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My Thoughts on Homosexuality | Ep. 15
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I AM THE BEEST YOUUTUBER YOU'RE ALL TRAASH COMPARED TO ME IM THE BEEST 😆😆😆😆😆
@@joereginmyre excuse me no I am the best RUclipsr thanks 😂
Can you link your jacket?
No hate to Candace in my response. I think you are a very intelligent and bright individual, even though I often disagree. On this topic, we have to refrain from postulating common narratives to describe the origins of homosexuality in an individual from those who are not LGBT . I know many LGBT individuals who claim to have never been molested or inappropriately touched, including my boyfriend (who is in love with you by the way). That said, I was molested several times and I do believe it warped my reality on sexual identity. Along with poor relationships with women, I have lost a desire to date one for the most part. I don’t agree fully with most components of the LGBT agenda, and I don’t fully agree with a gay gene. I believe there can be genetic dispositions but I don’t think it’s natural. It may be the food, issues at birth or with pregnancy etc. (Another conspiracy for another day.) More or less, I am happier than I’ve ever been with my current partner and it is rooted in companionship that I lacked elsewhere in my life, not in sodomy. Just some objective food for thought from someone from the community. 🙏🏾
I say all that to say, the narrative isn’t the same for everyone, even though you assertion are true in many cases. I love God and even if I abstain from sex, I’d likely still remain with my partner.
I’m a gay man in my early 30’s. I realized I’m gay when my puberty started kicking in. I have very strong physical and romantic attraction to men, none to women. I’m not flamboyant. I’m not a queer. I don’t follow gay fashion trend, music, and influencers just because I’m gay. Most people don’t know I’m gay until I tell them. I don’t hate straight guys. As matter of fact, most of my guy friends are straight. I have wonderful relationship with my parents and had no experience of sexual trauma. I was lucky enough that I was never bullied by peers in school after telling them my sexuality. I shared my experience wanting people to know being LGBT doesn’t necessarily have to do with sexual trauma and abuse. I’m happy with myself. I’m born this way.
“A gay man, who doesn’t have sex because his cult told him it’s bad, says most gays aren’t really gay”
I laughed out when she said this like it’s some profound realization. I’m in the same boat as you and I’ve been happily married for 10 years now.
she never said all gay people have trauma. she said she knew of a man who believed that 10% of gay people were actually gay from birth and had no trauma that caused them to be that way. simply food for thought, not fact.
You were never bullied by hetro lads (not trans, binary, gays or all that other stuff, but real hetro men) because of your homosexuality? Not even slightly!? That's eithr bullshit or you went to some Utopian school. A large proportion of straight guys will feel uncomfortable around a gay guy, that's unless they know him very well and have gotten it out of there system over many years.
YES! Pretty much the same as me. And based on who I know, I think your experience is the most common one. Not overtly sexualised queer, not suffered major traumatic prolonged abuse. You, as did I, just realised I was attracted to men instead of women during puberty. This experience also needs to be heard and normalised. My dad was a very straight man, and he was under the impression that all gay men wore leather and had sex with everyone and couldn't have a commited relationship. But when he saw me grow up, he realised he was wrong.
I’m pretty much the same bro
Basically her view is “if I raise them right they won’t turn out gay”, truly the most naive conservative view on the issue
yes you are correct. train up the child the way he or she should be and they wont sway by every wind of sin
@@dwjackson5422 looney alert 🚨 get mental help please
The same thing she speaks out against of people adding “shock value” is the same thing she does here 😂 she wants to add shock value
‘My thoughts on homosexuality’ is like ‘my thoughts on the solar system’. It exists regardless of your thoughts about it.
lmao THAT part
@Neelam Khan and???? Murder is sin too and I have never heard someone say "my thoughts on murder"
@Neelam Khan but if you are a true Believer you know it's not ok Regardless
@Neelam Khan does it make a difference of why it is sin?
@Neelam Khan what are you even talking about? if someone believes they were born gay, whats your point? should we stone them? it’s neither about addiction or habit and your rights stop where someone else’s begin.
I can tell you that I was ashamed as a young teen leading to early adulthood that I was attracted to the same sex. I wanted so bad to be 100% straight but it just never happened lol. That’s how I know, for the most part, it’s not a choice. I say “for the most part” because a lot of people claim to be bi or whatever for attention even though they aren’t🙄.
For actual homosexuals it is not a choice but actual homosexuals are pretty rare.
Most people who claim to be homosexual are just bisexuals and most who claim to be homosexual, and those who claim to be bisexual are mostly just a bunch of straight women who want women points. I know lots of “gays” who have sex with women and “lesbians” who have sex with men, these people are not homosexuals they just larp as gay and lesbian because they prefer their same sex. Just like the “straight” men who have sex with other men and “straight” women who have sex with other women, these people are not actually straight they are bisexuals who larp as straight because they prefer the opposite sex. Only recently this “identity” crap became a thing and people think they get to “identify as” whatever sexual orientation. But homosexuality, heterosexuality, and bisexuality are not identities, those are descriptive words, which we call nouns. One either fit the description of any given word or they don’t, one don’t get to “identify” as whatever they feel like, not if we’re being accurate to the definition of words.
You probably too young or slow if you don’t notice the amount of fake gays, fake lesbians, and fake straight out there. People will call themselves what they seem fit and convenient but that doesn’t necessarily mean they are what they claim to be. And now with the current victimhood narrative, woke points, leftist people (especially women) don’t wanna be like the boring straights or whatever, so they larp as lgbtabc alphabet soup. I know it too well, I’m a homosexual woman, and most other homosexual women I know are well aware too of bihet women larping as lesbian or bisexual, that why most (actual) lesbians avoid bisexual women (that includes the “lesbians” who used to date/fuck males before “coming out” these women are all bis and straights) 😂
Yeah. Definitely if I could be straight I would've. The amount of bullying I could have avoided in highschool. Oh man.
It's usually 50/50. It can be nature but it can also be nurture.
From my personal observation, I feel like MOST (not all) females are naturally attracted to each other or find some sort of sexual attraction towards each other. Men are different.
How can you accept that people are attracted to one sex or the other, but not both? It's like understanding there's right-handed and left-handed people, but not understanding people who are ambidextrous.
I love how celebrities have "substance abuse issues" but normal people are "drug addicts"...my own mother gave my father full custody and I moved with him to a different country. She was not (particularly) emotionally unstable, or a drug addict (she doesn't even drink alcohol, never has) but she knew my father and his family would be more capable of providing me with a stable life both financially and emotionally. It wasn't easy for me, and I missed her greatly as a child. However, I've always known, both as a child and as an adult, that it was the most responsible, selfless decision she has ever made. My parents managed to stay friends, and I love and respect my mother very much.
Thank you for sharing. I love your perspective.
That was beautiful, bless
“Substance abuse issues” = they have money, and therefore can hire people to take care of them, “Drug addict”= no money, and often end up homeless and/or getting involved in criminal activity.
@@fatoumfatoumeh it's funny the people who are labeled drug addicts are actually less of drug addicts than the substance abuse people, they don't have the money it takes to maintain the addiction 😔
Wow your perspective is so mature and eye opening. Thank u for sharing your experience.❤
As a gay I want to say, Candace, I appreciate your curiosity in the correlation between homosexuality and abuse of some kind. In my personal experience in the community, I think there may be validity in the assertion. While anecdotal at best, many of the gay men I have interacted with have all been either sexually abused at some point in their lives or abused drugs. I too have struggled for years over whether I was really born this way or made this way due to trauma. Not that I speak for the community, but I am in no way offended at your curiosity in this subject matter, and it doesn't make you a bigot to discuss! We need more discussions like this to get to the truth.
Thing is when anyoen tries talking on these topics you end up getting 'cancelled' by the lgb community. Gay people need to be more open minded and understand others have other opinions that wont conform to their own
Wow. My respect to you. If the truth is found and let's say Candace is right...how would you suggest this truth be presented ? I would be concerned of offending someone and exacerbating further trauma
you're bullshitting Im gay most of my friends are gay amd none of us have been molested in fact Im a virgin and I dont think any of us do.drugs either we're mostly vegan though.
@@thisbtchisraginghomosexual1655 your a child. This doesn’t apply to you
@@tamiin1774 Honey, Im 15 I know Im gay since forever, and homosexuality is widespread in my country even at young age like 4-5 years old people even your family will label and call you gay if you act gay. Its kinda common here.
This explosion of gay people is not new. You just see more openly gay people in the mainstream media now. My Mom worked as a bartender at a gay bar in Washington, D.C. back in the 70’s and she said every weekend it would be a full house. She said most of them were living a double life, because they had wives and girlfriends in other counties and cites and would drive all the way to D.C. to get laid. I think it’s a good thing that more people are comfortable coming out. It’s gives a lot women the choice to make an informed decision and no more deception.
Can you tell me more about your mom's experience? Any stories? That sounds so interesting.
I know I’m naturally gay. Why, because I was married to a woman and wasn’t fulfilled. I’m not your stereotypical gay man, you wouldn’t even know. Never been raped, no daddy issues, no traumatic event. No one will ever make me feel bad for being gay or make me feel like I have a mental illness. And people like to throw around how unhappy we are, I’m not
But you said you don’t feel fulfilled?
@@abbiegayle08he felt unfulfilled because he was with a woman...
Being gay is a choice
@@2mac_mini952 No, the sexual orientation is mainly determined in the womb by genetic factors and the mother's hormones, it is not a choice. It is a biological reality. I didn't choose to be born in the world either.
@@2mac_mini952 because being discriminated against, getting disowned by your family and getting hate-crimed sound so lovely. Totally makes sense why someone would choose that.
Don't forget the role of pornography. Pornography wires people's neurology in new ways and ties it to stimuli that we wouldn't normally be exposed to. Watching porn is inherently homosexual when you're getting off on images of the same sex. It can absolutely be a socialization tool to warp and change people's sexuality.
Best comment on this thread and thank you for speaking up about the dangers of watching porn. It's totally unacceptable on every level.
I'm 100% sure exposure to live or viewing sex porn when a young child affects your thought process about sex sexuality because normally you will have natural feelings that should come naturally not by exposure or abuse
Another issue with pornography, what a shock.
The NYTs did an article a few years ago that said the average American child is exposed to porn by the age of 8 years old, thanks to the smart phones and easy access. Let that sink in. It certainly supports your claim.
Porn has always been around. Porn is nothing new.
As a gay man, I couldn't accept the change in my body in my early teens. I was a male but I felt like a girl and it was a tragedy that my body wouldn't develop into a female body as I grew up. I was also interested in women's clothing. Contrary to all this, my body was developing completely as a male body. Big hands, big feet, rough facial features. Moreover, I had a body too manly to be transformed into a woman's body. This situation made me think that femininity was impossible for me over time. Having a male appearance, regular straight men's clothing began to attract me more. I started bodybuilding and started to see how perfect was my body and how lucky I was actually. As I made peace with my image, my interest in women's clothing completely disappeared. Although I was a very beautiful child and a handsome young boy in my adolescence, the misconception that my condition was to have a female soul in a male body stole my entire childhood and youth from me. Currently, although I am not as regular as a straight man, I like to stay within the limits of men's clothing, and women's clothing does not interest me at all. So my situation may not apply to everyone, but if I followed the feelings of my early youth and childhood, maybe I would have ruined my life as someone who has done irreversible damage to his body right now. So that's why I'm skeptical about encouraging people to transform their bodies into whatever gender they want.
