@Emmerich August most single moms are nice cause they wanna get someone to help them out, if she did not have children, she would not even entertain him
Not that much competition for single mothers? You're insane. Beauty is really the only thing that matters to men. If you're pretty, that's all they care about. Ask the famous singer, Ciara.
@KnineATheart ` I'm glad someone told this chick 🤣. I was going to say girl bye! Not every guy is a Chad or Tyrone, trying to bump every hot chick. Plus the woman wasn't even that good looking, so I'm not even seeing the correlation to her comment 🤨
@@agtrots Russel already had kids himself.Ciara's case is rare,on top of that he is a rare good guy who has a lot of money but zero sex appeal. His first wife is evidence of this.
@@nyikomaswanganyi5983 Russel Wilson did not have kids when he met Ciara. You're wrong. & how do you speak for women on whether or not he has sex appeal? Plenty of women find him attractive.
The Asian lady was leaning in to get leverage to hit the button quicker while making it look like she was interested. Seen it from the beginning. As soon as she sat back and got comfortable I knew she was not going to hit the button.
@@nendu4316 hmm idk, Sun Tzu is considered to be one of the greatest strategists in history. I honestly think this comment was just acknowledging her skills
@@nendu4316 if Sun Tzu wasn't actually a person, I would completely agree with you. But since he was, and he is famous throughout the world, not for being Asain, but for being a strategist who wrote "The Art of War", then I would have to disagree. I honestly don't understand why the OP can't mention Sun Tzu because his name sounds "Asian." He was Asain. Wouldn't it actually be racist instead if we refused to refer to him because of his name?
@@nendu4316 ack, I just realized how offhandish that last part was. I wasn't trying to attack you, I was just trying to understand your reasoning so that I could avoid offending people in the future. My word-age definitely came out wrong though. I completely agree that it has a lot to do with intention and, if the comment was worded differently, I would've agreed with you immediately. Also, thank you for having a civilized discussion. Sometimes youtube comments can get scary lol
lmao LIKE OH NO I DROPPED MY ELBOW ACCIDENTALLY the Asian chick just loves rejecting before she gets rejected. The Asian chick is practiced in rejecting before getting rejected. She even likes some of these people but she just has such a fuckin shield around her that she rejects anyone who doesn't immediately ply to her intense personality :D
@@Sheridan2LT She likes them, but she's not attracted to them. Idk y they lined her up w/ a bunch of ppl who weren't n her league. I rule Legitimate Rejection.
I’m a single mom, and yes, it’s hard to date. I’ve been completely alone for over 3 years. I’m not mad about it. I get it. If I was a childless, single man, I’d prefer a childless, single woman. As a mom, I don’t have as much time to give to a partner nor can I be as spontaneous as a childless woman. It is what it is. I’ll probably be single for years to come, and I’m ok with that.
Meanwhile, my young, single mother friends are out here getting married way before me & lots of other childless women I know lol. There are plenty of men of value marrying single mothers, if that's what you want.
@@itzAurora_Xoxo oh for sure. I'm not at all absolving my mom of responsibility. She fked up big time letting some of these POS men in my and my siblings life- without going into too much detail. If she had taken the responsibility of not letting men come and go, my original comment wouldn't be necessary in the first place.
@@yellymack8981 uhhh sometimes single mums are attractive? Or single ladies. Cuz for some guys they have to take in consideration about the kids. Like shoot if I get with this girl or lady and she has a child or kid. Like if their grown up 5 or 10 years old, the kid might? Who knows it depends.
It is true, the fact that the button exist invites competition, sort of a survival game, so you'll hit the button on a whim to stay in your seat and not because you dislike the guy/girl on the other side but well, you wanna win
@@michaelrichards5340 well thewhole point is to hit the button if you are moreinclined to win the competition versus actually talk to the other person so....
Nobody: Wikipedia: Vicarious embarrassment (also known as secondhand, empathetic, or third party embarrassment) is the feeling of embarrassment from observing the embarrassing actions of another person.
As an Asian, I dont know but I kinda feel like I could read this Asian girl really well. Some girls are very good with acting friendly and attentive but they are very cautious and guarded and are lowkey judging everyone inside their mind. It is really not a good trait but the more you interactive with them, you would feel guarded too lol. No wonder its full of drama within our community eh
Oh absolutely. Lived in japan 7+ years and around the third i started realizing what you just mentioned. As a friend put it: " they're friendly, just not your friends" 😅 still, i f-ing love Asia
Yea, my lady is Asian and her and almost all her friends have that overly friendly (almost seductive) exteriors that hide extremely judgemental and fickle/disinterested interiors. Although most of my wifes friends are not Asian, so its probably not an asian thing and more a pretty female thing. It's like they are trying to make their looks and their personalities match when in most cases, the two are polar opposites.
Yeah cos a being a friend is built over time and when we are too friendly, the men especially in Asia get too many ideas and we don’t want that. A lot of friendships and relationships take time and numerous interactions. Not everyone needs to be open to everyone all the time. Draining but we are still kind
@Hq it depends on the video. These kind of videos they usually have a fresh reaction but sometimes ABA will prepare depending on the video and message behind it
She looked guarded the whole, both arms out and covering her center. The words are deceiving, but if you see a body that looks like it is ready to block, fight, or run.... they don't wanna, they trying to escape..... Speaking from experience
It's even better when the people responding think that you only pin people you agree with and ignore everybody else because they want to be able to play the attention seeking game and claim the people they hate live in a bubble, seen it all before then you pin them and we all get to laugh as they don't know what to do with themselves.
Jane, the Asian girl. She was very sneaky about her ways. She was making people feel like they had a chance with her, and then they're loosened up and comfortable about their interests. She shuts them down heartlessly. She knew what she's doing.
i mean wouldnt that help whoever is in front of her to not fuck up by being nervous? sure she might not be in to you, but she gave you a chance and you were able to show YIOU bacause you were relaxed.
She's a bit of a player, a smooth talker. And she clearly had the end goal in mind. Her strategy was to be as charming and engaging as possible in order to not get eliminated, and to have enough time and shots at sussing the others out to actually pick someone she liked. It was a good strategy imo.
@@foggyfrogy Sorry for the mispelling. You have a point but the way she did it was hilarious. It was like she was making sure the button, the person & everyone watching know that she was not interested. It even seemed she was disgusted.
It was annoying as F!! I almost quit watching RUclips for only this reason alone. I would always be soooo far down and ad comes on and whoops....back to the beginning. But since they did the update, it doesn’t happen anymore so RUclips saved its own ass, so they lucky 😒
@Kirsty Birsty "smart men learn from their mistakes but wise men learn from the mistakes of others " and I've heard and seen enough horror stories to not play that game
Id argue its harder for single dads than it is for single moms..the only fathers who dont have problems dating are deadbeats. Most women dont want to be stepmoms, and there are a lot of reasons but the main two are 1. Most women who dont have kids, want the kids they have to also be their mans first and only kids..and 2. Most women dont want to have to deal with baby mommas. Be it just a steryotype or sigma or reality, women are not usually ready or willing to potentially deal with their mans kids mother and possible issues that may bring. Its so common for there to be animosity between the two women and even if thats not the case all the time, thats a risk many women arent willing to take. I usually hear women say"Id only date a man with kids if the mother was out of their lives completly" where as for men its the opposite,its preferable for the kids father to be around because then he doesnt have to step in as the father to the kids and can just fill a lesser role as step father with less preassure. I think when single parents date they can understand each other positions from both sides better so its less of a fear.
