I had a silent miscarriage June 2023. The baby stopped growing at 12 weeks due to a cystic hygroma. I was going to do expectant management but I was concerned about baby decomposing so after several days I got medicine to help things along because I was hoping to see my baby boy. I was so blessed not to have bad cramping or significant bleeding and I had ordered a miscarriage kit to easily catch the baby and temporarily preserve him. I was blessed to do just that. My baby boy came out beautiful and whole. You could even see his little penis. God is so amazing and I know this baby's sweet soul is in the hands of my Savior. Women need to be aware that a D&C will not allow the baby to come out intact, or correct me if I'm wrong. I was so thankful to see my baby and take pictures and have some closure. Sadly, I did still require a D&C several weeks later after a follow-up ultrasound showed I was still retaining "product of conception". It was also a good experience, as far as no complications and I was asleep. My heart goes out to all you mamas who have to go through this.
I was 10 weeks pregnant. I decided to get the pill hopefully that works because I didn’t pass naturally. If not I’ll have to get surgery so I don’t develop an infection. I just found out Saturday October 5 my baby no longer had a heartbeat🥺
I had a missed miscarriage 5 years ago, I was lucky enough that my Dr. let me pass the pregnancy naturally and did not force me to undergo a D&C. I was able to see/handle the embryo and that brought me closure as well 🥺
I recently had a missed miscarriage and it was devastating. My husband and I was about 8 weeks when we found out. We had our ultrasound and found out that our baby stop growing at 6 weeks. We decided on getting the procedure done at the hospital. We’re now dealing with the grief.
😢same experience here only this April 23,2024..😭Its our first baby😭😭 I chose medication,I will have a follow up check up on monday to check if I pass all the tissue😢😭Praying that it will be okay🙏🙏
I was upset at my scheduled D&C the doctor visit just before and palpatated or pushed on my abdoman and left, a few minutes later i went to washroom and out came a little white ball that looked like yarn with blood, asked the nurse if it should be collected she said oh no just flush it. Wish i would have been more assertive because i would have liked tissue examined. This was my first and only pregnancy
I was three months pregnant with my son and had a lot of bleeding one night during sex. It started to hurt as we continued to have intercourse, so we stopped. I stood up and there was a deep red blood stain at least a foot in diameter. I was certain I'd miscarried and we immediately went to the ER. I was told I had a threatened abortion but the pregnancy was intact with a fetal heartbeat. The rest of my pregnancy was uneventful and my partner and I limited intercourse to two other times (2nd trimester). Our son was punctual about his due date, and his birth was by the book. I've always wondered how I didn't lose him at three months. My pain was intense and I bled A LOT.
I had a missed MC in May. Found out at our 12 week after seeing the heartbeat at 8 weeks . I decided to take misoprostal. It’s crazy to essentially deliver the baby, and the placenta, in your bathroom 💔 overall my experience physically was okay. My doctor was fantastic, I took the meds over the weekend and had questions for her throughout the weekend. She was available for every phone call and always called me back.
Lindsay I am so sorry for your loss and for what you had to go through. I'm glad your doctor was there and supportive during such a tough period ❤ I appreciate you for sharing your story with us ❤🤞🍍
@@SandraTu-qe1kw it took 3 hours from when I started the medication for things to start passing ♥️ after that everything pretty much passed within 2-3 hours for me. so sorry for your loss.
Goong through same except i passed it naturally 3 days after finding no heartbeat at 11 week . Heartbeat at 8 weeks . 😢 doctor was also available on call.
after doing the embryo transfer, I did a blood test on day 11 and the result was 14mg betahcg. my doctor told me it was a weak result, indicating that the embryo implanted but we don't know if it was continuing its development. a few days later I repeated the test and the value had dropped. Is this considered an abortion? How long after can I try again? I still have 2 frozen embryos so 2 attempts. thank you for all your videos, for your sweetness and empathy. it makes us feel less alone and more understood in this difficult and long journey.
This sounds like a biochemical miscarriage or biochemical pregnancy loss - positive pregnancy test but level drops early. I am so sorry for your loss. You can likely try again soon. I’ve had patients try again with the next cycle.❤️🤞🍍
My missed miscarriage was at 11 weeks, just spotting and stopped feeling pregnant. Womb was enlarged but only an empty yolk sac. ( Medical dictionary called it missed abortion ) Thus pregnancy was via AIH and clomid help
It would be nice to indicate how many weeks of waiting time is recommended in the case of expectant management before someone opts for medical or surgical intervention. Thank you for the video
@@43bluebunny I had a missed miscarriage. I was due Oct. 1st. with our baby, but I noticed things weren't progressing and we couldn't find a heartbeat so I went in for an ultrasound and they didn't see a baby, just a sac. I should have been around 14 weeks . I scoured the internet for any info. on how long is too long, all I found was a lot of fear talk, so I prayed and asked for peace and kept a close eye on my body for signs of infection but I felt fine and everything looked good so I continued to wait.. I just finished my miscarriage on Aug. 3rd. it was just liked labor and I didn't have all the blood clots that I had with other miscarriages in the past. I ended up passing the placenta and everything all together, and there was a tiny little baby inside when we looked, maybe 7-8 weeks old, nothing smelled bad, neither was is deteriorating. Everyone is different, but I'm so glad we waited and let my body handle it. I just wanted to share my story because there isn't much info. out there that isn't covered in fear.
