2 года назад +63

      EMOTIONAL DAMAAAAAGE!!!!!

  • @headecas
    @headecas 2 года назад +6882

    there is no break, there is no seeing other people, no open relationship, no dating exes.if its over its over. either it is or it aint, less than that is unacceptable to me

    • @kickthesniper2006
      @kickthesniper2006 2 года назад +72

      Yeah

    • @MossMan1985
      @MossMan1985 2 года назад +56

      Amen

    • @spikesgirl9371
      @spikesgirl9371 2 года назад +466

      My husband died and I am still faithful to him. Dating again feels like betrayal. If I can be faithful to a dead man how hard is it to be faithful to a living one?

    • @cosmancho2959
      @cosmancho2959 2 года назад +191

      @@spikesgirl9371 I applaud you for your dedication but do you actually think you can be alone for the rest of your life?.Women also have sexual needs depending on your age from what I know.

    • @sandraa.7794
      @sandraa.7794 2 года назад

      @@spikesgirl9371 you are celibate, not faithful.

  • @hoi-polloi1863
    @hoi-polloi1863 2 года назад +2940

    This Daniel guy is a piece of work. He's in an open relationship and *still* finds a way to cheat? Some people just cannot be saved.

    • @Gchildwarrior
      @Gchildwarrior 2 года назад +320

      He is the streets!

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +5

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @Wakka144
      @Wakka144 2 года назад

      @@ItzMalick yo spam, enough already. Nobody is reading your desperate sounding garbage. Once I see the yo fam pop up I hit report. Goodbye and don’t come back.

    • @imgettingold9407
      @imgettingold9407 2 года назад +93

      He is a fboi that has evolved

    • @Tinmann_77
      @Tinmann_77 2 года назад +45

      If its an open relationship you can't cheat.
      She just claims she's ok with an open relationship, but when he gets with another chick suddenly he's cheating.... that ain't how open relationships work.

  • @MormonCrisp
    @MormonCrisp 2 года назад +1814

    The ending head shake after Aba is frozen with doom for the “beautiful children” line really got me. Really watching his decent into stillness is wild

    • @mider-spanman5577
      @mider-spanman5577 2 года назад +35

      that last part would become very eerie if my mans became a serial killer after this or something. Damn! I feel his disbelief though for real!

    • @sabrinastarks7868
      @sabrinastarks7868 2 года назад +3

      @@mider-spanman5577 Like that look at the end of that one Bill Cosby documentary episode... 😏🤨😶

    • @Saberdud
      @Saberdud 2 года назад +21

      descent*

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @joenobody5631
      @joenobody5631 2 года назад +18

      @@ItzMalick This ain't it.

  • @HoldenMuhKnutz
    @HoldenMuhKnutz 2 года назад +928

    There’s NO such thing as a “break”. There’s only a break up. A break is just an attempt at cheating without the guilt. If the cheat fails, the person seeks to return.

    • @jocoolshow
      @jocoolshow 2 года назад +16

      Me thinking back to the two times 2 different women wanted to take a break, got back with me within a week, and then eventually broke up within that next month or so 🤔

    • @nataliebatista651
      @nataliebatista651 Год назад +12

      I disagree. Sometimes you can be in love with someone and understand that you both aren’t in the right place at the moment. But their is a chance for growth and reconnection.

    • @obliterate7799
      @obliterate7799 Год назад +23

      @@nataliebatista651 So what is that break for? To find yourself? You can't find yourself in a relationship? Maybe that isnt your person if you think that u need to be away from them to grow.

    • @nataliebatista651
      @nataliebatista651 Год назад +10

      @@obliterate7799 sometimes you need a moment to yourself dude. Every one deals with things differently. If a partner can’t be understanding of that and you both remain loyal then y’all just aren’t meant to be. But to cause a break up over a person needing a little break to me means the person either requires too much control or they aren’t truly in love with that person.

    • @obliterate7799
      @obliterate7799 Год назад +20

      @@nataliebatista651 You can have your mental reset but going to your partner and telling them you want a break from them, then 2-4 weeks later, u want to get back together is insane.

  • @kjcenteno5734
    @kjcenteno5734 2 года назад +564

    I never understood why people do open relationships when they end up getting jealous. Open relationship barely work. Someone will always get hurt.

    • @Manic_Panic
      @Manic_Panic 2 года назад +112

      Because it's trendy and hip. And we know the average smooth brain has to follow all the trends so that's the end result.

    • @ptolemeeselenion1542
      @ptolemeeselenion1542 2 года назад +29

      Ask Jada-Pinkett Smith. Went full-on jealous on Margot Robbie and since then, Will has never been the same.

    • @compa_choo
      @compa_choo 2 года назад

      I mean in her defense she said just dont try to build a bond with these hoes, i can almost guarantee 100% dudes that want open relationships just tryna fuck these hoes ive never heard of some dude tryna build multiple relationships at a time

    • @lav2878
      @lav2878 2 года назад +21

      This one wasn’t even about jealousy tho. He broke the rules they established. That’s it.

    • @njux1871
      @njux1871 2 года назад +9

      As a polyamorous person, I can tell you that open relationships very often and very successfully work. Within a certain community that have a less possessive/jealous mindset. You'll find lots of successful open and poly relationships within hippie or art scenes in Europe.

  • @samvalid
    @samvalid 2 года назад +1523

    The rage emitting from aba is both hilarious and heartbreaking, because he TRULY had faith in this woman until she spoke those words.

    • @marlom7882
      @marlom7882 2 года назад +193

      I think it’s not even rage he’s just… broken. This floored him on like a fundamental level he can’t even function

    • @jessitabonita
      @jessitabonita 2 года назад +1

      Like animals in the wild, unnatural hair colors in woman are a warning signal to stay away. From man-hater blue to I-have-a-mental-disease pink.
      It's typically an easy method of attention-seeking of a cluster-B personality disorder who thrive in chaos rather than order.
      So her response wasn't shocking.

    • @jamescheaye927
      @jamescheaye927 2 года назад +31

      As we all do. Until they reveal to us why they get the outcomes and results they do, because they chose the circumstances for all the wrong reasons

    • @dark3rthanshadows
      @dark3rthanshadows 2 года назад +80

      she had to went full crazy. playing "baby chemist ". i swear these people are gross.

    • @plusa6829
      @plusa6829 2 года назад +43

      @@dark3rthanshadows baby chemist 😭😂

  • @manwithaplan135
    @manwithaplan135 2 года назад +1159

    Being a guy who allowed this energy for 5 years.. please don't accept a break especially if it's coming out of nowhere. If the person hasn't talked to you about it and refuse to give you more details other than "I need some space" or " I feel like we are going down two different paths".
    I can't believe I was dumb enough to allow it and please don't do this.
    You will regret it.
    If they really wanted to fix the situation then they will talk to you about it...not slowly distance themselves or just cut you off without giving you a chance. If it comes to that then dammit please take your space for yourself and unwrap all that emotion you have to figure out.

    • @Izlandprincess1
      @Izlandprincess1 2 года назад +42

      Whether or not it's coming from somewhere a break is basically a break up of convenience where they can come back if there is no replacement for you. I mean you cant take a break in a marriage when u feel fed up...it doesnt work that way. We are all a yamhead (head stuck in the gorubd) at some point for someone but the good thing is you eventually found ur worth and made it out that toxicity.

    • @ComradeFromRhody401
      @ComradeFromRhody401 2 года назад +16

      The slow fade is painful.. I’ve been on both sides of it when I was younger, very regrettably.

    • @angellicbeautyproducts9479
      @angellicbeautyproducts9479 2 года назад

      Uhhhh...u sound like a simp in recovery. Respectfully 🤨

    • @kaikrassin8096
      @kaikrassin8096 2 года назад +3

      I guys during this time period you weren't actually a "man with a plan" 😉
      (Sorry)

    • @anthonyvaldes1021
      @anthonyvaldes1021 2 года назад +2

      @@kaikrassin8096 what's that mean?

