How I Handle Haters | Robin Sharma

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  • Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024

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  • @drewsson
    @drewsson 4 года назад +343

    "Haters dont hate you, they hate themselves. Because you are a reflection of what they wish they could be".

    • @kylieangelheart3297
      @kylieangelheart3297 4 года назад +7

      Yes this is true but on our journey we feel worthless. Only experience gives us the wisdom to break free of these strongholds. And time. Life is an amazing journey.

    • @awesomebychoice7603
      @awesomebychoice7603 4 года назад +1

      Love it!

    • @Zshan1089
      @Zshan1089 4 года назад +1

      Friend your words ❤️

    • @fredrikbeckker125
      @fredrikbeckker125 4 года назад

      Good point👍

    • @wavyoccean1120
      @wavyoccean1120 4 года назад

      AMEN!!

  • @pas_peur_v
    @pas_peur_v 4 года назад +159

    1. The J.K.Rowling principle: For some to love you, some must loathe you.
    2. The Jay-Z insight: You know you're winning when you start attracting haters.
    3. Great poetry terrifies the herd: People were distributed by the genius of Picasso.
    4. Advanced art is always misunderstood: Don't criticise what you don't understand (by Bob Dylan).
    5. Happy people never hate: People do the best they can based on where they're at on the journey of their lifetime.
    People behave the way they are in private.
    6. High Road Focus: Focus on your mission, let karma do your dirty work.

    • @awesomebychoice7603
      @awesomebychoice7603 4 года назад +2

      valérie moony thank you for the summary! 🙏🙏

    • @pas_peur_v
      @pas_peur_v 4 года назад +3

      @@awesomebychoice7603 you're welcome :)

    • @sharmaleadership
      @sharmaleadership  4 года назад +14

      Thanks for sharing. 🙏🏼

    • @pas_peur_v
      @pas_peur_v 4 года назад +11

      @@sharmaleadership thank you for the video which made my day much better! Your words about Van Gogh made me think about my art. I need to appreciate it even when no one else do.

    • @kq1777
      @kq1777 3 года назад +3

      Sometimes critics are on your team as wolves in sheeps clothing.
      This is the toughest form to deal with.
      My advice is the last point. Focus on your mission and don't worry too much about these critics..its immaterial in the grander scheme of things.

  • @OliveraK
    @OliveraK 4 года назад +87

    "Happy people never hate" - my new response to trolls.

  • @mahlet3570
    @mahlet3570 2 года назад +24

    I am a Medical Doctor by profession and my friends were bullying me literally for planning on starting urban farming business. They said I might as well give back my Medical license than work as an 'illitrate' farmer. But i'm still holding on to my dream of being urban farmer . Thank you again from Ethiopia 💚💛❤️

    • @isatatimbo4217
      @isatatimbo4217 7 месяцев назад +1

      Do your thing

    • @mahlet3570
      @mahlet3570 7 месяцев назад

      @@isatatimbo4217 💚💛❤

    • @mahlet3570
      @mahlet3570 7 месяцев назад

      @christophersharp2103 ❤

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 года назад +80

    Don’t grant attention and they will feel the pain of being irrelevant

  • @EconoMix_with_Varnika
    @EconoMix_with_Varnika 4 года назад +17

    I was dealing with some haters few minutes before I watched this video. And as soon as I checked found this video your one the best quote " Teacher will appear when student is ready" flashed in my brain.
    Thanks for much needed knowledge...

  • @witcher7014
    @witcher7014 4 года назад +40

    Because of you sir my life changed all my thoughts are just thoughts but you give them a structure thank you sir keep inspiring love you

  • @princesswhitener6083
    @princesswhitener6083 Год назад +1

    I have many stimulators who always thrust me to the next level in my life. I look forward to them now and I also welcome them. They don't realize that because of them I retired @ 57 and am 62 now and just had a house built by myself. Thank you stimulators!!!! I refuse to say they are haters that is way to simple! They are stimulators!!! I have been dodging bullets all of my life. Just to walk into a room and not open my mouth I feel the stimulators and then I really be myself. I use to clam up and try to be someone that I am not until one day a still small voice told me to be myself and flaunt, smile and be proud of doing so.