It can take 4-6 weeks for your body to let go. Anything beyond that should be monitored. Of course you should be under some kind of medical care the entire time ♥️
Thank you. For me it was actually almost 4 weeks and I am glad I didn't heed to the doctor and others around me to take pills or an operation. Almost a day of labor but the pain stopped instantly and the bleeding as well. Thank God, no issues since then.
@@zsaniB i am so sorry for your loss mama. I am almost 5 weeks since baby passed. The waiting is hard, but I am hoping not to have any medical intervention if possible.
Hi Dr, opinion please. I had a transfer on 12/15. First beta 12/26-11, 12/28-24,1/2-230,1/9 3046. 1/9 u/s showed NOTHING in transvaginal u/s. No one can find it. So we're just monitoring hcg levels. I go tom for a retest. What would you do? I'm scared though feeling no pain. I don't want to wait till there is. I keep getting the wait response so drs don't do something drastic that isn't necessary.
Hi Doctor. I need opinion I am 36 yrs done hystroscopy 20 days ago. And today is 46days of my cycle but my period is not arrived yet. Today estradiol test done and level is 24pg/ml. Doctor told me ur estradiol level is in lower side so we can start IVF procedure means medicine injection for egg retrieval. So she told me their is no problem if period not arrived yet. We can start ivf procedure without a period start. Is this true. Please help me....
I'd advise you to ask your medical provider for answers to your personal situation, as I can't give personal medical advice on social media. I hope my content on my website drlorashahine.com can help - there you can find links to my books at amazon.com, RUclips channel, Baby or Bust Fertility podcast, blog, Instagram, Tiktok and more! Best wishes ❤🤞🍍
Hi doctor I have laproscopic myomectomy due to fibroid 2 years ago.after that I have one tube disconnected due to infection after that 3iui's are failed.and 1 ivf failed .After many all this I'm conceived naturally.but in 6 week 1 days heart beat of fetal pole is seen in scan after that suddenly heart beat stops and growth stops.i have missed abortion .before I'm convinced in scan reports they said that I have starting stage of adenomyosis with bulky uterus .please tell me if this adenomyosis and bulky uterus is cause of my miscarriage. Or what.please tell me .😔😔
I'd advise you to ask your medical provider for answers to your personal situation, as I can't give personal medical advice on social media. I hope my content on my website drlorashahine.com can help - there you can find links to my books at amazon.com, RUclips channel, Baby or Bust Fertility podcast, blog, Instagram, Tiktok and more! Best wishes ❤🤞🍍
@@farogatolimjonova9566 Hi, I just finished a miscarriage naturally. Baby passed around 7-8 weeks, I found out in April and they said they couldn't see a baby at the ultrasound. I finally miscarried naturally August 3rd. It was exactly like labor, lots of contractions and not a lot of blood. I ended up passing everything all together. I too spotted for a long time off and on before, I just always kept an eye on how I felt and how everything smelled and never did it smell bad, ( except when I ate asparagus or garlic ) so I continued to wait. I am so glad I did wait, because seeing my tiny little baby brought closure for me and trusting God and my body was amazing. Everyone is different, that's just my experience in a nutshell.
Thank you so much for kind words, I had missed miscarriage last week, it’s the hardest thing to go through 😢😢
I had a silent miscarriage June 2023. The baby stopped growing at 12 weeks due to a cystic hygroma. I was going to do expectant management but I was concerned about baby decomposing so after several days I got medicine to help things along because I was hoping to see my baby boy. I was so blessed not to have bad cramping or significant bleeding and I had ordered a miscarriage kit to easily catch the baby and temporarily preserve him. I was blessed to do just that. My baby boy came out beautiful and whole. You could even see his little penis. God is so amazing and I know this baby's sweet soul is in the hands of my Savior. Women need to be aware that a D&C will not allow the baby to come out intact, or correct me if I'm wrong. I was so thankful to see my baby and take pictures and have some closure. Sadly, I did still require a D&C several weeks later after a follow-up ultrasound showed I was still retaining "product of conception". It was also a good experience, as far as no complications and I was asleep. My heart goes out to all you mamas who have to go through this.
I’m scared in selecting d&c or medicine 😞.. my baby stopped growing in 8 weeks.
