You know whats scary though? How many women actually resort to hitting, kicking, slapping, pushing, etc. I know soooo many women in my life who have at one time or another hit their partner and have just shrugged it off. It seems to be a foreign concept to a lot of women to simply talk things out or take a moment, calm down, and then come back with a level head. I don't understand why it's so difficult to keep hands off one another. I'm so happy that I have control over my emotions and don't resort to violence against my husband and I'm so thankful he has the same control over himself. Ladies and gentlemen, please keep your hands to yourself and think before you act. These are peoples sons, daughters, bothers, and sisters. You wouldn't want someone hitting your son or daughter in a relationship, so use that same logic in your own.
İ ended the 5 year relationship with a girl who punched me in the face when we first met. She also cheated, lied about every important person in her life including her parents, and made me lose a big oppurtunity. İ punched her in the end tough haha.
Oh please, you don't know anything about their relationship. Who are you to say the relationship was healthy except for her or only due to her. Of course she's unhealthy. But don't assume that's the only reason the relationship wasn't healthy because you were not there. If a woman made that kind of assumption you would say she's 'being emotional not logical' or something misogynistic. Get over yourself.
@@missNCW She hit him in the ribs with her high heels and was completely nonchalant about it. She also admitted to being violent. She didn't say anything about him. The fact that you're defending an abusive person is kind of an issue, but hey. You'll defend abusive people any day as long as they're women, right?
100% agree. When you're scrolling through twitter and see all these illogical people having contradicting opinions in contrast, these two ar just such a breath of fresh air. It shows me again. "Stop copying others opinions 1 x 1 just because they have cloud or some shit, think for yourself!"
MinishMilly I deleted twitter because of the awful liberal bias a year ago. Look at it now lol. Trump is even trying to pass law against them it’s so bad.
TM Ya... I was watching their recents and it’s so bad. They don’t even understand what the movement is calling for. It’s right there on the BLM website that they want the cops to be defunded and to resign.
The two best definitions of cheating that I've heard (and live by) are: 1) would you do what you're about to do if your significant other was right there watching and 2) if the situation was switched, would you be angry if you saw your significant other doing what you're doing.
honestly! like i’m not a jealous person, so idk how applicable the first one is, but i def get it. i also just think that cheating is super relative, bc to some ppl having friends of the opp sex is cheating, and to others, not even sleeping with someone else is cheating.
@@katelynsousa6591 There are degrees of cheating and more often than not it's about intent. I'm not cool with my girlfriend sleeping in the same room as some rando - mainly because i dont trust them or know them enough to trust them, even if she does. I'm totally cool with her sleeping in the same bedroom as my best bud because I've known that man for 10 years and i trust both of them. Personally, I'm cool with flirting as long as it's intended and taken as a joke [i do this with my guy friends and my girl friends alike]. But when it's something said as a 'joke' - said jokingly trying to bait out potential interest then I'm not cool with that. That's abusing the trust I've given them to try and cheat on me. I typically use the 2nd version Hayley wrote. It's hard to see from your own perspective sometimes, but looking at it from their point of view makes sense as to why they'd be upset. Even if you've had a plutonic relationship with this friend for X amount of years - if your partner isnt aware of that, or doesnt trust them, then it's understandable why they'd be upset.
@@katelynsousa6591 I think the first one mainly pertains to respect in a relationship. Like you, I'm not a very jealous person, but there have definitely situations where I said, "Would you be doing that if your significant other was standing right there?" Two examples from my life (one male, one female): I was at a college party with a friend's girlfriend who I was getting to know and she was all over this guy she had just met. I mean, she was touching him, saying how hot he was, the whole nine yards. It was really uncomfortable to watch and I just told her that it wasn't cool because she was in a serious committed relationship and I knew how he would have felt seeing it. Then one time I was hanging out with a group of friends and acquaintances and one of the guys was all over me. It made me so uncomfortable because he knew that I was in a relationship and I knew he had a girlfriend and she was at work. I tried to be polite and move towards other friends because I didn't want the attention. Finally, I had to call my boyfriend at the time to come so this guy would stop. When I encountered him again, this time with his girlfriend, he was prim and proper and she had no idea that he had done that the other night. So I think the biggest thing is to try and define lines as much as is possible, but if you're in a grey area, default to thinking about how your partner would feel. I liked your comment, though. I really enjoy having dialogue with others : )
But she is not ok with it. In her defense she admits it was an unhealthy relationship, so she is accepting her actions were unacceptable. Edit: I never said this makes it ok, or that is all forgiven, I’m simply pointing out she admits a wrong doing. And yes, a man would be in Jail.
My thoughts: Dude said he wasn't dating anyone because he wanted to keep the door open for his ex. He definitely hoped this conversation rekindled something.
I think his unresolved emotions towards the situation kinda caused him to impulsively lie. Like theres tons of people who impulsively lie when emotionally pressured.
@@kanikagaral7637 Hey Kanika, it's a poor self defense move as generally people go off balance to take of their shoes and most situations don't give you time to prepare. I actually advise most people not to wear high heels when out on the town, as it can slow you down when you need to be fast. Also I'm a firm advocate of learning how to fight instead of doing three or four self defense courses. Not because I make more money but because it takes time to learn how to fight and get the muscle memory.
I have never been in a relationship so I don't really know but I think that you can be "friends" in the sense that you are friendly with them and check up on them from time to time But I feel like always hanging around is a lot more difficult
Whenever i’m honest with my girl and she gets hurt i always hear Aba’s voice telling me “It’s okay, at least you were honest” and i instantly feel better
@@sharnya8332 At least he has integridy and is blunt and honest, that is a rare traut nowadays. Most people can't handle the truth. Rather that, then to lie to people all the time and put on a mask, just because they want some false company. That is a girl thing and can be seen ever so often.
@@DomeLP09 what I think is being overlooked here is a general sense of empathy. You can tell the truth without completely wrecking somebody or tearing them down. Most people want to walk that line. It's not a noble act to be overly blunt and rude with the truth, in fact, in most cases that could be seen as emotional immaturity. Most people would rather be told the truth than a lie, but the choices aren't black and white. You can be accommodating with the truth.
I think they mean, she is in a relationship during the recording of this video and due to doing this and them opening up, they believe that she broke up with her BF afterwards to give the old relationship another shot.
@@joshuarainey7559 The guy was the one who had to break up with his then gf(he was dating someone else during the video)because he lied during the first part. When asked about "Was he dating someone?" He said,"No". Anybody would be mad if their significant other lied about not being in a relationship on internet in front of the whole world.
@@tanjimhasan2813 I get why the other girl broke up with him. She probably saw the video of him ignoring her existence and said he loves and misses his ex. I'd be pissed too.
She has probably been putting it on him for years and this is the first time she accepted responsibility. There was healing in that look, and a bit of forgiveness if I am not mistaken.
That’s what he thought he needed to hear but what that man needs is to get her out of his life. His reactionary was heart breaking cause you could tell how she damaged him
Just for a second, imagine the following exchange between the first couple: Him: So when did you know it was over? Her: When you broke my ribs with your fist. Him: Yeah, we didn't have a healthy relationship. Her: Fo sho. And everyone laughs.
And the thing she would change in their relationship is her “being violent and super aggressive” towards her partner I wish he wouldn’t have even came on the show with her
I love how the women spoke about physically abusing and being extremely violent against her boyfriend so nonchalantly. But if he said that about her he would be in prison behind bars instantly in a blink of an eye. But yea men have all the privilege.....gimmie a break
i don’t believe in all that “men are the most opressed” bs that people say but yeah women shouldn’t be able to to just be abusive and get away with it that easily.
@@JoeMama-tw6gu Never heard anyone say "Men are the most oppressed". Is that a strawman argument? It's just as BS as saying "women are the most oppressed"..
PapaDragon [ML Tank Tutorials] yes i have heard people say that between men and women, men are the most oppressed. they say being a woman is easy because it’s easier to find a partner.
My eyes went so huge when I read that because I actually imagined it, then I started laughing because why does he sound so chilled about it? Like what? I'm shocked. Then I realized that that is what the lady actually did and now I'm horrified
Of course she says “we didn’t have a healthy relationship”after she admitted to hitting him. Also I hate how casually women can just admit to hitting men and face no consequences. “Take accountability” Women: “No, No I don’t think I will.” (Don’t put ur hands on anyone male or female)
I've seen some of the defense from some women saying "oh no, I can't even hurt him like that, women are weaker and if you strike back you can hurt her like how are you going to hit a woman just because she slapped you!!". How about people stop putting hands on others. Why feel the need to hit someone in the first place.
