My ex did both, the one punch ko I got hurt a lot more, as it was 8 yrs ago and still suffer pain in that area. The scene: it was late night after night out of drinking and a heated discussion started (forget what about), I left the room to get away from him towards the kitchen, he followed me continued the heat as I felt trapped and couldnt get away i banged the kettle on countertop (was gonna make a coffee, didnt know what to do in the moment) that was last thing I remember until I woke up and couldnt see outta my left eye, was badly swollen and deep gash on my eyebrow. Anyone who's been through this would NOT choose it! You can fix the emotional hurt by knowing he never cared, violence towards another is a whole another level of abuse. I would choose neither as it shouldn't even be an option! Been a long journey trying to heal and being aware of myself of what part I played in the whole relationship, I haven't gotten into any relationship since. The image is public on my fb page if anyone wants to see, might scroll abit been few months since I last posted it.
Sorry to hear that, i hope you are doing well on your new journey, taking time off from meeting people is a good thing, gives you time to think, focus on yourself, and improve. Though i've never been in a relationship, i hope my message was some good advice.🙏
Not only did dude monetize his family for content, him and his wife gave marriage seminars. They did seminars for how to have healthy relationships let that marinate....
If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏 But don't do what these guys did.
Now every time someone watches one of their old videos, they will realize the whole "I love my wife" thing was just a front. He sh*t all over their brand lol
You think she wasn’t getting anything out of it too? They were caught in public. It would be different if he was hushing her and making her keep it on the dl. I know a lady who’s a “business owner” because she manipulated her ex husband into giving her parts of the company and then ruined the guys life by saying he cheated on her and his customers ended up pulling away and doing business with her. People might look innocent because of their status but it’s a two way street. The Asian lady cheated on her fiancé too. Publicly humiliated him by cheating. She’s just as bad as the guy.
@@Izetfazlinovucjelegenda I think you don't understand that him being her boss is a huge power imbalance. You're ignoring the actual fact about the situation and going off of an anecdote YOU know. Shut the hell up goofball.
@@IzetfazlinovucjelegendaAlso because he branded himself after being a family man and made money off of it he published books about marriage and even made products to sell with his wife he went against his brand that was family oriented and made money off of people without living by his own words
I agree but I wonder if the sexes were reversed if a woman would lose her career position if she cheated on her husband, maybe? I don't see cases of women being dismissed by their jobs for cheating. If someone knows any example let me know.
This is why I have mad respect for you guys. We all know Preach has a wife and Aba is single. But Preach carries himself as a married man with how he talks and interacts with content, and Aba carries himself as single. But Aba isn't pushing Preach to say anything crazy and I can only speculate what both of you guys' personal lives looks like. You both set the boundary and keep it real. Both of your personal lives ain't our business and that's fine by me.
Being cheated on is a trauma that sticks with you for years after the fact. It affects your ability to trust in future relationships. If you stay and try to work it out with the cheater, the trust is never fully restored. Even years later, let them come home a little late or be hanging out with friends... the suspicion and mistrust is always beneath the surface. If you even remotely care about your partner, on just a human level, don't cheat. If you ghost them, it'll hurt. If you tell them you fell out of love and want to split, it'll hurt. But nothing hurts worse than the betrayal of your partner sharing their body with another person and the lies that come along with that. It's a truly despicable thing to do to someone, and is certainly no way to treat a person you claim to love.
Ned's brand started when they were still dating, and The Try Guys were still under Buzzfeed, which is why it was such a shock. So a decade-strong marriage and a 15-year brand were ruined in weeks or longer. The betrayal is en mass, but their kids are the most impacted.
For me it’s the kids and how public this is. It’s awful. Sometimes marriages can bounce back after adultery but it takes a lot of work. And unfortunately, ppl nowadays are so judgmental about spouses who try to work things out with cheaters. You try for the sake of your kids but it will be much harder to do something like that in the public eye.
Clowns are held to a higher standard than politicians. That's modern society in a nutshell. EDIT: Randomly got this video recommended to me again, and it looks like I made a smart comment lol
Or they're holding themselves to a higher standard, they could have. When he has the I love my wife thing going on and he's a public figure it's a problem also while I'm fine with employees dating each other this is more akin to a owner level employee dating a non owner employee presents a power dynamic and like aba and preach said it's his brand. We can't really expect politicians to hold themselves to any standard if we don't hold ourselves to a good standard.
i think its because certain politicians have followings that can "look past" certain things. like for example, there definitely is a big group of politicians in this country who, if accused of money laundering or adultery, for example, wouldn't face real backlash from their constituents. because that's not what they care about. but.. if they said they support gay marriage or abortion, or migrant workers' rights, they'd lose voters. which is backwards asf right? dumb as hell
@@misspapillon24 that IG model is really daft and doesn't want to take accountability. I don't mind THOTs that embrace their rachetiness, at least those are honest.
I will continue to say it: " Why are people so surprised? It's always the "my-wife" guy!" People don't make their partner their whole personality/brand because they're healthy...
You really think that? REALISTICALLY speaking he cheated because he found the other woman more attractive or the situation thrilling instead of his dad and "I love my wife" life. The whole underserving of her love thing can happen, but most of the ppl cheat because they see the person as a better option than their current partner or need some or of thrilling moment.
Exactly if he was gon slang D dude should’ve been more careful and cautious but it seems like he gave NO fuk’s *how tf are you going clubbing partying & making out tongue kissing the side chick…In public!??* what part of the game is that!??
@@chocolatte522 I remember watching a self improvement video where the guy says that co-workers in the corporate level are a no go for hooking up because if things go down south, you could possibly end up like Ned. No one will give a shit if you hook up with someone at your 9-5 10-17 dollar an hour wage job. But in a place where you have a salary, power dynamics get involved, it's easy to fuck it all up.
@@JollyWanker weaponised autism. Sadly some inmocent people get doxxed easily when a group targets them. Sometimes people find out they're getting fired weeks ahead due to premature tweets or leaks.
For those who might not understand why their fans are so shocked and appalled (I've been a long time try guys fan), is that ned has always been known as the "wife guy". That's literally his only personality, and that's what people have known him for. He was someone who clearly loves his wife and nearly mentions her in every single video they do. Not only that but this has taken off career wise, and he has gone through uni to conduct lectures about ethics of marriage, he has published books about healthy marriage, has set up social media showing off his wife and family and have gotten brand deals from that, and has also recently published a cook book with his wife. To have all of this come out is so so shocking and obviously left a bitter taste in everyone's mouth. And this is all being talked about in light of the recent celebrities who have been caught cheating on their partners so far in this year. So it's just an extremely sad situation that have resulted in a wife and a mother of two losing her husband who have profited from her, while he was screwing some other chick for years
@@sararistictodorovic2100 I actually didn’t know alllll of that. Like I didn’t realize just how thoroughly he included his wife into his whole work (i.e. the cookbook, the lectures at a uni, all the brand deals) so I really appreciated this comment. Maybe if you did know all of that, just don’t comment anything?? Instead of taking the time to write a snarky comment in response to a helpful one lol
The more I see the compilation video of Ned saying "My wife" makes me think that he just sees her as a character rather than him seeing her as his actual wife. I've watched Try Guys before and I just took it that he rarely said her name. Just a thought.
l was thinking he could be a simp. any man who has to acknowledge his wife so much in a show 'brand and all' he problably don't get that respect cos last time l checked women are annoyed by it, l know it might be a stretch
This is especially telling considering he almost always referred to his wife as "my wife" instead of saying her name (Ariel). On the other hand, the other guys, like Keith for example, usually just said the name of their SO (like Keith would just say "Becky and I ..." or "Me and Becky..." instead of "my wife" "my wife" "my wife").
@@halfxbreed23 yeah but if you cheat when married might make the non cheating partner(which could be the mom) more likely to have custody. For myself, just leave, I can always figure out how to separate my feelings of being left and still letting my ex be a parent. But with cheating, it makes me question what their thought process is. It’s hard to leave but if you feel like you need to go cheat, it’s better morally to leave, separate and divorce then get your piece than the embarrassment of yourself having to find out your spouse stepped out and kept it secret. It will show that they did not value the relationship, kept a secret and shows the children that it’s okay to step out on commitment if you have desires
@@halfxbreed23 most kids wouldn’t want a mother or father that cheated on one another. Cheating and staying for the kids usually leads to arguments and truama on the kids. Most kids (aka myself) would love for their parents to get a divorce. Especially in this day and age🤦🏻♀️
This is actually a good example to use for an MBA level HR class. Not even kidding. Understanding all of the interlinking parts of a business and how acts like this can tarnish a business.
@@TCt83067695 no Ned wouldn’t. If anything the other guys have grounds to sue for lost income due to the damage to the brand overall. Alex the Employee might have a case for unlawful termination if they actually fired her but I would imagine they offered her a generous severance package to resign.
@@ranga1cat severance payment aka hush money is admissible in court too as evidence. As for Ned, they would have to prove the damages. These past few weeks have seen an increased awareness of their brand. Those videos are their most watched. They're even getting replays on some of their old videos. They're getting spoofed on snl broadcast to millions. The works. Basically, they have marketed this split in a way that maximizes value for their brand rather than damage it. Their brand valuation has increased esp since as a company, they no longer have to split things 4 ways. He just needs a good lawyer. My guy can sue them into oblivion. The money may then help him forget his betray of his wife and kids.
@@ranga1cat That is not at all how that works, you can't sue your business partner for bad publicity. The only way you can sue someone for brand damage is slander or libel.
Ned fumbled the bag for all of them. They just got a TV show with the food network this year, and right after the news broke out, I read they moved their time slot from Wednesday nights to Friday mornings, now they will probably not get a second season.
He was trying to switch his brand. If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. He would not be canceled now. But homie dipped his dick too early. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏
"I appreciate yall watching. We not homies, we not friends" This is what the majority of fans need to understand😂 Just because you enjoy someones content doesnt mean you have a connection to that person.
@@optimalscore they were basically carrying BuzzFeed on their backs for a long time As well as Shane and Ryan But they lost their way when they started their own company
His kids are going to know exactly what happened, who their dad cheated on their mom with, where their dad cheated, and when it all happened. They will probably never know why it happened, and might even blame themselves.
The craziest part of this story that my sister told me yesterday is that they paid for her wedding dress in a video all to find out she was cheating with Ned the whole time.
@@helloworld7818 They paid for the lover, Alex's wedding dress. They had a few women getting married in their office and Alex's wedding was first so they did Try Guys try wedding and bridesmaid dresses and paid for her stuff in those episodes. To find out you spent company funds on a wedding that isnt happening because the owner is having an affair with the bride is wild.
