Born in the wrong body? | FTM

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Комментарии • 33

  • @DevonSpears
    @DevonSpears  5 дней назад +1

    My tank being messed up at the top is annoying smh... Thanks ya'll for the introspection !

  • @ExNihilo634
    @ExNihilo634 7 дней назад +34

    I respect your feelings and your point of view, but some of us feel like we were 'born in the wrong body' and it's actually validating to be able to state it in such a clear and authentic way. It's not negative, it just is what it is. For some of us it reflects the medical condition focus of it, not any kind of identity.

    • @DevonSpears
      @DevonSpears  7 дней назад +7

      For sure, I felt the same way and totally get it. Appreciate you watching 🤝

    • @sainthills
      @sainthills 7 дней назад +3

      I used to feel this exact same way, I felt that my brain is male so if i just was born in a body that corresponded to it it wouldve been much easier so yeah i was born in the wrong body. But nowadays i dont feel that way at all. I love my body and everything that being in a trans body has taught me

  • @kairezabal7180
    @kairezabal7180 7 дней назад +5

    Been asking this question to myself. The whole wrong body and right body it’s what bothers me the most. This line of thinking leads you to say that being in a trans body is wrong, and being in a cis body is right. This is what we’ve been hearing since we’re kids, so we’ve learned to internalice it. Let’s start questioning this harmful notion and accept trans bodies are as right and valid as a cis body.

  • @_KirFrost_
    @_KirFrost_ 7 дней назад +22

    100%
    I'm feeling like if I wasn't queer, I would be some Chad ahole or something
    I have so much empathy because I'm trans

    • @DevonSpears
      @DevonSpears  7 дней назад

      Essentially Lol I feel the same way

    • @sainthills
      @sainthills 7 дней назад

      The empathy part is soooooo real

    • @C_Poumpouris
      @C_Poumpouris 6 дней назад +1

      That statement on its own is crazy, you just assume that all Non-queer ppl don't have empathy?

    • @_KirFrost_
      @_KirFrost_ 6 дней назад +1

      @@C_Poumpouris Perhaps you missed "I" in that sentence
      It's just my experience, not extrapolation to others

  • @imaniford119
    @imaniford119 7 дней назад +11

    Being trans has definitely made me more compassionate, and taught me to fight for the respect I deserve. You're right. And definitely fight for others. I also agree. I'm so proud to be trans and love that I am who I am. I don't feel I was born in the wrong body either. I'm proud to be trans because of how much I learned about my resilience and how grateful I've become for myself. How much love I've built for myself.

    • @DevonSpears
      @DevonSpears  7 дней назад +2

      It’s true that resilience that comes from literally realizing and acting on accepting yourself is tough for most of us, thank you for sharing!

    • @samc2327
      @samc2327 5 дней назад

      since i came out a few months ago, my confidence has skyrocketed and I have been welcomed into a friend group with mostly trans people and i love them all so much.

  • @thunderfooox
    @thunderfooox 7 дней назад +7

    I hope that I'll feel the same way someday or at least at peace with being trans. I'm in the early phases of my transition, I'm 7 months on T and getting top surgery in 2 weeks and right now I really wish that I was cis to not have to deal with all this

    • @DevonSpears
      @DevonSpears  7 дней назад +2

      I feel you homie, try to make the best with what you have and good luck with top surgery as well !!!

  • @ashxc
    @ashxc 7 дней назад +3

    I agree with most things, but if I could push a button NOW well into adulthood and be cis, I would. I can't imagine how my personality would be without pain, without alienation from myself and other folks (which spawned more empathy for the other).

  • @boss-pf5ef
    @boss-pf5ef 7 дней назад +8

    I'm 19 and 2 and a half years on t and seen very little progress. I'm skinny and insecure. You inspired me to start working out consistently and try to build a body where I can say I'm proud to be a trans man💪💪

    • @DevonSpears
      @DevonSpears  7 дней назад +1

      That means so much bro !! Keep up the work and I’ll do the same 🔱❤️‍🔥

    • @WildAsDaTaliban
      @WildAsDaTaliban 7 дней назад

      You gotta up the dosage, brother.

    • @boss-pf5ef
      @boss-pf5ef 7 дней назад

      @@WildAsDaTaliban I'll look into that though I've upped it before 😭 none of the doctors know what's going on with me

  • @zmxh
    @zmxh 7 дней назад +3

    acceptance is uphill battle, but your words help the effort. your balance of kindness and pragmatism gives for true perseverance. thank you. may all of us find solace on our journey 🌈

    • @DevonSpears
      @DevonSpears  7 дней назад

      I really do hope we’re all able to, I have to practice not letting negativity win out every day but we’re here !

  • @sainthills
    @sainthills 7 дней назад +2

    I resonate with this video so much. I love my trans body, I love how much of a strong person I’ve become both mentally and physically and I’m grateful everyday for being able to build stronger shoulders to carry these heavier loads 💯 thank you for this video Devon

  • @MarcelBoy_Real7150
    @MarcelBoy_Real7150 6 дней назад +2

    Thank you Man 😢, I was just born in the wrong body I love my trans 🏳️‍⚧️

  • @haruno7015
    @haruno7015 7 дней назад +1

    Thanks devon! Definitely agree with proving yourself

  • @immersiveexperiences4799
    @immersiveexperiences4799 7 дней назад +2

    I have so much respect for you :) ☮

  •  13 дней назад +5

    💯

  • @airmykii4090
    @airmykii4090 7 дней назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ you so fiiine tho !!!

  • @user-rf3bg7is6q
    @user-rf3bg7is6q 7 дней назад +1

    Devon you are beautiful an charismatic ❤il love you 😢❤

  • @wav3rid3r
    @wav3rid3r 5 дней назад

    I think I like myself a lot more than most people who go through gender dysphoria do but that said, body could use some enhancements to be more authentically me

  • @arcangelmaaze7804
    @arcangelmaaze7804 7 дней назад +1

    I mean the life l was given showed me evertones true colors

  • @WildAsDaTaliban
    @WildAsDaTaliban 7 дней назад

    Testosterone is no joke.