  • @Journey2Freedom
    @Journey2Freedom 4 года назад +10

    Thank you for the awesome tips!
    There is also a saying: "When haters are going to show up, it means you have started to be successful enough".
    So I'm seeing it also in that way.

  • @anisabobat2886
    @anisabobat2886 4 года назад +12

    When the student is ready, the teacher will appear! Thank you 😊

  • @fredrikbeckker125
    @fredrikbeckker125 4 года назад +5

    I thought about something very deep on a walk yesterday, that either you have No Friends or everyone is your friend♥️ when I listen to happy People never hate I think about that👍

  • @bobmag5058
    @bobmag5058 4 года назад +30

    Be a host to God and not a hostage to fear.
    Look at your self through the eyes of God. Not through the eyes of people.
    Love yourself and honour yourself and bulletproof and water proof yourself.
    Your worth is timeless and unconditional you don't have to prove any thing to anyone.
    Haters are the evidence you of doing great stuff!
    Don't dilute your energy use your energy wisely. Your effort, work, the intention is your worth. Outcomes to prove yourself to others is a waste of energy. Don't do it!

  • @thomasdcat3463
    @thomasdcat3463 3 года назад +13

    When someone criticized you, give them a mini smile. They'll never do it 😜 again

  • @InitiateChangeSparkPeace
    @InitiateChangeSparkPeace 4 года назад +4

    Haters Hate on. It means you're on the path to great things. Walk into that destiny.

  • @Juliaa__T
    @Juliaa__T 4 года назад +3

    I don’t care what people think of me, especially haters, I don’t think about them at all. I don’t give them any real estate in my mind. Hate and love is the same energy! The only way to fight hate is with apathy!!!!!

  • @JenricAquino
    @JenricAquino 4 года назад +10

    I'm a video creator and 13 years old. Recently got some haters on channel but I immediately moved on!

  • @mkagrawal5394
    @mkagrawal5394 4 года назад +3

    You are an angel who can bless anyone on this planet.

  • @rolansanchez7046
    @rolansanchez7046 2 года назад +2

    I'm always surrounded with condescending, insecure people who always downplay my achievements, now I know what to do.

  • @tanishpadhan6053
    @tanishpadhan6053 4 года назад +9

    I'm gonna suffering alot in this days sir ...listen ur video u hits my heart ...this is ur kudos!!! Hats of man 🌻

  • @LA-el9xv
    @LA-el9xv 3 года назад +2

    When haters do hate. Just ignore them. Dont reply to anyting or revenge.

  • @vitorferreira1307
    @vitorferreira1307 4 года назад +1

    Haters are a blessing for creative people as nothing terrifies more mediocre minds than positive and constructive change

  • @fredrikbeckker125
    @fredrikbeckker125 4 года назад +12

    I like People behave the way they do in private! I agree 👍

  • @thelifestyleguru926
    @thelifestyleguru926 4 года назад +5

    ROBIN!!!!!!!!!
    I just said to my mom 2 years ago when I was 15 that:
    DON'T CARE ABOUT PEOPLE THROWING HATE.
    Cause HAPPY PEOPLE... NEVER HATE.
    OMG!!!!!! THANKS FOR PROVING IT'S SO TRUE!!! Literally if you are happy, how can you hate???
    Love and Gratitude🌹

  • @vivstyle87
    @vivstyle87 2 года назад

    I am doing guitar tutorial before on my other channel and one of my subscribers commenting sarcastically and said “Are you sure people would love to watch your tutorials? I don’t think so” it hurts me so bad and that is one reasons why I didn’t continue it. After I watch this video, I realized, I need to pursue my goals and prove those who criticized me that they are wrong.

  • @Cats4nelson
    @Cats4nelson 2 года назад +4

    Damn I need to tap into your brain and how you think. That is amazing!! I was feeling bad about how people are hating on me at work, (I’m a manager). I thought I was doing a really great job. I heard people talking about me and how they didn’t like me and didn’t want to work with me. I am a different type of manager in that I try to reinforce the positive and redirect the negative. You made my day!! ☺️Thanks ❤️

  • @muralibalaraman
    @muralibalaraman 4 года назад +2

    Very nice to bring out the topic into the open and link it back to creators. As a minority, they are outcast till they shine beyond others.

