alt. : "The most typical girls are those who think they aren't the typical girl." alt. 2: "Hoes be like: Hoes be like...But they be the hoes who be like..."
"Stability is a 9-5 with a solid pension and guaranteed benefits." 👌 I do not understand why girls want to go buy all the Gucci and then need a man to pay their bills. I also do not understand expecting a high lifestyle when stability is a solid guarantee. That high life can disappear real quick. Marry the guy who wants to retire with dignity, not the one making payments on a bunch of toys and doesn't own anything.
Women like shopping everyone knows that but little girls like her don't need a man to pay their bills they WANT a man to do it so they can keep being irresponsible little children
I want someone who has a 9 to 5, solid pension and good benefits. I don't know why this woman thinks she's some feminist icon by teaching girls to be narcissistic manipulative twats.
I wish this video had come out six years ago. It would have saved me $3500 when I was being manipulated by a gold digger. That part about the shopping mall? Oh the friggin nail! LOL
The fact that you sent money with your comment is so funny💀but im not laughing at you... Yes that wa a $3500 life lesson😬 but I hope the knowledge you gained from this experience helped you find a great woman.
@@Boomstick836 of course, but it's not that. Since you spent all this money on the gold digger, I just found it ironic (in a funny way) that you told that story along with a donation
@@Mari-ck7pm the worst is when u both get played like this AND get NPD drama and npd games bc then u pay a lot and the drama will negatively impact your work. i had a LTR like that one time :/ years ago. its important men get educated on this before the trainwrecks...
@Diana Troy that has literally nothing to do with giving advice. That has every thing to do with being shallow as hell. Big difference of advising women and children on beauty standards than just being shallow.
"I'm not being a gold-digger, I'm just trying to emotionally manipulate you into prioritizing my happiness over yours by convincing you I'd reciprocate unconditionally."
I went to a Republican club meeting one time and this girl comes in dressed up in a nice dress and make up did. She was smiling at people as she came in. I thought she was going to be our speaker. After the meeting this bitch is telling these old men some sob story about a landlord stalking her or something. She probably knew Republican club meetings were mostly white men over 60 years old and she probably figured them for good marks. She never came back.
@@analyticalchick3064 Yeah, I remember years ago when I accidentally ended up on the sugarbaby part of tumblr. They were saying try to get into country clubs and expensive restaurants next to big businesses where the rich salarymen go for lunch or business meetings, go to the car dealership was a pretty creative one I saw. One of the sugarbabies got her biggest scores from constantly going to the car dealership to have her specific make fixed by their techs and she can watch men who look like they have money look for cars or also get theirs fixed. They were talking about going to art museums/gallaries, or hanging out at restaurants near them. A lot of it was Big City advice but it was so crazy. These snakes really plan out how to hustle and live their life ez.
Unfortunately, she doesn't have to. Because countless men have shown and will continue to show her that she doesn't need to. So he's out, and the next sucker is in.
@@analyticalchick3064 She probably didn't realize these guys have been around the block more times than she has been alive. Some of whom might have been divorced and taken for a ride by their ex-wives. Don't mess with old men because most know the game better than that girl ever will...
A girl once took out her wallet and pretended she was going to pay for herself on a first date. I let her do it. We get outside and out in public she goes, "I have never in my life had to pay for myself on a date. This is the worst date of my life". And I said: Oh then why aren't you out with one of those guys right now? Guess men paying for you when you offer to pay for yourself isn't working out either since you're out with me right now. Glad we drove separately too.
I would do the exact same thing. I'm fine with paying if I asked you out but don't pretend you're willing to pay if you're not lol, I will call your bluff every time.
Woman Like this have helped to create a culture, where taking advantage of men’s emotions through manipulation is rampant today.. Simping is a result of loneliness and manipulation, Of men being told “your not a real man “ if you don’t provide for her/ spoiling her. When in reality being a real man has nothing to do with how much you simp for a girl but of your character and how you interact with the people and the planet.
Yeah I agree its not right a lot of women do give in to that culture, but there's also just as many women if not more that don't think that way. Yeah sure a lot of women appreciate it still if a guy pays for a date but in relationships most women contribute the same money and some even make more money and support the man. If I was a man though I'd be completely turned off by that mindset of leeching, but I'd probably pay for dates etc just to be romantic even though its an outdated practice idk its kinda like women dressing up for a date (I always pay for my portion of a date but it is sweet when guys offer)
Never laughed so hard. My father had money and had many gold digging girlfriends..it has taught me to cringe at this...he's dead...left nothing I'm proud to work hard and never take anything from anyone. I never ask for help even when needed. I will even go without. Love you guys. I binge watched like 2 hours of your videos....keep doing you boo boo
@@notabadword4026 I understand. It is hard for me. I would rather go without then ask. I know it's not a good trait but neither is leaching off your boyfriend or friends. Funny thing is that if someone is in need..I'm the first to help...oh well
Fun fact: If Louis Vuitton, Gucci, Nike, Prada etc... only sold to rich people... they wouldn't be as famous or rich... It's the "POOR" that keeps name brands in business strong.
T.C Mills yes and they actually pay wealthy people ( athletes, singers etc.) to endorse their products. So on top of getting the products for free, they get a check on top of that.
“If you’re in a relationship and struggling then you’re single”? For real?! before I met my husband I worked I took care of myself and yeah I had a better job then my husband when we met. But I wanted him not his money. My favorite gift he ever bought me was a $3 coffee mug that i still use today (and I tell him I love it every time I use it). Love should not be about money it should be about the person. If you can’t spend time with them without wanting gifts or spending money then you don’t want a relationship you want a sugar daddy.
Knowing there are ppl out there like this makes me worry for my son...I absolutely love being able to use my money brings so much more appreciation to things I buy or spend money on
When my husband and I started dating we rejoiced in the fact that we were both Poor because then we knew we just liked each other for who we truly were
I heard someone say "Being broke is temporary, being poor is a mindset". That always stuck with me cause one focuses on the come up and one tells a sad story. Not hating, just remembered that random story.
Women will still get with you if you're poor if they BELIEVE in your potential. Seeing how you sound like you're still together I'd wager he did good. Women love men for what they bring to her life. This could be different things to different women.
Hmm, I have a feeling that the type of guys she like are not emotionally manipulate by her. They know the code words for the "transaction." I've had serious money problems in my life and I've never reached out to men for help because it's going to turn into an exchange. No offence to people that are only with that, the only issue is women who pretend tone hurt if he finds a new girl or men who pretend to.ne hurt if she finds a man with more money.
If a guy offered me $1500 on a first date, I would run for the hills. Gift has to match the occasion. I was taught not to accept very large gifts, its inappropriate especially if you don't know them and its never for nothing... there are strings attached to that.
Be as successful as you possibly can but be humble, save it in the bank and invest that money. Don’t flaunt your money so that girls can see your wealth. You’re worth nothing once people know how much you’re worth and can put your worth on a scale
As someone who actually grew up as a Buddhist in India (now an atheist living in west) Im sorry but this girl would not last a day living as a buddhist 😂 Its definitely one of the hardest ways to live life. We lived a relatively good modest life back home but no TV, no jewelry, no luxurious clothing or things of that nature made of animals, vegan lifestyle, lots of community work, all i had for entertainment was a cassette player with a radio it was books, books and more books and meditation in early morning. Oh did i mention i wasnt allowed to drink coffee? Now i cant imagine going a day without drinking coffee in the morning. I wasnt even allowed to own a smartphone even after leaving all that life behind in india and i brought one with my own will when i got a job at 18. Her setup in that vid and the jewelry in her hand combined is probably worth more than my entire living room back home lol.
@@onetouchman6709 all types of Buddhisms. I practiced for 20 yrs. Had a great life, didn't do without anything. In any event, she ain't cut out for that life.
