The problem isn't that he's living with his parents at 30. Plenty of people have had to do that to save money since rent is absolutely insane right now. But he doesn't do chores, or pay rent, or contribute financially to the household. Which is just really shitty.
Welp. What i saw from this is. That's an annoying way to say "you're a mistake and an accident". Real parents won't do this to their child. Let alone dragging them to court and make it for all america to see how worse they are. Isn't this their parents fault too? how long did they let him go this way for so long?
@@JustSomeChatter I'm not sure what other recourse they had, though. They gave him 8 years to get his shit together. Isn't that enough? This isn't a child that were abandoned by his parents. This is a grown man who moved back into his parent's home and then refuses to leave or contribute. What would you do if you were them? Deplete your retirement savings to feed this manchild who refuses to get a job? Come on, now.
@JustSomeChatter so because they fucked up they have to take care of him forever without him doing anything? No. You either do some work or get the hell out and if you don't then the law will. He is 30 years old not 18 he should figure it out. It's not them hating him, this is actually the most love you can give someone you raised who still acts 12.
@@JustSomeChatterSo what? I know people who had neglectful parents that didn’t even bother to teach them how to drive. You know what they did? They ran away from home and started fresh. One of them just got married, and the other one is doing fine.
He is everything you don't want in a person who wants to join your group in an apocalypse. He will eat all your food, won't work, will conveniently disappear during a fight, but will easily threaten or kill teammates if he has a weapon. He has a plan, it just never involves others living
tablet All those words and not a single argument about why fr, ee will is bad beside "soMe PeoPle take adVanTage of it". I know exactly what kind of person you are the moment u said" i know first hand". Ur the type asmon said is paid by the ri, ch to fight the other po, or. don't go disr, esp, ecting an acade, mic/ neur, oscie, ntist and prim, atol, ogist and a prof, essior of 3 different thing/ without at least hea, ring their sid, e, escipally if ur none of them. With res, pect/ know your pla, ce. I don't give a fly, ing №$@# if you sur, vived a bat, tle, field. (re-upl, oaded, dele, ted) you know yt.
@nothanks9503good on you at the hospital I work at I have seen so many disabled/disfigured people missing hands walking issues etc. sad these people are stuck at menial labor but at least they are trying to provide in thier lives
Dude I know a guy who is worse. He's almost 40 and in the same situation never a job and making excuses for over 20 years. Parents bought him a car once to help him become independent and he sold it for magic cards.
There are definitely comparisons to be made in the cooking, way of life, etc. However, Asmon has a crazy work ethic. Even if he is just a streamer, he steams more than anybody. He puts out content like crazy. This guy doesn't have that competitive nature.
my parents actually pester me every week to move back to their house so they can hug me and feed me delicious food every day. I need to stay strong and be independent but the temptation grows strong with how absurdidly high the living expenses and rents are right now.
i have been living with my parents for 2 years now after i moved out at 20 till 28 i see nothing wrong with living with family, we are pack animals it should be natural to live together cases like this in the video is when one member of the packs doesnt help around in old times they exiled them
@@eastbow6053 I'm almost 30 and my parents don't want me to move out. They're both disabled so physical tasks are difficult and they want to keep their house. They don't make me pay rent, but I pretty much pay all the home renovations and appliances that need to be replaced.
I think the big nuance here is "doesnt contribute anything to the household". I know people that live at home at that age, some with jobs and without, but they help pay expenses, do chores, pay rent etc. This guy was called a freeloader
even if you contribute, it’s still weird if you live at home at 30, like come on you’ve been an adult for 10 years, don’t you want privacy and independence?
@@mencibenciWanting something doesn't mean it is feasible. If you have a low paying job and you need to rent something by yourself that is very hard, at least where I live. Most places require you to make a few times the price of your rent. With the very high rent prices, most low paying jobs will not make enough. Then we do have social housing but that ends up with a 10 year, literally, wait list, especially if you currently have a place to live because it is also considered who gets those places based on urgency.
Ahh yea privacy. Don't have the money to pay your own rising rent. So you're forced to shack up with 10 other people to make the rent tolerable. Real privacy and independence there.
I bet if his parents asked him to move shit around the house.. he would. "Not contributing". 😂😂😂😂😂 What's more disturbing.. is these clowns advocating for the dude to become homeless. The newscaster "you have to work" Do we? Do we have to work for ourselves..? or work at a fast food restaurant making shit wages, for people that don't give a fuck about "us"?
As a 28 year old who moved back home during the pandemic... this is motivating me to get my shit together and become a tradesman, I'm running out of money and need to find a new job and get a car anyways, wish me luck fellow deadbeat losers.
You aren't a deadbeat if you're actually trying though. You got this! No matter how many times or how hard you fail as long as you dust off and get back to it then you arent a loser. Giving up is for losers. Just don't give up.
People will disagree because they want to keep the flexibility of being substandard parents. Parenting means agreeing to raise a wildcard, and accepting responsibility for the outcome. If you don't like it, don't become one.
It's not really about enabling, in this case, it's not enforcing strict rules in the home, since early childhood. Doesn't matter if he has the tism or not, sure I'm 30+ and still live with my parents, I'm also rich, and I let my parents use my money to buy stuff they need, after all, they might work but if you need to buy a new car, that's not chump change for a low income worker. It's not that hard to just get a job and work. And I mean, I have an hour to and fro work myself, working my arse off 9-10 hours per day. But life is that, work hard, invest well, and lead a life which you can enjoy.
Bullshit. He has been an adult for over 10 years. That’s plenty of time to work on yourself. The parents made it worse but it was his choice to take mommy and daddys money for this long. Most people that need help will have their parents help while they work for a degree or up the chain in a career. This guy just jacked off and played video games for over two decades
All y'all saying this is Asmon are confusing. Asmon took care of his mom for years. He has far more responsibility than whoever this dude is. Asmon provided for his mom's neads/wants with the money he made to keep them afloat. Sure Asmon says he didn't want to work. But he did. That's the difference in my opinion.
I'm german, 31yo and still live with my parents. I willingly pay a 3rd of the overall rent, do chores and even cook for them from time to time. As long as I integrate myself into the household my parents are fine with me staying. I'm no leech unlike this dude.
German too, my parents straight up don't want me to move out. Not that i would need. They buyed a huge, huge house back than when the market wasn't so expensive, i have a whole floor just for me, my brother too I'm getting cooked and my mother basically washes my stuff too, because i messed it up one time. My parents are getting older, they just don't want to be alone.
This is normal in Europe and it was very common only one generation ago. Usually one of children would stay at parent's house to help around and take care of them (if married, wife/husband would move in too). Not everybody was rich enough to buy/build their own home or buy a condo (we don't usually rent long-term). Nowadays it changes a bit and most kids move out but staying at your parent's home is still acceptable, at least until you marry somebody (almost all your couples want to live on their own if circumstances allow it).
its called being an adult. ofc ill help my kids but they will have to participate in maintaining the house they are living in i think those values has to be taught when they are teens tho once they are adult its a bit too late
Yeah. I stayed for a while and mooched, but at least I cleaned, did the dishes, mowed the lawn, and whatever else was asked of me. I was also actively looking for a job and trying to further my education.
What a wholesome family. Just like in the old days. My Dad asked me to get a Life Insurance. He told me it's for the funeral when I die. When the paperwork arrived it said 150k$ and my dad was the only beneficiary. He paid for my life insurance, but I had no health insurance.
The euro mindset is just better here. I heard the same perspective from a bulgarian dude who used to houseshare with me, when I was once under threat of eviction by a family member. He thought how inconceivable that family would threaten legal action against family, how it's unheard of back home. It was funny in my case too, as one of my grandparents pretended to a solicitor they didn't know I lived in their property, I guess they thought it would be easier to label me as a squatter than asking me to start paying rent. Well as soon as they threatened with a solicitor's letter to pay rent or you're on the street, I just accepted simple as that. I say simple, I was still pissed that they went about it that way. They could have just asked me, without those unnecessary threats to one's security
@@chack321 "Me? Out of touch? No... the europeans. Those damn europeans are out of touch. We have Freedom and.. we have burgers.. and rich people... and homeless... we are NOT a developing nation....!"
Well European's also raise their children to not be leeches. They contribute to the home via any number of ways, typically financially, or physically via chores. If your child honestly told you "I plan to sit here in your basement for the rest of my life and never work a day in my life, oh and make sure to feed me three times a day, clean my room and change my sheets" you WOULD NOT see that as culturally acceptable.
I had to move back in with my mom. Our rent shot up to nearly 1,800 and my mother said "That's more than my mortgage! Come back home, thats ridiculous". Instead of paying rent, she insisted the money goes into a fund that will be used to pay for a down payment on my own house. Cost of living is just insane these days. Adding for context, I've held a full time job in healthcare for years. It just doesn't pay enough ;-;
I explained this earlier, but even making a six figure salary I live paycheck to paycheck because of mortgage payments. If life doesn't screw me with surprises like medical emergencies and the like I'll have over 1m in retirement funds by 65, but that money disappears in an instant if you have a family that you're going to need to financially support. Most people who are my parents age (born in 1960-1970), mine included are hilariously out of touch with the cost of a house or with rent, they were able to afford their down payment after 2-4 years of entry level work and were able to pay it off having two people working at McDonalds or similar. Most people my age however see things a little differently and don't have issue with their kids staying at home until they have the means to support themselves and live comfortably-- Which is to say not live on bare necessities paycheck to paycheck. That doesn't really excuse this guy's behavior though. I just figure that since they say he was always smart kid he realized that working for most people won't get you anywhere and you'll be working 'til you die. Frankly most people who have the mindset of "Just go out and work hard" don't have the the capacity to look to the age of retirement and realize it's pointless to even try unless you have the capacity to work a job that pays over 120k/yr.
