Dealing With Haters - The Secret Psychology Of Haters

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

Комментарии • 294

  • @AnthonyLiccione
    @AnthonyLiccione 3 года назад +146

    "There will always be haters. And the more you grow the more they hate; the more they hate the more you grow. "

    • @ninjapirate123
      @ninjapirate123 Год назад +9

      Just to let people know, it's almost impossible to be a hater and be successful, if you want to be successful then stop hating on other people and focus on achieving your goals to gain success.

  • @InvestingRobinhoodInvestor
    @InvestingRobinhoodInvestor 4 года назад +195

    Don't let the negative energy distract you from reaching your goals!

    • @parisparis808
      @parisparis808 2 года назад

      At all. I don’t know who people are anymore… like the person I knew and loved the most betrayed me, everybody else did too . But it’s simply not knowing I know mfs still the same person but their motives I question and I can’t b around ever. I’m srry

    • @parisparis808
      @parisparis808 2 года назад

      At all. I don’t know who people are anymore… like the person I knew and loved the most betrayed me, everybody else did too . But it’s simply not knowing I know mfs still the same person but their motives I question and I can’t b around ever. I’m srry

    • @parisparis808
      @parisparis808 2 года назад

      Life too short to be anything but happy , happiness is my best self . I want her back forever and never let go again!

    • @renatashp
      @renatashp 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@parisparis808life is not short, it is eternal for those who do what they love!

  • @melvinmungai1062
    @melvinmungai1062 4 года назад +74

    NO RICH PERSON IS A HATER.. The RICH ALL have LIVES..!
    Thank you Dan..

    • @salk2555
      @salk2555 Месяц назад

      Some rich people can hate on people they percieve to be happier, more beautiful looking, a kinder person etc. It really depends, there are bad people everywhere.

  • @designertree
    @designertree 4 года назад +58

    I have lots of haters around me... I don’t know why but they motivated me a lot

  • @ZacharyLaid
    @ZacharyLaid 4 года назад +218

    *Best response is to ignore.*

    • @birgio1363
      @birgio1363 4 года назад +4

      Yup and then drive off in your fancy fucking car in your expensive ass suit back to your mansion where your butlers, chefs, maids and family greet you at the entrance. Then you go to your master bedroom and go take off your suit to go take a shower with luxury soap and luxury branded hair products then sleep with your partner in your bed

    • @truthboom
      @truthboom 3 года назад +3

      Depending on the profession you have. The best response varies.

    • @Makethetruthyourown1990
      @Makethetruthyourown1990 2 года назад

      Truth

    • @WildStyleStayWild
      @WildStyleStayWild 2 года назад

      Exactly!

    • @maj746
      @maj746 Год назад +2

      Sometimes it is not possible.

  • @AboutAysha
    @AboutAysha 4 года назад +237

    Most of the time people who "hate" you are just envious of you.

    • @MatthewPacheco
      @MatthewPacheco 4 года назад +1

      Aysha Chaudhry - Property Investing tell me more!

    • @parisparis808
      @parisparis808 2 года назад

      Ion need them in my life anymore

    • @ninjapirate123
      @ninjapirate123 Год назад +6

      Just to let people know, it's almost impossible to be a hater and be successful, if you want to be successful then stop hating on other people and focus on achieving your goals to gain success.

  • @robinahkiden5116
    @robinahkiden5116 4 года назад +46

    The day I got promoted at work place was the launch of my haters. Now I am sure I will still get more haters since I am determined to go higher. And they will never pull me down.

    • @Adbee123
      @Adbee123 9 месяцев назад

      110% I had no idea my little success would be the heartache of so many at work 😂 I can't imagine what the next step up would do to their feelings. They just might pass out...such weirdos. Let's go, lets not focus on them. Let's focus on our climb. Our growth. Our next step. It's so on now.

  • @ninjapirate123
    @ninjapirate123 Год назад +21

    Just to let people know, it's almost impossible to be a hater and be successful, if you want to be successful then stop hating on other people and focus on achieving your goals to gain success.

