Having followed Bramty and Luis since the beginning, in my opinion , this podcast has done their relationship some good. Bramty appears to show Luis a lot more respect in the way she allows him to lead, speak without interruption, and just her support for him. As a woman without a father all my life, I think the absence of a father figure influences us to have strong personalities and it can be hard to be vulnerable even in a relationship. It’s great to see their relationship blossom through this podcast.
Omggg your comment made me think of myself of why I am the way I am. That’s how I feel in relationships like I can’t be vulnerable and I’m always having a wall up
@@Maeolm could be true. I dont know what the situation is or was. But i believe everyone deserves a second chance. He sounds like he is hurting major and im sure if he ever does get to reunite with his son he will think twice this time around.
you know what would be so hilarious and awesome to watch? a podcast or a short video were Bramty and all her family have to say nice things to each other. Like what they appreciate about each other why they love each other and also give each other a big hug. I think they have to hear it but also they’re so awkward about it, it’ll be so hilarious. 😂
As soon as you brought up his son I could not keep my tears in. I know he hurts because he didn’t have his dad growing up and he knows what that feels like. Praying for him and for the reunion of him and his son!
For the people commenting about feeling third wheeled or not saying enough about his situation, hes allowed to speak about it until a certain limit. He doesn’t owe any of us anything, brave enough to even speak the slightest bit about it.
I mean you can't blame us bc he choose to be in the podcast and speak about he's "tea" or life and we didn't receive the bigger picture so it don't make sense without context besides him not seeing his son for 2 years without any reasons, why it happened etc.... Luis and Bramty tried to give us more inside details then he said y'all are diving too much like???ur in the podcast for a reason and we can also help.
@@Maeolmthe relationship between them and the relationship between him and his son is different. I don’t think it’s right if it’s true that he hit her. However it’s also not fair for the child to not have a relationship with both. There’s mediation, there’s visitations where he can see his son even for an hr under supervision and she doesn’t even have to be there. Literally this whole episode they talked about how important it is to have both parents present. At the end of the day, the child can decide later who we chooses to maintain a relationship with. He will end up resenting his mother for not allowing him to have a relationship with his dad.
@@mariaygonzalez83 but if the court hasn’t even allowed supervised visitations, that should tell you something. Whatever reason the courts have for not allowing that must be very bad. After a year they don’t go just by what she said, there just had been proof
Coming from a mom who’s separating from my child’s dad and has a lot of anger towards him for all the stuff he’s put me through this just reassured me that she needs her dad regardless of our situation even if it’s so hard sometimes. So thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing your situation!! Our kids happiness comes first ❤
Honestly these podcasts help me, I’m a whole adult and went through trama like these as the child and hearing your stories helps me have different point of views. Thank you for being voulnerable and sharing your stories! Just watched the one with Mimi about your dad and that helped me too, you guys are amazing for being so open and sharing your life ❤️
Enjoyed this episode now hearing from bramty’s family’s side. Have to disagree w what Luis said about men thinking more logically tho. Women get killed by their partners or even strangers simply bc she dares to reject his advances. Women try leaving terrible partners and that’s the most dangerous part for them
Men are very emotional, just as much as women. The fact that they’re taught to hide it, causes outbursts to be worse than what women experience bc we can express feelings.
I love your brother he seems like a gentle giant with a big heart ❤️ I can’t wait for the episode with your mom!!! We going to need a 2 part episode for her! ❤
Wow, I didn't realize how much Bramty and Louis went through going up. I was tearing up hearing Bramty lived in a laundry mat when she was younger 😢 Your family deserves all the beautiful blessings sent your way ❤🙏 Love you guys, xoxo!! Thank you for being so open and honest 🥰
So sad that your brother going through this he wants to be a father and be in his son life there so many father's that are not in there child life but he wants to have his son keep fighting you got this I have never seen my father in it was hard growing up with out him in my life keep going you got this
As a single mother my sons dad does NOTHING to see his child. I make it so damn easy for him and yet he still doesnt try. It makes me so sick to see some women who have active fathers for their children and purposely take that from their child. I would do anything for my sons dad to fight for our son as much as these type of men 😢 smh
@@melissajurado2328This. Its so cruel to use kids as leverage in a relationship. At least you have tried to create that opportunity for a relationship with your kids dad. The rest is not your fault!
As a single mother my sons dad does NOTHING to see his child. I make it so damn easy for him and yet he still doesnt try. It makes me so sick to see some women who have active fathers for their children and purposely take that from their child. I would do anything for my sons dad to fight for our son as much as these type of men 😢 smh
Watching Episode 6 and reading the comments realizing he in fact DID NOT get cancelled makes me happy. People tend to be mean & enjoy taking words out of context. You can just tell through the screen he is genuine. I can't wait to hear Mimi's experience!!!!
I never knew Bramtys fathers side was very light skinned. I always wondered why Penelope had that fair skin and light eyes (but looked like Luis) and now I know it may be from bramtys dads side. Wow. Family genes are crazy!