That young girl is going to come up with excuses as he brainwashed her and he was her supervisor, bla bla bla... If the dude's wife decides to divorce him then it's gonna be a huge financial hit for him for sure! These hypocrites are always trying to portray themselves as superior to other people. "My wife, my wife, my wife" and this is the outcome! Well played!
i will never understand those types..like if i were to do the whole cheating thing why NOT cheat and keep it under wraps.. Like why are you taking the side chick out to lunches and public venues.. making out at clubs wtf
@@jayclearmen411 good point… and not for the sake of the wife, but for his own sake! Now, he messed up his bag AND the wife could very well take him for all he’s worth in a divorce! 🤦🏾♂️ Either he shoulda had an agreement w/ the wife OR kept that ish discreet af!
@@yukijames1321 People will still jump down this mans throat as if he did manipulate her though, thats just how gullible society is when it comes to women.
The Try Guys are a good example of guys who don't brush off behavior that is contrary to their values. We ask men to stand up to their friends when their friends lie and cheat, and here we see men doing just that. I hope more people will do this and not ignore bad behavior because acknowledging it and taking action may cost them.
We ask women to understand that women don't get to ask anything of "men" , not when men can't say anything about women without it being a feminist issue. Pretty sure y'all cheat more and are encouraged to cheat and have it hidden by your friends more than we do.
Meh. It’s cause they have a brand and bag to protect. Guarantee if this was found out internally(I.e no fan detectives on Reddit blasting their comments) it would be handled a lot softer.
@@gedoplanet Right, but she's also an employee. She can very easily state that Ned took advantage of his position as her boss in this situation. Also, Ned is the public figure here
What I consider extra salt in the wound is that Ned either didn’t care or didn’t take into account just what it means for all this to happen in the public eye with someone of his reputation. I don’t care if people choose to work it out after infidelity, but now we’ll have the entirety of the internet down his poor wife’s throat judging her or just forever looking at her with pity for staying with an unfaithful man. Working it out is *vastly harder* in my mind. The wife doesn’t deserve that.
@@davidadegbe8494 that's an excuse. Women have a lot more choices and that means the faithful ones pick their partners over all those choices every day. The least a man could do is the same.
@@zorgon410 the stats are crazy for the same type of people, it's not a gender based thing. Some people are fucked in the head, we're all responsible for not being simps for them
How about try this. If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏
My fiancée cheated on me like five years ago with a mutual friend of ours that was her co-worker. Man, that was hard for me. Especially because my brother was going through chemo therapy, at the time. My brother ended up dying. The aftermath of my fiancée cheating was also hard for her because she ended up with no one, after I broke up with her. I told her, to her face, "You're a bad person." She was kneeling on the ground; hugging my leg, crying to me like a child; and begging for me to stay. Honestly, I felt ashamed being with her. Ashamed that I chose her as my girlfriend. Like I wanted nothing to do with her. Zero association. I was very close to her family and I'm pretty sure that her entire family and close friend group all knows what happened, at this point. Even though, I was very selective of who I'd tell. And the wedding? Obviously, cancelled before it got started. All we've built in the 6 or so years of dating thrown to the trash. And now, we're both in our late twenties trying to navigate the world without a partner. LESSON: DON'T CHEAT! IT'S NEVER WORTH IT!
Went through something similar. Was with a chick for a bit and one of her family members tried offing themself. Recommended ALL of them get therapy because even when people survive, the damage ripples outward for years. The only one that didn't take my input seriously; the girl I was with. So, even as I was taking my own advice, I withdrew from her and cared less and less and less as she did more reckless things while becoming angry and resentful towards me. Even becoming "hurt' by my not wanting to be intimate when she hadn't bathed for over a week but always seemed to have energy when "going out with the girls". Yeah... I suspected. Eventually she told me she was interested in another guy as though I should be shocked and was confused when I helped her move out to pursue the "love of her life". Hopefully she has learned and won't make the same mistakes but upon relfection and consideration of what I know about her through her family, her, and some of her friends... there is a pattern. 100% don't cheat. Even if no one finds out, you hurt yourself. And when others do find out, you hurt them too.
I'm sorry that happened to you...being cheated on is traumatic, I don't think people really understand how much until you've been through it. I wouldn't wish that feeling on anyone 😢. You did the right thing, leaving. Once the trust is gone, it's over anyway. I hope you're doing better now ❤️
To all the guys who are in a long term relationship, i would take this as a lesson that no matter how faithful you have been, temptations are always waiting. Stay strong.
True. Also, if you don't have any religious views against it, try a threesome with your man. Cheating rarely comes out of the blue. Men don't just go "I love my wife, my balls are empty, life is good." & Then see a random broad & try to shag her. There's more behind it & tbh a lot of cheating could be prevented if there was more open dialogue about it. Sadly, so many women have been fed the lie of "you're the only one for me" Etc, that most men would never bring up when they feel like cheating & why.
I mean it’s not really temptation is it? Because it seems cheaters of all identities always choose the most mid/mediocre looking people. This is no exception, look at the two of them. “Beauty is subjective, she could be kinda bad, them Asian chicks-“ I’m not playing that game, they’re both mid/medium ugly at best. The “tempting” part _was_ the cheating, that was the point. I don’t feel like it’s temptation at that point, idk.
Yup! Sometimes you just want to walk away or fight the urge. Seen this happen to way too many co-workers at Walmart and the awkward engagements after they break up, but still have to together.
Why dont they ever fire the woman? I get it datting in the office leads to drama in the office so it cant happen but when it dose only the guy gets shamed and fired? He didnt rape her she was a willing partner in the crime why dose she get the victim status? If him cheating on his wife is a bad look for the company why isnt her cheating on her dude a bad look?
As a domestic abuse survivor I'd rather be cheated on the punched in the face. And if you picked punched you've obviously never been punched in the face full force by a man. That shit hurts! Concussions, broken nose, cracked orbital bones, lost teeth, etc are all very possible when being hit in the face. Naw you'd rather be cheated on.
@@sruthi2708 you think being punched in the face doesn’t come with emotional damage too did you use your small brain before you mad this comment man clealy not please use it next time I know it might hurt to but for your sake please do
@@jiggatoni4082 Idk personally for me, if someone I thought loved me punched me in the head, that relationship gets no more of my emotional energy, I'm going cold instantly. I'm not even mad anymore at that point just level headed and focussing on how to escape/finish the situation. If they swing at me it's obvious they were never really down for me like that anyway so how can I invest any more emotional energy into it? It's a complete waste of time. Maybe down the track I'd reflect and be a bit confused/conflicted in my mind but once violence is involved I can no-longer rely on emotions to get me anywhere, and so they don't get a place in my mind. It's all survival and escape mode at that point. I'm acutely aware that not everyone thinks this way, but that's just how it is for me. Logic prevails over emotions 99/100 times.
I've heard a story of a band of special forces who found out all their wives were having affairs while they were deployed and they were bragging about it to each other. One of them who told the story said that he would've rather been shot. The difference between physical pain and emotional pain is that one is brief but the other can last for a long time and can even deteriorate your health.
I feel so awful for ariel, her kids, and the womans fiance. Its awesome how the try guys r handling this. I hope other companies will take note. The fact that u can see the disappointment on their faces feels so refreshing cause most celebrities or business ppl dont actually care
What got me fucked up was they didn’t just fire Ned, they got rid of him from merch, from old videos, deleted new videos like they basically erased Ned from the try guys
Being cheated on can scar you for life. That's the thing. That shit can hurt, especially when you deeply love and trust someone. For many people, the shot to the face would hurt less.
Now add to that the fact that you spent a considerable amount of your life with someone who didn’t love you. Someone you have kids with. Someone who you will be stuck dealing with a long time. I hope his wife becomes his ex-wife and recovers and lives a happy and healthy rest of her life with her children.
Gone through it twice with two different women. No explanation either time. Worst thing is trying to find an answer as to why when the only reason is that they're heartless monsters
It's robbing your spouse of living in reality. They think everything is great, they are making life together, doing good together, bu secretly, it's lies all along
You are so right - have seen so many content creators refer to their audience as 'family'. It has always been so creepy to me (though I understand it 'sells' better from a marketing perspective), especially because so many of them are teenagers who are learning about boundaries from these people. Then when a break-up happens, they feel personally involved - you can't really expect otherwise!
Ned played the sweet, innocent guy role who had so much love for his wife really well. He pulled it off so good and a lot of us fell for it and thought it was adorable. It’s really disappointing to find out it was all just him overcompensating for the fact that he actually was a nasty, habitual cheater behind the scenes. 🤦🏻♀️
Or... He just fell in love with someone else? That's not a crime. Y'all act like adultery is worse than homicide. People grow and change and want something else. It's not that big a deal.
Yup not surprising a lot of internet personalities/ celebrities play a role that they think will make them more palatable/relatable/marketable that's just kinda how the entertainment world works that's why I don't take these celebs all that seriously I just enjoy what it is they do and leave it at that
@@brynnwalk4390 I agree to a certain extent now if you give your word to a girl that your gonna be faithful then imo you have to honor that but all this hysteria and a damn apology video? Just cause 2 consenting adults decided to step out on their significant other? Idk it feels like a bit much
The Fiancé of the girl is wild.. bro knew they hooked up and didn't say shit to the wife. Him making the decision to stay with her was dumb but even worse was him making the decision to stay quite.
Could Not be me. If lord forbid i find out my girl, wasn’t really my girl i’m Out. I’d ghost her.. I wouldn’t even let on that I’d know just plan & move accordingly. Wouldn’t respond to none of her voice calls or read None of her text messages. I’d just be gone one day. She reach out to my ppl We are NOTHING to each other.
As a woman who is healthy, sturdy, and average height... I would rather be cheated on than seriously attacked any day of the week. Chances I leave a cheater are very high. But at least that man isn't going to look me in the eye and make a concerted attempt to smash my face/skull/brain. Damn, just break my heart, not my body. I don't want to be heartbroken and in fear for my life at the same time, wtf.
This is why content creators shouldn't monetize their personal lives or if they do, at least be prepared for scandals and consequences when some shit goes down.
I agree 100% I hate when public figures have the audacity to want privacy when they get exposed. We in season 3 espisode 2 of your life you don’t get to just cut it off now 🤣🤣🤣
I think the thing you’re looking for with the whole brand thing is Will Smith slapping Chris Rock, Will’s whole brand is being positive, so the moments he slipped had a big wave.
@@destaneyvito5936 People say she's 30. At what age do Americans tend to graduate high school? Because she graduated in 2009 (says so on her linked in). Either way, she's probably closer to 30 than 24.
