Dr. Gabor Mate and Dr Shevali Tsabary are two child advocates that I recommend all parents listen to and follow their teachings/findings. They can even be found here on RUclips, which I highly recommend watching. If all parents took just a LITTLE more initiative with their own children, we wouldn't see half of the issues we have in society today.
I worked at a daycare and we had some kids scream kick and cry when there was nothing wrong with the teachers. They simply wanted their mom, and there is nothing wrong with that. The parent would leave and the child would go play with their friends, eat their snacks, go to recess, nap and keep playing. Kids want mom and dad, but when they are saying things like begging to not be put in a basement, they comes home consistently with a dirty diaper or rash then its time for a new daycare. Some kids transition to daycare REALLY well and I promise you there are the handful that don't. Of course I'm talking about pretty young kids. If your 9 year old is crying and begging there is probably something more going on whether it has to do with the daycare or the child themself.
You are absolutely right that is the first sign that the children are being missed treated well ask the moms how long when they get home they're on their cell phones these poor little children
When my son didn't want to go to daycare, it was enough for me not to push. Found another place he's happy to go. It's as simple as that. Listen to your children.
My daughter didn’t want to go to daycare so I requested with management to be able to check on her by seeing the live video in the classroom during open hours. Teachers were unaware. Looked to me like the teachers were neglecting my daughter all day. They only interacted with her to change her and give her a snack but otherwise no interaction. I took her out immediately and notified management.
The lady who started to cry and said “I didn’t even get to say bye to my kids” I felt that because I watched kids for about two years and I miss and think about them and their well being almost everyday.
@esther fisher the teachers who worked at the pre-school weren't associated with any child abuse and/or neglect. the criminals just owned the school, and didn't work with any of the kids there, just at the daycare. the children at the daycare were mistreated, not the other preschool students. i couldn't imagine being taken away from kids that you've been teaching and raising, when you're an innocent person. :(
@esther fisher Why are you reading so much into his comment? He's just saying he misses the kids he used to care for and you have to write a book? It's not that complicated.
@esther fisher A pizza party? Really? You really believe that the teachers work to have pizza parties? It seems like that's what you're assuming. Can't they just care about their kids? Sure, the toddlers are safe and all, great. But it's not immature to miss the kids you were teaching and watching grow, especially when the school you were teaching at didn't do anything wrong other than having a deplorable owner. It's kinda sad and makes me think that you only cared about that pizza party yourself when you were teaching since that's what you're assuming they're missing so much.
Wait. So was that a mom of one of the kids saying her child was begging her "Don't take me to the little house! Don't take me to the little house! Don't put me downstairs?" The kid kept saying it, but...she kept sending the kid? Uh...I think you need to investigate more than just the daycare provider there.
Why did Her comment go virtually unnoticed. I'm questioning the Reporters' interest in this case. Were They aware of that Lady's point of view. Her comment was caught mid comment, and ignored. This whole situation stinks.
@@alittletlc Then you weren't ready to have kids if you are going to let a stranger raise them for you. What is the point of having kids if you are going to dump them at daycare all day?
@@stew7479 you do realize some people don't plan to be a single parent. If you are widowed what do you do? Starve and live out on the street? Get out of your bubble. Not everyone has this option whether intentional or unintentional. I wish life could go according to your exact plans but we all know that's impossible.
@@stew7479 As somebody who grew up with a single mother, who had to raise me all by herself after my dad passed away, being a working mum is extremely difficult, but it’s people’s only option sometimes. I grew up to have a close relationship with my mother, because despite the fact that she worked she always took time to love me, teach me and attend school activities, she always put me over anything else, truly the best mum ❤️ Working mums are just as strong as at home mums!
@@burntcake3985 no, I think maybe she would take the kids out one at a time when their parents show up and keep the other kids hidden, idk. The parents didn’t look closely as the police
@@chevon1920 when people who are watched and doing something like this. They will take the children that are most vulnerable. It's easier to keep a child that a parents doesnt want. Otherwise they would have been noticed a lot sooner. They only got caught because of a mild concern, and for a long time there wasnt concerns at all.
Parents should always do unannounced "drop in" visits to see their kids in daycare. Some centers say that do not allow unannounced visits. Those are the places that especially need to be visited!
@@gregoryvanderpas4176 that's what I been doing. The way this world is now I won't even let someone baby sit my kids. Sad you can't even trust family. I only say this because I was sexually abused by a relative as a toddler and young child.
@@gregoryvanderpas4176 How about you live in the real world were most of us can’t afford to not work. You don’t think every parent would like to stay home with their kids?? You sound stupid, out of touch with reality and entitled.
What’s interesting is that there are rules about this kind of thing that many parents aren’t aware of. I work at a large Early Childhood Center in Chicago, IL and DCFS licensing makes it a rule that parents can stop by the school whenever they want. Many providers take advantage of parents not knowing the licensing regulations for home based care and childcare centers! I try to empower my families with this knowledge whenever possible, lest they be taken advantage of!
You guys are so rude what If I saw a picture of you and I called you a meth head you wouldn't like that and I mean yea they are bad people but dont judge by appearance
This is why you listen to your kids. Last year my son went to a daycare his father picked out. I had bad vibes from the first meeting. Yes the house was clean and orderly but something was off. After a few days my son was so low energy and sad. I went to drop him off he would cry saying he didn't want to go to sleep. I went to drop him off late one day and she didn't open the door, my son kept pulling on me "let's get in the car mama" so I took him to his old babysitter for the day. I got to the old babysitter and took him out the car and he went running to the door knocking on it and calling her name. Even though I didn't know what was going on at the new babysitter that confirmed that it wasn't good. Then of course my son's father was like "oh you just didn't want to give her a chance. " First off I don't have to give anyone a chance when it comes to my kid. He was only under the new babysitters care for 2 weeks but his whole demeanor was off, as far as I'm concerned that was 2 weeks to long.
@@kudousawoke4468 no and I really don't want to find out. I think at the very least she was putting the kids to sleep all day. I also thought back on the fact there were no toys in the daycare but she had a room on the side that had toys up to the ceiling.
Exactly what I'm talking about, especially if your child isn't known for being dramatic and you never had problems with leaving them with other people.
Tiffany They'll never tell anyone that because those kids have last names and they are trying/supposed to be protecting those children. And they wouldn't be doing their jobs if they told.
Don Solo absolutely what I was thinking! Weird how small things like that can tell you so much. Something about her eyes don’t sit well with me, I would never leave my children with strangers. Two of those women look cracked out as well.
So when the parents got their kids back, sweating, tired, and dehydrated, they weren't concerned at all? When their kids got upset at being taken to a place that abused them, they just brushed it off? Something is missing here and the parents should be investigated too. Also, what did they make these kids do that made them so hot and dehydrated? Like, wtf? Am I the only one here that thinks there's more layers to this story?
A point I don't see anyone make is that children were kept in a hidden basement. If a parent dropped off their child, at the very least seeing no other children at a "daycare" would tip them off. I doubt they would wait for all 26 kids to arrive to seal them off, especially in a house like that, interiors in homes like that don't usually have wide open living rooms like more modern ones do. I think some if not all the parents actually knew something was going on and had a benefit from it.
I’m sure the women changed diapers and cleaned the kids up before giving them back but I also agree - super weird that the parents didn’t take their kids seriously.
It's the parent's faults too.. For not listening to their children, and not paying attention to their kids. The videos said the children were obviously dehydrated, & had saggy, wet, disgusting diapers, Yet the parents didn't notice that?..
@@terryowen6759 Obviously, But they should've noticed that earlier, Instead of then. It took the longer than it should've to see that SOMETHING was wrong with their kids.
Didn’t they notice a change in their child when they pick them up like they were dehydrated sweating soiled diapers these parents aren’t even paying attention to those children after their being neglected and abuse
ABD THAT.. is how the police were tipped off. THe video did briefly describe at least one witness account where the kid complained to "mommy" that he/she didn't want to go "down into the basement of that house again"
@Babba Ganoush Obviously she "serves" some higher purpose in the community. It's sickening what "some" people get away with just because they have dirt on people in high places.
SLEEPGRANDMA DEPRESSION SHE SHOULDVE LISTEN TO HER CHILD. I WOULDVE MISSED WORK TO STAY HIME WITH MINE AND LOOK INTO THE SITUATION WHY WOULD A CHILD LIE ABOUT THAT
@@up-uw4op true but you can't just dump your kid with anyone and go to work. I worked all of my children's childhood and I work the day shift and my husband worked the night shift. You do what you have to do but the kids should always be the priority and if your child is telling you that they don't want to go to that place, you have to find out why?
Actually, young children dehydrate very quickly.. so with not being offered food or water all day, on top of crying all day being neglected, it’s absolutely possible. The parents had nothing to do with this.
If you have time to police daycare centers you have time to raise your child properly at home. ETA: My comment is not intended as an attack or criticism of parents utilizing childcare outside the home. Many parents believe they and their children are better off if they work and earn income outside the home. In some cases this might be fact but if you’re working to pay for the child care and not much else, it’s probably not the bargain you think it is.
They didn't know - it was hidden. I expect that there was a playroom where they delivered their children to and collected their cleaned-up children from. They probably also didn't know how many children there were in total.