This was my favorite episode so far, it just felt so raw and emotional. Loved how everyone was so respectful and honest. Also loved the veterans speech!!! I am so thankful for everyone who has contributed to our rights!!! Amen!
There has to be laws against a mother withholding a child from their father. Good Fathers are so under valued and mistreated, its not Right Also proud of Luis for speaking so maturely.
@@solbrillante9151 if you google his name there’s allegedly a domestic violence case. He was a police officer in Alexandria so it could be but who knows.
@@solbrillante9151 he was a police officer and usually the courts favor them so clearly if the courts denied him able to see his own son , then clearly he did something very wrong 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ it’s not that hard to look into and plus his baby mama did a whole live about it 🤷🏻♀️
Low key this episode was so deep , im in bed crying at 3pm 😂 it’s so crazy how you and louis have so much in common or can relate to in life. And I get all 3 of your perspectives of your dad. 🙌🏼 good episode! I’ve been a fan since 2019 but I’m not a chismosa all into your life so I forgot you had an older brother !!! so dope! ❤
And sooo true about racism within cultures. My cousins bd’s family was PRAYING that their daughter didn’t come out “dark” like my cousin. And guess what? She did ❤
I love how deep this podcast have been.. to really know how much you guys have been through individually also together. This life really made you guys!
coming from a girl who’s still growing up with out a father in the household, i’ve always felt as though I won’t be able to find a reliable man who will be there to support me and our family. But seeing you Bramty & hearing your story I feel truly so better about my future. Thank you❤️
i love the realness abt this podcast!! thank you guys for opening up i know it can’t be easy you guys are brave!! and omg we need Mimi as a guest next i would love to hear her point of views abt raising you guys as a single mother she’s so strong and i have always loved her energy!! 💟
I fully enjoyed this episode! I would love to hear from Mimi. Also, when you guys mentioned your mom's darker skin and the racism in Latino households I felt that! Being one of the darker kids in my family my grandma treated me and my cousin differently than my lighter siblings. It bothered my cousin until he was an adult and would ask why grandma was so mean to us. It's sad but it does happen. Thanks for sharing your stories with us! 🙏❤
Thank you guys so much for talking about real life situations that we can all relate to in one way or another. I hope by talking about your traumas/experiences with each other you can heal and let go and also help others. ❤❤❤
One thing i will say since i grew up in a situation like this and with a mother who only thought about herself and not about how we felt not bieng with our dad for a period of time and he listened to what she said etc is please dont allow that.We grow up wanting to go back and live those moments we missed as little kids.Dont give up and if you can see him go as many times as the court allows you even if she doesnt agree.Shes only thinking about herself and not about her child who will grow up wishing and wanting to go back and have those memories with you.Women who love there kids wont hurt and be selfish.They will allow the father to see them as long as the father isnt in any way harmful
I agree! The mom being selfish about it, hurts the kids more than anything especially if the dad is putting the effort in court etc to be in the child’s life. It will affect them a lot when they are old enough to understand & can even cause the children to have resentment towards their mom.
I wonder where it all went wrong, I remember watching a video when they all spent Christmas together one year. They all looked so happy and nice together. I know there’s always two sides to the story but no mother should ever keep a kid from there father like why why why. I understand they (the couple)may have gone through things but why do most moms keep the kids away when they separate. It’s so evil. The same happened to my brother and after so many years my brother actually won full custody of his 4 boys. So keep fighting. 🙏🏻
I know a lot of people found your channel when they first saw the pool vlog but when I first saw you guys was when you guys did the “who knows me best, my husband or brother” I remember I had trouble telling me apart but now they look so different. Your brother is brave for sharing his story. May God give him the strength to keep going through this difficult time ❤
I love this podcast so much, I also appreciate them for being SOO real it’s extremely hard to come by. I’m excited for the part 2!!!! I HOPE IT COMES SOON 😅❤❤❤ Love ya Bramty gemini to another gem
Oh wow, hope to hear your mom’s story how they treated her. It’s a great opportunity to talk about racism against black and indigenous ppl in the Latin Americas. I can relate. Got a half brother that every family member knew except us.. then they tricked us in church into meeting him by saying he’s a student 😑
My brother is going through the same thing your brother is. I’ve met my nephew when he was a week old. He’s 7 years old and my brother hasn’t seen him in 6.5 years. Some women are completely evil. It sucks.
I grew up with one parent which is my mom & even though my mom played the father figure it was very hard and sad for me and my siblings to accept how our life really was. So this part is relatable to so many people and it’s so sad to know how many other people go through this. But even after everything I’m a happy person & now that my dad is resting in peace there’s no way I couldn’t forgive him for everything he caused. I’m grateful for life that’s how I find peace.
I felt you bramty, I grew up the first 4 yrs of my life with both my parents n unfortunately my dad passed away before I turned 5. A lot has changed since then, the people we consider family and our friends. I am now 19 and I have made peace w myself abt the drama in my dads family n how they tried to make a life up for my mom n I. Rumors since before my dad deceased and I am OVER IT.