If it was just cheating, I'm sure they had not much legal grounds to cast him out. But he was a founder/boss/HR manager of the company, she a subordinate . It was definitely a legal matter.
Preach is 100 percent right. They knew about this for a year and did nothing until it blew up and went public. What happened to the girl he was cheating with? She's an employee too, was she fired?
I highlighted doubt they knew for a year. I think they just recently knew. And no they can’t really fire her because that could bring in a whole host of lawsuits. As much as I would love to see her get fired
@@sruthi2708 they did fire her. or i think they have both "been suspended immediately". see @14:59 its alex, i think alexandria of the food babies. not sure tho.
I'm sure they knew or had a gut feeling that they never acted on. Employee's have mentioned noticing something was off, so I don't think it escaped his closest friends and co-workers the actual Try Guys. They would have preferred to sweep this under the rug and keep the brand.
Not everyone is that interested in other people's affairs. Sometimes if you don't know for certain you don't ask. Hence why they probably didn't know for sure, they may have suspected but like I said most people keep their nose out of other peoples business especially at work.
I laughed so hard, a hearty, I love being alive laugh at your interactions from 1:30+ minutes into the video. Your chemistry as a team is the best I've ever seen.
Aba ripping into Ned feels good because it's basically what Eugene wanted to say at the minimum, you could see Eugene was pissed and had to HR himself not to say anything personal about Ned. Ned is actually just dumb not just for the cheating but how openly he did it. Especially in California where basically most of the state that uses RUclips would recognize him either from Buzzfeed or from the Try Guys, he literally a local celebrity at the minimum, he really probably thought no one would recognize him. Good to know he's not the big brains of anything.
Thats just how Eugene always looks. Hes permanently got the angry face and usually attitude. And to be fair, if I was forced to work with the rest of them, Id be like that too...
From a financial and reputation standpoint, I completely understand why they’re pissed. Especially with their Food Network show being moved to a dead time slot. And not only that, reputation wise, this just makes their company look messy and networks probably don’t want to be associated with influencers that have drama like this. lol
I’m a boxer and I’ve been cheated on. Can confirm being punched is worse. I don’t even remember the girls name who cheated on me. Yet I for sure remember the first person who yeeted me in the face. 😭😭😭
@@AlIskanderZhao I remember like it was yesterday. I accidentally snitched and they got in serious trouble. They would lock me in closets, throw food on my uniform, punch me, kick me, slam me etc. One day my mother asked me why my cloths were so dirty and was about to ring my neck and I think I just got tired of being blamed so I told her the truth. They had to go to this after school counciling shit. I still feel bad because I have/had a strong feeling whatever was going on at home for them was much worse for them then it was for me. You could smell the desperation of trying to be cool or popular or some bs so I let it slide. I did fight back got beat every time but I did fight back. Mama ain’t raise no B’.
Wouldn't you say it matters for how long you've been together and how much you've built together? How long were you together with the girl whose name you can't remember?
anyone who's whole brand is "I love my wife SOOOO much and I only care about her" is about as believable as "I'm a good person, yo. I've never killed anyone. No need to check. Don't have to look into that. I've never murdered so we can all stop talking about it". You're SUPPOSED to love your wife. What, you want a cookie?
I said this when it first came out. The people they work with absolutely knew. Now they have to watch out for themselves and pretend they "had no idea".
You would be amazed at how many people cheat that are married. I know of one lady who thinks she's in this wonderful committed relationship and he cheats on her EVERY chance he gets. It's sad.
This reminds me so much of Robin Thicke when he was exposed for cheating on his wife. If he were someone else it might not have mattered, but his entire brand was built upon the mantra “I’m so in love with my wife”. Even his attempt at a comeback was more of the same old, at the same speed, in the same gear. And not only weren’t the public having it, his now ex-wife, who was the absolute center of the project and highlighted in the videos, clearly wasn’t having it either.
The fact that this has been going on for nearly a year (that we know of) speaks volumes. And then she accepts a proposal from her long-term relationship all the while sleeping with her coworker AND planning a wedding at that, like WTF? 😐 Her fiancée is even crazier for going to her lover asking him to stop - if I read that correctly 😵💫 Why even get married?? As The World Turns...
When you loved somebody for that long, it’s easy to forgive them as long as it doesn’t happen again. I can’t imagine how he feels knowing he wasted 10 years of his love life for someone who cheated on him, even after given a second chance. I hope he got that proposal ring back, at the very least.
@@pdors94 I totally get it, but self respect should be just as important. She clearly does not respect him, so why hold on? 🤷 People only do what you allow. This is just sad 😔
I think with privacy and private space it’s like with consent. It’s a basic right and even after giving it, you are always allowed to reclaim it. Even with best friends, when you ask them for space, they give you space. The public has no rights on another person’s privacy.
This explains it a lot better, I watched the video and read two articles thinking “So what? He’s dating an employee?” Now that I know he was cheating on his wife, it makes a lot more sense.
I'm pretty sure the Try Guys were already in the process of cutting Ned out before everything went public because fans had started to notice that in much of their videos, they had started to purposely edit Ned out of frame (which leads me to think, they were trying to handle the situation in a more professional manner and then Ned just f**cked it up by going out in public with to air out his dirty laundry). It shows how little he cared about his Try Guy coworkers/ friends. Its almost like he went out in public on purpose to make the Try Guys brand look bad/messy, instead of letting them peacefully cut ties with him in a more professional way.
Yeah in their podcast they explained that they found out over labour day weekend and immediately starting trying to figure out how go get rid of him; most likely because this is a huge problem for their brand and is a huge liability. Especially because of Alex turns around and says that due to the power dynamic on Ned being her employer, she felt like she had to sleep with him, she could sue the company. They already said that the were informed by fans because fans have been privately trying to contact Ariel and Alex's fiance since May about people seeing them cheating IN PUBLIC but the partners didnt respond. And then over labour day weekend is when the found out from DM's and also them finding the reddit thread about it. They even lost their Food Network slot because of this. I dont agree with the rumours that they knew for a whole and were sweeping in under the rug. The guys' reactions and emotion just seem too fresh and genuinely betrayed for them to have known for a whole and lying. I wouldn't be surprised if employees had an inkling since they are around Alex more so they probably saw things but the other try guy's run multiple projects and also, when you are close to someone you dont realise the little things that give things like this away that an outsider would notice straightway because you dont have the privilege of hindsight since you have emotions invested in the person and so you're less likely to register strange behaviour between Ned and Alex as sus. I would say that they probably head things or atleast thought that Ned and Alex's dynamic was weird at times but there couldn't prove it and also they all have families so, I don't think they had the time to sit around evaluating those things to properly realise that there was an affair going on. Also, my guess is the partners of Ned and Alex didnt respond to fan DMs becaus they either try to fix it on their own or didnt want to believe it. Which is understandable since both couples had years long relationships so it's not an easy realisation to make
As stupid as it is, she could sue for wrongful termination because she’s a subordinate. That said, she should leave. She’s only going to drag the company down since they are based on public reaction.
Survivor here of 16 years of full force punches from my father. 4 years old i had one of those full force punches laced with keys to the skull which severed an artery and almost killed me, my father had a nurse friend stitch my head back shut lets say that much. I've had broken bones, black eyes, teeth knocked out etc. I honestly would rather be cheated on than this. My mom who was the victim of both abuse and cheating by my father as often he locked us in the basement when he had his mistresses over she rather he cheat than hit her as well. Lots of people argue why not leave, 1. every time i called police, reported it to schools, etc mom lied and covered for my dad always. 2. My dad had guns and he often threatened to kill us, it scary to have someone shoot at you threatening to kill you so I think my mom was too scared to go. 3. My mom wa the bread winner and because of that she didn't want to pay him alimony for the divorce, yes my mom risked her life and mine because she was greedy. Not everyone is a goodparent, my mom is a shitty parent there were times where she threw me under the bus just to direct my dad's violence onto me not her. So yeah finally just said fuck it homelessness is better than this and left home at 16. So if you ask me which would I choose, I'd say I'd rather he cheat, I can just leave those scars do heal over time. However for me PTSD doesn't let me heal, im in therapy for life for this crap because I can never forget, nor can I forgive. So it's not worth being plowed like that knowing you'll face death, your mind never lets you forget that shit.
Thank you for sharing your story. My SO went through very similar PA abuse. He went through hell…he was drowned by his father…he survived , but is very much notionally scarred by that. I survived SA. We are trying by to help each other… thanks for sharing your story. I wouldn’t want to be hit.
I agree with Preach. The other guys probably figured something was up, but to protect their brand they went out of their way to apologize and condemn the behavior
Very similar to the Ime Udoka scandal: when the details first come out, it just seems like a guy having a workplace affair but then you come to find out it was infidelity. It's even worse with Ned considering the fact his brand centers around being loving and faithful to his wife. People were just mad at Ime for cheating on Nia Long, one of the finest women to ever live.
I have a hard time believing no one in the situation knew he was cheating this whole time. I feel like this pr is just in reaction to their fans freaking out
My husband cheated on me and the relationship he had with the other woman hand down hurt more than the fact that he slept with her. The way saw it was his body is his to do with as he wishes but the betrayal of our friendship and common purpose cut pretty deep
Once he said "break your jaw" I said he can cheat. There's no way I would choose bodily injury over cheating. Sometimes I wonder about my fellow women.
As a big guy I feel like I'd rather get punched, been punched enough I can usually take a few. I value my fidelity with my fiancee, if im being force to cheat or get clocked across the face I'd rather take the punch the alternative pisses me off too much.
@@MadMax-dp2bb exactly its a lose lose but a punch to the face wouldnt fill me with regret for years and stain our relationship and the sanctity of our exclusive romance.
Dude gets fired for having "sexual relations" with a co-worker!? I remember, from back in the day, there was this Dude that "claimed" he didn't have "sexual relations" with that woman, he did. He didn't get fired! This must be some New Gen shit!
A part of loving someone is the risk involved with potential infidelity or break up. You can't control another person unfortunately but thats kinda what makes the bond truly valuable or theres no difference from them just being a slave (assuming you found the right person, who actually has the respect to be upfront or not cheat at all).
@@cliffordadam100 the thing about that is that cheating and scummy relationships are becoming more and more the norm. The philosophy of the risk being worth it would work....if it was the most prominent example out there. But everywhere you go, everywhere you see It's stuff like this. It's just not worth it anymore.
@Bla Bla Except that the entire legal system for divorce is in the woman's favor, even if they're in the wrong, and that there's been countless situations where those types of things have been sorted-out between people getting divorced or splitting-up. There's just no going back to the same level of trust you have in a person after you know they cheated on you. Not only will the relationship never be the same, the person getting cheated on will never be the same either.