Men are physically stronger than women, generally, that’s why it’s more accepted. It depends on the size of the people. Like the saying goes, “pick on someone your own size”. People get mad when someone big picks on someone small, which often will be the case with a man and woman. Of course if a ripped body builder lady goes and beats on a 5’4” 140 lb man, ofc EVERYONE would be mad about that. Some average 5’4” woman doesn’t have a chance against a 200lb man. It depends on their stature. It doesn’t make it right, but it’s not going to heavily hurt or injure that man in most cases. That is why in a lot of ACTUAL assault cases of women against a man, you will see her using a weapon, like a knife because her own physical body could hardly inflict damage. In most domestic violence cases a man doesn’t need to use a weapon because just using his own fists will do her bloody. And before you come at me, “but men and women are the same” argument. No they’re not, they’re physically different. I’m not with that BS. So therefore they face different consequences when getting into physical altercations with each other.
man and the fact that because they are physically weaker they feel the need to use a weapon or go for a weakpoint. Which causes too much damamge and is reckless. I hate how mainstream and common it is of a woman hitting a man and you especially see slapping (which idc how weak or strong you are if you get slapped in the face by somebody with intent shit will hurt)
@@saludosalsol that was the most stupid thing said in a smart way LMAO so in your theory if a tiny woman kills a man she should face less punishment because she is small and weak doesn't matter your size wrong is wrong doesn't matter your gender wrong is wrong maybe you were saying the same thing as me but you said in a bad way.
Could you imagine if the question was posed to the guy: "If you could do it over again, what would you change?" and he answered he wouldn't be so violent and aggressive. She didn't even apologize she just laughed. Men getting abused is either funny or no big deal to most.
Lack of education on long term effects of domestic abuse. I genuinely believe they should teach kids about toxic relationship red flags and conflict resolution skills in schools. Far too many of my friends of both genders view their absolutely toxic relationships and abuse within them as normal fighting
@@MorganCPaige Same here, I've seen people view it as a normal relationship because they've become so involved in the arguments and fighting that they forget what a normal relationship is like and expect abuse and manipulation to be the norm. We'd be doing a lot better across the board if we could teach people to be aware of toxicity and how to curb it, or healthily deal with arguments. Usually with less yelling and more talking because when everyone is yelling, no one is listening.
Yes buts it's good to hear anyone say they wouldn't be violent and aggressive if that's the truth because they learned better. We want people to learn.
@@toomanyrads3827 Yep. She subtly offloaded some of the blame for the abuse onto him. Although, if she had actual examples of his unhealthy behavior, she'd list it without hesitation.
Karma is a bitch literally. Violence does not happen at random in relationships. At least not too often. Shit leads up to it. Breaking points and stressers etc. 9/10 if I see a female slap or hit a man I first think what did he do? lol societal karma is a bitch. Men were doing this shit for decades is it really a stretch to see that the products of that can be female too? Come one now. Im surprised that there arent more female murderers to be honest lol
Imagine if he said “the moment I hit you in the ribs” the atmosphere in that room would change real quick. There’d probably a squad of ppl running to her to take her away from the situation in less than 10 seconds. But since it’s her it’s whatever no one cares.
Because in the public's eyes, A man can defend himself from a woman whereas a woman cannot defend herself from a man. Due to genetics and whatnot. This being said, I'm in NO way saying its ok for a woman to hit a man. At all.
@@queenb9668 In the eyes of the public, the woman is always the victim. Even when the court of law says she's the culprit, the public still says she's the victim.
@@queenb9668 if a man defends himself not to be hit on the head, chest or balls in the eye of bystanders or authorities is gonna look like he’s attacking her.
you can stab someone with high heels shoes... Girl : " yeah our relationship wasn't healthy... *laugh awkwardly*" Really ? you just call that unhealthy ? 🤦♀️
@@crimsonhawk4912 you want something even weirder ? I'm a activist for women's right 😂 but it doesn't mean not making women accountable for their actions. In no case should women be better than men or get away with things men would be sent to jail for. Being a feminist should NOT be about pushing men down. If women are equal to men ... they are equal in the good AND bad situations.
Man the guy in the blue shirt has me almost to tears. To say that he regrets whatever he did would be the understatement of the millennium. I can almost feel the regret spewing from his body. I can see it in his eyes and hear it in his voice. You can’t fake that kind of emotion. You just can’t. I hope he’s able to make peace with himself and move forward. But yeah I agree with Aba, this was definitely not the right time or place to talk about this. You know shit just got real when laughs and jokes turn into tears and vulnerable exchange.
Nah man, fuck that dude. Could you imagine if you saw your girlfriend on a show like this, trying to get back with her ex bf saying all the things he said. I for one would want to vomit if I pulled up this video and saw my gf doing what he did. Sure he felt bad for doing the one girl dirty, but had absolutely 0 forethought to be considerate of his current partners feelings. “Are you seeing someone” “No I’m not” that guy is a serial psychopath who only cares about his own pleasure. The women are so smart to be getting as far away from him as possible. Look at his dumbass outfit, hes off doing lsd and shrooms to figure out why his relationships keep failing instead of going to therapy and admitting he’s a cheater that needs to stop
"When did you know it was over?" - "When you shoved your high heel into my ribs" - "lol, yeah we didn't really have a healthy relationship did we?" Reverse the gender roles on this one for a good double-standard chuckle.
I'm glad you brought up the term about dating, I wish words like that and courting and hook up need to be clarified for the general public. I hope you do a video on one. lol
One takeaway from your channel (I'm on a mini binge) is that I'm able to look at my approach to dating differently. I used to think showing genuine interest in a guy was weakness or seemed needy. Now am brave enough to approach men in a respectful way and not be scared of constantly have to maintain the myth of the almighty woman who's never thirsty or always seems above everything else. I've met a great dude since and its great.
Don’t let too many women in on this secret 😂 most dudes who got their shit together don’t approach no one and just stay outta the way these days so it’s like that. We gotta be approached or else we good just working and playing the game.
@@DopinSmoke Literally every man whom I felt was a genuine prize, I went after him. It's a gut feeling that tells you "you HAVE to try" because good men don't come too often and the chances that he wants you too in this moment couldn't be higher. I pride myself in knowing how to choose them so going after a man like that never feels degrading, they're appreciative and very kind even when they're not interested.
kinda worried about the dude in the red honestly... the way she says they’re going out doesn’t sound like he’s got an option.. and she alrdy admitted to being abusive..? 😬
The dude with the regret...I feel his pain 100%. I've had numerous relationships since my ex wife, but I miss her with all my heart. I fvcked up though, I'll never have her back.
Ah fuck I feel the same dude except I couldn’t get into in a relationship anymore due to the fact I don’t feel the same anymore & I have been single since 2018.
VanGough - You can have you cake & eat it too with the right partner. Also, there are many cakes, many slices, and many bites. Everyone truly has cake and eats it throughout their entire lives. Whenever they want cake, they literally just bake or go buy one. So people do have their cake, and eat it, whenever they want, if they want it. I never understood that analogy, it is inaccurate when compared to the situation. If anything, most people share their cake, and can almost never eat a whole one by themselves before it goes bad, you can also freeze slices of that cake to eat it later. So yes, you CAN have your cake and eat it too. 🥳
I feel the same way about my ex boyfriend. I bought a lot of emotional baggage from childhood trauma which is my fault for getting into a relationship without resolving it in therapy. I wish I met him after I worked through my issues. I caused him a lot of stress and bought him down with my emotionally baggage.
A. Wyatt Mann so allowing my lady to hit me with a heel and then buy her whatever she wants? Then watch as my best friend comes in the house and makes out with her as they use me as their floor mat? Gotcha.
Next time a woman jokes about abuse towards men, I’ll tell her “lol you deserve an abusive boyfriend”. I don’t know any other way for it to click in a person’s head that it’s not okay.
@@john_67 ok I haven't watched the video in a while. Where they at a party or something? I mean I did say that I see why its suspicious. But there is a chance he was just drunk and tired and didnt really think about the fact that there was a girl in there.
@Stella Vi-ura maybe. I'm not sure. Probably depends on what type of woman ig. Like if ot was like a quiet girl I would probably say the same thing. But if it was some loud annoying bish then no. But somewhere in the middle.. idk.
Nailed it / 10 Also, there's a reason High Heels are called 'stilettos' (for those who don't know, a stiletto is a long, slender knife). Hitting someone with those could cause some serious damage.
Very bold and brave of her to admit assaulting him with a heel and hitting him with it in his rib, the fact she also laughs about it, makes me sick. You cannot laugh about domestic abuse, man or woman idc you do not do this in a relationship, if you're in a toxic relationship then you get out of it, this bich crazy.
@@RasenRendanX i meant to say it in a sarcastic way, honestly anyone who admits to abusing their partner they must have some serious guts to tell the whole world : "HEY I ABUSE MY PARTNER LOOK HOW QUIRKY I AM UWU". It's nothing but shameful and disgusting. That's like if a rapist told on television he raped someone.
Yo I don't remember when I subscribed but I think it was around 100k. I swear to god I looked at their sub count yesterday and it said something around 480k and its like 510k today like wtf
Why would they even doing this in front of a camera 🤦🏿♀️. I feel for that women's boyfriend, she in a public space telling her ex that she still loves him and has felling for him, that's just too much
"love" is a word that women use very flippantly, they use it to describe everything they even just sort of like, it doesn't mean anything. in this case she probably just meant that she cares for him and wants him to be happy, not that she is still in love with him.
@@Daredhnu the concept of romantic love as society at large sees it doenst mean anything at all,it never truly exidted,a lie that is told a 1000 times may become truth.weather or not people will take advantage of it and maipulate others is a mather of character.
Wow, i usually never sub to reaction channels, but these two are so down to earth, realistic, have common sense and are funny that i honestly don't mind for once.
They are what a reaction channel should be. ACTUALLY reacting and commebting on what they are watching and giving real insight on their opinions on the video. They're pretty cool
Yeah he definitely is but trying to relight the fire is not working in his favour and the longer he tries the longer it'll take for him to heal and the more he will be hurt. It's obvious she does not feel the same way for him.