This was such a good episode! Praying God brings answers to your family and heals you guys hearts🤍 praying your brother gets to see his baby soon☹️ such a heartbreaking story🫤 just seeing a man cry like that especially over his children hurts so much being a parent myself.
I wish you guys would have talked about what happened though? Why did she make that drastic decision? I’m sure she would have wanted to have a family for her child’s sake…
I remember her always talking about how much she missed her family , she would always make it seem like she was not comfortable being a house wife with a child , sometimes the routine of the struggle to try to make it for you and your child , not many woman can handle it , they want to run back home.
This was healing to my soul… I love you’re family and the love you guys have. I am going to be praying for you r brother every night till God blessing him and you guys with the opportunity out to hug your son and nephew ❤
This is such a good episode. His ex never gave me good vibes. I really hope he gets to see his son again because this is wrong. He can’t get this time back with him.
Keep up these podcasts and family videos. You guys have come so far and I’m so proud of this family. I’ve been here since the beginning when Penelope was tiny. I wish you guys more fortune and blessings. God bless your family
This podcast is good for all u cus all of u don’t really open up and have heart to heart convos! So this podcast is a blessing and healthy for all u guys since it has made u guys talk abt the uncomfortable stuff❤ a great thing for all u and keep u guys talking and staying close❤
so so heartbreaking how he can’t see his baby , i obviously don’t know the story & don’t know what happened between you guys but i still feel for you. it doesn’t seem like you deserve this. just continue to be patient , i know it’s so easy to say but your greater gift is coming ! ✨
This was an emotional episode for me! I am going through divorce and I would never keep my kids away from their dad. Unfortunately their dad is the one that couldn’t be there for my boys the way they needed him. As much as that disappoints me, I would never want him to be without his sons. I feel for your brother!!
Hi Bramteaaaa lol, wow! What an episode! Definitely touches my heart as your brother is fighting to see his son. I hope there is a happy ending to his story. Peace and love to you all! 🫶🏽
You should love your mom so much Bramty. Imagine how she felt knowing that her husband abandoned her with 3 kids and then has you hidden from his side of the family. You feel it now but imagine how your mother felt her whole life raising you 3. She’s going to go straight to heaven.
I honestly started tearing up hearing your brothers custody situation. It reminds me so much of my brother‘s current custody situation with his two kids we haven’t seen them in three years he hasn’t seen them the mother is always flaky for visitations the court always takes her side. She plays the victim who knows where she leaves her kids while she goes out to party. The sad part is there’s nothing we can do about it.
It’s so funny how invested in the Tea of this family we all are. Low key it’s for educational purposes though because crazy, insane things like these happen more often than not
Im sorry we don’t know the full story still..why u haven’t been able to see your son What reasons have courts been provided by the mother ?.. Just wondering because your story doesn’t give reasoning but it’s portraying mother In bad light …she must be looking out for the kids best interest as well… We cannot judge watching this
Did I miss an episode? Luis mom got cancelled? This is raw AF content, it ain't for the weak!! . It's the new version of "Caso de la vida real" . Dang gordo and Dani 😢😢😢
This was extremely painful to watch… I pray for your comfort and your peace and I pray God brings your Son, Baby, Nephew/ Grandson back to your life. Evil is a mother who refuses their child’s bond with their father for no good reason. This is horrible and I felt Richards pain and sadness and I’m so hopeful for your reunion and I can not wait for Bramtea to Showcase the positive news 🎉❤
The correct term is colorism. And I am so glad you all brought it up with out hesitation. This is real!!!! Coming from a Mexican family the colorism is real. The lighter skin with colored eyes are favored over darker skin tones with dark eyes. It all rooted from the spaniards taking over and colonizing Mexico. Everyone is beautiful the way they are and it’s so sad to hear that mimi went through that. She is so nurturing and an amazing mother/grandmother, we would’ve never imagined that.
My parents gave me away when I was 3 months which was the best I grew up with a loving father and mother. I also would want to hear their part of the story but forgiveness no. I had everything I wanted with my parents that god put in my way ❤
That’s what I was thinking. I doubt she made that drastic decision just because she felt like it! There’s always two sides to every story! I’m sure she would have wanted her child to have both parents too.
OMG, full moon. Talk about it.!!!! That is TEAA!!! I used to work for a hospital for 5 years and would help out for the night shift and day shift, and I knew if there was a full moon that night, you better get it together because we would get the craziest patience and events happening. Or if I came in in the morning, I knew there was a full moon the night before.
That sucks!! I can see he did a lot of growing, recognizing that he shouldnt have let his wife then influence him with his own Fam shows his growth. God will help him🙏🏻
Anyone else wonder how her younger brother came to be if their mom left their dad when Bramty was 1.5 years old? Considering Bramty and her brother Jeff have like a 2-3 year age difference
I came across this a day after my friend took his life for this same reason not being able to see his daughter .. sending prayers to your brother please continue to be his shoulder stay strong “ men reap what he soweth” he’ll get his son!