  • @annoybot
    @annoybot 4 года назад +2

    Robin, I completely appreciate your efforts to share the very best wisdom - thank you.
    One large component which doesnt seem included here is quality assessment of one's enterprise. There are countless people who Persist, with Confidence, in initiatives to their demise - from CEO's of start-ups, to the 19 year old basketball player who wont give up the delusion he's going to be noticed & "go pro", to the musician or substance user who don't get they're really just playing for themselves and other people are footing the bill.
    The critical diagnostic: "Is this
    Persistent Foolishness
    or
    Foolish Persistence?"
    The former ends in ruin. The latter might also, but at least it knows with certainty (in the mid-1800's) there's really Gold in the California mountains and if one can survive the journey, and work relentlessly, and fend off bandits / thieves / hustlers, one might just be able to turn the Foolish Persistence into Successful Homesteading.
    Persistent Foolishness doesn't invest in accurate maps, doesn't heed warnings from others and take anything other than the shortest path, doesn't have a clear picture of all the risks they plan on defying, doesn't have a healthy understanding of their actual fitness for particular environments, and (possibly easiest to spot externally) doesn't recognize when expertise partnerships are not only more efficient but actually essential in Foolishly Persistent enterprises which *might* be successful if nearly everything goes right.

  • @abc123xyz48
    @abc123xyz48 4 года назад +3

    For some to love you ..
    Some must loathe you ..

  • @princesswhitener6083
    @princesswhitener6083 Год назад

    I agree with everything that you are teaching Robin.... When they take the low road we take the high road!!!! It is true the way that a person treat you is the way they live in their homes! If they live in a happy environment then they will bring that to the outdoors!

  • @pankajsinghmehta5723
    @pankajsinghmehta5723 4 года назад +5

    I love you Robin Sharma sir. You refresh my mind. Your videos make me energetic.

  • @krantishah3273
    @krantishah3273 4 года назад +16

    This is Great... Your words are so amazing ... Thank You So Much... Doing GREAT job... And the book- THE 5 AM CLUB IS Sooo Amazing... It has changed my whole mindset ,heartset, soulset, healthset.... Loved the change in me.. THANK YOU ✨💓❤️

    • @sharmaleadership
      @sharmaleadership  4 года назад +3

      Wonderful to see how my work has helped you. Wish you even greater success. 🙏🏼

    • @krantishah3273
      @krantishah3273 4 года назад +1

      @@sharmaleadership THANK YOU SO MUCH ✨❤️

  • @awesomebychoice7603
    @awesomebychoice7603 4 года назад +3

    Thank you Robin! This was a much needed video for anyone who creates or is trying to do something big in the world. Haters gonna hate, but this video has such a calming and soothing energy that I will be referring to it if ever I feel criticized or judged in the future! Keep up the great work! 👏🙏👏

    • @sharmaleadership
      @sharmaleadership  4 года назад +1

      Great to see how it helped you. Thanks for sharing! ✌🏼

  • @joannavlahou2253
    @joannavlahou2253 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much Robin Sharma, for your time and ideas that inspire our mind and our heart during times of negativity, confusion and feelings of despair coming from facing, working with or happen to meet naysayers and toxic people. I am glad there are human beings believing in and try for all human beings' prosperity.

  • @Lonelyplanet61
    @Lonelyplanet61 3 года назад +3

    Thanks. I needed this so badly, was/am on the verge of giving up and move on but watched this video of yours and what you've described ìs so inspirational, it gave me a motivation... for me to go on. I've subscribed and will be listening to your other videos. Thank you so very much.

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 4 года назад +29

    On seeing the title my immediate thought was "who would hate Robin?". Still wondering...

    • @awesomebychoice7603
      @awesomebychoice7603 4 года назад +3

      Practical Inspiration lol right?! Robin has such a kind and positive energy and his ideas are so powerful! Why would you hate someone who works so hard at making a positive difference in the world?!

