Jordan Peterson: Antisocial psy.cho.pathic males
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"Don't practice what you don't want to become"
Thats POWERFUL because you see so many good people go bad by just dipping their toe in dishonest/manipulative behavior
Yeah that’s why I don’t run heavy slam wailord, I don’t wanna be bad
@@willkershisnik5893 lmao, I didn't even see the og commenter's name until I read your comment and thought, "wait, did verlisify comment here!?"
good advice.. heres one from me.. practise what you dont want to become.. meaning.. always pay attention to excersising the negative dismissal of what you dont want to be.
Trust me, you will eventually become what you dont want to be, if you do not always dismiss or reject that which you dont want to be.
Because life is in nature "BECOMING" something...
Could’ve been me this year. I had a certain someone save me. Now she’s not here any more. It’s all my fault.
@Dr. Mantis Toboggan Nuance is completely lost on you, isn't it? Can tell by your speech, how aggressive you are towards a stranger and how you jump to such an extreme example, that you're totally missing the point. Apparently not that obvious to you. I'd be more careful with your word choice, because your use of "vacuous" seems like a subconscious critique of your own perspective.
Wow at least some college kids are getting their money's worth
Not the cute Asian girl in the middle of the class who is doing Facebook and e-mail.
TaiChiGhost you call that cute?
@@TaiChiGhost
Wtf she is ugly af
@@rango9404 How can you even tell? You can barely see her. She's hidden behind the girl with the earrings in the middle the entire time. Oh wait nvm...you can see her...and I definitely wouldn't say she's ugly. Personal opinion I guess, but I think she's pretty cute.
@Chef Jeff yea that's true, but they get to ask him questions.
"Don't practice what you don't want to become"
One on the best advise ever.
You will always become what you are, in a roundabout way.
"One on the best advise ever." I don't think there's any salvaging that sentence, but I'll try: "One of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard."
@CJ2 "Practice" and "become" not simply "do." It's the practice of behavior that forms habits. Do you see the difference now?
@Matt Glass Expound if you can.
@Matt Glass It's clear that neither of us know what you're talking about.
Don’t be afraid of strangers; rather don’t trust them until they stop being a stranger
I am the one being stranger in my own life, trust issued
Id take it a step further: The foundation is no one can be trusted. The playing field is leveled in the Anyone can fall at any time.
And even then when you get to know them trusting them is not wise
The only person you can trust is yourself and then for some people they betray even themselves.
@@marlom7882 Absolutely true, because One is betrayed not by strangers but by the one who is very close and trusted by you
“Do not practice what you don’t want to become”
Brilliant
outthasky That was the best thing any professional has ever stated
I grew up getting my ass beat every day for not being black. I almost died more times than I had years, but I have long since passed that. I attribute that to doing the opposite, to understand and deal with violence be violence. Glad I lived long enough to move, as while that choice increased my odds it's still a bad idea.
I'm down with the Tex-Mex now but I can't even speak Spanish so it's hard to connect with some of 'my people' because I grew up different. If a young buck challenges me they let me bitch out and I can be in peace. Now I hope I'm old enough not to be noticed.
Where I draw the line and what I would die for hasn't changed. Still no clue on what I want to become, but I did put into practice what I didn't want to be. I guess I just adapted.
Reminds me of that one quote from Nietzsche:
"Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you."
Excellent
“Do not practice what you don’t want to become”
Idk... *Maybe, most people don't have self-control.
(I'm not afriad to dip into Dark Magic when it suits me)
I use to scam my Friend(s) account information on World of Warcraft in a variety of different ways-
(I never stole any items or gold, I changed the password, but I always gave it back or walked them through the retrieval process)
*I did use it as a rather harsh life lesson, to which I'd try an articulate in the hopes of them learning and possibly preventing malicious actors accomplishing the same goal.(I would change their password, strip them of all their items and send their gold to an alt, then once their hearthstone was deleted and all their gear was Safely stored in the Bank, I would proceed on the long journey to an opposing faction's major city and leave them logged-out naked in hostile territory in compete despair) *It's borderline indecent, putting someone throw that ordeal, but I think it's character building. (They really thought they lost everything) -But then they would realize that it wasn't a malicious hacker just a cruel joke from a questionable friend and they get that extreme relief upon realizing their belonging are still on their account) xD Good Times
“Don’t practice what you do not want to become.” Jordan Peterson
That's very true...jordan was so busy "red-pilling everyone" he turned to pills and became a junkie to deal with his problems in life.
is it wrong to say this is a double negative? So youd change it to "practice what you want to become" ? Genuinely curious if thats right to say or not.
@yew 2oob
Doesn’t change the fact that he’s correct and your ideology is evil
@@Sailorjerry46 Correct? About what? His 12 rules lead to him having to get into a 12 step program. You're role model is a junkie.
@@yew2oob954 you're an idiot and a junkie if you think that's the case
"Everything you let win the internal argument grows; and everything that you don't let win shrinks." I'mma keep that for life.
that quote can save lives. unfortunately, the people who need to hear it will intentionally not comprehend this in order to continue to not change.
True. :-/
Life works in a weird way, eh?
I have heard it as inside each of us are two beasts; one good, one bad. They are in constant battle with each other. The one that will win is invariably the one we feed the most.
Its simple. Goto gym today or not? Wich will win. Thats what will grow. Productivity vs laziness.
Gold. Getting it on a canvas.