  • @Reak00
    @Reak00 Год назад +20

    That stare and silence aba gave at the end really was a whole speech.
    It really just spoke for itself, then he threw on the head shake too yea I felt that😂😂

  • @Hossak
    @Hossak 2 года назад +1181

    Poor Aba. I was the same. You are going to bring a poor child or children into an unstable, messed up relationship with a guy that cheats and does not really love you? WTF!!!! By all means, go crazy, date idiots, play around whatever but do not bring another human being into that crazy world.

    • @ptolemeeselenion1542
      @ptolemeeselenion1542 2 года назад +30

      Yep.

    • @Trampymctramptramp
      @Trampymctramptramp 2 года назад

      All because she wants mixed kids.... Weirdos bruh

    • @independentaquaman7424
      @independentaquaman7424 2 года назад +48

      Don't have sex and then no baby will be brought into the mess.

    • @Pssst.ByTheWay
      @Pssst.ByTheWay 2 года назад +4

      I havnt got to this part yet, sumtin sumtin jusy in store for me

    • @sandyleon4150
      @sandyleon4150 2 года назад +155

      That's a woman wanting a mixed baby, doesn't care about what situation she bringing the child into. I smell fetish. Smh

  • @abethomas8218
    @abethomas8218 2 года назад +3278

    What broke Aba wasn’t just the girl wanting to bring kids into the relationship. It was the unabashed fetishizing of her boyfriend’s blackness that made him upset. She was willing to abuse herself (and him to an extent) because they’d have the “best looking kids”. It’s sick.

    • @ubuu7
      @ubuu7 2 года назад

      She just needs to go to a sperm bank and deal with her want that way.

    • @businesstakeout
      @businesstakeout 2 года назад +122

      💯

    • @RS-zp1we
      @RS-zp1we 2 года назад +125

      @Flex It was blatantly obvious. No need to mention it.

    • @MeshiTV
      @MeshiTV 2 года назад +60

      Good point out right there. I didn't look into it that deep

    • @willdiesel8431
      @willdiesel8431 2 года назад +24

      @@RS-zp1we they still pin the most blatantly obvious.

  • @FBCxUNKNOWN
    @FBCxUNKNOWN 2 года назад +989

    That’s exactly what my ex girlfriend told me almost when she cheated on me and stole my credit card to move to a guy she met online. Apparently I was not giving her enough time. Bear in mind that I was in school to become a paramedic….

    • @ptolemeeselenion1542
      @ptolemeeselenion1542 2 года назад +116

      Welcome to the Matrix.

    • @idothisforfun1300
      @idothisforfun1300 2 года назад

      I hope you pressed charges and dumped that heaux

    • @FGazi-qf1hp
      @FGazi-qf1hp 2 года назад +71

      @@ptolemeeselenion1542 She took the blue pill, he took the red one.

    • @feitan8745
      @feitan8745 2 года назад +188

      @@FGazi-qf1hp just forget these blue and red pill concepts, and live the best you can. Internet got into your head.

    • @FGazi-qf1hp
      @FGazi-qf1hp 2 года назад +41

      @@feitan8745 Its a joke...

  • @spongebobfan190
    @spongebobfan190 2 года назад +112

    The pink haired lady and that Daniel character honestly deserve to be with each other. They both seem like the kind of people who would get into a relationship with a genuinely good person each, and they would ruin those good people with their insecurities. Until they each get therapy, or find some other way to deal with their issues, they should not pursue future relationships with good hearted people.

    • @T.Maximus
      @T.Maximus Год назад +5

      Liberal mind sets create these ppl.

  • @wordonice4457
    @wordonice4457 2 года назад +575

    R.I.P Aba. You had such a great mind before it broke. We will miss the unbroken you forever and ever

    • @ericalamothe2958
      @ericalamothe2958 2 года назад +21

      "🎤🎸🎵 I really miss my homie. Even though he's gone away...I hope he's in a better place... 🎶" 😂

    • @roussmade7360
      @roussmade7360 2 года назад +2

      the drool 😂

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @ennaxor1991
    @ennaxor1991 2 года назад +904

    I feel like a 'break' implies that they're tired of me. Therefore, if you're so sick of me, guess I'm out. It's a break up for me.

    • @WaltzwithAI
      @WaltzwithAI 2 года назад +81

      Or they have someone on the side they have been talking to and are interested in giving it a shot.

    • @ennaxor1991
      @ennaxor1991 2 года назад +37

      @@WaltzwithAI kinda goes hand in hand, if you think about it.

    • @aw2584
      @aw2584 2 года назад

      I kinda now what you mean but you put it in such drama queen words lol im sorry. It's probably because I see the concept of a break differently, it's just spending some separate time but still in a relationship as if someone wants a break to be open in terms of dating and fucking other people, fuck that.
      But yeah you can't be mad if, for example, you just finished quarantine with your bf or gf where you would spend 24/7 together in a small apartment for months and for that other person to be like yo imma take a month long holiday back in my parents city to get some space for a sec.
      I don't know what your angle is here but yes, you can get tired of everyone and everything if its too much, even that dog of yours can be overbearing sometimes and you might tell him to fuck off for a while sometimes as you need some alone time, does it mean you hate it? Lol

    • @ravengyal
      @ravengyal 2 года назад +1

      Umm … how many times did this happen to you??

    • @ennaxor1991
      @ennaxor1991 2 года назад +4

      @@ravengyal Zero times

  • @babyboyiii
    @babyboyiii 2 года назад +474

    I fucking died when Aba made that face and salivated just from pure disappointment and Preach looking confused and having genuine concern for Aba. 😂😂🤣I've never laughed that damn hard!

    • @ptolemeeselenion1542
      @ptolemeeselenion1542 2 года назад +7

      Lol.

    • @dayone_1
      @dayone_1 2 года назад +23

      Preach was flabbergasted😂

    • @martinadams3480
      @martinadams3480 2 года назад +6

      I totally agree with you. They really need a talk show, like right now! I laughed my ass off too, The shit is hilarious!

    • @martinadams3480
      @martinadams3480 2 года назад +2

      @@dayone_1 The expression on his face is what it really did for me. I am cracking the fuck up!😂😂😂😂😈🔥

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @coffeehousephilosopher7936
    @coffeehousephilosopher7936 2 года назад +81

    It's been awhile since I've been in a relationship.. but seeing these cases make me feel better that there's no drama in my life other than furthering my career.

    • @vegbeg9170
      @vegbeg9170 10 месяцев назад

      Relationships like most social connections and interactions, are only good because of the people in them. They're nothing to miss in and of themselves ☺

    • @thenoblepoptart
      @thenoblepoptart 10 месяцев назад

      cope, get a girl bro

  • @MrTekniqs
    @MrTekniqs 2 года назад +470

    Good to see the three of you together. The floor’s been silent lately.

    • @tina-al-ac
      @tina-al-ac 2 года назад +15

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @datboiashy2957
      @datboiashy2957 2 года назад +38

      Almost thought they actually fixed the floor

    • @summerrose8110
      @summerrose8110 2 года назад +3

      @@datboiashy2957 That or it didn't creak as much.

  • @jorgeoviedo870
    @jorgeoviedo870 2 года назад +423

    Polyamory is for the streets.
    Also, a “break” is just a nice way of saying “I’m breaking up with you, eventually.”

    • @galacticalove
      @galacticalove 2 года назад +35

      Poly when used as a scapegoat / consent is not mutually shared thing is for the streets.
      Looking at Jada Smith, streets.