I stay in contact with my ex's parent's. They took me in as their own when I was having trouble with my family. When I lived with them I used cook and run errands for them to show my gratitude. It has just become a thing I do not for recognition just because I have grown to love them. They are much older so I don't mind helping.
It's so interesting to finally find someone that I can actually vibe with in terms of opinions and even the way these guys form their opinion with caution, I love it... They also know how to balance their theory with reality, their opinions are formed by real scenarios and situations, but with consideration for the variables! Sweet to see common sense on the internet. Life is filled with greyzones and somebody is finally acknowledging it :)
Hey I’m not going to lie, I just got out of a really bad relationship, and you guys have helped me get back on my feet and get back out there. I want to thank you guys from the bottom of my heart for everything you do in the community. Thank you 🙏!
Think I'd have to agree with Preach, staying in contact with an ex's family would depend on the break up and how close to the family I was. A kid would make you pretty close, blood bonded
He’s clearly still in love with her... or at least has VERY strong feelings towards her and hasn’t quite let go. And I guarantee the reason that he lied and said he wasn’t dating someone is because he thought that there could be a smidgen of a chance that they would “rekindle the spark” with this video. He didn’t want anything to stand in the way of “possibility”... even the current person he was dating 😩 he basically risked his current situation for her.
Mens love is more pure than it is for women. Mens love is more intense and longer lasting dus men tend to dwell on hear breaks for years Meanwhile women fall our of love when they get bored and women typically move on to the next dick within 2 weeks or fee months. Do you know what micromerism is ? Women keep the DNA of every male they've ever had sex with and yes it affects their brain it destroys her ability to pair bond the more sexual partners a woman a woman have Over 50% of women cheat within 1 year m.independent.ie/style/sex-relationships/newlywed-brides-seek-affairs-within-first-year-of-marriage-to-cope-with-post-wedding-blues-31559892.html This why divorce rate so high and why 65% of all women cheat and narcissism is common in women and alil over 80% of all suicides is dominated by men. There's a saying to men a proverb " only your mother can trully love you " That's because 3are only capable of truly bonding with their children because during pregnancy their body recreates those hormones to pair bond with baby Meanwhile she has been losing that with every male she's been with
@@nightfighter7452 you realize that women initiate between 70 to 83% of all divorces right !? And women leave sick husbands as well pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/ Idunno where you get your facts from But that minuscule data you pulled out doesn't compare to the reality that we have now witch we literally have a historic low www.usnews.com/news/healthiest-communities/articles/2020-04-29/us-marriage-rate-drops-to-record-low And like I posted in my other comment Over 50% of women cheat within 1 year m.independent.ie/style/sex-relationships/newlywed-brides-seek-affairs-within-first-year-of-marriage-to-cope-with-post-wedding-blues-31559892.html That's 52percent of women cheat within 1st year 65% of married women cheat form the libe of marriage. Even higher odds to er cheated on in regular relationships Due to womens hypergamy and promiscuous lifestyle. Women are addicted to male attention and validation. Okaycupid did a study and men will never in their entire life time get half the attention and options or messages women get via social media it's ridiculous that we have more single people now compare to the times before social media It's never been easier to connect to people but dating apps and social media reinforces women's narcissism and hypergamous nature they constantly surfing potential mates and always keep a line of man. Male orbiters to fuel their supply of attention
@@armandohenriquez2103You really sound like an incel. You hate women and generalize. Anyone is capable of pure love with any partner they have. Its the culture of the day and pressure from society for women to move on from relationships almost immediately otherwise you are "not strong and pathetic" cause "strong women" don't need a man. But they fail to understand that loving a man is not "needing" a man and its okay to be hurt after a relationship fails. So they try to "cure" their mind lingering on their ex by filling the hole with another man. But that doesn't mean their love for them wasn't pure. They also hold themselves back from completely falling for someone to avoid the heartache that comes from potentially losing them. Women hate to feel vulnerable. Society has made a big impact on this. Its not genetic to women. Also, could you provide a link to explain micromerism? I googled it but couldn't find anything on what you are describing. I also find it very unlikely. And you realize that saying women instigate more divorces doesn't help your argument because that can mean many things. It could also mean that more men are not showing their partners as much love or doing more unacceptable things that ruin the relationship that causes a women to leave. ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america This here shows that MEN are more likely to cheat by 7% overall after marriage. 20% of men cheat and 13% of women cheat after marriage. Men cheat more after marriage than women. If women were addicted to attention and validation, why do men cheat more? Women are definitely addicted to attention and validation when they are younger, but many mature. Men on the other hand need more physical attention AFTER they mature which is worse. My bf has a body count of 19 and he is almost 24. I am 23 and have a body count of 1, him. We have been together a year and a half. And about a year of that he has asked me to sleep with other men (he is a cuck) and I cannot for the life of me even consider it. Even though he says its okay, I can't get over the feeling that its a betrayal to him. He gives me every opening to sleep with another, even his consent and I won't do it. I am monogamous all the way and I love him dearly. He is afraid of being cheated on (sleeping with other people with consent isn't cheating, only if its without consent) because he has been cheated on so many times and also wasn't very loyal himself. So he know how often and easy it is to happen in our culture. But with me, he doesn't have to worry about that because if I wanted to sleep with someone else, I would only have to ask. And my refusal to sleep with other people tells him I love and want only him. Pure love from women is real. And both of our existences are contrary to everything you said. Of course personal experiences doesn't prove anything overall, but maybe a more personal point of view can help you identify with the possibility women aren't the monsters you think they are
Watching this video reminded me how much I've changed. God I was a POS to my ex, I wish I was a better person for her and I'm SO GLAD she's doing good. I fucked up.
An ex of mine threw a plastic chair which dented the bonnet of my car and broke the windscreen in front of 4 police officers, she then turned round, pushed a policeman out of the way whilst calling him an arsehole.....A policeman then said "If you do that again I'm gonna arrest you!!!"..........Men------Listen !!!! Women are above the law!!! That's why i want to come back as one !! lol....
The vulnerable couple reminded me of my younger self and my ex when we were going through our break up process. It took us about three years to fully break up because we kept seeing each other “one last time”
I was once married with this girl I dated for 7 years and only married for 7 months but the family loved me and even was mad at the daughter for wanting to end it but for my personal growth I only kept in contact with the family for a month after the divorce and after that I started to distance myself for both my growth and being able to move forward and her growth too of not having to hear about me.
Papi Champú it’s all good. No ill-will or anything towards her or anything. It’s a life lesson and I should have known the signs but now I’m older and know a lot more and understand life better everyday and continue to grow.
8:47 You are right, it does make you feel like someone is staring at you naked. You described so well the meaning behind what saying that you are "vulnerable is. It's a moment when you leave the social persona and let the other one see you for what's inside, from where the analogy of being naked comes. It's also why you are right, about there being something wrong with doing it constantly and putting it on the internet, like those drama youtubers. Because when you can do it at your command, than it's not being vulnerable anymore, you are creating an illusion of being sincere and real, while in reality it just becomes another mask, another illusion. It becomes a perverse lie. Of course, it's not the case of this couple, but it's interesting how being genuine and vulnerable could end up just being even more fake. Like in the case of drama based entertainment.
BRUH when she said " i wouldnt be so violent towards you" AND HE SAID THANK YOU!!! Im beside myself that the concept that "women cant be violent and abuse men" exists
In my life, I have known men that have been so gentle and reserved and forgiving, and I have also been on the receiving end of what women fear the most from men. Some women, including my moms, have been violent, and some have been the most profound example of love. That being said... Some of the men I know have been physically, emotionally, and sexually abused by their female partners... their kids being used as objects to manipulate the men. And while everyone plays a part in a relationship, both men and women have power and can cause real damage. I have noticed that the men I know are afraid to ask for help, or call the cops because they think that the women will lie and the dudes will lose their kids. I have noticed that there are hardly any resources in my area for domestic violence where then men are the ones being abused. Even at the hospital, the flyer for domestic abuse resources are in the women's bathroom, not the men's. At the end of the day, the children suffer. I just want to go out on a limb here, and let people know, it's not okay to hit your partner, no matter their gender. It's also not okay to manipulate someone into such an isolated state that they can't see a way out. It's also not okay to stay in a situation where the only example of a relationship your children are seeing is abusive. I mean, maybe. Or let's just keep running it toxic and pretend that trauma doesn't permeate every aspect of our society.
