Your Mind Will Stop Controlling You When You Realize This Simple Fact

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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

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  • @ronnie4863
    @ronnie4863 2 года назад +52

    I say this very very sincerely. DO NOT STOP watching Sunny’s videos. You might think now I got it; now I understand. Challenge that thought. This video hit me like a ton of brings in a good way. He’s amazing in facilitating our journey. Blessings in these turbulent and growing times.

    • @louthefou4052
      @louthefou4052 2 года назад +1

      💯 me 😂

    • @miket1591
      @miket1591 2 года назад

      How to challange that thought/deep.believe?

    • @miket1591
      @miket1591 2 года назад

      Yea haha. Same here. Today after this video i think: yes now i have it😄😄. Sunny recommend meditate everyday thats what i am doing now

    • @giru7183
      @giru7183 2 года назад

      You cant get anything, enlightenment is not something you can achieve!

    • @ronnie4863
      @ronnie4863 2 года назад

      @@giru7183 may I ask why do you think the conversation is about enlightenment

  • @AshishPatel-yq4xc
    @AshishPatel-yq4xc 2 года назад +36

    This video has solved an issue for me that I've had for years !!! to the point that I tried to suppress thoughts ( yes, I know , can't be done) as so many keep coming and it's an endless stream. To "know" that it's not me creating them, I have no choice on the content, etc is liberating! - thank you very much, Sunny. Let the thoughts come and go. I'm more at peace now , with them.

  • @shaunaashley5520
    @shaunaashley5520 2 года назад +6

    when you said "the thought is the thinker" something just clicked. wow, thank you :)

  • @arthurlockwood8735
    @arthurlockwood8735 11 месяцев назад +1

    The most important thing. Is he is saving. Peoples lives bhe as helped mentally big thanks 🙏🇬🇧❤️

  • @sevi4492
    @sevi4492 Год назад +2

    "All that I take myself to be, is being witnessed! I the witness Am what??
    Notice that the witness is never appearing!! Can you be that which you see to come & go!!!" Sunny your explanation is crystal clear!!! 🙏
    I love your channel 💖

  • @WigWamSam7
    @WigWamSam7 Год назад +3

    Throughout the day, in normal day to day life and interactions, as you mentioned, we allow ourselves to function as the ‘I’ (the fake self). This appears to be where we struggle because, if we allow this, for such long periods of the day, it’s no wonder why it becomes more dominant than the ‘real self’.
    When I interact with people I try to pause slightly and imagine I’m speaking from the heart area of my chest. This allows me to be a little more considered in my communication and responses with others as opposed to answering spontaneously to questions in general without a filter.
    Hard to do though due to us giving so much free ride to the ego in day to day life.
    Meditation twice a day is certainly a start to become more aware of our true self but to be able to operate on this level 24/7 (in the busyness of ‘life’) is what we all strive to achieve but very difficult.

  • @TheDivineShiver
    @TheDivineShiver 2 года назад +5

    Once a person stops entertaining these endless thoughts and emotions that arise out of nothing, eternal silence is all that remains.

  • @jennabutler8847
    @jennabutler8847 Год назад +3

    You were never born .... you never die... what was born was the ego (persona) what was Born was the body

  • @ketwals2723
    @ketwals2723 11 месяцев назад +1

    We never can listen 2 that enough...until it really goes deeply in...the various Maya plays are not that easy...2 take down all at once or call it staying always prior 2 and clear.
    Thx ❤❤❤

  • @daynemin
    @daynemin 2 года назад +1

    Even a glimpse of a new found awareness to an old program is worth celebrating.love and light

  • @lilyrocco1
    @lilyrocco1 2 года назад +2

    I saw that my random thoughts are thoughts from a bad childhood, and I certainly did not choose them! My conditioning

  • @nandkishoredharmani900
    @nandkishoredharmani900 2 года назад +2

    J krishnamurti 's thinker is the thought is difficult to realise.Though one has read so much one is only left with a headache.

  • @joeymitchell5467
    @joeymitchell5467 2 года назад +2

    I have come down with Alzheimer's Dementia and I find deep very deep meditation easier.I am able to shut down my thoughts very quickly.I have some clues of what it may be like leaving this place.