    • @Neion8
      @Neion8 2 года назад +28

      Nah a 'break' is a nice way of saying 'I've found someone who I think I prefer to you, but imma have that free trial before I commit' or it's 'I want to cheat, but I don't want to feel guilty about it'. As for polyamory, if it's mutual and agreed upon at the start of a relationship then that's one thing (not something I like, but each to their own), if it's brought into an existing monogamous relationship or it's one-sided, that's just scummy. Yes, looking at Jada Smith, not even the streets; she belongs to the gutters - I mean seriously, her *son's* friends?

    • @chrislaurent1137
      @chrislaurent1137 2 года назад +14

      To me, Polyamorous is just a loophole for cheating.

    • @DTreatz
      @DTreatz 2 года назад +1

      depends on the societies sexual economics tbh

    • @galacticalove
      @galacticalove 2 года назад +1

      @@Neion8 The gutter 💀
      Naaaah, The water treatment or landfill for sure 🤣
      That water never gonna get cured

  • @Forevermocha
    @Forevermocha 2 года назад +882

    In my experience when a "break" was brought up it was because they found someone they wanted to mess with but didn't want me to be able to say they cheated. So it's a no for me. If we can't have an adult conversation to make things work then there is nothing left to come back to

    • @crystallight328
      @crystallight328 2 года назад +36

      Exactly

    • @doublestarships646
      @doublestarships646 2 года назад +45

      That's EXACTLY what it is. Just leave if someone brings it up. Just leave. Don't even say you broke up with them. Just delete their information and pretend they weren't real.

    • @dapras
      @dapras 2 года назад +10

      @@doublestarships646 bruh been though this mess...

    • @Forevermocha
      @Forevermocha 2 года назад +5

      @@doublestarships646 went through this a few times when I was younger never again

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +1

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @airess1
    @airess1 2 года назад +32

    Aba at the end had the " i can't brain today, I got the dumb" look on his face. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Sravan.Allopi
    @Sravan.Allopi 2 года назад +528

    When Aba died I felt that in my soul. I had a crazy ex girlfriend who said something similar to me because I'm a mixed Indian/European and South African guy and she was a white girl. Even after she threw her tantrums for the most petty things she would still tell me she wanted to have my babies because they'd look so exotic and amazing. I'm glad I pulled the pin and popped smoke soon after man holy shit.

    • @ceecue5367
      @ceecue5367 2 года назад +91

      Dodged a damn grenade with that one

    • @Sravan.Allopi
      @Sravan.Allopi 2 года назад +33

      @@ceecue5367 IKR that shit is crazy man

    • @growingsoul30
      @growingsoul30 2 года назад +25

      @@Sravan.Allopi congrats my guy. Stay up

    • @realnova7429
      @realnova7429 2 года назад

      mixed babies fetishization is real in north america and its creepy

    • @ilivedowntheroad
      @ilivedowntheroad 2 года назад

      You're lucky you didn't get hooked and sinked

  • @gndo9145
    @gndo9145 2 года назад +315

    No one pushed you to cheat, you chose to. I've been cheated on twice and both times it left me feeling like, "why the hell didn't you just say it's over?". There is no reason to hurt the other person because YOU are the one that's not content. Sometimes it just doesn't work out, it's ok.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @mac1bc
      @mac1bc 2 года назад +20

      Agreed. But that's why the other person has to just remove themselves from that environment for their own sake. That pink haired girl should be running far away from that guy...

    • @mac1bc
      @mac1bc 2 года назад +4

      @@ItzMalick dude you already have subscribers. No need to keep spamming

    • @Tinmann_77
      @Tinmann_77 2 года назад

      I agree, but she said they were in an open relationship which means he can get with other women without it being cheating... and then calls him a cheater for getting with other women.
      And when he said "if a text another girl 'hey I wanna be with you' it doesn't meant I wanna BE with them". He's right, in today's culture it may not mean he wants to BE with them as in a relationship, but to be with them as in in the same room preferably fucking. Which according to insane open relationship rule should be acceptable.
      She's clinging to a fuckboi because she knows that nobody better will want to deal with her insane shit but that fuckboi will let her rent the other bedroom in the apt because that's just available pussy for when he can't pull something better.

    • @summerrose8110
      @summerrose8110 2 года назад

      @@mac1bc If you were a content creator, you'd do the same thing.

  • @ogfallingoverthemoon
    @ogfallingoverthemoon 2 года назад +299

    Preach at the end really got me as he was just like “.. well, I’m out.” And the slow zoom in on Aba 😂

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +1

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @samvision98
      @samvision98 2 года назад +5

      @@ItzMalick dude I see you everywhere.

    • @haifaabdullah5062
      @haifaabdullah5062 2 года назад +2

      did he say: "see you later babe"????

    • @JinX_11199
      @JinX_11199 2 года назад

      @@haifaabdullah5062 bud**

  • @lilb1970
    @lilb1970 2 года назад +8

    9:55 preach is like "did you just?"🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ChickenJoe12
    @ChickenJoe12 2 года назад +2046

    Going on a ‘break’ never works out well.. Just ask Ross and Rachel 😂

  • @KordellCaldwell
    @KordellCaldwell 2 года назад +360

    9/10 the person wanting an open relationship isn't satisfied with their partner. This is why you often hear these stories of one person who is more emotionally detached, demanding more freedom, pushing the boundaries of the relationship, or getting mad at the other person for doing the same things they do.
    Live & love however you want, but if your partner doesn't see you as enough to only desire you, I'd have serious doubts about the future success of the relationship.

    • @CarefulHowYouStep
      @CarefulHowYouStep 2 года назад +10

      one of my ex friends got into a poly relationship (they were all trans btw) and there was CONSTANT jealousy from all 3 parties, particularly my ex friend and the other "man." the "woman" identified as "they" but both "men" fawned and fought over her just like a traditional poly with 2 men and 1 woman lol

    • @tys8775
      @tys8775 2 года назад +2

      This is not true.

    • @CarefulHowYouStep
      @CarefulHowYouStep 2 года назад +9

      @@tys8775 cope

    • @aboodking621
      @aboodking621 2 года назад +8

      Lies, it's 10/10*

    • @kimberleygoodvibes
      @kimberleygoodvibes 2 года назад +8

      Your comment triggered me so much. I remembered the situation I'm not proud of. So I started to hang with this guy who seemed very nice. After checking his ig I understood he has a gf that he never mentioned. When confronted he said that he asked for an open relationship and allowed her to sleep with others but she didn't want, so he continues he's "adventures" alone, deletes all messages and stuff because his gf checks his phone, email etc. He told me what he's lacking in the relationship thats why he feels he has a right to do it (instead of addressing the issue to his gf cuz its less problems lol). Also he said that if he sleeps around he can fall in love, so I asked whats the point in wasting your gfs time? Cuz you gotta understand that she's obsessed with him, all her ig is filled only with his photos.... he said that they are super in love and they have otherworldly connection blah blah basically they are soulmates xd. So he's open to new feelings, going left and right, complained about relationship issues BUT THEY ARE SOULMATES kekw. I was shocked when he asked me to stay with him and do things that "she doesn't need to know". After few months he messaged me again all thirsty for me, and casually mentioned that he married that poor girl. Insta blocked him.

  • @jorgeherrera1074
    @jorgeherrera1074 2 года назад +843

    “Open relationship” is just what toxic people suggest to be selfish without having the weight on their shoulders that they’ll get caught.

    • @oz_jones
      @oz_jones 2 года назад +57

      I mean... I guess it can work. But I have never seen it happen. People are usually build for monogamy.