@@bluexblondebaby Because they'd never be able to explain away those kids going missing if the parents dropped them off at the daycare. They'd (the daycare workers and owner) be put in prison for the rest of the their lives if they did that.
Shoo I listened to mine 7yrs ago from La Petite Academy Greenwood Village, CO. My child came back with bloody marks on her chest. Now tell me, who removed her top to do that? Mind you, my child’s class had total of 9 children with 3 adults. ALL the adults denied seeing any abuse and maybe the kids were playing rough. Excuse me?! Yeah, I took my child from that daycare QUICK 💨 without EVER looking back.
She was, I’m convinced that this would not be a national story, nor would this woman go thru trouble of having false walls built simply to have more patrons at her daycare, give me a break, nfw, ask yourself if that makes sense.
My first experience with day care I watch another student get a whoopin from one of the instructors. I told my folks about it and they pulled me immediately. Always play an active role with your babies and listen to them. They are smarter than you give them credit for.
Who cares what they look like? If they all looked like beauty contestants would that make it okay? Most people educated in child/infant care or education generally dress and groom to be “kid friendly.” They avoid excessive makeup or formal hairstyles, wear casual clothing suitable for playing on the floor or light physical activities. Studies show small children are actually intimidated by overdone makeup.
It's exactly what my husband did back in the nineties, he worked fulltime and had a part-time job, so I could stay home with our two boys. Plus I babysat one friend's 2 boys for a few years.
Good for you, you are a good dad . People shouldn’t have kids if they aren’t willing to do what it takes to have a parent there to take care of them. My husband works, I budget like crazy and cook everything from scratch, no hair appts or mani pedis for me. But I stay home to care for my own babies so this kind of stuff doesn’t happen.
I pulled my preschooler out of a daycare when I caught them screaming at other kids in front of me and my other kids when I was picking him up! Can't imagine what they did when no parents were around.
Why not just quit and raise your child at home or at least have your own mom or MIL raise the child? If you need to downsize the home, etc. why not do it so you can stay home? Nothing like raising your own child.
Same, I got the teachers aide fired & placed on a ban to never work with kids again. I helped to get policies in place at the daycare my kids went to, to be opened door & have mirror windows so parents could look in without anyone in the classroom noticing , than eventually cameras with sound. It helped weed out a lot of despicable teachers, teacher assistants and aides. One was caught on camera slapping a 4yr old kids than lied about it but forgot the school had just installed cameras, smh.
I pulled my son from the local YMCA when I had gone there to talk to them about another issue and saw a woman being nasty to her group of kids and yelling at them lke they were animals. I was like are you kidding me??? I said you let them talk to the kids like that??? I said wait till I tell everyone I know about this. They were raggedy.
@@lorimav unfortunately that isn't a possibility for everyone. Having one parent at home is becoming more and more of a dream for the shrinking middle class for a plethora of reasons. Impossible if you're a single parent.
That’s EXACTLY what I did once to find my son still in a crib with a dirty diaper when he was a baby hours after I had dropped him off. I NEVER went back there and reported them. Little ones can’t speak, so you have to be proactive even when it’s difficult with work schedules. You have to keep your priorities straight with family first and I know that’s very difficult for single parents, but you MUST with child abuse and trafficking SO PREVALENT!
I used to do the same with both my sons. My older boy started telling me about another child who would run around hitting the other kids (including him) and that the daycare teachers wouldn't do anything about it. So I arranged to drop by, and I saw what was going on, had a discussion with the gal running the daycare, and when I wasn't satisfied with the response, I removed my son and put him in a different (better) place. The thing is, it was really good up until that point, but sometimes things change, and as a parent, you might not see the changes if you get into a habit of dropping off and picking up. Listen to your kids!
Frankly, I'm surprised the reporters gave them time to hose all the blood off. The number of amazing parents I've been lucky to grow up around would still be picking parts of these women out from under their nails ~years~ later. The fact they are so calm and 'oh isn't this just so upsetting' seems surreal.
@@ina1815 I think it's more like we need people to make better decisions about if or when they have kids. If we actually taught proper sex ed and had low cost or free birth control, this likely wouldn't happen as often.
A nurse licensed in Illinois had his/her license revoked for stealing patient narcotics. The RN went to AZ, and got her license there. Same thing happened, and after going to DC the same thing happened. This implies that the system is broken and the gvt should b sued for not correcting these issues of licensing.
Yeah, me too. And while the owner was the issue those teachers and staff ran that place without her, and so likely weren’t doing anything wrong. I do feel bad for the good teachers.
For reasons like this I became a stay at home mom. My son couldn’t talk yet. Did not want to stay and cried every-time I left him. Decided no amount of money was worth my child crying. May God bless all the parents who have to work to make ends meet and the children’s who have to stay at daycare.
Children have NEVER been safe from the Grownups. Millions are literally abused, raped starved tortured and murdered annualy. Who do you think are the abusers?
I never trust not a single daycare in this whole world. I rather pay my son's grandmother the mother of my ex to take care of my son. I trust her alot and she loves ,spoils and treats my son really nice. My son always wants to go with his grandmother everywhere ❤
@S R life isn't like the old days. Sometimes both parents work. Hence they need someone to look after their kid. Not every woman is a stat at home mom anymore and can't even afford it but would love to still have their child. And eventually the child will be able to stay home alone and grow into an adult. I'm still young but i also worry about how I will be able to raise a child. It's just not that easy for everyone. Additionally, there are some advantages to daycares. Some of them teach your children well and get them to socialize with other children. Still it's important to listen to your child and see how they react. Hopefully if I am able to spend most of my time with my kid i will.
Not everyone has that option. Some need daycare. U have to trust your own instincts and be super observant but even then sadly some sickos are just too good. Not saying this lady is one of them. But tragedies happen, we can’t blame anyone except the perpetrator.
@S R I agree with you, I think the mom can stay home taking care of the child while the father works but both father and mother have to work together to raise the child. Both father and mother have to work to pay the mortgage, or the rent the Bill's, etc and they leave their child with grandparents which is ok as long as the grandparents are not bad grandparents and take good care of their grandsons or granddaughters
I took my son out of two daycares. Once he came home with a huge bump on his head ( he fell off the monkey bars). I was concerned because no one alerted me to his injury. He never went back. The second daycare was a No after my son told me “Ms Minny uses mad voice when you leave”..... oh really, that was the last time she ever saw my precious son. I kept him home with me until kindergarten. Shame on these parents for dropping their kids off for hours n hours a day m never listening to their little hearts. My son knew I would protect him that’s why he told me about Ms Minny. Parents please stop leaving your kids with strangers.
But some people don’t have a choice. Some people can’t afford to “keep their kids home with them”. I was lucky enough that my mom has worked in a daycare my entire life, so she was able to get my kids in her daycare where I KNEW they were safe and well cared for (I also worked there with my mom until I got pregnant with my son so I also knew how all the instructors were). But I also know now that some people do not have a choice. My husband and I BOTH have to work. We cannot afford to only have one income.
@@mommac2687 ...sad sad dayzzzzz when people chose their jobs over their kids. I made the sacrifice to stay home ( n scaled back on our lifestyle). Honestly I would rather sleep on a park bench with my child knowing he’s safe than leave him in the hands of a monster, but that just me. Some people would rather a comfortable lifestyle no matter who watching the kids ..... never ever in my book.
@@callmecarmella So you would rather go with no home and no way to feed your child? I never said that leaving your kids with people like this was a good idea. But, as I stated some people don’t have a choice. Some parents are single parents and have NOONE to watch their kids. Should they listen to their kids, ABSOLUTELY!! Should they do everything in their power to find someone else for their child’s safety, ABSOLUTELY!! But again, some parents don’t have that choice. And I choose food for my child and a roof for my child first. Your child isn’t safe on a park bench either.
@@callmecarmella And as seen in the video, the parents actually DID do something by calling and having them investigated. But I also I will not sit here quiet and let someone treat others like a bad parent because they have no other option. They don’t “choose their job over their kids.” They “CHOOSE” to make sure their child has what they need. Some don’t have the option to “scale back on their lifestyle”. Some would have NO income at all, if they didn’t have a job
@@mommac2687 .....Every soul on this earth is entitled to their own opinion. I would never try to change the mind for an individual who drops their child off with strangers. People are pregnant for nine whole months. That’s a long time to make some serious life changes. We are cut from a different cloth. I started a business at home ( n was making my whole salary in a day). My younger sister did the same. She worked hard during her pregnancy to start her own business as well. People have very different mindsets. Some feel as though they have no choice. Others see it as an opportunity to make life changes.
You just go by your instincts, you know as a parent who you can, and cannot trust with your own children. I had amazing loving friends who were great with my kids. And family who helped me , that love my kids and treats them well. Now I work from home. And take care of my kids without the help of a sitter, plus it helps they are older now. I'd say just go by your own judgment, i don't trust daycares, and Im super picky who's around my kids, even with them being older, i dont just have anyone around my kids.
The first and only time I left my daughters at daycare, I was nervous the entire morning. I remember going on my lunch hour to check on my babies. As I was walking close to the window, I heard someone say “you better sit here and don’t move” and then I heard my youngest daughter cry. I started banging on that door hard that made my knuckles bled a little. When the babysitter opened the door, she looked at me in shock. I pushed her aside and took my babies. Back then there were no cellphones, so I drove home called the cops and filed a police report against her. I had just started my new job and it was my first day. I didn’t go back. As hard as it may sound, I started looking for jobs that allowed me to take my daughters with me. I was fortunate to land a job from home that paid really well and eventually I opened my own business. I’m now a grandmother and helped my eldest daughter and son in-law to start their own business so this way my grandchildren would be home with their mommy.