It's getting like that. I work full time, overnights and weekends, live frugally and don't live in the city where rent is higher, I earn slightly more than the "average" wage for most people, and even I could not afford rent on my own even a small 1-2 bedroom townhouse is out of grasp here in Australia. Literally the only house I could afford here is a shed in the middle of the outback which no one wants to buy for obvious reasons.
My dad is the same way. He wants me to continue living with him since his mortgage is much lower than any rental around me and I just pay half the mortgage and other bills.
Here in Philippines, we usually move out only if we start out a family or if we work far from home. Being single working guy, I still stay with my mom since she's already old and leaving her alone is worrisome. We don't really have options like retirement homes (it's not part of the social culture and not economically sustainable for the majority of people) There's really no reason to move out unless you don't get along with your parents... But being a deadbeat is not an excuse.
"it's not part of the social culture and not economically sustainable for the majority of people" thats all you need to say buddy. This is purely an american/western problem.
@RuelAustria this became apart of western culture because our economy used to support getting a job at 18 that would pay you enough to move out and western culture is simultaneously puritan and full of debauchery so your puritan parents want you to start a family but they don't want you bringing girls to their home(unless you are going to marry them), so you get that job you get your own place you start your family. Modern world this doesn't work very few jobs, and almost 0 entry-level jobs pay you enough yo live by yourself you'll have to share a small space with a bunch of people and hopes one day you make enough money to start a family and get your own place
@@vincenthammons-kd9du Its Filipino culture to contribute. They actually end up doing most of the chores to help elderly parents or grandparents. Sometimes when the kid makes enough money, they’ll even send allowances for their parents to buy whatever. My wife is half Filipino and she makes well over 6 figures as an RN and sends like $800/month to her parents.
He's just min/maxing. His folks are old and probably going to die soon. What happens to the house? He inherits the house. Why would he move his stuff twice?
You know who's been doing this for millenia? The freaking royals. Do you think King Charles has a mortgage on a brand new mcmansion or he's living in his great-great-great-great-great-great-grandpa's estate? But the peons want to prove they are independent by being enslaved by the banks or landlords. It's hilarious.
In EU the parents will kick the son/daughter only if they grow to be an ungrateful brat, other than that, they will live with the parents and even the gf/bf can move in if they are respectful.
That's the same case with this 30 year old dead beat. The parents didn't kick him out because of his age, they only did so because he wasn't even helping out in the house. Regardless of where you are that's okay with generational living, no parent would want a son or daughter that isn't helping out in the house. Had he been assisting with rent/bills or at the very minimum, helped out with the chores (he should be the one doing most of them to compensate for his lack of income) the parents would see no issue with his presence, they'd even welcome it. Edit: I doubt any parent would like to be all alone in their old age, especially when they have kids. This guy is simply a nuisance
im really happy about the comment seciton, gives me hope about everything, having discussions on "how did this happen" rather than just dog piling the parents or the dude is really awesome
I moved out at 31-32 ish... and i might need to move back in again soon i'm 33. i have a steady job for almost decade now but i can't compete with the rising prices in rent
Salaries are not rising to take inflation into account. It's disgusting. You work but can't make it to the end of the month and this is happening for most jobs in my European country
I honestly understand and the great recession sucked for me but rent and houses were at least really cheap. It's a real problem people don't want to talk about and you'll just hear about "how hard I had it in my day". Yeah, almost everything is better today BUT affordable rent and housing.
I've been out since 18; and struggled every single day. I'm 33 now. It's hard not to be resentful to my bad parents for the abuse and then kicking me out at 18; they did their best to set me up for failure; and I've been treading water ever since. Edit; actually I was 17, I forgot.
Well deserved. I live in Fiji and I'm 35 and still live with my parents. Only difference is that for the first twenty years of my life, the fed me, clothed me and put a roof over my head while raising me and taking care of our land. Today I feed them, clothe them, and maintain that roof over our heads while taking care of our land. It's my turn to take care of then so I fulfil my duty as a son. This freeloading crap on the other hand? yeah that pretty disgusting on the part of the son there.
I really wish families were a lot closer over here in north america. Growing up, I only had one friend who I'd say had a very close family and I was always envious of her.
Exactly. I too live with my parents still, 31. I cover bills, I do chores (my parents by default do not clean the house, that's my job exclusively). I paid for my own car, gas, insurance, etc., unlike this freeloader on screen. I think this would be a very different story if he had a stable job and was actively maintaining the house FOR his parents and, you know, making their life easier as thanks for not letting him starve as a child lmao (imo they should have).
@@Luccient No. Not really. My parents did their duty by raising me in a decent home and I do my duty by doing the same back when I became capable of doing so. Pride doesn't come into the picture. Duty, care and affection does.
This was me once. 100%, I was not raised by my parents and flat out neglected. Now I support myself, but they flat out never raised me. Video games and TV raised me. Parents struggle to understanding raising your kids is more then just feeding them and giving them a room. His parents failed him and it's extremely common in America right now how Parents don't teach their kids how to adult and go shocked Pika face when he refuses to adult. I wanted responsibility and to help and they never let me. So it trained into me, to never fucking try that still fucks with me today.
People want to blame him, how ever we are a product of our parents. IF someone turns out shit, 95% of the time it's the parent's fault. They likely ignored him, rejected giving him responsibility so he embodied what they thought him.
@@lightdarksoul2097 You're the type of person who lives in a city but then decide to get dogs like a husky that they lock in a tiny apartment all day and never interact with.
I know it's weird for Americans, but generational living is pretty common in a lot of other countries, however in this case I feel there is more to it, just at looking how this guy acts and speaks suggests 2 things: 1. Either he has some undiscovered mental issues that should've been caught earlier in his life by his parents to try to help him or 2. His parents did a horrible job raising their own kid and spoiling him all the way, giving him always what he wants or just let him be like that thinking "he'll be fine one day" without raising him properly how to be an adult. You don't just magically turn like that as grown up without having something wrong beforehand that was ignored through all of his life, or the parents just didn't do the parenting job right and left him to do whatever he wants and that's how he was raised and molded. Or maybe a bit of both. But the parents definitely had a hand in him being like this and never took the proper care to provide the educating or medical help he needed when he was younger. He can't even express himself or doesn't fully understand the simple questions he's been asked which as a 30 year old that's not normal. So he's like a 10 years old boy in the body of a 30 years old man. In any case the parents now reap the fruits of their "labor" and even trying to sue their own son while they also had a hand in creating.
Yes For sure the parents have fault in what he is, no matter if it's mental problem or nurture. In both cases they should've done better job raising him, helping him and making sure he can navigate thru adulthood. I'm more inclined to believe he is on a spectrum considering he can't formulate an answer or even understand the questions, that's not just from laziness. He doesn't even understand what a millennial is, it's almost like asking a little boy grown up questions expecting grown up answers. Like you said this doesn't just develop out of nowhere so the parents knew for long time there is something wrong with his mentality yet did absolutely nothing, otherwise they would've mentioned it or understand why he is like that and now just gave him the boot because of their own failure.
You’re right. I was in a similar position as him, but my depression and anxiety stopped me from getting a job and learning how to drive for years. I’m just now getting on my feet and my life has improved dramatically. Of course I was never in denial and always felt like a burden which deepened my depression even more. I genuinely felt stuck. After getting a job and realizing how easy and how it’s not scary really makes me feel like a dumbass after all these years. Oh well, better late than never. Only unfortunate thing about it is that I’ll have to work longer for my retirement. 🫤😂
@@RyeRye656it really isn’t, it’s as simple as being a lazy slob. My nephew unfortunately is the same as this guy, I often joke with my brother in law ‘so have you guys ever thought about getting your own place at some point?’ Cause I swear that’s what he’s waiting for.
yeah, and she's not even trying to be underhanded in any way, to be perfectly honest she's supporting him hard... now imagine instead of her having there that guy that massacred reddit mod for wanting to be ethic and logical thinking teacher
@@sera_venus some months ago there was something similiar about somekind of r/antiwork subreddit guy, where interview went way differently, there host was just making example out of him, here she uses questions where he can easily make himself look better, but his answers are... yeah
Generational living is common around most of the world but the US we used to have an economy and the housing to support individual living. Which became a part of our culture. Now we have a society were housing is incredibly unaffordable and people like this exist that dont want to.
Why do I keep thinking it’s hilarious that Asmon is making fun of this guy when this is literally him in an alternate dimension where he didn’t become famous and rich.
@@jimmiekarlsson4458 And that's why Abortion is bad, just take the kid away to adoption center but he can't buy his kid back even if his financially stable lol
“He’s practicing cooking!” Bro is literally playing RuneScape. “I’m going to put the cooked chicken where the raw chicken was” BRO IS PRACTICING POISONS
Bruh they have a deadbeat son who refuses to do anything. Family is family but when your a grown ass 30 year old man who still relies on mommy and daddy to take care of you, you need to get the fuck out. Parents arent obligated to continue to support their children past 18. They continue to do so out of love and it looks like for this dude he is run out of any love
@@atelierbagur3831 The guy looks like someone who is just eating cheap noodles every day, doesn't go out, doesn't spend anything and he's fine staying in his room with just a 10 year old PC and some internet. If he's their only son, they can definitely afford to have him stay at home.
It's not even western thing, just America thing. If he's that bad of a deadbeat, he won't do menial jobs for boarding. He'd literally be actual homeless begging on the street, mental issue optional.
Greece is a phenomenon, I have a few friends from Greece and I can't think of a single other country with a culture that actively gets between you and your spouse on the matter of housing/moving out. Lots of other cultures want you to stay with them UNTIL you're married, from what those friends have told me in Greece even after you get married it's like pulling teeth trying to keep the peace with your family about moving in with your spouse.