    • @Raytenk
      @Raytenk 2 года назад

      @@oz_jones trust me, it doesnt work. They're lying about it, give them like 5-10 years, if it works? bro they just pretending to like each other so they wont be left alone in the dark

    • @islabee94
      @islabee94 2 года назад +18

      This is a very judgmental take and its also not true. I know a couple who were in an open relationship for years and years and are currently happily married with a child. Literally one of the most solid and happy couples I know.

    • @jorgeherrera1074
      @jorgeherrera1074 2 года назад +107

      @@islabee94 yes, because you know everything about their relationship and their individual traumas that played a role into their relationship decisions. I stand by what I said. If they’re the exception then good for them.

    • @strikerron2252
      @strikerron2252 2 года назад +6

      @@jorgeherrera1074 you are a religious man who has your own bias. If it doesn't work for you it won't. Do go on judging your opinions.

  • @sarahlynn4798
    @sarahlynn4798 2 года назад +25

    "Taking a break" is the phrase we use to say, "this relationship is at a crossroads & we need to evaluate". It would be clearer if we just said what we actually want/need.

  • @thedrushow_757
    @thedrushow_757 2 года назад +140

    When he said “You pushed me to cheat” it triggered me into remembering my “spiritual/conscious” ex telling me that I “manifested him into wanting other women” I felt that look at the end Aba lol smh

    • @marlom7882
      @marlom7882 2 года назад +20

      Shit I thought only chicks did that. I have to go apologize to many women then

    • @Grandmaster_Vic
      @Grandmaster_Vic 2 года назад +37

      Oh you dated a straight goofball. My condolences

    • @deadlyninja112
      @deadlyninja112 2 года назад +7

      @@marlom7882 lol me too

    • @youraverageblackgirl4621
      @youraverageblackgirl4621 2 года назад +4

      I’m sorry, but that was funny.

    • @mimiad397
      @mimiad397 2 года назад +3

      That's crazy

  • @Mr_KingsMentality
    @Mr_KingsMentality 2 года назад +113

    9:37-9:59
    Aba: 🤤 "....Give me a minute."
    Preach: 🤨 " Nigga, you look like you need 5."

    • @robertgituhu9975
      @robertgituhu9975 2 года назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo Fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoyy!🙏🏾💯

  • @imanitucker4023
    @imanitucker4023 2 года назад +520

    Instantly qualifies as a top 5 all time episode of A&P. The combo of Preach rambling in the background while we watched Aba's brain melt was cinematic excellency! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +1

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @sashavaughn7028
      @sashavaughn7028 2 года назад +5

      My exact sentiment!! I’ve watched this episode 3x. Just to soak it all in!! Shooketh!! 😱🫠

    • @lionessstarseed6812
      @lionessstarseed6812 2 года назад +17

      Had our guy regress to the point of drooling.

    • @reeseew5508
      @reeseew5508 Год назад +1

      The way I SCREAMT (no typo) at that drool! He sure did regress to a teething baby! 😆🤣😂😆🤣😂

  • @yuumi603
    @yuumi603 2 года назад +34

    The betrayal we felt towards the pink haired lady, we were rooting for you! We really did but then you gotta ruin for your fetish that have your future kids involved

  • @89_Yugesiw
    @89_Yugesiw 2 года назад +531

    I’ve cheated before and I can honestly say that no one pushed me to do it because at the time it was something I wanted. Regardless how I felt about my ex, a wrong is still a wrong and it’s something you’ve gotta own.

    • @afrobutterfly
      @afrobutterfly 2 года назад +54

      Out of curiosity, why did you not break up first before going through cheating?
      Was it a matter of just being selfish, or did you truly enjoy the other person you were dating and just got greedy?

    • @89_Yugesiw
      @89_Yugesiw 2 года назад +23

      @@afrobutterfly I didn’t know it was gonna happen but breaking up with my ex so I could have sex with another women would’ve been the last reason for me to end the relationship.

    • @anthonyvaldes1021
      @anthonyvaldes1021 2 года назад +18

      @@89_Yugesiw Did it come back to haunt you in a future relationship? Kind of like Karma?

    • @noahscott7272
      @noahscott7272 2 года назад +16

      Unless you’re a woman. And then it’s his fault.

    • @noahscott7272
      @noahscott7272 2 года назад

      @@afrobutterfly because he’s a whore? That’s my guess. Although, I’m a whore and I don’t cheat. No one ever said you can’t make a husband out a whore 😂

  • @gcr1082
    @gcr1082 2 года назад +452

    I'm definitely a break up person. Taking a break means someone is exploring their options and want to know you'll be there for them if they don't find what they're looking for. Taking a break people are delusional.

    • @MusMasi
      @MusMasi 2 года назад +27

      yep they just want to be more open about their monkey branching.

    • @leehalloway8787
      @leehalloway8787 2 года назад +20

      Damn. I tried it once. My gf had no time for me and I wanted to take a break since I felt like I was asking her for more time than she could give. I thought that I'd give her some space until she had time again. The break went on for too long, the issues weren't resolved (after many attempts on my end) so I broke things off.
      I really wasn't trying to see anyone else or explore other options. I was going to focus more on myself and my goals while she was busy pursuing her goals.

    • @thenameyoudarenotsay2181
      @thenameyoudarenotsay2181 2 года назад +3

      Thank you someone else who understands when a person brings up a break in a relationship is low key talking to someone else and if they both are feeling each other then they will say that they want break up which is fucked up

    • @yeilyn24
      @yeilyn24 2 года назад +10

      Break up person as well. Once I break up with you, I never go back. It’s a done deal at that point.

    • @mik3nike
      @mik3nike 2 года назад +1

      Could not agree more!

  • @ROBOOHNO
    @ROBOOHNO 2 года назад +642

    That crescendo into the spit drip is probably the most genius shit I've seen on this channel. GIVE YOUR EDITOR A RAISE!!!

    • @Sravan.Allopi
      @Sravan.Allopi 2 года назад +57

      loool I'm pretty sure Aba is the editor but that shit was gold

    • @ericapaquette9624
      @ericapaquette9624 2 года назад +16

      It's like he saw two stupid people who are miserable with an agreement that they would make "beautiful" children who would be subjected to an environment of "craziness".....this is why the world is doomed 😐....

    • @5050TM
      @5050TM 2 года назад

      @@ericapaquette9624 The world has always been covered by idiots who shouldn't breed. Nothing new.

    • @eyepodoblivion1189
      @eyepodoblivion1189 2 года назад +6

      I had to keep the coffee in my mouth through that whole part and by the good grace of Jesus I didn’t spit it out onto my phone.
      Thank you Jesus.

    • @damonsghost9235
      @damonsghost9235 2 года назад +2

      @@ericapaquette9624 It's like he really saw beyond. LMFAO

  • @brianwagner8291
    @brianwagner8291 Год назад +12

    The way Preach continues just rambling to himself as the camera zooms in, the genuine sense of stupor, the immediate cut back to the video, the droplet of spit. Damn it gentleman I haven't laughed that hard in a minute!

  • @hannahelyse2671
    @hannahelyse2671 2 года назад +276

    I once broke it off with a dude who slept around, when I said "done", he heard "break". A month later when he finds out I have no intention of getting back with him, he's so shocked and confused. He can't compute the fact that I'm not putting any obligation on myself for his benefit. When you break it off with someone, it's for a reason. If you get back together down the line, that's another story for another day. You can't limit yourself when you let go. Otherwise you're not actually letting go.

    • @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps
      @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps 2 года назад +38

      This is why it’s a good idea to completely cut the person off when you break up. Block them and anyone to do directly with them from your life and never look back.

    • @MsMookalate
      @MsMookalate 2 года назад +4

      @@MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps not easy when you have kids

    • @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps
      @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps 2 года назад +25

      @@MsMookalate that’s different, I agree when kids are involved contact should be accessible but it shouldn’t encroach past anything more than the reason being the children. It’s for them.