    • @awesomebychoice7603
      @awesomebychoice7603 4 года назад +1

      Lions Redemption Agreed! But I do think it’s more a reflection on the person hating than it is on Robin...

    • @awesomebychoice7603
      @awesomebychoice7603 4 года назад +1

      I also think that disagreeing with someone’s point of view Is normal we all have different ones. I guess the difference is how it’s done - in a calm, logical, and respectful way or in an angry, bitter, and jaded way. And that is where people’s own personalities color their behaviours. Calm and kind people will respond in a calm and kind way. Angry people will respond in an angry way. We can only give what we have inside.

    • @Count1000
      @Count1000 4 года назад +2

      Those whose own damons are haunting themselves. 😊

  • @Filalica
    @Filalica 4 года назад +11

    Brilliant!! Brilliant! Thank you! ⭐

  • @jignathakkar9008
    @jignathakkar9008 4 года назад +1

    Robin sir I heartily respect your sincerity for helping us. A big salute to you.....

  • @rebeccagandi5301
    @rebeccagandi5301 3 года назад

    Good things are firstly misunderstood before appreciated.
    So we good people cannot stop, until haters understand what's right or good.

  • @snickerdoodle1
    @snickerdoodle1 3 года назад

    The root of anger is suffering,
    The root of suffering is attachment
    The root of hate is envy,
    The root of envy is ingratitude
    The root of love is giving,
    The root of giving is abundance
    The root of patience is gratitude,
    The root of gratitude is perspective.

  • @samotivationbysami
    @samotivationbysami Год назад +1

    Often when you understand the psychology of a hater, you'll realize that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. The hater is confused, insecure and actually hates themselves; and is just looking for someone else to unload the heavy load they are carrying, so they can feel better. That's pretty sad.

  • @sarahgoolamhussen1163
    @sarahgoolamhussen1163 4 года назад +2

    You are by far my favourite writer!! Thank you so much for your work!! 🙏🙏

  • @dylaneveryday365
    @dylaneveryday365 4 года назад +11

    We want more!!!

  • @balmukundjha2818
    @balmukundjha2818 4 года назад +6

    Very inspiring and motivating 😊

  • @alpanabirmi3142
    @alpanabirmi3142 4 года назад +4

    Thanks Robin it's a great video, in our daily life we face few haters but we don't know how to deal with them and we become depressed over it. Thanks u for choosing this topic, it is of great help.

  • @mikematteazzi1047
    @mikematteazzi1047 4 года назад +1

    I received my first RUclips dislike the other day and this really helped me reflect and stay inspired. Thanks for sharing :D

  • @AnnMitt
    @AnnMitt 3 года назад +1

    Excellent. Thank you.

  • @hrag7s
    @hrag7s 4 года назад +1

    Truly Life Changing words. Thank you for inspiring many people all over the world!

  • @rebeccagandi5301
    @rebeccagandi5301 3 года назад

    The answer is Yes
    Thanks.

  • @teeceefam2827
    @teeceefam2827 4 года назад +1

    I love you Robin Sharma you change my life by just watching your videos 💖

  • @bellaflora.
    @bellaflora. 4 года назад +8

    Robin, I love your heart based messages. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom ❤️

  • @rishikeshshewale5458
    @rishikeshshewale5458 4 года назад +3

    Thanks Robin... You are awesome...

  • @kylieangelheart3297
    @kylieangelheart3297 4 года назад +6

    Awesome I run leadership programs I will defiantly be sharing this with my students.

  • @vernaharris4700
    @vernaharris4700 2 года назад +1

    Results will usually silence the trolls. But even if doesn't keep creating.

  • @impratheek
    @impratheek 4 года назад +22

    *Great words* 🔥🔥🔥

  • @TroyUlysses
    @TroyUlysses 3 года назад +1

    10:08 Noel Gallagher has a band called High Flying Birds, not a song. The lyric is - "The first bird to fly gets all the arrows" from Liam's track For What It's Worth

  • @nethravathibg1746
    @nethravathibg1746 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for presenting to us such a wonderful insights. I have shared this content to 10+ who all need. My request is please add caption/subtitles it will be of great help. In you tube captions it doesn't always pick up right spelling, this request is on behalf people who's second language is English.

