How to tell if an INFJ likes you

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  • Опубликовано: 26 мар 2018
  • Hi, it's Jenn!
    INFJ 4w3 sx/sp
    Big 5 personality traits: High in openness & neuroticism, High in industriousness (moderate in overall concientiousness), High in compassion (moderate in overall agreeableness), High in assertiveness (moderate in overall extraversion).
    CAMERA FALLS around the 11:34 mark (sorry about that!) This is my first video so go easy on me! I improvised too, which is a huge step out of an INFJ's comfort zone haha
    8 signs an INFJ likes you! They will....
    1. Act shy / nervous
    2. Let you touch them
    3. Most likely wait for you to approach them, but will respond enthusiastically when you do
    4. Smile more
    5. Make time to spend one-on-one time with you
    6. Skip small-talk and go straight to the interesting bits of your personality. They will be very interested in how your mind works and will be completely attentive
    7. At some point, make a daring initiation (e.g. ask you out)
    8. Want to take care of you
    If this video receives positive feedback, I'll be making more INFJ and MBTI-related videos in the near future, as well as some counselling and psychoanalytical ones! ♥

Комментарии • 795

  • @Womenswell022
    @Womenswell022 5 лет назад +604

    When an INFJ stops loving you, dont bother...It is simiply over. When INFJ dont love you, they dont love you, no matter what the person tries to do to get INFJ's attention.

  • @Rain_eday
    @Rain_eday 4 года назад +284

    lol being an INFJ is like having a "cat" personality

  • @tommynobaka
    @tommynobaka Год назад +106

    If I like you as an INFJ, I'll try my best to have an attentive humorous conversation. It's quite obvious that I like you when I remember little details about you and give you either food or a gift or gesture that's meaningful to you. If I let you touch me is a dead give away too

  • @bellaanderson7503
    @bellaanderson7503 5 лет назад +472

    I'll first befriend the person I like, and quietly observe them for awhile, months even, to see how they react to problems, how they handle situations, how they treat other people, etc. If they react badly to situations, but confess their love for me, I would refuse their proposal, because I don't want to be put into a toxic relationship. If I think they're right for me, I just tell them I like them.

  • @halorium
    @halorium 6 лет назад +412

    Your points really apply to male INFJs as well. The problem is the world expects males to be the "MAN" and take charge, initiate, be aggressive, etc. Totally not the style of an INFJ. Hmm I'm starting to see why we are the rarest type now.

  • @bryantlookingbill8261
    @bryantlookingbill8261 6 лет назад +703

    I love watching her glasses slip down and wait for her to push them back up

  • @thehoneyfinch115
    @thehoneyfinch115 5 лет назад +87

    How many infj is watching this to not leave any clue that they like someone.?

  • @haileymueller6153
    @haileymueller6153 4 года назад +22

    My crushes always think I hate them because I can talk to everyone else but them. I can't even look at my crush...

  • @jedant7095
    @jedant7095 5 лет назад +58

    Just recently started watching vids on INFJs, it's comforting to know that I'm not alone in this

  • @svvancouver3307
    @svvancouver3307 5 лет назад +62

    ...we prefer to have that psychological and emotional distance with people we are not interested in because there is no point anyway. Lol-the way you said “because there is no point anyway” was dead on.

  • @cosmic_seabunny
    @cosmic_seabunny 5 лет назад +1

    Lol who else is an INFJ and watching this video to see if they do these things around their crush

  • @selayeo
    @selayeo 4 года назад +334

    I’m just watching this because INFJs are so cute and I don’t have anything better to do

  • @PowerRedBullTypology
    @PowerRedBullTypology 6 лет назад +1

    How to tell an iNFJ likes you:

  • @namelessvermillion8188
    @namelessvermillion8188 5 лет назад +492

    I stay quiet , when I like you and when I don't like you hahaha.

  • @anjastrawberrie
    @anjastrawberrie 4 года назад +54

    Why are INFJ's so cute? Like you guys are adorable 🥺

  • @Savs1998
    @Savs1998 6 лет назад +400

    the part where you talked about not wanting to be touched by other people I relate to so much !! around my extended family or people I don’t know very well I hate being touched.. but when it comes to someone I’m interested in it’s a different story 🤩

  • @samanthac2216
    @samanthac2216 6 лет назад +234

    infj girl here...all very true !!! add a lot of blushing too

  • @irawanyusuf17
    @irawanyusuf17 6 лет назад +280

    aye, when talking, INFJ's sight is never steady

  • @shiromanding3330
    @shiromanding3330 5 лет назад +24

    NO TOUCHING IF WE DON’T LIKE YOU OR VIBE WITH YOU. Sooo, true. Mere touching, even so little means a lot.

  • @genez429
    @genez429 5 лет назад +70

    Myth.... not all INFJ's are shy and insecure. It has a lot to do with their upbringing. Smart parents will be able to nurture and build the right kind of confidence in the child. Being truly loved is a great modifier. Being truly loved, means the child was not pampered, nor sheltered... Yet, never treated cruelly when not pampering and sheltering them. Parents can easily wish to over protect such a child... or, make insensitive demands to try to modify the behavior.