1)This is NOT EQUALITY. This image that women have the right to mistreat men and admit it OPENLY needs to STOP. If you want equality both men and women have the right to openly speak about their trauma. They both need to be held accountable for their actions and wrongdoings. Neither of them has the right to assault someone and get away with it. We believe both parties and we base our opinion on EVIDENCE not on GENDER. For the ladies out there:you can't romantasize your harmful behaviour and name it as a "bad bitch","strong woman" etc and then blame it on the "toxicity of our relationship". That's not it. 2)I can't understand who comes up with these video ideas and WHY people participate in these garbage. The majority of them have problems in their relationships that end up on the internet for the whole world to see. And the worst part is that they want us to believe that this is how relationships work. NO. Abusing your partner and openly admitting that, as if is an accomplishment or a "quirk" is wrong. Finding a new relationship but still compare them with your ex for the sake of a stupid video is wrong. People :start to focus on yourself and your emotional stability before getting into a new relationship. Your new partner doesn't deserve that kind of disrespect. And i thought that in a relationship you're supposed to respect, understand and care for the other person and not yourself 🤷
I agree 💯 with Aba! You could tell by their emotional reaction that they needed to work things out without an audience. Even if they are dating other people it's just a healthy way to move on with their lives. People who don't work things out during a break up, tend to make the same mistakes in their future relationships. Too many unresolved issues can make people miserable and potentially undatable due to the heavy baggage accumulation of past relationships. Great video 👏🏾
I’ve had two of the mothers of my ex’s try and keep contact with me. One of them told me she wanted me to be the woman that married her son (when he was engaged). It was very awkward. I was kind, but our relationship slowly fizzled off over about a year. I also had a dude keep in contact with my parents for several months after we had a messy split up. It was so weird and it actually made me angry at the time.
It’s so gross that she just so openly admitted to abuse and no one on that set said anything.
I didn't even flinch until they pointed it out. Hitting someone with a heel can be pretty dangerous.
What were they supposed to say? Wtf.
It's shocking
@@chaiannejones3950 press on it to learn about his story. Maybe even call the cops.
@@MrSpartanspud you’d be surprised how easy it is to get stabbed with something. Even a stick with enough force can pierce deep
"you childish for that" literally almost stabbed him with a high heel
She’s full of herself
She was toxic throughout the video in my opinion
lo lyea she was pretty rude and unlikeable in my opinion XD
She's toxic
Women
"Our relationship wasn't healthy". Uh no. YOU weren't healthy if you were physically abusing him with a potentially dangerous weapon.
You know whats scary though? How many women actually resort to hitting, kicking, slapping, pushing, etc. I know soooo many women in my life who have at one time or another hit their partner and have just shrugged it off. It seems to be a foreign concept to a lot of women to simply talk things out or take a moment, calm down, and then come back with a level head. I don't understand why it's so difficult to keep hands off one another. I'm so happy that I have control over my emotions and don't resort to violence against my husband and I'm so thankful he has the same control over himself. Ladies and gentlemen, please keep your hands to yourself and think before you act. These are peoples sons, daughters, bothers, and sisters. You wouldn't want someone hitting your son or daughter in a relationship, so use that same logic in your own.
İ ended the 5 year relationship with a girl who punched me in the face when we first met. She also cheated, lied about every important person in her life including her parents, and made me lose a big oppurtunity. İ punched her in the end tough haha.
Oh please, you don't know anything about their relationship. Who are you to say the relationship was healthy except for her or only due to her. Of course she's unhealthy. But don't assume that's the only reason the relationship wasn't healthy because you were not there. If a woman made that kind of assumption you would say she's 'being emotional not logical' or something misogynistic. Get over yourself.
@@missNCW She hit him in the ribs with her high heels and was completely nonchalant about it. She also admitted to being violent. She didn't say anything about him. The fact that you're defending an abusive person is kind of an issue, but hey. You'll defend abusive people any day as long as they're women, right?
@@bigtime9597 You shot so many times and didn't miss once
“He’s gonna go buy me some dinner”
Ladies and Gentlemen, the Toxicity in this Bus is ASTRONOMICAL
I know I was very abusive and the last time we’ve seen each other I stabbed with my heel. But you still have to take me to lunch.
These dudes are the most logical people I’ve seen on YT I swear
100% agree. When you're scrolling through twitter and see all these illogical people having contradicting opinions in contrast, these two ar just such a breath of fresh air. It shows me again. "Stop copying others opinions 1 x 1 just because they have cloud or some shit, think for yourself!"
MinishMilly I deleted twitter because of the awful liberal bias a year ago. Look at it now lol. Trump is even trying to pass law against them it’s so bad.
Sometimes yeah but they're pretty biased with BLM for example
TM Biased as far as...?
TM Ya... I was watching their recents and it’s so bad. They don’t even understand what the movement is calling for. It’s right there on the BLM website that they want the cops to be defunded and to resign.
The two best definitions of cheating that I've heard (and live by) are: 1) would you do what you're about to do if your significant other was right there watching and 2) if the situation was switched, would you be angry if you saw your significant other doing what you're doing.
Same
Yep
honestly! like i’m not a jealous person, so idk how applicable the first one is, but i def get it. i also just think that cheating is super relative, bc to some ppl having friends of the opp sex is cheating, and to others, not even sleeping with someone else is cheating.
@@katelynsousa6591 There are degrees of cheating and more often than not it's about intent.
I'm not cool with my girlfriend sleeping in the same room as some rando - mainly because i dont trust them or know them enough to trust them, even if she does.
I'm totally cool with her sleeping in the same bedroom as my best bud because I've known that man for 10 years and i trust both of them.
Personally, I'm cool with flirting as long as it's intended and taken as a joke [i do this with my guy friends and my girl friends alike].
But when it's something said as a 'joke' - said jokingly trying to bait out potential interest then I'm not cool with that.
That's abusing the trust I've given them to try and cheat on me.
I typically use the 2nd version Hayley wrote.
It's hard to see from your own perspective sometimes, but looking at it from their point of view makes sense as to why they'd be upset.
Even if you've had a plutonic relationship with this friend for X amount of years - if your partner isnt aware of that, or doesnt trust them, then it's understandable why they'd be upset.
@@katelynsousa6591 I think the first one mainly pertains to respect in a relationship. Like you, I'm not a very jealous person, but there have definitely situations where I said, "Would you be doing that if your significant other was standing right there?" Two examples from my life (one male, one female): I was at a college party with a friend's girlfriend who I was getting to know and she was all over this guy she had just met. I mean, she was touching him, saying how hot he was, the whole nine yards. It was really uncomfortable to watch and I just told her that it wasn't cool because she was in a serious committed relationship and I knew how he would have felt seeing it. Then one time I was hanging out with a group of friends and acquaintances and one of the guys was all over me. It made me so uncomfortable because he knew that I was in a relationship and I knew he had a girlfriend and she was at work. I tried to be polite and move towards other friends because I didn't want the attention. Finally, I had to call my boyfriend at the time to come so this guy would stop. When I encountered him again, this time with his girlfriend, he was prim and proper and she had no idea that he had done that the other night. So I think the biggest thing is to try and define lines as much as is possible, but if you're in a grey area, default to thinking about how your partner would feel. I liked your comment, though. I really enjoy having dialogue with others : )
Video starts with woman admitting to being an Amber Heard and everyone's ok with it 😟
No bro, only crazy women are good with that noise.
But she is not ok with it. In her defense she admits it was an unhealthy relationship, so she is accepting her actions were unacceptable. Edit: I never said this makes it ok, or that is all forgiven, I’m simply pointing out she admits a wrong doing. And yes, a man would be in Jail.
@@Miguelc271086 I don't think she is, it looks like its innate to who she is, 'sorry not sorry (hahahaha)'.
@@Miguelc271086 a guy would be in jail for that...
It's wack
"Solid Opportunities" and "a touch", is his version of Jada Smith's "Entanglements".
he was just honest ^^
@@PflanzenChirurg enTanGlEmEnT
Tbh that sounded worse than cheating. “Oh yeah I had some GOLDEN chances to fuck behind your back, won’t tell you if I did or didn’t tho”
That nigga is lying lol. Y'all in bed together and she wanted u to touch her breasts and that's all u did.
@@PflanzenChirurg Still touching another female's body part still cheating because it's not the current one you're with.
I can't believe i only found this channel a couple days ago. I've been missing out!!!
But now you have a ton of videos to binge watch like me.
Yes you did, all of their video are very interesting so binge em all!
Me too!
Honey I found out just a day ago
They are amazing!
My thoughts: Dude said he wasn't dating anyone because he wanted to keep the door open for his ex. He definitely hoped this conversation rekindled something.
I think his unresolved emotions towards the situation kinda caused him to impulsively lie. Like theres tons of people who impulsively lie when emotionally pressured.
@@pwnedeful You should rewatch his answers and comments. He was definitely hoping.
Might be since the question was if she was a better lover, and he answered that he wasn't with anyone. That he meant that they aren't having sex yet.
Im sorry to say this but he seems so manipulative and full of shit. It looks genuine at first but then how he flip his words made it obvious. :/
If he was smart he wouldve told the truth and maybe she might've felt a little jealous.
Girl that used the high heel as a weapon should be in jail. A man would be.
If you call
Yeah but first I wanna learn how good was she. Like can I use that as self defence move?? Then throw her in prison.
True
@@kanikagaral7637 Hey Kanika, it's a poor self defense move as generally people go off balance to take of their shoes and most situations don't give you time to prepare. I actually advise most people not to wear high heels when out on the town, as it can slow you down when you need to be fast. Also I'm a firm advocate of learning how to fight instead of doing three or four self defense courses. Not because I make more money but because it takes time to learn how to fight and get the muscle memory.
@@Squall598 I know that but sometimes u need quick fix and I meant it very lightly.
The way I look at cheating is that it is anything you wouldn’t do if your partner was there with you
Taking a dump isn't cheating :p
@@user-jb2dd2hd8i unless your taking it on someone's chest.
eat the chocolate out of the pantry?