@@literate-aside dont shame her because she is honest with what she wants..no one should be guilted into dating people with kids not men or women. Thats how kids end up with shit step parents who hate them.
i can't watch this "the button" garbage, even with your commentary guys i feel like im robbing myself of time watching these people ask each other 2-3 pointless questions then tryna beat each other to hand out some rejection. i made it to 9:06 hope that counts as a view. peace
Young people don't want to be burdened with the responsibility of children. I have the same fears with men and their kids. Nobody here tryna be a step parent
Exactly and people need to stay in there lane.... young people don't want that type of responsibility which makes sense. And divorced parents should date each other... not have some creepy older dad trying to holla at a 20 yr old
A Gravery god that’s my dad right now, in the process of divorcing my mother (I’m 19 so I don’t live at home anymore anyways, and my youngest sibling is 13). All he does is hook up with 18-26 year old women and complain that they ignore his texts or don’t want to hang out. One of his "girlfriends" nephews died 6 days ago, and he was complaining to me that "these women just ignore me, it’s been 6 days, I know her nephew died but she can at least answer a text." I’m like, even without the dead nephew, she’s 22. She’s not looking for a serious relationship with a greyed 50 year old man, she’s looking for a good time. The only women that date men that are THAT significantly older (20+ years) are in it for the money, but of course he finds the bad women because he meets them all at bars, then acts like all women are like that. He’s starting to go hardcore MGTOW because he keeps getting involved with young BARELY ADULT women who are still developing (the brain keeps developing until 25) and gets surprised when they aren’t ‘mature enough’. I can’t even. Oh, and don’t go thinking my mother is a saint either. Me and my younger sister are the the children that resulted from an affair with a man in my mother’s workplace.... Both my parents are a such a disaster... My biological father had to fight for the right to pay child support, because he WANTED to support his kids... I’m not religious but god help me XD
@@aprilla9112 Why do Christians care so much about the capitalization of "god" from those of us who don't believe in whichever one/ones you do/actively worship them? You're worst than the grammar nazis SMH.
*THE BUTTON DOES ADD VALUE!* It helps exposing when and where the date got disinterested and does it right away, instead of the regular post date excuses.
I would maybe understand if they had a job, cuz some jobs just eat up your free time like that, but she does nothin but take care of her kids 😂 Bih go to the park or something damn do somethin with yo kids don't just smoke
Judgemental. Parents can drink wine every night and no one bats an eye but god forbid they smoke a little doobie. They could be the best parent in the world. Weed prob helps them relax and take off stress.
@@music0cool Don't think that's what he means. There's a lot of stuff in the world to do, weed shouldn't be all of it. Parents go out to the park, spend time with their kids, go out to dinner and movies, too. Specifically stating you smoke for fun usually means that's really all you do. Which, and i'm no parent so crucify me if you don't agree, if you have kids and you just smoke weed all day, you probably aren't setting a great example. Plus, if you are single, 26, AND have kids, you'd probably be best putting that money elsewhere...
When the button brought up the ADD it felt really low. Even if she wasn’t into him before, that was out of pocket. Did they think talking about mental health was a good Segway into conversation?
18:16 She was compasionate, she knew she was going to reject "they" as she sat down, she just let the first red button go by to not seem like a jerk, she planned since the beggining to press it.
@Invader Jet Why do you hate them so much? Some did questionable choices true but some just really had scummy sociopathic men, men who left her when she became pregnant happens all the time. Just live your life and ignore it if you do not wanna date one.
@@tellemonhigh4634 shes so gay thou (im not against lgbt) but why they always gotta add in 2 girls but never 2 guys? They are normalizing lesbian relationships but not gay
You're wrong about the women want men with kids thing... alot of women who don't have kids or don't want them dont want to date men who have them either for the same reasons men don't want to date single mothers.
he didn't say women want men with kids. he said the perception of both is different. and he is right. in general a single father is more desirable to the opposite sex than a single mother.
In my dating experience if the man has full custody its a massive red flag. Plus its not the kids, I love kids! Just not the mother they came out of! And if the dad has custody I've noticed its either beacuse the mother ODed or was a dead beat. Wich dosent leave the man or kids with a good mentality.
I don't have kids at all, and I don't wanna give birth to any kid for various reasons, but I love kids a lot. So I don't mind to be with a guy or marry a guy who is a single father.
A lot of men do not want to date single mothers. They have too much baggage with little to no pay-off. Why should any man look after another man's responsibilities? Why should any man develop attachment to children that can easily be revoked from them after a break-up or drama with the actual father? Why should any man be put at the bottom of the list of a woman's priorities. No, just no. It is just a bad deal for the guy.
@carolina hernandez, luckily for me, I have no problem with actual level-headed women who see exactly what I'm talking about and objectively agree that single mothers are a bad dating option for single men, so I don't have to take you seriously. Good day.
@carolina hernandez a simp is someone that always agrees with a woman. And allows woman to walk all over you. That's what what a simp is. How do you know he's a simp?
Some guys are gokus and others are poccolos. Gokus at most fight, make kids, teach their kid to fight and leave to fight more. Piccolos take someone else's kid try to teach the kid to dodge, the kid fails to learn to dodge, then the piccolos die because the kid doesn't know how to dodge, and then piccolo cries tears of pride when the kid finally learns to dodge as an adult. But people don't care about piccolo. They just like seeing goku change his hair color and then learn to dodge both jiren and child support payments
@carolina hernandez Single mothers were either stupid enough to fuck someone unsuitable to be a father or committed to wrong relationship, red flags. Either way, I'm not devoting my time, resources, and money to a kid that will be put ahead of me with drama involving him just to be put 2nd or 3rd. I'd rather take divorce with kids that are mine than pay for kids that aren't just because I was with their mom and the state recognizes me as their dad
Nah it basically says she gets so little time away from her home, that when the kids go to bed she light up a spliff to relax, to me it says the opposite of wild ...
That robotic voice annoying as hell, and ruins what would otherwise be good Content. They’re doing too much over there and trying to be funny with that voice
It was an interesting concept similar to MTV's Next, seems they're going the comedy route whcih is probably why they are going with outrageous pairings now.
I'm a single dad and I prefer single mom's because I know that we both have the same trauma. lol When I say "I can't make it tonight cuz Timmy just got his head stuck in the coffee pot." She knows I'm not trying to avoid her, she laughs and then says, "Oh shit, Amber just came in crying hysterically, I gotta go!" And we try to talk later. XD
I met a guy who moved to Austin from LA back in 2010. Said he’d come for a business opportunity that wasn’t quite panning out but he wouldn’t go back to California for the world. He thought Texans would be close minded, but found they were more honest and genuinely nicer than LA.