  • @oumarsountal6628
    @oumarsountal6628 4 года назад

    Robin Sharma still people they remember your great Song Last time you posted summer is gone, winter in here
    ,and spring in the corner & also he said tell the truth even fire on you, we are not perfect,we strongly believed that statement there's no reason telling something without verifying or good reason, it's great advise with some confidence thank you very much everyone for sharing knowledge that beneficial please post more it's important we are always learning & growing,we wished learned long time ago,but never ever too late.we are still life

  • @jentrueteam
    @jentrueteam 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for this message. Perfect and Timely for this female entrepreneur from a small town in Minnesota.

    • @sharmaleadership
      @sharmaleadership  4 года назад +1

      You're very welcome. Happy to see how it resonated with you.

  • @khaledal-haddi2046
    @khaledal-haddi2046 4 года назад +2

    Thank you!

  • @kylieangelheart3297
    @kylieangelheart3297 4 года назад +6

    Love your books. They really pulled me through some hard times. When I applied your principles I went onto a better greater paying job and a job I love. Thank you. At the time I lost everything. I carry your book the monk who sold his Ferrari and life lessons with me everyday. I lost my licence to drive. If I was driving I would never have had the time to re read and adopt your principles. Actually the winning goal was that you bought my life back into balance and harmony.

    • @pas_peur_v
      @pas_peur_v 4 года назад +1

      Bravo 👏👏👏 I'm not Robin, I'm Valerie but I'm happy for you! Keep going

    • @kylieangelheart3297
      @kylieangelheart3297 4 года назад

      @@pas_peur_v thanks Valerie. I lost so much...but in the process gained more than I had hoped for.

    • @kylieangelheart3297
      @kylieangelheart3297 4 года назад +1

      @@pas_peur_v I aspire to be a great leader to my students and my daughter's.

    • @pas_peur_v
      @pas_peur_v 4 года назад

      @@kylieangelheart3297 oh, you're also a teacher!

    • @awesomebychoice7603
      @awesomebychoice7603 4 года назад +2

      Love the comment section for this video and all the positive support! So happy for you Kylie and so nice of you Valerie to write and support! 👏👏👏

  • @theredpilgrim
    @theredpilgrim 4 года назад +2

    Very inspiring, full of life pointers, for those who are willing to work towards their soul journey! Thanks a lot Robin Sharma! #lifechanging

  • @oumarsountal6628
    @oumarsountal6628 4 года назад +2

    Roboin Sharma your speach wake up call thank you very much everyone for sharing knowledge that beneficial please post more

  • @wesruth7805
    @wesruth7805 4 года назад

    Thank you Robin. I am really blessed listening to your sessions every morning. They encourage and motivate me immensely. You are truly a blessing!

  • @muhammadzaman8077
    @muhammadzaman8077 4 года назад +3

    Great Job..

  • @Lionelitun
    @Lionelitun 3 года назад

    I like how you said it” let karma do “

  • @vikkiflawith
    @vikkiflawith 2 года назад

    Thank you.

  • @rebeccagandi5301
    @rebeccagandi5301 3 года назад

    Robin you are Quite Right
    Thanks.

  • @tonikarabatik6678
    @tonikarabatik6678 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Robin,.... you're amazing person!

  • @lusandajele2296
    @lusandajele2296 4 года назад +2

    Thank you Robin

  • @joy-lopes
    @joy-lopes Год назад

    Robin, this was much needed here. Thank you so much! The quotes and your stories were inspiring - as usual when it comes to your content. Cheers

  • @pooshanbalgobin2131
    @pooshanbalgobin2131 4 года назад +2

    Thanks you

  • @manjarishukla8787
    @manjarishukla8787 4 года назад +2

    Thank you Robin 🌼

  • @michaelpacinelli4476
    @michaelpacinelli4476 3 года назад

    Robin, Thank You so Much for your Content...You have My Gratitude and you deserve more!!