Watching ahead on that show we were supposed to be watching together because he's out of town and the suspense is killing you?
@@grimpeeper1256 this had me laughing
Preach preaching about preachers not preaching about accountability
Yo dawg...
Preachception
Bruh
Mind blown...
Say that 5 times fast
That dude with shoe girl seems way to chill for her. She is loud, crude and vile.
shrapnel77 he’s probably quiet and submissive because of how she is and how she treated him
Too*
ExQtics There is when you combine “crude” and “vile”.
I think your judgment goes beyond what is provided by the evidence and misses a key detail. She say that he slept with her cousin.
ExQtics I completely agreed with you, dude. Nothing wrong with loud, until you throw in negative adjectives.
If cheating isn't being with another woman in bed, what is?!
if the woman is a friend and all you did was sleep then its not cheating
Emerys the immortal what?tf is the west I don’t wanna live there lmao,you should follow a rule called better safe than sorry what u said can go bad
@@nammar6435 if both had clothes on its just 2 people sleeping in the same bed
@@kyratuk2637 bruh, that bed better be big or you sleeeping on the floor!
fucking?
You can't be friends with an ex lover, past problems and past feelings will always boil to the surface.
Agreed, unless resolved properly and both can move on....andddddd if they were friends in the past....then maaayyyybbbee
Or if one of you is really over it. I'm friends with my ex-husband. Totally no romantic feelings left for him, so it works.
Facts. Everyone always remember the good but not the reason you broke up in the first place.
I have never been in a relationship so I don't really know but I think that you can be "friends" in the sense that you are friendly with them and check up on them from time to time
But I feel like always hanging around is a lot more difficult
“Women need to take accountability.”
Women: “yall hear sum”
Lol. I'm a woman but that got me 😂
😂😂😂😂 😂
Women: accountability? What’s that
😅
Other wome: I think it's about a shoe sale.
Whenever i’m honest with my girl and she gets hurt i always hear Aba’s voice telling me “It’s okay, at least you were honest” and i instantly feel better
Boiii there's something wrong with you lol
@Dustin Smith Not too many folks like you around anymore
@@sharnya8332
At least he has integridy and is blunt and honest, that is a rare traut nowadays. Most people can't handle the truth.
Rather that, then to lie to people all the time and put on a mask, just because they want some false company. That is a girl thing and can be seen ever so often.
@@DomeLP09 what I think is being overlooked here is a general sense of empathy. You can tell the truth without completely wrecking somebody or tearing them down. Most people want to walk that line. It's not a noble act to be overly blunt and rude with the truth, in fact, in most cases that could be seen as emotional immaturity.
Most people would rather be told the truth than a lie, but the choices aren't black and white. You can be accommodating with the truth.
It’s still not okay, good you were honest but whatever u did to hurt her still isn’t okay
Damn....
My man was so rattled by that break up, he started dressing like a grandma working at a library....
More like starting his spiritual journey.
True😳
This vulnerable video didn't cause a break up,him lying did.
?
@@joshuarainey7559 ? im confused too
I think they mean, she is in a relationship during the recording of this video and due to doing this and them opening up, they believe that she broke up with her BF afterwards to give the old relationship another shot.
@@joshuarainey7559 The guy was the one who had to break up with his then gf(he was dating someone else during the video)because he lied during the first part. When asked about "Was he dating someone?" He said,"No". Anybody would be mad if their significant other lied about not being in a relationship on internet in front of the whole world.
@@tanjimhasan2813 I get why the other girl broke up with him. She probably saw the video of him ignoring her existence and said he loves and misses his ex. I'd be pissed too.
The dude with the hat broke my hearth when he Said "thank you" to her saying she would not be so violent. It felt like that was something he needed.
She has probably been putting it on him for years and this is the first time she accepted responsibility. There was healing in that look, and a bit of forgiveness if I am not mistaken.
That’s what he thought he needed to hear but what that man needs is to get her out of his life. His reactionary was heart breaking cause you could tell how she damaged him
Just for a second, imagine the following exchange between the first couple:
Him: So when did you know it was over?
Her: When you broke my ribs with your fist.
Him: Yeah, we didn't have a healthy relationship.
Her: Fo sho.
And everyone laughs.
It would've been #metoo for the rest of that show if that happened lol.
And the thing she would change in their relationship is her “being violent and super aggressive” towards her partner I wish he wouldn’t have even came on the show with her
Yeah.. imagine the genders reversed.. such a revealing exercise to do in such situations.
TOXIC FEMININITY!
I love how the women spoke about physically abusing and being extremely violent against her boyfriend so nonchalantly. But if he said that about her he would be in prison behind bars instantly in a blink of an eye. But yea men have all the privilege.....gimmie a break
i don’t believe in all that “men are the most opressed” bs that people say but yeah women shouldn’t be able to to just be abusive and get away with it that easily.
@@JoeMama-tw6gu Never heard anyone say "Men are the most oppressed". Is that a strawman argument? It's just as BS as saying "women are the most oppressed"..
PapaDragon [ML Tank Tutorials] yes i have heard people say that between men and women, men are the most oppressed. they say being a woman is easy because it’s easier to find a partner.
@@JoeMama-tw6gu Really? Who said it? Joe Mama? LOL quit making stuff up...
PapaDragon [ML Tank Tutorials] I’ve heard those “men rights activists” and incels say that stiff before. i’m not making it up dummy
Bro imagine a dude was like “yeah for sure the relationship ended when I slapped the soul out you” like bruh.
😂
😭😭😭😭not funny but I can't help but laugh 💀
Yea WE had a toxic relationship
😂🤦🏿♂️
My eyes went so huge when I read that because I actually imagined it, then I started laughing because why does he sound so chilled about it? Like what? I'm shocked. Then I realized that that is what the lady actually did and now I'm horrified
Of course she says “we didn’t have a healthy relationship”after she admitted to hitting him. Also I hate how casually women can just admit to hitting men and face no consequences.
“Take accountability”
Women: “No, No I don’t think I will.” (Don’t put ur hands on anyone male or female)
I've seen some of the defense from some women saying "oh no, I can't even hurt him like that, women are weaker and if you strike back you can hurt her like how are you going to hit a woman just because she slapped you!!". How about people stop putting hands on others. Why feel the need to hit someone in the first place.
Yea and when they tell the story of how they were violent to their ex's they always have a smirk on their faces like their proud of it.
Men are physically stronger than women, generally, that’s why it’s more accepted. It depends on the size of the people. Like the saying goes, “pick on someone your own size”. People get mad when someone big picks on someone small, which often will be the case with a man and woman. Of course if a ripped body builder lady goes and beats on a 5’4” 140 lb man, ofc EVERYONE would be mad about that. Some average 5’4” woman doesn’t have a chance against a 200lb man. It depends on their stature. It doesn’t make it right, but it’s not going to heavily hurt or injure that man in most cases. That is why in a lot of ACTUAL assault cases of women against a man, you will see her using a weapon, like a knife because her own physical body could hardly inflict damage. In most domestic violence cases a man doesn’t need to use a weapon because just using his own fists will do her bloody. And before you come at me, “but men and women are the same” argument. No they’re not, they’re physically different. I’m not with that BS. So therefore they face different consequences when getting into physical altercations with each other.
man and the fact that because they are physically weaker they feel the need to use a weapon or go for a weakpoint. Which causes too much damamge and is reckless. I hate how mainstream and common it is of a woman hitting a man and you especially see slapping (which idc how weak or strong you are if you get slapped in the face by somebody with intent shit will hurt)
@@saludosalsol that was the most stupid thing said in a smart way LMAO so in your theory if a tiny woman kills a man she should face less punishment because she is small and weak doesn't matter your size wrong is wrong doesn't matter your gender wrong is wrong maybe you were saying the same thing as me but you said in a bad way.
Could you imagine if the question was posed to the guy: "If you could do it over again, what would you change?" and he answered he wouldn't be so violent and aggressive.
She didn't even apologize she just laughed. Men getting abused is either funny or no big deal to most.
Preach 🙌
Exactly, it's so messed up but when it's them then it's no laughing matter
Lack of education on long term effects of domestic abuse. I genuinely believe they should teach kids about toxic relationship red flags and conflict resolution skills in schools. Far too many of my friends of both genders view their absolutely toxic relationships and abuse within them as normal fighting
@@MorganCPaige Same here, I've seen people view it as a normal relationship because they've become so involved in the arguments and fighting that they forget what a normal relationship is like and expect abuse and manipulation to be the norm. We'd be doing a lot better across the board if we could teach people to be aware of toxicity and how to curb it, or healthily deal with arguments. Usually with less yelling and more talking because when everyone is yelling, no one is listening.
Yes buts it's good to hear anyone say they wouldn't be violent and aggressive if that's the truth because they learned better. We want people to learn.
Immediately goes” We didn’t have a healthy relationship” After he got hit in the rib with a high heel😂 “Some Women”
Right. He made me hit him by talking.
Hate to say this..... Not 'Some', most.... Society dictates its fine for women to hit men, but god forbid the man defends himself 🤐🤷♂️
42 DB it could have punctured his lung . He could have died.
She’s gotta justify it somehow
@@toomanyrads3827 Yep. She subtly offloaded some of the blame for the abuse onto him. Although, if she had actual examples of his unhealthy behavior, she'd list it without hesitation.