I mean that's fair but wanting to crossdress and wanting identity as a woman are two completely different things. I think it's important to allow for experimentation with clothing and gender expression, as well as education on what those feelings might actually mean (especially in younger people) because it saves a ppl a lot of pain trying to repress their feelings, leading to those feelings "bottling up and exploding" and perhaps leading to jumping to conclusions to someone who is uneducated and been told by everyone to shut those feelings out and never talk about them. There are a good amount of legitimately transgender children in this world, but society would rather shun ANYONE who fits out of the norm, leading to people being othered or lazily put into boxes without ever considering how or why they feel or are a certain way
Yes I also feel the open-mindedness of the topic being taught can easily make people feel they are gay, later down the years, they are going to realise they are not
@@thelifeiknow7215 this is a good thing? Why shouldn't ppl be able to experiment & try new things to see if they like it lol
I can rely to your experience, grew up thinking I was trapped in a man body, having a lot of confusion, and after being molested several times by my sisters. I felt attracted to men , but deep in my heart I new it was wrong. I have very scrawny, with feminine outlook , but I grew up later years to accept who I was after falling into the lies of a gay lifestyle. I’ m a medical professional and learn importance of taking care of myself as a whole , body , spirit and mind. Today even though some struggle is very seldom there, I’m able to control it as a diabetic knows that needs to stay from sugar, or an alcoholic needs to stay away from liquor. I’m so glad that I can stand today , because of God’s grace and say I’m a new creature and don’t think about the things that used to define me.
What does it feel like to want to wear female clothing? I never got it. We’re just told what to wear & what to like as a kid. I don’t see how one could have a desire to do the opposite of what they were told. Asking this as a bi guy btw, I’m just curious.
I was molested and again sexually assaulted at 17 years old. It did cause trauma in my life and I also started struggling with gender dysphoria at a young age and you're right no one gets at the root cause. I went to alot of different doctors and instead of asking why I was feeling this way they all shoved it in my face that I was bi-polar and that it was just a phase. I have struggled with this my whole life until about five years ago. I stopped doing drag and wearing makeup and I started deleting dating apps and other things that would lead me back into that lifestyle. God has helped me alot. I still struggle sometimes and I have prayed about it alot but I will say it's very hard to come back from something that you've always known and to heal from the trauma that led to it. I couldn't speak to my family about all of the things that happened to me until I was first rebellious about it because they were conservative Christians and basically disowned me over it without knowing what happened to me as a child. This has led to alot of problems between me and my mom and her side of the family. My daddy stood by me this whole time and he has helped me alot to overcome it he's never treated me differently but always encouraged me to be the man God created me to be. We have to get back to our original identities and who God created us to be and leave the one we have learned and created behind. Trauma can cause many hardships in our lives. I'm on a healing journey now and I can't say it easy but it's the only way to overcome the trauma. Forgiveness is key!
Amen I’m still struggling
Amen. Don't yiu give up. Hang on tight to the Lord
The Lord cover youwith healing as a blanket. Stick with the Lord he never fails.
ruclips.net/video/Ci5CLncu7Uw/видео.html May this bless you.
Applauding you for your courage! Know that God loves you always!!! Sending you love!!
This woman has no clue (and no "thoughts"). I'm gay, and most of my "problems" about it came from pseudo-religious homophobes and bullies. I was never sexually abused, and my parents have been consistently wonderful and supportive.
Practice what you comment …. Bully
You're so real for this
@@JanineMeyer-ev7jbHow? You make no sense
@@JanineMeyer-ev7jb Chill the fk out ''Janine''
@@JanineMeyer-ev7jbhold each other accountable, villain
I'm lesbian. No childhood trauma....no problems with male's or anything. I went on a date with a girl on Wednesday and halfway through the conversation I realised that she probably isn't gay at all. She had recently moved to London, after living in a small Catholic village in Ireland and started working in a primary school here. Her co worker is a butch lesbian and she's now finding herself attracted to women. So in my mind I can tell this is a phase for her and probably won't get involved. This is absolutely not the first time I've met girls like this. It's very common. So what Candace said about only a small number of people who claim LGBTQ status are ACTUALLY gay.
Or she is struggling with her identity because the churchy village she lived in her whole life told her she is a sin and now she is making excuses and trying to validate her feelings? Or maybe she is bi? Maybe you should stop making assumptions to own the libs
Same-- I'm a gay man with no trauma, no exposure to sex as a child, raised by both parents, and moderately religious (not to the point where I guilt myself into celibacy, heh). I don't know a lot of gay peeps who were abused as children tbh, in fact, I only know of one. Not that I'm trying to debunk Candace's theory... but I think that it's safe to say most of the boom in numbers within her statistics is because of trans and "queer" identifying people-- who are mostly just straighties going along with the genderFvk/Yolo trend.
@@paolom.4646 you life experience is contrary to what she is saying, but to own the libs you are opting to keep her non sense as facts. Smh. Dave Rubin is that you ?
I'm bisexual and have been with my partner girlfriend for over 6 years now. It took me awhile to feel comfortable with my sexuality I grew up in a rural Irish town too. I use to get its just a phase all the time. It's important to not put people in a box.
I think she’s probably just attracted masculinity. sexuality is very fluid like that! But I agree some people aren’t actually gay
I am Eastern European myself, and whoever that person was who told Candace we don't have gay people, is clearly just not aware of it.
We have PLENTY. It is just not put on display openly like in America.
It is underground, with certain areas of the city, certain clubs, bars, etc.
You have to get INTO the community, or be connected, have friends in it, to know the places and the scene.
This is how it works in many countries. Not just Eastern Europe.
I am gay, and I have known since puberty, no childhood trauma, and have a great relationship with both my parents.
😊 honestly a real question with hopefully your honest answer...as gay person that's your choice but why the need to throw your attraction to the same sex, to young kids?? Not personally you ..but the gay community or trans community...I am straight yet I don't need to let young kids see me wearing shirts saying it or the need to have it be everywhere I look. I wish people would just stop throwing their sexual preferences around the young and keep it away from them .
@@natashagarrison3996 I'm a lesbian and I don't throw it at anyone. I just try to live my life. I don't even call myself part of the alphabet community
I’ve seen this for trans stuff, but not gay/lesbian. As a gay person, I don’t think kids should be exposed to sexuality *period*. I’ve seen a lot of heterosexual adults say things like “he’s going to be a heart stopper” to their less than 10 year old sons and get mad if a little toddler girl says she has a “bf” when it’s obvious she means her friend
@@natashagarrison3996 Do you blame candace for the "black communities" behaviour? No. Because there is no such thing as the black community. Nor is there a "LGBTQ+ community". Pkenty of gays, some who have children, are just as disgusted with the sexualisation of children. All done by people to make fools like you think it's the big bad gays, doing what people warned off years ago, being predators.
Those screaming and oishing woke ideology are not representive of gays, just as the woke sect that pushed BLM are representative of black people.
Well doen for playing the woke game though! Divide and conquer! Never mind the fact many sensible gays have stood up against trans ideology and the sexualisation of children. Candace is married to a Brit she shluld know the facts around the tavistock clinic and what lead to the closure, it was because of lesbians! Keira Bell took the tavistock to court have a look at her story. Look at Kathleen Stock, the LGB alliance, and over on the American side of the pond look at gay's against groomers.
Or carry believing what the woke lot want you to believe, that homosexuals are the enemy and their community...that doesn't exist... is the reaon for the woke revolution that is Western Marxism. Hence why there's BLM degrading race relations, why there's the T movement and the oush to throw pedophiles onto the alphabet now, why there's the eco lunacy, and why there's a general hate and loathing of capitalism.
@@Juliette_Thandi I agree with you. I'm also gay and cannot stand they was they call me 'queer'. I am NOT their ally.
Im a gay man and a conservative. I remember having crushes on boys when I was as young as six, and I remember feeling so scared by the crush I would cry in my room for days and my parents had no idea what was going on. This was before any exposure to gay people in the media. I think some people are born gay and others is a matter of epigenetics. Many people have the gay “hardware”/DNA but not all people download the “software”/RNA. There are many theories on what causes homosexuality. A leading theory is that it’s due to a mothers stress during pregnancy, signaling a gay person who will not reproduce, and gay people have higher emotional intelligence, acting as the family “glue.” Kids are largely formed by age 4. It is likely most people’s sexuality is formed by age 4, but all research indicates sexual assault can change sexuality. All research indicates gender dysphoria is a mental illness and sex change operations do not help mental health. The conservatives truly failed the gay community in the 20th century, calling AIDS gods wrath and religious zealots proposing the death penalty for gays. The government did not care about the AIDS pandemic despite how it was also affecting ethnic minorities and drug addicts babies. There was MSM slander that AIDS could be contracted by skin-to-skin contact, and this caused people to die without any intimacy; their bodies were treated brutally. Princess Diana used her love of celebrity to bring awareness to how much AIDS sufferers needed a hug. I think it’s misleading to say a large majority of the gay community is due to sexual trauma. That is not my lived experience, knowing many gay men and women. This is also a largely American plague of political correctness. You see it in the UK too. Countries that have it “too good” find reasons to complain. There in no tolerance for this BS in many South American and middle eastern countries (and most of Europe). Even talking to my friends behind closed doors they are all sick of the pronoun stuff. It’s even affecting things like email signatures in a professional workplace, where I have refused to put he/him and on Grindr I put “woman” just to parody the whole thing. Anyway - I am a big fan, Candace, but agree to disagree on this.
Sexual abuse DOES NOT change sexuality
Contradiction
@@JanineMeyer-ev7jbwow what a profound response. Thank you for your voice.
Thank you so much for this, these are exactly my thoughts
Hinduism, especially vaishnvism, is a religion with a lot of conservative values. However we do not condemn gay/trans etc.. our scriptures state there are a minority of people who are "third" gender and every non-strait person falls into the third gender. It's basically all of LGBT.. and the third gender in Hinduism has a role in society. They help with the family unit, like you said, they are said to bring blessings to milestone life events like marriages/funerals/births etc.. and they should not be looked down upon. As they are just part of society. I agree with Candace , that there are many traumatized people that turn to LGBT as a way to explore their trauma. But there are many who are just born in the third gender. Vaishnava Hinduism is similar to Christianity. We believe in one God. Our goal in life is to worship and develop Love for our Lord. And to realise the purpose of our souls and love all fellow spirits in this world.
I've been Vaishnava Hindu since birth and it's foreign to me that religion hates the gays. Coz mine doesn't 😅
As a former Therapist here's the statistics:
1/4 girls will be SA'd by a family member or friend, before age 18.
1/6 boys experience the same.
We MUST protect our children.
and who yu are attracted to has nothing to do with that!
@@souless-sneaks3381
Where were you trained on "traumatic bonding"?
How about who you feel "safe" with or less afraid of?
If you were sexually abused by a man and never want to run into a P again, becoming a Lesbian or Nun are your best unconscious options.
@@souless-sneaks3381 That's a bold statement. You must be a relationship psychology expert.
How about saying, "That's not always a determinant for homosexuality." Which would leave room for other causes and perhaps even being born as homosexually. Rather than discounting an expert opinion on the matter.
@@souless-sneaks3381Having one of these encounters and having someone introduce you to sex has a lot to do with your sexuality. It shapes everything about your sexual life.
Cause and effect seems to be irrelevant these days
Where did you even get that statistic 💀
Sexuality is such a small part of a person why make it your whole identity. I don’t talk about it because I don’t consider this a determination of if your a good person or a jerk.
Character is everything.
Yet the church and Christians make it the be all and all of all sins. The worst thing you can do. In Uganda you are killed for it and the church helped build that system. So if you cant marry a woman and society is hunting you down and also want you married, then your sexuality is you identity, because they will persecute you for it.
because being who we are is a threat, its dangerous to be open about who yu are. This fukkin video is a prime example! If yu were shunned ur whole life about something, then hell yeah imma make sure ppl know. Its not a matter of "being prideful and not talking about it", its about being proud of who yu are, even close minded others will judge yu for it. Thats the powerful thing that comes with being urself.
Well I've known rapist who were great guys but I bet you wouldn't give 2 craps about their character.
The mistaken belief that it is just a trivial, irrelevant part of a person's identity is in itself a part of the issue. To the contrary, it is absolutely integral.
I did post more but the c3nsors aren't allowing it.
Thank you you took the words out of my head
I have never been sexually molested, I had a good relationship with my father, I am not afraid of women, I am just attracted to men physically and romantically I do not feel that way about women in the slightest.