No lie Jane is sneakier than a fox. No one else notice her actually hit the buzzer with her elbow and then played it off like she didn't and waited for it to turn red again👀
The perception of a women with kids is that her life revolves around them and she will not have time for you. The perception of a man with kids is that he splits responsibility with the mom.
As a child of a single mom, I was very judgmental of her whenever she wouldn’t introduce me to a partner. I think I definitely opened my eyes a bit more regarding the talk about single parents and waiting until relationships get serious to introduce the child to the partner. Also, eliminate the button.
You were very judgmental when she wouldn't introduce you to her partner... ? Why? Why would you want to? That just doesn't make any sense most kids either don't care about their mother's partner, don't want to meet him or hate their guts because they aren't their father and they don't want them to try to act like it. No kid should be itching to meet their mom's partner unless its because they're being protective, like it's a 'meeting the family' type of deal, I guess I could understand that.
Either you don't know what PTSD is, or this generation is really, really far gone. This is a moderately disappointing and awkward encounter with total strangers, not a life-death scenario lmao.
This is legit the only react channel I watch. Some channels I watch do "reactions" or video responses, but that's not their focus, so I'm not counting them.
No one would meet my kid until it’s a serious relationship. There is no point bringing just anybody around your kid and it’s not safe. But to be honest, I would rather be single and focus on my little one than establishing a relationship with someone until my kid is older. That’s just my preference, but I’ve seen so many single moms bringing anyone they like around their kids and then the guy doesn’t want it all. Then the mom is in a position where they’re not only dealing with their own heartbreak, but now they have to sort out what their baby is going through. All they had to do was keep their dating life out of their kids vision. Establish a relationship and be honest about being a parent, but keep it all separate until it’s real. Then see how your little one and your partner vibe. But kids are a HUGE deal and not just anyone should be around.
I couldn't agree with you more. Im in that exact situation with my ex right now and im fuming. She met a dude and fucked him and on their second date she brought my son with her and the new guy played with him and carried him etc and she doesn't get why im mad. My girlfriend met my son after 6months
ABSOLUTELY! one of the first times i hung out with a woman she brought her 3 year old kid along and i was thinking the whole time WHY??? (mind you we also have a 10 year age gap me being the junior at 20 yrs old)it was very awkward and it just kinda gave insight into her mindset honestly. absolutely irresponsible and inconsiderate as i had no idea beforehand either. + kids dude :/ idek your fav colour or middle name and you want me to meet your little one?
@@equivalentexchangeisalie5726 i was 19 turning 20** lmao i didnt see how messed up it was for her to consider dating someone w my age and life experience. also it was one of the first same sex dates ive ever been on. new experience all around tbh
@@robinlofton655 I mean I've never heard the whole step mother thing before , usually it's I don't want a useless man that would make me his mother. Single dad's usually look after there's (stereotypically at least)
@@robinlofton655 yeah no single person should jump into a relationship with someone with kids especially young people. I commented before watching the video😂that's why it was interesting
@@priin3944 What? "They" is for multiple people not for one person. If you really want me to play along with that person ideology than I'll just use "it's" name. See, how I said "it" and not "they". It's grammar not life and besides, there are, many others ways to describe a person without being grammatically incorrect. It's just my opinion, so don't get to over worked up from it.
@Moby Caro Donigian I never said there aren't exeptions but my point still is valid. Of course, I'll use they than it in some situations but "they" DOES NOT represent a gender. And that's my belief. I'm not saying to not use the word "they", all I'm saying is that I belive that they and it can't represent someone's sex. All humans are either born male or female. If you don't like my way of thinking just ignore me and continue with your day. Have a great day/night.
I thought she was pretty cool from how outgoing she was but I can also understand how the way she acts can be weird and a little cringe as well. But she was better than majority of those other people in terms of personality.
Single moms also unusually have the kids more often then the father does so there’s a lot more to consider when dating especially when it comes to the kids safety and comfort coming first
5:00 You know what Preach, I agree with you. These women are told to be independent and that they don't need a man and many men see this as antagonist behavior and run for the hills but what does this really say? It says that she listens to what she's told and that she'll listen to a strong presence in her life whether that's the female community or a strong man, in fact that's what she's looking for. The difference is the female community isn't gonna actually do shit for her, in terms of helping her raise her kids. They take and offer nothing in return, like many soldiers that fight for their country and are left to their own devices afterward.
@@tizodd6 I'm glad I wasn't the only one who felt that as soon as she entered the room. She's double thinking as the other person talks. I would've have pressed the button immediately. Shes not use to being rejected a lot I wager.
After awhile observing behaviour. I’ve come to the conclusion. If someone is being truly honest with you? It hits different than anything the person could say, whether they interested in you or not As Preach noted, when you’ve worked customer service enough, you sorta see the signs right away If I’m being honest with someone? There’s negatives but there’s positives too I remember my grand parents told me once. If you really care for someone? You’ll get mad with them too. If you really don’t feel anything towards them. You’ll only ever be “nice” to them. And never express how you really feel
I just think they’re funny and in regards to their views, there frankly aren’t a lot of people stickin up for men right now. It’s like the view for men but actually thought provoking and funny. A lot of women watch them too
I love how this goes from flimsy dating show premise to outright survival of the fittest This is what life was like for early man, nearly 100k years ago lmao
"You catfished me bro." I'm pretty sure she saw how she went for the button as soon as she realized the guy wasn't into her in the last round and she wasn't going to let her play her like that, so she made sure she had no idea she wasn't interested.
I had a infant under a year when I met my husband. We married 9 months after our first lunch date. Our offices were in the same building. Life is unpredictable.
8:42 🤭🤣LoL Preach’s Face when he saw the doll coming out!😬 19:17 what’s so funny is that the robot had absolutely nothing to contribute so it just said “Okay.” Haha I like the fact that you guys have started referencing jokes from past videos!👱🏿👍🏿
I like how Aba has the wisdom of a man whose dated 20,000 women but Preach has the wisdom of a man whose dated the same woman for 20,000 years
"Fear not the man who has dated 2000 women but the man who has dated the same woman 2000 years." - Bruce Lee, I guess?
And I don't even have the wisdom that one second of either would give. :(
I would agree with that observation
Ohh well done
This line is gangsta
Girl: I'm smoking weed.
Monk: I'm in.
Girl: Cause I have kids.
Monk: I'm out.
@Emmerich August most single moms are nice cause they wanna get someone to help them out, if she did not have children, she would not even entertain him
Not that much competition for single mothers? You're insane. Beauty is really the only thing that matters to men. If you're pretty, that's all they care about. Ask the famous singer, Ciara.
@KnineATheart ` I'm glad someone told this chick 🤣. I was going to say girl bye! Not every guy is a Chad or Tyrone, trying to bump every hot chick. Plus the woman wasn't even that good looking, so I'm not even seeing the correlation to her comment 🤨
@@agtrots Russel already had kids himself.Ciara's case is rare,on top of that he is a rare good guy who has a lot of money but zero sex appeal. His first wife is evidence of this.
@@nyikomaswanganyi5983 Russel Wilson did not have kids when he met Ciara. You're wrong. & how do you speak for women on whether or not he has sex appeal? Plenty of women find him attractive.