I just wanna say to your brother. He asks what is the purpose and as muslims we believe this life is a test. Everything we go through is temporary and we there is a hereafter where all our pain and suffering will be taken into account. That gives me hope, and i hope he can see that with patience in a test there is guaranteed ease that comes after every hardship.
I love this podcast and I love you all! ❤️ it’s so real and raw, I think Luis has a point in saying he feels the same way even though it wasn’t the exact situation. His feelings are valid. I can also see the way not having her dad has affected bramty. It feels like it’s a sensitive topic for bramty 🥺❤️
Let’s get Mimi in here to talk about her experiences with your dad and his family!!!
Yes!!!
Need this one fs
Yes we need café con Mimi
Yes❤🎉
For real
Luis really knows how to express his feelings and the way he mentions things with much compassion
Yes!!
he learned 🙏 back then he didn’t even know how to express his feelings kept everything to himself
Yeah, I agree. There's something very gentle and pure about him.. and he seems very observant, intelligent and sweet too 🥰
@@natalielawrence8809yep that’s why Bramty didn’t divorce him … smart girl
@@nicknick5968 Agreed 💗
your son is gonna see this when he grows up and know that you fought for him.
Having followed Bramty and Luis since the beginning, in my opinion , this podcast has done their relationship some good. Bramty appears to show Luis a lot more respect in the way she allows him to lead, speak without interruption, and just her support for him. As a woman without a father all my life, I think the absence of a father figure influences us to have strong personalities and it can be hard to be vulnerable even in a relationship. It’s great to see their relationship blossom through this podcast.
so this is why i'm like this
Agree!!
Reading this makes me realize why I have a strong personality and why it has been so hard to be vulnerable even in my marriage.
Omg I’ve never thought of this. Literally brought tears to my eyes.
Omggg your comment made me think of myself of why I am the way I am. That’s how I feel in relationships like I can’t be vulnerable and I’m always having a wall up
Someone help this man find his son! Let's pray his situation gets better.
@@Maeolm yep
I hope and pray 🙏🙏 things start getting better for him and he gets to start seeing the baby
@@Maeolm could be true. I dont know what the situation is or was. But i believe everyone deserves a second chance. He sounds like he is hurting major and im sure if he ever does get to reunite with his son he will think twice this time around.
AMEN 🙏🏼
@@Maeolm yes allegedly. We also know what a snake his ex is too though
you know what would be so hilarious and awesome to watch? a podcast or a short video were Bramty and all her family have to say nice things to each other. Like what they appreciate about each other why they love each other and also give each other a big hug. I think they have to hear it but also they’re so awkward about it, it’ll be so hilarious. 😂
Yes we need this 😂😂😂
Just thinking about it is making me laugh 😂😂 they are awkward about things like that
Yesss!! 😂 I second this
As soon as you brought up his son I could not keep my tears in. I know he hurts because he didn’t have his dad growing up and he knows what that feels like. Praying for him and for the reunion of him and his son!
Y can't he see his kid?? Who the ex???
For the people commenting about feeling third wheeled or not saying enough about his situation, hes allowed to speak about it until a certain limit. He doesn’t owe any of us anything, brave enough to even speak the slightest bit about it.
I mean you can't blame us bc he choose to be in the podcast and speak about he's "tea" or life and we didn't receive the bigger picture so it don't make sense without context besides him not seeing his son for 2 years without any reasons, why it happened etc.... Luis and Bramty tried to give us more inside details then he said y'all are diving too much like???ur in the podcast for a reason and we can also help.
I wanna know more about yafet and why she isn’t around as much anymore
omg yes, i forgot about her
Who is yafet
I second this, almost forgot about her!
@@mishaalzk6033bramty's cousin
@ximena 💘 ohhh the one they used to mess around with Gordo.. ?. Dang I remember now
Probably not in good terms now if they are not addressing it 😳
Maritza girl tocate el corazon and let this man see his son. Do it for your kid.
Allegedly there’s a domestic violence case against him.
@@Maeolmthe relationship between them and the relationship between him and his son is different. I don’t think it’s right if it’s true that he hit her. However it’s also not fair for the child to not have a relationship with both. There’s mediation, there’s visitations where he can see his son even for an hr under supervision and she doesn’t even have to be there. Literally this whole episode they talked about how important it is to have both parents present. At the end of the day, the child can decide later who we chooses to maintain a relationship with. He will end up resenting his mother for not allowing him to have a relationship with his dad.
@@mariaygonzalez83 but if the court hasn’t even allowed supervised visitations, that should tell you something. Whatever reason the courts have for not allowing that must be very bad. After a year they don’t go just by what she said, there just had been proof
Coming from a mom who’s separating from my child’s dad and has a lot of anger towards him for all the stuff he’s put me through this just reassured me that she needs her dad regardless of our situation even if it’s so hard sometimes. So thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing your situation!! Our kids happiness comes first ❤
ur such a real women for that, i hope whatever decision you make, ur child is happy!