What that doesn’t real to me it’s sounds like a movie and that’s plus why did you push the door without know what happens and plus if you did tell us the back story
@@kudousawoke4468 my two daughters were 2 and 5. The one that started crying and was told to sit and not move was the 2year old. Do you think I was going to ask questions at that moment, when I clearly heard the woman yell at the top of her lungs “you better sit here and don’t move”? she was a grown woman yelling like that to a 2 year old that she was babysitting. The woman was watching a movie and my daughter was banging on a toy and she got upset, per what my oldest daughter said. Who by the way was sitting on the floor on the side of the couch sobbing. I was infuriated because I know first hand how it feels to get physically abused and also molested by a babysitter. I was not going to stop and have a conversation about the incident with that woman. The furry in the tone of her voice said it all. The reason why I called the police is because I wanted them to investigate her as she had 4 other kids she babysat and only God knows what she did to them. And no, this is not from a movie... in real life these things do happen. Didn’t you just see the video?
I'm watching this with my six year old asleep next to me and I am so glad that my wife and my work schedules are opposite of each other. Stories like this hurt when you hear about them, even though they're not your own children. Heartbreaking.
I thought I read or heard on the news that all the parents were "interviewed by officials"... whatever that means. I'm a native of Colo.Spgs. Why or how 26+ parents didn't have this daycare checked out or have a gut instinct something wasn't right is beyond me. My dau was very chatty from 2yrs on and told on everyone, and everything when I'd pick her up from daycare.
I have two daughters, when they were small, I would ask how their day went and what did they do.Now I have a 7 year old granddaughter, both my daughter and I ask her the same questions on the way home.Parents under estimate how smart and honest kids can be. Be involved!
@@myes344 that is HORRIBLE!!! Poor child. I'm sooo glad you trusted your own instincts and didn't listen to her and gave him water. Hope you reported that half-wit "mother" so that baby doesn't suffer every day, or at least tell her he drinks it just fine. She probably just gives him juice and soda all day. Stupid woman.
These parents were clearly not asking their kids any questions at the end of the day. My little one , since she was 1.5 she had her way of communicating And we understood her enough. Kids will tell you what is going on IF YOU ASK!
@@ninotravis1341 We society also ignores it. For millennia unwanted children only had churches to help them. Society simply ignored until more or less recently when gov did take up the challenge. There are many people who do keep kids for a living and there neighbors should be evaluating them.. Its not just orphans there is a huge amount of babysitters and very few parents today. Its a big difference that our society is failing at .
Probably because she chose only the children that were three years and younger to be in the basement so that they wouldn’t be able to explain properly what was going on they just probably thought it was normal they were still babies
My daughter got a job at the daycare center that my granddaughter attended so she knew what was going on. That young lady is smart, well rounded as she is a thinker. My daughter as a smart woman.
It hurts that these people do so much harm when they could do things the right way and reep the love rewards. I still have children who include me in their lives after being in my class 20 years ago. Those are the real rewards of being an early educator.
Lol Nope. They will go to jail and get 3 meals a day. Tv, internet, education. They will get more then what they gave to those children. What they should do is put some weights on them and throw them in the ocean. But thats cruel. They deserve a fair trial! Who am I to judge...
@@wf9258 - We don't need to waste money on weights. Just take them out to the middle of the Pacific and make them walk the plank in shark infested waters.
We aren't getting the whole story....There's NO WAY 26 sets of parents were in and out of that little house every day...the neighbors said that much. From all the arrests being made nationwide since really, Trump....IMO the pedos are running wild in the US and children are being "farmed" OFF THE BOOKS.
@@davidholtz3885 Just so long as you stick to the real pedophiles and don't go down the QAnon rabbit hole. There are enough real victims. You don't need to invent more.
When my son first started preschool, I stayed with him. I planned to stay a few days, till he got used to it, then leave. I was so overprotective. My son was fine, but another child would cling to me and cry. When his parent dropped him off. I would carry him and talk to him until he stopped crying. Most of the other parents thought he was my child and was shocked when they found out who my son was. I ended up being hired. I cried the first day my son started kindergarten. When I picked him up, he told me I embarrassed him because his classmates saw me crying. After that, he wouldn’t allow me to walk him to school. 😂
Awesome Koga ... your son "didn't allow you to walk him to school" ??? What sort of mother are you then? I was still seeing my children, at the time of 12 and 15 years old onto the bus.
ROSEMARY DUDLEY I did too. You’ve got to these days. If they would’ve said no I would’ve done it anyway. A staggering number of children go missing every year.
I drove my car to the school parking lot and spied on my son getting off the bus and going into the school. I’ve even driven to school and spied on him during recess to make sure he wasn’t being bullied. I’m nuts
The first daycare I took my son to was called play haven in WI. When I came back to pick him up after work, the teacher told me he was downstairs in the indoor play area. I went down to the basement and found many toddlers wondering around. Parts of the basement was not well lit. I asked for my don and they didn’t even know which kid he was. The staff had no connections with the kid. I took him out of that place and followed my instinct at every daycare until I found a good one (he was happy and teachers knew him)
Overall, America does a good job protecting children. However, every once in a while, we hear stories like this. And the reason why is because we assume all women will be nurturing towards children to the same degree that we assume all men are suspect until proven otherwise. And that is just a woefully wrong assumption.
I can honestly say that America is actually quite bad at protecting kids. We're decent in some aspects, but the problem is: nobody believes kids, and most of the time, they don't want to. I've been close within the system for some time and a lot of well-meaning people will easily believe that kids are being taken care of and protected, because it's easier and safer to believe than the harsh reality.
This kind of stuff happens more often than people think. The owner of the daycare we went to would constantly lie to my mom about things I was doing so I would work for her for free(I was never allowed to play with the other kids, and always had a list of chores to do when I got to the daycare after school). She would also hide kids in the garage when social services was there(My sister was forced to lay on the floor in a van). I was so scared to say something because I thought no one would believe me, because they didn't believe me when my version of what happened didn't match up with hers. She would force me to eat(After 15 years I am just now getting back to a healthy weight) get other kids to make fun of me, she wouldn't let me use the bathroom if I had to do anything other than pee, and punished me if I talked to other parents when I helped them pack up their kids because I always said the wrong thing. (I think one mother kind of knew I was being mistreated, and would sometimes slip me money). Years later whe I joking about my trauma (I'm really bad at talking about most of my childhood without turning it into a joke) and my mom was like, "Why didn't you tell me?". I don't have the heart to tell her that her actions and reactions in my childhood made me fearful and scared, so I just dealt with it and pretended to be happy. As a kid she had that old fashioned model of parenting where kids don't have much of a voice, and in some ways she has changed, and in other ways it's still the same. Now, whenever I'm struggeling with somethng or battleing depression I often get reminded of how happy I usually am, and how it will come to pass, so I have had to learn how to deal wth a lot of these things on my own, and with my sister. We didn't realize how abusive our childhood was until we became adult and made friend's with people who had normal childhoods. We would be talking about something, joking about it, and people would loo at us like, "Hey, are you okay?" Listen to your kids. Look out for the kids that aren't "your kids". Treat them with respect. Just because someone is an adult doesn't mean their voice is more valid than a child's. As a teacher, I try to go into each day remebering how my life could have been diferent if someone had just noticed, or taken my small pleads here and there more seriously.
The mom saying that her kid said “don’t take me to the house, don’t put me in the basement” should be ashamed to show her face on camera… like did that not concern you??? 🤔🤔
20 years ago when my children were young, my husband and I had 1 car, we had a strict budget, we had no additional spending, and he worked 12 hours a day...I changed every diaper, did all the feedings and did all the cleaning and shopping so my husband could rest and sleep...we never put our children in daycare. You never know who's molesting your 2 or 3 year old child in daycare.
@@andrewc1036 people get paid more today to compensate for the cost of living. Minimum wage in the 90's was 4.25. People want more things, fancy phones, huge houses and the newest car model available.
@@andrewc1036 It depends on what your priorities are. If your priority is your child's safety and well-being, then you make it work. You just won't have as many nice things as your friends and neighbors. But for me personally, it was certainly worth the sacrifice.
@@marier.245 I feel like it is becoming more and more impossible to buy a home and have my wife stay at home full time. I earn a lot too and feel bad for other young people earning less. We own a 2009 corolla and haven't gone on vacation with our two kids for 5 years. She has to work part time and were not the only ones. 90s were more affordable imo
Who is this Nobodies family? A Multi-state Child ring rarely works without shady dealings and major financial assistance. Look into her connections bet she's a someone if you look closely.
I went through that experience and my son was 3 but when my son begged me crying and even my baby that was just a few months old and he cried when I would take him there I knew to get my kids out and that’s exactly what I did and I was at work and had my mom and my sister pick up my boys ASAP. As a parent never avoid any little signs at all!!!!
And this is why my husband and I decided I needed to be a stay at home mom no matter the sacrifices. Too many horror stories come out of daycare centers.
I noticed that too... I'm sure she meant the opposite, but who knows.... Maybe she really believed the adult's were victimized by the kids?? It's a really weird world now. Can't count anything out anymore.