I hate school so much, I go though, take roughly 15-20 hrs a semester. And I can’t sit still to focus through 5 mins. I can watch his videos for hours. Crazy the difference in teaching and story telling. THANK U JORDAN
I wonder if your perspective would change if you had to wake up at 5 everyday to watch his videos lol
You're likely getting burned out with that many hours, no matter how bright or motivated you are. Also, since you're struggling w/ attention in school but riveted by these lectures, maybe reconsider if your major really aligns well with your interests and personality (although burnout can sometimes cloud that). For me this semester, withdrawing just one class (which I've never done before) changed my whole mindset, from dragging my miserable self through the semester to being back on the ball, positive and motivated. Good luck to you.
Maybe your just disagreeable and you only listen when you chose what it is.
@@albinaltebornProbably just like most the world
@@sadieharris5767 yeah I got burned out with part time about to quit college altogether ended up getting an adderall script now I'm full time with perfect grades. Gotta find what works for you
Great point about raising your kids to be socially smart not scared.
I second that. I wish I didn't have an SOB of a father. I wasn't allowed to socialize outside of school and sheltered. Abused at the same time. Now I'm very socially awkward and anxious outside of predictable routine interactions.
I cant complain since i did it to myself,haha
Køltira Memeweaver I feel ya dude. Sucks being social awkward especially when trying to be with a girl.
I agree that kids should be raised socially well-adapted and bold, but they should still be taught caution, such as not opening doors to strangers, especially without even asking who is behind the door; and just general common sense, such as not following adults who are bigger and stronger into areas where they can easily corner and overpower you.
I agree that people here tend to take it into extremes both ways. I grew up in a different country, and played with others and by myself mostly unsupervised since the time I was four, and that was despite the fact that in that place and during those times it was a _very_ real danger to get kidnapped off the streets. That's why I was taught to be cautious around adults I did not know, and such an upbringing did help me (as a kid) on a few occasions. Though I guess that feeling intimidated by strangers, and simply being wary of them until you are sure that their intentions aren't malicious are two different things. Just because you are cautious about approaching strangers who are bigger and stronger than you, it does not mean that you will therefore be timid and shy about it if they actually try to hurt you.
"Don't practice what you do not want to become"
I love this guy
Kinda like Nietzsche said.
_"If you gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you."_
What if you can't and you are constantly forced to do it anyway?
I bet
111 111 then you are partly defined by your acquaintance to that thing, and party defined by either your compliance or resistance to it, or any variations in between.
That hit me too. He’s right about the neurological pathways, coming from a place of social anxiety to focusing on what I want, it’s incredibly powerful.
Teach your children to be courageous and keep their damn eyes open. So true for today’s world.
"Don't practice what you do not want to become"... " you've got to be careful what you say and what you do because you build yourself that way"
Psychopaths don't have to move around if they become politicians. Perfect job for them to use their skills.
Live Free and doctors. the corrupt establishment system is on their side.
Yes! Exactly! Are there any board unemployed Psychopaths out there that are willing to "Game of Thrones" these politicians? It seems the Lannisters and many others love to cut out the Liars tongues! Sounds like a job opportunity.
Socio-paths is more where Australian Politicians are at such as our PM Scott Morrison.
CEO’s are 4 times more likely to be psychopaths than the general population.
Sociopaths are better politicians. Psychopaths lack the need for validation that the sociopath has.
An old Cherokee Chief is teaching his grandson about life. “A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy.
“It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.”
He continued, “The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too.”
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?”
The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”
Great stuff, Im stealing it!
intx123 the war continues
Great...Now I'm hungry.
Mellivora Capensis lmao troll
J Circ what movie is that from?
His little segment about kids and strangers hit home real hard. As a 90s kid, Stranger Danger was drilled into and how I should be very scared about leaving my dads side(Meanwhile he was a mostly free range kid growing up). Survived my early childhood with no threats, Only to enter my teenage years and find out the hard way that its not strangers who I should be concerned about, its those closest to me.
And that danger would come in the form of one of my friends at 13 years old. Took many years to get over that trauma.
I hope you are ok
Yeah? What happened?
I was a 90's kids, too. We played outside passed the streetlights turning on. We would built shafty ramps and jumped them with our boards, scooters and rollerblades. We built makeshift wrestling rings and body slammed each other, giving the kid on the ground the people's elbow. Yeah, we were taught to be careful, don't talk to strangers and what not, but from what I experienced, we were free range as you would put it. It's funny because crime is down today compared to than. The streets are literally safer. I'm starting to get a feeling this is a "back in my day" type of deal.
@@TheSonOfDumb My friend decided that he wanted to experiment sexually with me the rough way. So somehow between watching and getting absorbed into porn, as well as becoming a horny teenager, he made the leap in logic that rape was the move to make( probably from porn I bet).
As a result, I spent nearly a decade traumatized and very confused. Coupled with being Autistic it turns out and having suffered from other kids never really socializing with me. You can see how this would seriously fuck a person up. Thankfully I got over my trauma and had made a good group of friends by my late teens and early 20s, which really helped me grow out of that void of misery I call my teenage years. Today you wouldnt know I was traumatized by that or had a serious lack of social skills when I was younger, And I'm fine with talking about it. I think the only real damage it did was it made me bi.
@@Unknown-jz6nf Sorry for the year late reply, but yes. I'm okay. Very much happy and okay. I'm also doing very well in life despite current inflationary perdicamnets.
"Don't practice what you do not want to become. " Best advice ever
Thank you for spelling “advice” correctly. Amazing how many people say “advise”.