    • @Single_moms_suck_at_life
      @Single_moms_suck_at_life 2 года назад

      Dont mistake rational decisions for a dude just trying to dip it. I used to dig out all the older numbers in a dry spell and say whatever it took to hit

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @Wakka144
    @Wakka144 2 года назад +531

    Pink hair is right, he is a cheater, but women who agree on stupid “open” relationships are setting themselves up for this nonsense. If these people want to be out having sex with anybody and everybody then let them be single. No need to be a second option while being maid service for anybody who does not value you enough to be committed to you.

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 2 года назад +30

      Yup because all you're rendered down to is being a booty call when he/she is feeling lonely.
      If you want that too then great, most of us should bail asap!

    • @5050TM
      @5050TM 2 года назад +22

      It's rare for anyone to be able to pull an open relationship off. Every woman I've seen want an open relationship has at some point been angry as hell for some kind of breach of trust that the man was just supposed to automatically know about AND they all started with the mindset of men will never stay faithful anyway so I might as well pretend to have fun too.

    • @taloutezero
      @taloutezero 2 года назад +24

      For most men who want an open relationship, the outcome won't be a bunch of 1 night stands with women he will never see again, it doesn't happen that way. He would have to find women he is attracted to and make a connection where he can have sex with them on a regular basis. Why did she think it would be as easy as it is for her? All she has to do is go outside and point at her genitals and a line will form. He actually has to put in work for it. "You can go have sex but you can't build a relationship" means he can't go have sex then. Finding a woman who will have a 1 night stand whenever he is in the mood for sex outside the relationship is not easy. If she wanted it to be that easy then she should have gone out and helped him find those 1 night stand women so he wouldn't have to build a relationship with them.

    • @warriorshedge6772
      @warriorshedge6772 2 года назад +3

      They try to manipulate the game and fail miserably

    • @aceq6207
      @aceq6207 2 года назад

      (Shout out to Darius) Pink hair is Trying to lock down the bad guy...the Chad or Tyrone that is an Ahole that all the other females want and will be desperate to do anything like open relationship to still keep him. She will continue to sleep with similar guys until she gets to her thirties. By then after she couldn't get the guy she wanted she will complain there there are no good men out there...and her clock will be ticking. By then she will be too desperate and will give that Nice Guy that she Doesn't want..she will give him a chance. She will not respect him because he is beta...so she'll give him boring starfish s.e.x...and she will not break any rules or give that new guy the option of anything open, and she will Most likely cheat on him. These girls are the majority nowadays. They will ride the carousel then find the sucker at the end as financial security..then more then likely cheat because she will still have cravings for other type of guys....Do Not be the typical knight in shining saving these used up old females with all that baggage they bring along from their past.

  • @shadow60210
    @shadow60210 2 года назад +231

    If someone is suggesting an open relationship regardless of gender, that relationship is likely already over. Because if it's being suggested that person already has someone lined up if they aren't already cheating on you. An "open relationship" is just a pass for them to do it in the open.
    Personally, I would never accept that if the topic is brought up I would likely break up with them on the spot.

    • @mayaa3648
      @mayaa3648 2 года назад +1

      but sometimes both people want an open relationship.

    • @shadow60210
      @shadow60210 2 года назад +13

      @@mayaa3648 If both parties can come to an agreement on equal terms then sure. How often that's the case I don't know. My guess is it's less often than people would like. At the end of the day if you are not happy in your relationship I see no reason to continue.
      As for me I still wouldn't accept it as it's generally a pretty raw deal for one side.

    • @godspeedhero3671
      @godspeedhero3671 2 года назад +4

      Exactly. And to be clear, poly relationships are not OPEN relationships. They are different things.

  • @keironlaer
    @keironlaer 2 года назад +13

    1:52 Meme worthy reaction 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Aba’s hilarious 😭

  • @CrisM779
    @CrisM779 2 года назад +29

    Taking a break doesn't exist in my book. That's just code for "I think I might be able to do better, but if I can't, then I want to have a place to come back to".

  • @traceydumase
    @traceydumase 2 года назад +62

    My ex said after confessing to cheating and I quote "You're too busy caring about how right you are that I in fact cheated, that you don't even see the role you played"
    Shut down that conversation down IMMEDIATELY and blocked him. Cheating will always be a personal choice. You lacking integrity and self-control as an adult has nothing to do with the next person😑

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @AhMandarine
    @AhMandarine 2 года назад +217

    Damn, Aba's eyes are as dead as Bruce Willis at the end of sixth sense

  • @brotang2953
    @brotang2953 2 года назад +100

    The crazy hair colour never lies, to want to bring a child in to this world with Aman with those qualities is exactly why the world is slowly but surely descending into hedonistic chaos.

  • @g.p.880
    @g.p.880 2 года назад +180

    Starring into Aba's eyes for 2 mins felt like we had a special connection.

    • @sabrinastarks7868
      @sabrinastarks7868 2 года назад +26

      Like the Love and Basketball kind.....🤭🙃

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @Still_Gray
      @Still_Gray 2 года назад +3

      Felt like he was staring into my soul 😅😅😅😅

  • @JT-iz7ro
    @JT-iz7ro 2 года назад +436

    There’s no such thing as a break, there’s break up. These folks are lying to themselves. Idk how many of y’all have been in this situation, but if your girl proposes this my dudes tell her how it is.

    • @genlaz1
      @genlaz1 2 года назад +23

      Ikr. Break=I'm gonna have sex with other ppl but still have you to support me. When my ex (when we were together) told me she wanted a break, I went out with someone else. She ended that sh** real quick.

    • @I-DEPRESSIONIST
      @I-DEPRESSIONIST 2 года назад +3

      Sad reality

    • @chefboiardeeznutz9881
      @chefboiardeeznutz9881 2 года назад +3

      I have. I didnt know what a "break" was. Learned the hard way.

    • @dullknifefactory
      @dullknifefactory 2 года назад +1

      There's no such thing as relationships off top anyway

    • @theblancomafia4773
      @theblancomafia4773 2 года назад +1

      Real talk

  • @AfroGl0
    @AfroGl0 2 года назад +103

    That dude is the example for why I don’t believe in open relationships. It’s usually one person who wants to do what they want and the other just agreeing because of how they feel. I’ve met with only a handful of couples that could actually pull it off.

    • @leonorpereira548
      @leonorpereira548 2 года назад +20

      Open relationship don't work if they are a cop out for an unhealthy dynamic, just like marrying someone or having a baby together could be beautiful things but they don't save unhealthy couples...

    • @prot07ype87
      @prot07ype87 2 года назад +1

      It's funny how those who advocate for "open relationships" always turn out to be degenerates.

    • @edbabine
      @edbabine 2 года назад +1

      True, These type of people have to find each other if not it doesn't work must of the time. So many story of women asking for a open R do what they have to do with multiple people. As soon as the guy find someone interesting after many days. Because We all know most guys cant just find someone like that. She decide the close the open relationship like nothing happen.

    • @wakousyremu8946
      @wakousyremu8946 2 года назад

      Wait! They do exist?

    • @diego032912
      @diego032912 2 года назад

      @@wakousyremu8946 Indeed they do

  • @yasminefaumuina3418
    @yasminefaumuina3418 2 года назад +3

    When the floors creaking their angers peaking 🤣

  • @abdullahwarsame3295
    @abdullahwarsame3295 2 года назад +348

    We finally found the person to break Aba, of all the crazy people they’ve made content of, this couple pushed him over the edge 🤣

    • @theomnidegenerate5236
      @theomnidegenerate5236 2 года назад +33

      Cuz they brought kids into it!😭

    • @stefanyuwono1909
      @stefanyuwono1909 2 года назад +37

      Ngl, Sounds like she only care about his skin color. She wants an oreo baby no matter what, so she'll tolerate his cheating ways. They're meant to be together in the worst ways possible.