Honestly these podcasts help me, I’m a whole adult and went through trama like these as the child and hearing your stories helps me have different point of views. Thank you for being voulnerable and sharing your stories! Just watched the one with Mimi about your dad and that helped me too, you guys are amazing for being so open and sharing your life ❤️
Enjoyed this episode now hearing from bramty’s family’s side. Have to disagree w what Luis said about men thinking more logically tho. Women get killed by their partners or even strangers simply bc she dares to reject his advances. Women try leaving terrible partners and that’s the most dangerous part for them
So true!!!
This!!!
True
men definitely don’t use logic ever lmao
Men are very emotional, just as much as women. The fact that they’re taught to hide it, causes outbursts to be worse than what women experience bc we can express feelings.
I love your brother he seems like a gentle giant with a big heart ❤️ I can’t wait for the episode with your mom!!! We going to need a 2 part episode for her! ❤
gentle giant 😂
Not gentle giant 😂😂🩷I love them !
Bramty is me when someone gets emotional I laugh too because I get nervous 🤣
Same lmao
Same I can’t help it
Big respect to your brother & praying that he’s reunited with his son❤️ Can’t wait to hear more of his stories💞
Wow, I didn't realize how much Bramty and Louis went through going up. I was tearing up hearing Bramty lived in a laundry mat when she was younger 😢 Your family deserves all the beautiful blessings sent your way ❤🙏 Love you guys, xoxo!! Thank you for being so open and honest 🥰
If he ever needed your money, is now help him get a lawyer
Yess !
Big facts 🙏🏼
I think that’s why they stopped talking..he asked for money ….. she even mentioned it
@@mishaalzk6033i think it was his ex wife that asked for 10k or 20k when they were together
They’ve said in a previous podcast they tell family/friends they can only ask for money once so think about it wisely
We need to write him a letter for court and all of us need to someone sign something so he can get his son back.
Yes
Yes gorl. The judge gon listen to u
Or a petition!!!
Someone get the judges mail box info!!
@@nalanig1160 We already did that with her other brother and we know how that went 🗿
So sad that your brother going through this he wants to be a father and be in his son life there so many father's that are not in there child life but he wants to have his son keep fighting you got this I have never seen my father in it was hard growing up with out him in my life keep going you got this
As a single mother my sons dad does NOTHING to see his child. I make it so damn easy for him and yet he still doesnt try. It makes me so sick to see some women who have active fathers for their children and purposely take that from their child. I would do anything for my sons dad to fight for our son as much as these type of men 😢 smh
@@melissajurado2328This. Its so cruel to use kids as leverage in a relationship. At least you have tried to create that opportunity for a relationship with your kids dad. The rest is not your fault!
I love the small detail of bramty and Luis always matching in some way for these episodes ❤️
As a single mother my sons dad does NOTHING to see his child. I make it so damn easy for him and yet he still doesnt try. It makes me so sick to see some women who have active fathers for their children and purposely take that from their child. I would do anything for my sons dad to fight for our son as much as these type of men 😢 smh
I agree. I’m a single mother now & currently going through the same typa thing with my babies dad.
❤i agree i am same situation
Watching Episode 6 and reading the comments realizing he in fact DID NOT get cancelled makes me happy. People tend to be mean & enjoy taking words out of context. You can just tell through the screen he is genuine. I can't wait to hear Mimi's experience!!!!
finally bramtys family
LOVE THAT BRAMTY READS THE COMMENTS AND LISTENS TO WHAT WE WANT ❤❤❤ your my favorite RUclipsr 🥰 now we need the conspiracy theory episodes 😏
Love that Bramty aeads the comments and Listens to what we want ❤❤❤ your my favorite RUclips 🥰 now we need the conspiracy theory episodes 😏
This got me crying 😭 also Bramty you’ve gotten so good at being a host!
I never knew Bramtys fathers side was very light skinned. I always wondered why Penelope had that fair skin and light eyes (but looked like Luis) and now I know it may be from bramtys dads side. Wow. Family genes are crazy!
luis mom is also light skinned!!
Yea also gordo is light skin too
Hire a private investigator and a good lawyer
I DIDNT JUST CRY WHEN THEY SHOOK HANDS … HER BROTHER IS TRULY A STRONG PERSON INSIDE & OUT ! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This was my favorite episode so far, it just felt so raw and emotional. Loved how everyone was so respectful and honest. Also loved the veterans speech!!! I am so thankful for everyone who has contributed to our rights!!! Amen!
There has to be laws against a mother withholding a child from their father. Good Fathers are so under valued and mistreated, its not Right Also proud of Luis for speaking so maturely.