  • @exootikkmusic
    @exootikkmusic 3 года назад +38

    Haters gonna hate winners are gonna win ... keep up the good work everyone and God bless you 🙏🏽♥️

    • @ninjapirate123
      @ninjapirate123 Год назад

      Just to let people know, it's almost impossible to be a hater and be successful, if you want to be successful then stop hating on other people and focus on achieving your goals to gain success.

  • @ivonnemedrano8937
    @ivonnemedrano8937 4 года назад +8

    Ignore the haters, if you have haters in your life is because you are doing something right it’s most likely due to jealousy and envy, they hate but still watch everything you say and do, learn to not take it personal because haters are raging a war within themselves and know that they can’t compete with you or will not ever be like you since everyone is different, and they will never have the qualities that make you who you are. Great video Dan thanks for sharing

  • @alexandruulici-buyingfreed9118
    @alexandruulici-buyingfreed9118 4 года назад +154

    The bigger you are the more haters you'll have. Value is subjective.

    • @CASH-TO-THE-MERE101
      @CASH-TO-THE-MERE101 4 года назад +1

      Alexandru Ulici - Buying Freedom 👀

    • @fundemort
      @fundemort 4 года назад +4

      It's not the number of haters. It's the percentage of haters (or fans).
      Say A got 99 likes and 1 dislike. That means you got 99% likes and 1% hates.
      Say B got 8000 likes and 2000 dislikes. That means you got 80% likes and 20% hates.
      A has higher rating, but B has higher exposure (it's a marketing term). Which one you think is better it's up to you to judge. It's not rocket science.

    • @alexandruulici-buyingfreed9118
      @alexandruulici-buyingfreed9118 4 года назад +1

      @Abdel-Ilah BENAHMED Haha, Good one, mate! I like it!

    • @alexandruulici-buyingfreed9118
      @alexandruulici-buyingfreed9118 4 года назад

      @@fundemort Love your perspective! Very nicely written out!

  • @samotivationbysami
    @samotivationbysami Год назад +16

    Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.

    • @salk2555
      @salk2555 Месяц назад

      I think its wise to have compassion because they're insecure, jealous and in pain. They're just sad people.

  • @endl3sdrmzz
    @endl3sdrmzz 4 года назад +19

    Hater's are also your fans. Wow, I never thought of that. Thank you once again Sifu Dan for keeping us all educated. I learn something new each time I watch your videos.

  • @deathrowinmate28
    @deathrowinmate28 3 года назад +24

    My business and me get bullied severely on forums on Facebook.
    One post today cut deep.
    I needed this video right now.
    Much love Dan

  • @Jaybenji508
    @Jaybenji508 10 месяцев назад +2

    I learned along time ago is that you’re not going to please everyone. Somewhere somehow someone will attack your character no matter what you do, the moment you pay it any mind you’re going to lose. It’s nothing personal. 90% of the people who hate on you doesn’t have a personal problem with you they just hate the fact that you’re doing what they can’t do & that hurts. your haters are your biggest Cheerleaders. Nothing makes them more mad than the person who they hate succeeding. They’re giving you free promotion by gossiping about you especially if you have a business. They keep your name in the mouths. I guess it is true that IF YOU DON’T GOT NO HATERS YOU AIN’T POPPING OR DOING SOMETHING SPECIAL

  • @TrainInspired
    @TrainInspired 4 года назад +14

    I like what he was saying in the beginning. They hate you so much they immediately post negative comments every time. That must make them a fan!

  • @dionpeek4339
    @dionpeek4339 4 года назад +8

    If you feel like your successful or that you’re making progress and people are overly critical , then you must be doing something right

  • @Ben.F.Productions
    @Ben.F.Productions 4 года назад +78

    There all jealous of all your success

    • @tomothy527
      @tomothy527 4 года назад +7

      Not just jealous, envious. They don't just want what you have, they want what you are

  • @SanjayTripathiGlobalSpeaker
    @SanjayTripathiGlobalSpeaker 4 года назад +62

    Haters are real motivators for success. They'll motivate you to move forward.
    Hate your negativity. Don't hate your haters.
    Show your success to your haters.