@USALifeDiaries me too. 8 weeks 3 days. I can't decide. What did you do? I'm so worried. Please let me know.
I was 10 weeks pregnant. I decided to get the pill hopefully that works because I didn’t pass naturally. If not I’ll have to get surgery so I don’t develop an infection. I just found out Saturday October 5 my baby no longer had a heartbeat🥺
@sadaraelzie9298 be strong mama. I had to do the same. The pill didn't work for me. Ended up still needing surgery. I pray 🙏 for your strength.
I had a missed miscarriage 5 years ago, I was lucky enough that my Dr. let me pass the pregnancy naturally and did not force me to undergo a D&C. I was able to see/handle the embryo and that brought me closure as well 🥺
I'm so sorry for your loss ❤ I appreciate you for sharing your experience with us ❤
How long did you wait til you pass?
@keithcuarteros9844 how far along were you? How long did you wait? Did you do something to get going?
I recently had a missed miscarriage and it was devastating. My husband and I was about 8 weeks when we found out. We had our ultrasound and found out that our baby stop growing at 6 weeks. We decided on getting the procedure done at the hospital. We’re now dealing with the grief.
What did u choose to do? 😢 How is the experience with d&c? How long did it take to recover?
😢same experience here only this April 23,2024..😭Its our first baby😭😭 I chose medication,I will have a follow up check up on monday to check if I pass all the tissue😢😭Praying that it will be okay🙏🙏
@@elenagarcia3817. What is your condition now ?
I'm going through this now. I should take the medication sunday morning and i'm terrified. Was it painful? @@elenagarcia3817
@@elenagarcia3817how was the medication and did you pass everything? Pleaae help. I need to decide tomorrow 😢
I was upset at my scheduled D&C the doctor visit just before and palpatated or pushed on my abdoman and left, a few minutes later i went to washroom and out came a little white ball that looked like yarn with blood, asked the nurse if it should be collected she said oh no just flush it. Wish i would have been more assertive because i would have liked tissue examined. This was my first and only pregnancy
I was three months pregnant with my son and had a lot of bleeding one night during sex. It started to hurt as we continued to have intercourse, so we stopped. I stood up and there was a deep red blood stain at least a foot in diameter. I was certain I'd miscarried and we immediately went to the ER. I was told I had a threatened abortion but the pregnancy was intact with a fetal heartbeat. The rest of my pregnancy was uneventful and my partner and I limited intercourse to two other times (2nd trimester). Our son was punctual about his due date, and his birth was by the book. I've always wondered how I didn't lose him at three months. My pain was intense and I bled A LOT.
I had a missed MC in May. Found out at our 12 week after seeing the heartbeat at 8 weeks . I decided to take misoprostal. It’s crazy to essentially deliver the baby, and the placenta, in your bathroom 💔 overall my experience physically was okay.
My doctor was fantastic, I took the meds over the weekend and had questions for her throughout the weekend. She was available for every phone call and always called me back.
Lindsay I am so sorry for your loss and for what you had to go through. I'm glad your doctor was there and supportive during such a tough period ❤ I appreciate you for sharing your story with us ❤🤞🍍
Lindsay can I ask how long did it last for you? After 16 hours I still don't have any tissue passing and I am dreading what's next
@@SandraTu-qe1kw it took 3 hours from when I started the medication for things to start passing ♥️ after that everything pretty much passed within 2-3 hours for me. so sorry for your loss.
Goong through same except i passed it naturally 3 days after finding no heartbeat at 11 week . Heartbeat at 8 weeks . 😢 doctor was also available on call.
Did u conceive again and delivery normal baby
This is such good information thank you!❤
Thank you so much for watching 😊❤️
Just diagnosed with a MMC 3 days ago. This is my 12th loss. I feel like I died too.
after doing the embryo transfer, I did a blood test on day 11 and the result was 14mg betahcg. my doctor told me it was a weak result, indicating that the embryo implanted but we don't know if it was continuing its development. a few days later I repeated the test and the value had dropped. Is this considered an abortion? How long after can I try again? I still have 2 frozen embryos so 2 attempts. thank you for all your videos, for your sweetness and empathy. it makes us feel less alone and more understood in this difficult and long journey.
This sounds like a biochemical miscarriage or biochemical pregnancy loss - positive pregnancy test but level drops early. I am so sorry for your loss. You can likely try again soon. I’ve had patients try again with the next cycle.❤️🤞🍍
@@drlorashahine thank you so much for your answer and your words of confort. We'll keep trying and believe 🌈🍍🧡
My missed miscarriage was at 11 weeks, just spotting and stopped feeling pregnant. Womb was enlarged but only an empty yolk sac. ( Medical dictionary called it missed abortion )
Thus pregnancy was via AIH and clomid help
It would be nice to indicate how many weeks of waiting time is recommended in the case of expectant management before someone opts for medical or surgical intervention. Thank you for the video
yes, I can't find this information anywhere. They probably really don't know and maybe think it's harmful to tell people?