@@kanvankosthuvaran416 Right, he was just saying that all the other "manosphere" RUclips channels are filled with anger and redpilling while Aba & Preach is filled with common sense and reason.
Parasite. That’s the only word that’s more accurate than “leech” because a “leech” doesn’t necessarily harm the creature its feeding off of. A “parasite” however, always causes the host some form of degradation.
They say she lives life on easy mode, but if she doesn't get a man to settle down with her by the time her looks fade, it'll become hard mode very quickly
Yea she’s hot but that shit isn’t sustainable. Her backup plan is definitely to get knocked up by a rich guy. She’ll be miserable but at least she won’t be homeless 🤷♂️
There was once a girl who asked me to drive her to a mall because she "needed to do some shopping". Once in the mall, she said she needed to find a watch store because she "had to buy a watch". Once in the store, she showed me a 5000$ watch and asked me to pay because she "didn't have enough money", with her sweat voice and perfect angel face. I told her 'No! " to her face in front of the sales guy and other onlookers, then walked out of the shop. The same evening we ended up f**king like crazy and she never tried again. The power of " no"...
It makes me feel like horrible that jus because I'm from a poorer family an I made the decision to change my life an get money to support my family an my expensive habits clothes shoes etc but I bleed an sweat for mine lost mental health and sanity just to literally fall back into these Money hungry heartless wenches that try an turn my from my family and friends jus to make me miserable an drain my pockets F dat noise some of y'all disrespectful of men's problems and feelings an playing on my kindness snake asf 😔
For a man to pass his test, He must think with his big head, instead of his little head. For a woman to pass her test, She must abandon the pursuit of social status. -Me Lol
The last time a woman took out her wallet in a gesture to pay, I knew what she was trying to do and encouraged her to follow through. She was upset obviously and asked why I didn't pay instead. I told her that I was more than happy to pay for the date but appreciated the offer from a genuine woman who valued my company. The meltdown was priceless and I would do it again.
Actually it depends on who came out with the plan. If you invited her out then YOU should pay, if she invited you out SHE should pay. It’s just a mannerly/ polite thing to do.
@@louistown7835 I am one of those women. If I like and I see we have an attraction, I would. Also, girlfriend/ wife can invite their boyfriend/ husband on dates also.
@@sanesanchezs then u become 30+ and the 20year old girls snacking you your visa, and u live a sad single life without anybody that loves you thats the meaning of that statemant was it that hard?
I don't think she cares if she learn's to save and act innocent like a lot of girls she is still going to be good unfortunately ,but I think that the mindset will push people away. And there a lot of guys who are willing to tolerate a lot coming from women so much that it would drive you mad
@@versatileduplicity9313 I'm wondering why ppl are even trying to go into a marriage these days. I think it's overrated AF. All the good stuff I experienced and heard about it can't compete with the shit I experienced and heard.
I was a high school football player with two jobs to help my single mother and siblings. Females saw me spending money on supporting my loved ones and held me down. I never asked for a hand out and I made it clear to everyone interested in me, hey I got money but that’s for my little brothers and sisters. A real woman who is looking for stability sees a man taking care of his responsibilities and is smart enough to know that if she’s a good person and general and a good partner to him, regardless of her status, he will take care of her as part of the circle of people he truly cares for.
Nice job man but you gotta stop with that real man ,real woman bull .What do people mean by that cause I've seen and heard over the years everybody has a definition for that and varies drastically. Talk about values not who is real or not cause both bad and good people are real
Niki Hristozov I understand your point. I also agree with you. My favorite movie is The Godfather and Vito Andolini was a “real man” but that didn’t make him innocent or good for the most part, he was a ruthless killer, racist, among other flaws. When I say a real person (man or woman) I mean someone who respects themselves so much that they respect the people around them. Not being naive but aware and empathetic. For me I don’t think it’s as difficult to pin down not “real”. Based on a persons actions you can see what they’re willing to do. It’s like an umbrella, if they are willing to do one thing you can see what other actions fit under that umbrella. But like you said there are many variables and the “real” o was referring to was what a real woman would do in this scenario verses what a “not real” woman would do. I can’t say fake woman cause I’m sure she has a vagina lol but yeah I think “real” is self respect. No self respecting woman would play games with men for money because she understands the importance of guarding her own heart so she won’t take advantage of someone else’s.
I just can’t wrap my head around the mentality. The obsession with money and the skin deep sentimentality they have for another human being in order to gain material items, and they have the audacity to wrap it up as advice for other people. It melts my head.
Really?? I mean, there are some women who make good amount of money themselves.... However their first priority in men is that he should be making more money than them or atleast equal (which clearly implies they judge men on the basis of amount of money he makes) 🤔🤔
@@avetiq3905 : I'm also talking about those so called strong successful women buddy. If you don't believe me watch the women in Steve Harvey show "why miss independent cant find Mr. Right" ....... Also you can check how the rates of divorces significantly increases when women start to earn more than their men after marriage
@@SolidManatee : the problem is when women just have the "should be earning atleast equal or more than me" criteria of partner selection which is solely based on our money earning skills not based on which type of person we are. And also, if someone earns lesser than you doesn't necessarily means he's lazy.... He might have other things to be taken care of in life. Talking about spending money, men love to spend money on women who isn't after our money and loves us for who we are as a person
I don’t understand how guys don’t see through women like this. There’s no need when there are plenty of independent women looking for a relationship. I have zero respect for gold diggers
@@ciobalina7445 Looks don't make women attractive. It's only part of the picture. If you have a shitty personality and can't love a person for who they are then you're just another notch on the bedpost. Men with self respect would never put up with a gold digger. Respect is earned not given.
These women forget that men used to take care of us financially because we were at home cleaning and cooking and raising HIS babies (not another man’s) Being a housewife and a stay at home mom is a full time job that benefits a man and his family. She just expects him to pay her for her company My husband pays all the bills because I lost my job during the pandemic but he is not expected to lift a finger around the house. He has a home cooked meal every time he comes home.
And he should never be expected to lift a finger around the house. If he does, cool. If he doesn't, still your responsibility just like its his responsibility for shoveling snow, cut lawn, working, etc
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp If both work and they live in an apartment where maintenance men shovel and cut the lawn then yeah, he should lift a finger around the house.
It sounds like she's a Con-artist and every guys she dates is a Mark. She has her trademark moves, documented and practiced. She's thought of every scenario and plotted moves five steps ahead. It's off putting of course, but it's really kind of scary. Imagine being actually into her and have that crush blindness and thinking she's a genuine human being while she's plotted moves and choreographed dates to fleece you! Scary!
It’s weird how we live in a world where people say “Women go make your own money! You’re independent! You don’t need men!” while also encouraging sugar babies and gold diggers
@@Righhhhhtttt that's unfortunately true and they even shit on woman that have old school traditional values to be something like a stay at home mother. If your a stay at home dad good but for moms they attack and that's fd up. It's hard to run a household and especially to take care of kids so as long as their is mutual respect between partners all the power to them. Anyway that's just one example they attack good women for and that sucks.
Cierra I don't know how you think anyone is encouraging, sensationalized and made fun of, is more appropriate. This girl is shameful, shameless, manipulative, mean, delusional and lacks empathy. Men who take her shopping probably are not thinking she is my future girlfriend as he is watching her making him spend money on her.
pink salt Nah I’ve seen women openly encourage this kind of lifestyle before in the media and in real life. It’s encouraged to get with a guy that has money and if he’s rich then girls swarm him but spending money on him and being the provider? Nope. It’s 2020 and women still rely on men for money and if he doesn’t have it, she won’t take him
I’m not one to comment often but I respect you’re guys views and I respect you guys calling out social “ norms” that are not in fact normal at all. Keep the content coming, respect from 🇨🇦
@C Truth I really respect pros. Like they are honest. And I haven't been with them but by the looks. Many of them had no choice. And its true they get so much abused. But I respect them faaar more than the women who lie to men to use them as ATM machine.