“You’re 19? Im not even supposed to be around kids”🤣🤣
Azi Weaver that was funny af lmao
What she mean by that?
@@hemanths2230 too young..
@@hemanths2230 I aint gone lie.. my gf is 19 lmao smh
Hemanth S she might have a case on kid’s 🤦🏽♂️
The Asian lady was leaning in to get leverage to hit the button quicker while making it look like she was interested. Seen it from the beginning. As soon as she sat back and got comfortable I knew she was not going to hit the button.
“Doesn’t he look like he just defends the most important library in the world” I actually started laughing at that
That tall guy looked like the Asian martial arts master from Rush hour two
That had me in tears! 🤣🤣
That'd be a damn good movie
Remember the Owl from Avatar? Vibes😂
My man missed the button 💀💀💀💀
I know a guy who put off breaking up with someone because he genuinely liked her kid so much.
Damn
Or their dog. Their dog might be more imprinted on you than them.
Damn he was a keeper for her.
A simple misunderstanding could make this comment very suspicious.
Justin Baker 😂😂😂
Asian girl “ahh your parents passed away” man I’m sorry
“Hits button”
Lmao
she could have said ,,aww your parents passed away.lol'' and I wouldn't have pushed the button. She has some crazy mesmeric eyes
@@wall99-j9e bruuuuuuh
@@foggyfrogy or manipulative you mean
I Think she's a Narcissist.
Tall asian guy: *hits button prematurely*
Short old lady: "...And I took that personally"
He hit it too late*
The asian lady tried to "accidentally" hit the button with her elbow and then was like " oH nO dId I rUiN iT" 😂
Ikr lmao
100%
First thing I thought when I saw that
@Wyatt Peck who? asians or ladies?
@Wyatt Peck damn you just straight up said that
The asian chick was really trying to hit the button with her elbow when she thought she broke it.
The Asian girl graduated with honors from Sun Tzu Academy of Flirting
@@nendu4316 hmm idk, Sun Tzu is considered to be one of the greatest strategists in history. I honestly think this comment was just acknowledging her skills
@@nendu4316 wait, how?? I'm so confused
@@nendu4316 if Sun Tzu wasn't actually a person, I would completely agree with you. But since he was, and he is famous throughout the world, not for being Asain, but for being a strategist who wrote "The Art of War", then I would have to disagree. I honestly don't understand why the OP can't mention Sun Tzu because his name sounds "Asian." He was Asain. Wouldn't it actually be racist instead if we refused to refer to him because of his name?
@@nendu4316 ack, I just realized how offhandish that last part was. I wasn't trying to attack you, I was just trying to understand your reasoning so that I could avoid offending people in the future. My word-age definitely came out wrong though. I completely agree that it has a lot to do with intention and, if the comment was worded differently, I would've agreed with you immediately. Also, thank you for having a civilized discussion. Sometimes youtube comments can get scary lol
best comment this year
How cringy do you want the dating show?
Cut: YES
🤣
They sabotaged that African dude. They hit him twice with that "thiccness"
Que_Rico how did he play up a racial trope?
Yea they did him dirty
When the button asked if she was “thicc”, the right thing to say was:
“You know what...stand up and let me look atcha. Turn around.”
@@rdthaprariedawg but that's just playing into The Button's hand.
The button mentions things that the contestant has said that is their preference before the video
She thought she was sneaky trying to hit the button with her elbow after that high five😭💀
Yeah, fucking smashes down hella fast, thing breaks...imagine she pressed it the second the woman fixed it lol
Yes! I noticed that too!
lmao LIKE OH NO I DROPPED MY ELBOW ACCIDENTALLY the Asian chick just loves rejecting before she gets rejected. The Asian chick is practiced in rejecting before getting rejected. She even likes some of these people but she just has such a fuckin shield around her that she rejects anyone who doesn't immediately ply to her intense personality :D
@@Sheridan2LT for real...talking about some "sorry" lmao she loves it
@@Sheridan2LT She likes them, but she's not attracted to them. Idk y they lined her up w/ a bunch of ppl who weren't n her league.
I rule Legitimate Rejection.
I’m a single mom, and yes, it’s hard to date. I’ve been completely alone for over 3 years. I’m not mad about it. I get it. If I was a childless, single man, I’d prefer a childless, single woman. As a mom, I don’t have as much time to give to a partner nor can I be as spontaneous as a childless woman. It is what it is. I’ll probably be single for years to come, and I’m ok with that.
I'll give you one thing- atleast you know your place and dont resent your baby for being alone.
Meanwhile, my young, single mother friends are out here getting married way before me & lots of other childless women I know lol. There are plenty of men of value marrying single mothers, if that's what you want.
@@agtrots Not a men of value and common sense.
Kaneisha Lewis eww. Young single moms are damaged goods. Some dudes gotta touch the stove tho
@KnineATheart ` I personally know these women & no, the men did not have children before they met these women. Stop with the lies.
I respect tf out of someone that is cautious with meeting kids. I wish the dudes my mom got with were like that.
I think it's an excuse men usually just don't find single mums attractive
But its also ur mom allowing them to meet u so...
@@itzAurora_Xoxo oh for sure. I'm not at all absolving my mom of responsibility. She fked up big time letting some of these POS men in my and my siblings life- without going into too much detail. If she had taken the responsibility of not letting men come and go, my original comment wouldn't be necessary in the first place.
@@yellymack8981 uhhh sometimes single mums are attractive?
Or single ladies.
Cuz for some guys they have to take in consideration about the kids. Like shoot if I get with this girl or lady and she has a child or kid. Like if their grown up 5 or 10 years old, the kid might? Who knows it depends.
@@yellymack8981 stupidest shit I heard
This is not a rejection game. This is king of the hill who's the last man or woman standing. Atleast that's what it feels like to me....
That’s how it comes across. They might as well rename this show to “the shallow index” or something. Not a good formula for a dating show.
The one who cares the least wins, right?
It is true, the fact that the button exist invites competition, sort of a survival game, so you'll hit the button on a whim to stay in your seat and not because you dislike the guy/girl on the other side but well, you wanna win
@@michaelrichards5340 well thewhole point is to hit the button if you are moreinclined to win the competition versus actually talk to the other person so....
That's some battle royal ish 😂😂
Aba: "I'm into anime"
Girl: "What's that"
Button: "Hentai"
Girl: "I see"
- Girl presses button after
Wait, how does one know hentai but not anime?
@@tjlnintendo ignorant people just assume that they are one and the same
@@yz8504 +1, know some people irl like that
@@tjlnintendo I met a lot of ignorant uncultured people who think like that usually pornies.
Well its been hard to different anime from Hentia because over amount of fanserrvice now a days
Nobody:
Wikipedia: Vicarious embarrassment (also known as secondhand, empathetic, or third party embarrassment) is the feeling of embarrassment from observing the embarrassing actions of another person.
Aka cringe
@@mzmendy So you're telling me that embarassment can be stacked? Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiittttttttttttttttttttttttttttt
Thank you! I face this a lot so its good to put a name to it finally!