Imagine a psychopath on the front row thinking "s't! Um, yeah thats me... I'll just look at my fingernails for the rest of the lecture, great now he's looking at me"
just cause someone looks at there fingernails they are this is a complete garbage way to judge someone. This is a very dangerous way to teach others that going into health field to pay attention to wrong details in general and then pass judgment on such things is so wrong.
😂😂😂
There's psychopathy in all of us
@@ScamSociety11_11 I dont think he's using that as an example to diagnose someone psychopathic, but rather something to keep an eye out for if you think someone is manipulating you.
not is he only looking at you but he's looking at the whites of your eyes 👀
How lucky do you have to be, to have Jordan Peterson as your professor? /:
We do, on RUclips...
Holy shit hello there, this isn’t the first time I’ve seen you comment on things lmao what are the chances of finding you here
If you had Carl Sagan as a professor you'd be lucky. This verbose idiot? Not so much. He's articulate but misguided.
Kyle Gilger And your proof of him being misguided?
@@idontlikecaps8823 that's awesome, where have you seen my comment?
Beginning of 27 years working in prison i fell for a lot of cons from the psychos, but after 20 some years I was a black belt in seeing through people. Working with these guys for over 8 hours a day, 27 years is an experience not even Jordan Peterson can rival.
But prison is literally designed for those type of people lol what did you expect??
@@ScarFeiss I wasn't expecting, I was conveying who has more psychological experience in working with these kind of people.
What about the psychopaths you were working with 😆
@@TheCarnivoreConnection I worked with a serial rapist (employee) for 20 years. Yes you are correct, psychos on both sides.
@Hubster geez what a coworker lol
Ends on a great point, one of my favorites: "Don't teach your children to be afraid; teach them to be courageous."
Everyone turns into a doctor in the comment section.
Ségvvülf .308 I just noticed. Lol. It’s hilarious.
RUclips University
Not me man im just hear to troll its probably do to my cerebral cortex being much larger then most😉
Type shit 😂😂
... and Mister Hyde🤖😒
Loved the last bit about raising your children in full awareness of such individuals and equipping them with the right gear to defend themselves. Amazing!
After losing all in a 4 year divorce to a sociopath. Its hard not to blame my parents.
You'll scare the crap outta them with that.
@@PG-je2yj your parents don't know how to protect against sociopaths either
20 times more men than women in jail? Why don't we do anything about this gender jail gap?
@@rocker99908 Correct. Recognising a few common tricks won't help you against someone that has a nearly endless bag of pre-made ones.
I had an old boss who I’m convinced was a psychopath. His father in law owned the business so he was immune from any repercussions. He made us erect a 15 foot iron gate to keep anyone from entering our department and it was chained and only he had a key. I realised slowly that something was very wrong with him but when it did click he knew I knew instantly and he fired me.
The description section is brilliant, thank you!!!
Some of my strongest memories as a younger child we’re of my father standing up for things. Skipping line or being rude. It didn’t matter, right was right. Forgotten too easily these days!
I couldn't agree more, but a lot of other peoples "right" is very different to ours.
@Magic no actually you're more into making money but if your function or act right , you can still make 💰 . Actually you can always make money
@Magic great morals buddy 😂🤜🏽
Hopefully not too petty about line skipping
I half to agree being culturally British we always have to cue up in line but I absolutely hate it with a passion. People are so obsessed with their "keeping the line in order" my taughts are make another one and stop wasting my time its enough your taking my money but not my time as well.
The bit where he mentioned about the eyes just completely blew my mind
David Ortiz starts at 7:09
I know right? That's honestly a very interesting fact to think about, and puts just how social we are as beings into perspective.
You could say it was an eye-opener
Is it actually factually true though?
Dogs will not instinctively follow your finger if you point but your eyes. They can learn to connect the finger with pointing ofcourse.
One of the best tasks I’ve seen yet, containing specific advice.
Female psychopathic behavior is way underreported, understudied, and underestimated.
6:10 "don't practice what you don't want to become" is the most powerful statement in this video.
Agreed .. I really enjoyed how he explained it.
It's also a very important advice for the curious types, sometimes they want to try something out and that might be to manifest a different persona to see what kind of reaction others give to their behavioral traits. Also to find out how it would feel to them personally when given those certain reactions.
And about as general as a fortune cookie or a horoscope.
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*Google Products* I hear you man. This world has become pretty meek. Its funny watching a professor teaching these days. Why is everyone quiet? No interruptions? No questions? In my days, I would be the first one to jump in, but these kids seem mesmerized by JP. Times have changed and it seems the youth is getting dumber and dumber by the day. Cheers to all that do not conform.
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind."
The eyes Chico, they never lie.
Francisco Sousa 😂
Nice
Not true though
That's only true for horny people
Sociopaths eyes appear to change color but unfortunately you have to have their attention to notice it.
Eyes are the windows to the soul!
the amount of sense and crucial information he manages to cram in his videos as opposed to other people and channels/media etc always bedazzles me, if i had a therapist like him twice a week i probably would be cured in half a year instead of 7
The truest test of character is what one does when there's no one watching. The truest test of friendship is what one does when 'the shit hits the fan'. Good character is not gifted, it is developed.
JP nails it around 4:45 --- many people aren't "good" per se, they're just cowards afraid of being caught. Transport them into a situation where they can act with complete impunity, and they will turn into monsters. If you've ever seen the show Westworld, this is illustrated beautifully. Or if you've ever played any sort of RPG video game. Sometimes when people are free to act without restriction or judgement, the true "them" emerges.