@@ThatFalloutGod its simple maths. Men earn more, more is taken. In cases where women earn more, the men get paid. There are many women paying alimony. If your wife is a stay at home mom, then you’re even more screwed because its immoral to think you can just kick her out with nothing after she does everything unpaid in the house which you both would have had to pay for if she worked. Prime example: childcare, which if you live in the US is extremely expensive. Its not free if your wife does it- when she divorces you, she’ll have to be compensated for the loss in career, etc.
@@Jojo-pv3uf That would have to disregard cultural shifts over the decades being anti-man and masculinity, but even without that, everything you said wouldn't be justified. >The amount of cases where the woman is paying alimony are extremely rare, hence why some people make a big deal about it whenever it does happen. >The entire system of alimony is a shitshow to begin with, because the father shouldn't be paying the mother of his children money while his kids stay with the mother the entire time, as well as vice versa. Trying to make it a transaction instead of something the parents have to work-out is obviously part of the problem. >A woman divorcing her husband isn't always justified on her end, nor should she expect something in return from the (former) husband. If one spouse stays home while the other works, and then they get divorced, the former isn't inherently entitled to anything merely because they stayed home. >If a couple gets divorced due to one cheating, then the innocent one should rake the other over the coals.
@@ThatFalloutGod Even then, the emotional feeling is still there. The feelings are all just wonky, believe it or not having to move out the same house as your SO and financially plunder him isn’t something most people who actually love their partners, and want to stay with him want.
Love the point about the "privacy" thing, you really do forfeit your right to "be anonymous" (like the rest of us) when you monetize your family life and your personality as a brand. You can't take advantage of "celebrity" when you want and then disavow it when it doesn't suit you. The world doesn't work like that.
7:10 if your brand is about being vegetarian and animal sanctuaries but you having barbecues every weekend hit 17 different kinds of protein and 15 exotic meats, camel , lion, cheetah,elephant, etc
I feel bad for them honestly. They most likely lost so much money from not only having to lose content where Ned is in it too much but now they have to do extra editing they just got a show on the Food Network it’s insane really gave up his entire life for one girl
8:24 YES. I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY RUclipsR WHO THOUGHT THIS. Who you are in real life IS your brand and product. If I, in my private life contradict the values I put out in my public life, it doesn't matter if I only contradicted it in private. People in part like content creators because they like them AS a person. Their investment in you is reliant on you being a good person, if you contradict that, it is equivalent to buying into a product that faked how good it was. If you don't think so, tell your audience upfront that you have and will cheat, see how that goes for building an audience.
@@Gen7486 Haha, okay Fair... although that's a very specific brand that's built around that and appeals to a very specific section of people. If try guys opened up with "Just letting you know, I do and will cheat on my wife" That shit wouldn't work for mainstream audiences
tbf I don't really care what aba and preach get upto in their day to day, or any other youtuber. As long as they aren't committing crimes why does it matter to people what people you watch on a screen do when they are off screen
My ex did both, the one punch ko I got hurt a lot more, as it was 8 yrs ago and still suffer pain in that area. The scene: it was late night after night out of drinking and a heated discussion started (forget what about), I left the room to get away from him towards the kitchen, he followed me continued the heat as I felt trapped and couldnt get away i banged the kettle on countertop (was gonna make a coffee, didnt know what to do in the moment) that was last thing I remember until I woke up and couldnt see outta my left eye, was badly swollen and deep gash on my eyebrow. Anyone who's been through this would NOT choose it! You can fix the emotional hurt by knowing he never cared, violence towards another is a whole another level of abuse. I would choose neither as it shouldn't even be an option! Been a long journey trying to heal and being aware of myself of what part I played in the whole relationship, I haven't gotten into any relationship since. The image is public on my fb page if anyone wants to see, might scroll abit been few months since I last posted it.
That´s horrible. Noone deserves something like that. I wish you strength, healing and a good support system on your journey. God bless.
ouch
Damn just damn
Sorry to hear that, i hope you are doing well on your new journey, taking time off from meeting people is a good thing, gives you time to think, focus on yourself, and improve.
Though i've never been in a relationship, i hope my message was some good advice.🙏
I'm sorry you had to remember those unpleasant moments again.
I definitely laughed pretty hard when I saw someone write "try guy tries adultery" early on.
Lol that is funny
Yeah I got to retweet from zanny with the title try guys try infidelity 🤣🤣🤣
Take notes people, if you’re gonna steal a comment at least admit it there’s no shame.
LMAOOO
@@pete5516 he didnt steal it he admitted it wasnt his
Not only did dude monetize his family for content, him and his wife gave marriage seminars. They did seminars for how to have healthy relationships let that marinate....
Exactly they seemed like a very happy couple.
Let that marryned
u know liars are very good sales people
Nothing wrong with that.
Its the same as any guru or self help shit.
I tend to blame the consumer more than the seller when it comes to these things.
If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏
But don't do what these guys did.
He jeopardized his marriage, his career and the career of others because he couldn't keep it in his pants... Did he even....try???
That’s why fck cheaters
just be up front and divorce and sleep around guilt free
Do or do not, there is no try. Boy couldn't do marriage.
Now every time someone watches one of their old videos, they will realize the whole "I love my wife" thing was just a front. He sh*t all over their brand lol
@@takoflame4948 People like to have both. A stable family and side pieces.
He wasn't fired for cheating. He was fired for having a relationship with an employee as a BOSS.
You think she wasn’t getting anything out of it too? They were caught in public. It would be different if he was hushing her and making her keep it on the dl. I know a lady who’s a “business owner” because she manipulated her ex husband into giving her parts of the company and then ruined the guys life by saying he cheated on her and his customers ended up pulling away and doing business with her. People might look innocent because of their status but it’s a two way street. The Asian lady cheated on her fiancé too. Publicly humiliated him by cheating. She’s just as bad as the guy.
@@Izetfazlinovucjelegenda Eugene's comment "the internet judges women more harshly than men" good job!
@@Izetfazlinovucjelegenda I think you don't understand that him being her boss is a huge power imbalance. You're ignoring the actual fact about the situation and going off of an anecdote YOU know. Shut the hell up goofball.
@@IzetfazlinovucjelegendaAlso because he branded himself after being a family man and made money off of it he published books about marriage and even made products to sell with his wife he went against his brand that was family oriented and made money off of people without living by his own words
He didn't just cheat on his wife, he publicly humiliated her.
Both honestly.
I cant handle public humiliation...maybe in private we mighta been able to work past it... but public? Oh u gotta go...expeditiously....
I agree but I wonder if the sexes were reversed if a woman would lose her career position if she cheated on her husband, maybe? I don't see cases of women being dismissed by their jobs for cheating. If someone knows any example let me know.
@@amaury_off Boooothhhhh!!!!!
@@-Epiphany YUPPP FOR SURE BYE BITCH
This is why I have mad respect for you guys. We all know Preach has a wife and Aba is single. But Preach carries himself as a married man with how he talks and interacts with content, and Aba carries himself as single. But Aba isn't pushing Preach to say anything crazy and I can only speculate what both of you guys' personal lives looks like. You both set the boundary and keep it real. Both of your personal lives ain't our business and that's fine by me.
100%
The fact that keeping your personal life a secret warrants so much respect, speaks to how overly open people are with their information these days.
@@christopherlewis6915 exactly. Like bro, we all don't need to know how many mental disorders you diagnosed yourself with lmao
I keep forgetting that Preach is married but it’s like you said, he knows how to keep his personal life away from the internet
Aba is single?
you sure about that? ;)
The most shocking thing is that all the men she could have cheated with, she chose Ned
women luv a married man
Neddyyyy
That’s not shocking at all. None of this is shocking
Ned because of pre-selection. Men have always noticed they get more attention from women when they get a girlfriend.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 true.
Being cheated on is a trauma that sticks with you for years after the fact. It affects your ability to trust in future relationships. If you stay and try to work it out with the cheater, the trust is never fully restored. Even years later, let them come home a little late or be hanging out with friends... the suspicion and mistrust is always beneath the surface. If you even remotely care about your partner, on just a human level, don't cheat. If you ghost them, it'll hurt. If you tell them you fell out of love and want to split, it'll hurt. But nothing hurts worse than the betrayal of your partner sharing their body with another person and the lies that come along with that. It's a truly despicable thing to do to someone, and is certainly no way to treat a person you claim to love.
Based. Well said.
That’s very true.
Ned's brand started when they were still dating, and The Try Guys were still under Buzzfeed, which is why it was such a shock. So a decade-strong marriage and a 15-year brand were ruined in weeks or longer.
The betrayal is en mass, but their kids are the most impacted.
For me it’s the kids and how public this is. It’s awful. Sometimes marriages can bounce back after adultery but it takes a lot of work. And unfortunately, ppl nowadays are so judgmental about spouses who try to work things out with cheaters. You try for the sake of your kids but it will be much harder to do something like that in the public eye.
the girl who cheated with him should be punished as well. she seems to have a habit of going after married men
@@goodbad-boy Oh yeah the girl who cheated should be fucking hammered. She literally did the same thing lol
All over a younger hole.
No... seriously. I'm taking the Patrice stance on this LOL
Its just a PR thing
Clowns are held to a higher standard than politicians. That's modern society in a nutshell.
EDIT: Randomly got this video recommended to me again, and it looks like I made a smart comment lol
Or they're holding themselves to a higher standard, they could have. When he has the I love my wife thing going on and he's a public figure it's a problem also while I'm fine with employees dating each other this is more akin to a owner level employee dating a non owner employee presents a power dynamic and like aba and preach said it's his brand.
We can't really expect politicians to hold themselves to any standard if we don't hold ourselves to a good standard.
The only thing higher to be held for a politician is the height of the blade on a guillotine
That’s where they belong
Holy shit this is so true.
Well said 👏
Especially the heels of the insider trading bill being killed by Nancy Pelosi. 😂
What a world we live in.
i think its because certain politicians have followings that can "look past" certain things. like for example, there definitely is a big group of politicians in this country who, if accused of money laundering or adultery, for example, wouldn't face real backlash from their constituents. because that's not what they care about. but.. if they said they support gay marriage or abortion, or migrant workers' rights, they'd lose voters. which is backwards asf right? dumb as hell
Thank you this is what happens when you make clowns with no Talent famous
Social media is taking the Ned cheating scandal like the press thought we'd react to Adam Levine 😂
Haha "it's another PR move"
Adam's wife seems to give him a free pass to sleep around
we all knew Adam wife has arrangement with him to sleep around
@@Apocalymon yeah, that’s the vibe I’m getting too. She’s probably just pissed he lost the bag lol
@@misspapillon24 that IG model is really daft and doesn't want to take accountability. I don't mind THOTs that embrace their rachetiness, at least those are honest.