    • @homelackin2234
      @homelackin2234 2 года назад

      @@stefanyuwono1909 yeah I could probably hit her up and knock her down ez pz I look like this dude except way better

    • @robofisk7625
      @robofisk7625 2 года назад

      @@stefanyuwono1909 What's an "oreo baby"?

    • @retroonxbl8187
      @retroonxbl8187 2 года назад +3

      @@robofisk7625 black and white so i’m guessing it means mixed baby

  • @krizzyiii8197
    @krizzyiii8197 2 года назад +12

    Yooo the face aba made from 10:22 til the rest of the video kilt me🤣especially while preach going off and he just staring into the camera like 🙂

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yoo Fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoyy!🙏🏾💯

  • @bassy_michaelis_666
    @bassy_michaelis_666 2 года назад +121

    The never ending audacity of cheaters 💀

    • @Hi_Tamera
      @Hi_Tamera 2 года назад +3

      Facts!! 😂

    • @marlom7882
      @marlom7882 2 года назад

      Ikr? Have to credit where it’s do: if nothing else these hoes have the fucking *gall*

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @blaisemomin1106
    @blaisemomin1106 Год назад +2

    Video so good I came back looking for it 7 months later
    Edit: video still so good, came back looking for it 14 months later

    • @Redd_Hare
      @Redd_Hare Год назад +1

      Aba looks like he's the one who got cheated on🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @BeckiBoo_TheShiba-inu
    @BeckiBoo_TheShiba-inu 2 года назад +87

    She didn’t kill Aba… The shroom on his shoulder kicked in, and Ab’s is just enjoying the ride.

    • @Atlas-sv3vm
      @Atlas-sv3vm 2 года назад +5

      Nah he have the mushroom shirt and they are trippin

    • @Pssst.ByTheWay
      @Pssst.ByTheWay 2 года назад

      Dont know if „enjoying“ is the right word

    • @BeckiBoo_TheShiba-inu
      @BeckiBoo_TheShiba-inu 2 года назад

      @@Pssst.ByTheWay lol yeah I guess tripping is a better choice of words.

    • @Pssst.ByTheWay
      @Pssst.ByTheWay 2 года назад +2

      @@BeckiBoo_TheShiba-inu 🤝. horror tripping, the demons are apon us

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoyy!🙏🏾💯

  • @Browser404
    @Browser404 2 года назад +15

    Those noisey ass floor boards still at it @9:50 🤣🤣🤣

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yoo Fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoyy!🙏🏾💯

  • @MEWilliamsEsq
    @MEWilliamsEsq 2 года назад +337

    "I ain't no cheater, but don't push me." 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

    • @wasiegwebu3371
      @wasiegwebu3371 2 года назад +5

      -Meek mill, LOL i like that Promises song 😂😂😂😂

    • @adnanomer9089
      @adnanomer9089 2 года назад +25

      "revenge is the sweetest thing next to getting p**sy" work perfectly here 😂😂🤣

    • @brothermartin1622
      @brothermartin1622 2 года назад +10

      @@wasiegwebu3371 *2 pac

    • @howtwobl3560
      @howtwobl3560 2 года назад +1

      Cause fucking is the sweetest joy next to eating cookies
      Rip tu fat

    • @wasiegwebu3371
      @wasiegwebu3371 2 года назад

      @@brothermartin1622 no way Pac said that??

  • @Zachary-
    @Zachary- 2 года назад +3

    Preach man, don't change for anyone. I love the way you say "parameters". Stay you, bro.

  • @imanitucker4023
    @imanitucker4023 2 года назад +68

    Her: We would have the most beautiful babies.
    Aba's brain: WE WERE ROOTING FOR YOU, WE WERE ALL ROOTING FOR YOU!!!

  • @k1ll3rcombo25
    @k1ll3rcombo25 2 года назад +281

    getting cheated on is the reason i dont want to get into a relationship ever again. this day and age, it just seems too easy a thing for people. the internet has connected everyone, for good or bad. the bad being, people no longer seem to commit when they can literally find whatever they want across the keyboard and do so discreetly enough that no one might know for a long time or until the person themselves reveals is.

    • @wakousyremu8946
      @wakousyremu8946 2 года назад +21

      Mental health. For real though, work on yourself and the people you have relationships with. And remind yourself that everything is a relationship just don't confuse a simplistic feeling with life long commitment. Wish you well 🙏

    • @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps
      @MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps 2 года назад +22

      Honestly not everyone is like that - yes there is a lot of disloyal scumbags out there but there’s also plenty of people who are good and want exactly the same as you.
      If you meet the right person you will naturally trust them without effort, you’ll be at complete ease and know that they won’t do it to you. You’ll never feel insecure like that at all.
      However, if you want that experience which is the most wonderful thing, you have to be willing to get to know people and let them in.
      It’s better to be alone than with the wrong person but it’s 100x better to be with the right person than be alone.
      People are what truly add value to your life so make sure to try and not cut yourself off from others or assume the worst about everyone or you might let an opportunity for what you deeply want pass you by which is even worse.
      Just remember that no matter what happens you can mend and also every experience is great for learning from and the more you progress in life the greater the reward.

    • @Foodeater199
      @Foodeater199 2 года назад +10

      This is very true. I am in a relationship with a woman right now and i have these thoughts sometimes. Sometimes i think it’s better to ignore your fears and trust the person until they give you a reason otherwise. People can change and you can change. Act like you would want your significant other to act. Me and her have no social media and she’s 21 and I’m 24. I deleted all of it 3 years ago because i realized i couldn’t keep looking for a strong connection to someone who had all of those apps, it’s inevitable someone that has social media will be tempted to be entertained by someone else. And i don’t party anymore, we have a lot of the same values and that’s what i think makes it work. You can’t find a good girl in the club or bar, online is hard too but i found her on hinge. it’s difficult but don’t let being afraid stop you from looking.

    • @mikex5984
      @mikex5984 2 года назад +4

      Don’t let that ruin love for you. Find someone trustworthy you won’t have to worry about that

    • @Single_moms_suck_at_life
      @Single_moms_suck_at_life 2 года назад +4

      I was here at one point. The solution? Don't take it so seriously. Assume you can't trust anyone and be ready to break it off when your boundary is crossed. You dont expect your car to last forever. You know your roof will leak sooner or later. Stuff goes bad sometime, you just gotta fix or replace and say fuggid.

  • @jasminejanelle1228
    @jasminejanelle1228 2 года назад +50

    Took 2 breaks, 2 different relationships entirely, never-fucking-again. We talk and work it out or we're done. That is all.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @MPK112233
    @MPK112233 2 года назад +1

    The zooms in this video were particularly funny. I love this channel

  • @Mr.Rogers91
    @Mr.Rogers91 2 года назад +66

    In my experience taking a break just means the person who wanted to breakup just couldn't put their foot down and make it happen. While the other person just couldn't accept the fact its over and can't let go.

    • @BecomingVonnie
      @BecomingVonnie 2 года назад +2

      Truth

    • @JCPRuckus
      @JCPRuckus 2 года назад +4

      Nah, it means the person who wanted the breakup wanted to keep the other person on the hook and faithful while they out in the streets. They want to try and keep the power of a relationship without having responsibilities of one.

    • @BecomingVonnie
      @BecomingVonnie 2 года назад

      @@JCPRuckus sometimes the other way around too. I was in that situation before

    • @JCPRuckus
      @JCPRuckus 2 года назад

      @@BecomingVonnie - If someone wants to "put their foot down", then they do it. If they don't do it, it's because they think there's something to be gained by not doing it. Usually that thing is a backup plan, but sometimes it's just the joy of having someone under their thumb. I mean, there can always be weird outliers. But most of the time it's about control without responsibility.