"When you hit me in the chest with a high heel."
"BUT DID YOU DIE?!?!?!?!"
Zero accountability mate.
Sounds like the Amber Heard recordings
@@ProdavackaDivu 💀
Karma is a bitch literally. Violence does not happen at random in relationships. At least not too often. Shit leads up to it. Breaking points and stressers etc. 9/10 if I see a female slap or hit a man I first think what did he do? lol societal karma is a bitch. Men were doing this shit for decades is it really a stretch to see that the products of that can be female too? Come one now. Im surprised that there arent more female murderers to be honest lol
@@pudgeonabudget so what do you do when you see a man hit a woman?
women who hit men, are the same ones to call the police on their spouse when he breathes on them too hard.
Facts
Ha fr!
100% i can verify from experience
I want to like this comment, but it's at 420 likes sooo I gotta pass on it.
@@HerbaMachina understandable
Imagine if he said “the moment I hit you in the ribs” the atmosphere in that room would change real quick. There’d probably a squad of ppl running to her to take her away from the situation in less than 10 seconds. But since it’s her it’s whatever no one cares.
Don't forget some equal opportunity ass whoopers exist.
That's just how it is bro
Because in the public's eyes,
A man can defend himself from a woman whereas a woman cannot defend herself from a man. Due to genetics and whatnot.
This being said, I'm in NO way saying its ok for a woman to hit a man. At all.
@@queenb9668 In the eyes of the public, the woman is always the victim. Even when the court of law says she's the culprit, the public still says she's the victim.
@@queenb9668 if a man defends himself not to be hit on the head, chest or balls in the eye of bystanders or authorities is gonna look like he’s attacking her.
you can stab someone with high heels shoes...
Girl : " yeah our relationship wasn't healthy... *laugh awkwardly*"
Really ? you just call that unhealthy ? 🤦♀️
that is fully abusive
Women
I'm surprised a woman saw the contradiction.
@@crimsonhawk4912 you want something even weirder ? I'm a activist for women's right 😂 but it doesn't mean not making women accountable for their actions. In no case should women be better than men or get away with things men would be sent to jail for. Being a feminist should NOT be about pushing men down. If women are equal to men ... they are equal in the good AND bad situations.
As someone who's also been struck with high heels in the back of the head I think I'd prefer a punch. That shit fucking hurts
Man the guy in the blue shirt has me almost to tears. To say that he regrets whatever he did would be the understatement of the millennium. I can almost feel the regret spewing from his body. I can see it in his eyes and hear it in his voice. You can’t fake that kind of emotion. You just can’t. I hope he’s able to make peace with himself and move forward. But yeah I agree with Aba, this was definitely not the right time or place to talk about this. You know shit just got real when laughs and jokes turn into tears and vulnerable exchange.
You and that guy could go kick rocks
Nah man, fuck that dude. Could you imagine if you saw your girlfriend on a show like this, trying to get back with her ex bf saying all the things he said. I for one would want to vomit if I pulled up this video and saw my gf doing what he did. Sure he felt bad for doing the one girl dirty, but had absolutely 0 forethought to be considerate of his current partners feelings. “Are you seeing someone” “No I’m not” that guy is a serial psychopath who only cares about his own pleasure. The women are so smart to be getting as far away from him as possible. Look at his dumbass outfit, hes off doing lsd and shrooms to figure out why his relationships keep failing instead of going to therapy and admitting he’s a cheater that needs to stop
I'm sorry but I just busted out laughing
Turn down 😂
"When did you know it was over?" - "When you shoved your high heel into my ribs" - "lol, yeah we didn't really have a healthy relationship did we?"
Reverse the gender roles on this one for a good double-standard chuckle.
He told me to comment for the algorithm.
Bertram Pole underrated!!!!
How's the sound this episode? Loud enough? Anyways hope y'all enjoyed, liked and subbed.
All good.
Nasty ass body shots man, that made me cringe too.
It's great, really enjoyed it
It was good
I'm glad you brought up the term about dating, I wish words like that and courting and hook up need to be clarified for the general public. I hope you do a video on one. lol
One takeaway from your channel (I'm on a mini binge) is that I'm able to look at my approach to dating differently. I used to think showing genuine interest in a guy was weakness or seemed needy. Now am brave enough to approach men in a respectful way and not be scared of constantly have to maintain the myth of the almighty woman who's never thirsty or always seems above everything else. I've met a great dude since and its great.
Yay! 😀👍
I am currently on a binge myself, good to know I wasn’t the only one.
Is not a weakness, it is a SICKNESS 👱🏿♂️
Don’t let too many women in on this secret 😂 most dudes who got their shit together don’t approach no one and just stay outta the way these days so it’s like that. We gotta be approached or else we good just working and playing the game.
@@DopinSmoke Literally every man whom I felt was a genuine prize, I went after him. It's a gut feeling that tells you "you HAVE to try" because good men don't come too often and the chances that he wants you too in this moment couldn't be higher. I pride myself in knowing how to choose them so going after a man like that never feels degrading, they're appreciative and very kind even when they're not interested.
kinda worried about the dude in the red honestly... the way she says they’re going out doesn’t sound like he’s got an option.. and she alrdy admitted to being abusive..? 😬
s rooster then he should fuckin handle it lol
@@Jordan-ok7mj if you're saying he should break up with her then definitely lol
Yeah let’s not reach😂😂he’s capable of getting his own car and leaving her dinner-less...and he should💪🏾
169 likes..."u spend $100 on dinner n later we'll b 69ing." The real 1s know! 😏
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The dude with the regret...I feel his pain 100%. I've had numerous relationships since my ex wife, but I miss her with all my heart. I fvcked up though, I'll never have her back.
Ah fuck I feel the same dude except I couldn’t get into in a relationship anymore due to the fact I don’t feel the same anymore & I have been single since 2018.
Nah. Ur mad that you can't have cake and eat it too. It's normal
VanGough - You can have you cake & eat it too with the right partner. Also, there are many cakes, many slices, and many bites. Everyone truly has cake and eats it throughout their entire lives. Whenever they want cake, they literally just bake or go buy one. So people do have their cake, and eat it, whenever they want, if they want it. I never understood that analogy, it is inaccurate when compared to the situation. If anything, most people share their cake, and can almost never eat a whole one by themselves before it goes bad, you can also freeze slices of that cake to eat it later. So yes, you CAN have your cake and eat it too. 🥳
I feel the same way about my ex boyfriend. I bought a lot of emotional baggage from childhood trauma which is my fault for getting into a relationship without resolving it in therapy. I wish I met him after I worked through my issues. I caused him a lot of stress and bought him down with my emotionally baggage.
Painful lessons are the worst. You sure as hell don't forget them. The hope is that we learn from them.
* waits for comments of people justifying domestic violence *
Here you go.
“He deserved it.”
@A. Wyatt Mann incel
A. Wyatt Mann so allowing my lady to hit me with a heel and then buy her whatever she wants? Then watch as my best friend comes in the house and makes out with her as they use me as their floor mat? Gotcha.
Rachelle Leva
Is your fishy slice something special?
@@giordanobruno1333 yes.
Next time a woman jokes about abuse towards men, I’ll tell her “lol you deserve an abusive boyfriend”. I don’t know any other way for it to click in a person’s head that it’s not okay.
I wouldn't say that. I'll say,"Have fun in prison, coño."
“Accountability.....what’s that?” 💅🏾. 🤷🏾♀️😂
Read the comment just as he was saying it lol
I'm pretty sure she's joking 🙄
My new fav song 🤣
Toni Toussaint I definitely was lol 😂
That ditty was fire 🔥
Is that a no? Girl... the man paused, and breathed, thought about his whole life. It's a YES
Have you seen the comments saying it wasn't cheating when he was in bed with another girl? I was like dude that's way over the line.
@@BronzedBeast you dont really know the circumstances tho. Maybe he just wanted to sleep lmao. But obviously I can see why its sus
@@valerieee1469 He just wanted to sleep with another girl?
Ok that's perfectly normal..
@@john_67 ok I haven't watched the video in a while. Where they at a party or something? I mean I did say that I see why its suspicious. But there is a chance he was just drunk and tired and didnt really think about the fact that there was a girl in there.
@Stella Vi-ura maybe. I'm not sure. Probably depends on what type of woman ig. Like if ot was like a quiet girl I would probably say the same thing. But if it was some loud annoying bish then no. But somewhere in the middle.. idk.
Nailed it / 10
Also, there's a reason High Heels are called 'stilettos' (for those who don't know, a stiletto is a long, slender knife). Hitting someone with those could cause some serious damage.
Billy Joel wrote a song about that. ;-)
Lmao not all high heels are stilettos. I can’t walk in them things for shit. But that vile thing shouldn’t have hit him with anything
There was a woman dubbed the 'stiletto killer's after stabbing her boyfriend 20+ with her.... stiletto #sigh
Wait... Aba just started singing the rugrats song at the right pitch? Doesn't that mean he has perfect pitch?
@@kaydencehead7839 That was a rhetorical question. It DOES mean he has perfect pitch.
Aba understands and respects privacy and how important privacy really is. There are things that should be private
Private.
Very bold and brave of her to admit assaulting him with a heel and hitting him with it in his rib, the fact she also laughs about it, makes me sick. You cannot laugh about domestic abuse, man or woman idc you do not do this in a relationship, if you're in a toxic relationship then you get out of it, this bich crazy.