@@ThatPinkOtter Yeah in Greece theres very much so the idea that, if you're family, you should live together. So it can get a bit weird when you wanna move out with a girl you like because your parents are like "But we're your family". Its mostly an older generation thing tho, people nowdays have grown out of it quite a bit.
in finland we have probably the most extreme version. government pays the rent from the taxes collectively when you are unemployed, government pays the college, etc. right? , so you can basically move out at any age, even with no money. you just need to do the paperwork.... so families basically throw their kids out at age 16 and provide no further financial assistance. independence is highly valued and encouraged by society and government.. to the point of being cold to your children. kids cycle to school alone from age 7, through the winter, too, if a mother/father drives you to school, you are seen as a wuss. in physical education kids are put into forest and given maps to figure it out, its called suunnistus, "orienteering". kids do the chores in the house, not mothers, mothers are at work. kids are given power tools in shopping classes to make their wood stuff. kids pick their own food from in school cafeteria. kids are highly autonomous for their age. they cycle to their friends, use trains and other public transports alone, without asking permits from parents. kids are given kids debit card with their own bank account. figuring and solving things by yourself is highly preferred. did you hit yourself in the head at school causing concussion during rough play? go to school nurse by yourself. there's no need to call parents. parents are irritated if you call. "you have school nurse, why are you calling me? " schools provide free contraception to boys and girls at age of around 12-13, kid´s information is regarded by law as his&hers private matter that is not parent´s business to know automatically, and adult´s stuff like consent and s3x-ed health is discussed frankly in length and taught at relatively younger age than normally in other countries in school health education. at least that was how it was still in the 90s & early 2000s when i was a kid. dont know if its anymore true, I've read a bit about "anxiety" in kids and young parents and "helicopter parenting", which was unknown thing in my time. I've even read that many kids have been started to be taken with cars to school which is still hard to believe in my finnish context. there's more of "its not safe, we have to take kids to school by cars" talk from parents on the internet, and they sound like mentally insane anxiety twitter people. there's zero reason for them to take kids by cars to school like in usa. (we are one of the safest countries in the world, 16.5.2024 "Homicides in Finland drop to 40-year low") we specifically designed our towns and cities around easy cycling, year round, even during winter with snow plow machines.
@@FredGoldust Yes, but they live in New York state according to the news articles I found. The amount of money they offered him to leave wouldn't have even paid for a full month in a studio apartment out in that high COL shithole even back in 2018.
He would still have to get a job if he inherited the house. They take your house away if you don't pay property tax. They shut off power and water if you don't pay utility bills. One way or another reality was always going to catch up with him.
@@YamanoRyuu sooo obviously you don't know how basic inheritance and money works. How is he going to afford the house in NY with no job and no savings? Think before you speak next time redditor.
Have you ever seen that anime, Golden Boy? That's essentially the same thing. He just shows up in a town and finds someone to put him up in exchange for an extra hand.
I means, isn't that how it always works? They did taught me how to find a job, but thats it. The idea is that when you encounter troubles you ask your parents, its not like there a manual to adult life. Cor example, my family was quite poor, so i find an illegal job at age 16 and started working to help the family, i mean the job itself was legal, my presence there was not:). Laws don't allow children to work 12 hours night shifts.
His parents mistake was letting him stay without paying rent after 18. Even if they take the rent just to help him save and give it back after 2 years to start his life, he should never have stayed after 18 without going to school or paying rent. But it’s still his responsibility. After you’re an adult you can’t blame others for your behavior. No one is going to take more responsibility for your actions than you
@@oakinwol i would and could only imagine they continued to treat him like a child even after he hit 18. you cant expect a baby to stand up and get a job, for them to be a man you have to treat them like one. also, the unfairness on his part isn't being ignored by me, they clearly did not prepare him for this world they just let him live like a pet dog until he got ugly and old and sent him to the kennel. hes a person but they raised him like a pet
@@Cualquiercosa5049 there is always more to the story we won't know from the video. It could have to do with his child he has no custody of or other conflict with the parents
The mental disconnect between the interviewer and the guy is funny. It’s very simple he is doesn’t want to work any job he doesn’t want and he doesn’t have money. If someone handed him a billion dollars he would gladly get out.
@@jcaesar19871this guy thinks $1100 is "money" and not just two weeks of McDonald's I'm not even kidding, it's actually roughly two weeks of McDonald's.
this is 100% his parents fault for providing him with food and a place to stay with no actual development and help to grow from them. Sounds like he is smart and had a decent young life, but his parents never pushed him to do anything and just let him sit around and do nothing. You can't expect someone to change if you let them do the same thing constantly. That's why he is where he is now learning things he should of at 18, at 30. sounds like classic case of mom coddling FOREVER and dad never being home to raise a boy to a man so this is the outcome of 2 shitty peoples decision in growing a human
This 100%. You get the sort of kid you raise. If you realize you fucked up, you need to figure out how to undo the damage. Best case scenario is you raise your kids well enough, you don't want them to move out, but they can and will do it to start a new family. The fact that they're so insufferable you want them to leave is testament to your own failure as a parent.
@@strongback6550 the biggest issue with these boomer parents is that they believe they have done nothing wrong, and it's all their kids fault because they provided them with basic necesseties to survive. So they will never even realize they have fucked up, they think it isn't their issue because they arent their child. I think any normal and rational person would think that their child is a reflection of them, and they would want to do anything to help them in life no matter what. a lot of american, mainly boomer parents hate their children and its sad. they just wanna get rid of them asap
There is nothing wrong with living with your parents in the vast majority of the world. It's very normal everywhere, maybe except the US. Being a deadbeat and not contributing though. That's acceptable nowhere.
The US still hasnt realized the pioneer days are over and the economy has been garbage for new entries for decades. (and of course we coddle our kids well into their 20s)
It used to be that most people lived in the home of their parents for most of their lives. Granted, they actually helped out and contributed to the household and family, but the fact that he's at home isn't a negative outside of the regression that took place in the modern world. It's that he doesn't do anything to help out that's the problem. Parents also seem pretty deadbeat too tbh. I mean, takes one to raise one.
People are comparing it because if Asmon didn’t fall into a multi million dollar streaming career, this would be him no doubt about it. He’s literally stated he sat in his room all day playing games and the streaming happened. Don’t give him credit he doesn’t deserve
@Lemonteaxi I mean yea, but that's a hypothetical and not reality. Plus it doesn't matter if people dont like it; one found a way to make money while bummin about, and the other simply bummed. Don't get it twisted though. I'm not going to bat for a rich guy on the internet that I don't know personally, but I'll make a funny observation.
Moved out at 38, but I payed rent+groceries the entire time. Helped with chores etc. Like how can you be so ungrateful? How can you not start hating yourself if you live at home and don't do anything or pay for anything? He must have such contempt for his own parents it's sickening.
My favorite part of all this is that he refused to do chores at his parents house but then he ends up doing chores for someone else for a place to stay 🤦♂️
Im 31 still live with my parents, I dont have any motivation to move out as well or do anything really. Only differences is I have a job and I pay all the bills and food we eat. 😂
I don't see the point. Unless you're getting married, starting a family, buying a house, or don't get along with your parents, there is ZERO reason to move out. Society will call you a loser if you don't, but they are all broke and stupid anyway. If you move out, expect to be financially dominated by real estate landlords that will take half your income and provide a mismanaged cardboard box to live in while you pay off THEIR mortgage. It's just not worth it.
imagine telling a woman who has her own place and her life figured out “yeah I still live in the room I did when I was 15, I hope my mom and dad watching TV with us won’t be a problem teehee” bro she’s gonna be absolutely repulsed by your immature momma’s boy ass and rightly so.
@@mencibenci you are so lost in this modern culture and are not even aware of it, I hope you find actual truth instead of the rehash you just did to which is apparent is not of your own creation or opinion.
Society has ruined an entire generation of young men. This man is just an example of all of us reaping what we have sown as a society. I'm glad so many people are getting a little self-esteem boost by judging this dude so harshly.
You are correct. I fear dark times have already arrived and will become much darker in the years ahead. Let's pray we can keep some hope and steer ourselves in the right direction.
@@Nyt250 its BECAUSE government and those in office would rather welfare and taxes go to the useless instead of people like ME who actually built ur shit... like f'ing why... I would gve u the shirt off my back... so it makes no wondr im broke
@@Hanibul_LecktorI've met good people who had bad parents (they had good rolemodels elsewhere). But I've never met a bad person who had good parents.
I will say. Asmon does more than play video games everyday. He does try and be entertaining. The dude started multiple businesses. He was even in college at one point.
People who have the 'kids need to leave at 18' mindset grew up in a time when that was actually financially and socially feasible, it's not anymore. The ones who actually commit to it after seeing how hard it has become are just terrible parents and terrible people imo.
That was never a normal mindset to have. The only time in history a man left at 18 is to go to war. But multi-generational families are how we have lived since the stone age. The only time it's reasonable to move out is if you're getting married, starting your own family and need the space to raise kids, buying your own home, or if your parents are abusive. Rent culture isn't normal.
It's a manufactured mindset to break up family units. And the companies renting out living places sure as hell love a steady supply of young idiots to fleece.
No, it is about being an adult and part of society. If my kid had a job and was actively looking for an apartment or trying to find room mates or they are in university I would be fine with them staying with me while doing so. But, if they are living there with no job, being lazy, just mooching, not doing anything with their life then I say they need to go figure it out on their own. It is natural to have a certain point to say ok, I taught you everything I know and I helped guide you on your journey of life now go do something and pass it on.
There's a fundamental difference: this dude has never had a job. Asmon has worked before and contributed to his household. If we're ignoring that then the comparison applies to *every* streamer.
He didn't. He represented himself the first time and probably did the second time too LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣 That, or maybe the second time he had a court-appointed defence attourney; which if true, yeah ofc he lost LOL
People might initially blame the 30 year old but truthfully this is a failure of parenting. Those parents failed their son. They did not prepare him for life.