  • @ac35ad
    @ac35ad 2 года назад +5

    The part where you challenged us to stop thinking reminded me of watching the scene in Ghostbusters as a child. They had to “empty their heads” to stop Gozer choosing the form of the destructor from their thoughts. I remember being annoyed when they blamed Ray for thinking of the Stay-Puft Marshmallow Man because how can you just stop yourself thinking thoughts?!
    I think even back then I had the sense that thoughts just happen.
    *random musing, apologies!
    Exceptional as ever Sunny!
    I’ll have a more focused reply shortly 😅

  • @artbymasz4706
    @artbymasz4706 2 года назад +2

    Happy Birthday Sunny! 🤗 Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. 💜

  • @youarewhatyourelookingfor4496
    @youarewhatyourelookingfor4496 Год назад

    It follows suit for me to continue inquiry:
    Who is liberated?
    It’d sure be awful if we were the thinker tho, however, look in any direction and we can see the incredible impact of people that identify as the thinker.
    Wars, greed, hatred and endless delusions.
    Thinking happens, myriad factors are involved.
    There is either too much thinking or not enough. I’m any case the result is suffering.
    Om shanti shanti shanti

  • @lilyr.1432
    @lilyr.1432 2 года назад

    It is the conditioning! I do not choose my thoughts, specially the dooming and limiting ones. It is the conditioning. My thoughts have a very soft and
    subtle voice, but they are there spontaneously and without warning .

  • @naveenrana3144
    @naveenrana3144 Месяц назад

    🙏🙏 Thank you so much for these great insights!!❤❤

  • @phyllisboyle1162
    @phyllisboyle1162 11 месяцев назад +1

    What if the thoughts bring up uncomfortable symptoms? Anxiety

  • @Skyper_G
    @Skyper_G 2 года назад

    I watched this video like few days back and i just came back to say thank you so much Sunny, because the effect it has been having on me is beyond how i can even explain it here..... So again THANK U SO MUCH

  • @ujjwaladiya2471
    @ujjwaladiya2471 Год назад +1

    i got it 😊

  • @sandycarter5300
    @sandycarter5300 10 месяцев назад

    The thoughts talk. Wow. It isn't the body/mind that talks since there's no matter, no organized matter.

  • @monauikewa3997
    @monauikewa3997 2 года назад

    I enjoyed the self inquiry you ‘ve used to show the difference between Subject(Pure awareness )and Objects… we are so much identified with body/mind as “I” the doer, that repeated meditation like this are of great value to redirect the attention to the screen(subject/unchangeable Constance) are true nature🙏🏼🙌🌹

  • @kalanithyravindran4374
    @kalanithyravindran4374 2 года назад

    It is so crystal clear Sunny thank you

  • @laika5757
    @laika5757 2 года назад

    Music to my ears... 🎼🎶🎸
    Sunny u r fantastic.
    Thanks for sharing your wisdom around.

  • @evian.
    @evian. 2 года назад +2

    Hi, what a great video. I have been listening to it on a loop. My question is who doesn’t like “my life”? Who is the judge I’m aware of? Thank you for answering.

  • @rhondapelletier2141
    @rhondapelletier2141 2 года назад +1

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁YOUare such a GIFT!

  • @beingblissfulalways1845
    @beingblissfulalways1845 2 года назад +2

    This is so liberating. It's getting better with every session with you. Thank you Sunny.

  • @araliyadesilva4905
    @araliyadesilva4905 3 месяца назад

    ❤ these videos Sunny 😮

  • @meerakarthikeyan8292
    @meerakarthikeyan8292 Год назад

    Sunny, I love ❤ all your sessions

  • @abhishekkatvi4508
    @abhishekkatvi4508 2 года назад +2

    Wish you a very Happy Birthday Sunny! :)

  • @AmnaMubashar
    @AmnaMubashar 2 года назад +5

    Hi sunny, I feel kind of confused between self inquiry/ re discovering who I truly am. And mental health. I definetley understand now how free I am in my true nature and how there is actually no suffering. The belief in identity, and the mind cause so much unwanted pain. But the mental health aspect is still affecting my everyday life greatly. Fear, anxiety, insomnia, limiting beliefs and that voice in my head. It feels like I oscillate between my true nature presence and personal identity. Sometimes it feels like I’m entangled in that identity in everyday life. Do both aspects go together spirituality and mental health? Is it good to go for therapy and continue what I’m doing or will therapy reinforce the identity? Thank you for uploading such amazing content❤️

    • @selfinquiryschool
      @selfinquiryschool  2 года назад +2

      Hi Amna, you can continue going to therapy until it feels needed. When you no longer resonate with it, then leave it :) In the meantime, both approaches will help

    • @millymoon9951
      @millymoon9951 2 года назад +1

      Great question

  • @jamesbutler5908
    @jamesbutler5908 Год назад

    A bit like zen buddhism. Gracias amigo.