SSPspaz Everyone who goes to Westworld doesn't see the androids there as human, the premise of the show is some of the androids begin exhibiting freewill because they are such advanced systems. The humans who go to Westworld exhibit a lack of intelligence is all, it isn't the psychopathy you think many would do as they want if there were no consequences because they don't see the androids as human, the same applies to open world and RPG games, people are fully aware these are not real humans and things.
Peterson and his drones are psychopathic that is clear, with the blind worship of a man who claims psychopathy is a good thing, so we know of whom you talk about who are cowards and only the fear of reprisals stops them. We've always know criminals have always existed, for most of you it is a choice backed you think by a narcissistic view of human nature.
NightKingSlayer, your comment is so laughably unclear and disjointed that it hardly warrants a response. I shouldn't feed the troll, but apparently I'm a glutton for punishment. So here we go...
1) Exactly how do "Jordan Peterson and his drones" exhibit psychopathy?
2) Where does Peterson claim that psychopathy is a good thing? In my experience, most of his lectures warn against psychopathic and sociopathic behaviors. A clinician who encourages pathological behaviors wouldn't be a very good clinician haha
3) Your claim that I'm a blind Peterson follower is baseless and unverified. Do you have any evidence? I agree with him on this particular topic, and that's all that is relevant here.
4) How is JP's view of human nature narcissistic?
As for Westworld, I'm quite aware of the show's premise. Of course the guests don't view the hosts as human, but that's ultimately irrelevant. Westworld exists solely as a means for people to act out their fantasies - noble, moral, psychopathic, or otherwise. For some, it is a "safe" outlet for them to practice their underlying psychopathies. The same goes for open world RPGs and sandbox games like GTA.
Do violent video games create mass shooters and serial killers? Of course not. But are people who exhibit such antisocial behaviors in their fantasies (whether in their minds, in Westworld, or in a video game) more likely to be sociopaths or psychopaths in real life? Certainly! Many serial killers for instance, begin by fantasizing in their minds. Eventually they move on to torturing and killing animals. But it's never enough. Eventually, they must move on to human victims because they become obsessed with their power to inflict suffering and end life.
So are all the guests in Westworld psychopaths? Of course not. Neither is everyone who's ever played GTA or Red Dead. But do such experiences provide an outlet for people who have deep-seated issues? Absolutely.
SSPspaz, Oh dear a silly little liar no surprise there, psychopathic behaviour with delusions, what I've said is factually correct concerning Peterson's view on psychopathy.
You are not aware of Westworld's premise at all, you gave a hilariously hackneyed rightwing take on Westworld, I told you what it's really about there's no debate you really think what people do in video games means they would do so in real life if there was no fear of reprisals, what's what you said HAHAHAHA. YOU would do so and will probably do so at some point in your life regardless of if you played video games or not.
Video games do not create 'mass shooters and serial killers', they have the propensity genetically for such by nature, but also nurture the glorification of liars, thieves and murderers in corporate government 'culture'. Video games will always exist as entertainment, while the animalistic rightwing 'culture' of narcissism will not. And no that 'culture' is not the only one that exists it has always been what low intelligence people have resorted too disrespect for everything because such people have a severe doubt about themselves they have developed strategies to avoid.
stephen miller, It's a shame for you that that 'experiment' was a lie by rightwingers like yourself attempting to give a dark view of human nature:
'Stanford's Most Famous Psychology Experiment Is a 'Fraud,' a 'Sham,' and a 'Lie''
The Lifespan of a Lie'
The study has been controversial over the years, but the recent focus is the result of the work of a Ph.D and journalist named Ben Blum. Among his findings, based on recently found footage and audio recordings, along with a French filmmaker's work on the subject, Blum says:A "prisoner" who famously had a breakdown after hours in fact was just fine--but acting--as he admitted in an interview with Blum last summer. "Guards" who supposedly began acting sadistically of their own accord (basically the entire main takeaway of the experiment) had in fact been coached and told to do so. "Guards" who supposedly came up with their own strict rules for the prisoners, in fact copied them from an earlier, much shorter "fake jail" experiment--or learned them from a former San Quentin inmate who served as a consultant on the project.'
www.inc.com/bill-murphy-jr/a-new-report-says-stanfords-most-famous-psychology-experiment-is-a-fraud-a-sham-a-lie.html
Oh there are sadists and psychopaths, it's just not the average person it's you and your mentally challenged group. You are the people who need to be kept away from normal people.
NightKingSlayer, so no real counterpoint then? Such a shame. I had such high hopes for you, troll. Your entire rambling response was nothing more than a giant ad hominem attack without any substantive point. Just paragraphs of incomprehensible word salad full of big words and grammatical errors, written by someone desperately trying to sound intelligent.
You clearly couldn't backup your previous statements, which is shown by the fact that you wrote a massive wall of text but somehow managed to ignore all 4 of my posited questions. You couldn't give a single instance where Peterson promoted psychopathy as a positive trait, nor could you explain how his views on psychology are narcissistic, nor could you provide any sort of proof that I'm some sort of rabid Peterson worshipper. Checkmate bitch. Move along.
6:10 "Don't practice what you do not want to become." What a brilliant and profound statement.
It's basic common sense thinking
@Barbare4032 I'd say you are truly tired of the person you hate. When you are....you will make it happen. Try harder and honestly
@Barbare4032 that's it. Apparently I'm also tired of using my words haha!!
@Barbare4032 negative. I said try HARDER....than you already are. And MORE honestly than what you already are.