@@nine9nine9 @tabletoparcade4203 nah you both are wrong. this is an "eternal child" aka puer aeternus. these will not wake up without dire life changing situations.
it goes both ways tbh, you reach a point as an adult where you realize "oh shit im fucking up" and you gotta hold yourself accountable, i get his situation though once you get into the whole escapism thing its a tough thing to get out and time flies by so fast
I worked a full time job, got a car, insurance, and my own place. SPECIFICALLY to get custody of my son. Using that as an excuse sickens me. Oh yeah, and I did this at 20. He has absolutely no excuse. His absent son is not an excuse to not be working his ass off right now. His son is the REASON to work his ass off right now.
To be fair, I always get compliments on my dress clothes, even by old distinguished gentleman, and I have never paid more than $50 for any article of clothing. If you are attentive to details, take care of your clothes, and use small additions (tie pin, cuff links, fancy hat, watch, etc.) to stand out, you can make the cheapest things appear to be a million dollar outfit.
If your Parents don't want you at Home after 18, and your Generally a Decent Person, that says that your parents have always seen you as a Nuisance. Just Facts.💯
@@ZeptoZeno who says staying at home with your parents past 18+ means you're not independent? Plenty of folks in different countries in Africa, South East Asian etc., still live with their parents past 20 whilst having a job, social life and contributing to the house hold and so forth. It seems to solely be an American thing where your childern are forced to move out past a certain age.
Right but this guys in his thirties has a child he doesn’t take care of and he doesn’t pay for anything doesn’t have a job or a degree and expects them to make him food and pay for everything for him so he can just play magic or whatever until he dies
@@groovyhoovy2606 yh yh in this specific example I don't really disagree, but I'm more so talking about the hostility Americans seem to have towards the idea of kids still living with their parents past 20 and thinking it instantly equates to what this guy is doing.
@@s117189mm That ideas getting less and less popular my mother got kicked out at 15 and my dad at 19 but they, my siblings and myself won’t/didn’t do that if that makes sense America’s economic situation is making this less of a taboo as well not just a cultural shift
@@groovyhoovy2606 yh fairs. I do remember reading comments/posts on reddit, Instagram etc., where folks have mentioned that the cost of living has essentially forced them to move back in with their fam.
This 8 years bullshit. 18 is not a magic number to move out, especially now. At 21 I moved to a different country, but if my kid wants to stay past 18 for while. Who cares.
@@gregsalisbury4967 That is true, but in saying that his parents created him and raised him to be like that. He is a result of an unfortunate series of life circumstances, and a lack of motivation and drive. I was very close to being like him, so I can kind of empathise with him.
@ 21:21 " My parents stopped feeding me in, like, December " he speaks as if he was a baby bird in a nest in which his parents had to regurgitate food and feed it to him cause he wasn't able to physically feed himself lol
That dude would 100% get bitten in a zombie apocalypses and not tell anyone about it.
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He is a big guy.
He is probably over 6'4".
I don't think too many zombies will be able to take him down.
this is an american thing. In Europe, especially in Eastern Europe, your parents will keep you till they die if you can't afford or want to move out
Africans too.
ya generational living is a rare thing in the US, usually they just kicked out though. suing is a bit much lol
Hispanics too
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dude im an only son, ill be a deadbeat son if i ever move out lol things r so different in different cultures
The problem isn't that he's living with his parents at 30. Plenty of people have had to do that to save money since rent is absolutely insane right now. But he doesn't do chores, or pay rent, or contribute financially to the household. Which is just really shitty.
Welp. What i saw from this is. That's an annoying way to say "you're a mistake and an accident". Real parents won't do this to their child. Let alone dragging them to court and make it for all america to see how worse they are. Isn't this their parents fault too? how long did they let him go this way for so long?
@@JustSomeChatter
I'm not sure what other recourse they had, though. They gave him 8 years to get his shit together. Isn't that enough? This isn't a child that were abandoned by his parents. This is a grown man who moved back into his parent's home and then refuses to leave or contribute. What would you do if you were them? Deplete your retirement savings to feed this manchild who refuses to get a job? Come on, now.
agreed
@JustSomeChatter so because they fucked up they have to take care of him forever without him doing anything? No. You either do some work or get the hell out and if you don't then the law will. He is 30 years old not 18 he should figure it out. It's not them hating him, this is actually the most love you can give someone you raised who still acts 12.
@@JustSomeChatterSo what? I know people who had neglectful parents that didn’t even bother to teach them how to drive. You know what they did? They ran away from home and started fresh. One of them just got married, and the other one is doing fine.
He is everything you don't want in a person who wants to join your group in an apocalypse.
He will eat all your food, won't work, will conveniently disappear during a fight, but will easily threaten or kill teammates if he has a weapon. He has a plan, it just never involves others living
The worst part is, it’s sleazy mf like this that get away with everything and survive lol
Im going out like a raider from fallout
You know most people are like this btw, especially in an apocalypse situation.
i need to make a mod for rimworld that add's him into it...
I didn't watch the video to the end, let's see if I can defend him
This is one of those "im barely a functioning adult but im at least not this guy" moments for me
tablet All those words and not a single argument about why fr, ee will is bad beside "soMe PeoPle take adVanTage of it". I know exactly what kind of person you are the moment u said" i know first hand". Ur the type asmon said is paid by the ri, ch to fight the other po, or.
don't go disr, esp, ecting an acade, mic/ neur, oscie, ntist and prim, atol, ogist and a prof, essior of 3 different thing/ without at least hea, ring their sid, e, escipally if ur none of them. With res, pect/ know your pla, ce. I don't give a fly, ing №$@# if you sur, vived a bat, tle, field. (re-upl, oaded, dele, ted) you know yt.
@nothanks9503good on you at the hospital I work at I have seen so many disabled/disfigured people missing hands walking issues etc. sad these people are stuck at menial labor but at least they are trying to provide in thier lives
"There's always a bigger fish"
I listen to Kalib Hammer when I want to feel better about my situation, but this isn't a bad stand in, lol.
Here here...
Dude I know a guy who is worse. He's almost 40 and in the same situation never a job and making excuses for over 20 years. Parents bought him a car once to help him become independent and he sold it for magic cards.
Based af, needed Lotus Pettle
@@tcunero He will have the last laugh when he sells his PSA 10 1st edition cards.
that's wild
holy zased
I know its tragic, but sorry this sounds too funny xD
The fact Asmon doesn't realize this is himself from an alternate universe where he doesn't make it on twitch and still doesn't want to work
Asmon had a job before streaming? I'm sure if he could make it work living off the government he would though.
He knows that 😂 He made a crack about it.
Diff is Asmon worked at burger king.
with hair
There are definitely comparisons to be made in the cooking, way of life, etc. However, Asmon has a crazy work ethic. Even if he is just a streamer, he steams more than anybody. He puts out content like crazy. This guy doesn't have that competitive nature.
This is Asmon if his streaming career never took off.
Lmfao
Straight up 😂
This is why it got recommended to him and I guess 😅
He knows for sure
They even look like😂
Now he can legally squat indefinitely in an Airbnb.
.....then we get the kick stream reactions too, good call brother!
Its probably what will happen.
@@MrDazzlerdarren What if the squatter is a kick streamer? Infinite content loop?
How do people still think that squatting is legal?
@@soulure him and Mary would look so cute together
Bro is doing Asmongold-speedrun with influencer-patch disabled!
🎯
iron man mode
Yaw are brilliant haha 🙌
But women will still feel oppressed in spite of them having better wages
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my parents actually pester me every week to move back to their house so they can hug me and feed me delicious food every day. I need to stay strong and be independent but the temptation grows strong with how absurdidly high the living expenses and rents are right now.
i have been living with my parents for 2 years now after i moved out at 20 till 28 i see nothing wrong with living with family, we are pack animals it should be natural to live together cases like this in the video is when one member of the packs doesnt help around in old times they exiled them
@@eastbow6053 I'm almost 30 and my parents don't want me to move out. They're both disabled so physical tasks are difficult and they want to keep their house. They don't make me pay rent, but I pretty much pay all the home renovations and appliances that need to be replaced.
If you have a steady income and single, just move in. There's no shame living with parents as long as you're not a burden.
you probably have the right mindset and are trying to be a decent human👍
who says you need to be independant, plenty of asian families stay together and even pool their money together so they can buy into businesses, etc.
Lets be honest, Asmon would be that guy if it wasn't for the twitch shekkels
No way, Asmongold’s at least 40 IQ points smarter than this guy. He would figure something out
Bro went out and got a new mom. Lmao. He's actually hagmaxxing.
Is it a new mom? Or is it a _mommy?_
@@Kensuke0987Real question
He might not be smart, but he is a bit charming in a weird way.
@@henrythegreatamerican8136 He might not be charming in a weird way, but I bet he studies the blade.
@@henrythegreatamerican8136This comment made me shiver 😖😂
Imagine finding out this guy is your biological father 💀😭
Birth Control FTW (hopefully?)
This bloodline ends with me moment right there
No way I'd pass that curse onto future generations
Oh man thats rough
@@gfox9295let me fix that for you
Birth Control not FTW (unsuccessful application)😂
You dont chose your father. I tell my son this on a regular basis, and also that he does not have to become anything like me when he becomes a adult.
I think the big nuance here is "doesnt contribute anything to the household". I know people that live at home at that age, some with jobs and without, but they help pay expenses, do chores, pay rent etc.
This guy was called a freeloader
even if you contribute, it’s still weird if you live at home at 30, like come on you’ve been an adult for 10 years, don’t you want privacy and independence?
@@mencibencican you afford it?
@@mencibenciWanting something doesn't mean it is feasible. If you have a low paying job and you need to rent something by yourself that is very hard, at least where I live. Most places require you to make a few times the price of your rent. With the very high rent prices, most low paying jobs will not make enough. Then we do have social housing but that ends up with a 10 year, literally, wait list, especially if you currently have a place to live because it is also considered who gets those places based on urgency.