  • @robwinters5654
    @robwinters5654 2 года назад

    Cheers dude. GL guys👍

  • @yogagooo7707
    @yogagooo7707 6 месяцев назад

    This makes sense. Because if I was choosing my rhoughts.....every thought would be positive, empowering and nurturing. So yes i am just now analyzing and realizing its true i am not choosing my thoughts. Then who is choosing my thoughts is the question. And why does it so strongly automatically feel like i am choosing my thoughts? Why that automatic deep feeling of choosing is there? Whats going on. Cause it only common sense i am not choosing. Why the heck all these years did i not realize this so extremely simple and absolutely blatantly obvious reality. Someone does NOT want me to know. Thats why. Because Maaha maya does not want me to know i am not choosing my thoughts. Its a game (maya mind trick).

    • @yogagooo7707
      @yogagooo7707 6 месяцев назад

      So, clearly it must be conditioning that is choosing my thoughts. Thats only logical. Like 2 plus 2 is four. Its just so so plainly obvious that thoughts themselves are the inner sanskars (scars), (mental emotional inner scaring) or bio/psycho/chemical reactions from life events that happen randomly. Inner audio recordings of actual life events that happen from previous life experiences. Thoughts are likely from a biological recording type of response to life events. Like animals have instincts to act. Humans have inner recordings of events. Like muscle memory recordings. Inner recordings of the facts that happened to and around a person. Not at all personal. Just like a tape recorder. Inner verbal recording going on. The muscles record the life events. And the words that were taught as language just interpret rhe muscles recording of that life event and store that life event inside in the form of the language that was forced upon the person at a young age. That is why there are audio recordings inside and not just visual memories.

  • @willywagtail4182
    @willywagtail4182 2 года назад

    So helpful thankyou Sunny!

  • @ssb9489
    @ssb9489 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for your guidance. It makes everything so clear

  • @simontuffs4106
    @simontuffs4106 2 года назад +2

    For me, thoughts seem to be like a jealous little demon, constantly demanding my attention.

  • @infiniteformless
    @infiniteformless 2 года назад

    Excellent teaching

  • @praveshdhawan3842
    @praveshdhawan3842 2 года назад

    Awesome exercise & steps. Thanks alot 🙏🙏

  • @AffirmLife
    @AffirmLife 2 года назад

    Thank you for everything 🙏🙂

  • @anirbanghosh1670
    @anirbanghosh1670 2 года назад

    Thank you.

  • @brainiac31K
    @brainiac31K Год назад +1

    First of all, thanks for all of your videos. I, a lifelong musician, when trying the first experiment, was thought-silent for a bit and used my ability to hear music that has never existed before while no verbal thoughts appeared. Then, however, the first thought appeared describing the music I heard. I mention this to wonder if listening to music in head, not from memory but new sounds, is a form of Not Thinking or just another thought. No thoughts are vocal in my head in these brief states.

  • @herbertmorales7299
    @herbertmorales7299 2 года назад

    It's easy when you are in a nice room with a microphone. What kind of thoughts can come? Dinner, clothes, girlfriend?? It is possible also in real life, and that's where liberation awaits.

  • @sophritoh
    @sophritoh 2 года назад

    You’re at 44.4K :) I’ve been seeing that number everywhere lol, 4:44 today and yesterday and phone at 44%

  • @marinusvandenberg1431
    @marinusvandenberg1431 Год назад

    I truggel whit observing, the moment I obverse there is no mind no thought no thinker it just vanish 😅 so how to observe if there is nothing to observe, but the moment I stop observing I find myself lost in thoughts 🙈😵‍💫 it’s very tricky 😂 😂

  • @keithofthejungle
    @keithofthejungle 2 года назад

    At times I experience life without thinking... I am still in experience, but without thinking. The "thinker" is an aspect of experience, like sight... Am I my eyes...?

  • @radhamaja
    @radhamaja 2 года назад

    Tyvm🙏

  • @robertsousa9550
    @robertsousa9550 2 года назад +2

    Would someone that doesn’t know a language have thoughts/thinker? Can we even really think without words? Hmmmm Animals (like my dog) think to some degree - but without words. My dog always seems happy. She doesn’t know words and therefore doesn’t have the problems we think we have. Lucky dog. lol

    • @artikarna3377
      @artikarna3377 2 года назад +1

      Studies show people who are deaf, even those who never learned language, still think. They think in images, pictures, they still have the mind chatter in sign language.