@@SuperMariposa91 its the truth tho. Like if i walk up to a girl in a bar or wherever & 10 minutes into the convo you talking about having rent issues or money problem she definitely getting hit with "damn, I'm sorry to hear that" lmfao
Xavier Kohai even if you make good money, $1500 isn’t something that most people can just give up. Do some simple math. If someone makes $150k a year after taxes, $1500 is 1% of that. And at the end of the day, most people should be following the 50/20/30 rules; 50% on necessities, 20% on savings, 30% on discretionary spending. So you would be taking 1500 of the 45000 you have for the whole year to spend just for someone you just met. It’s not being broke, it’s being smart
Xavier Kohai at $150k a year after taxes and $45000 for the whole year in discretionary spending, you are only allotted about $124 a day or $863 a week. You give her $1500 and that’s almost two weeks of your discretionary spending
There would t be an audience for her videos, if there weren’t simps out there willing to do these things she’s talking about. It’s men who see their own value in how much money they make and fee if they spend money on a chick, she will see him as a high value man. They’re both lacking something within themselves and trying to make up for it with “things”.
Spoiling a woman your in a genuine loving relationship with is fine. Tricking on a female that has no concern for your well being is not only simping, it is stupid and dangerous.
If you mean "spoil" as a constant stream of material goods or barrage of affection, constant stream of unconnected-to-reality ego boosting, then spoil would be bad, in fact corrosive to a long term relationship. But if you mean "spoil" as "un-looked for kindness" , like a couple flowers and card delivered out of the blue, not on schedule (B-day, V-day, M-day) or a larger portion of a particular food your loved one likes, more than yourself, two hot chocolates one for yourself and one for them delivered to a snuggle spot. Yeh, spoil away, that is a positive "spoil".
I think because man doesn't see himself as provider and protector anymore, so she devised ways to extract it out of him. She doesnt know how wack she sounds tho 🤷🏽♀️
@@teamquis14 Also, she didnt even say pay bills, shes looking for a trick..... use a man if hes using you. It ain't that grand of a concept. To not use anyone is the goal for man and.woman. sometimes both sides get it wrong and this is an example.
This is “Toxic Femininity” but we don’t talk about that 🐸 ☕️ Edit: since people like to take a short comment & ASSUME the hell out of it.... here’s a little more context. Toxic feminism is not talked about in equal ways in the mainstream like toxic masculinity is (some of that is bs I know)- all I’m saying is that it should go both ways. Thank you Aba & Preach for talking about this!
Yeah, well people on the internet do!! xD This is what it is nowadays (or maybe it always has been): Generation vs. Generation, Gender vs. Gender, Class vs. Class, Political Party vs. Political Party, Race vs. Race, Religion vs. Religion...but the thing is all those people have more in common than what they don't have in common, plus they all use the same tactics, they all only care about themselves and their own issues lol. Ugh, this world is crazy
"I asked if you wanted to buy something. I didn't say I was buying you something." Funny how she is teaching all these shit tests but forgets that men can have tests for women as well. Probably a good idea for most men to watch videos like this to be able to recognize the manipulations.
The problem with women like this is when they are no longer 22 and pretty, they start to wonder why so many men are cautious with their money and treat them like everything is a transaction.
Jared Abraham Cid FDA come on bruh, i love women, but when’s the last time you’ve seen a dude making money on OnlyFans? even my girlfriend is willing to admit how stupid this shit is, the only people defending it at this point are the simps and e-girls profiting off of simps.
Jared Abraham Cid FDA maybe so, and not all women either but we can both agree that when it comes to topics where females have a say in such as the media, life is pretty easy difficulty for them.
The only card I'd be pulling out of my wallet for someone like that is a library card....so I can go read a book and gain back the IQ points I just lost.
Yea she’s mad. My love language is receiving gifts too but things like when u on ur way to my house and u buy me my fav chocolate cuz u know it’ll make me smile. I’m not out here trying to scam LV bags outa men and I don’t ASK for shit! 🤣 If u ask for it or manipulate people into giving u gifts then that’s not them doing it on their own accord. Plus I GIVE gifts too because that’s my love language. 🤦🏾♀️ She really out here just saying anything to justify this trash behavior. Just say ur a gold digger, hold ur head high and keep walkin booboo 🤣🤣
@@andycarollsuarez Do you watch her videos (serious)? Because from what she says she does and she hasn't inherited money from anywhere, she proper worked for her money.
@@Fatima-kp8hi Explain how those are the same! 😂 She isn't going over to his on the first date and cooking and cleaning for him yet she's expecting to be dining out and going on expensive shopping trips all on someone else's dime.
Prostitutes are good people to be honest. I had one prostitute friend and I always was like "why don't you work a simple job" and just as I went out searching for jobs and I saw how difficult it was to have a job and what you had to do to keep the job. At least they do it so they can have some free time and some money, and they do it by "selling" their body. Not by manipulating man.
@@DBK9.8 Women don’t? Y’all be the same ones talking like freaks and all the above in the phone. Then when your their y’all be frozen and not do the shit y’all came their for. Then y’all say “why are you pressuring me” and ect. So many more things I can list. (Pathetic).
In my early twenties, “gifts” was my love language. But I was swooning over one flower or bringing me my favorite coke without me asking. I wasn’t expecting shopping trips to designer stores! She’s being greedy, deceitful, and treating people like they’re her own personal ATM.
Like Abba said, there's small gifts and gestures of appreciation and then there's wanting to live in luxury. People need to realize that spoiling your partner with money isn't love.
The more a girl tries to convince you that she's not like that, she is like that.
Say that again
Very true!
If someone tries to convince you that they are not something, that means they are that thing
Wolves in sheep's clothing. The sad part is, they take pride in being an animal.
alt. :
"The most typical girls are those who think they aren't the typical girl."
alt. 2:
"Hoes be like: Hoes be like...But they be the hoes who be like..."
"She's a bootleg Cardi B". Are you saying she's a Wanna B?
This comment is gold💀💀💀
At least cardi b makes her own money
@@davidguthrie3895 also has a Phat Wap 👍🏻
Yes this is gold
@@davidguthrie3895 good point
"I've never been a sugar baby"
*Proceeds to make a video about how to get money from a man*
The nonsense💀💀💀
That's not the same thing she's just a sugar baby to mutiple people
SHE ZA Liar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You don't have to be a sb to get men to spend money on you
ImTiredHoe you’re right it’s called being gold digger
Emotionally manipulating your partner into basically being a sugar daddy makes you a glucose goblin.
😅
This girl's giving gold diggers a bad name. She's not a gold digger, she's a gold archaeologist...lol
She a whole strip mine
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Whahahahhaa 😂😂😂😂
Nice one
Shit they already had a bad name
Cardi B would just drug the guy and steal his wallet.
#facts
fr at least she straight up about it
@@UnrealAxel27 she is straight up about it now. I doubt she was at the time.
the respectable way. at least you know where youre at afterwards. lol
Lmaoooooooooooopp
Girl: "He's cheap!"
He's not cheap, he's just not an idiot.
Me: " would rather be cheap than be with ur dusty ass"
"Act broke to stay rich"
"There a sucker born every minute" so some simp will waste their money.
Common shaming language
@@SirAuron777 lol wat
"Stability is a 9-5 with a solid pension and guaranteed benefits." 👌
I do not understand why girls want to go buy all the Gucci and then need a man to pay their bills. I also do not understand expecting a high lifestyle when stability is a solid guarantee. That high life can disappear real quick. Marry the guy who wants to retire with dignity, not the one making payments on a bunch of toys and doesn't own anything.
Women like shopping everyone knows that but little girls like her don't need a man to pay their bills they WANT a man to do it so they can keep being irresponsible little children
I want someone who has a 9 to 5, solid pension and good benefits. I don't know why this woman thinks she's some feminist icon by teaching girls to be narcissistic manipulative twats.