Bold? It happens all the damn time. They know ppl won't take it seriously that's why she said it so casually
Violent and possessive? Red flags everywhere!
@@RasenRendanX i meant to say it in a sarcastic way, honestly anyone who admits to abusing their partner they must have some serious guts to tell the whole world : "HEY I ABUSE MY PARTNER LOOK HOW QUIRKY I AM UWU". It's nothing but shameful and disgusting. That's like if a rapist told on television he raped someone.
The shitty part about that is the statues of limitation that she’s able to admit it.
The rate at which this channel is growing....🤯
Yo I don't remember when I subscribed but I think it was around 100k. I swear to god I looked at their sub count yesterday and it said something around 480k and its like 510k today like wtf
Wtf how is this happening
It fills me with hope
Why would they even doing this in front of a camera 🤦🏿♀️. I feel for that women's boyfriend, she in a public space telling her ex that she still loves him and has felling for him, that's just too much
Indeed just saying
"love" is a word that women use very flippantly, they use it to describe everything they even just sort of like, it doesn't mean anything.
in this case she probably just meant that she cares for him and wants him to be happy, not that she is still in love with him.
@@Daredhnu alot of women*
@@Daredhnu "in love" isn't the only form of love
@@Daredhnu the concept of romantic love as society at large sees it doenst mean anything at all,it never truly exidted,a lie that is told a 1000 times may become truth.weather or not people will take advantage of it and maipulate others is a mather of character.
Wow, i usually never sub to reaction channels, but these two are so down to earth, realistic, have common sense and are funny that i honestly don't mind for once.
They are what a reaction channel should be. ACTUALLY reacting and commebting on what they are watching and giving real insight on their opinions on the video. They're pretty cool
@@Xenoblade_Natsu Yeah sadly that's quite the rarity among reaction channels.
I think this is more of a commentary channel than a reaction channel tho.
He’s clearly a broken man, I feel for the guy
Yeah he definitely is but trying to relight the fire is not working in his favour and the longer he tries the longer it'll take for him to heal and the more he will be hurt. It's obvious she does not feel the same way for him.
at least he knows that. i can respect that he acknowledged his flaws...
Eh I don't.
I stay in contact with my ex's parent's. They took me in as their own when I was having trouble with my family. When I lived with them I used cook and run errands for them to show my gratitude. It has just become a thing I do not for recognition just because I have grown to love them. They are much older so I don't mind helping.
She's on a youtube video flirting with her ex and she's describes her boyfriend as 'cute' !!!!!! 'Boyfriend' in trouble !!!
Thought i was the only one who was paying attention to the girls boyfriend 😂😂
Maybe thats the reason
"Cute" or "nice" is the worst insult a man could get from a woman.
Totally rebound Bf
Women have the opportunity to cheat way more
It's so interesting to finally find someone that I can actually vibe with in terms of opinions and even the way these guys form their opinion with caution, I love it... They also know how to balance their theory with reality, their opinions are formed by real scenarios and situations, but with consideration for the variables! Sweet to see common sense on the internet. Life is filled with greyzones and somebody is finally acknowledging it :)
I had on the same expression as Preach about that girl who was violent towards her partner. That's just NO!
oof. 😳
Legend
Big Shark comment on deck
Pierre💙
You gotta do a collaboration with Aba and Preach, dude.
@Chris If they do go that route then he should be put on the podcast, J think that'd make for great content.
Hey I’m not going to lie, I just got out of a really bad relationship, and you guys have helped me get back on my feet and get back out there. I want to thank you guys from the bottom of my heart for everything you do in the community. Thank you 🙏!
This channel is quickly becoming a favorite
Guys, I found your channel a few days ago and binged out like 80% of all the videos that have been uploaded. Great content and keep it up!
I did the same thing 😂
Same here - can not stop
Same. And first english speaking youtube channel i ever appreciate enough to watch
Same!
Totally, same
agreed Preach! im only staying in contact with an ex’s family if there’s a kid involved.. other than that.. the past is the past
Watching Jubilee is like being a stalker but it's acceptable cause there's 2million other ppl stalking with you.
Thanks for making me feel better about myself 😁😂
It's Cut not jubilee. After awhile Cut might post the full video of the couples playing the game.
@@skylarknight9710 same shit just a different channel name
Love how Canadians say 'bruv' instead of 'bro'. Makes me feel like your distant cousin from London 😂
They kinda are lol
We are bruv
@@RGSMANIA How so?
@@Anw4rr10r did you skip history at school?
Bruv we both love Jamaican and London slang you know Dem way dere fam.
Think I'd have to agree with Preach, staying in contact with an ex's family would depend on the break up and how close to the family I was. A kid would make you pretty close, blood bonded
Disagree i don't have kids but once i leave being a farther is over
Y’all hit that rugrats theme song 10/10
I scrolled down the comments too long to find someone talking about that
More like 11/10
He’s clearly still in love with her... or at least has VERY strong feelings towards her and hasn’t quite let go. And I guarantee the reason that he lied and said he wasn’t dating someone is because he thought that there could be a smidgen of a chance that they would “rekindle the spark” with this video. He didn’t want anything to stand in the way of “possibility”... even the current person he was dating 😩 he basically risked his current situation for her.
The curse of being a white knight with a simp mentality. So many failed relationships cuz of it.
Mens love is more pure than it is for women. Mens love is more intense and longer lasting dus men tend to dwell on hear breaks for years
Meanwhile women fall our of love when they get bored and women typically move on to the next dick within 2 weeks or fee months.
Do you know what micromerism is ? Women keep the DNA of every male they've ever had sex with and yes it affects their brain it destroys her ability to pair bond the more sexual partners a woman a woman have
Over 50% of women cheat within 1 year
m.independent.ie/style/sex-relationships/newlywed-brides-seek-affairs-within-first-year-of-marriage-to-cope-with-post-wedding-blues-31559892.html
This why divorce rate so high and why 65% of all women cheat and narcissism is common in women and alil over 80% of all suicides is dominated by men.
There's a saying to men a proverb " only your mother can trully love you "
That's because 3are only capable of truly bonding with their children because during pregnancy their body recreates those hormones to pair bond with baby
Meanwhile she has been losing that with every male she's been with
@@armandohenriquez2103 is that why men are 7x more likely to leave their wives with cancer?
@@nightfighter7452 you realize that women initiate between 70 to 83% of all divorces right !?
And women leave sick husbands as well
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/
Idunno where you get your facts from But that minuscule data you pulled out doesn't compare to the reality that we have now witch we literally have a historic low
www.usnews.com/news/healthiest-communities/articles/2020-04-29/us-marriage-rate-drops-to-record-low
And like I posted in my other comment Over 50% of women cheat within 1 year
m.independent.ie/style/sex-relationships/newlywed-brides-seek-affairs-within-first-year-of-marriage-to-cope-with-post-wedding-blues-31559892.html
That's 52percent of women cheat within 1st year 65% of married women cheat form the libe of marriage. Even higher odds to er cheated on in regular relationships
Due to womens hypergamy and promiscuous lifestyle. Women are addicted to male attention and validation. Okaycupid did a study and men will never in their entire life time get half the attention and options or messages women get via social media it's ridiculous that we have more single people now compare to the times before social media
It's never been easier to connect to people but dating apps and social media reinforces women's narcissism and hypergamous nature they constantly surfing potential mates and always keep a line of man. Male orbiters to fuel their supply of attention
@@armandohenriquez2103You really sound like an incel. You hate women and generalize. Anyone is capable of pure love with any partner they have. Its the culture of the day and pressure from society for women to move on from relationships almost immediately otherwise you are "not strong and pathetic" cause "strong women" don't need a man. But they fail to understand that loving a man is not "needing" a man and its okay to be hurt after a relationship fails. So they try to "cure" their mind lingering on their ex by filling the hole with another man. But that doesn't mean their love for them wasn't pure. They also hold themselves back from completely falling for someone to avoid the heartache that comes from potentially losing them. Women hate to feel vulnerable. Society has made a big impact on this. Its not genetic to women.
Also, could you provide a link to explain micromerism? I googled it but couldn't find anything on what you are describing. I also find it very unlikely.
And you realize that saying women instigate more divorces doesn't help your argument because that can mean many things. It could also mean that more men are not showing their partners as much love or doing more unacceptable things that ruin the relationship that causes a women to leave. ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
This here shows that MEN are more likely to cheat by 7% overall after marriage. 20% of men cheat and 13% of women cheat after marriage. Men cheat more after marriage than women. If women were addicted to attention and validation, why do men cheat more? Women are definitely addicted to attention and validation when they are younger, but many mature. Men on the other hand need more physical attention AFTER they mature which is worse.