  • @maud3203
    @maud3203 Год назад

    I have the feeling that it is the thinker that is observing through my eyes and that is searching for the thinker when the thought disappeared..; I also thought that you cannot do the exercise of searching where there is a thinker when there are no thoughts, without a thought!! it looks like it is thinking everywhere without hope to get out of it! hope anybody see or understand what I am saying...

    • @selfinquiryschool
      @selfinquiryschool  Год назад

      Watch this video it will help you resolve this ruclips.net/video/Se9Xh5JZTTU/видео.html

  • @amitb6136
    @amitb6136 20 дней назад

    So, i am just the observer or awareness not the thinker.

  • @DANIEL-do7uy
    @DANIEL-do7uy 2 года назад

    THANK YOU SO MUCH...CAN YOU RAISE VOLUME WHEN RECORDING??...BEST WISHES!!

  • @ramadeviramu3340
    @ramadeviramu3340 2 года назад +1

    Happy Birthday Sunny 💯. U n ur videos r a blessing to me 😍

  • @sandycarter5300
    @sandycarter5300 10 месяцев назад

    Is there an experiencer apart from experience ; a knower of pain/ disease/disability apart from the claim of pain/disease/disability? Chronic pain does claim to be a self. It does say "i". Every belief is saying "i", claiming subjectivity. The "body" says "i". The body is nothing other than so called sensations and feelings. Feelings and sensations are not just the objects of perception. They are claiming "i". It is the level of identification, i.e., the degree of energy with the identification that determines if sensation, pain, disease, disability are experienced as subjective, as "i".

  • @MissBardoJeep
    @MissBardoJeep 2 года назад +1

    Hi Sunny. I have a question: did you have a moment of awakening where the ego permanantly dissolved? Eg as Maharishi described?

    • @selfinquiryschool
      @selfinquiryschool  2 года назад +1

      No, nothing of that sort :)

    • @mearss
      @mearss 2 года назад +1

      This has happened to me... and you then realize that there is no separation, and there is no 'you', there is just life playing out...thoughts, words, colours, sounds, movements, that's all that's really happening - and the 'me' is just an added feature that claims everything that's happening. It's so extraordinary yet simple.

    • @abrahamabraham9942
      @abrahamabraham9942 Год назад

      Experience is never a validation..

  • @KandyKoatedKrafts
    @KandyKoatedKrafts 2 года назад

    Happy birthday ☀️

  • @pvgopiabnle
    @pvgopiabnle 2 года назад

    Just wonderful🥰 but one doubt.
    " being aware" that
    " iam " is also thought?
    The experience that i exist is at a thoughtless state?
    If yes, at which point in a daily routine a human being experience it?
    Or any desciplne is necessary to experience it?
    May be iam asking this since i never noticed or experienced such a state till this moment 😥
    Rather my question may be:
    Is there an " i " at all to experience itself in the absence of thought?

    • @selfinquiryschool
      @selfinquiryschool  2 года назад

      Watch this video for clarification on this ruclips.net/video/Se9Xh5JZTTU/видео.html

  • @ArthurLockwood-e8c
    @ArthurLockwood-e8c 2 месяца назад

    Sick of throughts. 😢

  • @13_Kas
    @13_Kas 2 года назад

    Why do our thoughts come true if we are not our thoughts?

  • @roseaynn1
    @roseaynn1 2 года назад

    Who is observing the thinking

  • @embracinghumans
    @embracinghumans 2 месяца назад

  • @roseaynn1
    @roseaynn1 2 года назад

    Who is observing the thinking?

  • @kathleen9272
    @kathleen9272 2 года назад +1

    It's an hallucination, that's why it's not real.

    • @miket1591
      @miket1591 2 года назад

      And how to found out that for yourself?

    • @kathleen9272
      @kathleen9272 2 года назад

      @@miket1591 That chattering in your mind.

    • @miket1591
      @miket1591 2 года назад

      @@kathleen9272 so you need to tind this for yourself in your mind and see/oberve it? And then you are free?

    • @kathleen9272
      @kathleen9272 2 года назад +1

      @@miket1591 You have to disengage from it. Then you're free but it takes practice to understand that that voice is not you.

    • @miket1591
      @miket1591 2 года назад

      @@kathleen9272 ok thanks for info Kathleen. And disengage you can achieve with meditation?

  • @Olivier562
    @Olivier562 Год назад

    🧠💫💫💫

  • @ledaleda5017
    @ledaleda5017 2 года назад

  • @jasonc8910
    @jasonc8910 2 года назад

    Thank you.