In russian we call it "Spanish shame"
this is mad funny
As an Asian, I dont know but I kinda feel like I could read this Asian girl really well. Some girls are very good with acting friendly and attentive but they are very cautious and guarded and are lowkey judging everyone inside their mind. It is really not a good trait but the more you interactive with them, you would feel guarded too lol. No wonder its full of drama within our community eh
Oh absolutely. Lived in japan 7+ years and around the third i started realizing what you just mentioned. As a friend put it: " they're friendly, just not your friends" 😅 still, i f-ing love Asia
Bro that’s not asians, that’s just woman ja feel
Yea, my lady is Asian and her and almost all her friends have that overly friendly (almost seductive) exteriors that hide extremely judgemental and fickle/disinterested interiors.
Although most of my wifes friends are not Asian, so its probably not an asian thing and more a pretty female thing. It's like they are trying to make their looks and their personalities match when in most cases, the two are polar opposites.
If you ask me, that's actually the Universal Personality Trait for Majority of women, around the world
Yeah cos a being a friend is built over time and when we are too friendly, the men especially in Asia get too many ideas and we don’t want that. A lot of friendships and relationships take time and numerous interactions. Not everyone needs to be open to everyone all the time. Draining but we are still kind
They should just call this, "Try to hook up with someone while dealing with an annoying third wheel."
those "CUT" videos are the total cringe
@@heyhoe168 CUT videos are totay shit.
honestly, aba being able to read that asian girl is so impressive. i woulda gotten played like a fiddle.
@Hq it depends on the video. These kind of videos they usually have a fresh reaction but sometimes ABA will prepare depending on the video and message behind it
She looked guarded the whole, both arms out and covering her center. The words are deceiving, but if you see a body that looks like it is ready to block, fight, or run.... they don't wanna, they trying to escape.....
Speaking from experience
@@davidevans7477 ima try to remember this
@Cricket Hop This. She is quite impressive.
idk something felt fake about her tbh
This pin the hate comment to promote engagement on the post is genius. Y'all got me in here talking to crazy people smh.
Glad you caught on
Yeah, people in there being whole fools. Lol
@@AbaNPreach galaxy brain plays👌
It’s called the pin of shame
It's even better when the people responding think that you only pin people you agree with and ignore everybody else because they want to be able to play the attention seeking game and claim the people they hate live in a bubble, seen it all before then you pin them and we all get to laugh as they don't know what to do with themselves.
Personally aba looks like a guy who lives in the wild like a lone wolf while preach looks like a cool rockstar.
The awkwardness after the dude missed his chance to hit the button was just. Oof.
Jane, the Asian girl.
She was very sneaky about her ways.
She was making people feel like they had a chance with her, and then they're loosened up and comfortable about their interests. She shuts them down heartlessly. She knew what she's doing.
She’s experienced in sales, for sure, and if she’s not she SHOULD be. She’d make a ton of money.
Very sneaky...
She is a playa
i mean wouldnt that help whoever is in front of her to not fuck up by being nervous? sure she might not be in to you, but she gave you a chance and you were able to show YIOU bacause you were relaxed.
She's a bit of a player, a smooth talker. And she clearly had the end goal in mind. Her strategy was to be as charming and engaging as possible in order to not get eliminated, and to have enough time and shots at sussing the others out to actually pick someone she liked. It was a good strategy imo.
"Omg I have ADD too!"
"I dont wanna sit here and talk about my ADD"
mmhmm she was never interested in the first place. She used that as a distraction to get him to ramble on as she waited for the button to turn red.
That’s cruel man lmaoooo
they did the 6 foot guy mad dirty with that button
When the guy was talking about ADHD, that woman pressed it twice really quickly. It was like "make it stop, please... please".
I have ADD and I wouldn't like to date someone with ADHD neither....
@@foggyfrogy Sorry for the mispelling.
You have a point but the way she did it was hilarious. It was like she was making sure the button, the person & everyone watching know that she was not interested. It even seemed she was disgusted.
@@decode3667 oh yeah you're right :E
@@decode3667 Kinda shows her insecurity regarding that subject... She tried to act normal but we can all see the cracks through that porcelaine facr
IS ANYONE ELSE MAD THAT THE COMMENTS SCROLL ALL THE WAY TO THE TOP WHEN AN AD PLAYS👹 I WAS SO DEEP IN IT
My comments are now under the video so I can’t even scroll down
RUclips premium son!
@@kabnoot Adblock Grandson!
go to the end of the video before seeing it then push replay and there will be no ads
It was annoying as F!! I almost quit watching RUclips for only this reason alone. I would always be soooo far down and ad comes on and whoops....back to the beginning. But since they did the update, it doesn’t happen anymore so RUclips saved its own ass, so they lucky 😒
Dating a single mother is like continuing someone else saved game
😁😁🤣🤣🤷♂️😭😭😭😭
And still have to do 70% of the side missions
@Kirsty Birsty "smart men learn from their mistakes but wise men learn from the mistakes of others " and I've heard and seen enough horror stories to not play that game
@@fredrikb343 yup idk how its cute to these females to be called babby momma
Classic lol
That 100/69 comment had me dying
Have to say, I'm a woman who wouldn't date a single father. I also don't want that responsibility.
What a feminist lol
Id argue its harder for single dads than it is for single moms..the only fathers who dont have problems dating are deadbeats. Most women dont want to be stepmoms, and there are a lot of reasons but the main two are 1. Most women who dont have kids, want the kids they have to also be their mans first and only kids..and 2. Most women dont want to have to deal with baby mommas. Be it just a steryotype or sigma or reality, women are not usually ready or willing to potentially deal with their mans kids mother and possible issues that may bring. Its so common for there to be animosity between the two women and even if thats not the case all the time, thats a risk many women arent willing to take. I usually hear women say"Id only date a man with kids if the mother was out of their lives completly" where as for men its the opposite,its preferable for the kids father to be around because then he doesnt have to step in as the father to the kids and can just fill a lesser role as step father with less preassure. I think when single parents date they can understand each other positions from both sides better so its less of a fear.
You sound like a real keeper. Who needs love above all, amirite?
@@literate-aside dont shame her because she is honest with what she wants..no one should be guilted into dating people with kids not men or women. Thats how kids end up with shit step parents who hate them.
Antoni you’re probably the same type of guy to say women w kids are damaged goods and say this right after
"I'll reject you before you reject me"
that's the reaction from a fear that all narcissists have
Unhealthy as shit
or just get enough money in life so you can fuck the person you want to... this applies to women too...
It's also the reaction people with abandonment issues have
Nah à narcissist would say ‘how dare you reject me, now I have to destroy you’
Nah that’s a human
i can't watch this "the button" garbage, even with your commentary guys i feel like im robbing myself of time watching these people ask each other 2-3 pointless questions then tryna beat each other to hand out some rejection.
i made it to 9:06 hope that counts as a view. peace
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“Hope that counts as a view” lmao you’re so done
to be fair this is the cringe report
@King_SB it's like they are turning relationsips into a minefield.
On youtube, a view is counted when you have watched at least 30 seconds of content. So yes, it counts.