He beat his child’s mother 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@@ashleighmua1996really? Do you have proof? 😮
@@solbrillante9151 if you google his name there’s allegedly a domestic violence case. He was a police officer in Alexandria so it could be but who knows.
Look it up, you’ll find it in 5 seconds.
@@solbrillante9151 he was a police officer and usually the courts favor them so clearly if the courts denied him able to see his own son , then clearly he did something very wrong 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ it’s not that hard to look into and plus his baby mama did a whole live about it 🤷🏻♀️
Low key this episode was so deep , im in bed crying at 3pm 😂 it’s so crazy how you and louis have so much in common or can relate to in life. And I get all 3 of your perspectives of your dad. 🙌🏼 good episode! I’ve been a fan since 2019 but I’m not a chismosa all into your life so I forgot you had an older brother !!! so dope! ❤
And sooo true about racism within cultures. My cousins bd’s family was PRAYING that their daughter didn’t come out “dark” like my cousin. And guess what? She did ❤
Despite you all not having solid father figures, you’re doing great in life. Better than most..Don’t beat yourselves up too much.
I agree, but not everyone that has a father in their life has a happy life or a close connection with him.
Her son looks just like her brother 😮❤
Lol yes & acts just like him 😅
Yes, Balcom does! :")
I was thinking the same
Agree. And Levy is Jeff's twin. 😂
Balcome in 30 years 😂
I love how deep this podcast have been.. to really know how much you guys have been through individually also together. This life really made you guys!
coming from a girl who’s still growing up with out a father in the household, i’ve always felt as though I won’t be able to find a reliable man who will be there to support me and our family. But seeing you Bramty & hearing your story I feel truly so better about my future. Thank you❤️
i got teary eyed when he started talking about his son .
i love the realness abt this podcast!! thank you guys for opening up i know it can’t be easy you guys are brave!! and omg we need Mimi as a guest next i would love to hear her point of views abt raising you guys as a single mother she’s so strong and i have always loved her energy!! 💟
I fully enjoyed this episode! I would love to hear from Mimi. Also, when you guys mentioned your mom's darker skin and the racism in Latino households I felt that! Being one of the darker kids in my family my grandma treated me and my cousin differently than my lighter siblings. It bothered my cousin until he was an adult and would ask why grandma was so mean to us. It's sad but it does happen. Thanks for sharing your stories with us! 🙏❤
I just gotta say it's not easy opening up, even more in a very public space. So ty guys for sharing yalls stories. ❤️
This episode made me cry so much.. I really hope he gets to see his son back ❤
Thank you guys so much for talking about real life situations that we can all relate to in one way or another. I hope by talking about your traumas/experiences with each other you can heal and let go and also help others. ❤❤❤
I respect Luis for speaking truth even if it meant they did not agree. Praying for you all 🙏🏼
One thing i will say since i grew up in a situation like this and with a mother who only thought about herself and not about how we felt not bieng with our dad for a period of time and he listened to what she said etc is please dont allow that.We grow up wanting to go back and live those moments we missed as little kids.Dont give up and if you can see him go as many times as the court allows you even if she doesnt agree.Shes only thinking about herself and not about her child who will grow up wishing and wanting to go back and have those memories with you.Women who love there kids wont hurt and be selfish.They will allow the father to see them as long as the father isnt in any way harmful
I agree! The mom being selfish about it, hurts the kids more than anything especially if the dad is putting the effort in court etc to be in the child’s life. It will affect them a lot when they are old enough to understand & can even cause the children to have resentment towards their mom.
@@valerienicole7886 he beat her
@@lizbvth is that you? The bitter baby momma you commenting under every comment 😂😂
I wonder where it all went wrong, I remember watching a video when they all spent Christmas together one year. They all looked so happy and nice together. I know there’s always two sides to the story but no mother should ever keep a kid from there father like why why why. I understand they (the couple)may have gone through things but why do most moms keep the kids away when they separate. It’s so evil. The same happened to my brother and after so many years my brother actually won full custody of his 4 boys. So keep fighting. 🙏🏻
Is it the girl with the curly hair? I’m not sure I know who they’re talking about
@@livinnikki7376yes
@@livinnikki7376 yes her idk if the RUclips is still up but they spent Christmas with them in Virginia one year .
What’s the name of the video?? I haven’t seen that one!