@@iolanilove I am not physically attracted to women at all. So that relationship would not work as I would not want to be physically intimate with her.
@@iolanilove what are you talking about? Have I had girl friends in the past yes. Did I know I was gay at the time yes. I am engaged to a man now. Not sure what you are getting at or trying ask?
I am a bisexual man. Turning 40 in 6 months I feel I’ve become more accepting of myself and that God accepts me for what kind of life and mentality he had given me. I do my very best to be a kind human being towards everyone. I feel as long as you don’t hurt anyone and all you do is kindness, god accepts you wholeheartedly.
@@iolanilove i love women i’m just not sexually attracted to them
Vision quest
Damn.
I am a gay Conservative man that grew up in the highlands of scotland north east. I helped my dad with the jobs that needed doing while my mum worked as a nurse and came home and cooked (traditional family setup.) My upbringing was as about as uneventful and opeaceful as it could be. Yet when i was around 13, 14 i notcied i started to bave crushes on boys and i always used to try and catch a glimpse of the mens health magazine while shopping in the nearby town which is funny to remember.
I am not some victim of some horrible crime, i grew up in a traditional western family far away from an environment like a city where there are lots of openly gay men. I literally had sheep in my garden.
I am not loud about my sexuality, i barely mention it and people are suprised when they see a photo of me and my partner smiling happy together.
But if anyone even suggests that i am gay because of my upbringing being traumatic i will be quick to tell them how wrong they are. My parents were amazing and i am the person i am today because of them.
Even my partner grew up in a farming family on a large estate. Normal upbringing, just realised he likes boys. No trauma, or abuse...
Similar to me.
Yeah but she won’t address this. She made this video for shock value
I’m gay. I have never sexually assaulted or sexually abused. I’m just really attracted to guys.
yes same with me. Straight people have no idea what they are talking about. I love candace but shes wrong on this.
Same.
Same
Same, I'm a lesbian, no trauma, no broken family or abuse. Just attracted to women and not men.
same, pay no mind to these mfs fr. And even if there is trauma, it has nothing to do with sexuality, and it shouldnt be something used against us. all her points are bs
51-year-old conservative male here who happens to be gay. My family although VERY conservative we're always supportive and loving...they knew something was different. I grew up in the 70s and I was the only boy in the neighborhood whose Idol was Carol Burnett. As a child I would subject my parents and family members to long drawn out impersonations of Charlie's Angels, Cher, and Maude. The rule was do what you want in the house just don't do this shit in front of the neighbors. In high school I tried to date girls to fit in but I always ended up becoming their stylist. After college I moved into Manhattan and led a pretty decadent lifestyle for a few decades. Unfortunately the gay lifestyle always made me feel unfulfilled and seeking something more.... fortunately I eventually found what I was looking for in God.
God does not want people to practice homosexuality.
The LGBTI Lobby hides the truth from homosexuals because it needs them to impose its sadistic and sordid political program of destruction of family and morals.
As a parasitic and abominable movement, LGBTI, creates 54 genres and imposes its program of gender ideology in schools and universities???....because if it doesn't recruit militants, the LGBTI movement ceases to exist.
Whaha, so now you found god you are not gay anymore?
God bless you. I wish you the very best.
Everyone in this world is always seeking something more, be you straight, gay or whatever. A sense of purpose is not monopolised by any form of sexuality. Maybe you just couldn't fit in because your trauma meant you had to shrink yourself so small because your family expected to you to present yourself a certain way to the outside world. The thing, is you have no sense of self as an individual because you probably struggle with identity not as a result of your sexual preference. You need to find yourself not God. Wishing you all the best.
okay but i’m lesbian and i haven’t been abused? i’m 14, almost 15 and realised this about 2 years ago and came out to my mam last year. it’s just the way we are. if your gay your gay, if your straight your straight, if your bi your bi. it shouldn’t matter to anybody else
CONservatives just want to push THEIR agendas/narratives. They care too much about what people do in their bedrooms. It is so creepy.
No girl it was pushed on you due to media etc. Its sad
@@universe6650 media? wrong. I was raised in a Catholic, conservative household with NO MEDIA other than watching love stories between opposite sex and guess what? I’m still gay! I swear, radical Christian extremists will do anything to twist, it’s so sad. Why don’t you go protest your priests who molest kids and all the straight white men who make up the majority of pedophiles. Yeah, those straight Republican men who prey on little girls who are ALWAYS on the news. Where is your rage about these groomers? Your rage is in the wrong place. Why is that? Oh yeah, fighting to push your own narrative.
@@universe6650 no girl it hasn’t been pushed onto me, i just realised that i didn’t like boys like the rest of the girls… don’t assume
You're literally 14....
I’m a gay conservative. I like Candace’s views on a lot of things. But candace… it is none of your business who is gay. No one cares about your position on it. Now… most people will say that In defense of promiscuity. I will say that not as such. I believe that lgbt whatever stuff had segregated gays into a self fulfilling stereotype that I personally am certainly not a part of. Lgbt is not for me. I’m not a part of it. But I am a gay conservative.
Exactly. This speech of hers is flat out wrong. I believe she is making stuff up on the spot.
She literally thinks that being gay is like a reaction to a trauma or it's a ''soft'' mental disorder. She has regressed so much on this. She used to be so pro gay rights before. I blame the IQA+ community for pushing her to the more conservative side of things. Such a shame as I had always seen her as an ally. Also Candace, you're lying. If gay people aren't really gay, then would you marry a man who had a gay past? I doubt it. You know deep inside that gay people can't change their sexuality, sis.
I have a friend I made from going to church. This friend has suffered with addiction problems for over a decade, as well as mental health issues. She has two boys that live with her ex husband who has custody of them, and she’s currently pregnant. I love her and want the best for her, and I pray daily that God will help her and give her the desire to change, and heal her mind, but I do worry about her giving birth in the coming weeks, because after her two previous pregnancies she experienced mental health issues and went back to using substances. If anyone is a believer, please pray for her and her baby.
Why have another child if she doesn’t have custody of the other 2??
Prayers lifted for your friend and baby... God bless you..
Praying.
Is she sober now and why have another kid if she doesn't take care of the other ones?
To the women asking if she's sober and why she is having another child... stop making assumptions and taking this comment in such bad faith. We all know that the wellbeing of a mother massively affects a child, who is already conceived now and about to come into the world (so there is no point in talking about whether it's wrong or right that the child is here), so at this point why wouldn't you just want the best for the mother? We don't have to judge, God will do that.
I'm a 50 year old gay man. Really gay. No childhood trauma, no molestation, loving and present parents.
Played "dress up" as a child because it was fun...certainly never forced to, definitely not praised for it by my dad the farmer/truck driver...but my parents assumed it was a phase I'd grow out of. It was and I did. I also privately knew which of the guys on Chips or Dukes of Hazard I thought was cuter. Immediately idolized Madonna (still kinda do even though she's sorta Gloria Swanson-esque now) I was gay long before I ever knew it was a thing that some people were.
Meanwhile I've known many gay men and women in my life who lived a heterosexual married with children life before they had the courage to come out.
They felt they had no choice. Quite literally forced into being straight because of their particular childhood and upbringing...being bullied, beaten, conditioned, "indoctrinated" if you will, into being straight. Something they definitely weren't. I can say most of them were waaay more into pride parades and rainbow flags than I ever was. Because they understood the difference between living a lie and the justifiable pride they felt in having the courage to finally admit that lie.
I guess my long winded point is, it's a fine line we all walk and it's hard to know the "right" thing to do. Personally (and I realize I say this having had a relatively uncluttered path to accepting and embracing my sexuality) I think it's important to leave people the hell alone and let them figure out what's right for them. It won't always go smoothly or turn out as expected. There may be "phases". There will be moments of great indecision and moments of tragedy, sometimes avoidable...sometimes not. But then, isn't that everyone's life?
Your dad as a truck driver was always gone, you spent a lot of time with mom that’s why you are gay. Also Madonna and the television brainwashed you to be girly and that’s why you are gay
Agreed
Beautiful comment and so true! Thank you for sharing
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God does not want people to practice homosexuality.
Such a horrible human being
What makes her an expert to speak on this? She’s not a scientist and she’s biased
I have always believed many children whom have been sexually abused are so damaged, and need help. Consequences of the unhealed wounds are real. 💔
I AM THE BEEST YOUUTUBER YOU'RE ALL TRAASH COMPARED TO ME IM THE BEEST 😆😆😆😆😆
@@joereginmyre NO you're NOT!
yep. And we don't even realize it.
I’ve been telling people this for years these people don’t need rights they need help
I know a man that was raped by a man and because of the trauma now have a woman. As a homosexual myself I have to think he's been corrupted and is now sick? Why do you heterosexuals think that people who will "come" homosexuals "suddenly" are abnormal or sick? Both sexualities exist and neither is a disease. People just have to live with those they love and with those who are good for them, that's all! Homosexuality is as normal as heterosexuality. Stop the hate, stop the prejudice and group war. The same is happening with blacks vs whites, women vs men. It's all so sad!
When my daughter was in high school, because of the internet, she decided that she was non-binary! I didn’t, at the time know what was going on, and was so worried about her! I prayed for her and thankfully after high school she grew away from this! She is now married to a wonderful man!!
Praise God!!!
Not talking about your daughter specifically. Sometimes being non binary has nothing to do who shey are sexually attracted to. It's about self identity.
@@90sDRgirl your comment tells me you been programmed
@@gemsxjourneyx196 Your comment tells me you did not understand. Though it's pretty straightforward fact of the human experience that has nothing to do with sexuality but the human identity.
Prayer works 🙌🙌
Thank God.
It is not impossible for the percentage of adults who identify as LGBT because the representation, safety and protections have greatly improved in the last decade. Many are no longer afraid to be open and accepting of those parts of themselves and that has allowed more citizens to feel comfortable in actually enabling them to figure that stuff out. Increased availability of resources has been incredibly effective and as a result after just a decade, so many more people have been allowed to just figure out how they wanna live in their bodies rather than follow what they're told they should do.
(This is just meant as conversation, not to start anything)
I'm a lesbian who was sexually abused by not one but several men. Not sure if it's because of sexual abuse but I do know many lesbians who were sexually abused.
Yes, I also would gain extreme amount of weight to be less attractive.
It'll 99.9 percent sure never happen again and wasn't your fault..
That’s a shame that you were abused, I’m very sorry for you. The hard part is to NOT internalize the abuse as a reflection on you.
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Bisexual*
I’m gay. And I was gay in the military when don’t ask don’t tell was still around. Some people knew and some didn’t but I never had any problems. So long as you respect a person’s boundaries then you shouldn’t have any issues. No, I am not flamboyant. I’ve met dudes who had no idea I was gay because I don’t act gay. That’s because I don’t make being gay my personality. I am more than that. I’m just a dude that likes dudes.
Same here.. I’m gay I’ve never told people unless they ask me! Being gay doesn’t define our life and it doesn’t mean we all think and feel the same way! I don’t even “identify” as a gay anymore because it has such a bad reputation because of the lgbtq+xbhisbwtwo community
Exactly. Why make that your personality!?
God does not want people to practice homosexuality.
Same. I am myself, a male, young, and have sexual orientation for the same gender 🙂
@@candyluna2929 Who you are with or without the sexual orientation.
From my experience as a 33 year old gay man can tell you that it was not a choice. I had a very happy childhood and just always knew i was different. When I found out what being gay was, I then realised why I was different. If I was hetero my life would of been so much easier, if I had a choice I would of chosen the easier path. Trust me.
She explicitly said some people who identity as gay have other issues. She never claimed being gay is exclusively a choice
Gay millennial here. I grew up in a conservative Christian household and was never sexually abused in any way, shape, or form. I believe I was born this way because I DISTINCTLY remember being attracted to guys from a very very young age. I'd say probably 3rd grade. That said I do enjoy Candace and her ability to openly talk about this. Plus she has gay friends and I firmly believe would go to bat for us!