@@43bluebunny I had a missed miscarriage. I was due Oct. 1st. with our baby, but I noticed things weren't progressing and we couldn't find a heartbeat so I went in for an ultrasound and they didn't see a baby, just a sac. I should have been around 14 weeks . I scoured the internet for any info. on how long is too long, all I found was a lot of fear talk, so I prayed and asked for peace and kept a close eye on my body for signs of infection but I felt fine and everything looked good so I continued to wait.. I just finished my miscarriage on Aug. 3rd. it was just liked labor and I didn't have all the blood clots that I had with other miscarriages in the past. I ended up passing the placenta and everything all together, and there was a tiny little baby inside when we looked, maybe 7-8 weeks old, nothing smelled bad, neither was is deteriorating. Everyone is different, but I'm so glad we waited and let my body handle it. I just wanted to share my story because there isn't much info. out there that isn't covered in fear.
It can take 4-6 weeks for your body to let go. Anything beyond that should be monitored. Of course you should be under some kind of medical care the entire time ♥️
Thank you. For me it was actually almost 4 weeks and I am glad I didn't heed to the doctor and others around me to take pills or an operation. Almost a day of labor but the pain stopped instantly and the bleeding as well. Thank God, no issues since then.
@@zsaniB i am so sorry for your loss mama. I am almost 5 weeks since baby passed. The waiting is hard, but I am hoping not to have any medical intervention if possible.
Hi Dr, opinion please. I had a transfer on 12/15. First beta 12/26-11, 12/28-24,1/2-230,1/9 3046. 1/9 u/s showed NOTHING in transvaginal u/s. No one can find it. So we're just monitoring hcg levels. I go tom for a retest. What would you do? I'm scared though feeling no pain. I don't want to wait till there is. I keep getting the wait response so drs don't do something drastic that isn't necessary.
Hi Doctor. I need opinion I am 36 yrs done hystroscopy 20 days ago. And today is 46days of my cycle but my period is not arrived yet. Today estradiol test done and level is 24pg/ml. Doctor told me ur estradiol level is in lower side so we can start IVF procedure means medicine injection for egg retrieval. So she told me their is no problem if period not arrived yet. We can start ivf procedure without a period start. Is this true. Please help me....
I'd advise you to ask your medical provider for answers to your personal situation, as I can't give personal medical advice on social media. I hope my content on my website drlorashahine.com can help - there you can find links to my books at amazon.com, RUclips channel, Baby or Bust Fertility podcast, blog, Instagram, Tiktok and more! Best wishes ❤🤞🍍
Please ma I have a missed Miscarriage at 6 weeks so I took misoprostol and it's three days now am not bleeding
Such a helpful video thank you ❤️
Glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for watching ❤️
Thank you for such a complete video!
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you so much for watching 😊
Thanks Lora.
Thank you for watching!
Hi doctor I have laproscopic myomectomy due to fibroid 2 years ago.after that I have one tube disconnected due to infection after that 3iui's are failed.and 1 ivf failed .After many all this I'm conceived naturally.but in 6 week 1 days heart beat of fetal pole is seen in scan after that suddenly heart beat stops and growth stops.i have missed abortion .before I'm convinced in scan reports they said that I have starting stage of adenomyosis with bulky uterus .please tell me if this adenomyosis and bulky uterus is cause of my miscarriage. Or what.please tell me .😔😔
I'd advise you to ask your medical provider for answers to your personal situation, as I can't give personal medical advice on social media. I hope my content on my website drlorashahine.com can help - there you can find links to my books at amazon.com, RUclips channel, Baby or Bust Fertility podcast, blog, Instagram, Tiktok and more! Best wishes ❤🤞🍍
I had one if these😢
Thanks
Welcome. Thanks for watching
How long is normal to wait for the bleeding to start naturally? Before worrying about possible infection TIA
interested in that as well. I have been having brown discharge and docs are suspecting missed miscarriage, but no they're telling me to wait and see.
@@farogatolimjonova9566 Hi, I just finished a miscarriage naturally. Baby passed around 7-8 weeks, I found out in April and they said they couldn't see a baby at the ultrasound. I finally miscarried naturally August 3rd. It was exactly like labor, lots of contractions and not a lot of blood. I ended up passing everything all together. I too spotted for a long time off and on before, I just always kept an eye on how I felt and how everything smelled and never did it smell bad, ( except when I ate asparagus or garlic ) so I continued to wait. I am so glad I did wait, because seeing my tiny little baby brought closure for me and trusting God and my body was amazing. Everyone is different, that's just my experience in a nutshell.
2-6 weeks. After 2 weeks of learning MMC dx go in for visit to make sure no infection
Worst physical experience I’ve ever gone through DO THE DNC