Ahh yea privacy. Don't have the money to pay your own rising rent. So you're forced to shack up with 10 other people to make the rent tolerable.
Real privacy and independence there.
I bet if his parents asked him to move shit around the house.. he would.
"Not contributing". 😂😂😂😂😂
What's more disturbing.. is these clowns advocating for the dude to become homeless.
The newscaster "you have to work"
Do we?
Do we have to work for ourselves..? or work at a fast food restaurant making shit wages, for people that don't give a fuck about "us"?
Went to high school with him. What a world
What do you feel about him after watching this video?
He didn't use the right excuse. "I grew up in a middle class family"
I would've replied, "I, too, was born at a young age?"
He should have just claimed to be like Talcum X.
@@thomgizziz Martin Luther Cream (Heavy).
If he did that he could run for president.
he should have dropped ye olde "What can be, unburdened by what has been."
this is asmongold if he never made it on twitch
Looks like him too
To be fair his dad likes him though
Spot on
To be completely fair to Asmongold at least he can cook himself a steak even if it is a crime against humanity so I don't begrudge that
Except Zack never had offspring as far as we know.
As a 28 year old who moved back home during the pandemic... this is motivating me to get my shit together and become a tradesman, I'm running out of money and need to find a new job and get a car anyways, wish me luck fellow deadbeat losers.
Best wishes you got this 🙏💕
You aren't a deadbeat if you're actually trying though. You got this! No matter how many times or how hard you fail as long as you dust off and get back to it then you arent a loser. Giving up is for losers. Just don't give up.
Don’t become a mechanic
same. I already ran out of money though for the last three years I tried many things and didn't make it. I start my new job on friday,
You got this 💪
Kinda feel bad for the guy, parents enabled him for years and now are cutting him loose at 30, it's like he was born yesterday.
The wake doesn’t drive the boat
People will disagree because they want to keep the flexibility of being substandard parents. Parenting means agreeing to raise a wildcard, and accepting responsibility for the outcome. If you don't like it, don't become one.
It's not really about enabling, in this case, it's not enforcing strict rules in the home, since early childhood. Doesn't matter if he has the tism or not, sure I'm 30+ and still live with my parents, I'm also rich, and I let my parents use my money to buy stuff they need, after all, they might work but if you need to buy a new car, that's not chump change for a low income worker. It's not that hard to just get a job and work. And I mean, I have an hour to and fro work myself, working my arse off 9-10 hours per day.
But life is that, work hard, invest well, and lead a life which you can enjoy.
Bullshit. He has been an adult for over 10 years. That’s plenty of time to work on yourself. The parents made it worse but it was his choice to take mommy and daddys money for this long. Most people that need help will have their parents help while they work for a degree or up the chain in a career. This guy just jacked off and played video games for over two decades
@@TubeytimeNon sense dude , you can discipline children. The parents failed him first , that is undeniable
All y'all saying this is Asmon are confusing. Asmon took care of his mom for years. He has far more responsibility than whoever this dude is. Asmon provided for his mom's neads/wants with the money he made to keep them afloat. Sure Asmon says he didn't want to work. But he did. That's the difference in my opinion.
Asmon got lucky he can live of streaming
Neads
I'm glad you're here to white knight for him.
@@LegDayLas thank you
I'm german, 31yo and still live with my parents. I willingly pay a 3rd of the overall rent, do chores and even cook for them from time to time. As long as I integrate myself into the household my parents are fine with me staying. I'm no leech unlike this dude.
Exactly. Everyone seems to be missing that part. Carry your own weight at least, or gtfo.
German too, my parents straight up don't want me to move out. Not that i would need. They buyed a huge, huge house back than when the market wasn't so expensive, i have a whole floor just for me, my brother too I'm getting cooked and my mother basically washes my stuff too, because i messed it up one time. My parents are getting older, they just don't want to be alone.
This is normal in Europe and it was very common only one generation ago. Usually one of children would stay at parent's house to help around and take care of them (if married, wife/husband would move in too). Not everybody was rich enough to buy/build their own home or buy a condo (we don't usually rent long-term). Nowadays it changes a bit and most kids move out but staying at your parent's home is still acceptable, at least until you marry somebody (almost all your couples want to live on their own if circumstances allow it).
its called being an adult. ofc ill help my kids but they will have to participate in maintaining the house they are living in i think those values has to be taught when they are teens tho once they are adult its a bit too late
Yeah. I stayed for a while and mooched, but at least I cleaned, did the dishes, mowed the lawn, and whatever else was asked of me. I was also actively looking for a job and trying to further my education.
What a wholesome family. Just like in the old days. My Dad asked me to get a Life Insurance. He told me it's for the funeral when I die. When the paperwork arrived it said 150k$ and my dad was the only beneficiary. He paid for my life insurance, but I had no health insurance.
lmao
Sleep with one eye open
holy shite mate lmao..
@@Shpa18 he's gonna sleep with his stomach open
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As a European, the concept of kicking out your child, let alone sueing them is alien to me.
The European mind can't comprehend.
The euro mindset is just better here. I heard the same perspective from a bulgarian dude who used to houseshare with me, when I was once under threat of eviction by a family member. He thought how inconceivable that family would threaten legal action against family, how it's unheard of back home. It was funny in my case too, as one of my grandparents pretended to a solicitor they didn't know I lived in their property, I guess they thought it would be easier to label me as a squatter than asking me to start paying rent. Well as soon as they threatened with a solicitor's letter to pay rent or you're on the street, I just accepted simple as that. I say simple, I was still pissed that they went about it that way. They could have just asked me, without those unnecessary threats to one's security
@@chack321 "Me? Out of touch? No... the europeans. Those damn europeans are out of touch. We have Freedom and.. we have burgers.. and rich people... and homeless... we are NOT a developing nation....!"
so they would just let you live in there house with no job and no chores doing nothing being a freeloader that sounds like the most shit mindset ever
Well European's also raise their children to not be leeches. They contribute to the home via any number of ways, typically financially, or physically via chores. If your child honestly told you "I plan to sit here in your basement for the rest of my life and never work a day in my life, oh and make sure to feed me three times a day, clean my room and change my sheets" you WOULD NOT see that as culturally acceptable.
I had to move back in with my mom. Our rent shot up to nearly 1,800 and my mother said "That's more than my mortgage! Come back home, thats ridiculous". Instead of paying rent, she insisted the money goes into a fund that will be used to pay for a down payment on my own house. Cost of living is just insane these days. Adding for context, I've held a full time job in healthcare for years. It just doesn't pay enough ;-;
that's what being a good mother is , good on u
I explained this earlier, but even making a six figure salary I live paycheck to paycheck because of mortgage payments. If life doesn't screw me with surprises like medical emergencies and the like I'll have over 1m in retirement funds by 65, but that money disappears in an instant if you have a family that you're going to need to financially support.
Most people who are my parents age (born in 1960-1970), mine included are hilariously out of touch with the cost of a house or with rent, they were able to afford their down payment after 2-4 years of entry level work and were able to pay it off having two people working at McDonalds or similar. Most people my age however see things a little differently and don't have issue with their kids staying at home until they have the means to support themselves and live comfortably-- Which is to say not live on bare necessities paycheck to paycheck.
That doesn't really excuse this guy's behavior though. I just figure that since they say he was always smart kid he realized that working for most people won't get you anywhere and you'll be working 'til you die. Frankly most people who have the mindset of "Just go out and work hard" don't have the the capacity to look to the age of retirement and realize it's pointless to even try unless you have the capacity to work a job that pays over 120k/yr.
It's getting like that. I work full time, overnights and weekends, live frugally and don't live in the city where rent is higher, I earn slightly more than the "average" wage for most people, and even I could not afford rent on my own even a small 1-2 bedroom townhouse is out of grasp here in Australia. Literally the only house I could afford here is a shed in the middle of the outback which no one wants to buy for obvious reasons.
My dad is the same way. He wants me to continue living with him since his mortgage is much lower than any rental around me and I just pay half the mortgage and other bills.
You have a good mom which is more than a lot of us can say.
Here in Philippines, we usually move out only if we start out a family or if we work far from home.
Being single working guy, I still stay with my mom since she's already old and leaving her alone is worrisome. We don't really have options like retirement homes (it's not part of the social culture and not economically sustainable for the majority of people)
There's really no reason to move out unless you don't get along with your parents...
But being a deadbeat is not an excuse.
"it's not part of the social culture and not economically sustainable for the majority of people" thats all you need to say buddy. This is purely an american/western problem.
its okay if you live with your parents imo but you better contribute
@RuelAustria this became apart of western culture because our economy used to support getting a job at 18 that would pay you enough to move out and western culture is simultaneously puritan and full of debauchery so your puritan parents want you to start a family but they don't want you bringing girls to their home(unless you are going to marry them), so you get that job you get your own place you start your family. Modern world this doesn't work very few jobs, and almost 0 entry-level jobs pay you enough yo live by yourself you'll have to share a small space with a bunch of people and hopes one day you make enough money to start a family and get your own place
I am 100% certain if this guy got a job they wouldn't have kicked him out.
@@vincenthammons-kd9du Its Filipino culture to contribute. They actually end up doing most of the chores to help elderly parents or grandparents.
Sometimes when the kid makes enough money, they’ll even send allowances for their parents to buy whatever. My wife is half Filipino and she makes well over 6 figures as an RN and sends like $800/month to her parents.
News lady: "Are you working on getting a job? 🤨"
This guy: "I have a concept of a plan 🇺🇲"
*THEY'RE EATING THE CATS, JOE!!*
"i grew up in a middle class family🙎🏾♀️"
Lmao 😂
He needs to be unburdened by what has been, because…time.
@@jimbeam6691 😂😂😂
Kid: I'm 18 today!
Parents: MOVE OUT OR WE'LL SUE!