@Barbare4032 well dang. I was rooting for you lol. I was basically saying.....dont quit and keep trying but dang. And don't kill yourself over a trolls. I'm not sure what that is but keep your head up.
First ten seconds, and you know this man is no misogynist. He flatters no one, man or woman.
It's part of the blowback. He shines a light on the rotten corners of everyone's souls, intending to help them fix their problems. That doesnt always turn people on to him.
Essential Truth - can't share this video with the se-xist title. Edit the title. There are as many ev-il women as men.
@@Avenus112 One of the few areas where he is wrong and needs to change his terminology - he says females are more ag-reeable. As most have experienced, he is using the wrong term. Women are probably more 'Convinceable' after their long em-otional di-sagreements.
"All the information is in the eyes!" We knew this but still, we had to be told by the Prof.
Not true at all you can train yourself to deceive it’s like they say liars look right when they lie well the liar can just train himself to look the other way eyes are not a good way to evaluate someone in fact it sounds like a good way to play yourself
Next level above staring at fingernails: sitting in the front row, slurping noodles and texting!
John's Fitness and Strength Slurping earns a snapped neck.
It put me in a rage. Missing such a good lecture.
texting is more importang then this lecture for her -_-
ikr! i hate her so mucH!
I kinda appreciate it. The rest of the students didn't seem relaxed, almost as if posturing for the camera or worried about self image. I mean, I'm eating noodles and it's not hampering my ability to listen.
But yeah, the texting is rude AF.
What is most horrifying about meeting and befriending a psychopath, is that once you start realizing they’re psychopaths and try to call them out on their behavior towards you, they know exactly how to make you feel like the bad guy and turn the table on you. You have to learn to be smarter than them in that moment or down then line eventually in order to rise above their argumentative/manipulative nature.
That depends on what you’re talking about.
If they’re like that, wouldn’t it be better to stop talking to them at all?
It just seems like the most reasonable option, to not play their game at all
i know this sort of behaviour from experience......the trick, ironically is, to become a bit a psychopath yourself to take rigourous measures without blinking. Not necessarily and not preferably violent (unless you are are forced to ofcourse) but outsmart them. Take them on their weakest points yourself. Without mercy.
@@wammo405 yes. As a person who has aspd, walk away. If I can keep you talking eventually I will get what I want, and I'm the past it would have been by any means necessary. Thinking you could ever be smarter than the person running the game you will lose every time. Even if you figure out the rules to the game it's not the only one your playing, and I'm the one who makes the rules anyways so they can change at any time. I do my best not to be that person anymore, but people like me in general are like this and it's hard to change. I have to question everything I do.
There is so much good advice in this video, it really is a gem.
"don't practice what you do not want to become" pure wisdom.
I have known at least two major psychopaths and got drawn in, and what amazes me is how great I thought they were in the beginning. They go to enormous lengths to build themselves up and most people around them don't have a clue and refuse to believe anything bad about them. But once you have them pegged every move of theirs is obvious and you can't believe you were sucked into their world.
Guided Meditation Stop marrying them
fMuIcNkD If youre an adult and had a job it almost certainly did happen to you already. compare psychopaths to predator (they literally are human predators). What would you tell a fish if he asked how to avoid a shark?
Gobobo If fish could talk and formulate questions that’s a whole new ball game.
How does one begin to break their psychopathic tendencies?
@@DrNaCl death. That's the only way
Don't practice what you do not want to become. That stuck with me.
Colton Beed, Me too.
That's school
Yeah yeah
Colton Beed Thats why its best not to whack off...otherwise we just become almighty wankers lol!
@@DeuceBiggerHo dammit
We’re always watching each others eyes constantly. What’re you up to? What’re you looking at? What do you want? And I want to know because if I know what you want I can predict how you’re gonna behave, And that also means I can cooperate with you, Or I can compete with you, Or I can lie to you. But all the information is in the eyes surrounded by the facial display because that’s also an indication motivation and emotion.
I really think schools should have lessons like this. Maybe some already do...but I know the schools around here don't. I think it would have such an impact on people as they're growing up. The same goes for communication...lessons on communication with each other I think would be so beneficial.
I'm very grateful for being able to watch these videos on here and so bloody grateful for Jordan Peterson.
Why aren’t my college classes this interesting
because u freely chosed to listen this class. At school u don't
Also because his college professors are more than likely not as smart as Peterson.
// , This is real talk, not your glorified overpriced obedience training.
Your college classes are serious and this video is a bunch of hooey.
Nate B lmao overpriced obedience training
In this topic, Peterson discusses, "What's a psychopath?"
The more important question, however....
Did you clean your room?
Dan Seas you know, your comment is actually quite relevant. Psychopaths have impaired hygiene notions, unusually low disgust responses and they tend to have an impaired sense of smell.
www.springer.com/about+springer/media/springer+select?SGWID=0-11001-6-1390146-0
Dan Seas psychopaths are very clean, neat people. More than likely they already cleaned their room!
Melissa Alexandra Jarquin didn't know that you two, thanks!
I convinced some stupid idiot to do it out of sympathy and compassion. What a sucker
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Just saw this today. He's really excellent. He seems to be going through some personal hell at the moment though. Hope he can recover.
This is very true. I grew up in the streets and can attest to the dopamine hits you receive when you commit the undesirable action. I got out of that mess by joining the military to replace my undesired action with more dangerous actions and risks of the military. Had to find that new fix. This man is a genius =,
Motivated to keep working to get to where you are at. Serving the country !
3:39 Asian girl immediatelly applies what she has learnt.