People want to be young forever.
That what I’m saying once I become wealthy and she go broke spending on dumb stuff and go to me? Hell no that your fault for not investing first.
She’s probably one of those chicks that claps between words when she’s losing an argument.
😄
Definitely
The word you're looking for is ghetto
I think she would be a major hypocrite
LOL
Her vocabulary consist of
“Yassss queen”
“As he should”
&
“Periodttt”
Basically
😂😂it's so sad
U leave out " like"
and bootleg okurrrrrrrrr
And “slay biiiiiiitch”
The scary part is, a lot of women following her and really taking her seriously.. I gotta protect my grandson from Bums like this.
Mmpfh--Nana on that 'no gold digger in my house' mission.
😤😤👏👏👏
Life is becoming sad
Please do.
GRANDMA OF THE YEAR, YOU'RE LITERALLY THE BEST
I wish this video had come out six years ago. It would have saved me $3500 when I was being manipulated by a gold digger. That part about the shopping mall? Oh the friggin nail! LOL
yeesh, that sucks, but at least you've learned how to spot them right?
@@San-lh8us Yes I have. Unfortunately the best lessons are the ones that sting 🦂 but it tends to stick around so my wallet won’t be affected 🙂👍
The fact that you sent money with your comment is so funny💀but im not laughing at you... Yes that wa a $3500 life lesson😬 but I hope the knowledge you gained from this experience helped you find a great woman.
@@natinatyoutube Why not send them money now and then. They make good content 🙂👍
@@Boomstick836 of course, but it's not that. Since you spent all this money on the gold digger, I just found it ironic (in a funny way) that you told that story along with a donation
The cheapest woman tends to be the one you pay for.
- Jack Reacher
Enthusiast upfront, not on a reoccurring subscription or multiple installments.
@@Darkthoughts-z7r No DLC, no lootboxes, no DRM, etc... Truly the gamer's choice.
Spoken like a true dusty lol, and here I thought the cheapest woman tends to be the one giving the ass up for free.🤭🤭🤭🐸🍵
wisdom
Sunshine Lovely no woman is free, you ought to know that much.
“Ooo, he’s husband material!”
But you’re not wife material.🤦🏽♀️
Ah HELLo NO!!!
👌👌👌👌
not even friend material
@@vtechvsmile exactly!
100 percent agree but gots to tell you. It's you're*.
Pretty educational. She’s giving girls advice on how to be gold digger. But for guys it teaches how spot a gold digger.
Exaaactly. If we gotta have these folks around us, might as well get some wisdom on how to avoid them
So it's a win-win right?
(Sarcasm of course)
@@Mari-ck7pm the worst is when u both get played like this AND get NPD drama and npd games bc then u pay a lot and the drama will negatively impact your work. i had a LTR like that one time :/ years ago. its important men get educated on this before the trainwrecks...
@Diana Troy so have women, not sure what your point is here
@Diana Troy that has literally nothing to do with giving advice.
That has every thing to do with being shallow as hell. Big difference of advising women and children on beauty standards than just being shallow.
"I'm not being a gold-digger, I'm just trying to emotionally manipulate you into prioritizing my happiness over yours by convincing you I'd reciprocate unconditionally."
When she said “My mama taught me” that’s all I needed to hear smh this is why I fight so hard to be in my daughters life
You better be cos then she’ll have daddy issues if you dip
Keep fighting king you're doing the right thing
@@radz7843 giving up is not an option
@@AndreEazyAKAMurph you keep fighting for that kid. The effort will pay off
Why so she can accept some broke man not willing to take care of her?
She ended up deleting the video, probably the smartest thing shes ever done lol
@Taylor Johnson haha same
because the gate keepers said she has said too much lol
Yeah I wanted to see her comment section lol.
Too late
@@julianalwaysscoffin7176 what gate keepers???
Her: "Honey I am having money problems."
Him: "Get a job, you're an adult."
This girls think they princesses. Delusional as hell
I went to a Republican club meeting one time and this girl comes in dressed up in a nice dress and make up did. She was smiling at people as she came in. I thought she was going to be our speaker. After the meeting this bitch is telling these old men some sob story about a landlord stalking her or something. She probably knew Republican club meetings were mostly white men over 60 years old and she probably figured them for good marks. She never came back.
@@analyticalchick3064 Yeah, I remember years ago when I accidentally ended up on the sugarbaby part of tumblr. They were saying try to get into country clubs and expensive restaurants next to big businesses where the rich salarymen go for lunch or business meetings, go to the car dealership was a pretty creative one I saw. One of the sugarbabies got her biggest scores from constantly going to the car dealership to have her specific make fixed by their techs and she can watch men who look like they have money look for cars or also get theirs fixed. They were talking about going to art museums/gallaries, or hanging out at restaurants near them. A lot of it was Big City advice but it was so crazy. These snakes really plan out how to hustle and live their life ez.
Unfortunately, she doesn't have to. Because countless men have shown and will continue to show her that she doesn't need to. So he's out, and the next sucker is in.
@@analyticalchick3064 She probably didn't realize these guys have been around the block more times than she has been alive. Some of whom might have been divorced and taken for a ride by their ex-wives. Don't mess with old men because most know the game better than that girl ever will...
A girl once took out her wallet and pretended she was going to pay for herself on a first date. I let her do it. We get outside and out in public she goes, "I have never in my life had to pay for myself on a date. This is the worst date of my life". And I said: Oh then why aren't you out with one of those guys right now? Guess men paying for you when you offer to pay for yourself isn't working out either since you're out with me right now. Glad we drove separately too.
I would do the exact same thing. I'm fine with paying if I asked you out but don't pretend you're willing to pay if you're not lol, I will call your bluff every time.
In her defense if u ask someone on a date u except them to pay and the fact u didn’t shows u aren’t a gentleman 😂 u want to be feminine so bad
@@bushrarahman2423 This isn't a defense because he didn't say that he asked her out on a date.
@@bushrarahman2423 she asked me out. But cool story bro 😂
@@bushrarahman2423 I think whoever ask the person out first should pay. Man or woman, but that's me.
"I'm not a Gold Digger"
Precious Metals Unearther
Shiny Rock Collectors
Lmfao
This is a win lol. Well done.
This was hilarious 😂
Yes are
“Megan the stealin”
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hilarious 😂
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Yoooo I'm dead🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Megan the Stalin
Woman Like this have helped to create a culture, where taking advantage of men’s emotions through manipulation is rampant today.. Simping is a result of loneliness and manipulation, Of men being told “your not a real man “ if you don’t provide for her/ spoiling her. When in reality being a real man has nothing to do with how much you simp for a girl but of your character and how you interact with the people and the planet.
Yeah I agree its not right a lot of women do give in to that culture, but there's also just as many women if not more that don't think that way. Yeah sure a lot of women appreciate it still if a guy pays for a date but in relationships most women contribute the same money and some even make more money and support the man. If I was a man though I'd be completely turned off by that mindset of leeching, but I'd probably pay for dates etc just to be romantic even though its an outdated practice idk its kinda like women dressing up for a date (I always pay for my portion of a date but it is sweet when guys offer)
Although I understand the sentiment, you cannot make the world a safe place. Teach your kids to not be that naive.
Real men have the courage to say “fuck no” to this bullshit.
True
Amen
Never laughed so hard. My father had money and had many gold digging girlfriends..it has taught me to cringe at this...he's dead...left nothing I'm proud to work hard and never take anything from anyone. I never ask for help even when needed. I will even go without. Love you guys. I binge watched like 2 hours of your videos....keep doing you boo boo
Not asking for help when you need it isn’t something to be proud of, dear.