I agree!!! That’s why people should not guilt mothers who stay home by telling them “it takes a village”. I’ve never let anyone but my mother or mother in law watch my children, and only for an hour or two to celebrate anniversary.
@@Imnottapinata have you met people? No one can raise kids. Have you seen the economy? If only the people who can afford to have kids have kids, in one generation there will be like 12 people
Sacrificed owning a home so I could stay home and raise my own children! Sp happy I did. Never had any problems when they were school aged, teenagers and now adults on their own.
People need to listen to their children.
Elijah Halliburton 2022 Exactly,Exactly!!
I think some parents did not pay attention to their children's' emotions.
Elijah Halliburton 2022 The children were too young to actually communicate but it should be obvious from their faces that they experienced abuse.
Elijah Halliburton 2022 and put the phones and tablets down
Dr. Gabor Mate and Dr Shevali Tsabary are two child advocates that I recommend all parents listen to and follow their teachings/findings. They can even be found here on RUclips, which I highly recommend watching. If all parents took just a LITTLE more initiative with their own children, we wouldn't see half of the issues we have in society today.
If your child kicks, screams, and cries, refusing to go to daycare, MAYBE, it’s time to find a new daycare! Glad they were found safe!
I worked at a daycare and we had some kids scream kick and cry when there was nothing wrong with the teachers. They simply wanted their mom, and there is nothing wrong with that. The parent would leave and the child would go play with their friends, eat their snacks, go to recess, nap and keep playing. Kids want mom and dad, but when they are saying things like begging to not be put in a basement, they comes home consistently with a dirty diaper or rash then its time for a new daycare. Some kids transition to daycare REALLY well and I promise you there are the handful that don't. Of course I'm talking about pretty young kids. If your 9 year old is crying and begging there is probably something more going on whether it has to do with the daycare or the child themself.
You are absolutely right that is the first sign that the children are being missed treated well ask the moms how long when they get home they're on their cell phones these poor little children
Nah, I had a daycare. I had one who’d scream at drop off and pick up. She just didn’t handle transitions well.
More like ask why they're behaving that way first. Some kids just throw tantrums.
Not just that, it’s time to have them fully addressed and treated accordingly. These children are gonna have some serious traumatic experiences.
When my son didn't want to go to daycare, it was enough for me not to push. Found another place he's happy to go. It's as simple as that. Listen to your children.
tried in 1960 1980???
My daughter didn’t want to go to daycare so I requested with management to be able to check on her by seeing the live video in the classroom during open hours. Teachers were unaware. Looked to me like the teachers were neglecting my daughter all day. They only interacted with her to change her and give her a snack but otherwise no interaction. I took her out immediately and notified management.
@@margotmelvin1578 Yep they think they've got it so hard today.....
yall are some good parents
Or raise your own kids......
The lady who started to cry and said “I didn’t even get to say bye to my kids” I felt that because I watched kids for about two years and I miss and think about them and their well being almost everyday.
I work with special needs kids. The kid ive worked with the longest (3 years) is leaving soon and it hurts to think about
@esther fisher the teachers who worked at the pre-school weren't associated with any child abuse and/or neglect. the criminals just owned the school, and didn't work with any of the kids there, just at the daycare. the children at the daycare were mistreated, not the other preschool students. i couldn't imagine being taken away from kids that you've been teaching and raising, when you're an innocent person. :(
@esther fisher Why are you reading so much into his comment? He's just saying he misses the kids he used to care for and you have to write a book? It's not that complicated.
@esther fisher A pizza party? Really? You really believe that the teachers work to have pizza parties? It seems like that's what you're assuming. Can't they just care about their kids? Sure, the toddlers are safe and all, great. But it's not immature to miss the kids you were teaching and watching grow, especially when the school you were teaching at didn't do anything wrong other than having a deplorable owner. It's kinda sad and makes me think that you only cared about that pizza party yourself when you were teaching since that's what you're assuming they're missing so much.
I hate when day care workers say “my kids”. They’re NOT your kids.
This woman has to be barred from ever having any contact with children ever again
It’s called jail.
That's the absolute truth
Absolutely
She need to spend the rest of her life in jail.
@@talcareyifill5937 If that was a man, I guarantee you that person would get life in prison.
I don’t feel bad for the parents , I feel bad for the children. Like how do you ignore the warning signs ?
Exactly!!!!😤
Parents are so busy, especially single parents.
But yes Listen...watch changes in behavior.
ALSO,some parents are LAZY...
You mean the eyebrows?
That's what I was wondering 😔🤔
Wait. So was that a mom of one of the kids saying her child was begging her "Don't take me to the little house! Don't take me to the little house! Don't put me downstairs?" The kid kept saying it, but...she kept sending the kid? Uh...I think you need to investigate more than just the daycare provider there.
Why did Her comment go virtually unnoticed.
I'm questioning the Reporters' interest in this case. Were They aware of that Lady's point of view. Her comment was caught mid comment, and ignored.
This whole situation stinks.
I hope she’s a cop and not a parent.
@@bighomiemac3472 it said parent at the bottom when her name showed up
@@devinrentschler7550 D@#n, WTH was she thinking?!!!!
@@bighomiemac3472 she was probably buying meth from the daycare
And this is why being a stay at home parent is 1000% worth it.
Not every one has this option.
@@alittletlc Then you weren't ready to have kids if you are going to let a stranger raise them for you. What is the point of having kids if you are going to dump them at daycare all day?
@@stew7479 you do realize some people don't plan to be a single parent. If you are widowed what do you do? Starve and live out on the street? Get out of your bubble. Not everyone has this option whether intentional or unintentional. I wish life could go according to your exact plans but we all know that's impossible.
@@stew7479 As somebody who grew up with a single mother, who had to raise me all by herself after my dad passed away, being a working mum is extremely difficult, but it’s people’s only option sometimes. I grew up to have a close relationship with my mother, because despite the fact that she worked she always took time to love me, teach me and attend school activities, she always put me over anything else, truly the best mum ❤️ Working mums are just as strong as at home mums!
@@lmj6825 Thank you for this, some people are SO short-sighted.
How did the parents not notice the kids were being neglected or abused when they pick them up after a day at the daycare ?
Exactly... those two parents interviewed looked suspect.
I mean if theres 28 of them I sure that some of the parents just never came back.
@@burntcake3985 no, I think maybe she would take the kids out one at a time when their parents show up and keep the other kids hidden, idk. The parents didn’t look closely as the police
Are you serious lady with your question? Don't blame the parents for taking their kids to that place. People like you just talk without thinking.
@@chevon1920 when people who are watched and doing something like this. They will take the children that are most vulnerable. It's easier to keep a child that a parents doesnt want. Otherwise they would have been noticed a lot sooner. They only got caught because of a mild concern, and for a long time there wasnt concerns at all.
Parents should always do unannounced "drop in" visits to see their kids in daycare. Some centers say that do not allow unannounced visits. Those are the places that especially need to be visited!
This!!!!!! Always check on daycares!!!!!
How about doing everything you can to not put your child in any daycare?
@@gregoryvanderpas4176 that's what I been doing. The way this world is now I won't even let someone baby sit my kids. Sad you can't even trust family. I only say this because I was sexually abused by a relative as a toddler and young child.
@@gregoryvanderpas4176 How about you live in the real world were most of us can’t afford to not work. You don’t think every parent would like to stay home with their kids?? You sound stupid, out of touch with reality and entitled.
They don't allow unannounced visits? They must have something to hide then.
This make me appreciate my Mother even more for watching my children.
She's making a huge sacrifice!
This is why I appreciate my mom so much for being a stay at home Mom.
Right?!
C- Power.⁵ 5..
That's awesome. You have a great Mom and you're a great parent for making sure your child is in good hands.
C- Power I second this! Thank you mama. 💗
Never put your child in the care of others if they dont allow you to stay for a settling in period or visit and allow you to come inside.
Oh, if we ever need it, I fully intend to do surprise drop-ins!
What’s interesting is that there are rules about this kind of thing that many parents aren’t aware of. I work at a large Early Childhood Center in Chicago, IL and DCFS licensing makes it a rule that parents can stop by the school whenever they want. Many providers take advantage of parents not knowing the licensing regulations for home based care and childcare centers! I try to empower my families with this knowledge whenever possible, lest they be taken advantage of!
"Don't take me to the little house. Don't put me in the basement" why didn't the mom ask questions? I feel like the mom hasn't seen my RUclips channel
I know right. 🤦🏾♀️ I agree. So sad
My goodness she needs to be investigated for neglect at least your kids says something like that I'm asking questions an getting to bottom of it
That probably came from the parents that led to the police doing a check.
Who said she didn't?
@@heidis.3699 I say she didn't because I'm an alien from the future.
"It's so hard to trust your children with people."
Did you even look at those people? That was your first red flag.
The black lady didn't even look harmful at all and u honestly wouldn't judge a person appearance I judge by how they are with people and their actions
Yes but of course mugshots look like that
You guys are so rude what If I saw a picture of you and I called you a meth head you wouldn't like that and I mean yea they are bad people but dont judge by appearance
@@coloradoalv6196 That's why this been happening in daycares since 70s. Cuz of brain dead people like you.
Just looking at them would have been my red flag .