I will continue to say it: " Why are people so surprised? It's always the "my-wife" guy!"
People don't make their partner their whole personality/brand because they're healthy...
He loved his wife so much that he decided to cheat on her because he felt undeserving of her love
🤣
I’ve seen this like 4 times already
I'm sick of women blaming everything on men.. wtf happened to the other 60 genders? >:(
Sounds just like some guy without a mustache would say
You really think that? REALISTICALLY speaking he cheated because he found the other woman more attractive or the situation thrilling instead of his dad and "I love my wife" life. The whole underserving of her love thing can happen, but most of the ppl cheat because they see the person as a better option than their current partner or need some or of thrilling moment.
Damn whomever took time out of their day to find every "my wife" is petty and needs a promotion 😂
Exactly if he was gon slang D dude should’ve been more careful and cautious but it seems like he gave NO fuk’s
*how tf are you going clubbing partying & making out tongue kissing the side chick…In public!??* what part of the game is that!??
Hero of the internet
@@chocolatte522 I remember watching a self improvement video where the guy says that co-workers in the corporate level are a no go for hooking up because if things go down south, you could possibly end up like Ned. No one will give a shit if you hook up with someone at your 9-5 10-17 dollar an hour wage job. But in a place where you have a salary, power dynamics get involved, it's easy to fuck it all up.
It was probably pretty easy
@@yukijames1321 the fact that you know this is bizarre
Gotta love the internet bro. They figure shit out faster than actual detectives sometimes.
Reminds me when 4chan coordinated a Russian airstrike on an ISIS base in Southern Aleppo using Google Maps.
The internet is fucking wild.
@@JollyWanker weaponised autism. Sadly some inmocent people get doxxed easily when a group targets them. Sometimes people find out they're getting fired weeks ahead due to premature tweets or leaks.
@@JollyWanker instead of "nanobots son" from the senator, it should be "weaponized autism son"
@@JollyWanker I'm sorry what?
That's the difference between people who have 20 cases to work and someone who doesn't have a job and autism.
For those who might not understand why their fans are so shocked and appalled (I've been a long time try guys fan), is that ned has always been known as the "wife guy". That's literally his only personality, and that's what people have known him for. He was someone who clearly loves his wife and nearly mentions her in every single video they do. Not only that but this has taken off career wise, and he has gone through uni to conduct lectures about ethics of marriage, he has published books about healthy marriage, has set up social media showing off his wife and family and have gotten brand deals from that, and has also recently published a cook book with his wife. To have all of this come out is so so shocking and obviously left a bitter taste in everyone's mouth. And this is all being talked about in light of the recent celebrities who have been caught cheating on their partners so far in this year. So it's just an extremely sad situation that have resulted in a wife and a mother of two losing her husband who have profited from her, while he was screwing some other chick for years
Not that hard to understand, regardless of whether you're a fan tbh
@@sararistictodorovic2100 I actually didn’t know alllll of that. Like I didn’t realize just how thoroughly he included his wife into his whole work (i.e. the cookbook, the lectures at a uni, all the brand deals) so I really appreciated this comment. Maybe if you did know all of that, just don’t comment anything?? Instead of taking the time to write a snarky comment in response to a helpful one lol
@@sararistictodorovic2100 Yeah but most people don't have that background information
Okay.
Honestly it doesn’t seem like a coincidence. More like an overcompensation of not being faithful to his wife
The more I see the compilation video of Ned saying "My wife" makes me think that he just sees her as a character rather than him seeing her as his actual wife. I've watched Try Guys before and I just took it that he rarely said her name. Just a thought.
True, I was about to make that point.
He’s like a chick 😂
Lol, she comes off as an sjw character.
l was thinking he could be a simp. any man who has to acknowledge his wife so much in a show 'brand and all' he problably don't get that respect cos last time l checked women are annoyed by it, l know it might be a stretch
This is especially telling considering he almost always referred to his wife as "my wife" instead of saying her name (Ariel). On the other hand, the other guys, like Keith for example, usually just said the name of their SO (like Keith would just say "Becky and I ..." or "Me and Becky..." instead of "my wife" "my wife" "my wife").
"Cheated on or punched in the face?"
Neither. Just leave me. Tell me you're done and go. No harm, no foul, no blood.
Bit harder with kids
@@halfxbreed23how you choose to handle your situation is up to you.
@@pgpluss1076 I agree 100% but "just leave" is harder with kids. I think most ppl would if it wasn't for children
@@halfxbreed23 yeah but if you cheat when married might make the non cheating partner(which could be the mom) more likely to have custody. For myself, just leave, I can always figure out how to separate my feelings of being left and still letting my ex be a parent. But with cheating, it makes me question what their thought process is. It’s hard to leave but if you feel like you need to go cheat, it’s better morally to leave, separate and divorce then get your piece than the embarrassment of yourself having to find out your spouse stepped out and kept it secret. It will show that they did not value the relationship, kept a secret and shows the children that it’s okay to step out on commitment if you have desires
@@halfxbreed23 most kids wouldn’t want a mother or father that cheated on one another. Cheating and staying for the kids usually leads to arguments and truama on the kids. Most kids (aka myself) would love for their parents to get a divorce. Especially in this day and age🤦🏻♀️
This is actually a good example to use for an MBA level HR class. Not even kidding. Understanding all of the interlinking parts of a business and how acts like this can tarnish a business.
I'm sure he can have a case against them for unlawful termination
@@TCt83067695 no Ned wouldn’t. If anything the other guys have grounds to sue for lost income due to the damage to the brand overall. Alex the Employee might have a case for unlawful termination if they actually fired her but I would imagine they offered her a generous severance package to resign.
@@ranga1cat severance payment aka hush money is admissible in court too as evidence.
As for Ned, they would have to prove the damages. These past few weeks have seen an increased awareness of their brand. Those videos are their most watched. They're even getting replays on some of their old videos. They're getting spoofed on snl broadcast to millions. The works.
Basically, they have marketed this split in a way that maximizes value for their brand rather than damage it. Their brand valuation has increased esp since as a company, they no longer have to split things 4 ways.
He just needs a good lawyer. My guy can sue them into oblivion. The money may then help him forget his betray of his wife and kids.
@@ranga1cat That is not at all how that works, you can't sue your business partner for bad publicity. The only way you can sue someone for brand damage is slander or libel.
Ned fumbled the bag for all of them. They just got a TV show with the food network this year, and right after the news broke out, I read they moved their time slot from Wednesday nights to Friday mornings, now they will probably not get a second season.
He was trying to switch his brand. If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. He would not be canceled now. But homie dipped his dick too early. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏
Bruh, their show is dead in the water. These networks know how to kill a show.
I know!!
Eugene looks like he came to slay… and I mean actually kill Ned.
Talk about letting down the team................
Eugene is pissed, Zach is sad, Keith is confused and still trying to process it, and Ned is finished
Yea he is j**ish he cares about the Benjamins
Only reason I liked this comment was cuz it was 666 and I don’t fuck with that shit…
@@TheHussein123 i appreciate you and the good vibes
@@TheHussein123 What are you talking about? 666 is a wonderful number!
@@anaalina5964 number of the beast homie
dang Eugene didn't even try to hide he pissed. Ned really almost spoiled the bag for the hole team. 😭😭😭
Almost lmao he did.
Who’s the hole team?
@@brensherlock well it's more than one hole
lady got fired also?
He was livid!
"I appreciate yall watching. We not homies, we not friends" This is what the majority of fans need to understand😂 Just because you enjoy someones content doesnt mean you have a connection to that person.
I don't know what's more shocking that he cheated or that the try guys are still around.
Same.
😂😂😂
Seriously never heard of these guys till this video here.
@@optimalscore they were basically carrying BuzzFeed on their backs for a long time
As well as Shane and Ryan
But they lost their way when they started their own company
Yall just live under a rock lol
I didn’t know anyone cared about the try guys anymore until this came up
His kids are going to know exactly what happened, who their dad cheated on their mom with, where their dad cheated, and when it all happened. They will probably never know why it happened, and might even blame themselves.
that's the sad part
The craziest part of this story that my sister told me yesterday is that they paid for her wedding dress in a video all to find out she was cheating with Ned the whole time.
Wow.
Whose wedding dress?? Ariels or the lover's?
@@helloworld7818 They paid for the lover, Alex's wedding dress. They had a few women getting married in their office and Alex's wedding was first so they did Try Guys try wedding and bridesmaid dresses and paid for her stuff in those episodes. To find out you spent company funds on a wedding that isnt happening because the owner is having an affair with the bride is wild.
I’m SOOOOO glad you guys put the “my wife” clips in there! Me and my sis would joke about him constantly saying that, we thought it was just us😂
Bc everyone in the try guys acted like Ned's weird fissad was normal. Fuck em
That young girl is going to come up with excuses as he brainwashed her and he was her supervisor, bla bla bla... If the dude's wife decides to divorce him then it's gonna be a huge financial hit for him for sure! These hypocrites are always trying to portray themselves as superior to other people. "My wife, my wife, my wife" and this is the outcome! Well played!
i will never understand those types..like if i were to do the whole cheating thing why NOT cheat and keep it under wraps.. Like why are you taking the side chick out to lunches and public venues.. making out at clubs wtf
@@jayclearmen411 good point… and not for the sake of the wife, but for his own sake! Now, he messed up his bag AND the wife could very well take him for all he’s worth in a divorce! 🤦🏾♂️
Either he shoulda had an agreement w/ the wife OR kept that ish discreet af!
@@yukijames1321 People will still jump down this mans throat as if he did manipulate her though, thats just how gullible society is when it comes to women.
We all make our own beds don't we ?
Yeah she threw away a 10-year long relationship for him too lol
“If Leonardo cheats on his wife she turned 25 it’s what she deserves” 😂
How dare she turn 25
I know Aba was being facetious and sarcastic, but that sounded like some red pill shit
@@bilalc4415 yeah i think thas what they’re mocking at 😭
I swear this guy used to say "my wife" all the time to convince us he was straight. We didn't believe it so he cheated to prove it lol
He sure showed us😅🤣🤡
You may be onto something lol
Bro for the longest time I thought at least 3 of the 4 were gay. When they first started mentioning their SOs in videos I was surprised.
@@albericponcedeleon2696 One of them is gay I think
@@jayqwuan Eugene is (asian guy who looked pissed in the video).