    • @thanhluan95
      @thanhluan95 4 года назад +1

      Until they running out of enegy and they realize... you know that.

    • @TFrancis-ev1lo
      @TFrancis-ev1lo 3 месяца назад

      ​@@thanhluan95Being a hater is dead you hate someone you are inspired by make it make sense

  • @ChristopherBucklein
    @ChristopherBucklein 4 года назад +15

    Haters will always be the loudest. Have ever been, will always be the same

    • @susiesa8295
      @susiesa8295 2 года назад

      exactly they are nothing but loud mouth whiny pansy ass flakes with nothing going on in their freaky lives!

  • @ChomiC33
    @ChomiC33 4 года назад +9

    We must be tough as stone when we listen or watch another person's negative reactions about our job especially when we are doing a good work!

  • @TheMagpieOfficial
    @TheMagpieOfficial Год назад +1

    I have a stalker. I went through my whole life thinking stuff like obsessed weirdos only existed in movies. It’s a creepy old lady. No joke. She smear campaigned me for years, but simultaneously imitating me. It’s terrifying.

    • @jimbo7551
      @jimbo7551 11 месяцев назад +1

      Cluster b personality 🤔

    • @andreavaughn8911
      @andreavaughn8911 8 месяцев назад

      Wow, she was definitely a FAN (sick & twisted) But she admired you. I also had a crazy older lady stalking me at my job. It is terrifying. And her always watching me and being loud. UGH...

  • @TrendingTopicSeries
    @TrendingTopicSeries 4 года назад +14

    You hear what you wanna hear ..Powerful!!
    Personal brand = Pre-selling 👍

  • @jmjpowerjoule
    @jmjpowerjoule 4 года назад +4

    Dan,
    I am a fan of yours and I like what you teach. I feel sorry for those who make negative comments about you. I pity them.
    -Thank you for sharing what you know to the rest of us who can greatly benefit the most.

  • @sifisomaphuma2346
    @sifisomaphuma2346 4 года назад +6

    ("How People see you; has got nothing to do with you") Si Fu; you are the the Chosen One🌹

  • @kingtamarah
    @kingtamarah 4 года назад +39

    Dan lok the boss in a Bentley. Much love from Nigeria

  • @leee3880
    @leee3880 4 года назад +3

    I have thought this for awhile. People will hear, see, and believe what they want to. That’s just how it is.

  • @piperssquadtiktok5352
    @piperssquadtiktok5352 4 года назад +5

    Hater's hate your success and themselves...💯

  • @ishanarpan704
    @ishanarpan704 4 года назад +2

    People will hate us , but we should make sure that we don't hate anyone. That's what we can do to make this world more hate free !

  • @TheSepia1
    @TheSepia1 4 года назад +11

    I JUST posted something about this on Twitter. There's someone who I consider/considered to be a good friend who I'm seeing now is not a good friend at all!!

    • @KidCrowder
      @KidCrowder 3 года назад

      Link to that thread please?

  • @williamstanley4960
    @williamstanley4960 4 года назад +4

    Some of the haters are reacting to the perception that they are, in fact, being persuaded of a truth that they absolutely do not want to act on! Others are hating you simply because they cannot rest unless they have done some evil in the world that day.

  • @traceym921
    @traceym921 Год назад

    Don't you just love this guy? Intelligent man, he knows the human condition so well his view on haters helped me understand the haters mentality he's so right they hate themselves like the haters on facebook. Thank you! Mr lok for your insight.☺✌

  • @PassiveIncomeTom
    @PassiveIncomeTom 4 года назад +115

    *Haters need to go find a job with as much time they spend posting about someone's content or idea. This could put them on the road to millions.* 😂

  • @TumemeroASMR
    @TumemeroASMR 4 года назад +1

    thank you so much i never uploaded any video for 7 months because of comments of haters

  • @momojisan
    @momojisan 4 года назад +2

    When haters talk nonsense we can just ignored them.
    But
    Sometimes haters see our flaw more accurate than fans, i think we can also put that on account.