I’d be better off, leaving my kid at home with an iPad and goldfish.
In the bathtub making toast.
😂
@@Jimbo49o1 lmao
Alot safer for sure
Take that chances
This is why you listen to your kids. Last year my son went to a daycare his father picked out. I had bad vibes from the first meeting. Yes the house was clean and orderly but something was off. After a few days my son was so low energy and sad. I went to drop him off he would cry saying he didn't want to go to sleep. I went to drop him off late one day and she didn't open the door, my son kept pulling on me "let's get in the car mama" so I took him to his old babysitter for the day. I got to the old babysitter and took him out the car and he went running to the door knocking on it and calling her name. Even though I didn't know what was going on at the new babysitter that confirmed that it wasn't good. Then of course my son's father was like "oh you just didn't want to give her a chance. "
First off I don't have to give anyone a chance when it comes to my kid. He was only under the new babysitters care for 2 weeks but his whole demeanor was off, as far as I'm concerned that was 2 weeks to long.
Do you know what happened
@@kudousawoke4468 no and I really don't want to find out. I think at the very least she was putting the kids to sleep all day. I also thought back on the fact there were no toys in the daycare but she had a room on the side that had toys up to the ceiling.
Exactly what I'm talking about, especially if your child isn't known for being dramatic and you never had problems with leaving them with other people.
@@natsvsam1933 exactly you know your child. Even with his limited speech (he was 3) I could still pick up on his overall changes.
It starts with paying your childcare provider enough not to have to care for more than two or three children
I’d like to know who’s 26 children were they?
Just parents who trusted the daycare when they left their kids there and went to work.
Honestly
*whose
Please don't be mad, I'm only trying to be helpful.
ResidentMilf I appreciate it.
Tiffany They'll never tell anyone that because those kids have last names and they are trying/supposed to be protecting those children. And they wouldn't be doing their jobs if they told.
Them eyebrows should’ve told y’all she was up to no good.
Don Solo absolutely what I was thinking! Weird how small things like that can tell you so much. Something about her eyes don’t sit well with me, I would never leave my children with strangers. Two of those women look cracked out as well.
🤣
*Woman:* "So yeah, I'll be taking care of your children!:"
*Mother:* "Nice try, eyebrows."
LOL!!
💯
So when the parents got their kids back, sweating, tired, and dehydrated, they weren't concerned at all? When their kids got upset at being taken to a place that abused them, they just brushed it off?
Something is missing here and the parents should be investigated too.
Also, what did they make these kids do that made them so hot and dehydrated? Like, wtf?
Am I the only one here that thinks there's more layers to this story?
I agree! Parents looked nice! Must be working too much and don’t notice! Yep... I said it!
A point I don't see anyone make is that children were kept in a hidden basement. If a parent dropped off their child, at the very least seeing no other children at a "daycare" would tip them off. I doubt they would wait for all 26 kids to arrive to seal them off, especially in a house like that, interiors in homes like that don't usually have wide open living rooms like more modern ones do. I think some if not all the parents actually knew something was going on and had a benefit from it.
I suspect child trafficking, parents involved
Absolutely, I do too!
I’m sure the women changed diapers and cleaned the kids up before giving them back but I also agree - super weird that the parents didn’t take their kids seriously.
It's the parent's faults too.. For not listening to their children, and not paying attention to their kids. The videos said the children were obviously dehydrated, & had saggy, wet, disgusting diapers, Yet the parents didn't notice that?..
For not paying childcare providers enough
Someone noticed because they called the police.
@@terryowen6759 Obviously, But they should've noticed that earlier, Instead of then. It took the longer than it should've to see that SOMETHING was wrong with their kids.
Didn’t they notice a change in their child when they pick them up like they were dehydrated sweating soiled diapers these parents aren’t even paying attention to those children after their being neglected and abuse
I totally agree
ABD THAT.. is how the police were tipped off. THe video did briefly describe at least one witness account where the kid complained to "mommy" that he/she didn't want to go "down into the basement of that house again"
Both sides, the parents AND the daycare owners were enabling each other to abuse the kids. Those parents were not blind.
@Babba Ganoush Obviously she "serves" some higher purpose in the community. It's sickening what "some" people get away with just because they have dirt on people in high places.
A. B.D. They’re not telling anyone the whole story.
LISTEN TO YOUR KIDS WHEN THEY SAY, "DON'T TAKE ME THERE!" LLLISTEN!!!
I dont understand how a parent wouldnt listen to their baby saying those kind of things.
Shelby Greger you’ll be surprised with how stupid some people are
SLEEPGRANDMA DEPRESSION SHE SHOULDVE LISTEN TO HER CHILD. I WOULDVE MISSED WORK TO STAY HIME WITH MINE AND LOOK INTO THE SITUATION WHY WOULD A CHILD LIE ABOUT THAT
Most parents can't afford to not work.
@@up-uw4op true but you can't just dump your kid with anyone and go to work. I worked all of my children's childhood and I work the day shift and my husband worked the night shift. You do what you have to do but the kids should always be the priority and if your child is telling you that they don't want to go to that place, you have to find out why?
Dehydrated? That didnt just happen that day. The parents failed their children
Right there is so much being left out here. wtf.
Lynnette Henderson My wife said to tell you she agrees with you.
Lynnette Henderson, what parents? This is a coverup of a pedophile racket with patsy scapegoats
That's what I was thinking. There is definitely more to this story then what was said in this news report.
Actually, young children dehydrate very quickly.. so with not being offered food or water all day, on top of crying all day being neglected, it’s absolutely possible. The parents had nothing to do with this.
"We thought we could really trust them."
Me: Are you blind? One look at those women I wouldn't leave myself alone with them
I'm having a tough time picking out which one you mean.
Maybe they looked better in real life? 🙄
@@phobos247ify 🤣
Yes, she was blind... turning a blind eye to something so obvious!!!
Right!
This why i do random pop up at my child's daycares and take my child out as soon as i see something wrong and report that daycare.
Avril Code you’re smart, ima do that when I have kids
Smart mom
Avril Code same
If you have time to police daycare centers you have time to raise your child properly at home.
ETA: My comment is not intended as an attack or criticism of parents utilizing childcare outside the home. Many parents believe they and their children are better off if they work and earn income outside the home. In some cases this might be fact but if you’re working to pay for the child care and not much else, it’s probably not the bargain you think it is.
Great Job Mom !!! Specially with the “reporting the daycares” that’s very important to do !!!
Parents didn’t seem all too concerned about their children being kept in a hot basement
Eric G They did when they found out they could sue $$$
Child s3x trafficking. Parents were probably selling their kids
Coloridians at their best...
They didn't know - it was hidden. I expect that there was a playroom where they delivered their children to and collected their cleaned-up children from. They probably also didn't know how many children there were in total.
@@hotcheetoeyes that's exactly what I was thinking. So glad someone else thought that. Its disconscerning that more didnt comment about that.
Sounds like preparation for trafficking.
is everybody in * they had 26 children they were hiding. Please explain how they’re being paranoid? Sadly, it makes sense.
@is everybody in * lol
@@bluexblondebaby Because they'd never be able to explain away those kids going missing if the parents dropped them off at the daycare. They'd (the daycare workers and owner) be put in prison for the rest of the their lives if they did that.
I know right
Who knows what those nasty womans intentions was, whatever it is, it's not good and they should be in jail for abusing the kids
Listen to your kids if they feel scare, or refused to go to the daycare center.
The signs
Shoo I listened to mine 7yrs ago from La Petite Academy Greenwood Village, CO. My child came back with bloody marks on her chest. Now tell me, who removed her top to do that? Mind you, my child’s class had total of 9 children with 3 adults. ALL the adults denied seeing any abuse and maybe the kids were playing rough. Excuse me?! Yeah, I took my child from that daycare QUICK 💨 without EVER looking back.
They probably picked kids that young because they didn’t think they’d talk
@The Truth Is Out 777 LOL
@The Truth Is Out 777 because they aren’t babies 😍
@The Truth Is Out 777 Shove off, troll.
@@babypluto2038 what are they then? 🥰
@@CompostOracle literally a clump of cells LMAOOO barely a baby or human
They really made the title sound like this lady was hoarding bodies
Seems a little more time and she would have been.
@@HelloDarlin329 fair
She was, I’m convinced that this would not be a national story, nor would this woman go thru trouble of having false walls built simply to have more patrons at her daycare, give me a break, nfw, ask yourself if that makes sense.
@@jayskinner9158 ? Oh ?
Yes
My first experience with day care I watch another student get a whoopin from one of the instructors. I told my folks about it and they pulled me immediately. Always play an active role with your babies and listen to them. They are smarter than you give them credit for.
Do these people look like someone you would trust your children with?
Duznt Matter Noooooo
Def not valerie fresquez
Duznt Matter:
For real! Wtf
You can't trust no one with children
Who cares what they look like? If they all looked like beauty contestants would that make it okay?
Most people educated in child/infant care or education generally dress and groom to be “kid friendly.” They avoid excessive makeup or formal hairstyles, wear casual clothing suitable for playing on the floor or light physical activities. Studies show small children are actually intimidated by overdone makeup.
Stories like this is why I picked up two jobs so my wife could be home with our kids
AMEN SKYE,BUT YOUR WIFE WILL EVENTUALLY LEAVE YOU REGARDLESS HOW GOOD YOU ARE TO THEM.THEY HAVE NO LOVE FOR US.NO LOYALTY.