She's trying to find her rice box.
Russ Canduit why?
5:55 her friend does the same
It is learned not learnt
shaka mata _ African pride stfu
Are you a good person, or are you just never an a place where you could be bad? Then once your givin a chance to be bad you jump on that. I feel like that's 75% of the world.
People dont jump to become bad just because theres a chance cause most human beings are like that
If I knew I could get away with it I for sure would have given on to some of the impulsive thoughts when I've gone through the most stressing moments of my life. I'm sure anyone who has been bullied like I was had the thought of killing their bully to get it over with, because suicidal thoughts aren't the only option, homicidal thoughts are a posibility, but of course we have the filters before we act, and consider the moral impacts and punishments to face after acting upon those ideas. So yes, and it's been proven by experiments, people who are otherwise "good" will still commit the most heinous acts if they are made to believe they can get away with it or it's being socially accepted by their peers.
@@lovelyhomeboy2782 actually it's the exact opposite. when people feel like they can be bad without any punishment for it, they will be.
"if you want to test a man give him power upon other men, what he does with that power will speak for him".
Mcgregor
wow so many gems in this it s insane, bravo
It is remarkable how insightful and brilliant Jordan Peterson‘s mind works! Jordan Peterson is cliché as it sounds change my life after learning from years of his lessons and reading his book. I was almost $100,000 in debt I lost everything went through a nasty divorce I had absolutely nothing to live for and I’m now in the best financial position by far I’ve ever been in and I also found my soulmate. Jordan is truly inspirational and a man of men!! As a young kid I always pictured politicians judges and policeman in this light. For some reason I had the notion this is what good people do and say yet we have none of that in our political realm and most of the law-enforcement is horrendous..
it would be amazing for Jordan Peterson to teach our leaders and lawmakers how to discern good and evil and how to implement the right laws!!
sociopaths test you with lies. if you do not call them out and stand up to them then and there out of politeness then you just gave them a green light. be rude
@Skate614 this is how i catch them before they can do damage. they learn that I know what they are doing and how I won't take their shit. they test strangers like this all the time.
dann hienn physicians do that.
you toy with them and play mind games with them. They're so God damn dumb . It's so much fun.
@@christinah.8504 yes they are fucking retards. They are not creative or intelligent. All they are is manipulative and have a few mind games which is witchcraft. I had a couple of them come at me this week when I was working for them. they shit themselves when I got in their faces and called them out on what they were trying to do. They were shocked that I knew what they were attempting to do to me. they backed down real fast and tried to assure me that it is nothing personal and they do this to a lot of people. Just pay close attention to how you feel. If you feel confused around someone then stop and look what is really going on. this is literal witchcraft.
Compulsive liars aren't necessarily sociopaths.
Jordan Peterson is the grandfather or uncle I never had..
YVG 100th like. YESS
Nobody ever had a relationship with a man like this one
He isn't old enough to be your grandfather. Uncle maybe.
Brilliant guy. Very much worth listening to.
When he mentioned you never were somewhere where you could be bad, reminded of the masses of people in 2020 who suddenly became looters. It seemed like everyone within miles participated. So you have basically another level where once the majority or even a large enough group starts doing it, they also have to participate. Then the following month, they collectively wonder why their stores are all closing down.
That's herd mentality for you bro
Yep and no one ever actually got punished because they hid behind a Civil Rights cause that they don’t believe in like cowards yet they wonder why injustices still happen look how MKJ helped fight racism he didn’t riot and cause panic or violence even when they were attacked in the street and he is the reason that changes were made
@@davebryan1890 Just like the GOP pandering to their voter bases freedoms. Let them not wear masks and be anti-vaxx so they all die off lol.
@@xanderlaskey2753 Fk you and your "only agreeable protest that doesn't disturb my sense of entitlement is valid" take 🤡🤡
@@thetrickisirarelyrespond5945 Entitlement nigga what shit are you on can you not read
I'm so glad that girl in the front row is browsing her facebook to show the world how focused she is on the lecture.
@ 5:28
It's much more reasonable to assume she is taking notes... why would you assume the worst about her?
He totally called them out on it too!
Content is on the computer pertaining to the class....whitmyre?
Richard Wise she's scrolling threw her newsfeed lol
You understand these types of people until they f*** you up the a**
I'm not sure about the fine distinction between sociopaths and psychopaths but I grew up with a father who's in this category and also a mother who was a narcissist . Once you understand them then you can spot them from a mile away - my only advice is to put distance between yourself and someone with this type of personality disorder .
yeah man it's sad but mandgable from a distance.
Andy Nixon good advice. The problem is that you can't always do that.
Melissa Alexandra Jarquin I know what you mean , you can be trapped in situations that aren't easy to escape from with a psychopath , like having one as a boss or as a partner or a close family member . But once you do free yourself then you can spot one through previous experience - easier said than done I know but the knowledge gained definitely makes you stronger .
Andy Nixon yes so true! My mom is a Narcissist. It was very hard and still is hard to distance myself from her but I have and I continue to.
My ex-fiance... that could have been really bad if the marriage had happened.
Good advice in the end
8:25 thanks for pointing that out in a real good way, Jordan.
He's too good at lectures, this 9 minutes was so packed with knowledge that some hour long lectures might not have.
What would happen if two psychopaths met and had a conversation? Or tried to manipulate each other?
The conversations turns into feats of strength. Arm wrestling usually.
Are there any examples on the internet? I can't find any.
Andy Web I'm sure this is a rather common occurrence in the world of politics.