    • @BecomingVonnie
      @BecomingVonnie 2 года назад

      @@JCPRuckus I feel, to be honest I have notice that I had a control issue due to trust or lack there of. However, I’ve been working on it, owning up to it and therapy.

  • @BSideRapReviews
    @BSideRapReviews 2 года назад +74

    When Aba did the bird sound and Preach said “what happened to that girl” referencing the Birdman song…that was a 10/10 response and and it didn’t get enough love 😂😂😂

    • @groovesoulfm
      @groovesoulfm 2 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 agreed

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @zachcarrington9452
      @zachcarrington9452 2 года назад +1

      I was fucking dying after that

    • @BigLoloFrmDaO
      @BigLoloFrmDaO 2 года назад

      Oh shit😭😭😭 Pusha T

  • @melaniekay6745
    @melaniekay6745 2 года назад +136

    There no such thing as a “break.” Either you’re in it, and you work through the issues, or you’re not.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @brandonlee0071
    @brandonlee0071 2 года назад +1

    Yoh Abas whole soul at 9:06 was screaming "WE WERE ALL ROOTING FOR, HOW DARE YOU!!"🗣🗣😂😂😂 I think he went to the 5th dimension tried to evaluate everything that just occurred he saw from when him and preach started th channel and everything and then came back and the rest of the video he was re-downloading 😂😂😂😭

  • @AdisaCar
    @AdisaCar 2 года назад +73

    I took a break in a relationship when I was about 20, it was just delaying the inevitable. When I’m gone, I’m gone now. Time is too precious to hang around someone you don’t want or doesn’t want you

    • @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm
      @TrafalgarWaterDLaw-dl5cm 2 года назад +6

      Its what i learned too. Breaks are a waste of time.
      As two people in love you should respectfuly make room.for some distance to calm and reflect when things get to much. But also come back together and talk like two adults, to find solutions together as a team.
      If it doesnt work out, or the partner shows no effort and interest to do better together. Leave.

    • @dapras
      @dapras 2 года назад

      Facts

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @Loni91
    @Loni91 2 года назад +176

    Ratio: Aba’s droplet of drool to Preach’s facial expressions…priceless

    • @oso2935
      @oso2935 2 года назад

      RIGHT 🤣🤣

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +1

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @gabriellerobinson5829
    @gabriellerobinson5829 2 года назад +94

    "We're gonna have the most beautiful children you'll ever see"
    Aba: *goes into a vegetative state*😂

    • @Wakka144
      @Wakka144 2 года назад +5

      But she is not even that pretty lol

    • @AriXBerrie
      @AriXBerrie 2 года назад +15

      @@Wakka144 she’s literally only saying that cause the kids would be mixed, that’s why aba lost it lol I would too.

    • @Hi_Tamera
      @Hi_Tamera 2 года назад

      This is what happens when the opposite ethnicity just see you as a fetish. Those biracial kids are going to grow up being anti-black 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @TehProBandit
      @TehProBandit 2 года назад

      @@AriXBerrie I think it’s more to do with the fact that she’s still willing to bring children into this world with a dysfunctional retard of a “boyfriend”. Some people really shouldn’t be having kids. But sure go off on the race thing 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @marlom7882
      @marlom7882 2 года назад

      @@AriXBerrie geez where are people getting this from? You’re the 2nd person to say that about her

  • @BOROUSKI
    @BOROUSKI 2 года назад +1

    subscribed the second they started walking around when they reacting to sumn crazy, thaz just like me fr

  • @RelaxingUnderYourSkin
    @RelaxingUnderYourSkin 2 года назад +243

    1- We shook our heads at the exact same time🤣.
    2- I honestly was with Pink hair from the beginning. Her body language showed so much hurt, while his was the opposite. Then the open relationship thing, I was like uuggh dang, you kinda set yourself up for that. Open is open, Idc what ground rules are set, people break simple rules daily. Even within monogamous relationship there are spats when “rules are broken” (boundaries are crossed,) what makes anyone think this arrangement would be any different. Then she said.. she said.. sonnnofabih🤭😐😐😐😐

    • @xXxsexybelledonnaxXx
      @xXxsexybelledonnaxXx 2 года назад +7

      That’s certainly a very logical way of seeing the situation

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +1

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @elizabethroberts8270
      @elizabethroberts8270 2 года назад +10

      You. Are. A. Cheaterrrr. But I can't wait to have kids witchu

    • @yannicksibilly
      @yannicksibilly 2 года назад +2

      True! I've been in an open relationship before, and even me, willing to respect the rules, I couldn't do it every single time.
      But the thing is my ex didn't respect them at all, but reminding me the rules from time to time!
      So yeah, open is open and you can't do anything about it, so if it's not for you, just don't do it.

    • @scribbles1424
      @scribbles1424 2 года назад +2

      Was with her too until she mentioned the kids which just sounded... off.

  • @skydemolisher
    @skydemolisher 2 года назад +452

    Every partner that I had that has asked for a "break" already had someone else they wanted to try out during it, even if it was agreed that we don't see anyone else in the agreed time of a break. (Usually 1 week, 2 tops, otherwise whats the point). I'm happy to give a person space to figure out their head and life and think about whether we are working, but for all of them it was a break to see if the other guy was gonna give them a "better" life. (They didn't but thats not my problem coz I wasn't gonna be 2nd choice).

    • @traveltoexplore814
      @traveltoexplore814 2 года назад

      yeah m8, never accept that, if they want a break, go take the full break, im not accept you back after you fuck around.

    • @pennyproud1621
      @pennyproud1621 2 года назад +42

      A reason I don't agree with breaks. We either over or we not. And there is no back and forth, on and off. You don't need to break up to find out if the relationship is working it clearly is not perfect or plain not working if you had to come up with a break from it which is just a fancy way of saying, " I want to break up but want you to wait on me in case the break up doesn't workout for me". I don't do breaks and let my s.o know that early on. Grown ppl should not be going on breaks from relationships. That's some teenager childish shhh.

    • @Hemestal
      @Hemestal 2 года назад +15

      Breaks are shit, you are either In or you are not, that's why I give no second chances, if the relationship is in such a bad shape that one or both partners feel like they need time off to go do someone else then they might as well call it quits all together and stop wasting precious time.

    • @AnimosityIncarnate
      @AnimosityIncarnate 2 года назад

      Monkey branching is immoral as fuck, I would just break up and never talk to them ever again. I can't even fathom a reality where I'd have another person lined up. I'd be out of a relationship for months before I would find a possible other match it every realtionship I've ever been in. Forcing your partner to stay with you while you're already checked out is an awful character trait and I hope these people all die alone lol

    • @valico6246
      @valico6246 2 года назад +1

      Breaks don’t have to always be like that tho

  • @kslikk34
    @kslikk34 2 года назад +144

    Preach walking off and leaving Aba staring into the camera was priceless 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @MrTickleTrunk
      @MrTickleTrunk 2 года назад +15

      And even knowing the head shake was coming made it funnier the longer it went... you KNOW that was coming 😂🤣😂🤣

    • @anthonym840
      @anthonym840 2 года назад +10

      Aba: My disappointment is immeasurable.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @Foxblinde
    @Foxblinde 2 года назад +3

    The face that says, "I'm not mad. I'm just disappointed."

  • @kazzuo32
    @kazzuo32 2 года назад +7

    4:50 Abba's face are my thoughts exactly.