@@notabadword4026 I understand. It is hard for me. I would rather go without then ask. I know it's not a good trait but neither is leaching off your boyfriend or friends. Funny thing is that if someone is in need..I'm the first to help...oh well
@@yehudityishai3542 lol your mindset is nothing to be proud of. Get help.
Fun fact: If Louis Vuitton, Gucci, Nike, Prada etc... only sold to rich people... they wouldn't be as famous or rich... It's the "POOR" that keeps name brands in business strong.
T.C Mills yes and they actually pay wealthy people ( athletes, singers etc.) to endorse their products. So on top of getting the products for free, they get a check on top of that.
Underrated comment
So true. I guess people just love giving money to elitist, sweat shop manufactured, overpriced, white privileged narcissists.
I smell cap. Never seen a Holmes man wearing Hermès foh
Todd Baker There are millionaires who don’t have a car. Your point is? Stop watching others pockets and watch your own.
“If you’re in a relationship and struggling then you’re single”? For real?! before I met my husband I worked I took care of myself and yeah I had a better job then my husband when we met. But I wanted him not his money. My favorite gift he ever bought me was a $3 coffee mug that i still use today (and I tell him I love it every time I use it). Love should not be about money it should be about the person. If you can’t spend time with them without wanting gifts or spending money then you don’t want a relationship you want a sugar daddy.
My dear, that girl has never known love. Pity her. She's an empty vessel.
Thank you.
YES more of this 🙌🏻
Some women r dangerous but not all he says it all the time so pls darling calm down
Hendrik Sosemito she pulled a quote from the girl in the video..
“Your body your body” “my money my money”
This is gold.
Knowing there are ppl out there like this makes me worry for my son...I absolutely love being able to use my money brings so much more appreciation to things I buy or spend money on
When my husband and I started dating we rejoiced in the fact that we were both Poor because then we knew we just liked each other for who we truly were
That's so sweet ♥️thanks for sharing!
There's an Italian saying, when you've got nothing, you got nothing to lose...
I love when I meet girls like this, I don’t wanna fee like my girl is a bill I wanna feel loved properly,
I heard someone say
"Being broke is temporary, being poor is a mindset". That always stuck with me cause one focuses on the come up and one tells a sad story. Not hating, just remembered that random story.
Lmao same here. Me and my man both started off struggling and broke. Makes the relationship that much better when you can build and grow together.
Women will still get with you if you're poor if they BELIEVE in your potential. Seeing how you sound like you're still together I'd wager he did good. Women love men for what they bring to her life. This could be different things to different women.
"If you emotionally manipulate someone to get what you want.. that's trash."
New sub.
Welcome
Hmm, I have a feeling that the type of guys she like are not emotionally manipulate by her. They know the code words for the "transaction."
I've had serious money problems in my life and I've never reached out to men for help because it's going to turn into an exchange. No offence to people that are only with that, the only issue is women who pretend tone hurt if he finds a new girl or men who pretend to.ne hurt if she finds a man with more money.
"i dont wanna say sugar daddy."
High Fructose Father
Sucrose savior
I laughed at it XD
Weaaakkkk
Surrogate Wallet
Glucose Guardian
6:29 - 6.36 with the eye poppin is superb! It made my day
I knew you guys would be raging on tis vid lmao!
If a guy offered me $1500 on a first date, I would run for the hills. Gift has to match the occasion. I was taught not to accept very large gifts, its inappropriate especially if you don't know them and its never for nothing... there are strings attached to that.
I always knew nothing is free!
FACTSSS
Right!
I don't believe you would run for the hills. You will probably feel like you are deserving and entitled to it.
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp you talking like you know her personally.
My steps to keeping the gold-digger's away:
1)Be broke.
Say tht shit again for th ppl in th back.
Preach my brutha👏🏾
Or acting like you’re broke
What... Nah make money. But keep it for yourself
Be as successful as you possibly can but be humble, save it in the bank and invest that money. Don’t flaunt your money so that girls can see your wealth. You’re worth nothing once people know how much you’re worth and can put your worth on a scale
She's saying all this with a picture of Buddha behind her, the irony is palpable
she understands nothing about Buddhism
As someone who actually grew up as a Buddhist in India (now an atheist living in west) Im sorry but this girl would not last a day living as a buddhist 😂
Its definitely one of the hardest ways to live life. We lived a relatively good modest life back home but no TV, no jewelry, no luxurious clothing or things of that nature made of animals, vegan lifestyle, lots of community work, all i had for entertainment was a cassette player with a radio it was books, books and more books and meditation in early morning.
Oh did i mention i wasnt allowed to drink coffee? Now i cant imagine going a day without drinking coffee in the morning. I wasnt even allowed to own a smartphone even after leaving all that life behind in india and i brought one with my own will when i got a job at 18. Her setup in that vid and the jewelry in her hand combined is probably worth more than my entire living room back home lol.
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@@onetouchman6709 all types of Buddhisms. I practiced for 20 yrs. Had a great life, didn't do without anything. In any event, she ain't cut out for that life.
yall might be the best "manosphere" channel on youtube, there's much anger and redpilling on the other channels.
these guys aren’t redpill, they call out things like toxic femininity and toxic masculinity
@@kanvankosthuvaran416 Right, he was just saying that all the other "manosphere" RUclips channels are filled with anger and redpilling while Aba & Preach is filled with common sense and reason.
Girl: mom can we go see Cardi B live in concert?
Mom: we have a Cardi B at home 0:00
Noe Donis 😅😂🤣
*wheeze*
Cardi STD
She looks more like Nicki Minaj to me.
@@ajh.4131 Yeah but she clearly tryna act like Cardi B.
Parasite. That’s the only word that’s more accurate than “leech” because a “leech” doesn’t necessarily harm the creature its feeding off of. A “parasite” however, always causes the host some form of degradation.
She doesn't want to be called sugar baby, so she's a leech😂
Paliptint at Punda idk why she doesn’t wanna call it what it is like you’re getting your money don’t be dumb with it move on.
A leech is a parasite
Leeches are parasites, but I get ya.
A parasite is anything that lives parasitically off of another living organism. Mosquitoes are also parasites.
They say she lives life on easy mode, but if she doesn't get a man to settle down with her by the time her looks fade, it'll become hard mode very quickly
Yea she’s hot but that shit isn’t sustainable. Her backup plan is definitely to get knocked up by a rich guy. She’ll be miserable but at least she won’t be homeless 🤷♂️
She will hit that wall at 30 and learn the hard way.
@@bleachstain9785 she's already 30
The wall is undefeated
On 2020 level hard zone
There was once a girl who asked me to drive her to a mall because she "needed to do some shopping". Once in the mall, she said she needed to find a watch store because she "had to buy a watch". Once in the store, she showed me a 5000$ watch and asked me to pay because she "didn't have enough money", with her sweat voice and perfect angel face. I told her 'No! " to her face in front of the sales guy and other onlookers, then walked out of the shop. The same evening we ended up f**king like crazy and she never tried again. The power of " no"...
well at least she dropped it. imagine if things went different...
in todays world i would expect her to go to the police the next morning, if you know what i mean... to get revenge.
10 Years ago this would be considered trolling. Today is advice for women said with a straight face. Let that sink in guys.......
Yup, it's extremely sad. This world has become a South Park episode.
It makes me feel like horrible that jus because I'm from a poorer family an I made the decision to change my life an get money to support my family an my expensive habits clothes shoes etc but I bleed an sweat for mine lost mental health and sanity just to literally fall back into these Money hungry heartless wenches that try an turn my from my family and friends jus to make me miserable an drain my pockets F dat noise some of y'all disrespectful of men's problems and feelings an playing on my kindness snake asf 😔
@@catimperator6783 drop that bar
Umm its been like this for a while. Perhaps u ain't notice.
Damn
"A woman's test in life is money, a man's test in life is a woman." Dave chapelle
For a man to pass his test, He must think with his big head, instead of his little head.