Maybe you were born that way but that’s why you have to be born again! 🙏❤️
homosexual are msde through childhood sexual abuse trama- every single one without exception ere sbused They lie yo uou, for if you know where it really comes from, it makes it easier to heal And ye homosexuals can heal amd become what God created rhem as
how would you feel if someone told you that you need to be gay because of their religion? honest question.@@sofidofie
@@sofidofie Are you alright? Is everything fine at home?
@@arianasmoonlightbae4123 Yeah I got a father and mother who both love me very much and I honor and love them too. ❤️
Gay men are totally different than lesbians, transsexuals and bisexuals. Stop lumping all non straight people together. It doesn’t make sense.
As someone who identifies as bisexual, I became a born again Christian almost 5 years ago and through faith I realised that this wasn’t normal and that I was being tempted/tested. It was hard for me to wrap my head around this concept but I’m so thankful to God that He sent amazing people my way and opened up my eyes to it. It’s still hard ngl and find myself being tempted but I’m coping better and mentally more at peace with who I am and who God wants me to be. God bless you Candace and may He use you to open up more eyes and hearts of people.
I'm not gay but my boyfriend is 😂😅😂
it's not easy but God will help you overcome this. you have to stay separated out of those identity groups or you will fail. God bless you
God is good!!
God bless you! In the name of Jesus Christ!
Be careful who your friends are, if it takes you further away from God leave those friends. Stay in prayer, morning and night.
Nice testimony, because of what Christ did on the Cross, you will be victorious
I'm 7 minuites in and as an openly gay man who's never been abused or 'forced' into this lifestyle... i'm highly intrigued by the amount of truth she has found out through her conversations... adding this to my "watch while i eat" playlist to finish later.
update: so sis kinda click baited us with the title **a smidge** lmao. I thought the entire video was going to capture her thoughts on us rainbow people but it stops around the 20 minute mark. I do have a new found interest in ms Candace Owens though! I love how she tackles this topic head on with no finger pointing, no name calling, she simply gave an unbiased factual oration on what's really leading/has led people to homosexuality. And as a conservative woman that was a shocker. She makes conservatives look freaking amazing and this is coming from a leftist influenced hippie lmao.
I often do find myself victim to very overly lustful men in the dating scene who just merely fetishize the thought of us together due to their past trauma/abuse. I also see others like me who have never been abused and have far less experience due to simply being a... i guess you could say "true" gay. I want to find more statistics and conversation about this. pretty hot topic *no pun intended*
I would take most of what she says with a grain of salt if you watch her tho. You'll kinda find the more you watch that she tend to slip in harmful statements about us in with whatever "positives" she says
@Prince Charming and Snowwhite Once Upon a Time What?
@Prince Charming and Snowwhite Once Upon a Time that's not me who commented, but I'm confused. What does spoiling a kid have to do with child abuse?
@Prince Charming and Snowwhite Once Upon a Time That's a misconception. Trust me, no matter how much time a kid spends with his mom or dad, you can't turn a kid gay. If a person is gay, it's because they were born that way. It's engrained in your mind.
An amazing talk! I agree 100%. I have a female friend who has lived for years as a lesbian. At some point, she took her old mother under her wings and cared for her. She healed her relationship with the mother, and after the mom's death, she was surprised to find out that she was no more attracted to women. She got married to a great man. Our wounds can be healed, but when politicians use us as a tool to ruin our society, people tend to refrain from going on the path of healing.
In all fairness, a woman's sexuality is rather malleable. The late Anne Heche was with Ellen before she left her for a man. Cynthia Nixon was with men all her life until she married her wife.
Men on the other hand have a much more fixed and "permanent" sexuality.
@@homershimshon4172 I'm a woman and no a woman's sexuality isn't malleable lol
@@libfuzzy4629 Yours isn't. But I mean compared to a man, girls can be more flexible. That's why they kiss each other at clubs and yet men would puke to even think about locking lips with other dudes Lol. But then again I mean just relatively. Most women are completely heterosexual for sure.
@@homershimshon4172 As a woman my sexuality has never been "malleable." 100% straight.
@@homershimshon4172 not true
Candace Owen's setting the high standards on ethics and morals with the clothing she wears and her excellent speaking skills. Love from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤️
Yes! I'm glad you pointed that out! I didn't even notice, but she is dressing more modestly now and I've been loving every outfit. She looks great. Such class 🥰
@@Jewls1000 she always wears something "conservative" stop selling sex....its immature. If you can't sell what you are trying to sell without showing cleavage or a mini skirt....find another line of work
No, she isn't on this topic. A LOT MORE people have been sexually abused and haven't 'turned gay'. It is almost impossible to find someone, especially a woman, who HASN'T been sexually harassed or abused at some point in their lives. It is wrong to assume a correlation between this and being gay. Also, even if someone's sexuality was more socially formed rather than impulse driven, so? So what? Gay people are good for the environment. Straight people are popping out babies left right and center and we have so many orphans in this world. Gay people get to adopt these children and they stop populating the planet, needlessly.
@@Jewls1000 Candice doesn't like her body so she complains about women who have nice bodies.
@@Jewls1000 Candice is good regarding ForgottenFatherless but her morals end when she applauded Johnny Depp dating a married gold digging lawyer now.
I am a gay man, and here's the thing. I've been through sexual trauma, and I do not think at all that this lead to me being gay. Reason I know this is because I started getting crushes on other boys when I was young like 4 or 5. This was a couple years before a family member started sexually abusing me. The reason I know that me being gay is inate and not a result of a choice or of abuse is because it goes very far beyond just physical and sexual. Not only am I attracted to men, but I want to find a guy who I can build a relationship with and have a family with and have a good life with. If this was just a reaction to my abuse, then I definetly think that it would be purely sexual. Because most sexual trauma inflicted on you as a child plays out in almost exclusively sexual ways as an adult. Also being gay comes with a lot of societal pressures therefore it wouldn't make much sense for a person to live a gay lifestyle solely because of trauma that happened to them.
@@cupcake9483 being gay is absolutely unnatural. Nature wants you to procreate... species will even sacrifice themselves to lay eggs. for you to not understand how unnatural it is to go against that instinct shows how narcisstic you are. you are not important as far as nature is concerned... only passing on your genetic material is. Can you explain to me how you do that with the same sex? yeah I didn't think so...
@@cupcake9483aybe you should listen again. She’s not drawing hard conclusions here or stating these are facts, she’s just talking about whether there could be truth to it. Me personally, I think she’s on to something and I’ve thought the same thing for years. But let me ask you this, if it is true that some people are traumatized and it leads to an identity crisis, wouldn’t the truth be better for that person? I mean, truth is always better isn’t it?
@@cupcake9483 I enjoyed the read, so no worries, lol. What she talked about brought to mind an episode of America’s Next To Model I watched years ago where this young lady, gay, didn’t want to participate in a certain photo shoot because it involved kissing a male model. She was traumatized at the very thought of it because she had been molested at a young age by a male family member. So yes, I think there is some valid points to make one draw those conclusions. I know I did back then although I can’t say for sure. But I think it’s worth the conversation. It can’t be said about all of the community, as you worded it, but certainly maybe some. I’m a believer in Christ and I’m not here to preach, but I believe our identity is found in Him and that He defines who we are by our faith in Him and His finished work on the cross, on our behalf. Perhaps some of the posers you mentioned are just trying to find something and are looking in the wrong place. With that said, I appreciate the dialogue and respect your position.
@@cupcake9483 agreed! I’m happy to have had this dialogue. Thanks again! ❤️
@@lynnschook6124 HI Lynn......I would like to ask you a question, but ONLY you. I really don't want to hear from the peanut gallery or just anyone who cannot possibly relate to what I'm saying. There's a commentor here who seems to think there comes a time that a human KNOWS for sure what they want - which is in no way fact AT ALL! People will tell you that on their dead mother they know one thing to be true & the next year they're saying the opposite. It is NEVER too late for a human being to change their thought process or feelings based on experience. But here's my question for you, from one TRUE LOVER OF CHRIST to another.
Allow me to say this will look long but will read quick.
I find it TOTALLY hypocritical that at the time, 3% of the population - which were nothing more than a special interest group whether they like it or not - FOUGHT because they knew they had a President that backed them & who was a Muslim so he didn't mind destroying the Judea Christian principles on which this country was built by not only passing a law that allowed gays to marry, but in the dark of night also changed the definition of a word that almost predates civilization itself, a word that defines a RELIGIOUS ceremony between a man & a woman that is witnessed by God, but all the while they need not believe in God. They like to pass on the lie that Conservative Christians hate Gay people & we're homophobic, but hate & homophobia go against the very nature of a true Christian. We can't hate, we don't hate.... we pray for. We beg they learn their Bible so they can understand that someone DIED for them, to save their souls & in return all you have to do is have Faith in the sacrifice for the forgiveness of sins. But they refuse to do even that. And that's where the problem lies. They want us to be glad that they & only they are wanting the definition of a word CHANGED, a word that is more than 15,000 years old all because they want it. No good reason given, just change the definition because I said so & in return I'll do..... NOTHING! I won't read my Bible, I won't love my God or even believe in Him but I will still expect his witness at my ceremony so me & my partner can be on each other's health care & file joint tax returns. Because that's all it's really about... otherwise give it the same weight as marriage but CALL IT SOMETHING ELSE so you're not changing the definition of a word that predates everything we know to be true as human beings. And I find it outrageously hypocritical that they get what they want for nothing in return. AND what they want is something BASED in religion but they don't want to follow any of the Biblical directions for how to be married. How can they? Biblical marriage is between a man & a woman. So I'm asking you, if you are a true Christian as you said you were.... why do they get a pass when no one else on earth can blatantly violate the Bible & so Obviously Sin & go against CHRIST without hearing a peep from the Christian community? I don't think there's anything wrong with the desires of the heart & I don't think I'm in any position to judge so I don't. I just can't seem to understand why this topic is ALWAYS discussed with such gentle hands. You want a ceremony witnessed by God? Start by living a Godly life. Start by not being so blatantly flamboyant, have some cooth... some tact in your everyday life & present yourself, at the very least present yourself in a Godly way. Heterosexual people don't feel the need to tell everyone in their life that they sleep with the opposite sex so why do gay people feel the need to tell EVERY SINGLE PERSON in their life that they sleep with a same sex partner? Why? I don't hate a single person because of their decisions or sexual orientation. I think there's enough hate in this world without adding to it. The tears I shed are for CHRIST. And it eats at my soul that there is an entire group of people out there, I want to say the largest group of Athiests but can't for sure because I haven't researched the statistics, but an entire group of people that actually want something from a God they don't even believe in. A God they'll never thank or pray to, one they'll never get to know or have a personal relationship with... and this breaks the heart of God because He loves them & wants them to love Him back... but everyone is so afraid to tell them that for some reason it's like they'll offend God but not gay people. 🙄
GET OVER IT.
TO ALL GAY PEOPLE!! THERE IS A GOD WHO LOVES YOU SO MUCH NO MATTER WHAT YOU'VE DONE. HE WANTS TO KNOW YOU. HE WANTS TO TALK TO YOU EVERYDAY. HE WANTS TO BE A PART OF YOUR LIFE. AND ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS TALK TO HIM. PRAY TO HIM. PICK UP HIS BOOK & LEARN WHO HE IS. LET HIS LOVE MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON. WHETHER THAT'S JUST A BETTER PERSON OR A BETTER GAY PERSON IS UP TO HIM, BUT SINNING WITHOUT KNOWING HIM WILL NOT SAVE YOU! WHAT DOES YOUR HEART FEEL? IS SOMETHING MISSING? NO SHIT! OF COURSE THERE IS. HE'S YOUR CREATOR. NO ONE CAN DO LIFE WITHOUT HIM, NOT EVEN YOU.