The Try Guys are a good example of guys who don't brush off behavior that is contrary to their values. We ask men to stand up to their friends when their friends lie and cheat, and here we see men doing just that. I hope more people will do this and not ignore bad behavior because acknowledging it and taking action may cost them.
Nah I will have my friend's back if I catch him cheating
We ask women to understand that women don't get to ask anything of "men" , not when men can't say anything about women without it being a feminist issue. Pretty sure y'all cheat more and are encouraged to cheat and have it hidden by your friends more than we do.
What about the woman who cheated. She was engaged. Where is her accountability???
Meh. It’s cause they have a brand and bag to protect. Guarantee if this was found out internally(I.e no fan detectives on Reddit blasting their comments) it would be handled a lot softer.
@@gedoplanet Right, but she's also an employee. She can very easily state that Ned took advantage of his position as her boss in this situation. Also, Ned is the public figure here
What I consider extra salt in the wound is that Ned either didn’t care or didn’t take into account just what it means for all this to happen in the public eye with someone of his reputation. I don’t care if people choose to work it out after infidelity, but now we’ll have the entirety of the internet down his poor wife’s throat judging her or just forever looking at her with pity for staying with an unfaithful man. Working it out is *vastly harder* in my mind. The wife doesn’t deserve that.
Emotion and Logic don't work together... It takes a really strong man to look over his Horniness
Sounds like the fans are nosy bitches lol
@@davidadegbe8494 that's an excuse. Women have a lot more choices and that means the faithful ones pick their partners over all those choices every day. The least a man could do is the same.
@@UltraGalacticSuperFantastic lmao, there’s no faithful woman… look up the stats. It’s crazy out here
@@zorgon410 the stats are crazy for the same type of people, it's not a gender based thing. Some people are fucked in the head, we're all responsible for not being simps for them
He never cheated on his wife before, so maybe he just wanted to try it.
I see what you did there lol
He kept striking out( He was trying to cheat while on the road). That's why he decided to sh*t where he eats.
hot younger than his wife asian ting
How about try this. If your BRAND is "I love ❤️ my HOes" and you cheat on them with your wife. You don't gotta go. You can stay. Your were honest. Branding is EVERYTHING! 👏
You know, for a Buzzfeed video
My fiancée cheated on me like five years ago with a mutual friend of ours that was her co-worker. Man, that was hard for me. Especially because my brother was going through chemo therapy, at the time. My brother ended up dying. The aftermath of my fiancée cheating was also hard for her because she ended up with no one, after I broke up with her. I told her, to her face, "You're a bad person." She was kneeling on the ground; hugging my leg, crying to me like a child; and begging for me to stay. Honestly, I felt ashamed being with her. Ashamed that I chose her as my girlfriend. Like I wanted nothing to do with her. Zero association. I was very close to her family and I'm pretty sure that her entire family and close friend group all knows what happened, at this point. Even though, I was very selective of who I'd tell. And the wedding? Obviously, cancelled before it got started. All we've built in the 6 or so years of dating thrown to the trash. And now, we're both in our late twenties trying to navigate the world without a partner. LESSON: DON'T CHEAT! IT'S NEVER WORTH IT!
late 20's without a partner? trust me...it's not the end of the world..
@@masterchief9291 oh yeah, i know. i realize that now more than ever.
Went through something similar.
Was with a chick for a bit and one of her family members tried offing themself. Recommended ALL of them get therapy because even when people survive, the damage ripples outward for years. The only one that didn't take my input seriously; the girl I was with. So, even as I was taking my own advice, I withdrew from her and cared less and less and less as she did more reckless things while becoming angry and resentful towards me.
Even becoming "hurt' by my not wanting to be intimate when she hadn't bathed for over a week but always seemed to have energy when "going out with the girls". Yeah... I suspected.
Eventually she told me she was interested in another guy as though I should be shocked and was confused when I helped her move out to pursue the "love of her life".
Hopefully she has learned and won't make the same mistakes but upon relfection and consideration of what I know about her through her family, her, and some of her friends... there is a pattern.
100% don't cheat. Even if no one finds out, you hurt yourself. And when others do find out, you hurt them too.
I'm sorry that happened to you...being cheated on is traumatic, I don't think people really understand how much until you've been through it. I wouldn't wish that feeling on anyone 😢. You did the right thing, leaving. Once the trust is gone, it's over anyway. I hope you're doing better now ❤️
Very good. She would have destroyed you.
Eugene is pissed! He's not there for all that nonsense. You can just see the anger in his face.
To all the guys who are in a long term relationship, i would take this as a lesson that no matter how faithful you have been, temptations are always waiting. Stay strong.
Appreciate, uce!!
Truew
Nuff respect to the ones who got their priorities str8 and keep their heads on...
True. Also, if you don't have any religious views against it, try a threesome with your man.
Cheating rarely comes out of the blue. Men don't just go "I love my wife, my balls are empty, life is good." & Then see a random broad & try to shag her. There's more behind it & tbh a lot of cheating could be prevented if there was more open dialogue about it. Sadly, so many women have been fed the lie of "you're the only one for me" Etc, that most men would never bring up when they feel like cheating & why.
I mean it’s not really temptation is it? Because it seems cheaters of all identities always choose the most mid/mediocre looking people. This is no exception, look at the two of them. “Beauty is subjective, she could be kinda bad, them Asian chicks-“ I’m not playing that game, they’re both mid/medium ugly at best. The “tempting” part _was_ the cheating, that was the point. I don’t feel like it’s temptation at that point, idk.
Imagine if we held politicians to this standard 🐸🍵
Imagine
No more government.
Yeah, I love this kind of Sci-Fi.
We can’t - all the politicians are hoes to various extent
Exactly! Why do we let these idiots go without a slap on the wrist.
Fellas, if you value your job, STOP SHITTING WHERE YOU EAT. It’s very simple
Yup! Sometimes you just want to walk away or fight the urge. Seen this happen to way too many co-workers at Walmart and the awkward engagements after they break up, but still have to together.
🎯💯
You mean stop fvcking where you eat. Don't need no ass crumbs on the dinner table 😆
Why dont they ever fire the woman? I get it datting in the office leads to drama in the office so it cant happen but when it dose only the guy gets shamed and fired? He didnt rape her she was a willing partner in the crime why dose she get the victim status? If him cheating on his wife is a bad look for the company why isnt her cheating on her dude a bad look?
Facts!
As a domestic abuse survivor I'd rather be cheated on the punched in the face. And if you picked punched you've obviously never been punched in the face full force by a man. That shit hurts! Concussions, broken nose, cracked orbital bones, lost teeth, etc are all very possible when being hit in the face. Naw you'd rather be cheated on.
Each to there own some people would rather go through physical pain then emotional pain
Pick an actual decent man
@@sruthi2708 you think being punched in the face doesn’t come with emotional damage too did you use your small brain before you mad this comment man clealy not please use it next time I know it might hurt to but for your sake please do
You also have a smaller face, cause biology...
@@jiggatoni4082 Idk personally for me, if someone I thought loved me punched me in the head, that relationship gets no more of my emotional energy, I'm going cold instantly. I'm not even mad anymore at that point just level headed and focussing on how to escape/finish the situation. If they swing at me it's obvious they were never really down for me like that anyway so how can I invest any more emotional energy into it? It's a complete waste of time.
Maybe down the track I'd reflect and be a bit confused/conflicted in my mind but once violence is involved I can no-longer rely on emotions to get me anywhere, and so they don't get a place in my mind. It's all survival and escape mode at that point. I'm acutely aware that not everyone thinks this way, but that's just how it is for me. Logic prevails over emotions 99/100 times.
I've heard a story of a band of special forces who found out all their wives were having affairs while they were deployed and they were bragging about it to each other. One of them who told the story said that he would've rather been shot. The difference between physical pain and emotional pain is that one is brief but the other can last for a long time and can even deteriorate your health.
Well, at least he tried..
HAHA. I see u
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Nice
*golf clap* 😊
Damn son.
I feel so awful for ariel, her kids, and the womans fiance. Its awesome how the try guys r handling this. I hope other companies will take note. The fact that u can see the disappointment on their faces feels so refreshing cause most celebrities or business ppl dont actually care
She stayed with him so she's an idiot. She is now choosing to raise her children in a home where she is a disrespected doormat. She is a clown
Funny part is, I just read a article with him saying cheating is a deal breaker in a marriage.
What got me fucked up was they didn’t just fire Ned, they got rid of him from merch, from old videos, deleted new videos like they basically erased Ned from the try guys
Good! FCK CHEATERS
It cause they are women that are barely registered as male.
Stalin time.
The merch I get. The video stuff is crazy overkill if that's true.
@@5050TM It could be a sponsorship issue? I could see some brands not wanting their content mixed up with a cheater.
Being cheated on can scar you for life. That's the thing. That shit can hurt, especially when you deeply love and trust someone. For many people, the shot to the face would hurt less.
Im sure it would hurt less. Considering youd only feel it for half a second.
Now add to that the fact that you spent a considerable amount of your life with someone who didn’t love you. Someone you have kids with. Someone who you will be stuck dealing with a long time. I hope his wife becomes his ex-wife and recovers and lives a happy and healthy rest of her life with her children.
Nigga shut that lame shit up
Gone through it twice with two different women. No explanation either time. Worst thing is trying to find an answer as to why when the only reason is that they're heartless monsters
It's robbing your spouse of living in reality. They think everything is great, they are making life together, doing good together, bu secretly, it's lies all along
You are so right - have seen so many content creators refer to their audience as 'family'. It has always been so creepy to me (though I understand it 'sells' better from a marketing perspective), especially because so many of them are teenagers who are learning about boundaries from these people. Then when a break-up happens, they feel personally involved - you can't really expect otherwise!
Ned played the sweet, innocent guy role who had so much love for his wife really well. He pulled it off so good and a lot of us fell for it and thought it was adorable. It’s really disappointing to find out it was all just him overcompensating for the fact that he actually was a nasty, habitual cheater behind the scenes. 🤦🏻♀️
dnt knw these guys. did lady get fired too?
Or... He just fell in love with someone else? That's not a crime. Y'all act like adultery is worse than homicide. People grow and change and want something else. It's not that big a deal.
Yup not surprising a lot of internet personalities/ celebrities play a role that they think will make them more palatable/relatable/marketable that's just kinda how the entertainment world works that's why I don't take these celebs all that seriously I just enjoy what it is they do and leave it at that
@@brynnwalk4390 I agree to a certain extent now if you give your word to a girl that your gonna be faithful then imo you have to honor that but all this hysteria and a damn apology video? Just cause 2 consenting adults decided to step out on their significant other? Idk it feels like a bit much
Did he though? lol
The Fiancé of the girl is wild.. bro knew they hooked up and didn't say shit to the wife. Him making the decision to stay with her was dumb but even worse was him making the decision to stay quite.