For a woman to pass her test, She must abandon the pursuit of social status.
-Me
Lol
Its Material, not money. Still
AYO 🤝
@@erickruckenberg8716 you realize you cannot have material stuff without money right ?
@@Kimkong2 actually no, if you are talking about a material literally you can pick a piece of rock on a park
The last time a woman took out her wallet in a gesture to pay, I knew what she was trying to do and encouraged her to follow through.
She was upset obviously and asked why I didn't pay instead. I told her that I was more than happy to pay for the date but appreciated the offer from a genuine woman who valued my company. The meltdown was priceless and I would do it again.
Have a upvote king
Actually it depends on who came out with the plan. If you invited her out then YOU should pay, if she invited you out SHE should pay. It’s just a mannerly/ polite thing to do.
B XoTs how many women actually invite men out on dates though
@@txo829 the most polite thing to do to show that you respect each other would be to pay 50/50 though
@@louistown7835 I am one of those women. If I like and I see we have an attraction, I would. Also, girlfriend/ wife can invite their boyfriend/ husband on dates also.
A&P are constantly on point. The stability vs luxury comparison deserves the Nobel Prize for Literature
"Being good looking isn't a passport, it's a visa, and it runs out quick." -- written on the wall of a cafe I where I used to go for breakfast.
thats a good one and true!
Yeah but it still works. It's a visa that doesn't lose you your credit if you keep stringing oblivious men into your flytrap of gold digging.
@@sanesanchezs then u become 30+ and the 20year old girls snacking you your visa, and u live a sad single life without anybody that loves you thats the meaning of that statemant was it that hard?
Does everyone in your town have bars that strong?
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*If she says her money is for her and your money is “our money”*
*She’s for the streets!!!!!*
IceMan24 now that’s just sad if that was the case
@@daryeusford9696 law of the jungle my boy
All I see are facts
Your Neighborhood Friendly Allosaur indeed
Looool
Giving husband and wife privileges to boyfriends and girlfriends is why so many people are out here getting played while trying to play.
Omg I'm so glad u said that. GREAT POINT
One of the best comments here!
yup
And it is damage all the way because the next girlfriend will need to patch up this mistrust and heal it.
Yes!
I love this "How to avoid gold diggers" tutorial 👌 Thanks Bootleg Cardi B
I think women tend to forget that they won't be in their mid 20's all their life
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Damn. I’ll have to remember that one for future convos
And that’s why they’re getting the bag now and working hard to lock it down. Stop hating
That girl's already secured her bag & is now sharing advice 😂
I don't think she cares if she learn's to save and act innocent like a lot of girls she is still going to be good unfortunately ,but I think that the mindset will push people away. And there a lot of guys who are willing to tolerate a lot coming from women so much that it would drive you mad
You guys are modern day philosophers, seriously.
Red pill 👌
Nah fr 😂
Yea, that’s why men nowadays are waking up and you see marriage going on less and less
But have you watched StephisCold?
@@versatileduplicity9313 I'm wondering why ppl are even trying to go into a marriage these days. I think it's overrated AF. All the good stuff I experienced and heard about it can't compete with the shit I experienced and heard.
I was a high school football player with two jobs to help my single mother and siblings. Females saw me spending money on supporting my loved ones and held me down. I never asked for a hand out and I made it clear to everyone interested in me, hey I got money but that’s for my little brothers and sisters. A real woman who is looking for stability sees a man taking care of his responsibilities and is smart enough to know that if she’s a good person and general and a good partner to him, regardless of her status, he will take care of her as part of the circle of people he truly cares for.
King!
I just want you to know that your an awesome dude 👑 you already have one but here have another
Nice job man but you gotta stop with that real man ,real woman bull .What do people mean by that cause I've seen and heard over the years everybody has a definition for that and varies drastically. Talk about values not who is real or not cause both bad and good people are real
I’ve never said this before, but you seem like such a cool fucking dude
Niki Hristozov I understand your point. I also agree with you. My favorite movie is The Godfather and Vito Andolini was a “real man” but that didn’t make him innocent or good for the most part, he was a ruthless killer, racist, among other flaws. When I say a real person (man or woman) I mean someone who respects themselves so much that they respect the people around them. Not being naive but aware and empathetic. For me I don’t think it’s as difficult to pin down not “real”. Based on a persons actions you can see what they’re willing to do. It’s like an umbrella, if they are willing to do one thing you can see what other actions fit under that umbrella. But like you said there are many variables and the “real” o was referring to was what a real woman would do in this scenario verses what a “not real” woman would do. I can’t say fake woman cause I’m sure she has a vagina lol but yeah I think “real” is self respect. No self respecting woman would play games with men for money because she understands the importance of guarding her own heart so she won’t take advantage of someone else’s.
I just can’t wrap my head around the mentality. The obsession with money and the skin deep sentimentality they have for another human being in order to gain material items, and they have the audacity to wrap it up as advice for other people. It melts my head.
" I ain't saying she a gold digga, but she ain't messing with no broke ..." Kanye
"I got 99 problems, and a b!tch aint one" Jay Z
@@maverick6775 fasho
@@victornyamu2547 yeah😁
"Thiers some Hoes in this House".. ~Unkle Luke
Let's add G-Eazy, no limits to describe this girls with 1000%accuracy
I'll teach my son to be aware of girls like this, and stay far far away I can see this girl in her 40s questioning why she's single 🙄
*Where have all the good men gone?* 😂
Facts sandra, absolute facts. I'm certain shes single right now
You’re a good woman
She has a boyfriend , her own house, a successful rap career , Self Respect, she's blessed.. so don't worry about her . Worry about YOU.
@@brelltonsh.2511 rap career?? Don't make laugh 😂😂
"you're not asking for stability, you're asking for luxury."
*starts loudly applauding*
*Hits the like button and it becomes 69*
STARTS LOUDLY APPLAUDING
Yupppppppp.
giving 1500 to someone you barely know is very different from spoiling someone you love
he dont love you, hes just buying you, like a thing.
“Money only impresses lazy girls. When a woman works hard, a man with money is a bonus, not a ladder to upgrade.”
Really?? I mean, there are some women who make good amount of money themselves.... However their first priority in men is that he should be making more money than them or atleast equal (which clearly implies they judge men on the basis of amount of money he makes) 🤔🤔
@@Shiva-lb7oe that's not the "girl" the comment was talking about. It is about strong successful women
@@avetiq3905 : I'm also talking about those so called strong successful women buddy. If you don't believe me watch the women in Steve Harvey show "why miss independent cant find Mr. Right" ....... Also you can check how the rates of divorces significantly increases when women start to earn more than their men after marriage
@@Shiva-lb7oe Yes, hard working women also want hard working men.. but not just to spend money on them. Which is the point of this video?
@@SolidManatee : the problem is when women just have the "should be earning atleast equal or more than me" criteria of partner selection which is solely based on our money earning skills not based on which type of person we are. And also, if someone earns lesser than you doesn't necessarily means he's lazy.... He might have other things to be taken care of in life.
Talking about spending money, men love to spend money on women who isn't after our money and loves us for who we are as a person
I don’t understand how guys don’t see through women like this. There’s no need when there are plenty of independent women looking for a relationship. I have zero respect for gold diggers
especially if she is talking about the first date
They do they’re just simpsons
Simps fall for these broads real men don't.
They do, they’re just willing to pay because they know really attractive women wouldn’t date them otherwise.
@@ciobalina7445 Looks don't make women attractive. It's only part of the picture. If you have a shitty personality and can't love a person for who they are then you're just another notch on the bedpost. Men with self respect would never put up with a gold digger. Respect is earned not given.
These women forget that men used to take care of us financially because we were at home cleaning and cooking and raising HIS babies (not another man’s) Being a housewife and a stay at home mom is a full time job that benefits a man and his family. She just expects him to pay her for her company
My husband pays all the bills because I lost my job during the pandemic but he is not expected to lift a finger around the house. He has a home cooked meal every time he comes home.