  • @PowerfulU
    @PowerfulU 4 года назад

    Great advice Robin. Anyone who wants to be a leader and innovator must learn to deal with haters.

  • @FocusOnCelebs
    @FocusOnCelebs 4 года назад +3

    Excellent....

  • @DTWAR
    @DTWAR Год назад

    Wow. This is incredibly inspiring. Thank you.

  • @millennialsinglemom4342
    @millennialsinglemom4342 4 года назад +1

    Just downloading your book. Can’t wait to read it 😊

  • @urszulab8397
    @urszulab8397 2 года назад

    Thank you so much 😊, I should know this 20 or 30 yrs ago
    Very well said 👍🙏

  • @edwinromilly4645
    @edwinromilly4645 2 года назад

    The only impossible journey is the one you never begin😔😉
    luv Robin such a ‘powerhouse’ and i will continue to grow and humbly learn from him..Amazing wisdom,insight & empowerment.
    Why your alive Why not try to do something amazing with your Life.!!!!🕊
    peace

  • @Natashahoneypot
    @Natashahoneypot 3 года назад +1

    Thanks.

  • @ricardotorrens1370
    @ricardotorrens1370 2 года назад

    Amazing advice thank you for sharing!

  • @rebeccagandi5301
    @rebeccagandi5301 3 года назад

    We focusing on the Good
    Thanks for your lectures.

  • @mattpaine2558
    @mattpaine2558 4 года назад +2

    Love it!!!

  • @karolynahhowell2875
    @karolynahhowell2875 Год назад

    This is helpful. Also, think about this, some people ask u back the same question u are asking because of their personal experiences. I’m speaking from experience. For example, there are people who want get information: yet, when u ask those same questions back, they do not answer; in fact they stop asking u question, which thought me those people where triflin/tripping on u. Fyi

  • @sarozkumar3939
    @sarozkumar3939 4 года назад +1

    I Love Robin Sharma ❤️

  • @smmangao6512
    @smmangao6512 3 года назад

    Thank you Sir!

  • @flyboyflip
    @flyboyflip 4 года назад +1

    Total mindset mastery as always!

  • @שניחן-ו9ל
    @שניחן-ו9ל 3 года назад

    Thanks Robin
    I have another problem
    I feel like most people do not understand what I am doing at all
    I am a therapist and give lectures in psychology
    Professionals understand me but when I lecture to people from tangent fields I have noticed that I am sure everyone understands the depth
    But I find out too late that people are very proud and do not like to feel that they have learned something new
    Distorted things and make sure to remind me where I came from or wish me to get far one day
    While I feel I have already come very far and I am satisfied with my way
    It's weird to me people's behavior
    I had a lot of positive beliefs about the world and people
    And when I started to succeed I also discovered less beautiful sides in people
    How do you deal with it?

  • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
    @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 года назад +1

    It is a great thing to be hated!!!🙋‍♀️💪👏🧠🙏👊

  • @Anonymous_110
    @Anonymous_110 4 года назад +3

    Excellent

  • @jainmayoor
    @jainmayoor 4 года назад +1

    Thank You For Uploading This Session Sir
    Please Upload More And More To Sessions if Possible
    We Keep Waiting For your Sessions

  • @elentells
    @elentells 4 года назад +2

    Love it Robin
    You really inspired me

  • @MultiNorida
    @MultiNorida 4 года назад +1

    Very good info.Thanks!

  • @pranamyabhat2836
    @pranamyabhat2836 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Sir.

  • @changchang8690
    @changchang8690 3 года назад +1

    Subscribed. Just discovered you this morning. Thank you for your message

  • @toriahungerford8400
    @toriahungerford8400 3 года назад

    LOVE THIS! Thank you Robin!

  • @drlepora1
    @drlepora1 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing Robin...

  • @nadimanwari83
    @nadimanwari83 4 года назад +1

    ThankU Sir! 💥

  • @BhupeshKhawasofficial
    @BhupeshKhawasofficial 3 года назад

    you are an inspiration for me

  • @rameshagarwal147
    @rameshagarwal147 2 года назад

    MASSIVE SUCCESS
    IS
    THE BEST REVENGE.