Probably actually enjoys the cuck experience. Not even an insult. There are people who like it which is odd, but true.
He's probably making her pay for it, public forgiveness, private persecution. Wouldn't be surprised if they're engaged for years.
They were dating for 10yrs before they got engaged a year ago. Ngl he’s giving me simp vibes.
wait... he knew !!!
Could Not be me. If lord forbid i find out my girl, wasn’t really my girl i’m Out. I’d ghost her.. I wouldn’t even let on that I’d know just plan & move accordingly. Wouldn’t respond to none of her voice calls or read None of her text messages. I’d just be gone one day. She reach out to my ppl We are NOTHING to each other.
This is what Skippy would turn into if he ever got married...
My wife...my wife...my wife
He'd turn into a Try Guy?
Shout out to Chance the Rapper
Oh gawd! I had forgotten about him
Bruh that's not cool. I cringe at the thought of Skippy lmao
i sell my wife for internet connection
As a woman who is healthy, sturdy, and average height... I would rather be cheated on than seriously attacked any day of the week. Chances I leave a cheater are very high. But at least that man isn't going to look me in the eye and make a concerted attempt to smash my face/skull/brain. Damn, just break my heart, not my body. I don't want to be heartbroken and in fear for my life at the same time, wtf.
Why did you use the word sturdy? 💀💀
Exactly!!!
This is why content creators shouldn't monetize their personal lives or if they do, at least be prepared for scandals and consequences when some shit goes down.
Hell nah, that parasocial relationship content makes so much money baybeee
Idk I've been watching a lot of Destiny, and his personal drama is so fun to watch
Naw, they wont it makes too much money and even though aba called out their hypocrisy, nothing will change.
That's literally 70% of all creators lmao
from the relatable niche to finance creators and daily vloggers.
Silly statement to make
See whether he did or not shit would still hit the fan because he cheated with an employee
I agree 100% I hate when public figures have the audacity to want privacy when they get exposed. We in season 3 espisode 2 of your life you don’t get to just cut it off now 🤣🤣🤣
I think the thing you’re looking for with the whole brand thing is Will Smith slapping Chris Rock, Will’s whole brand is being positive, so the moments he slipped had a big wave.
as someone who was recently cheated on by her boyfriend of 5 years who also boxes, i would much rather him have just socked me in the face lmao.
And the girl was in a relationship for 10 years and getting engaged, she even make a video trying WEDDING dresses....
damn send the source my guy
She’s 24 so was was with him when she was 14?
@@destaneyvito5936
People say she's 30. At what age do Americans tend to graduate high school? Because she graduated in 2009 (says so on her linked in). Either way, she's probably closer to 30 than 24.
@@destaneyvito5936 yes. 24 minus 10 is 14.
@@proudtobeme1ashkente the average highschool graduate age is 17 could be 18 depending on what year you first started schooling.
Why fire him when you can just spin it into a juicy episode? "The Try Guys Try Cheating on their Wives"
If it was just cheating, I'm sure they had not much legal grounds to cast him out. But he was a founder/boss/HR manager of the company, she a subordinate . It was definitely a legal matter.
Sounds Kardashianish 🤔
Next episode try guy ned tried to cheat on his wife 😆
You’re wild😂
It'd be too supportive of toxic masculinity and anti feminist for their woke audience
Preach is 100 percent right. They knew about this for a year and did nothing until it blew up and went public. What happened to the girl he was cheating with? She's an employee too, was she fired?
I highlighted doubt they knew for a year. I think they just recently knew. And no they can’t really fire her because that could bring in a whole host of lawsuits. As much as I would love to see her get fired
@@sruthi2708 they did fire her. or i think they have both "been suspended immediately". see @14:59 its alex, i think alexandria of the food babies. not sure tho.
@@sruthi2708 can’t be no lawsuit if they more than likely violated workplace guidelines by having an affair 🤷🏽♀️
I'm sure they knew or had a gut feeling that they never acted on. Employee's have mentioned noticing something was off, so I don't think it escaped his closest friends and co-workers the actual Try Guys. They would have preferred to sweep this under the rug and keep the brand.
Not everyone is that interested in other people's affairs. Sometimes if you don't know for certain you don't ask. Hence why they probably didn't know for sure, they may have suspected but like I said most people keep their nose out of other peoples business especially at work.
I laughed so hard, a hearty, I love being alive laugh at your interactions from 1:30+ minutes into the video. Your chemistry as a team is the best I've ever seen.
That's why Will Smith had such a downfall from the slap. His brand was "the good guy"
Nobody would've been given two fucks if Ezra Miller did that
@@familyguysofunny1933 i wonder if ezra ever built a brand though
That’s the opposite of what happened here…
Aba ripping into Ned feels good because it's basically what Eugene wanted to say at the minimum, you could see Eugene was pissed and had to HR himself not to say anything personal about Ned. Ned is actually just dumb not just for the cheating but how openly he did it. Especially in California where basically most of the state that uses RUclips would recognize him either from Buzzfeed or from the Try Guys, he literally a local celebrity at the minimum, he really probably thought no one would recognize him. Good to know he's not the big brains of anything.
Thats just how Eugene always looks. Hes permanently got the angry face and usually attitude. And to be fair, if I was forced to work with the rest of them, Id be like that too...
Does Alex deserve no blame?
When I see Aba in public I cuss him out just to assure everyone that we're in fact, not friends or homies
Ahahaha
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From a financial and reputation standpoint, I completely understand why they’re pissed. Especially with their Food Network show being moved to a dead time slot.
And not only that, reputation wise, this just makes their company look messy and networks probably don’t want to be associated with influencers that have drama like this. lol
I’m a boxer and I’ve been cheated on. Can confirm being punched is worse. I don’t even remember the girls name who cheated on me. Yet I for sure remember the first person who yeeted me in the face. 😭😭😭
Still ruminating on how you would have won that fight eh.
@@AlIskanderZhao simple answer I didn’t. Long answer I was bullied as a child by two people 2 grades above me 😭
@@518trey1 I hope he got what was coming to him
@@AlIskanderZhao I remember like it was yesterday. I accidentally snitched and they got in serious trouble. They would lock me in closets, throw food on my uniform, punch me, kick me, slam me etc. One day my mother asked me why my cloths were so dirty and was about to ring my neck and I think I just got tired of being blamed so I told her the truth. They had to go to this after school counciling shit. I still feel bad because I have/had a strong feeling whatever was going on at home for them was much worse for them then it was for me. You could smell the desperation of trying to be cool or popular or some bs so I let it slide. I did fight back got beat every time but I did fight back. Mama ain’t raise no B’.
Wouldn't you say it matters for how long you've been together and how much you've built together? How long were you together with the girl whose name you can't remember?
anyone who's whole brand is "I love my wife SOOOO much and I only care about her" is about as believable as "I'm a good person, yo. I've never killed anyone. No need to check. Don't have to look into that. I've never murdered so we can all stop talking about it". You're SUPPOSED to love your wife. What, you want a cookie?
yea i think he was just trying to convince himself
I said this when it first came out. The people they work with absolutely knew. Now they have to watch out for themselves and pretend they "had no idea".
You would be amazed at how many people cheat that are married. I know of one lady who thinks she's in this wonderful committed relationship and he cheats on her EVERY chance he gets. It's sad.
This reminds me so much of Robin Thicke when he was exposed for cheating on his wife. If he were someone else it might not have mattered, but his entire brand was built upon the mantra “I’m so in love with my wife”. Even his attempt at a comeback was more of the same old, at the same speed, in the same gear. And not only weren’t the public having it, his now ex-wife, who was the absolute center of the project and highlighted in the videos, clearly wasn’t having it either.
The fact that this has been going on for nearly a year (that we know of) speaks volumes. And then she accepts a proposal from her long-term relationship all the while sleeping with her coworker AND planning a wedding at that, like WTF? 😐 Her fiancée is even crazier for going to her lover asking him to stop - if I read that correctly 😵💫 Why even get married?? As The World Turns...
she isnt sleeping with her coworker, she is sleeping with her boss, adds another layer to this situation
I mean he probably didn't want to throw away so Many years of Hard work in the relationship...if you were a Guy you'd Understand..
When you loved somebody for that long, it’s easy to forgive them as long as it doesn’t happen again. I can’t imagine how he feels knowing he wasted 10 years of his love life for someone who cheated on him, even after given a second chance. I hope he got that proposal ring back, at the very least.
*if you were a simp, you’d understand…there…I fixed it for you 😉 👍!
@@pdors94 I totally get it, but self respect should be just as important. She clearly does not respect him, so why hold on? 🤷 People only do what you allow. This is just sad 😔
The “my wife” edits…..props. The work it takes to find and edit that together…..respect 😂😂
I think that Ned guy WANTED his wife to find out. Probably thinks the grass is greener
"Watch as this week the Try guys try ruining their reputation"
Haha
@@thatdude123 bruh that PFP! I love interface
@@Memetic-Info-Hazard-Handler thanks man
Saying “get a room” is now a safety tip instead of an insult
Cheating has become so common that when my husband and I go out without the other person, people ALWAYS ask us, "Your spouse doesn't mind?"
It's sad.
I think with privacy and private space it’s like with consent. It’s a basic right and even after giving it, you are always allowed to reclaim it. Even with best friends, when you ask them for space, they give you space. The public has no rights on another person’s privacy.
This explains it a lot better, I watched the video and read two articles thinking “So what? He’s dating an employee?” Now that I know he was cheating on his wife, it makes a lot more sense.
With an employee who was engaged to another employee
It's also pretty messed up that he was hooking up with his employee, with the whole power dynamic given that he's the owner.
@@JangoBango18 Not really, women are obsessed with money and status.
@@MA-yc7pz The employee's fiance wasn't working for them.
Every time it was spoken about they mention he's married so...
I'm pretty sure the Try Guys were already in the process of cutting Ned out before everything went public because fans had started to notice that in much of their videos, they had started to purposely edit Ned out of frame (which leads me to think, they were trying to handle the situation in a more professional manner and then Ned just f**cked it up by going out in public with to air out his dirty laundry). It shows how little he cared about his Try Guy coworkers/ friends. Its almost like he went out in public on purpose to make the Try Guys brand look bad/messy, instead of letting them peacefully cut ties with him in a more professional way.