The Asian girl destroyed the competition🤣🤣
She was the competition
ty for posting almost every single day... I always look forward to watching you guys while having dinner .. Best content ... ever
Yeahh
Breakfast Watcher here, Preachs laugh wakes my whole house up, its the new alarmclock 🤣🤣
@@oddpoppetesq.3467 😅
Such a cute lil comment
Same. Just discovered them last week. At least 25 videos in.
When he tried to eliminate her and it didn’t work omg 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 OOOOOOUUUUUUUUU LOL
Blockparty313 Detroit I feel they did him kinda dirty he was reaching while it was red stil.
@@bullshark3771 He was reaching for way too long, brought it on himself
I lost it 💀 lol
😅😅😅
BullShark I agree lol. They did they on purpose 😂😂🔥
Young people don't want to be burdened with the responsibility of children. I have the same fears with men and their kids. Nobody here tryna be a step parent
Exactly and people need to stay in there lane.... young people don't want that type of responsibility which makes sense. And divorced parents should date each other... not have some creepy older dad trying to holla at a 20 yr old
A Gravery god that’s my dad right now, in the process of divorcing my mother (I’m 19 so I don’t live at home anymore anyways, and my youngest sibling is 13). All he does is hook up with 18-26 year old women and complain that they ignore his texts or don’t want to hang out.
One of his "girlfriends" nephews died 6 days ago, and he was complaining to me that "these women just ignore me, it’s been 6 days, I know her nephew died but she can at least answer a text."
I’m like, even without the dead nephew, she’s 22. She’s not looking for a serious relationship with a greyed 50 year old man, she’s looking for a good time. The only women that date men that are THAT significantly older (20+ years) are in it for the money, but of course he finds the bad women because he meets them all at bars, then acts like all women are like that. He’s starting to go hardcore MGTOW because he keeps getting involved with young BARELY ADULT women who are still developing (the brain keeps developing until 25) and gets surprised when they aren’t ‘mature enough’.
I can’t even. Oh, and don’t go thinking my mother is a saint either. Me and my younger sister are the the children that resulted from an affair with a man in my mother’s workplace.... Both my parents are a such a disaster... My biological father had to fight for the right to pay child support, because he WANTED to support his kids... I’m not religious but god help me XD
Jay Bae *God ❤️
@@aprilla9112 Why do Christians care so much about the capitalization of "god" from those of us who don't believe in whichever one/ones you do/actively worship them? You're worst than the grammar nazis SMH.
@@bmgfrosty7089 god*
that asian lady does retail 100% with a customer service smile like that
*THE BUTTON DOES ADD VALUE!*
It helps exposing when and where the date got disinterested and does it right away, instead of the regular post date excuses.
If your main talking points are:
Im 26 I have kids.
And I smoke weed for fun.
You're probably not doing either of those things that well
Underrated lol
I would maybe understand if they had a job, cuz some jobs just eat up your free time like that, but she does nothin but take care of her kids 😂
Bih go to the park or something damn do somethin with yo kids don't just smoke
Judgemental. Parents can drink wine every night and no one bats an eye but god forbid they smoke a little doobie. They could be the best parent in the world. Weed prob helps them relax and take off stress.
@@music0cool Don't think that's what he means.
There's a lot of stuff in the world to do, weed shouldn't be all of it. Parents go out to the park, spend time with their kids, go out to dinner and movies, too. Specifically stating you smoke for fun usually means that's really all you do. Which, and i'm no parent so crucify me if you don't agree, if you have kids and you just smoke weed all day, you probably aren't setting a great example.
Plus, if you are single, 26, AND have kids, you'd probably be best putting that money elsewhere...
@@paynevess8822 Truth
When the button brought up the ADD it felt really low. Even if she wasn’t into him before, that was out of pocket. Did they think talking about mental health was a good Segway into conversation?
not as low as me correcting segue caus you have to know which one was first thats like thinking subway sandwiches built underground railways
Add aint a mental ilness tho but i agree with the sentiment
See the way you reacted? That’s why.
Segue
@@axusuvitieoliveira How?
18:16 She was compasionate, she knew she was going to reject "they" as she sat down, she just let the first red button go by to not seem like a jerk, she planned since the beggining to press it.
"They" 😂😂😂
I guess that is a lot nicer than just immediately pressing the button before you even sat down like a lot of people would.
When she "broke" the button she was trying to hit it with her elbow 😂 sneaky as hell
🤣🤣🤣🤣we peeped that shit because we sneaky but I caught that too 🤣🤣🤣
my gut was screaming the same thing XD
The moment she mentioned that she has kids, I would press the button the immediately.
same. not because I hate single moms but because I do not wanna bear that responsibility yet.
same. not because I hate single moms but because I do not wanna bear that responsibility yet.
@Invader Jet Why do you hate them so much? Some did questionable choices true but some just really had scummy sociopathic men, men who left her when she became pregnant happens all the time. Just live your life and ignore it if you do not wanna date one.
I would too, I'm in no way ready to be farther especially to someone else kids.
Aba and Preach must know all of their viewers be up late at night every night🤣
Actually its morning for me in Poland😉✌️
11 am here and i haven't slept hehehehe
@@cominforyachips 3am here
@@hubertkowalczuk1993 morning
@@DanielClear2 3am here
“It looks like they put a buddhist monk’s head on lurch” dying 😂
Omg same lol 😆 😂
The Asian girl is so good. Totally seductive but definitely sneaky.
Asian chick was waaay too goodlooking for the jazzflute girl.
She looks so gay getting too close to the women
Yeah it’s called being somewhat good looking. If you have a nice body then you don’t have to say much.
@@tellemonhigh4634 shes so gay thou (im not against lgbt) but why they always gotta add in 2 girls but never 2 guys? They are normalizing lesbian relationships but not gay
I'm trying to find out if she's a scorpio..scorpios are very seductive 🤔
You're wrong about the women want men with kids thing... alot of women who don't have kids or don't want them dont want to date men who have them either for the same reasons men don't want to date single mothers.
True
he didn't say women want men with kids. he said the perception of both is different. and he is right. in general a single father is more desirable to the opposite sex than a single mother.
No they're not wrong. You clearly have no life experience.
In my dating experience if the man has full custody its a massive red flag. Plus its not the kids, I love kids! Just not the mother they came out of!
And if the dad has custody I've noticed its either beacuse the mother ODed or was a dead beat. Wich dosent leave the man or kids with a good mentality.
I don't have kids at all, and I don't wanna give birth to any kid for various reasons, but I love kids a lot. So I don't mind to be with a guy or marry a guy who is a single father.
A lot of men do not want to date single mothers. They have too much baggage with little to no pay-off. Why should any man look after another man's responsibilities? Why should any man develop attachment to children that can easily be revoked from them after a break-up or drama with the actual father? Why should any man be put at the bottom of the list of a woman's priorities. No, just no. It is just a bad deal for the guy.
@carolina hernandez, luckily for me, I have no problem with actual level-headed women who see exactly what I'm talking about and objectively agree that single mothers are a bad dating option for single men, so I don't have to take you seriously. Good day.
@carolina hernandez a simp is someone that always agrees with a woman. And allows woman to walk all over you. That's what what a simp is. How do you know he's a simp?