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That’s fair. Well done
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And he should never be expected to lift a finger around the house. If he does, cool. If he doesn't, still your responsibility just like its his responsibility for shoveling snow, cut lawn, working, etc
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp If both work and they live in an apartment where maintenance men shovel and cut the lawn then yeah, he should lift a finger around the house.
Thank you my refugee mom and dad for raising us to be kind, honest, proud, hard working responsible adults.
13:48: "We don't wanna use our man" while literally providing a numbered list of ways to use your man.
These be the same women to call men “wallets” when they leave. And then be like “I DoNt NeED nO MaN”.
she don't. but she want one. there is a difference. and there is no laws forcing dudes to give woman money.
shantédidathing still fucked up you don’t know you’re in a toxic relationship sometimes
shantédidathing There should be. A man’s money is his most valuable asset. In the same way that women value their sexuality, men value their wallets.
@@kourtneyr.scruggs0988 shit im down for that but the problem is when you paying for all her stuff and she not having sex when you want it.
I dont need no man im an independent woman. Proceeds to rely on a man to pay rent oh the irony
"Damn I got bills..."
"Okay boo, let's get you on a written budget and see what we can sell in your closet"
😂😂😂
Lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is frfr tho lmao like they do this they a actual keeper😂😭😂
hits a bit too close for home lmao
“How can I be a gold digger without being called a gold digger?”
Your body, your choices
My wallet, my choices
It sounds like she's a Con-artist and every guys she dates is a Mark. She has her trademark moves, documented and practiced. She's thought of every scenario and plotted moves five steps ahead. It's off putting of course, but it's really kind of scary. Imagine being actually into her and have that crush blindness and thinking she's a genuine human being while she's plotted moves and choreographed dates to fleece you! Scary!
Straight con artist! And it really is kinda scary
I wonder if her video could be used as evidence in a theft by deception case.
I don't know man, i would never be into her. I can see here fakeness from miles away, and that shit is really offputting.
Every women is different. Some women like to be spoiled others like to buy for themselves. Love doesn't pay bills money does.
Flim & Comedy irrelevant, duh love doesn’t pay bills tf, you pay that yourself, not use others feelings or love for you.
It’s weird how we live in a world where people say “Women go make your own money! You’re independent! You don’t need men!” while also encouraging sugar babies and gold diggers
It’s such a wild world we live in. And these same women will make women feel bad for paying their own bills. I CANNOT.
@@Righhhhhtttt that's unfortunately true and they even shit on woman that have old school traditional values to be something like a stay at home mother. If your a stay at home dad good but for moms they attack and that's fd up. It's hard to run a household and especially to take care of kids so as long as their is mutual respect between partners all the power to them. Anyway that's just one example they attack good women for and that sucks.
Cierra I don't know how you think anyone is encouraging, sensationalized and made fun of, is more appropriate. This girl is shameful, shameless, manipulative, mean, delusional and lacks empathy. Men who take her shopping probably are not thinking she is my future girlfriend as he is watching her making him spend money on her.
pink salt Nah I’ve seen women openly encourage this kind of lifestyle before in the media and in real life. It’s encouraged to get with a guy that has money and if he’s rich then girls swarm him but spending money on him and being the provider? Nope. It’s 2020 and women still rely on men for money and if he doesn’t have it, she won’t take him
pink salt i doubt they’d be willing to spend that money on her if they knew they weren’t going to get anything out of it.
I’m not one to comment often but I respect you’re guys views and I respect you guys calling out social “ norms” that are not in fact normal at all. Keep the content coming, respect from 🇨🇦
Prostitutes: “it’s not much but it’s honest work “
Dishonest work lol 😂
they can actually make pretty ridiculous money
@C Truth I really respect pros. Like they are honest. And I haven't been with them but by the looks. Many of them had no choice. And its true they get so much abused. But I respect them faaar more than the women who lie to men to use them as ATM machine.
@@JeffSmith-jg5hd i dont see how its dishonest if you know exactly what your getting....
@C Truth I think firefighters, police men, navy seals, workers on oil rigs, cole miners and journalists in dangerous places would disagree. xD
So, that "tutorial" is basically "I'm a strong, independent woman but not really." Got it.
If u telling me you got money issues as soon as we start talking or dating, you getting hit with "damn that's crazy" and changing the convo.
Facts!! 💯
Lmfao 🤣☺️🤣🤣😂
@@SuperMariposa91 its the truth tho. Like if i walk up to a girl in a bar or wherever & 10 minutes into the convo you talking about having rent issues or money problem she definitely getting hit with "damn, I'm sorry to hear that" lmfao
my thoughts exactly XD damn thats crazyyyy
You aint even gettin a response. You got no money? You irresponsible then. Bye.
Mans said bootleg cardi-b im gone🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Alright, well imma give you 1500 when I see you later on today.” -Nobody in their right mind
Xavier Kohai even if you make good money, $1500 isn’t something that most people can just give up. Do some simple math. If someone makes $150k a year after taxes, $1500 is 1% of that. And at the end of the day, most people should be following the 50/20/30 rules; 50% on necessities, 20% on savings, 30% on discretionary spending. So you would be taking 1500 of the 45000 you have for the whole year to spend just for someone you just met. It’s not being broke, it’s being smart
Xavier Kohai at $150k a year after taxes and $45000 for the whole year in discretionary spending, you are only allotted about $124 a day or $863 a week. You give her $1500 and that’s almost two weeks of your discretionary spending
There are many simps giving money to hoes they never met online
@@xkohai You aren't gonna get free kitty by defending her so go try elsewhere.
There would t be an audience for her videos, if there weren’t simps out there willing to do these things she’s talking about. It’s men who see their own value in how much money they make and fee if they spend money on a chick, she will see him as a high value man. They’re both lacking something within themselves and trying to make up for it with “things”.
Spoiling a woman your in a genuine loving relationship with is fine. Tricking on a female that has no concern for your well being is not only simping, it is stupid and dangerous.
Simping is stupid and dangerous period.
Simping is a detriment to society.
love isnt real its a trick to get you to trick and think its for your benefit
@@keiranmorrisart barssss🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏
If you mean "spoil" as a constant stream of material goods or barrage of affection, constant stream of unconnected-to-reality ego boosting, then spoil would be bad, in fact corrosive to a long term relationship. But if you mean "spoil" as "un-looked for kindness" , like a couple flowers and card delivered out of the blue, not on schedule (B-day, V-day, M-day) or a larger portion of a particular food your loved one likes, more than yourself, two hot chocolates one for yourself and one for them delivered to a snuggle spot. Yeh, spoil away, that is a positive "spoil".
This is perverted. Women who think like this are abusing a man's traditional role as a provider / protector.
I think because man doesn't see himself as provider and protector anymore, so she devised ways to extract it out of him. She doesnt know how wack she sounds tho 🤷🏽♀️
@@marissabravo1037 then what do we see ourselves as? I'm not gunna pay bills for a woman that isn't my wife, my mother, or the mother of my children.
@@teamquis14 thanks bro
@@teamquis14 valid point!!!!!! Tell HER that. She clearly is confused abt some things. I am trying to explain maybe her point of view. I'm not her.
@@teamquis14 Also, she didnt even say pay bills, shes looking for a trick..... use a man if hes using you. It ain't that grand of a concept. To not use anyone is the goal for man and.woman. sometimes both sides get it wrong and this is an example.
@12:07
Aba, you and I were on the same page 🥴
Looks like she caught herself going off muscle memory 🤣
Like they said “A woman can make you a millionaire if you’re a billionaire”
the sad thing is that, a lot of people don't comprehend the meaning of that saying
ASK JEFF BEZOS! How long is gonna take him to make that money back?