Dudes car didn’t even want to leave the house
Lol
😂
Must've been a NEETsan
"This is a personal 911 for every discord moderator in the United States" - S Tier analysis 😂
PROTECT THIS MAN!
😃 HELLO DISCORD!
@@XigbarrNO YOU FREAK!
Parents fault. They raised this RPG hero.
True and now its a society’s problem
Mom coddling and Dad never being home to raise a boy to a man. what do you expect
@@thefreshvince879 you speak like you lived there
@@MuchCow9000 He's talking about half the country
🤣🤣🤣
this is literally asmongold in a parallel universe
He's just min/maxing. His folks are old and probably going to die soon. What happens to the house? He inherits the house. Why would he move his stuff twice?
lol
You might be on to something xD
The way his relationship is with his parents he probably won’t get anything when they die
if that was his goal, he should have been doing chores for them, especially cooking, seeing what he did with his chicken
You know who's been doing this for millenia? The freaking royals. Do you think King Charles has a mortgage on a brand new mcmansion or he's living in his great-great-great-great-great-great-grandpa's estate? But the peons want to prove they are independent by being enslaved by the banks or landlords. It's hilarious.
emphasis on the "min"
In EU the parents will kick the son/daughter only if they grow to be an ungrateful brat, other than that, they will live with the parents and even the gf/bf can move in if they are respectful.
lol this sounds hilarious. people that do that here in usa only do it for a few years if they fail at getting their own place
That's the same case with this 30 year old dead beat. The parents didn't kick him out because of his age, they only did so because he wasn't even helping out in the house. Regardless of where you are that's okay with generational living, no parent would want a son or daughter that isn't helping out in the house. Had he been assisting with rent/bills or at the very minimum, helped out with the chores (he should be the one doing most of them to compensate for his lack of income) the parents would see no issue with his presence, they'd even welcome it.
Edit: I doubt any parent would like to be all alone in their old age, especially when they have kids. This guy is simply a nuisance
@@TheNotoriousNemo this sounds hilarious too maybe an american thing? guess EU and ASIA got the same culture
@@shoutingcade6957Yes, only American thing... Almost anywhere in the world families share property with each other.
@@shoutingcade6957 no it’s not an American thing. Just an ignorant thing non-Americans say. Which is pretty ironic.
This would have been Asmon if he cleaned his room
If he never got lucky by getting a career in streaming...
Imagine asmon working a real job
He never could @@Stevenyoung100
@@Stevenyoung100 he did for a while.
@@SeeAndDreamify 2 months is not a while
im really happy about the comment seciton, gives me hope about everything, having discussions on "how did this happen" rather than just dog piling the parents or the dude is really awesome
I moved out at 31-32 ish... and i might need to move back in again soon i'm 33. i have a steady job for almost decade now but i can't compete with the rising prices in rent
Salaries are not rising to take inflation into account. It's disgusting. You work but can't make it to the end of the month and this is happening for most jobs in my European country
I honestly understand and the great recession sucked for me but rent and houses were at least really cheap. It's a real problem people don't want to talk about and you'll just hear about "how hard I had it in my day". Yeah, almost everything is better today BUT affordable rent and housing.
I've been out since 18; and struggled every single day. I'm 33 now.
It's hard not to be resentful to my bad parents for the abuse and then kicking me out at 18; they did their best to set me up for failure; and I've been treading water ever since.
Edit; actually I was 17, I forgot.
This
@@RoganBits Yep, 17 into the great recession was fun. The only thing I did have was a cheap apartment that was huge.
Well deserved. I live in Fiji and I'm 35 and still live with my parents. Only difference is that for the first twenty years of my life, the fed me, clothed me and put a roof over my head while raising me and taking care of our land.
Today I feed them, clothe them, and maintain that roof over our heads while taking care of our land. It's my turn to take care of then so I fulfil my duty as a son.
This freeloading crap on the other hand? yeah that pretty disgusting on the part of the son there.
But why did the parents let him get this way? They didn't raise him right!
I really wish families were a lot closer over here in north america. Growing up, I only had one friend who I'd say had a very close family and I was always envious of her.
Exactly. I too live with my parents still, 31. I cover bills, I do chores (my parents by default do not clean the house, that's my job exclusively). I paid for my own car, gas, insurance, etc., unlike this freeloader on screen.
I think this would be a very different story if he had a stable job and was actively maintaining the house FOR his parents and, you know, making their life easier as thanks for not letting him starve as a child lmao (imo they should have).
Congratulations buddy! You must feel proud of yourself.
@@Luccient No. Not really. My parents did their duty by raising me in a decent home and I do my duty by doing the same back when I became capable of doing so. Pride doesn't come into the picture. Duty, care and affection does.
This was me once. 100%, I was not raised by my parents and flat out neglected. Now I support myself, but they flat out never raised me. Video games and TV raised me. Parents struggle to understanding raising your kids is more then just feeding them and giving them a room. His parents failed him and it's extremely common in America right now how Parents don't teach their kids how to adult and go shocked Pika face when he refuses to adult. I wanted responsibility and to help and they never let me. So it trained into me, to never fucking try that still fucks with me today.
People want to blame him, how ever we are a product of our parents. IF someone turns out shit, 95% of the time it's the parent's fault. They likely ignored him, rejected giving him responsibility so he embodied what they thought him.
@@boomknight1015 Yeah if you don't get taught independence early on it results in struggling to practice it when you reach adulthood.
It's almost like there should be licenses for parenting, like there are for driving and gun ownership.
100% agreed. Never ignore someone's past.
Womp womp
"8 to 10 minutes.. This is going to take a while..."
Yeah. Probably between 8 to 10 minutes..
They didn't raise their kid and now they're angry about it, lmfao.
They boarded him for 30 years that's raising him
So raising him for 30 years isn't raising him?
@@lightdarksoul2097 if you think giving food and shelter is "raising" you should never have kids.
He means he didn’t teach him survival skills meaning the ability to be independent
@@lightdarksoul2097 You're the type of person who lives in a city but then decide to get dogs like a husky that they lock in a tiny apartment all day and never interact with.
I know it's weird for Americans, but generational living is pretty common in a lot of other countries, however in this case I feel there is more to it, just at looking how this guy acts and speaks suggests 2 things: 1. Either he has some undiscovered mental issues that should've been caught earlier in his life by his parents to try to help him or 2. His parents did a horrible job raising their own kid and spoiling him all the way, giving him always what he wants or just let him be like that thinking "he'll be fine one day" without raising him properly how to be an adult.
You don't just magically turn like that as grown up without having something wrong beforehand that was ignored through all of his life, or the parents just didn't do the parenting job right and left him to do whatever he wants and that's how he was raised and molded. Or maybe a bit of both. But the parents definitely had a hand in him being like this and never took the proper care to provide the educating or medical help he needed when he was younger. He can't even express himself or doesn't fully understand the simple questions he's been asked which as a 30 year old that's not normal. So he's like a 10 years old boy in the body of a 30 years old man. In any case the parents now reap the fruits of their "labor" and even trying to sue their own son while they also had a hand in creating.
Yes For sure the parents have fault in what he is, no matter if it's mental problem or nurture. In both cases they should've done better job raising him, helping him and making sure he can navigate thru adulthood. I'm more inclined to believe he is on a spectrum considering he can't formulate an answer or even understand the questions, that's not just from laziness. He doesn't even understand what a millennial is, it's almost like asking a little boy grown up questions expecting grown up answers. Like you said this doesn't just develop out of nowhere so the parents knew for long time there is something wrong with his mentality yet did absolutely nothing, otherwise they would've mentioned it or understand why he is like that and now just gave him the boot because of their own failure.
You’re right. I was in a similar position as him, but my depression and anxiety stopped me from getting a job and learning how to drive for years. I’m just now getting on my feet and my life has improved dramatically.
Of course I was never in denial and always felt like a burden which deepened my depression even more. I genuinely felt stuck.
After getting a job and realizing how easy and how it’s not scary really makes me feel like a dumbass after all these years. Oh well, better late than never. Only unfortunate thing about it is that I’ll have to work longer for my retirement. 🫤😂
It's not that deep
@@RyeRye656it really isn’t, it’s as simple as being a lazy slob. My nephew unfortunately is the same as this guy, I often joke with my brother in law ‘so have you guys ever thought about getting your own place at some point?’ Cause I swear that’s what he’s waiting for.
Yeah I'd probably wager a little of both, though definitely leaning more towards the first one.
That's absolutely gotta come from somewhere though.
16:07 This chick is SO doing her absolute best to not just start bursting out laughing on set in front of the camera :P
She was trying so hard to be polite, lol. You could see her holding back the deepest laugh.
yeah, and she's not even trying to be underhanded in any way, to be perfectly honest she's supporting him hard... now imagine instead of her having there that guy that massacred reddit mod for wanting to be ethic and logical thinking teacher
@@1Grainer1 what
@@sera_venus some months ago there was something similiar about somekind of r/antiwork subreddit guy, where interview went way differently, there host was just making example out of him, here she uses questions where he can easily make himself look better, but his answers are... yeah
Generational living is common around most of the world but the US we used to have an economy and the housing to support individual living. Which became a part of our culture. Now we have a society were housing is incredibly unaffordable and people like this exist that dont want to.
Why do I keep thinking it’s hilarious that Asmon is making fun of this guy when this is literally him in an alternate dimension where he didn’t become famous and rich.
the guys better than asmon , he has a kid
@@mohamedim3270 Then hes worse than Asmongold, u dont bring kids in to the world if u dont have your finacial shit together, and a place of your own.
I also had a Part Time job for like 1 year, jobless now but will get back to it, when I'm healthy again lol
@@jimmiekarlsson4458 And that's why Abortion is bad, just take the kid away to adoption center but he can't buy his kid back even if his financially stable lol
get off the pc and go outside says asmongold lmao
The parents made a mistake by not introducing good boy points to trade in for chicken tendies.