Some guys are gokus and others are poccolos. Gokus at most fight, make kids, teach their kid to fight and leave to fight more. Piccolos take someone else's kid try to teach the kid to dodge, the kid fails to learn to dodge, then the piccolos die because the kid doesn't know how to dodge, and then piccolo cries tears of pride when the kid finally learns to dodge as an adult. But people don't care about piccolo. They just like seeing goku change his hair color and then learn to dodge both jiren and child support payments
@carolina hernandez
Single mothers were either stupid enough to fuck someone unsuitable to be a father or committed to wrong relationship, red flags. Either way, I'm not devoting my time, resources, and money to a kid that will be put ahead of me with drama involving him just to be put 2nd or 3rd. I'd rather take divorce with kids that are mine than pay for kids that aren't just because I was with their mom and the state recognizes me as their dad
@carolina hernandez
I won't, and that's why many other men with sense don't either
WHEN PREACH SAID THE FLOOR WASNT MAKING NOISE, ABA AND I MADE THE SAME FACE LMAOOO
Lmfo
She tried to drop the people's elbow on that box after the ADD comment. She is a sniper.
You have ADD? same, now gtfo!!!!!!!!!
I knew that Asian girl was keeping her arms on the table to hit it faster
You can’t say you have kids and say the only thing you do for fun is smoke weed. That sounds wild 😂
Right!? Lmao 🤣 🤣
Start with baking, work your way forward.
Nah it basically says she gets so little time away from her home, that when the kids go to bed she light up a spliff to relax, to me it says the opposite of wild ...
I read your comment and then i looked at your picture 😂
What’s the problem? They all smoke. One grinds the buds, another one rolls up, and another takes care of the snacks, win-win right there...
20:42 "Yes, officer, I'd like to report a brutal murder."
That robotic voice annoying as hell, and ruins what would otherwise be good Content. They’re doing too much over there and trying to be funny with that voice
It was an interesting concept similar to MTV's Next, seems they're going the comedy route whcih is probably why they are going with outrageous pairings now.
Cut/Jubilee: *drops a video*
Aba & Preach: ~It's free real estate~
😂😂😂
He DOES like he protects an ancient library.
Good point preach: single mom looks promiscuous. Single dad is a hero. Good observation.
If the dad is taking care of the kids, yeah. Promiscuous definitely ain’t the right word to use either considering a single dad does too.
@StoneBoiii420 I don’t think we read the same comment then. He described both of them in separate sentences.
@Mia Niday that's cool you,re free to have your preferences, just like I prefer a slim, childless, laid back women.
@Mia Niday thats fine
I smash so many chicks just by having Full custody of my kid. Women would spoil my daughter during the day & spoil me rotten during the night 🤣
I'm a single dad and I prefer single mom's because I know that we both have the same trauma. lol When I say "I can't make it tonight cuz Timmy just got his head stuck in the coffee pot." She knows I'm not trying to avoid her, she laughs and then says, "Oh shit, Amber just came in crying hysterically, I gotta go!" And we try to talk later. XD
Poor Timmy, lol
love this lmao
Damn Timmy....smh
@@quiannawilliams7657 😂😂😂😂😂
Facts!!
Preach: "I m'not supposed to be around kids."😂
This is perfect for LA, the people there will smile in your face like all buddy buddy. Then push that bottom first chance they get. It's the culture.
I met a guy who moved to Austin from LA back in 2010. Said he’d come for a business opportunity that wasn’t quite panning out but he wouldn’t go back to California for the world. He thought Texans would be close minded, but found they were more honest and genuinely nicer than LA.
@@Meshuga63 I believe it man, and that was 2010? I know a lot from Cali who have great things to say about Texas. So word must have got out.
Blaq Rabbit Cut is actually from Seattle, which I hate since I live in Washington State lol.
She can be nice and not be interested in them
They smile because they want to be respectful. Would a frown be better to you? They push the button to see who will show up next
No lie Jane is sneakier than a fox. No one else notice her actually hit the buzzer with her elbow and then played it off like she didn't and waited for it to turn red again👀
That girl tried to low key press that button with her elbow while high fiving the bald guy and nearly destroyed it. Lol.
She's either a lesbian or she's into black men.
@@hendrixjoe555 ...
Yesss she was tryna get fancy with her rejections 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I peeped that as well
The perception of a women with kids is that her life revolves around them and she will not have time for you. The perception of a man with kids is that he splits responsibility with the mom.
As a child of a single mom, I was very judgmental of her whenever she wouldn’t introduce me to a partner. I think I definitely opened my eyes a bit more regarding the talk about single parents and waiting until relationships get serious to introduce the child to the partner. Also, eliminate the button.
I'm a single mom. It would have to be very serious for me to introduce my kids. I think women who do it early try to do the emotional blackmail angle
You were very judgmental when she wouldn't introduce you to her partner... ? Why? Why would you want to? That just doesn't make any sense most kids either don't care about their mother's partner, don't want to meet him or hate their guts because they aren't their father and they don't want them to try to act like it. No kid should be itching to meet their mom's partner unless its because they're being protective, like it's a 'meeting the family' type of deal, I guess I could understand that.
I’m convinced that the first woman started looking for the feds when she heard his age
"Do you know how this go?" , "i think so". Says the guy who rejects some people last episode lmao
I swear when that button was singing it sounded like when Squidward use SpongeBob as a clarinet in his dream.
This adds so much adversarialism and anxiety to an already highly stressful situation... this is what PTSD is made out of
PTSD? That sounds extreme.
Snowflake
Either you don't know what PTSD is, or this generation is really, really far gone. This is a moderately disappointing and awkward encounter with total strangers, not a life-death scenario lmao.
@@publiusventidiusbassus1232 PTSD is not a disorder from “life or death” scenarios. Lol... PTSD is quite versatile at adapting to almost any trauma.
@@YusuphYT bra this is not PTSD thank you
YO THE ASIAN GIRL WAS LEANING IN SO SHE'D BE CLOSE TO THE BUTTON I CAN"T THAT WAS INCREDIBLE
This is an actual reaction channel. Most of them just sit there and wait till the video is over or not say anything.
This is legit the only react channel I watch.
Some channels I watch do "reactions" or video responses, but that's not their focus, so I'm not counting them.
I recommend Cody Ko
@@oz_jones Papa gut does actual reacts too
“More sound than words coming out of this girl.” Stole the words right out of mouth! 🤣🤣🤣
And apparently from her mouth too.
Shes trying to be slick with that elbow of hers
I don't usually feel awkward watching other people be awkward but that asian dude killed me
I could heard the voice *at this moment, he knows he fucked up* 😂😂😂
Damn Aba chill you trynna have the LGBTQ community after Preach lmao
bruh lmfao
When they attack, they are known as the Alphabet Mafia
Damn..........!!!!!!!!!! 😳 😯 😮 yo comment is shitty
Simmer yo ass down, boards set
No one would meet my kid until it’s a serious relationship. There is no point bringing just anybody around your kid and it’s not safe. But to be honest, I would rather be single and focus on my little one than establishing a relationship with someone until my kid is older. That’s just my preference, but I’ve seen so many single moms bringing anyone they like around their kids and then the guy doesn’t want it all. Then the mom is in a position where they’re not only dealing with their own heartbreak, but now they have to sort out what their baby is going through. All they had to do was keep their dating life out of their kids vision. Establish a relationship and be honest about being a parent, but keep it all separate until it’s real. Then see how your little one and your partner vibe. But kids are a HUGE deal and not just anyone should be around.