Yeah in their podcast they explained that they found out over labour day weekend and immediately starting trying to figure out how go get rid of him; most likely because this is a huge problem for their brand and is a huge liability. Especially because of Alex turns around and says that due to the power dynamic on Ned being her employer, she felt like she had to sleep with him, she could sue the company. They already said that the were informed by fans because fans have been privately trying to contact Ariel and Alex's fiance since May about people seeing them cheating IN PUBLIC but the partners didnt respond. And then over labour day weekend is when the found out from DM's and also them finding the reddit thread about it. They even lost their Food Network slot because of this. I dont agree with the rumours that they knew for a whole and were sweeping in under the rug. The guys' reactions and emotion just seem too fresh and genuinely betrayed for them to have known for a whole and lying. I wouldn't be surprised if employees had an inkling since they are around Alex more so they probably saw things but the other try guy's run multiple projects and also, when you are close to someone you dont realise the little things that give things like this away that an outsider would notice straightway because you dont have the privilege of hindsight since you have emotions invested in the person and so you're less likely to register strange behaviour between Ned and Alex as sus. I would say that they probably head things or atleast thought that Ned and Alex's dynamic was weird at times but there couldn't prove it and also they all have families so, I don't think they had the time to sit around evaluating those things to properly realise that there was an affair going on. Also, my guess is the partners of Ned and Alex didnt respond to fan DMs becaus they either try to fix it on their own or didnt want to believe it. Which is understandable since both couples had years long relationships so it's not an easy realisation to make
@@ashh6297 damn that sucks about food network
Any in office relationship, both should be fired cause they both did it. Let social media drag em through the mud
legal issues with her, that's the difference.
As stupid as it is, she could sue for wrongful termination because she’s a subordinate. That said, she should leave. She’s only going to drag the company down since they are based on public reaction.
@@InTheNameOfLife1 I'm sure they have a non-fraternising clause in every contract, if not they're morons. Just peg her on breach of contract
Their woke audience would also cancel them for firing her since he's the one who was in a position of power.
lol Nah that would never happen that be fair…
4:18 😯😬OH IT'S EVEN MESSIER!
Survivor here of 16 years of full force punches from my father. 4 years old i had one of those full force punches laced with keys to the skull which severed an artery and almost killed me, my father had a nurse friend stitch my head back shut lets say that much. I've had broken bones, black eyes, teeth knocked out etc. I honestly would rather be cheated on than this. My mom who was the victim of both abuse and cheating by my father as often he locked us in the basement when he had his mistresses over she rather he cheat than hit her as well. Lots of people argue why not leave, 1. every time i called police, reported it to schools, etc mom lied and covered for my dad always. 2. My dad had guns and he often threatened to kill us, it scary to have someone shoot at you threatening to kill you so I think my mom was too scared to go. 3. My mom wa the bread winner and because of that she didn't want to pay him alimony for the divorce, yes my mom risked her life and mine because she was greedy. Not everyone is a goodparent, my mom is a shitty parent there were times where she threw me under the bus just to direct my dad's violence onto me not her. So yeah finally just said fuck it homelessness is better than this and left home at 16.
So if you ask me which would I choose, I'd say I'd rather he cheat, I can just leave those scars do heal over time. However for me PTSD doesn't let me heal, im in therapy for life for this crap because I can never forget, nor can I forgive. So it's not worth being plowed like that knowing you'll face death, your mind never lets you forget that shit.
Thank you for sharing your story. My SO went through very similar PA abuse. He went through hell…he was drowned by his father…he survived , but is very much notionally scarred by that. I survived SA. We are trying by to help each other… thanks for sharing your story. I wouldn’t want to be hit.
Hire a cartel gang. They’ll make sure he understands the consequences of his actions.
jesus christ
I agree with Preach. The other guys probably figured something was up, but to protect their brand they went out of their way to apologize and condemn the behavior
Very similar to the Ime Udoka scandal: when the details first come out, it just seems like a guy having a workplace affair but then you come to find out it was infidelity. It's even worse with Ned considering the fact his brand centers around being loving and faithful to his wife. People were just mad at Ime for cheating on Nia Long, one of the finest women to ever live.
There’s still more to the Ime story since the people who were defending him backtracked hard when they got the full story
There must be more to the Ime situation. The people who supported him are now saying they will surprised if he gets his position back.
What's the difference between "and affair" and "infidelity"? I'm used to them being basically synonyms.
@@robinthrush9672 Bro don't even dive into it. Remember, we live in a world filled with Entanglements now
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Lol
Live by the “my wife” ……. Die by the “my wife” 🤣🤣🤣
18:58 and the cheating individual will deliver the classic: "It meant nothing" / "It was the first time..." straight outta the cheater's handbook
I have a hard time believing no one in the situation knew he was cheating this whole time. I feel like this pr is just in reaction to their fans freaking out
Men think they are in a fraternity. They are willing to look the other way for their bro.
Im glad their company stands for trying new things. Even their employees are open to being adventurous.
pain is temporary. getting cheated on is forever
Nonsense
Bruh just how weak are some of you
It's so different when everybody knows what happened. It's so much harder to swallow your pride and work things out with all those eyes on you.
My husband cheated on me and the relationship he had with the other woman hand down hurt more than the fact that he slept with her. The way saw it was his body is his to do with as he wishes but the betrayal of our friendship and common purpose cut pretty deep
Once he said "break your jaw" I said he can cheat. There's no way I would choose bodily injury over cheating. Sometimes I wonder about my fellow women.
As a big guy I feel like I'd rather get punched, been punched enough I can usually take a few. I value my fidelity with my fiancee, if im being force to cheat or get clocked across the face I'd rather take the punch the alternative pisses me off too much.
Why does it have to be one or the other? Both are toxic af
@@MadMax-dp2bb exactly its a lose lose but a punch to the face wouldnt fill me with regret for years and stain our relationship and the sanctity of our exclusive romance.
When the media keep telling them that words are violence, how can you be surprised that they think cheating hurt more than being K.O.ed?
It's a lot easier to fix a broken jaw than a broken heart
Dude gets fired for having "sexual relations" with a co-worker!? I remember, from back in the day, there was this Dude that "claimed" he didn't have "sexual relations" with that woman, he did. He didn't get fired! This must be some New Gen shit!
Nah, he just got formally impeached by the House not the Senate.
All of these cheating scandals makes me not want to ever get married let alone be in a relationship. YIKES 😬
Seems like a lot of people feel the same way including me. Almost all my hope for it is gone
@@animationlover2944 🥺🥺🥺
@@animationlover2944 same.
A part of loving someone is the risk involved with potential infidelity or break up. You can't control another person unfortunately but thats kinda what makes the bond truly valuable or theres no difference from them just being a slave (assuming you found the right person, who actually has the respect to be upfront or not cheat at all).
@@cliffordadam100 the thing about that is that cheating and scummy relationships are becoming more and more the norm. The philosophy of the risk being worth it would work....if it was the most prominent example out there. But everywhere you go, everywhere you see It's stuff like this. It's just not worth it anymore.
One small correction: the employee and Ned do not have a big age difference. It's at most 3-4 years, they're both in their thirties.
He seemed like he pushed he loved his wife so much it was a cover like we was trying to convince himself
I will never wrap my head around the idea of people staying with their significant-other after finding out that they cheated on them.
@Bla Bla Except that the entire legal system for divorce is in the woman's favor, even if they're in the wrong, and that there's been countless situations where those types of things have been sorted-out between people getting divorced or splitting-up.
There's just no going back to the same level of trust you have in a person after you know they cheated on you. Not only will the relationship never be the same, the person getting cheated on will never be the same either.
@@ThatFalloutGod its simple maths. Men earn more, more is taken. In cases where women earn more, the men get paid. There are many women paying alimony. If your wife is a stay at home mom, then you’re even more screwed because its immoral to think you can just kick her out with nothing after she does everything unpaid in the house which you both would have had to pay for if she worked. Prime example: childcare, which if you live in the US is extremely expensive. Its not free if your wife does it- when she divorces you, she’ll have to be compensated for the loss in career, etc.
@@Jojo-pv3uf That would have to disregard cultural shifts over the decades being anti-man and masculinity, but even without that, everything you said wouldn't be justified.
>The amount of cases where the woman is paying alimony are extremely rare, hence why some people make a big deal about it whenever it does happen.
>The entire system of alimony is a shitshow to begin with, because the father shouldn't be paying the mother of his children money while his kids stay with the mother the entire time, as well as vice versa. Trying to make it a transaction instead of something the parents have to work-out is obviously part of the problem.
>A woman divorcing her husband isn't always justified on her end, nor should she expect something in return from the (former) husband. If one spouse stays home while the other works, and then they get divorced, the former isn't inherently entitled to anything merely because they stayed home.
>If a couple gets divorced due to one cheating, then the innocent one should rake the other over the coals.
@@ThatFalloutGod Even then, the emotional feeling is still there. The feelings are all just wonky, believe it or not having to move out the same house as your SO and financially plunder him isn’t something most people who actually love their partners, and want to stay with him want.
Love the point about the "privacy" thing, you really do forfeit your right to "be anonymous" (like the rest of us) when you monetize your family life and your personality as a brand. You can't take advantage of "celebrity" when you want and then disavow it when it doesn't suit you. The world doesn't work like that.
That’s why I don’t buy into celebrities being “family friendly” bruh you’re human which means your going to do dumb ish 🤷🏾♂️
Facts
7:10 if your brand is about being vegetarian and animal sanctuaries but you having barbecues every weekend hit 17 different kinds of protein and 15 exotic meats, camel , lion, cheetah,elephant, etc
I feel bad for them honestly. They most likely lost so much money from not only having to lose content where Ned is in it too much but now they have to do extra editing they just got a show on the Food Network it’s insane really gave up his entire life for one girl
8:24 YES. I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY RUclipsR WHO THOUGHT THIS.
Who you are in real life IS your brand and product.
If I, in my private life contradict the values I put out in my public life, it doesn't matter if I only contradicted it in private. People in part like content creators because they like them AS a person. Their investment in you is reliant on you being a good person, if you contradict that, it is equivalent to buying into a product that faked how good it was.
If you don't think so, tell your audience upfront that you have and will cheat, see how that goes for building an audience.
Lol, Andrew Tate says your comment about building an audience is bs.
@@Gen7486 Haha, okay Fair... although that's a very specific brand that's built around that and appeals to a very specific section of people.
If try guys opened up with "Just letting you know, I do and will cheat on my wife" That shit wouldn't work for mainstream audiences
tbf I don't really care what aba and preach get upto in their day to day, or any other youtuber. As long as they aren't committing crimes why does it matter to people what people you watch on a screen do when they are off screen