  • @ferminmorales3835
    @ferminmorales3835 4 года назад

    I accept it that Dan is a very smart
    entrepreneur who start from zero
    teaching others how to become success is a bless, Thanks Dan

  • @josephokello5513
    @josephokello5513 3 года назад

    I've noticed this post doesn't have hating comments because it's taking about haters. All people are hypocrites, which proves what Dan is saying. Do your thing and make money, let the haters do theirs and go more broke

  • @MascrisSensei
    @MascrisSensei 4 года назад +2

    They are everywhere. And they hate to see you success.

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller3491 2 года назад +3

    We must be so important, fabulous or awesome somehow if the low performers (haters) are amongst us behaving like crap💥smile and keep it moving

  • @ImmOldGreggg
    @ImmOldGreggg 7 месяцев назад +9

    Do you only have 280 comments because you delete all the haters from your video? Doesn't that mean they have power if you go out of your way to do that?

  • @bianca4829
    @bianca4829 4 года назад +1

    There’s a difference between constructive criticism and just pure negativity. Sometimes things are just damn stupid. Point being said, shut out the negatively and take the constructive criticism. Good video.

  • @bimalhalder8316
    @bimalhalder8316 4 года назад +1

    Haters don't hate You they hate themselves

  • @SanjayTripathiGlobalSpeaker
    @SanjayTripathiGlobalSpeaker 4 года назад +17

    Remarkable thinking is needed for remarkable success.
    Life is the product of your remarkable imagination.
    Be creative.

  • @jmjpowerjoule
    @jmjpowerjoule 3 года назад +1

    My wife just got slammed by haters - well - we love this video!!

  • @quinnwilliams7130
    @quinnwilliams7130 4 года назад +3

    Great video! The haters will be no more.

  • @danielmard4677
    @danielmard4677 4 года назад +6

    Love the "Haters" ! That is probably the most annoying to them ! :)

  • @hsoldacct2905
    @hsoldacct2905 4 года назад +5

    Thanks for video Dan and taking the time to invest in others. 💯 keep up the great work brother haters will hate but some will appreciate.

  • @Lionelitun
    @Lionelitun 3 года назад +1

    The mind of a hater really intrigued me I just laugh at their attempts to destroy me but I know they will fail for I will proceed

  • @willcarr2436
    @willcarr2436 4 года назад

    I love the first class of HTC last season I went so fucking deep just to see it again. I was preparing for a member of my closing team giving me call feedback I didn’t want to hear. Turned out it was what i wanted to hear all along. Desmond’s story about how he had years of failure and broke at 36 opened my own eyes. I’m 30 years old if I don’t pay the price now and I don’t know how much my success for even better than my current J.O.B would cost. If someone told me the price I might not want to pay it. I realise the price for my success could be something I’m not willing to pay for. The answer we don’t want to hear.

  • @fundieddy9164
    @fundieddy9164 4 года назад +2

    Thank you very much.
    Haters hate themselves.

  • @Zackdabest
    @Zackdabest Год назад

    Been getting a handful of haters lately. This video makes me feel better. Thank you

  • @learnenglish8364
    @learnenglish8364 4 года назад +4

    It's so good to see you Dan lock talk about it!
    awesome!!!!

  • @user-ng6nx6ps9h
    @user-ng6nx6ps9h 4 года назад +1

    I am glad tho see this video in tight time. It is all truth :"they haters are hiding, because they do not know someone can see their real face"
    The haters are pretenders. Also.
    That means we do not know their real face at all.