@@livinnikki7376Her name is Maritza. i also wonder what happened but what she is doing is horrible
I know a lot of people found your channel when they first saw the pool vlog but when I first saw you guys was when you guys did the “who knows me best, my husband or brother” I remember I had trouble telling me apart but now they look so different. Your brother is brave for sharing his story. May God give him the strength to keep going through this difficult time ❤
Maritza watching this 👁️👄👁️
bramty pls hhire him a great lawyer to get his baby back :( u can just see how much it hurts him to not see him daily
fr surely they can afford him a nice lawyer
Yess thats what im thinking they have So much money, like help ur poor brother out
The amount of times Luis has blinked😂 I’ve never seen a person blink that much😩😩😂
Omg no way now I can’t unsee it 😂😂 I play it at X2 as well and the blinking is ridiculous, try it 😂😂😂
Omg no way now I can’t unsee it 😂😂 I play it at X2 as well and the blinking is ridiculous, try it 😂😂😂
I can’t unsee it now I’m laughing so hard 😂
@@abbymtz23 that’s how I felt🤣🤣
I hadn’t noticed until I read your comment 😂 Maybe he’s nervous
I love this podcast so much, I also appreciate them for being SOO real it’s extremely hard to come by. I’m excited for the part 2!!!! I HOPE IT COMES SOON 😅❤❤❤ Love ya Bramty gemini to another gem
Military spouse here and totally agree!!!!! People need to be more respectful and grateful for our fallen soldiers. ❤
Love this podcast. As a current military spouse, we thank you for your support!
Oh wow, hope to hear your mom’s story how they treated her. It’s a great opportunity to talk about racism against black and indigenous ppl in the Latin Americas.
I can relate. Got a half brother that every family member knew except us.. then they tricked us in church into meeting him by saying he’s a student 😑
Literally broke my heart the moment he said y’all were digging so hard.
My brother is going through the same thing your brother is. I’ve met my nephew when he was a week old. He’s 7 years old and my brother hasn’t seen him in 6.5 years. Some women are completely evil. It sucks.
Damn.. just thinking missing 2 years of your child's life. That's so sad!! 😢 She is for sure being selfish and she's hurting the child. SAD!!
I grew up with one parent which is my mom & even though my mom played the father figure it was very hard and sad for me and my siblings to accept how our life really was. So this part is relatable to so many people and it’s so sad to know how many other people go through this. But even after everything I’m a happy person & now that my dad is resting in peace there’s no way I couldn’t forgive him for everything he caused. I’m grateful for life that’s how I find peace.
Bramty you better get him that lawyer 😭
I felt you bramty, I grew up the first 4 yrs of my life with both my parents n unfortunately my dad passed away before I turned 5. A lot has changed since then, the people we consider family and our friends. I am now 19 and I have made peace w myself abt the drama in my dads family n how they tried to make a life up for my mom n I. Rumors since before my dad deceased and I am OVER IT.
I would love to hear stories from your brother about incidents with him working night shifts
This was such a good episode! Praying God brings answers to your family and heals you guys hearts🤍 praying your brother gets to see his baby soon☹️ such a heartbreaking story🫤 just seeing a man cry like that especially over his children hurts so much being a parent myself.
This podcast had me crying!!!! Such a good one & prayers for your brother!! ❤
I would love to see a podcast about the armed forces / experience stories
Happy Father’s Day to you, you’re strong and your son will see this later in life and see how strong you fought ❤
I wish you guys would have talked about what happened though? Why did she make that drastic decision? I’m sure she would have wanted to have a family for her child’s sake…
I remember her always talking about how much she missed her family , she would always make it seem like she was not comfortable being a house wife with a child , sometimes the routine of the struggle to try to make it for you and your child , not many woman can handle it , they want to run back home.
Most likely too personal to talk about and out or respect for the other person. There’s boundaries as to what they can talk about.
Google has your answer and it’s very disappointing and sickening.
@@ShyG-xj3uy what do you google lol
This was healing to my soul… I love you’re family and the love you guys have. I am going to be praying for you r brother every night till God blessing him and you guys with the opportunity out to hug your son and nephew ❤
I loved this episode!!! Please make a podcast dedicated to conspiracy theories, that would be soooo good 😭
yesssssa but she would get so much hate :(
This is such a good episode. His ex never gave me good vibes. I really hope he gets to see his son again because this is wrong. He can’t get this time back with him.
Now Jeff!!! 🫶🏽💘 haven’t seen or heard of him in a long time . Your podcasts keep me so entertained 🫡
He’s in prison
Really?! Again?
That’s what they said in the podcast
He violated probation he robbed another house so he’s back in prison again
@@legomyeggolol yup. He committed another crime and got locked up
Keep up these podcasts and family videos. You guys have come so far and I’m so proud of this family. I’ve been here since the beginning when Penelope was tiny. I wish you guys more fortune and blessings. God bless your family
i really enjoyed this podcast, so real and emotional. i’d LOVE for y’all to talk about conspiracies and things that have happened to you!! 😊❤
This podcast is good for all u cus all of u don’t really open up and have heart to heart convos! So this podcast is a blessing and healthy for all u guys since it has made u guys talk abt the uncomfortable stuff❤ a great thing for all u and keep u guys talking and staying close❤
so so heartbreaking how he can’t see his baby , i obviously don’t know the story & don’t know what happened between you guys but i still feel for you. it doesn’t seem like you deserve this. just continue to be patient , i know it’s so easy to say but your greater gift is coming ! ✨
This was an emotional episode for me! I am going through divorce and I would never keep my kids away from their dad. Unfortunately their dad is the one that couldn’t be there for my boys the way they needed him. As much as that disappoints me, I would never want him to be without his sons. I feel for your brother!!