They will usually figure out each other from the start and beware of each other. Their conversations will seem very tense. The real problem is when they become friends.
Andy Web I think that psychopaths tend to collude and follow/ admire each other. I believe they gave some organic sense of self.
this class is what starts that phase in someones life when they say everyone theyve ever dated was a psychopath.
you also start to realize how your parents were narcissistic
I became so enthralled with what he was saying I forgot the reason I clicked on this video in the first place. Dr peterson is one of my fav people
Why is he talking about my ex wife?
Andriy Selezen lol
You don't know? She gets around.
Andriy Selezen I earned my MPhil at the age of 15, completed my PhD and PsyD recently, know 20 mostly alive SPOKEN languages as those such as Imperial Aramaic aren't spoken but I still count it but, thanks to uninformed media such as this, by probably unqualified, (as a mentor once playfully warned me I'd be dubbed "overachiever" [such an Americanism] whose ranch home I'd spend night at on weekends while a highschool senior who'd already earned most advanced Masters degree any other with one would tell you it's harder than a PhD).
This guy is not qualified to be teaching these things, and explains why his academic credentials aren't mentioned.
Monsieur P.
Anyone who brags as much as you do obviously suffers from a severe case of Narcissistic Personality Disorder as well as more than likely being what is called a "Fake Rich" person. Meaning you're basically all talk and no action.
If you really are as brilliant and accomplished as you claim to be, please provide accurate information as to who you really are and proof of your accomplishments.
Somehow I just know that you'll find an excuse, or ten, as to why this is simply impossible.
BTW one of those languages that you are supposedly so proficient in is not English. The grammar, spelling and thought process laid out in your comment are that of someone who has absolutely no real grasp of the language.
And my narcissistic opportunistic ex boyfriend LoL
The part about teaching kids to couragous and not fearful of strangers is really great
My parents taught me that strangers are dangerous, I got bullied as a kid and have dealt with anxiety and depression for a long time. I'm finally starting to feel like I'm getting on top of it, except crowded places, those get me still
The longer you handle it. The more youll control it. You got it just dont let it get you.
@@coreycamacho1290 thanks for the tip ill keep it in mind!
Brilliant class!
🌻🌻🌻 5:50 “If you give into that temptation; then it wins, and when it wins, it gets a little dopamine kick and it grows a little stronger. Anything you let win the internal argument grows, and anything you let be defeated, shrinks because it’s punished / it doesn’t get to have its way so... That’s another thing really to remember. Don’t practice what you do not want to become.” To all involved with making and sharing, your work is appreciated. 🌻🌻🌻
Honor is being honest even when no one is looking.
Cito, agreed. That's how I live my life and it's grown my capacity for compassion.
Damn these are soooo lucky kids that are able to listen him live !!!!
we're lucky too to hear these :D
This might be the best jp video I’ve ever seen
Isnt it funny that the girl is watching her fingernails in the moment of him speaking of looking at fingernails 😂
Stephen Bachman i totally get what you're saying! i just find it funny :D
Are you Polish
Magdalena Pisacic that one lady is phsyco
bamboozled croatian
Doug Aaserude how do you think you can you tell if she really is one? Do you know her? (Sorry girl we're talking about, nothing personal, you were just on the spot 😂)
Very good lecturer. He uses both social and biological (evolutionary) examples to reinforce his points.
It might simply be his method of speaking, but Professor Peterson seems like some of the things he says occur to him just as he's about to say them. His tone of voice, the way he interrupts himself mid-sentence, even his body language, they all lend a certain honesty and earnestness to his performance. It's as if he's just come to a revelation that he wants to share, rather than delivering prepared material.
Come to think of it, he'd probably make a great psychopath. (Joking)
Using evolutionary examples is a capital sin.
Serathis then I guess capital sins are good.
are you joking though? And with the amount of information you got from his body language, what does that say about you? Heh sorry, but I am using you to make a point.
I think the reality is that a significantly high percentage of the population (>20-25%) have clear psychopathic characteristics buat they dont have enough of these characteristics to actually be classified as a psychopath. The problem here is that we try to label things instead of thinking about them as a spectrum. For example, you seem to read body language very well and can extract a lot of info from subtle movements. That's one trait a psychopath has to have. It doesnt make you a psychopath but it does technically put you one step closer. I think that a lot of people have some of these traits but arent full blown and therefore still fit well into society. Some might be charming and manipulative but guilty and remorseful of their actions. Others might be impulsive and egotistical but not good at reading their audience.
Jordan seems to be "performing" (generally a psychopath would be a good actor or performer because they know how to present something in a dramatic way) but does that make him a psychopath? Who knows and who fucking cares. Its just a classification and whenever we try to put people into groups we make personalities seem more black and white then they are.
@shok24199 wrote:
_"It might simply be his method of speaking, but Professor Peterson seems like some of the things he says occur to him just as he's about to say them."_
Precisely. View this video where Dr. Peterson himself explains his lecturing style. Starts at the five minute mark and it concludes at seven minutes and twenty seconds (though I highly recommend watching the entire video):
ruclips.net/video/aDRgMUoEvcg/видео.html
I do agree, and found I had used to have a very similar lecturing style when teaching. Reflecting upon this, one prepares the talk, and sketches out the key points. But then the subconscious brain fills the points up with stories, and thus you do get this talk that bounces over the place, interrupts itself.
But the upside is that it is highly engaging as it is based around stories, and people remember and are impacted by them. It in my opinion is the best way to lecture, if you are discussing conceptual material.