  • @Hungry_for_success
    @Hungry_for_success 4 года назад +2

    Dan I'm a manager at my workplace and I'm facing challenges, first challenge is that other workers they say I'm too close to the bosses so I gossip them to the bosses, second challenge is that when I correct them or when I give them orders their response is that I'm not their boss

  • @spartjovic
    @spartjovic 5 месяцев назад

    I think those that hate, should continue to do so. Hate is often times passive aggressive. I also think for those of you who don't hate, you should focus on your goals always.
    Side note I always received the most hate from those who claimed to be very tolerant and understanding, it's very odd.

  • @asandagenu2853
    @asandagenu2853 4 года назад +1

    I just subscribed to your channel, as a young professional who is starting a new career at 30 i found it informative. Thank you.

  • @dywa_varaprasad
    @dywa_varaprasad 4 года назад

    huge respect from India 🇮🇳

  • @maggieedward3951
    @maggieedward3951 4 года назад

    Why Dan all my life been plagued by them .. haters ? What have I done so wrong I used to question even made me doubt my worth , I now have turned the corner and now know that haters will always be haters

  • @keeganfogg8644
    @keeganfogg8644 4 года назад +4

    I've always found your videos very inspirational Dan!

  • @vn453
    @vn453 4 года назад +5

    Lol, Haters happen to hate the fact that they are one of the biggest fans of whatever they hate towards to. Not all cases, but a lot of cases. Btw, I'm an avid fan of Dan Lok who actually takes in the advice I need at times.

  • @casdisciple
    @casdisciple 4 года назад +2

    I didn’t know you also knew wing chun. That’s so awesome bro.

  • @AutovideoGp
    @AutovideoGp 4 года назад +2

    Great video thank you

  • @eyegradeentertainment
    @eyegradeentertainment 4 года назад

    Real mentor indeed... May God bless you Mr. Lok

  • @thanhluan95
    @thanhluan95 4 года назад

    They try to make you feel, shake you, but thanks god im fresh.

  • @Folkgrunge
    @Folkgrunge Год назад +1

    You hate you makes you gold.

  • @cjpascal
    @cjpascal 4 года назад +2

    Great message @Dan Lok. Love your content and messages

  • @ovidiumihasca5103
    @ovidiumihasca5103 4 года назад +1

    You are the best and caind person in the world. You are the best motivation from sam people . This is my first time to your chanal and the first impression is wow 😮😮😮. You are the best. Keep doing what you doing.💗💓💗

  • @Janaysdomain
    @Janaysdomain 2 года назад +2

    I just got hated on at the bank 😅😂 large lump sums of money come to me quickly and easily 💫law of attraction …even the bank tellers hating on me 😭😭

  • @merlincovlin4377
    @merlincovlin4377 4 года назад

    Dan you always have good mind feed. For a hater that would want to dampen that from us I feel for them to sit back and have some of this sink into themselves for themselves!! I for another one really appreciate your time putting these videos out!!! Thx

  • @patriciariley5922
    @patriciariley5922 4 года назад +2

    I have haters all around me... and I'm just at the point where I will ignore them...they don't want to learn or listen... and I do... thank you Dan Lok for your valuable advice...

  • @vedwamshinaidu467
    @vedwamshinaidu467 4 года назад +3

    Thanks for such great advice that even be negative can turn into positive

  • @GANAPATIIIII
    @GANAPATIIIII 11 месяцев назад +1

    HATERS ARE FANS - WOW 👀

  • @TFrancis-ev1lo
    @TFrancis-ev1lo 3 месяца назад

    They will sit and congregate and hate on you and copy what you do being inspired

  • @santoshbeatz5130
    @santoshbeatz5130 4 года назад +3

    Hello sir I'm from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @democraticsocialist
    @democraticsocialist 4 года назад

    Got haters here too. How do these people find us? Even on post with little to no up supporting. The same people with their total and complete inability to take in new information.
    Maybe it's the same people having so much concern over demanding, the people on the front line, nurses and 7-11 workers don't get sent a check. Now we all see through the eyes of someone paying rent and child support.

    • @democraticsocialist
      @democraticsocialist 4 года назад

      @J. Smith Those people just around to control your thoughts.

