Jeez. I did the gym fantasising stuff and looking back I know it contributed greatly to the worst self inflicted mindfuck I ever experienced. Good to know I'm not the only one that made that mistake. To everybody reading this : don't do it, it will get real bad.
God this is relatable. It brings out the worst in me when it goes wrong (inappropriate behaviour, inability to deal with rejection, and so on) and it is the only reason I have ever experienced depression in my life. I can control things to some extent now: don't desperately look for rejection, live by the "if she is interested, she'll text you" mantra, disengage at the first sign of a lack of interest, etc. But boy does it feel good when you fully engage and things go right? Actually, nothing compares. Maybe the one or two bouts of depression per year that this causes are worth it, for the one which works out?
That's right never let one good date get you excited. Or think you got it all figured ou about her. Things can change tomorrow. Don't go to putting her on pedestals. No woman should be put on pedestals. And they give you just enough to keep you hopeful. Just enough to keep you hanging around for her validation. Everything he's saying I experienced in my own way.
It'll certainly "F" you up thinking she's some kind of Angel sent down from God's Heaven on High & she's the one & only & the missing link that holds the key to your destiny & she's the only one that can make you feel whole & complete like she's the missing Holy Grail to your heart.. 💜
Yup, nailed it. The names and the places may differ, but the story rings true for so many of us. Thanks for telling your story. I'm subscribed. Keep up the good work.
So I'm currently going through oneitis. Except this one is different because the majority of cases are usually with people that have never liked you back. I used to be the oneitis of my current oneitis. She would do everything for me, even give me those goofy paragraphs to wake up to. I'm finding it difficult to let go because I keep returning to those which tell me how badly she wanted me and yet she does not anymore
@@sammysam6522 they shouldn't do that. Mess with a guy's mind. Keep him hanging onto nothing for their damn validation. Don't give them any validation. They'll 💩 all over you.
I'm currently dealing with Oneitis now. It is so crippling and overwhelming where you can't do anything without thinking about the person. I am in no contact after the girl I was seeing is playing games. Please help me
It baffles me how is it possible to exist such an absurd amount of fucking shitheads like you that insist in spewing that mentality crap. You wanna know who has a anbudance mindset? SOMEONE THAT HAS AMBULANCE AT THEIR FUCKING DISPOSAL!!! Seriously, you tell a guy with little to no money in his pocket or a unattractive guy that doesn't get any type of woman that the problem is their mindset and chances are that they are going to want to hit you or worse. Your mindset is the result of your fucking experience, not the result of deciding to have an mindset.
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I envy people who haven’t had this before. There’s hardly a worse feeling than oneitis, and nothing makes one quite so miserable.
It's the worst feeling a human can have, rejection hurts us down the bones.
It's important for character development I guess
Jeez. I did the gym fantasising stuff and looking back I know it contributed greatly to the worst self inflicted mindfuck I ever experienced. Good to know I'm not the only one that made that mistake. To everybody reading this : don't do it, it will get real bad.
oneitis makes man miserable. it really sucks
God this is relatable. It brings out the worst in me when it goes wrong (inappropriate behaviour, inability to deal with rejection, and so on) and it is the only reason I have ever experienced depression in my life. I can control things to some extent now: don't desperately look for rejection, live by the "if she is interested, she'll text you" mantra, disengage at the first sign of a lack of interest, etc.
But boy does it feel good when you fully engage and things go right? Actually, nothing compares. Maybe the one or two bouts of depression per year that this causes are worth it, for the one which works out?
That's right never let one good date get you excited. Or think you got it all figured ou about her. Things can change tomorrow. Don't go to putting her on pedestals. No woman should be put on pedestals. And they give you just enough to keep you hopeful. Just enough to keep you hanging around for her validation. Everything he's saying I experienced in my own way.
Very interesting, and helpful video, thank you. Keep up the great content.
It'll certainly "F" you up thinking she's some kind of Angel sent down from God's Heaven on High & she's the one & only & the missing link that holds the key to your destiny & she's the only one that can make you feel whole & complete like she's the missing Holy Grail to your heart.. 💜
Yup, nailed it. The names and the places may differ, but the story rings true for so many of us. Thanks for telling your story. I'm subscribed. Keep up the good work.
@@JVB34-b3u thank you, glad you connected with the story, we’ve all been there
So I'm currently going through oneitis. Except this one is different because the majority of cases are usually with people that have never liked you back. I used to be the oneitis of my current oneitis. She would do everything for me, even give me those goofy paragraphs to wake up to. I'm finding it difficult to let go because I keep returning to those which tell me how badly she wanted me and yet she does not anymore
Love this content of yours, you’ve got a new sub
Thanks for the support
Thanks a lot! it was useful, appreciate it
The girl I was seeing was breadcrumming then pulling away.
They do it for fun quite sadistic actually…
@@sammysam6522 they shouldn't do that. Mess with a guy's mind. Keep him hanging onto nothing for their damn validation. Don't give them any validation. They'll 💩 all over you.
I'm currently dealing with Oneitis now. It is so crippling and overwhelming where you can't do anything without thinking about the person.
I am in no contact after the girl I was seeing is playing games. Please help me
How are you now?
@@LuminousNightWorld I'm feeling way better. I changed my mindset and started working on myself. That happened because I put her as my priority.
@@sammysam6522 glad to hear this! Keep pushing and working on your purpose(s)
Two words, Brother - abundance mindset....
You are preaching to the converted
It baffles me how is it possible to exist such an absurd amount of fucking shitheads like you that insist in spewing that mentality crap.
You wanna know who has a anbudance mindset? SOMEONE THAT HAS AMBULANCE AT THEIR FUCKING DISPOSAL!!!
Seriously, you tell a guy with little to no money in his pocket or a unattractive guy that doesn't get any type of woman that the problem is their mindset and chances are that they are going to want to hit you or worse.
Your mindset is the result of your fucking experience, not the result of deciding to have an mindset.
@@mrtyrant1680 Duly noted - thanks for the insights, Brother.... 🤙
Just had a similar experience from a girl I met through a dating app.
Anyone else still having oneitis for someone after a year or more of being rejected by them?
Brilliant Alex 👌
Thank you
So how do you stop it?
Did you go into Red wing for the boots?
Feeling like a top g?
Ironically ha ha
Needed this….. ❤️🩹
Welcome bro