I used the word used to, because due to medication, and other things, I have lost the ability to be spontaneous and enthusiastic, but still use the basis, but script in the stories, and work the engagement in that way. So not bad, just not as wonderful as this.
I can see why certain people didn't want him to speak, he's so smart
Scared of the truth
they are the psychopaths he's talking about
I can confirm, I remember once getting the opportunity to blow up at one person for treating me poorly, and I COMPLETELY anihilated him. And moments after, I was questioning if I really was a good person or if I was just holding a facade. And it followed me for a full year. I now hope that whenever I get the opportunity to be powerful, I do it for good and not from resentment.
"Do not practice what you do not want to become".
DJ Bobo goes similar in his song “Respect yourself”: practice what you pray
If I knew about Peterson when I was in grad. school. I would have dropped out a semester gone to Canada and taken one of his courses.
So glad to know there's still hope for the next generation. Good luck Jess.
As a diagnosed aspd, nature is how I connect with people better. Parties and family gatherings just make me want to run out of the room, but having a good time in nature with a few good friends is so much better for me.
Forsythe MTB I am a diagnosed edgelord and I wanna go burn down some oprhanages and what not, you up for it? Could use some emotional support cuz it would be rly boring burning the innocent children alive without some audience to witness my maniacal laughter.
@@nihilism6226 A Username Nihilism, talking about edgy stuff, I surely hope you're an obvious troll, but I can't tell cause I knew 14 year olds when I was in School just like that...
@@Rhinosaurfish Who cares, nothing matters, we are all gonna die and all of humanity is selfish as fuck. Now go being an asshat somewhere else.
@@nihilism6226 wow u insecure or something
@@gamesbulshitery9395 yes. who isn't? even confident people are one blow from life away from being a total wreck. there is no security in human existence.
I can listen this man all day
Wow that was a dose of important information
Kim Jong Un's Top Plays wutt
Kim Jong Un's Top Plays wow what a condensed dose of nonsense
Kim Jong Un’s top plays is clearly one of those sociopaths if not a full blown psychopath.
Kim Jong Un's Top Plays Quick without google define fascism
Haha my exact thought
The New Testament teaches a reoccurring theme about ‘don’t practice what you don’t want to become’, but in the affirmative, also. The part I really appreciate here, is that he explains that there’s a dopamine response every time you do it! This is a chemical reward to repeat an action. Wow. Great info.
Radical honesty is giving the same testimony in every one of life's venues. Home, work, on the street, in a church, before a judge, in jail, or any other place you may find yourself.
I could listen to him for hours
"If you're going to only interact with someone once, you might as well take advantage of them and take off. That's what a psychopath does by the way."
He had to add that at the end; otherwise, the soft heads of those kids won't catch the under tones.
Robin Maibals I don't get it
Robin Maibals, Because someone as enlightened as you didn't need that distinction at the end, you had it all figured out before he finished his sentence, didn't you.
If you can take advantage of someone, that has to mean they have something useful to you. They way you interact with someone decided wether or not you can ever interact with them again. To interact with someone useful only once seems a terrible inefficient way of gaining something. Who is to say you cannot gain something from someone without ruining ta potential relationship. Psychopaths gain things in their own way, but never in a sustainable way. Some are successful, like other people, but many are quite miserable. If they care or not is a different story
Think light-side/ dark-side options in RPGs. Dark-side gives bigger, immediate boon - light-side gives smaller/ insignificant immediate boon, but pays off later.
Likewise, meeting someone and using them gives something immediately, but you also lose the ability to leech off of that person later on.
To put it super black'n white.
“Don’t practice what you don’t want to become.” Excellent advice, thank you for your lessons!
This is one of the reasons I wanted to study one of aspects of psychology. But over the years I figured out its far more complex then I thought it is and kinda gave up due my own mental health giving up on me. But on plus side I learned reading people up more or less giving myself advantage in social interactions which isn't that good as it sounds. People get scared easily
Good information. I guess I should start wearing dark sunglasses.
Possibly the most informative 9 minutes on YT of all time right here folks
If only half of the teachers and Profs were as down to earth, practical and clear in their disciplines as this man here is, then mankind would be a much brighter place than it currently is. Keep it Up Sir.
FASCINATING GENIUS...THOSE STUDENTS R SO LUCKY TO HEAR HIS LECTURES IN REAL LIFE X PICK HIS BRAIN AFTERWARDS...LOVE, LOVE, LOVE JP
the end was so true about strangers
Most beautiful lecture I have watched on RUclips. Thank you.
"Don't practice what you don't want to become." Fantastic advice...!
I could listen to that man speak all day.
The most fascinating part of this to me, was the last 20 seconds.
Jordan Peterson needs to be placed in charge of the education system.
5:23 Imagine not only just paying to go to College but having Jordan Peterson as your damn Professor and yet you decide that Facebook is more important......
Also love how at 7:07 Peterson basically calls her out for it too though unknowingly.
Haha nice catch.
Good catch. Though I don't think it was unknowingly that he called her out on it. At that point, he was talking about how the eyes show our true intentions. He knew she was paying attention to something on the screen and not to him. He knew exactly what he did when he pointed at her and said "what are you really up to? Everyone is always wondering that, right. That's why they are watching your eyes".
Ok boomer
That's brilliant
@@robinpettersson6271 This idea is why so many on the autistic spectrum have social issues. One that's actually very uncomfortable to many autistics. But significant eye contact is mostly a western construction.
Well said Dr
Man, i want to attend this guy's lectures