  • @gavenace3667
    @gavenace3667 2 года назад +362

    My first relationship was extremely off and on because anything there was a fight or we felt uncomfortable with one another we’d immediately break it off. Then one of us would come crawling back and we’d be accepted in open arms. Taking a break solved nothing for us cause all the problems were still there. I find that there’s no point in taking a break as it’s more of an excuse to either check your options and be disloyal or to think out if you want to be in a relationship without daring to include the other person you’re with. Taking a break is often, if not always, used as a one way street so if that’s happening then most likely the entire relationship is just one way. Suffice to say, no relationship should just be one way because the whole point of one is to bring two people close together and care about one another.

    • @ptolemeeselenion1542
      @ptolemeeselenion1542 2 года назад +4

      Yep.

    • @pulsaran
      @pulsaran 2 года назад +7

      If you take a "break" in a relationship and both have not learned anything its no use continuing it.

    • @cripz1436
      @cripz1436 2 года назад +18

      My ex asked me for a "break" I told her I don't do breaks, why not work with each other to solve our issues or compromise. She broke up with me and I am grateful for that

    • @vegetokm1348
      @vegetokm1348 2 года назад

      @@cripz1436 same and the bitch wanted the break to see someone else with who she is now

    • @tubblestop414
      @tubblestop414 2 года назад

      It does though. Worked for me. Hsbsvsu

  • @MrSharp14
    @MrSharp14 2 года назад +4

    2:15 perfect bird call, “what happened to that…” moment 😂😂😂

  • @KumoriFox
    @KumoriFox 2 года назад +11

    This man was so broken that he stopped and drooled a bit XD. Ending was perfect too. Keep doing good work fellas.

  • @silvercloud5344
    @silvercloud5344 2 года назад +96

    12:20 Rest In Peace Aba. August 28, 2022. The day that Aba changed forever and was never the same. You will be missed 😭.

    • @MsMookalate
      @MsMookalate 2 года назад +2

      It was more like 9:05 but yes 🤣😂🤣😂😅

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +1

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoyy!🙏🏾💯

  • @anonymoususer4866
    @anonymoususer4866 2 года назад +41

    I remember when my exhusband would pick arguments and fights, usually right before the weekend, so he would feel justified in cheating on me even when we were married and the disagreement lasted just a day or two. Cheaters justify their bs all the time.

    • @zanderzaza4947
      @zanderzaza4947 2 года назад

      Facts, they think all is well after letting another individual share bodily fluids and come home like nothing happen, I never understood how ppl can be so evil, my ex gf would justify sleeping with a coworker at the department of justice in Sacramento , she even was seen at bars where ppl I knew worked , I got brain cancer and she left me even after I forgave her …Just to sleep with ghetto guys from the neighborhood.. special place in hell for ppl like her .(she lost her job at DOJ and the guy had a wife and newborn baby she was cheating with )dude worked for doj named Richard hayes.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @lasithajayawardana9559
    @lasithajayawardana9559 2 года назад +11

    Silence is good, but when I saw the end I just had to rewind to 11:38 and play Vienna Philharmonic - Barber: Adagio for Strings, Op.11 (Summer Night Concert 2019) and it fit perfectly.

  • @abrahammontes2361
    @abrahammontes2361 Год назад +4

    if confusion, chaos, and contradiction were a video, that was it

  • @ducknwater3016
    @ducknwater3016 2 года назад +32

    If you feel like you need to cheat, just break up. Cheating is just evil and lame

    • @marlom7882
      @marlom7882 2 года назад +5

      And the *audacity* to say “you pushed me to cheat”. I’d need to be put in jail for assault and battery

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @ptolemeeselenion1542
    @ptolemeeselenion1542 2 года назад +130

    Poor Aba. Now he knows awfully well how Preach and all of us has been FEELING. 😂

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @chado.machado
    @chado.machado 2 года назад +51

    Aba is really gifted in seeing through people. 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @nhlakaniphobanele3053
    @nhlakaniphobanele3053 2 года назад +38

    Gents the way you guys reason has taken my emotional intelligences to the next level things don't trigger me like before and I appreciate you guys for that

  • @daikaiser9394
    @daikaiser9394 2 года назад +7

    11:43 "All around me are familiar faces, worn-out places, worn-out faces"

  • @thorgeist
    @thorgeist 2 года назад +97

    “We would make the most beautiful babies” Aba just lost all hope for humanity 🤣

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад +1

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

    • @adelhelma6015
      @adelhelma6015 2 года назад

      I genuinely dont get whats wrong with this statement, can you explain please?

    • @FennyWhopper
      @FennyWhopper 2 года назад +3

      @@adelhelma6015 it's the context. She's with a man who is violating her boundaries, willing to cheat on her in a heartbeat and flat out pretty toxic. But instead of leaving, she is staying because of the thought of kids. She's being treated wrong but doesn't want to be saved so you can't do anything about it

    • @gswonlocks
      @gswonlocks 2 года назад

      @@adelhelma6015 her saying that, means she is aware shell be bringing a child into a fkd ip relationship cubz they’d be the “most beautiful “ shes fetishizing the fact hes black and theyd have lightskin kids and she over looked the fact hes a cheater for it

    • @helenoftroy6265
      @helenoftroy6265 2 года назад

      @@adelhelma6015 She’s being extremely selfish, “we will have beautiful babies” as in aesthetics, she’s continuing in this toxicity for a chance to bring children into this mess because they will “at least be beautiful”. Which that statement in itself is problematic because of people fetishizing having biracial children like they’re shopping for dog breeds when they’re bringing whole human beings into the world, a world that they will have to help them navigate.

  • @yahmicah4294
    @yahmicah4294 2 года назад +27

    9:10 Aba stared into the void for a moment. It’s interesting to see that these guests were so wild that there’s no pin of shame. We all mutually agree that they crazy

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @jackiej6233
    @jackiej6233 2 года назад +186

    Be proud, Pinkie. You brought this man closer to the edge than anyone else has in a long time, from what I've seen.
    You still need therapy, though.

  • @pegleg2959
    @pegleg2959 2 года назад +99

    Both of you guys are on fire in this video. Didn't stop laughing beginning to end. lmao

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @jasminejanelle1228
    @jasminejanelle1228 2 года назад +5

    It's Preach's Face @2:09 for me XDDDDD in addition to "So we're on a break" XDDDD

  • @LivinwithPat
    @LivinwithPat 2 года назад +10

    9:22 aba face is his ptsd coming back with all thee girls he messed with in the past

  • @sajohnson09
    @sajohnson09 2 года назад

    2:15, it took me a minute, but preach for me in stitches, I be forgetting all about that clipse and birdman.

  • @fatalisentertainment4631
    @fatalisentertainment4631 2 года назад +42

    I've done a break before. One time and we got together after a week and went back to breaking up. The lesson I learned was if you're going to leave, LEAVE. That bouncing back and fourth just hurts you both and makes a f******* up situation even worse.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @edub2689
    @edub2689 2 года назад +56

    I believe my definition of break isn't the same as theirs. When I say break, I usually mean time apart from each other while not looking for a new partner. Like we are around each other "All" the time, and we need to physically not be around each other for a while. When you oversaturate each other's time, the time spent together no longer feels as special.

    • @joeandrew8752
      @joeandrew8752 2 года назад +22

      I just thought that's asking for some alone time. Break sounds too harsh for that. Just my opinion.

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range of other content and I’m still working on quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoy!🙏🏾💯

  • @TheRealDEMAND
    @TheRealDEMAND 2 года назад +22

    “I’m a cheater, but you pushed me to that” Bruh, that statement made me wanna slap him through the screen so bad 😆

    • @ItzMalick
      @ItzMalick 2 года назад

      Yo fam I’m a small content creator, and I make a variety of entertaining reactions, vlogs, and a range Of other content and I’m still working On quality but I guarantee you will find something you will enjoyy!🙏🏾💯

  • @reginaldbradfield7224
    @reginaldbradfield7224 2 года назад +2

    Can we get the end video music back? I enjoyed the music and artist selections.