Mmmgoodboy
Will you adopt me pls? I'll do anything for goodboy tendie points
children crave structure, it's scientifically proven
“He’s practicing cooking!” Bro is literally playing RuneScape. “I’m going to put the cooked chicken where the raw chicken was” BRO IS PRACTICING POISONS
he is increasing poison resistance for later, life is like WoW FR FR
He is a combat pure who never investedtime into training his gathering/artisan skills.
Some people just should not have kids. This is one of those times
No
Bruh they have a deadbeat son who refuses to do anything. Family is family but when your a grown ass 30 year old man who still relies on mommy and daddy to take care of you, you need to get the fuck out. Parents arent obligated to continue to support their children past 18. They continue to do so out of love and it looks like for this dude he is run out of any love
@@atelierbagur3831 all the more reason they should not have kids
@atelierbagur3831 parents didnt raise him right. Thats their fault.
@@atelierbagur3831 The guy looks like someone who is just eating cheap noodles every day, doesn't go out, doesn't spend anything and he's fine staying in his room with just a 10 year old PC and some internet. If he's their only son, they can definitely afford to have him stay at home.
This is definatelly a western thing. In Greece they almost don't let you leave even if you get married lol
It's not even western thing, just America thing. If he's that bad of a deadbeat, he won't do menial jobs for boarding. He'd literally be actual homeless begging on the street, mental issue optional.
Greece is a phenomenon, I have a few friends from Greece and I can't think of a single other country with a culture that actively gets between you and your spouse on the matter of housing/moving out. Lots of other cultures want you to stay with them UNTIL you're married, from what those friends have told me in Greece even after you get married it's like pulling teeth trying to keep the peace with your family about moving in with your spouse.
@@ThatPinkOtter Yeah in Greece theres very much so the idea that, if you're family, you should live together. So it can get a bit weird when you wanna move out with a girl you like because your parents are like "But we're your family". Its mostly an older generation thing tho, people nowdays have grown out of it quite a bit.
in finland we have probably the most extreme version. government pays the rent from the taxes collectively when you are unemployed, government pays the college, etc. right? , so you can basically move out at any age, even with no money.
you just need to do the paperwork.... so families basically throw their kids out at age 16 and provide no further financial assistance.
independence is highly valued and encouraged by society and government.. to the point of being cold to your children.
kids cycle to school alone from age 7, through the winter, too, if a mother/father drives you to school, you are seen as a wuss. in physical education kids are put into forest and given maps to figure it out, its called suunnistus, "orienteering".
kids do the chores in the house, not mothers, mothers are at work. kids are given power tools in shopping classes to make their wood stuff. kids pick their own food from in school cafeteria. kids are highly autonomous for their age. they cycle to their friends, use trains and other public transports alone, without asking permits from parents. kids are given kids debit card with their own bank account. figuring and solving things by yourself is highly preferred.
did you hit yourself in the head at school causing concussion during rough play? go to school nurse by yourself. there's no need to call parents. parents are irritated if you call. "you have school nurse, why are you calling me? "
schools provide free contraception to boys and girls at age of around 12-13, kid´s information is regarded by law as his&hers private matter that is not parent´s business to know automatically, and adult´s stuff like consent and s3x-ed health is discussed frankly in length and taught at relatively younger age than normally in other countries in school health education.
at least that was how it was still in the 90s & early 2000s when i was a kid. dont know if its anymore true, I've read a bit about "anxiety" in kids and young parents and "helicopter parenting", which was unknown thing in my time.
I've even read that many kids have been started to be taken with cars to school which is still hard to believe in my finnish context. there's more of "its not safe, we have to take kids to school by cars" talk from parents on the internet, and they sound like mentally insane anxiety twitter people. there's zero reason for them to take kids by cars to school like in usa.
(we are one of the safest countries in the world, 16.5.2024 "Homicides in Finland drop to 40-year low")
we specifically designed our towns and cities around easy cycling, year round, even during winter with snow plow machines.
Mexico too
I'm surprised he didn't mention the cost of living and rent or anything. Most people really cannot afford anywhere to live even with fulltime work
I was thinking the same. However, the video is 6 years old. I'm not saying it didn't suck 6 years ago, but sucked less, for sure.
That's not true at all. Full time work can pay for a cheap apartment literally anywhere in the country.
@@d_all_in and you can always get a room mate.
@@MonsterJuiced this is an old video before inflation went crazy
@@FredGoldust Yes, but they live in New York state according to the news articles I found. The amount of money they offered him to leave wouldn't have even paid for a full month in a studio apartment out in that high COL shithole even back in 2018.
Only one problem he has an eviction record now and will not be able to rent anywhere else or buy a home for a long time
He was waiting for his parents to die off then inherit the house.
and he will get the house, eventually
@@YamanoRyuu they will give the house to squatters before they let their spoiled brat own it.
@@YamanoRyuu and then he gives the house to the squatters because he thinks he will get some rent money from them
He would still have to get a job if he inherited the house. They take your house away if you don't pay property tax. They shut off power and water if you don't pay utility bills. One way or another reality was always going to catch up with him.
@@YamanoRyuu sooo obviously you don't know how basic inheritance and money works. How is he going to afford the house in NY with no job and no savings? Think before you speak next time redditor.
Bro is actually living the hobo life. Old timey hobos, at least, would exchange time and labor for room and board.
Nowadays normal wages don't even get you a house, we are all potential hobos.
Have you ever seen that anime, Golden Boy? That's essentially the same thing. He just shows up in a town and finds someone to put him up in exchange for an extra hand.
Imagine your parents taught you nothing about how to live so you just start life at level 0 and start doing side quests
So very true
Who told you his parents tought him nothing?
I means, isn't that how it always works?
They did taught me how to find a job, but thats it. The idea is that when you encounter troubles you ask your parents, its not like there a manual to adult life.
Cor example, my family was quite poor, so i find an illegal job at age 16 and started working to help the family, i mean the job itself was legal, my presence there was not:). Laws don't allow children to work 12 hours night shifts.
His parents mistake was letting him stay without paying rent after 18. Even if they take the rent just to help him save and give it back after 2 years to start his life, he should never have stayed after 18 without going to school or paying rent. But it’s still his responsibility. After you’re an adult you can’t blame others for your behavior. No one is going to take more responsibility for your actions than you
@@oakinwol i would and could only imagine they continued to treat him like a child even after he hit 18. you cant expect a baby to stand up and get a job, for them to be a man you have to treat them like one. also, the unfairness on his part isn't being ignored by me, they clearly did not prepare him for this world they just let him live like a pet dog until he got ugly and old and sent him to the kennel. hes a person but they raised him like a pet
The irony, Asmon this is the same life you would of had if social media didnt exist.
I wouldn't see a problem with him staying home if he worked a fulltime job, bought food, utilities.
pretty sure they hate their son. that wouldn't be enought
@@Cualquiercosa5049 they probably hate him because he didn't do any of those things for so long
@@Cualquiercosa5049Perhaps if he had started working and contributed, they wouldn't have hated him as much. lol
@@Cualquiercosa5049 there is always more to the story we won't know from the video. It could have to do with his child he has no custody of or other conflict with the parents
That's the least one can do when moving back....there's no reason to willingly ve a deadbeat in this day and age if ever...
5 seconds into the video... me: "Must be a WoW player" 3:18 - "A child of his own," Me: "Oh, nevermind."
That the biggest plot twist of the year
He's definitely providing something a little more than just a helping hand to that lady. Facts.
Im 29 and live with my parents. Except i pay rent, do a bunch of chores and feed myself.
The mental disconnect between the interviewer and the guy is funny. It’s very simple he is doesn’t want to work any job he doesn’t want and he doesn’t have money. If someone handed him a billion dollars he would gladly get out.
lol He was offered money, and still refused. He just wants to be a freeloader.
@@jcaesar19871 They offer him 1k dollar, this is enough money for like 2 weeks and after that what? he need to get a job.
@@AnouraMusicOfficial lol I said hand him a billion dollars not a thousand or a job 😝 see first part of statement man 🧍♂️
@@jcaesar19871this guy thinks $1100 is "money" and not just two weeks of McDonald's
I'm not even kidding, it's actually roughly two weeks of McDonald's.
@@humanchannel9421 Assuming each meal is ~15 you could eat McDonald's 3 times a day for 24 days.
this is 100% his parents fault for providing him with food and a place to stay with no actual development and help to grow from them. Sounds like he is smart and had a decent young life, but his parents never pushed him to do anything and just let him sit around and do nothing. You can't expect someone to change if you let them do the same thing constantly. That's why he is where he is now learning things he should of at 18, at 30.
sounds like classic case of mom coddling FOREVER and dad never being home to raise a boy to a man so this is the outcome of 2 shitty peoples decision in growing a human
This 100%. You get the sort of kid you raise. If you realize you fucked up, you need to figure out how to undo the damage.
Best case scenario is you raise your kids well enough, you don't want them to move out, but they can and will do it to start a new family.
The fact that they're so insufferable you want them to leave is testament to your own failure as a parent.
@@strongback6550 fair enough
I hope he sues them for it 🤣
@@strongback6550 the biggest issue with these boomer parents is that they believe they have done nothing wrong, and it's all their kids fault because they provided them with basic necesseties to survive. So they will never even realize they have fucked up, they think it isn't their issue because they arent their child.
I think any normal and rational person would think that their child is a reflection of them, and they would want to do anything to help them in life no matter what.
a lot of american, mainly boomer parents hate their children and its sad. they just wanna get rid of them asap
Agreed.
He’s going to squat an air bnb
Can't wait for the new Asian Andy series
He put a fence post in her hole
Bro and his whole community really gonna act like this isnt a mirror
There is nothing wrong with living with your parents in the vast majority of the world. It's very normal everywhere, maybe except the US.
Being a deadbeat and not contributing though. That's acceptable nowhere.