AND I PRAY MORE CHRISTIANS LOVE YOU & TELL YOU THE TRUTH THAN TIPTOE AROUND THE SUBJECT BECAUSE THEY'RE AFRAID TO OFFEND. DO YOU EVEN KNOW THAT NOT BEING GAY ISN'T IN THE 10 COMMANDMENTS? AND AFTER HE SAYS MAN SHALL NOT LIE WITH MAN HE SAYS WHY. YOU MIGHT WANT TO READ THAT. THERE ARE STRAIGHT PEOPLE LIVING IN MORE SIN THAN SOME GAY PEOPLE. SO PLEASE, PICK UP A BIBLE & READ IT. THE OLD TESTAMENT IS BEFORE CHRIST EXISTED & THE NEW TESTAMENT IS WHEN CHRIST WAS ON EARTH & AFTER HE DIED. READ IT. LEARN IT. AND LOVE HIM! I BEG YOU.
Because you are sinning like all of us. The only difference is we WANT to be forgiven. We don't walk around everyday PROUD to live in the flesh rather than try to live in the spirit. So with the drag shit . AND STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM KIDS AND SAME SEX BATHROOMS AND DISTANCE YOURSELVES FROM LGBTQIA+ 130 other pronouns - RIDICULOUS! You know better, I KNOW YOU KNOW BETTER! Do better, Be better! LGBTQIA+ are now wanting rights for pedophiles. They don't want that word to exist anymore. They want to call them MAPS - MINOR ATTRACTED PERSONS, LIKE IT'S OK TO BE ATTRACTED TO 7 YEAR OLDS. THOSE PEOPLE ARE SICK! And unless you are a Godless demon living your life in the flesh everyday you can see how sick they are. Form a group, speak out against them and FOR God and distance yourselves as far away from their beliefs as humanly possible. If you don't... it's your eternity, whether you want to believe it or not.
As a gay guy, the L, the G and the B has absolutely nothing to do with the IDIWQUEWUEOSDI.
It actually does. Trans people are evolved versions of gay people spiritually and we also fought for your rights.
When I was 11 years old I thought that I was a lesbian and I feared men. I was molested by multiple male family members from ages 6-12 years old and knew at a young age that my affinity towards women and fear of men stemmed from that. As I began healing myself with counseling as a teen my sexual orientation geared back to straight. I've always felt that most homosexuals, not all, have experienced some kind of childhood trauma. This segment confirms my thoughts.
My God! Im so glad you found your path to healing. Every time I hear about someone enduring that it infuriates me. I know so many people are shamed into never telling. I will fight with all I have to support and protect people that have been abused in this way. I hate it! And yes, most have suffered this same trauma. Whats frustrating is they fight more for the right to be gay than fighting the abuse theyve endured. The child molesters and pedos have to be held accountable. This is insane! Its too common.
Most heterosexuals have but y'all don't talk about that. Stop being one-sided.
So if you’re a girl who is molested you will most likely fear men? But on the other hand people use the opposite theory for gay men. I.E. If you are a boy and molested you WANT men as an adult. Make it make sense. This 35 minute segment confirming anything for you, beyond further investigation / research shows to me both the level of your intellect and your openness / understanding of such topics.
@@Pocketoes most men who are abused by men are straight. You born gay man. Lesbians are rare than gay men, but they do exist.
it doesn't apply to women
I'm 59 years old and when I was a kid me and my friends told each other EVERYTHING. Nobody had gender dysphoria. Nobody. I don't buy it that they were just too afraid. It was just very rare. This is some weird social engineering experiment that will one day be seen as one of the biggest moral crimes committed against children.
Hopefully infant circumcision goes down as a crime against humanity too.
Agreed
You were gay or your friends came out to you too?
Maybe your dads were so scary and pro life was the “ agenda”to build a population of men to build a society aka workers and soldiers that being gay was scene as no go zone at your time. However just as girls who were healers got confused with witches and burnt and blacks people were enslaved and Jews gay and disabled ppl were massacred I think now it’s just more okay to accept your gay and say it. Sexually dysphoria is a mental illness str8 men and woman and gays go thru. It’s nothing to do with being born gay and attracted to the same sex as you looked a girls they looked at boys as kids. Brainwashing America into sterilization via trans agenda and medicine is evil and a rich well worked put in place agenda. What are we doing to counter that ?
Not our fault that you think children werent afraid of being hated in a time where it was hated. You can't prove that it was just 'rare.'
This is bullshit. You say gay people in America aren’t afraid? You say they’re not scared in the closet? Well you’re wrong. I was scared. I lost half my family bc they said they hated who I was.
I used to be a very devout Christian, but when I saw the toxicity of the Christian environment I was in, I let go of that. My siblings, whom I was close with cut ties with me when I came out as lesbian. Not saying all Christians are like this, but damn, why you guys got to hate us so much?
If God really “hated” gay people, wouldn’t he strike us down. Wouldn’t he make it stop? Well he hasn’t, and in my opinion I don’t think he ever will. Because if he exists, he loves us no matter what.
You Christian’s say he’s a “god of love” yet when I say I don’t love men, you say I shouldn’t exist. Love is love, and if your god is the god of love, why do you hate us so much? We’re just trying to live happily and love who we love. Please, stop coming after us
But also never forget that there are gay people who were gay all their life, who have not been abused and who do not have psychological issues. There are people who were born gay!
But also never forget that there are minor attracted people who were minor attracted all their life, who have not been abused and who do not have psychological issues. There are people who were born minor attracted!
But also never forget that there are lovers of other kin people who were lovers of other kin all their life, who have not been abused and who do not have psychological issues. There are people who were born lovers of other kin!
But also never forget that there are stupid people who were stupid all their life, who have not been abused and who do not have psychological issues. There are people who were born stupid!
@@redblackandgreen1117 Exactly.
For a lot of gay people, our trauma comes from growing up around homophobia. Despite a lot of social progress since I was an adolescent, conservatives today insist on perpetuating that homophobia.
Agreed
including Candace
@@jkscout yep, her and most of the other right wing talking heads as well.
Talk about it YASSS!!
@@jkscout Period ✨
Ive always asked that question - I do think some peoples sexual preferences do stem from sexual abuse earlier in life. Not just being Gay but also kinks too.
It does need to be addressed because everyone should get help with overcoming a trauma.
These victims are actually suffering from Homosexual Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. This condition can actually goes both ways and can even affect LGB people (Sexual Orientation Obsessive Compulsive Disorder or SO-OCD) but it's obvious that she's not going to talk about it because it'll challenge the “being molested makes someone gay” narrative when that's simply not true. Not to mention, she's also not going to talk about that side either due to her strong ties to conservatism/traditional religion. It's simply cognitive dissonance.
Right
What homosexuals obsessive compulsive disorder?
I'm a trans man. No trauma. No molestation. Stop it. ✋️
As a psychotherapist I can say without question that you are spot on with your conclusions. Political correctness has created a “scarlet letter” mentality for anyone in the mental health field who suggests or promotes in any way what you are saying. Instead, we are pressured into directing any and all children towards resources to assist and validate that child’s dysphoria. No one is asking why is this child dysphoric? Instead, parents who are seeking help are shamed and labeled as uncaring bigots if they don’t assist their children in transitioning.
Dear Candace,
Can we talk about labeling children in school setting especially Autisim and AdHD. Please, and thank you
Truth is the above exists. It may not be exactly called ADHD or OCD etc..but naming and identifying it helps on how to deal with it or treat it than just Blaming.
Unless you have experienced some signs, you do not know how it affects your mental and physical.
Maybe inform people how they can get help
Because 90% of adults have caused a lot of these issues to kids
ADHD/Autism definitely exists but the way we deal with it in society is not right
yes, the schools have been obsessed with this for years, and the gender identity crisis is just an extension of that. :)
The difference between being gay and trans is, I don't FEEL gay, I AM gay.
Trans FEEL like the opposite sex, they're not the opposite sex though.
Feelings didn't determine my sexuality
This doesn't make sense. Feelings of attraction define what it means to be gay, right? You're just playing with words. I could say "I don't feel angry, I AM angry." The wording doesn't change the fact that anger is a feeling. If attraction is a feeling, then being gay is based on how you feel. I guess maybe that's where the argument lies. Is attraction a feeling?
@@rachthelionheart yes but physically and emotionally at the same time. For example, if a guy was to make a move on me and it was to be the 'right' move, I would get sexually stimulated which is natural and chemically without my choice. But if we are to match frequencies, I would also feel the emotional butterflies in my gut and heart because blood would flow from the energy we are matching. It's literally the same scenario as a straight person (speaking from a man's perspective).
@@classicleslie6914 a lot of trans people also have positive stimulation, without their choice, in their brain when they do the things that affirms their gender identity. It's called gender euphoria (this is their theory).
@@classicleslie6914 I think I get what you're saying, but other feelings aren't voluntary, either. Embarrassment is an involuntary reaction, and physically can manifest in flushed cheeks. Still considered a feeling with emotional and physical consequences. Anger is an emotion that is a reaction to circumstances and has physical side effects like shaking, high blood pressure, clenching of the fists, etc. Still a feeling, though. Or maybe you were saying that everyone's relationships are based on feelings, which I would agree with. I was questioning the idea that being gay is not based on a feeling.
@@rachthelionheart you're describing emotions that are constantly fluctuating and pinpoint how we feel at any given moment. I don't know if I'll feel happy or sad tomorrow, but I know I'll be gay. Outside influences make me feel happy or sad, but they don't make me feel gay.
No more than they would make you feel straighter some days rather than others.
I believe that's what this person meant by saying that gay is simply something you are, not an emotion that you sometimes feel.
3.5% in 2012? Has it ever occurred to you that people were scared to come out of the closet because of the time that we were in? LGBTQ people still weren’t comfortable as they are now.
Also, about the Eastern European person. They didn’t use their common sense. There are many religions in Eastern Europe like Islam, Christian, Eastern Christian Orthodox, and others. The countries aren’t as open. My dad is Eastern European. Years ago, when I visited the town that my dad grew up in(he is homophobic and transphobic), my friend’s mother said that there are many LGBTQ+ people in the small town. They are still in the closet. Just because some people are open to it doesn’t mean that everyone will.
The idea that homosexuality is related to abuse and trauma is only based on the idea that homosexuality isn't "good" and it's a "disorder", which is also based on pure religious ignorance.
So, no, Candace. NOT EVERYONE that is gay suffered trauma or abuse. And even the people that did should not have to deal with the idea that "maybe they're just disturbed for what happened to them and therefore they should go back to being normal".
I’m a gay man who spent 5 years in Christian therapy when my parents found my AOL chats to my friends telling them I was gay. 13-18. I grew up Christian. So I was absolutely eager to believe anyone who would tell me that being gay “wasn’t who god made me” that there was “an underlying hurt that needed to be addressed.”
So, through therapy, I began to hyper focus on my past; I lost the ability to actually be ‘present’ because when I wasn’t trying to find some distant hidden trauma in my past, I was fixated on every word I said, every action I did, wondering if I was on the road to redemption or not.
Today I’m just as gay as I’ve ever been. Now my real demon is learning to let go of all the shame and guilt and self-hatred I was taught to feel (by people who truly wanted only ty best for me) through the most critical years of my development.
I encourage these discussions. But it’s really irresponsible to do this without going into research or having experts on. Your “1 friend” anecdotes really are not going to cut it here for such a serious, deep, complicated topic; one that has wide reaching implications for a lot of people out here.
To those of you curious about what actually makes people gay (most studies have been focused on men unfortunately), PLEASE WATCH THE VIDEO BELOW. Especially if you are, like me, a gay person who always has been curious why you were made the way you are. It’s scientific but I found it to give me a deeper sense of meaning & purpose, not just from an evolutionarily standpoint, but one within my own family & community ➡️ ruclips.net/video/4Khn_z9FPmU/видео.html
I find people like you who have accepted your own fate now refuse to help save others.
Thanks for the link...but no thanks.
@@GRIMSREVENGE253 yes, well I can only hope to help other fellow gays and lesbians understand why we were made the way we are. It’s not settled science, but that video lays out a really compelling case.
I wish I had someone to tell me that I was okay just as I was… that I was made the way I am for a reason. If that message could ease even one person’s pain (as I’m sure it would have mine), that’s what it’s about for me.