  • @quotesandgrowthofficial
    @quotesandgrowthofficial 4 года назад +1

    We ❤ you Dan Lok! 👏👏

  • @MrRC-lo4tu
    @MrRC-lo4tu 4 года назад

    True...We hear what we want to hear.

  • @allanshambamba3151
    @allanshambamba3151 3 года назад

    That's whole same am learning more from your system of topics.

  • @eah-7579
    @eah-7579 4 года назад +1

    Love your videos, keep up the good work! :) Love from Philippines 🇵🇭

  • @angelinedeleon3378
    @angelinedeleon3378 4 года назад +2

    Thank you 💓

  • @AlexanderKaatv
    @AlexanderKaatv 4 года назад

    People prefer to complain, moan, act all BMW about it.
    I made the choice long ago that I am going through a character building experience (whether that experience is hard, easy, rough or smooth it doesn't matter).

  • @rohanagarwal9674
    @rohanagarwal9674 4 года назад +1

    Great video

  • @vintagerecipehero
    @vintagerecipehero Год назад

    I needed this little pep talk today!

  • @JLT0602
    @JLT0602 4 года назад +2

    Thanks🙂

  • @avishekhaditya9657
    @avishekhaditya9657 4 года назад +1

    Much love to you man!

  • @lifejourney7869
    @lifejourney7869 4 года назад

    True. All losers hate selfies and try blame the society. I had this passion before. But I stop when I become normal and have a regular job and family!

  • @treyhallmark5418
    @treyhallmark5418 3 года назад

    Amazing video i needed this thank you!

  • @jacobfehr4186
    @jacobfehr4186 4 года назад

    Hater’s are a fan loving to hate. The drama of wwe. Dan lok you’re great. As always well said!

  • @vancha-cha3721
    @vancha-cha3721 4 года назад

    Dan, please wear a mask! Coronavirus is spreading so fast in Vancouver now! I love your idea and god bless u!

  • @BumpaZangpo-n4q
    @BumpaZangpo-n4q 2 месяца назад

    Many thanks always.

  • @paulbacchus1015
    @paulbacchus1015 4 года назад

    That is so dam true, people
    always walk around wearing
    filters and people will always believe what they want to believe and what they want to hear.
    Paul Bacchus esq

  • @CynthiaL
    @CynthiaL 4 года назад +1

    Thank you, I needed this.

    • @supernatural9r406
      @supernatural9r406 4 года назад

      Youre Bad all you do is worse.

    • @supernatural9r406
      @supernatural9r406 4 года назад

      Youre Good. All you do is Good.
      Pick and choose something.

    • @LESTIFISA
      @LESTIFISA 4 года назад

      You need something else from me more tease girl

  • @deidran2116
    @deidran2116 3 года назад

    Because of a hater, I know about you! You've got a new fan! I love your content.

  • @monol5848
    @monol5848 4 года назад

    Great Stuff Dan !

  • @nodattone8943
    @nodattone8943 4 года назад

    Life is too short to hate I'm trying to get with people that's great can help me Excel and I maybe can help them some people are jealous of your success but you can't let people change you from being the best you as a black man in America we see all types of hate from different races everyday at the end of the day the best thing is to see the results of your labor stay blessed from Sunday.

  • @montezsmith204
    @montezsmith204 4 года назад

    I have to deal with haters AND jealousy AND racism!!!!

  • @Renoapproves
    @Renoapproves Год назад +1

    Haters are fans in denial. 😂 They wish to have your life, but instead they are writing hate comments, that get them nowhere.
    They want you to react, so worst case scenario for them is, that you ignore them.

  • @topvideos8909
    @topvideos8909 4 года назад

    Very nice topic😊

  • @kvshow77
    @kvshow77 4 года назад

    They don't focus on their goal. So they spend time to hate other.

  • @pinkchilldivestmentor
    @pinkchilldivestmentor Год назад +1

    Haters are NOT fans they’re dangerous stalkers