I couldn't agree with you more. Im in that exact situation with my ex right now and im fuming. She met a dude and fucked him and on their second date she brought my son with her and the new guy played with him and carried him etc and she doesn't get why im mad. My girlfriend met my son after 6months
It comes with maturity, and i speak from experience. Unfortunately parenting is not one of those things you need qualifications for
ABSOLUTELY! one of the first times i hung out with a woman she brought her 3 year old kid along and i was thinking the whole time WHY??? (mind you we also have a 10 year age gap me being the junior at 20 yrs old)it was very awkward and it just kinda gave insight into her mindset honestly. absolutely irresponsible and inconsiderate as i had no idea beforehand either. + kids dude :/ idek your fav colour or middle name and you want me to meet your little one?
@@misanthr0pic Why were you dating a 30 year old woman with a kid? Work on yourself and you can do better.
@@equivalentexchangeisalie5726 i was 19 turning 20** lmao i didnt see how messed up it was for her to consider dating someone w my age and life experience. also it was one of the first same sex dates ive ever been on. new experience all around tbh
I don’t want a man with kids. Not trying to be a stepmother
Edit: and men shouldn’t get shit for not wanting to be a stepdad. 🤷🏽♀️
Lol interesting
remelle alcendor is it? I’m only 23 if I wanted kids I’d have them lol. I’m not sure if I’d ever want kids honestly.
@@robinlofton655 I mean I've never heard the whole step mother thing before , usually it's I don't want a useless man that would make me his mother.
Single dad's usually look after there's (stereotypically at least)
@@robinlofton655 yeah no single person should jump into a relationship with someone with kids especially young people.
I commented before watching the video😂that's why it was interesting
I'm with you, I also don't want to be in a relationship with a men with kids, not until I'm past 30.
When they said "welcome to customer service" I can say 100% it is exactly this chick. Much respect to her skill at that part of life.
The button - bisexual edition.
The button - they them edition.
What’s they/them...
That makes no sense. They is for multiple people.
@@priin3944 What? "They" is for multiple people not for one person. If you really want me to play along with that person ideology than I'll just use "it's" name. See, how I said "it" and not "they". It's grammar not life and besides, there are, many others ways to describe a person without being grammatically incorrect. It's just my opinion, so don't get to over worked up from it.
@Moby Caro Donigian I never said there aren't exeptions but my point still is valid. Of course, I'll use they than it in some situations but "they" DOES NOT represent a gender. And that's my belief. I'm not saying to not use the word "they", all I'm saying is that I belive that they and it can't represent someone's sex. All humans are either born male or female. If you don't like my way of thinking just ignore me and continue with your day. Have a great day/night.
@@MaryamPirzada Pronouns for confused people
There is just something about a girl that says “bro” that makes me cringe, Let alone it being at the end of every sentence.. 😬
You're not alone
oooookkkkaaaaaaay
I thought she was pretty cool from how outgoing she was but I can also understand how the way she acts can be weird and a little cringe as well. But she was better than majority of those other people in terms of personality.
DeltaDrifter2201 I agree, personality and expression can not be judged as a single unit!
I wasn't sure "she" was a girl at first.
That "Thurston" guy definitely has a favourite craft beer
Or he makes his own beer.
@@oz_jones or he is an antifa "commander"... sorry the stachio gives your veiled racism away my dude...
And a fixed gear bike
Single moms also unusually have the kids more often then the father does so there’s a lot more to consider when dating especially when it comes to the kids safety and comfort coming first
What do you do for fun.
“I smoke weed”💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
5:00 You know what Preach, I agree with you. These women are told to be independent and that they don't need a man and many men see this as antagonist behavior and run for the hills but what does this really say? It says that she listens to what she's told and that she'll listen to a strong presence in her life whether that's the female community or a strong man, in fact that's what she's looking for. The difference is the female community isn't gonna actually do shit for her, in terms of helping her raise her kids. They take and offer nothing in return, like many soldiers that fight for their country and are left to their own devices afterward.
The Asian girl was looking for someone playable. The white girl in glasses better watch-out. She presents herself as a plaything.
Asian girl was 100% there for fun. Jazz flute chick was there because of bad breakup. This wont end well for Jazz flute players.
Yeah, the asian chick seems anything but trustworthy. She's way too good at manipulation.
tizodd6 Probably worked in sales, she’s good at building fake rapport
@JBcoolbreez and there's a lot of those types in LA presumbly.
@@tizodd6 I'm glad I wasn't the only one who felt that as soon as she entered the room. She's double thinking as the other person talks. I would've have pressed the button immediately. Shes not use to being rejected a lot I wager.
After awhile observing behaviour. I’ve come to the conclusion. If someone is being truly honest with you? It hits different than anything the person could say, whether they interested in you or not
As Preach noted, when you’ve worked customer service enough, you sorta see the signs right away
If I’m being honest with someone? There’s negatives but there’s positives too
I remember my grand parents told me once. If you really care for someone? You’ll get mad with them too. If you really don’t feel anything towards them. You’ll only ever be “nice” to them. And never express how you really feel
This show seems like a way for "Beta Males" and "Succubi" to expose their egos.
No such thing as beta vs alpha
I just think they’re funny and in regards to their views, there frankly aren’t a lot of people stickin up for men right now. It’s like the view for men but actually thought provoking and funny.
A lot of women watch them too
@@NoName-sp5dp keep telling yourself that lol
@@TheRealNabil I think he meant the button
hangukhiphop yeah you might be right. I said what I said nonetheless
100-69 is the best pick up line I’ve heard in a while😂
"You know how awkward it is ? The flloor isnt even making noise"
lmaoo i died at that
26, multiple kids, smokes weed for fun. Quite the catch.
That's a lot of people and two isn't multiple dawg
3:20 “Doesn’t he look like he defends the most important library in the world.” I was too weak
Aba: “are young audience isn’t gonna catch that”
Preach: “who’s lurch?”
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I love how this goes from flimsy dating show premise to outright survival of the fittest
This is what life was like for early man, nearly 100k years ago lmao
"You catfished me bro." I'm pretty sure she saw how she went for the button as soon as she realized the guy wasn't into her in the last round and she wasn't going to let her play her like that, so she made sure she had no idea she wasn't interested.
I had a infant under a year when I met my husband. We married 9 months after our first lunch date. Our offices were in the same building. Life is unpredictable.
While the show is about pressing the robots button, it sure knows how to press everyone else's buttons.
So is she thicc?
8:42 🤭🤣LoL Preach’s Face when he saw the doll coming out!😬
19:17 what’s so funny is that the robot had absolutely nothing to contribute so it just said “Okay.” Haha
I like the fact that you guys have started referencing jokes from past videos!👱🏿👍🏿
The head of a Buddhist monk on lurch was spot on 😂😂