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Pain is made to warn you that you are doing something wrong. When your hand is too close to fire you feel pain.
@@GRIMSREVENGE253 you ppl are deranged, cope with gays being more real than the freaking r&pe baby y’all worship😭🤞
Thank you for sharing the Ted Talk video. I think this would be very positive and informative for all to watch.
Let’s ask an actual gay guy why the demographic is increasing:
1) the percentage of gay people in society likely increased so drastically as a combo between there really being more of us and people feeling more safe to publicly claim their homosexual identity.
2) The reason there are more gays in America is because it’s a privilege to be gay and we are the most privileged country. It’s a privilege to be free to do what you want in general. Being gay, not having to continue the blood line or family business as we used to in the past, not having to court a woman (since woman are so empowered now … ). It’s a sign of privilege that a society can accept a group of homosexuals since it basically implies that there are enough straight people to handle the reproductive responsibilities. I am American but living in India the last year. They are not homophobic here but more so “lonley woman phobic” meaning that they only favor straightness because it’s perceived to be good for extending the family, contributing to the family business, a lot of things that are antiquated in America now. They still need that here whereas America is in a different phase of culture & prosperity. But a family can be rich and still have a compulsion to claim every descendants future … so
It’s complicated.
3) Please don’t assert that being gay is most commonly the result of being molested - I was not molested. That idea disgusts me. Plus it places a false victimhood on myself that I cannot claim.
4) The few times I’ve been to a straight club. I see girls showing off their body. I can’t. Men have to pay extra. I hate that. I do not like the way straight men cock block each other. Someone’s preferences for how they wish to be treated and rules they agree with can push them either way. There’s a lot of things separate from sex itself that make me choose the gay lifestyle.
5) I like girls too, but as a good looking man, men competed more for my affection my whole life. My straight girlfriends wish they had the man I have. If I ever broke up with my man, I could possibly date a woman but I’d want to be rich first because my view of woman is that they all prefer to be courted - judging from our culture. I could play that role one day maybe, but I’d want to be the most respectful and supporting man to a woman that I could be … something I don’t wish to do at this stage in my life. I associate homosexuality with extended youth in that perspective.
6) I come from a huge family of 8 kids, all my sisters had children already and I’m the oldest and still with no kids because I always felt our family was simply too big. I slept with one girl and I recall immediately being aware of the difference between that and sleeping with another man. I was so used to not having to even think about the idea of a baby, and with her the energy was different because of that possibility of a baby coming from the moment. So imagine that some guys just don’t enjoy that feeling of baby making during sex … because they are perhaps hyper-responsible. That is yet another reason someone could choose to go in the gay direction. It’s not always molestation or things as simple as that Candace. I gave 6 alternative reasons no one talks about. One last point
7) Unlimited self expression - I would willingly suppress straight urges just to hold on to that one perk of being gay. And I’m not known to be flamboyant but I like the freedom being there. Rather than ask why there are so many gay people, can you ask yourself what are straight people doing to make so many more people flee to the gay side? That's the question none of you want to bring up, no disrespect.
I do agree with you that homosexuality is recruiting members but that’s because it’s genuinely a more fun and fulfilling life for some people. When I sit and compare the idea of being straight to being gay … I’m 100% more impressed by what the gay lifestyle can offer me. But I respect straight people and view myself as a product of straight culture.
If a man and woman did not come together to make me, I would not be here. As I said earlier, I think it’s a gift to be gay … it’s a gift from straight people. Because if there were not a pretty healthy and thriving heterosexual world then I’d be forced to be straight for my families lineage … thankfully I am not.
My goal for writing this is to remind people that there’s a lot more nuance to this topic than people give credit for. Being gay saved my life. I feel that it’s responsible for my high level of emotional intelligence … it led me to a wonderful partner and career. If you’re thinking being gay is only about sex or abuse … you’re missing out on the bigger picture.
I appreciate your explanation of the nuances. You certainly offer some interesting insight to a lifestyle with which I am not familiar. Candace is simply presenting some nuance you may not have considered. Think about it.
@@brianchecketts9792 Thank you. Taking time to see the nuances really broadens our perspective of things and reveals beauty in expected places.
Hold up, hold up, hold up!
In theory, If queer identity is stemmed from their experienced childhood trauma. Then straight people are straight because of their childhood trauma or supposedly not having any?
Yeah… seems a bit of a lazy of a concept to me.
In my opinion, this concept is rubbish.
NEXT.
Seems to me that homosexuality is pretty much natural Much in the same way that heterosexual is pretty much a natural. And does it really matter? Homosexuality has been around forever. And what goes on in someone's bedroom ain't none of your God damned business anyway...
I remember being a gay teen in the early 2000's. All u wanted back there was for people to stop putting labels on you and let you figure things out on your own. Now being gay means taking on as many made up lables as possible and demanding the world to use those lables on you. I will never understand it.
I agree with this. As a former bi woman I dated women, and one of them was introduced to lesbianism when she was thirteen by a pair of sisters, and her mother was very neglectful and cold. The other woman was sexually assaulted by a man when she was a child. For me I thought it was cool and although I do find myself same sex attracted sometimes, it's not right for me to commit that sin anymore. So there are indeed other factors that play into why people "become gay".
God bless you...stay strong and he will be with you till the end
I have a big Johnson
You’re not an ex bisexual person that just doesn’t happen and is impossible
@@nellykatsarova Explain "critical thinking skills" please.
@Natasha Smith there is no proof of your claim
being gay is just a part of life. some people are, some are not. its really no topic for a debate
Exactly. Why can't we just co exist in peace like stop making wierd shit and kinks part of the lgbt and stop trying to eradicate homosexuality completely- it shouldn't be this hard just let people be happy
I was molested as a child n it’s sad . Cancer survivor also . I’m so grateful . I just wish I can be alone n away from the social media n controlled societies
You can be alone and away from society and social media. It's not easy but it's do-able
I've said it before, and I'll say it again. I was presented with a very different picture of Candace Owens early on, but slowly and surely this channel is winning me over, regardless of whether our party affiliations coincide. But much of what she's saying HERE makes sense to me. All that other stuff seems now like information smoke screen, some of her own doing I have no doubt. But HERE, I get a different picture of what she's about and surprisingly, much of it complements what I BASICALLY believe, or at least the logical process by which she arrives at her conclusion is "followable" (if that's a word) by me.
she is a great woman and she is on fire right now.......no one is doing what she is doing what she is doing right now on youtube or daily wire....she is so refreshing
I think it’s perfectly acceptable to have an open discussion about homosexuality but Candace, based on your own political and religious beliefs, the approach you use to lead the conversation on homosexuality sounds very bias. I recognize trauma and everyone goes through trauma. For you to say the reason people are gay is because of “trauma” just doesn’t make sense to me. Your sources are bias as well.
She didn’t say all people. Gay people exist, and naturally exist at that, but there are a lot of Gay people who were molested or had deep trauma as children. I have 5 gay friends and have had deep conversations with them and they too agree that not every gay is naturally born gay. AND THATS OKAY! You can choose to be gay too.
@@cesarovelasquez bro don’t speak on behalf of gay people if you’re not gay. Also I’d like to add that there are tons of heterosexual people who have gone through sexual trauma and they’re still straight.
@@tylerjrubio obviously, not everyone who has sexual trauma is gay, but the numbers don’t lie. Also, I hate this argument of “you can’t speak about this if you’re not a part of it.” Like that is the dumbest/dangerous idea you could ever muster up.
You are a human being who, hopefully, is intelligent, intuitive and educated via copious sources of literature on various subjects. You can speak on different things based on observations and Data trends. You can speak on white issues, black issues, brown issues and not be that race. You can speak on women’s issues and not be a woman. You can speak on straight issues and not be straight. You can speak on Gay issues and not be gay. Women can speak on men’s issues. It’s called the credentials fallacy.
All my cousins were boys. I was a tomboy. I wore my cousins clothes on the weekends. I was not told that I was Trans or gay. I grew out of that.
Right, my sister was the same way all through our childhood. Once in college she was the most girly girl. So she outgrew it and now has 5 kids and married a man.
Being a tomboy is not always indicative of being trans or gay. it's a false equivalence it's not the same experience. You can be a tomboy and heterosexual for example in your case. For some people who are 2% of the population, there is something more innate that determines gender identity and sexual orientation a good portion has to do with genetics.
Some women's clothes such as blue jeans looks like guy jeans but with smaller pockets. So I understand a gal wanting to wear larger pockets.
@@waize-1383 There is no proof that any of it had to do with genetics. Zero. There is no Trans gene.
Same. People tried to call me gay and it made me question myself but I knew I wasn’t I grew out of it but I still have a man’s skill trade and I work with mostly men.
it's none of your business Candice if they are or not ... seriously I don't care your a straight Conservative woman. give the gays the same curtesy.
I am a straight man,I have a gay son that I am very proud of and Accept fully. You are totally rite, social media is the downfall of society!!!
Well done for being such a healthy, loving father figure. Thank you! Your sons so lucky ❤
As a gay man myself, here are my views:
I experienced no immediate trauma as a child, I had and have a wonderful family. I generally believe that I was born this way, but yes....the way in which I grew up probably also had an effect. I grew up in a home that allowed me to express myself in any which made me happy. Despite bullying, I would play with ponies as I was fascinated by magic. I danced and took gymnastics.
It was society that told me it was wrong to be gay, not my friends or family. I had many girlfriends before I truly accepted that I preferred men both romantically and sexually, and that IS OK!
Nothing wrong with being Heterosexual as it's normal. Nothing with with being Home sexual, as it's normal.
Just be kind to all 🙂
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I'm gay and I agree with you. Candice is trying to be polite but I get her message. She's ant-gay!
@@lublack8820 she was born that way right??you say we are anti gay and it's about hate I could use the same argument to say your anti straight or maybe you just hate women??just because you disagree with something doesn't mean you hate them.
That's where you're wrong, bud. GODS' WORD(The BIBLE)makes it PERFECTLY CLEAR that homosexuality is an ABOMINATION!!!!!!! "...Remember Lots wife..."(Sodom and Gomorrah).🤔
GOD Loves the sinner but hates the sin.
I’m gay, and I was always gay. Not by choice. I notice so much of the community, namely the men, seem promiscuous and open to anonymous relations with strangers. Not only that, but a lot have kinks. At least from what I have seen. I just want a nice relationship and date like I see straight people do, but it is difficult. If I could choose to be straight I would. No one seems to have my more traditional values.
This is exactly what makes me scratch my head about homosexuality. Ok you like the same gender but why does that have to mean your lifestyle has to be so overly sexualized? It has to mean you're half naked and in need of sex all the time. Why? But I'm happy to see that there's even some homosexuals who say or wonder the same thing
@@sweetandsimple. I think most of the over-sexualization of it has to do with a sexual revolution in their life. As a gay person, it seems like gay people that are going to pride parades and all that usually grew up in an overly conservative helicopter-parent family and, in adulthood, feel the need to express their freedom. It seems like the younger generation of gay people are different than the older people/people that grew up in a non-accepting household.
@@tylermitchell7679 I feel like if anything the older generation would be more hypersexual than the younger generation since there was a stronger stigma against homosexuality in their time than today. Since its so accepting now the older ones should be the ones expressing freedom right? I'm sure they do but I guess the younger ones are just choosing to express it in the sex focused way they do.
I can see why you are alone....
Then why is there so many young gays in parades half naked showing their stuff when they know children may be there. I have seen pride parades in DC Cincinnati and Key West. A lot of gays naked or half naked flinging their stuff around fully naked, half naked painted. I'm sorry this is disgusting behavior. Is there anyone in the gay community that agrees with me. All this trans stuff with children today, Library reading hour and mothers taking their children to trans bars. I'm sorry to the gay community but this type stuff makes the whole community look bad. And it's just my opinion that the normal conservative with christian type values probably looks at the whole LGBTQ community as preverse. And why do some trans people have to be around children. I've seen some of the videos. God bless the little children! Everyone is trying to steal their innocense. Such a shame. If it's not perverts from home enviornments, priest, pedos, elites in high power and anyone else you know who you are, child traffickers , it's totally sickening and should make each one of us cry to think of the the evil people tying to rob children of a young blessed sweet life. It's so sad and heart wrenching.