@@RtistiqSkubie he aint
@@RtistiqSkubie maybe through a breakup he makes back some but not all
Or broke as a joke
This is “Toxic Femininity” but we don’t talk about that 🐸 ☕️
Edit: since people like to take a short comment & ASSUME the hell out of it.... here’s a little more context. Toxic feminism is not talked about in equal ways in the mainstream like toxic masculinity is (some of that is bs I know)- all I’m saying is that it should go both ways. Thank you Aba & Preach for talking about this!
PREACH IT
Modern prostitution
Yeah, well people on the internet do!! xD This is what it is nowadays (or maybe it always has been): Generation vs. Generation, Gender vs. Gender, Class vs. Class, Political Party vs. Political Party, Race vs. Race, Religion vs. Religion...but the thing is all those people have more in common than what they don't have in common, plus they all use the same tactics, they all only care about themselves and their own issues lol. Ugh, this world is crazy
hot tea plz
What are these guys doing? Seems to me like they’re talking about it
The average working guy is not taking anybody to the Louie store on a 1st date. I hope she is not serious.
From now on I'm only bringing 50 bucks on the first date, leave everything else at home.
"I asked if you wanted to buy something. I didn't say I was buying you something." Funny how she is teaching all these shit tests but forgets that men can have tests for women as well. Probably a good idea for most men to watch videos like this to be able to recognize the manipulations.
@@Sagefrakrobatik what, just go for a walk at a park with a coffee :D second date is dinner 😁
@@Sagefrakrobatik 50 dollars to eat is a lot of money. Specially I you can make something out of that 50 she should understand off rip
She is not looking for average, thought that was obvious.
I can understand that generosity is an attractive quality if it’s not taken to an extreme.
The problem with women like this is when they are no longer 22 and pretty, they start to wonder why so many men are cautious with their money and treat them like everything is a transaction.
Infinity MFG are you a pastor. Cuz you preaching
Women aren’t dumb they try to get married way before they hit the wall
Goof van Goober women marry everyday at every age. Some marry twice or more.
@@GeekWithMeat Women like the one in this vid are.
h h I’m 22 and still a year to go to finish college, marriage age is until 30
"How much is your rent?"
"Like, 1500..."
"Like, get a roommate!"
Your third sentence is misplaced. She can't afford your advisory fee.
Bruh my mortgage isn't even 1500 and I put bare minimum down. Better solution would be to move states
"Women live life on recruit difficulty."
“I’m tired of these females lying.”
I wouldn't say women live on recruit difficulty, we shouldn't speak on experiences we don't have
Birdman
Jared Abraham Cid FDA come on bruh, i love women, but when’s the last time you’ve seen a dude making money on OnlyFans? even my girlfriend is willing to admit how stupid this shit is, the only people defending it at this point are the simps and e-girls profiting off of simps.
Jared Abraham Cid FDA maybe so, and not all women either but we can both agree that when it comes to topics where females have a say in such as the media, life is pretty easy difficulty for them.
She helped me out a lot, now I know what to look for as red flags. Big ups
"The simp zone is the basement of the friend zone."
My god that is a perfect description.
15:25 I brought the camels.
That was a revelation from god🙏
Truly! 👏👏👏
"i dont wanna say sugar daddy."
Polysaccharide Parent.
hahaha this is funny OMG how about Carbohydrate father?
@@Juju10985 more like Fructose Father
Maybe a Splenda sponsor?
@@abubakarbalozi772 sounds about right lol
Underrated comment. Top Quality
The only card I'd be pulling out of my wallet for someone like that is a library card....so I can go read a book and gain back the IQ points I just lost.
DAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMNNNN
OHHHHHHHHHhhhhhh.....
This the one
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Damn this video is 2 yrs old. "This is a sicknessssss" would have been perfect here
“I don’t wanna say sugar daddy”
Monosaccharide Lifegiver.
🤣🤣🤣
Not monosaccharide 🤣🤣🤣
@@amib6887 And this is a joke, not a text book.
Deaddd😂😂💀
Smart joke there high iq
Yea she’s mad. My love language is receiving gifts too but things like when u on ur way to my house and u buy me my fav chocolate cuz u know it’ll make me smile. I’m not out here trying to scam LV bags outa men and I don’t ASK for shit! 🤣 If u ask for it or manipulate people into giving u gifts then that’s not them doing it on their own accord. Plus I GIVE gifts too because that’s my love language. 🤦🏾♀️
She really out here just saying anything to justify this trash behavior. Just say ur a gold digger, hold ur head high and keep walkin booboo 🤣🤣
facts
The weird thing is that she isn't and she acc worked for her money (from past videos, im a fan of hers) so this video really, REALLY confused me...
@@stools4437 You're delusional. The way she talks about getting men to buy her stuff screams "gold digger"
@@stools4437 Well now you know she clearly does not actually "work" for her money.
@@andycarollsuarez Do you watch her videos (serious)? Because from what she says she does and she hasn't inherited money from anywhere, she proper worked for her money.
She doesn’t want love, she wants money. She’s not ready for a relationship.
I sure did say she a lot
And men want the hottest bitches that can cook and clean. So explain to me, how is this any different.
@@Fatima-kp8hi Explain how those are the same! 😂 She isn't going over to his on the first date and cooking and cleaning for him yet she's expecting to be dining out and going on expensive shopping trips all on someone else's dime.
@@Fatima-kp8hi That's because men like beautiful women,how is exploiting someone for their money the same?
Fatimá cooking and cleaning is a life skill everyone should have if you can’t cook and clean what are you a dam toddler ?
The scammer’s guide 101
Wtf. I can't believe this is real. At least prostitutes are honest.
Prostitutes are good people to be honest. I had one prostitute friend and I always was like "why don't you work a simple job" and just as I went out searching for jobs and I saw how difficult it was to have a job and what you had to do to keep the job. At least they do it so they can have some free time and some money, and they do it by "selling" their body. Not by manipulating man.
Prostitutes are the only honest women, in any civilization.
Which is sad... But still true.
@@andrewmattox1233 FACTS and with a prostitute, you have ZERO headaches.
And they're also smart. They're giving away what most women are just giving away for free to aint shit dudes.
@@tomgjonaj8020 true
Imagine how shocked she’d be if a man manipulated her, bet she’d talk about how terrible he is without realizing her own irony
Umm men manipulate woman all the time for sex. Lol.
@@DBK9.8 Women don’t? Y’all be the same ones talking like freaks and all the above in the phone. Then when your their y’all be frozen and not do the shit y’all came their for. Then y’all say “why are you pressuring me” and ect. So many more things I can list. (Pathetic).
@@nedjietoussaint4917 she got no comeback lmao, the typa person to always act like a victim 😂
"Stability is a 9 to 5, with a solid pension plan and guaranteed benefits" 100% Agree with you man, 1000%!
Was about to skip the vid, till buddy said “boot legged cardi b” 🤣🤣 gotta subscribe now.
In my early twenties, “gifts” was my love language. But I was swooning over one flower or bringing me my favorite coke without me asking. I wasn’t expecting shopping trips to designer stores! She’s being greedy, deceitful, and treating people like they’re her own personal ATM.
Like Abba said, there's small gifts and gestures of appreciation and then there's wanting to live in luxury. People need to realize that spoiling your partner with money isn't love.
SHe looks more like a bootleg NICKI MINAJ, but sounds like a Bootleg cardi Haha
Had me spill out my New Amsterdam because of this comment, shxt had me dying lmao
Yeah, a in breed mix of two trashy basic ass girls lmao
I see soo soo much cardi a lil more like Hennessy her baby sis but she really does look like cardi lol
Yup
Fusion dance
Gold diggers: "Your money? You mean, *our* money." *insert communist saluting meme *
on me the bugs bunny thing XD
Me: my money
Gold digger:* insert bugs bunny "our" meme*
Gold diggers after divorce: *MY money*
Lol