My bf has a body count of 19 and he is almost 24. I am 23 and have a body count of 1, him. We have been together a year and a half. And about a year of that he has asked me to sleep with other men (he is a cuck) and I cannot for the life of me even consider it. Even though he says its okay, I can't get over the feeling that its a betrayal to him. He gives me every opening to sleep with another, even his consent and I won't do it. I am monogamous all the way and I love him dearly. He is afraid of being cheated on (sleeping with other people with consent isn't cheating, only if its without consent) because he has been cheated on so many times and also wasn't very loyal himself. So he know how often and easy it is to happen in our culture. But with me, he doesn't have to worry about that because if I wanted to sleep with someone else, I would only have to ask. And my refusal to sleep with other people tells him I love and want only him. Pure love from women is real. And both of our existences are contrary to everything you said. Of course personal experiences doesn't prove anything overall, but maybe a more personal point of view can help you identify with the possibility women aren't the monsters you think they are
Watching this video reminded me how much I've changed. God I was a POS to my ex, I wish I was a better person for her and I'm SO GLAD she's doing good. I fucked up.
why would you ever admit to this on camera💀
Facts they're stupid.
Who would even sign up for this ?
because she knows she can't be held unaccountable and shamed for it?
she is a violent person
An ex of mine threw a plastic chair which dented the bonnet of my car and broke the windscreen in front of 4 police officers, she then turned round, pushed a policeman out of the way whilst calling him an arsehole.....A policeman then said "If you do that again I'm gonna arrest you!!!"..........Men------Listen !!!! Women are above the law!!! That's why i want to come back as one !! lol....
@@tungsteneight7010 😂😂 I had to reread to make sure I wasn't tripping lol
That thumbnail and title doesn’t match at all
He touched a Titi.
@@RagingBullNuts 🤣🤣🤣
Pun
No you didn't watch the full video
I think they mean the new boyfriend broke up with her because of this video?
I’ve been binge watching this channel all week
Same
The vulnerable couple reminded me of my younger self and my ex when we were going through our break up process. It took us about three years to fully break up because we kept seeing each other “one last time”
here to say I clean my belly button!
I don't believe you.
At least not until I've inspected it myself
gratulacje
Same, which is why I know how gross bellybuttons are lol
My question is how do people FORGET to clean it??
@@jeredalmeida1880 ...🤔🤨
I was once married with this girl I dated for 7 years and only married for 7 months but the family loved me and even was mad at the daughter for wanting to end it but for my personal growth I only kept in contact with the family for a month after the divorce and after that I started to distance myself for both my growth and being able to move forward and her growth too of not having to hear about me.
Real life "Marriage Story"
That must really suck 😕
Really makes me really afraid of dating or even fall in love again. Cheers dude.
Papi Champú it’s all good. No ill-will or anything towards her or anything. It’s a life lesson and I should have known the signs but now I’m older and know a lot more and understand life better everyday and continue to grow.
@@JoeDaDJ if u sont mind me being personal what was the signs. Lets try to save lives with this wisdom u can share.
@Lolz Vendetta Yeah id like to know too
When aba started saying having vulnerable moments live was perverse I felt that. Why I dont watch reality romance or rly any reality tv show.
“It’s just them, that belongs to them”
Preach Preach, you preach 🙌
Facts dude!
Congratulations to 500k!
Don’t pretend you aren’t waiting for the pin aswell…
oh yeah😂😂😂😂😂
I volunteer as tribute, Aba and Preach are s3xÌst wömëñ haters.
The pin of shame
8:47 You are right, it does make you feel like someone is staring at you naked. You described so well the meaning behind what saying that you are "vulnerable is. It's a moment when you leave the social persona and let the other one see you for what's inside, from where the analogy of being naked comes. It's also why you are right, about there being something wrong with doing it constantly and putting it on the internet, like those drama youtubers. Because when you can do it at your command, than it's not being vulnerable anymore, you are creating an illusion of being sincere and real, while in reality it just becomes another mask, another illusion. It becomes a perverse lie.
Of course, it's not the case of this couple, but it's interesting how being genuine and vulnerable could end up just being even more fake. Like in the case of drama based entertainment.
No one should hit anyone and when they do its wrong. If you hit someone you should be held accountable. Man or women.
Holy shot 500k, I’ve been here since like 30k. That’s some growth man, congrats!!
BRUH when she said " i wouldnt be so violent towards you" AND HE SAID THANK YOU!!!
Im beside myself that the concept that "women cant be violent and abuse men" exists
Hit him In The ribs with a high heel didn’t get in trouble, equality y’all lol!!
Many men dont get in trouble for same reason. Thats not an issue, that happens.
The fact she can admit it is the problem
In my life, I have known men that have been so gentle and reserved and forgiving, and I have also been on the receiving end of what women fear the most from men. Some women, including my moms, have been violent, and some have been the most profound example of love. That being said... Some of the men I know have been physically, emotionally, and sexually abused by their female partners... their kids being used as objects to manipulate the men. And while everyone plays a part in a relationship, both men and women have power and can cause real damage. I have noticed that the men I know are afraid to ask for help, or call the cops because they think that the women will lie and the dudes will lose their kids. I have noticed that there are hardly any resources in my area for domestic violence where then men are the ones being abused. Even at the hospital, the flyer for domestic abuse resources are in the women's bathroom, not the men's. At the end of the day, the children suffer. I just want to go out on a limb here, and let people know, it's not okay to hit your partner, no matter their gender. It's also not okay to manipulate someone into such an isolated state that they can't see a way out. It's also not okay to stay in a situation where the only example of a relationship your children are seeing is abusive. I mean, maybe. Or let's just keep running it toxic and pretend that trauma doesn't permeate every aspect of our society.
1)This is NOT EQUALITY. This image that women have the right to mistreat men and admit it OPENLY needs to STOP. If you want equality both men and women have the right to openly speak about their trauma. They both need to be held accountable for their actions and wrongdoings. Neither of them has the right to assault someone and get away with it. We believe both parties and we base our opinion on EVIDENCE not on GENDER. For the ladies out there:you can't romantasize your harmful behaviour and name it as a "bad bitch","strong woman" etc and then blame it on the "toxicity of our relationship". That's not it.
2)I can't understand who comes up with these video ideas and WHY people participate in these garbage. The majority of them have problems in their relationships that end up on the internet for the whole world to see. And the worst part is that they want us to believe that this is how relationships work. NO. Abusing your partner and openly admitting that, as if is an accomplishment or a "quirk" is wrong. Finding a new relationship but still compare them with your ex for the sake of a stupid video is wrong. People :start to focus on yourself and your emotional stability before getting into a new relationship. Your new partner doesn't deserve that kind of disrespect. And i thought that in a relationship you're supposed to respect, understand and care for the other person and not yourself 🤷
I love it when preach starts singing randomly lol 🤣. I feel like preach is my spirit animal 🤣
Honestly the bodyshot part made me a little nauseous 😭 i never knew a bodyshot was done like that😫😂
Aba, it’s that you have healthy and established boundaries. This is a good thing, many people don’t have any concept of boundaries.
His whole demeanor changed from that video, the one who "wasn't" dating anyone at that moment. Not just his appearance.
what's his Instagram
"Oh I just hit him with my heel.....teehee"
Not hit, kicked in the rib! You can get stabbed like that!
That shit I would fight back
"Oh, I just round-house kicked that mfer... teehee"
"Accountability, what's that?"
I can't believe I only find this channel. The reactions are always on point
... and Tony has been singing Marvin's room ever since.
He really did look like a drake with goatee and beard at the end tho...🤣🤣🤣🤣
Buncha kids listenin to marvins room trying to relate but tony straight up LIVED that 😭
Congratulations guys for 500k subscribers... I am. Proud of you guys
She has a whole boyfriend. She needs to talk to him first
@TheHouseOfGames not anymore i hope.
@TheHouseOfGames well she didnt think that was going to happen. Atleast he knows he's a rebound and can leave now or just stay
@TheHouseOfGames They do it in private too.
you guys, are probably some of the most intelligent and mature people commenting on social crap
I agree 💯 with Aba!
You could tell by their emotional reaction that they needed to work things out without an audience. Even if they are dating other people it's just a healthy way to move on with their lives.
People who don't work things out during a break up, tend to make the same mistakes in their future relationships. Too many unresolved issues can make people miserable and potentially undatable due to the heavy baggage accumulation of past relationships.
Great video 👏🏾
I’ve had two of the mothers of my ex’s try and keep contact with me. One of them told me she wanted me to be the woman that married her son (when he was engaged). It was very awkward. I was kind, but our relationship slowly fizzled off over about a year. I also had a dude keep in contact with my parents for several months after we had a messy split up. It was so weird and it actually made me angry at the time.
Swear to GOD the Rugrats theme was my ringtone for like 7years straight
Edit: i started some deep convos in the comments 🤣🤣
Imagine being the woman's BF then hearing her say she loves someone else 😂🤣
Imagine the feeling
Well I was in that situation long time ago and that's break my heart 😅 thank I recovered from it and left her with toxicity behind
@@miroushebsheb3943 thats good
Ya I felt that.. i thought the same thing when i heard that and that would definitely cause a problem cause i would be out
Its absolutely normal to still love someone even if you are not in love.
@@mrworldwide2722 makes no fucking sense
Here’s a comment for the algorithm business
You too will prosper :)
no one:
virginity rocks: BELLY BUTTON LINT COLLECTION
I found a Spaghetti-Oh !!
I clean my belly button, but I still wouldn’t let anyone take a body shot off of me! 😳😩😂
I’m an outie and I wanna try it 😭
I would of course most body shots are in glass
Owethu Madiba material like that is R18
The Shut-in ew
Derick Tukes Jr Well if it’s in a glass that’s a whole other story. lol
Preach is f awesome with his quick songs