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Really?
No. That’s not it.
Sexy af
Funny thing is I was thinking about this the other day. I respect Candance and love the show and watch it very often, daily, but I always wondered what her views are on this. As a gay man who is COMPLETELY over this cancel culture BS I am with Candance on the majority of what she says but I do believe we can have a stable society with gay parents, just not what the hell is going on today, today's crap is MADNESS! Thanks for listening to my rant 🥰🥰
She’s a bit much when it comes to this!
I AM THE BEEST YOUUTUBER YOU'RE ALL TRAASH COMPARED TO ME IM THE BEEST 😆😆😆😆😆
I READ ABOUT3 YEARS AGO ADULTS THAT WERE ADOPTED AND RAISED BY TWO GAY MEN OR WOMEN EXAMPLE OUT OF 10 9 WERE TRAUMATIZED SO ISTARTED TO INVESTGATE THAT TOPIC I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH GAYS AND LESBIANS THAT ME BUT THE ONES WHO GROW UP WITH THEM HAD TO HAVE A LOT OF THERAPY AND THERE IS MUCH MORE
does she call herself a christian...? it's not really about you or your group, it's about what she is calling herself to others
Hope the lord frees you from it.
I am also a gay man who has chosen to sacrifice my sexual desire to serve God it was one of the best decisions that I have ever made in my entire life it takes courage am I perfect?am I holy? no but I’m fighting for my own soul because I know if I repent and mean it that God will forgive my sins and receive me with open arms in his kingdom that is drawing very near. Peace and respect and love to everyone🙏🏾
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Pathetic
That’s sad. Live your truth. You are gay be happy and live for yourself. If there is a magical figure in the sky- for a fact-> they will accept you for who you are. They made you and god doesn’t make mistakes.
Amen🙏🏼
@@marylandsworld3428 thats a lie
Homosexuality is a sin and is not of God and I thank God that I was delivered from it. It’s a unnatural desire, not a natural desire.
Think about it, if being gay was caused by childhood trauma or sexual abuse then why would it only affect a minority of people who have experienced those things? You could find two people who had the same experiences of trauma or abuse, one could be straight and one could be gay therefore the argument falls completely flat as it does when a multitude of gay people reveal that they have never experienced those things.
Old comment but whatever.
People have a propensity to react one way or another. Same thing with how some people become addicted to drugs/alcohol and some don’t. I’m sure there are other causes but I think if someone did some research, they’d find abuse of some kind to be a factor in at least 50% of cases. If people were even honest. Because I know, at least in my case, I would have and did lie about it.
@@maddiesun_ Yeah but there’s nothing to say that the abuse caused someone to be gay, I was never abused but I always knew I was gay. It wasn’t a reaction for me, I was just attracted to the same sex. You would probably find some form of abuse or neglect in 50% of cases of heterosexuality as-well.
@@j.c7719 Right, it’s not to say that every gay person has been abused. But I think it’s entirely plausible that something like sexual abuse/exposure to sexual things at a young age could affect sexual attraction. And as I said before, it would only cause homosexuality sometimes because people deal with things differently. A young boy/girl that’s been molested by an older person (or even someone their age, as was my case) of the same sex repeatedly either will grow up thinking it’s completely normal and therefore feel inclined towards continuing their perceived normalcy, or they’ll want to stay as far away from the same sex as possible. Both things have and could happen. (Same thing with how someone with an alcoholic parent could either want to stay completely away from alcohol or they could be even further drawn to it.) I think to not even view abuse as a good possibility for at least some cases would just be intellectually dishonest.
@@maddiesun_ Yes, absolutely, it could be in some cases like that but I do think attraction and love can be a whole separate entity and to relate it to something so dark just takes the joy out of something that is meant to be positive. It’s not for everyone but I just don’t think attraction should be viewed in such a conspiratorial way in life.
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You’ll probably read this and think some or most of it to be subjective and you’d be right; it’s all about how it applies to you or a situation.
Attraction and love are certainly different but they’re also strongly related. Sometimes things are the way they are because of something bad happening, that’s just the way of the world. But that doesn’t mean we have to let it define us; even if it’s so prevalent and impacting our lives. Do you know how badly I’d like to give up and just be the girl who was horribly sick as a child, molested, and who had to watch her abusive father die? That would be easy. What is truly difficult is to look at something and say that this happened to me or is an aspect of me, and I refuse to let it be me. It’s difficult to ask yourself if everything you feel and desire is valid or not. Nobody wants to be wrong or admit that something they’ve let affect them so strongly could potentially be bad for them.
And it’s not to be conspiratorial btw, it’s just a wonder at why some are different than others. One of the many aspects of psychology/sociology that interests me and many others.
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I know a lot of people would be furious at what she is saying, but as someone that has identified as BI since my late teens, I honestly have to agree with a lot of what she is saying. I believe some people are born gay, but I believe many people are not, early childhood trauma seems prevalent regarding sexuality.
Very insightful video.
That’s because you wanted attention as a teen because it’s attractive to men.
When you say born gay do you mean that they naturally will grow up to have attractions to the other sex? Would that constitute being born gay? Wouldn’t this be like saying some people are born p*dophiles? Or even born being into sleeping with animals
God does not want people to practice homosexuality.
@@nonyabusiness3859 That's actually not why. I had been sexually abused by so many men before I even hit 18. I grew a hatered towards men and a drinking problem.
When I met the LGBT community and found I had attraction to some women, I decided to go with it and become a part of that lifestyle. I felt like I belonged somewhere as well. This was who I was meant to be, having no self knowledge..I found my place in the world.
It's different for everyone and it's an extremely complex issue. I do, however, believe that abuse and trauma has a lot to do with sexual behavior. I have friends that are gay and I would never assume they truly arent, But some are actually born gay but many arent. For myself, I do think it had to do with trauma. Mommy issues and daddy issues combined, along with sexual abuse and feeling misunderstood and like you didn't belong anywhere.
"I believe some people are born gay"
Why?
If you acknowledge that people can become that way, it stands to reason that it works either way. Barring irreversible brain damage, with proper instruction and conscious effort, what reason is there for a conscious person to be stuck in their ways?
I think that love just comes in many ways. We cannot choose who we are attracted to and who we love. As long as no one get hurt, I really don't care who sleeping with whom.
Agreed. As long as ur not attracted to kids or animals, I don't mind who u screw
I don’t understand why most people who live their lives as gay make their sexuality their identity? Every thing they do in their life revolves around their sexuality …. I’m gay and there is more to me than being gay, being gay is part of who I am not who I am….. I don’t want to be treated like a person with special needs , being gay never makes you less of a man or a human being….. I’m a chemical engineering student one time, one time i went for a date with this guy , he asked me what is it that I’m studying , I told him chemical engineering , he was surprised , and said gay and engineering don’t go hand in hand …..then he proceeded to say it is too masculine, gays usually prefer something like teaching, acting , dancing, lawyer , a field where i either entertain, have audience, showcase, interact with people 😒😒…
The fewer number of gay people in other countries is not just due to a lack of acceptance and fear amongst the gay community. "Born this way maybe only applies to less than 10% of any population. Gay is more common amongst thriving, rich and safe countries and governments. It is quite interesting
@m_train1 those old civilizations did not collapse just from a lack of balance. They let themselves destroy themselves by allowing garbage, corrupt and perverse ideologies. To stay from the moral and ethical claiming the opposite to be good and those to be bad. To become mentally sick in all manners and glorifying that and those which and whom are wrong, twisted, perverted and evil all in the name of tolerance and being polite.
@@dennisfredericks7626 racist.
@@dennisfredericks7626 More like you live in your own.
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@@karenaltamirano9793 HI KAREN
I reject the idea that just bc that guy didn't have a father, he became gay to get that love he missed.
Studies show that isn't enough to turn someone gay considering the amount of men without a father who aren't gay
I agree. 74% of Black children grow up without a dad yet most of those boy children don’t grow up to be gay. I think true homosexuality is biological
Exactly. So many people in this comment section are so stupid to believe this idiotic preacher who is simply filled with her ignorance about it. She has no idea and doesn't care to know, and still people think she makes sense. Most gay people I know have never been molested or had any more difficult childhood or some parent neglect than most straight people have... that is a very normal part of growing up... life is not easy for people in general but this woman is just trying to gaslight people in my opinion because she doesn't care... she wants to pretend she does but she obviously is very biased and has ulterior motives... She's not as smart as these people in the comments think she is.
I believe Candace can have very strong points, so it was disappointing to see how she used a mocking tone when mentioning gay people not feeling able to come out, when that is a huge part to play. Regardless of whether the country says its illegal or not.
As someone who went through sexual abuse by another girl( I am a girl too and knew I was gay before it happened). Despite fear of being triggered by a woman i still healed and am no longer afraid.
Your true sexuality always comes through regardless of trauma.
2. If we spoke to those gay friends, that the gay conservative spoke about, some of us possibly wouldnt come to his conclusion that they arent truly gay. He has ditched that lifestyle and doesnt care about what his words to do his 'former' communtiy.
Think about it. What better way to bury down your old lifestyle than to invalidate it and treat it like its not in you.
As a gay man who sometimes agrees, sometimes disagrees with your views but still has respect for you, I was really interested to hear your thoughts on homosexuality. But you didn't really talk much about it in this episode. Like besides the marginalised things you went in depth about, what are your views on general same sex attraction and acting on that attraction? You brought up a lot of stories and instances but how do you feel?
@Crazy melon ! Ikr.. but then again Candace never blatantly said anything (positive or negative) about her personal views about homosexuality atleast not that I've seen or heard... Tho her wiki page says she supports LGBTQ marriage rights. But i haven't seen her publicly speaking about it anywhere... Which is why i always look at her skeptically.
@Crazy melon ! Ya... most of her hatred is targeted towards Transgenders and rest of the plus community. Maybe she's one of those kind of people who doesn't have issues with Gays, lesbians and Bisexuals (to an extend atleast) but have issues with everyone else in the community..ik so many such conservatives too. Then again their tolerance for LGB folks end when it comes to us having marriage equality.
Then it automatically makes them their problem. 💀💀
@Crazy melon ! Yeah I'm not sure about it now. I remember she said something about not actually having a problem with gay people but more so the 'movement'. I wouldn't be suprised if she changed her stance but this video doesn't really clear that up either.
Big Candace Owens fan. Also gay, also conservative leaning... but this is a bit silly to me. Yes the LGBTY)*$(W@NOUG**)#@H( community has completely gone off the deep end at this point but estimates for gays and lesbians in society has been around 10% of the population for decades now, so 7% of the population saying they identify as such is hardly a big deal. I also have to say... Candance, please don't go to crazy with the right talking points. Have neither the left or right learned anything. When you push your views too hard, people start to get upset and that's when the pendulum starts to swing in the opposite direction again. Yes, right now the left is the side that's pushing to hard - and rightfully so people are now going UHMM NO, too much, time to push back. But if you start going overboard with conservative ideas, people are going to start pushing back again. What this country needs is some balance. Allow people to live how they want as long as they aren't hurting you or anyone else. No one in the comment section has to approve of my homosexuality, I really don't care, because it's none of your business. The same way you chosing to live out your religion is none of mine. Isn't that the basis of American Freedom. Let's ''fight'' the people who are trying to force us to see the world as they want it, and leave everyone else alone.
AMEN.
Sexuality isn't connected to abuse - if it was all the heterosexual people who were abused as kids or had difficult relationships with their parents would be gay.
"How did we more than double people who identify as lgbt?"
Gee. I don't know. Maybe living in a more open society allows people to be open about their truth?
yes!
I was never abused by anyone. Not even bullied at school. Yet, I'm gay and I love it. I would never ever want to be straight as my life as a gay man in Central London (UK) is beyond amazing. I wouldn't trade it for anything else.