I blame feminism, for sending woman to work, and demasculinizing men.
🤔
@@rickkrockstar I AGREE
It's exactly what my husband did back in the nineties, he worked fulltime and had a part-time job, so I could stay home with our two boys. Plus I babysat one friend's 2 boys for a few years.
Good for you, you are a good dad . People shouldn’t have kids if they aren’t willing to do what it takes to have a parent there to take care of them. My husband works, I budget like crazy and cook everything from scratch, no hair appts or mani pedis for me. But I stay home to care for my own babies so this kind of stuff doesn’t happen.
I pulled my preschooler out of a daycare when I caught them screaming at other kids in front of me and my other kids when I was picking him up! Can't imagine what they did when no parents were around.
You should've reported that daycare and told other parents about it.
Why not just quit and raise your child at home or at least have your own mom or MIL raise the child? If you need to downsize the home, etc. why not do it so you can stay home? Nothing like raising your own child.
Same, I got the teachers aide fired & placed on a ban to never work with kids again. I helped to get policies in place at the daycare my kids went to, to be opened door & have mirror windows so parents could look in without anyone in the classroom noticing , than eventually cameras with sound. It helped weed out a lot of despicable teachers, teacher assistants and aides. One was caught on camera slapping a 4yr old kids than lied about it but forgot the school had just installed cameras, smh.
I pulled my son from the local YMCA when I had gone there to talk to them about another issue and saw a woman being nasty to her group of kids and yelling at them lke they were animals. I was like are you kidding me??? I said you let them talk to the kids like that??? I said wait till I tell everyone I know about this. They were raggedy.
@@lorimav unfortunately that isn't a possibility for everyone.
Having one parent at home is becoming more and more of a dream for the shrinking middle class for a plethora of reasons.
Impossible if you're a single parent.
“Trust my kids with people.” LOL! More like trust people with your kids.
EXACTLY!!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I Was looking for this comment🤔
THANK YOU! This drove me crazy...and the reporter repeated it!!!
Thank you!!! That really bugged me 🤣 was seeing if anyone else noticed that. It was one thing for the Mother to say it, but the news reporter 🤦🏼♀️
I think she meant trust people with my kids. When she said trust my kids with people she means trusting people with her kids
I would show up unannounced to my daughter's day care just to check on her
That’s EXACTLY what I did once to find my son still in a crib with a dirty diaper when he was a baby hours after I had dropped him off. I NEVER went back there and reported them. Little ones can’t speak, so you have to be proactive even when it’s difficult with work schedules. You have to keep your priorities straight with family first and I know that’s very difficult for single parents, but you MUST with child abuse and trafficking SO PREVALENT!
I used to do the same with both my sons. My older boy started telling me about another child who would run around hitting the other kids (including him) and that the daycare teachers wouldn't do anything about it. So I arranged to drop by, and I saw what was going on, had a discussion with the gal running the daycare, and when I wasn't satisfied with the response, I removed my son and put him in a different (better) place. The thing is, it was really good up until that point, but sometimes things change, and as a parent, you might not see the changes if you get into a habit of dropping off and picking up. Listen to your kids!
Would? I do now.
You're very smart and your daughter is lucky to have you
Great dad! Adorable!
The real question was what the lady in the brown shirt asked: How was she able to get a license in Colorado after doing the same thing in California?
Because our government will forgive a woman for about anything but a man would rot in prison for the same thing
California and Colorado...mhmmm
Isa ac lol the weed spots
Right!
@@Isaac-ll7fi Delusional, brain dead, Rat infested governments.
The parents were way too chill for me.
Frankly, I'm surprised the reporters gave them time to hose all the blood off. The number of amazing parents I've been lucky to grow up around would still be picking parts of these women out from under their nails ~years~ later. The fact they are so calm and 'oh isn't this just so upsetting' seems surreal.
Jenna Lutz ....Sounds about White.
Stories like this make me so so so thankful I'm able to stay home with my kids. 😭😭😭
Unless you’re able to pay you’re childcare provider properly things like this will continue ugh
We need universal childcare.
@@ina1815 I think it's more like we need people to make better decisions about if or when they have kids. If we actually taught proper sex ed and had low cost or free birth control, this likely wouldn't happen as often.
“Trust your children with other people”
*trust other people with your children 🤦♂️
News reporter said it wrong too
No one cares
Jason Barkman you do , enough to reply
Yepp! I caught that too.
Jason Barkman
You’re going to insinuate that someone has a disorder just because they practice good grammar? 🙄
It's hard to trust your children...WTF?
This is what happens when parents/adults don’t listen to their kids.
The children were 3 and under . They were to young to tell people anything
@@kristingallo2158 The mom was quoting what her child was saying to her about the daycare. Surprised that she didn't suspect anything.
Kristin Gallo oh no 3 year old are able to say what they want or how they feel
H M how df is that greedy
H M first how you know they didn’t look and check things out and some parent don’t have a lot of money even though they work u must not have a child
You meant to say
" Trusting other people with your children"
Not trusting your children with other people. Geez.
Taking it too literally calm down.
Idiots fr
A nurse licensed in Illinois had his/her license revoked for stealing patient narcotics. The RN went to AZ, and got her license there. Same thing happened, and after going to DC the same thing happened. This implies that the system is broken and the gvt should b sued for not correcting these issues of licensing.
All I can say is we're not hearing the whole story. To many things don't add up
Word.
News Now Baytown All the news is Impeachment. Very little details on anything else🙁
@News Now Baytown wtf ? please tell us you are not a parent or work in a daycare.
@News Now Baytown before accusing the 'media' of a cover up. This is a local story, have you visited any of the town's local news sites and forums?
@@mopthermopther this is a local story ... go visit the town's local news sites
“I didn’t even get to say goodbye to most of my kids.”
I work with little kids at my church and man, that hit me in the feels 😢
Yeah, me too. And while the owner was the issue those teachers and staff ran that place without her, and so likely weren’t doing anything wrong. I do feel bad for the good teachers.
How sad... We find out “after the fact” ... my heart goes out to these children...
For reasons like this I became a stay at home mom. My son couldn’t talk yet. Did not want to stay and cried every-time I left him. Decided no amount of money was worth my child crying. May God bless all the parents who have to work to make ends meet and the children’s who have to stay at daycare.
Unfortunately not many people have this option. Many of us are the breadwinners in our family. If we don’t work, they don’t eat.
I’m so glad you are economically stable enough to be able to do that, you go girl! Love to see stay at home mums talking about their experiences.
Not many people pray to be in line with proper order: homeschooling your children! You will suffer and lose your children at the expense of what?
Humanity is doomed when children aren’t safe from the “grownups “
Just say women. That is who was involved in this case.
It's sad but true indeed
Society was destined to fail
Children have NEVER been safe from the Grownups. Millions are literally abused, raped starved tortured and murdered annualy. Who do you think are the abusers?
When were we NOT doomed then? Think Rebecca. Think again.
I never trust not a single daycare in this whole world. I rather pay my son's grandmother the mother of my ex to take care of my son. I trust her alot and she loves ,spoils and treats my son really nice. My son always wants to go with his grandmother everywhere ❤
@S R life isn't like the old days. Sometimes both parents work. Hence they need someone to look after their kid. Not every woman is a stat at home mom anymore and can't even afford it but would love to still have their child. And eventually the child will be able to stay home alone and grow into an adult.
I'm still young but i also worry about how I will be able to raise a child. It's just not that easy for everyone. Additionally, there are some advantages to daycares. Some of them teach your children well and get them to socialize with other children. Still it's important to listen to your child and see how they react. Hopefully if I am able to spend most of my time with my kid i will.
Glad my grandma didn't watch me. Some grandparents are abusive also.
of course, trust no one in life , that'll work
Not everyone has that option. Some need daycare. U have to trust your own instincts and be super observant but even then sadly some sickos are just too good. Not saying this lady is one of them. But tragedies happen, we can’t blame anyone except the perpetrator.
@S R I agree with you, I think the mom can stay home taking care of the child while the father works but both father and mother have to work together to raise the child. Both father and mother have to work to pay the mortgage, or the rent the Bill's, etc and they leave their child with grandparents which is ok as long as the grandparents are not bad grandparents and take good care of their grandsons or granddaughters
"In California for similar reasons"
Explain how she avoided prison then....
I took my son out of two daycares. Once he came home with a huge bump on his head ( he fell off the monkey bars). I was concerned because no one alerted me to his injury. He never went back. The second daycare was a No after my son told me “Ms Minny uses mad voice when you leave”..... oh really, that was the last time she ever saw my precious son. I kept him home with me until kindergarten. Shame on these parents for dropping their kids off for hours n hours a day m never listening to their little hearts. My son knew I would protect him that’s why he told me about Ms Minny. Parents please stop leaving your kids with strangers.
But some people don’t have a choice. Some people can’t afford to “keep their kids home with them”. I was lucky enough that my mom has worked in a daycare my entire life, so she was able to get my kids in her daycare where I KNEW they were safe and well cared for (I also worked there with my mom until I got pregnant with my son so I also knew how all the instructors were). But I also know now that some people do not have a choice. My husband and I BOTH have to work. We cannot afford to only have one income.