Hi Bramteaaaa lol, wow! What an episode! Definitely touches my heart as your brother is fighting to see his son. I hope there is a happy ending to his story. Peace and love to you all! 🫶🏽
You should love your mom so much Bramty. Imagine how she felt knowing that her husband abandoned her with 3 kids and then has you hidden from his side of the family. You feel it now but imagine how your mother felt her whole life raising you 3. She’s going to go straight to heaven.
Having crystals are like portals you’re probably more likely to experience paranormal things because of sage and crystals and all that stuff.
I did not know this. Thank you for the insight.
I feel bad for him thats crazy he wants to be a father but they are not allowing him
I honestly started tearing up hearing your brothers custody situation. It reminds me so much of my brother‘s current custody situation with his two kids we haven’t seen them in three years he hasn’t seen them the mother is always flaky for visitations the court always takes her side. She plays the victim who knows where she leaves her kids while she goes out to party. The sad part is there’s nothing we can do about it.
It’s so funny how invested in the Tea of this family we all are. Low key it’s for educational purposes though because crazy, insane things like these happen more often than not
Im sorry we don’t know the full story still..why u haven’t been able to see your son
What reasons have courts been provided by the mother ?..
Just wondering because your story doesn’t give reasoning but it’s portraying mother In bad light …she must be looking out for the kids best interest as well…
We cannot judge watching this
What I really want to know is why bramty kicked Luis out the house for a few months 👀 that’s the REAL tea 🐸
Did I miss an episode?
Luis mom got cancelled?
This is raw AF content, it ain't for the weak!!
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It's the new version of "Caso de la vida real"
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Dang gordo and Dani 😢😢😢
This was extremely painful to watch… I pray for your comfort and your peace and I pray God brings your Son, Baby, Nephew/ Grandson back to your life. Evil is a mother who refuses their child’s bond with their father for no good reason. This is horrible and I felt Richards pain and sadness and I’m so hopeful for your reunion and I can not wait for Bramtea to Showcase the positive news 🎉❤
The correct term is colorism. And I am so glad you all brought it up with out hesitation. This is real!!!! Coming from a Mexican family the colorism is real. The lighter skin with colored eyes are favored over darker skin tones with dark eyes. It all rooted from the spaniards taking over and colonizing Mexico. Everyone is beautiful the way they are and it’s so sad to hear that mimi went through that. She is so nurturing and an amazing mother/grandmother, we would’ve never imagined that.
My parents gave me away when I was 3 months which was the best I grew up with a loving father and mother. I also would want to hear their part of the story but forgiveness no. I had everything I wanted with my parents that god put in my way ❤
The question is, what did he do that was so bad for her to leave
fr they didn’t really talk about anything we didn’t already know
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This isn’t always the case..
That’s what I was thinking. I doubt she made that drastic decision just because she felt like it! There’s always two sides to every story! I’m sure she would have wanted her child to have both parents too.
@@Ayvp_ oh you have no idea what some women are capable of.
We’ve beeen waiting for this one !! We need part 2 for sure!
OMG, full moon. Talk about it.!!!! That is TEAA!!! I used to work for a hospital for 5 years and would help out for the night shift and day shift, and I knew if there was a full moon that night, you better get it together because we would get the craziest patience and events happening. Or if I came in in the morning, I knew there was a full moon the night before.
Baby momma watching this 😂
That sucks!! I can see he did a lot of growing, recognizing that he shouldnt have let his wife then influence him with his own Fam shows his growth. God will help him🙏🏻
We need a yafitt podcast talking abt where she’s been!!
Bramtys brother talking about Luis story: it’s so good i can literally have popcorn 😭😭😂
As a child of divorce… there is def more to this story. I wonder what happened….
make a 2 hour episode i’m soo down to hear it i’m so proud of you bramty and your family 🫡 much love for your family 🤍😊
Anyone else wonder how her younger brother came to be if their mom left their dad when Bramty was 1.5 years old? Considering Bramty and her brother Jeff have like a 2-3 year age difference
Yes I’ve always wondered this but felt shy asking lol
i think her parents would get back together
I came across this a day after my friend took his life for this same reason not being able to see his daughter .. sending prayers to your brother please continue to be his shoulder stay strong “ men reap what he soweth” he’ll get his son!
I just wanna say to your brother. He asks what is the purpose and as muslims we believe this life is a test. Everything we go through is temporary and we there is a hereafter where all our pain and suffering will be taken into account. That gives me hope, and i hope he can see that with patience in a test there is guaranteed ease that comes after every hardship.
I love this podcast and I love you all! ❤️ it’s so real and raw, I think Luis has a point in saying he feels the same way even though it wasn’t the exact situation. His feelings are valid. I can also see the way not having her dad has affected bramty. It feels like it’s a sensitive topic for bramty 🥺❤️
I never realized how alike balcom and your brother look alike omggggg💗