Candace has always been supportive of gay people. She's just against the toxicity that has become lgbtqia culture. I'm curious as to what her current views are or if they've changed at all.
You forgot the C, the R, and the "+" which gets inserted in there someplace.
@@RonInNapa Ben also adds ampersand sometimes 😂
Supportive of gay people? WTH does that even mean? It's not love to support people practicing an immoral lifestyle with all of the associated consequences.
@@g_unit6773 immoral lifestyle lmao choosing to push the narrative that its a choice shows how little you know about this issue
@@g_unit6773
It's not a lifestyle you nonce, if it was I would be able to quit it and magically start being turned on by fish n chips minge, instead of the dong and berries that I actually like.
I considered myself bisexual until I surrendered my life to God. He literally took all those desires away to the point it disgusts me to imagine any kind of sexual interaction with the same sex. She is right in the fact that alot of my problems came from my childhood issues. Absent abusive father that I felt was because I wasn't good enough. Even though I had an amazing adoptive father I still focused on someone who didn't deserve my attention. Then assaulted at a young age and rejected by boys I liked. Even though there were boys asking me out I just didn't focus on them.
I really feel like that is part of all of it, focusing on all the bad in our lives and overlooking the good. We live our lives hyperfocused on our past when Christ Jesus has a new future without all that pain.
😂😂😂😂
@@hunterpope3369 grow up
You surrendered your life to God...that's is one of the creepiest things I have ever read.
@@meghanferrari6501 idc if she’s bisexual or not anymore… but thinking religion can change that is insane
The Holy Spirit in you cannot abide in it.
Lesbian christian conservative here, interesting take for sure. I believe I was just born this way, but I definitely see that there could be a lot of factors involved.
One of my friends was DEFINATELY born lesbian. She pretended to be straight for 10yrs because she was embarrassed about being different. Until she eventually couldn't do it anymore.
Then I have another friend who turned "lesbian" at 30 after a failed marriage and miscarriage. She has a massive lesbian symbol tattooed on her. Yet she sleeps with men still. But also identifies as strictly lesbian 😂 😅😅 so yeah it's a mixed bag. Some are born, some are traumatised into it
Also I believe in God. But I don't believe God hates anyone for their sexuality. Unless their sexuality is hurting others, I guess.
I’m a gay man and there’s pictures of me at Disney world at 4 years old with a towel wrapped around my head because it was my ‘hair’. I was always gay, people knew it before I did.
people claiming to know your sexual preference at 4 years old should tell you all you need to know
i was raised by 2 almost perfect parents. I'm 40 and still gay. I'm surrounded by heterosexuals all day long, my parents educated me, loved me, and there was no trauma from them. I had a perfect childhood. Most kids would be jealous. The trauma actually came from all my peers and other kids taunting me. I'm still gay and i'm still confused on this entire you tube clip of saying that trauma is the gateway to being gay, Not true at all.
same. alsmot lol obviously but yeah, near perfect childhood yet i was bullied from 5 to 14-15 but honestly overall i was so happy, lots of friends always, all straight 😅 im fine...
You clearly didn’t watch the whole video. She said that it’s only a minority of gay people who are truly born gay and do not have trauma that made them that way.
Never one time did she say that all gay people endured childhood trauma. Sorry you heard what you wanted to hear.
She did say 10% of them are truly gay so you might be one of the 10%...
She's pathetic, all conservatives say the same thing...
Sex is for reproduction. Anything else is a product of the ego. And, children are not sexual before puberty so any discussion of children being gay or anything like that is a form of gr00ming.
So I was groomed to be gay when I just wanted to be like the princesses in fairy tales who fell in love with the prince? Lol ok, call it egotistical all you want but I’d rather be happy than alone.
My father left before I was born, and my mother seemed to loathe me. Well, she blamed me for my father leaving so you get the idea.
At 11 I became friends with a girl who was just lovely. We were inseparable. By 12, we were constantly holding hands, hugging etc. Nobody thought anything of it, but I was convinced I was in love. She was convinced as well. And I was Christian.
I remember saying to my auntie that I thought I was a lesbian. All she said was “well, wait and see how you feel when you’re in junior high”. Weird right? No. She was so smart. She knew I desperately wanted affection and so of course I was going to love the person who gave it to me. Who went out of their way to make me feel valued.
Shoot forward a couple of years, and I was head over heels in love with a boy. And never had a same sex attraction as a teen or an adult. But had my perceived belief that I was a lesbian been encouraged, I would have gone down that road.
There is so much more to this than can be discussed here, but sometimes it’s really down to a primal need to belong, to be loved, to be accepted.
I think the problem is we’re labeling children before they have a sense of self, they don’t even know what they don’t know. Maybe we don’t try to box anyone in to anything when they’re children?
From my experience I know this to be true. Much of it is the strong desire for affection and love. If you find that in in someone of the same gender of course you will at the very least experiment with that kind of relationship.
LMFAO, gays literally get sent to conversion camps ms dumn. You wanna talk ab cultural trends that’s what heteros do
I had 5 daughters. The first three in a row. I had homeschooled them their primary years but then placed them in public high school because I thought it would grant them more opportunities for higher ed. I was wrong. This was in the years 2005 +. At that time what we witnessed was schools SAYING they wanted parents to be involved but then excluding us when we attempted to. They also heavily promoted the gay/straight alliance that was anything but. My kids went through a good ten years of figuring out that they were NOT gay. This organization is toxic and should not be promoted and accommodated in schools. What I also note is that each generation wants to out do the last. Better, faster, higher. Whatever it is. They have to go beyond that. Body modifications, drugs, etc etc etc. So I don't think it's one thing. I think it is overall. But once we've stripped down and rearranged ourselves... what is left to do. When is jumping off the cliff not enough anymore. I tell my youngest to start a new trend: Honoring the temple that is your body and houses your soul and keep it clean, pure, and without graffiti. Being a leader is a hard line t walk today.
I went to school around that time and i remember a lot of gay politics around my school. Like, "No H8 on 8" or whatever. When i grew up i realized that was dumb because we couldn't even vote. Why were we constantly bombarded with these posters? We also had LGBT clubs. I remember around my last year of school there was a feud going on between two teachers. There was an LGBT club and i think it was ran by my first period teacher and she was ranting about how another teacher is a bigot and blah blah blah. I then found out that this other teacher started a christian club and for some reason that angered the LGBT teacher? Idk. She's the one who seemed like the bigot to me by not being accepting of other people's beliefs. I'm lucky i graduated pretty much immediately after and got out of the public school system before things got worse. If i ever have kids it's going to be with someone rich so that I'm able to stay home and homeschool them. Teachers these days, grown ups in general these days, are too immature and can't keep personal adult issues to themselves and out of the workplace.
@@terenarosa4790 You know they just expected the community would hate it and made it all hush and taught the kids to hide it from their parents. There was an after school witches club in the grammar school but Christian clubs were prohibited. They've been brainwashing for a lonnnnggg time now. I had such a close relationship with my daughters until GSA woman got a liking for her. When things didn't work out, my daughter spent a year in depression and to this day has never spoken to me about it. My kids stopped believing they could talk to me. When we were so close. Now that they are in their 30s and can see that manipulation with their own kids in school.... they get it. But at the cost of our family. Some are too proud to talk about it, some are embarrassed. I just leave the door open for when/if they are ready to address it. We lost their dad, my husband of 33 years in 2017 which just makes them ... ugh.. so much damage. THEY feel they can't come back from. That's my point. No matter how hard we try to be good parents, this happened, To my beautiful girls. My beautiful family. And now, my beautiful grandkids. We are fractured,
yu are awful, and i hope ur kids will be able to express themselves one day, and explore themselves without yu breathing down their neck
We home schooled our children, and protected them from social media until they were seniors in highschool. We were by no means perfect, but we tried very hard to shield them from most of pop culture.
When they started college, they were shocked culturally by how practically most of the first year kids had to have remedial math, science, etc, and most couldn't read or write with any proficiency.
But the most shocking thing they felt with was the fact of how many were proudly coming out to them as gay or bisexual. It was like they were trying to impress them of how on the cutting edge they were, as the faculty was giving those student "favored" status in the class, and especially if the class was non science related. And this was a so called "Christian" College!
Needless to say, our kids( Son & Daughter) both excelled academically, and had little involvement in campus social activities.
I Thank The Lord daily they have both grown into very responsible people, married, and are now parents themselves. I give God all the credit for the fact, they missed non of the craziness, and self destructive things so many young people have to deal with these days.
Great job!! I will be homeschooling my daughter as she is getting older. I don't want her exposed daily to the goofiness that is being run through our young people and schools. She is not sheltered, but doesn't need a daily bombardment of this junk.
🏀 @Tiffany 🏈 Q 🏀. It 🏈 doesn't matter what friends and family say. Our kids were socialized at church and other activities. But we didn't allow them to other kids home until we really knew 5he family and they were much older . We caught flak from others and we just kept going.
You can do it too.
Just remember that no one will ever care about your kids wellbeing as you. God bless and walk in victory!
Never got “favored status” as a Gay guy in school.
@Tiffany Q.
LGB people are part of life. Hiding it from them, will not make them straight. Was raised in a Christian household, where the only time I’ve heard about LGB being a thing, was when the pastor and those around me were telling me how “wicked” it is. I didn’t even know it was a thing, until I got to high school. I knew I was attracted to the same sex, but thought every boy felt that way, but married women. I was only exposed to heterosexual relationships and only thought it could be that way. When I got to the teenage years, I realized all the boys were talking about girls and I couldn’t relate to them. I lied and pretended to be straight, because that was the only acceptable way to be back then. I’m now a gay man, and no amount of shaming and hiding it changed it.
What does this have to do with homosexuality ?
can we not beat around the bush and admit that widespread porn addiction and the easy access to pornography online is really the catalyst and how weve gone into completely new directions, new preferences. its not always some kind of trauma, in many cases it could be very early access. sorry to dumb it down but i think we tip toe around this major factor
Absolutely!!!! Look up video on "Islam and porn addiction "
Homosexuality has existed since the beginning of time
@@mhorworshipper7456 she is talking past just homosexuality. my point is its not just trauma to blame. there are many behaviors and proclivities that one can develop ...and never be satiated. but sure - since the beginning of time... just a few more tools and possibilities nowadays. porn is not to be taken too lightly, it is mpacting how far things can go- as though it is never enough, it's so commonplace and hiding in plain sight and yet we cant undo the access and ppl being accommodated to this extent. so, why dont we stop blaming other convenient influences and predictable factors (its easy to say it's their fault - candace only has one target- it never changes). blame porn in general instead of scolding people for what they inevitably fell into.. oh but heavens forbid they take our porn away right.
this woman is really not credible, this is insane
Gay people are people of God just like the rest of us. Its not up to anyone to police the sins others make. You can love the sinners and hate the sin .. and we are ALL sinners.
You can also sin without pushing it on other people especially children but they do it so your point is what
"Go and sin no more"
JESUS
The Bible puts gays in the same category as thieves, and adulterers. Should we stop policing thieves, and stop condemning men who sleep around and destroy their marriage? What kind of society would we live in if everyone does the opposite of what God has condemned.
Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.
I Corinthians 6:9-11 .
@@fh1980ram how does two men kissing robbe you out of your possession.? How? That’s not the same category and I’m pretty sure you’re lying
Personally i think most Gen Z who identify in Lgbtq do so becaause its trendy
Sorry buddy that’s not the case.
@@Error_-ct2vp I think some cases are the case. You'd be surprised .
@@Error_-ct2vp it is the case, if being bisexual is natural why do so many young women identify with it
@@Simplelivingslowliving no I wouldn’t. Because it’s fairly obvious if people only do it for the thrill or the attention. You do realize that straight men can kiss each other and not mean anything right?
@@Tomodance33 is that an issue? Because women and men are attractive to them? So many men do as well? This comment makes no sense. Your sexuality is natural and you are both with it. It can’t be “changed” or “altered” because it’s not a choice, trust me I know/