@@mommac2687 ...sad sad dayzzzzz when people chose their jobs over their kids. I made the sacrifice to stay home ( n scaled back on our lifestyle). Honestly I would rather sleep on a park bench with my child knowing he’s safe than leave him in the hands of a monster, but that just me. Some people would rather a comfortable lifestyle no matter who watching the kids ..... never ever in my book.
@@callmecarmella So you would rather go with no home and no way to feed your child? I never said that leaving your kids with people like this was a good idea. But, as I stated some people don’t have a choice. Some parents are single parents and have NOONE to watch their kids. Should they listen to their kids, ABSOLUTELY!! Should they do everything in their power to find someone else for their child’s safety, ABSOLUTELY!! But again, some parents don’t have that choice. And I choose food for my child and a roof for my child first.
Your child isn’t safe on a park bench either.
@@callmecarmella And as seen in the video, the parents actually DID do something by calling and having them investigated. But I also I will not sit here quiet and let someone treat others like a bad parent because they have no other option. They don’t “choose their job over their kids.” They “CHOOSE” to make sure their child has what they need. Some don’t have the option to “scale back on their lifestyle”. Some would have NO income at all, if they didn’t have a job
@@mommac2687 .....Every soul on this earth is entitled to their own opinion. I would never try to change the mind for an individual who drops their child off with strangers. People are pregnant for nine whole months. That’s a long time to make some serious life changes. We are cut from a different cloth. I started a business at home ( n was making my whole salary in a day). My younger sister did the same. She worked hard during her pregnancy to start her own business as well. People have very different mindsets. Some feel as though they have no choice. Others see it as an opportunity to make life changes.
That mother that felt "betrayted" answers a lot of questions right there.
If she has a false wall shes hiding alot of other things...
I agree!
You can’t trust anyone with your children even your own family members
You just go by your instincts, you know as a parent who you can, and cannot trust with your own children. I had amazing loving friends who were great with my kids. And family who helped me , that love my kids and treats them well. Now I work from home. And take care of my kids without the help of a sitter, plus it helps they are older now. I'd say just go by your own judgment, i don't trust daycares, and Im super picky who's around my kids, even with them being older, i dont just have anyone around my kids.
@@silviahammond6405 My sister started her own daycare because she didn't want to leave her kids with strangers.
@@laurak9666 Great idea!
The first and only time I left my daughters at daycare, I was nervous the entire morning. I remember going on my lunch hour to check on my babies. As I was walking close to the window, I heard someone say “you better sit here and don’t move” and then I heard my youngest daughter cry. I started banging on that door hard that made my knuckles bled a little. When the babysitter opened the door, she looked at me in shock. I pushed her aside and took my babies. Back then there were no cellphones, so I drove home called the cops and filed a police report against her. I had just started my new job and it was my first day. I didn’t go back. As hard as it may sound, I started looking for jobs that allowed me to take my daughters with me. I was fortunate to land a job from home that paid really well and eventually I opened my own business. I’m now a grandmother and helped my eldest daughter and son in-law to start their own business so this way my grandchildren would be home with their mommy.
What that doesn’t real to me it’s sounds like a movie and that’s plus why did you push the door without know what happens and plus if you did tell us the back story
@@kudousawoke4468 my two daughters were 2 and 5. The one that started crying and was told to sit and not move was the 2year old. Do you think I was going to ask questions at that moment, when I clearly heard the woman yell at the top of her lungs “you better sit here and don’t move”? she was a grown woman yelling like that to a 2 year old that she was babysitting. The woman was watching a movie and my daughter was banging on a toy and she got upset, per what my oldest daughter said. Who by the way was sitting on the floor on the side of the couch sobbing. I was infuriated because I know first hand how it feels to get physically abused and also molested by a babysitter. I was not going to stop and have a conversation about the incident with that woman. The furry in the tone of her voice said it all. The reason why I called the police is because I wanted them to investigate her as she had 4 other kids she babysat and only God knows what she did to them. And no, this is not from a movie... in real life these things do happen. Didn’t you just see the video?
Get em mama 👏👏👏💪💪💪
@@NenaSilva210 yea I said it sounds like a movie but i know it’s not but it’s crazy
Nice work!
I'm watching this with my six year old asleep next to me and I am so glad that my wife and my work schedules are opposite of each other. Stories like this hurt when you hear about them, even though they're not your own children. Heartbreaking.
There are good places out there. A lot of parents don't do there homework.
“Trust nobody” - Tupac Shakur
The parents of these children need to be investigated as well.
I thought I read or heard on the news that all the parents were "interviewed by officials"... whatever that means.
I'm a native of Colo.Spgs.
Why or how 26+ parents didn't have this daycare checked out or have a gut instinct something wasn't right is beyond me. My dau was very chatty from 2yrs on and told on everyone, and everything when I'd pick her up from daycare.
Yes that's true
OR ARRESTED!?!? 😠
Why?? They were victims of this woman just like the children.
I agree.
Things like this are happening a lot. We need more oversight over childcare facilities.
I have two daughters, when they were small, I would ask how their day went and what did they do.Now I have a 7 year old granddaughter, both my daughter and I ask her the same questions on the way home.Parents under estimate how smart and honest kids can be. Be involved!
You have to make surprise visits drop them at 8 show up at 9
Kids dont lie
and ask for references and speak with them in person before sending your child
how hard is it to give a kid water?
😂😂😂
B d right? its free at walmart
They can’t pee if you don’t give them water lol maybe that was her logic
I had 2 baby sit once. I ask the mom Wheres water. She says oh he dosent drink water. I give the kid water. Drink 2 cups
@@myes344 that is HORRIBLE!!! Poor child. I'm sooo glad you trusted your own instincts and didn't listen to her and gave him water. Hope you reported that half-wit "mother" so that baby doesn't suffer every day, or at least tell her he drinks it just fine. She probably just gives him juice and soda all day. Stupid woman.
The Government licensing agency overseeing daycare is also to blame as well !!! Let's see if they are held accountable ?
Someone was not doing their job. But then again they work for the government and don't have to.
I guess certain REGULATIONS are important after all. its a farce & tragedy
congress promised free health care & well paid teachers since 70s.
@@casalesmith2775 exactly there are no consequences for the people in high places, they always walk away free so they can basically do what they want.
I believe since 2016 maga burned all regulations
@@casalesmith2775 true if u work for the government the workers might be held accountable but not the government kinda sad
These parents were clearly not asking their kids any questions at the end of the day.
My little one , since she was 1.5 she had her way of communicating And we understood her enough. Kids will tell you what is going on IF YOU ASK!
Yea. Some parents don't communicate... Saddly
And this is why I keep my kids at home. PERIOD
Can we get a picture of the Fresquez woman, I mean my God! She does not need to be working near any kids in the future!
Oklahoma bombing children Dyed in Fedreal building>WACO....
I know right!!!
Exactly right.
This is prolly more common than we know.
It is
Correct, however the govt ignores.
True because of the people involved
pizzagate
@@ninotravis1341 We society also ignores it. For millennia unwanted children only had churches to help them. Society simply ignored until more or less recently when gov did take up the challenge. There are many people who do keep kids for a living and there neighbors should be evaluating them..
Its not just orphans there is a huge amount of babysitters and very few parents today.
Its a big difference that our society is failing at .
They all really look like “people we could trust.”
I see they haven't unlocked the character Valerie Fresquez yet
Maybe she's a minor
"A Challenger is approaching!"
Minoru Mineta she’s white
@@CM-oy2kd
But two of those who were arrested were white.
Lol
Who would trust methany with their kids you can tell she’s been on something
How did the parents not know there was something wrong with their kids when they picked them up?
Probably because she chose only the children that were three years and younger to be in the basement so that they wouldn’t be able to explain properly what was going on they just probably thought it was normal they were still babies
I'm glad I stay home with my children. ♥ I feel SO bad for parents who unfortunately can't and have bad experiences like this. 😔
Parents start listening to your children and pay attention to their body language. It’s all there all you got to do is listen and watch!
I've never even used a baby sitter to watch my child. I trust no one.
Good choice. I wouldn't either.
My daughter got a job at the daycare center that my granddaughter attended so she knew what was going on. That young lady is smart, well rounded as she is a thinker. My daughter as a smart woman.
It hurts that these people do so much harm when they could do things the right way and reep the love rewards. I still have children who include me in their lives after being in my class 20 years ago. Those are the real rewards of being an early educator.
My son is grown now if my husband and I weren't watching him only my mother or my lifelong best friend would. I trusted no one!
Same!!! My husband and I worked opposite shifts so that one of us was always home with the kids.
May those child abusers rot in the underworld 😡🤬
Theres no more underworld for them this is it . The last stop for many.
Lol Nope. They will go to jail and get 3 meals a day. Tv, internet, education. They will get more then what they gave to those children.
What they should do is put some weights on them and throw them in the ocean. But thats cruel. They deserve a fair trial! Who am I to judge...
@Babba Ganoush That wasnt my point at all lol
@@wf9258 - We don't need to waste money on weights. Just take them out to the middle of the Pacific and make them walk the plank in shark infested waters.
Jojo Nims - Those child abusers (liberal front holes) tend to rot in the underworld of the education system.
So no parents had a clue? They must view their children as a burden and not someone they love
So was this child trafficking or kids with paying parents.
We aren't getting the whole story....There's NO WAY 26 sets of parents were in and out of that little house every day...the neighbors said that much. From all the arrests being made nationwide since really, Trump....IMO the pedos are running wild in the US and children are being "farmed" OFF THE BOOKS.
@@davidholtz3885 you make a great point. There is more to this story and the pedos are running wild. ❤
Right this looks like a strange cover up
@@davidholtz3885 Just so long as you stick to the real pedophiles and don't go down the QAnon rabbit hole. There are enough real victims. You don't need to invent more.
Failed to talk about the 26 kids.
True
Right!
If only parents could stay at home and raise their children
If only the economy nd taxes were set up so we wouldn't both have to work like it used to be....
Most can. Parents who truly love their children DO make the necessary sacrifices to be home and raise them.
Right?!
Sounds like you should vote for Andrew Yang in your primaries 😉
@@macymiller6079 yes I'm voting for yang too!
Raise your own children.
When my son first started preschool, I stayed with him. I planned to stay a few days, till he got used to it, then leave. I was so overprotective. My son was fine, but another child would cling to me and cry. When his parent dropped him off. I would carry him and talk to him until he stopped crying. Most of the other parents thought he was my child and was shocked when they found out who my son was. I ended up being hired. I cried the first day my son started kindergarten. When I picked him up, he told me I embarrassed him because his classmates saw me crying. After that, he wouldn’t allow me to walk him to school. 😂
Awesome Koga I know what you are talking about. You have a good heart which too many others lack.
Awesome Koga ... your son "didn't allow you to walk him to school" ??? What sort of mother are you then? I was still seeing my children, at the time of 12 and 15 years old onto the bus.
ROSEMARY DUDLEY I did too. You’ve got to these days. If they would’ve said no I would’ve done it anyway. A staggering number of children go missing every year.
I drove my car to the school parking lot and spied on my son getting off the bus and going into the school. I’ve even driven to school and spied on him during recess to make sure he wasn’t being bullied. I’m nuts
Kaying Thao I think that is very smart, more parents should do this. I’am going to suggest this to my daughter. I have 5 grandchildren.
The first daycare I took my son to was called play haven in WI. When I came back to pick him up after work, the teacher told me he was downstairs in the indoor play area. I went down to the basement and found many toddlers wondering around. Parts of the basement was not well lit. I asked for my don and they didn’t even know which kid he was. The staff had no connections with the kid. I took him out of that place and followed my instinct at every daycare until I found a good one (he was happy and teachers knew him)
Sometimes, you can judge a book by its cover
Trend Setter yes, yes you can
Unless their black, i which case you arent alllowed
Trend Setter You might not can judge a book by its cover but you can often judge ppl by it
Aemiom yeah so???
But America's society teaches you not to... And still does. HYPERCRITIC!
Overall, America does a good job protecting children. However, every once in a while, we hear stories like this. And the reason why is because we assume all women will be nurturing towards children to the same degree that we assume all men are suspect until proven otherwise.
And that is just a woefully wrong assumption.
And we can't assume other people will love our kids. They dont.
I can honestly say that America is actually quite bad at protecting kids. We're decent in some aspects, but the problem is: nobody believes kids, and most of the time, they don't want to. I've been close within the system for some time and a lot of well-meaning people will easily believe that kids are being taken care of and protected, because it's easier and safer to believe than the harsh reality.
This kind of stuff happens more often than people think. The owner of the daycare we went to would constantly lie to my mom about things I was doing so I would work for her for free(I was never allowed to play with the other kids, and always had a list of chores to do when I got to the daycare after school). She would also hide kids in the garage when social services was there(My sister was forced to lay on the floor in a van). I was so scared to say something because I thought no one would believe me, because they didn't believe me when my version of what happened didn't match up with hers. She would force me to eat(After 15 years I am just now getting back to a healthy weight) get other kids to make fun of me, she wouldn't let me use the bathroom if I had to do anything other than pee, and punished me if I talked to other parents when I helped them pack up their kids because I always said the wrong thing. (I think one mother kind of knew I was being mistreated, and would sometimes slip me money). Years later whe I joking about my trauma (I'm really bad at talking about most of my childhood without turning it into a joke) and my mom was like, "Why didn't you tell me?". I don't have the heart to tell her that her actions and reactions in my childhood made me fearful and scared, so I just dealt with it and pretended to be happy. As a kid she had that old fashioned model of parenting where kids don't have much of a voice, and in some ways she has changed, and in other ways it's still the same. Now, whenever I'm struggeling with somethng or battleing depression I often get reminded of how happy I usually am, and how it will come to pass, so I have had to learn how to deal wth a lot of these things on my own, and with my sister. We didn't realize how abusive our childhood was until we became adult and made friend's with people who had normal childhoods. We would be talking about something, joking about it, and people would loo at us like, "Hey, are you okay?" Listen to your kids. Look out for the kids that aren't "your kids". Treat them with respect. Just because someone is an adult doesn't mean their voice is more valid than a child's. As a teacher, I try to go into each day remebering how my life could have been diferent if someone had just noticed, or taken my small pleads here and there more seriously.
Thank you for sharing! You seem like such a strong person!
you just drop off your child without checking where they'll stay?!
The mom saying that her kid said “don’t take me to the house, don’t put me in the basement” should be ashamed to show her face on camera… like did that not concern you??? 🤔🤔
If this woman did this to my child, she wouldn't make it to trial...
tiffsaver Amen and God bless you
I agree
Amen Send them to prison and show them no mercy.
20 years ago when my children were young, my husband and I had 1 car, we had a strict budget, we had no additional spending, and he worked 12 hours a day...I changed every diaper, did all the feedings and did all the cleaning and shopping so my husband could rest and sleep...we never put our children in daycare. You never know who's molesting your 2 or 3 year old child in daycare.
Could you afford to do that today?
@@andrewc1036 people get paid more today to compensate for the cost of living. Minimum wage in the 90's was 4.25. People want more things, fancy phones, huge houses and the newest car model available.
@@rathey7999 are you sure about that?
@@andrewc1036
It depends on what your priorities are.
If your priority is your child's safety and well-being, then you make it work. You just won't have as many nice things as your friends and neighbors. But for me personally, it was certainly worth the sacrifice.
@@marier.245 I feel like it is becoming more and more impossible to buy a home and have my wife stay at home full time. I earn a lot too and feel bad for other young people earning less. We own a 2009 corolla and haven't gone on vacation with our two kids for 5 years. She has to work part time and were not the only ones. 90s were more affordable imo
Write her name down. She's counting on you forgetting.
Write. It. Down.
✔️
Don't. Forget.
(Fingers crossed and elephant emojis not available)
So long as anyone has the mind to run a background check (or even a Google search at this point lol), these women won't be forgotten.
I think she would be in jail for a long time for *multiple* case's of child abuse. So I think you can rest easy.
@@jamieingels1190 🤞🐘
Who is this Nobodies family? A Multi-state Child ring rarely works without shady dealings and major financial assistance. Look into her connections bet she's a someone if you look closely.
ALWAYS stop at unscheduled times to check on them!
I went through that experience and my son was 3 but when my son begged me crying and even my baby that was just a few months old and he cried when I would take him there I knew to get my kids out and that’s exactly what I did and I was at work and had my mom and my sister pick up my boys ASAP. As a parent never avoid any little signs at all!!!!
Kmj
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And this is why my husband and I decided I needed to be a stay at home mom no matter the sacrifices. Too many horror stories come out of daycare centers.
why couldn't he stay at home with the kids?
@@dorianvedrashko9172 because we are more traditional plus his earnings and salary are more than what i would make as a teacher.
@@dorianvedrashko9172why is that even a question, little troll
The parents who take them there are just as negligent and guilty. Also the city for not keeping track .
So many red flags! So many people not paying attention! All about the almighty dollar!
parents are working i bill not ...king .makeing. n living.doing there part ...
“It’s so hard to trust your children with people” no, it’s hard to trust people with your children.
🙏🏻
I noticed that too... I'm sure she meant the opposite, but who knows.... Maybe she really believed the adult's were victimized by the kids??
It's a really weird world now. Can't count anything out anymore.
Same thing :)
No, you never trust anyone with your child! Never!
😂bro what? That’s what she literally meant
every single 1 of these women look like i would NEVER LEAVE MY KIDS OR ANY CHILD w ANY 1 of them!!! 💔
This is why you don’t give your children to other people
I agree!!! That’s why people should not guilt mothers who stay home by telling them “it takes a village”. I’ve never let anyone but my mother or mother in law watch my children, and only for an hour or two to celebrate anniversary.
@@kittycat8222 you are lucky to have another option, you also shouldn’t judge parents who have no other choice but to put their kids in daycare
popejaimie I will judge them F that! Don’t have kids if you can’t raise them.
@@Imnottapinata have you met people? No one can raise kids. Have you seen the economy? If only the people who can afford to have kids have kids, in one generation there will be like 12 people
popejaimie Perfect!
That makes my skin crawl and my stomach sick. Their demons.
Yes
Sacrificed owning a home so I could stay home and raise my own children! Sp happy I did. Never had any problems when they were school aged, teenagers and now adults on their own.
You didn't sacrifice anything ... Your children would've been the sacrifice if you chose differently ... You did the RIGHT thing.
They all should be charged with felonies & shame on the state for granting her a license
Who INTH would leave their children with this crazy looking woman