The US still hasnt realized the pioneer days are over and the economy has been garbage for new entries for decades.
(and of course we coddle our kids well into their 20s)
It used to be that most people lived in the home of their parents for most of their lives. Granted, they actually helped out and contributed to the household and family, but the fact that he's at home isn't a negative outside of the regression that took place in the modern world. It's that he doesn't do anything to help out that's the problem.
Parents also seem pretty deadbeat too tbh. I mean, takes one to raise one.
Well, it used to be your job was farming. They don’t seem to have a family business to take over.
Something is off with him though.
It didn't "used to be" , it still is in many other countries. Just not Americans.
This guy seems like a perfect fit as an Ubisoft or Activision/Blizzard dev.
He already has long hair to fake identify as a woman. Doesnt even need to shave lol. So yea, totally could work.
Throw Mojang on the list too. He'd certainly fit right in 🥶
Except even Ubitrash devs have higher iq than this thing.
Why is this such a big deal in the US. Here in Italy and most of europe, people live with their parents, well into their 50s
Man, I love Europe. One day I will move there.
12:43 You can hear a crew member laughing at this guy in the background.
People comparing this guy to Asmon like he isn't rich and took care of his mom, still helps his dad lol projecting go crazy
This is the post
People are comparing it because if Asmon didn’t fall into a multi million dollar streaming career, this would be him no doubt about it.
He’s literally stated he sat in his room all day playing games and the streaming happened. Don’t give him credit he doesn’t deserve
I'm sure the guy wouldn't be opposed to actually doing nothing just giving money to his parents if he was a millionaire like Asmon.
It's an insane world where a streamer can be a millionaire but the people who make your food live on state welfare.
@Lemonteaxi I mean yea, but that's a hypothetical and not reality. Plus it doesn't matter if people dont like it; one found a way to make money while bummin about, and the other simply bummed. Don't get it twisted though. I'm not going to bat for a rich guy on the internet that I don't know personally, but I'll make a funny observation.
That woman with the Air BnB caught Mike with a house, as bait, and gave him requirements to staying and now she has a boyfriend. Smart.
where can i find a mommy GF??
a boyfriend she doesnt have to put out for, and will do all the "man stuff". She got a good deal tbh
Those fence pole skills are impressive. He’s going places
@0:23 I haven't had a job for moths and felt like I'm lazy, him: witness me the GOD of procrastination.
Moved out at 38, but I payed rent+groceries the entire time. Helped with chores etc. Like how can you be so ungrateful? How can you not start hating yourself if you live at home and don't do anything or pay for anything? He must have such contempt for his own parents it's sickening.
Well, he did say in the interview he did buy groceries and clean. Didn't he work at Bestbuy?
Him pouring that water into the bottle in court getting g water everywhere says everything you need to know about this dude.
Most ppl are deathly afraid of court young one
What? That's he might be actually not well in the head?
My favorite part of all this is that he refused to do chores at his parents house but then he ends up doing chores for someone else for a place to stay 🤦♂️
I thought Im bad for living with my parents at 26yo (I work, pay for myself and help around home) thanks to this guy I no longer see it as bad
Asmon is right here. Lads don't ever talk yourself down, because if that lad can have a child with someone there's hope for everyone.
Let’s see the mom first before we get our hopes up…
Except hope for the child, he's got a bum for a Dad
Im 31 still live with my parents, I dont have any motivation to move out as well or do anything really. Only differences is I have a job and I pay all the bills and food we eat. 😂
I don't see the point. Unless you're getting married, starting a family, buying a house, or don't get along with your parents, there is ZERO reason to move out. Society will call you a loser if you don't, but they are all broke and stupid anyway.
If you move out, expect to be financially dominated by real estate landlords that will take half your income and provide a mismanaged cardboard box to live in while you pay off THEIR mortgage.
It's just not worth it.
imagine telling a woman who has her own place and her life figured out “yeah I still live in the room I did when I was 15, I hope my mom and dad watching TV with us won’t be a problem teehee” bro she’s gonna be absolutely repulsed by your immature momma’s boy ass and rightly so.
@@mencibenci you are so lost in this modern culture and are not even aware of it, I hope you find actual truth instead of the rehash you just did to which is apparent is not of your own creation or opinion.
your situation is way different than his
@@heliosgnosis2744 i guess it depends where you live we probably dont have the same reality everywhere around the globe
Bro took 12 hours to complete the tutorial to a 20 hour game.
Society has ruined an entire generation of young men. This man is just an example of all of us reaping what we have sown as a society. I'm glad so many people are getting a little self-esteem boost by judging this dude so harshly.
That's dark, but true.
as much as I hate myself, this guy makes me like me a little more
You are correct. I fear dark times have already arrived and will become much darker in the years ahead. Let's pray we can keep some hope and steer ourselves in the right direction.
@@Nyt250 its BECAUSE government and those in office would rather welfare and taxes go to the useless instead of people like ME who actually built ur shit... like f'ing why... I would gve u the shirt off my back... so it makes no wondr im broke
There have always been guys like him. Just look at the life of Marx. Ungrateful mooch, except Marx's parents were richer and way more forgiving.
If your kid ends up being a 30 year olde dead beat then the fault is with you. Terrible parents.
Its illegal to euthanize mentally handicapped people, it aint their fault
You can be the worst parents in the world, and have a great kid. Parents are guilty of not doing this sooner, no more.
100%
@@Hanibul_LecktorI've met good people who had bad parents (they had good rolemodels elsewhere). But I've never met a bad person who had good parents.
@@TechnoMinarchistI have. It may be more likely. But it’s not a given.
This guy is literally Asmon if he didn't get famous. Staying at home past 30 being housed and fed by parents, no job just playing games all day.
Asmon worked at the IRS in his previous life.
I will say. Asmon does more than play video games everyday. He does try and be entertaining.
The dude started multiple businesses. He was even in college at one point.
@@jeremymullens7167He has a degree
@@Zeldarulah Both actually. He did both of these things.
Asmom worked, took care of his sick/dying mother. Chill
I never understood the mentality of someone who refuses to leave a place where they’re not wanted.
No choice.
No better options.
Even with work.
People who have the 'kids need to leave at 18' mindset grew up in a time when that was actually financially and socially feasible, it's not anymore. The ones who actually commit to it after seeing how hard it has become are just terrible parents and terrible people imo.
That was never a normal mindset to have. The only time in history a man left at 18 is to go to war. But multi-generational families are how we have lived since the stone age.
The only time it's reasonable to move out is if you're getting married, starting your own family and need the space to raise kids, buying your own home, or if your parents are abusive.
Rent culture isn't normal.
It's a manufactured mindset to break up family units. And the companies renting out living places sure as hell love a steady supply of young idiots to fleece.
It's not only possible, it's not even hard. You people are just lazy and dramatic. Any full time job can pay for a cheap apartment.
@@d_all_in "Any full time job can pay for a cheap apartment."
Do you have any data to back that up? I assume you must know the numbers.
No, it is about being an adult and part of society. If my kid had a job and was actively looking for an apartment or trying to find room mates or they are in university I would be fine with them staying with me while doing so. But, if they are living there with no job, being lazy, just mooching, not doing anything with their life then I say they need to go figure it out on their own. It is natural to have a certain point to say ok, I taught you everything I know and I helped guide you on your journey of life now go do something and pass it on.
Dude was isekai'd to the real world.
Asmon here laughing at a guy who is basically himself without the money and audience.
There's a fundamental difference: this dude has never had a job. Asmon has worked before and contributed to his household. If we're ignoring that then the comparison applies to *every* streamer.
And the lucky Asmongold got for being Famous
Well, now he has an audience
Asmon worked a job
He has a business
He helped provide for his parents
And has money to allow him to live the way he does
It's not even comparable
@normiehunter9864 Heck, he's still working despite not having to if he wanted. He's doing very well while he has issues he's not deadbeat.
what i wanna know is: how can he afford a lawyer for a lawsuit but not an appartment?
He didn't. He represented himself the first time and probably did the second time too LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣
That, or maybe the second time he had a court-appointed defence attourney; which if true, yeah ofc he lost LOL
I'd let him stay in my garage if he helped around the house and projects. I'll even include meals. Garage is finished with insulation and heat.
People might initially blame the 30 year old but truthfully this is a failure of parenting. Those parents failed their son. They did not prepare him for life.
That excuse has a limited shelf-life, and he's 30. Long past the point where that would still be valid.
Mhmm right, right. This comment lacks self accountability
we have a liberal in the house. Zero personal responsibility :). Nature has a way of taking care of this.. Enjoy.
@@nine9nine9 @tabletoparcade4203 nah you both are wrong. this is an "eternal child" aka puer aeternus. these will not wake up without dire life changing situations.
it goes both ways tbh, you reach a point as an adult where you realize "oh shit im fucking up" and you gotta hold yourself accountable, i get his situation though once you get into the whole escapism thing its a tough thing to get out and time flies by so fast
The woman in the studio pissed me off more than he did,
Such a “ up your own arse” attitude
She’s not unique. It’s a common representation of the American woman now.
I worked a full time job, got a car, insurance, and my own place. SPECIFICALLY to get custody of my son. Using that as an excuse sickens me. Oh yeah, and I did this at 20. He has absolutely no excuse. His absent son is not an excuse to not be working his ass off right now. His son is the REASON to work his ass off right now.
Of course I know him, he's me.
Yep same
Same here
He didn't pay for that suit
It’s the same suit from his court appearance. You can get a suit and tie for only a couple hundred bucks at a department store.
@@tony9146 He probably borrowed it and never delivered it back
To be fair, I always get compliments on my dress clothes, even by old distinguished gentleman, and I have never paid more than $50 for any article of clothing. If you are attentive to details, take care of your clothes, and use small additions (tie pin, cuff links, fancy hat, watch, etc.) to stand out, you can make the cheapest things appear to be a million dollar outfit.
He is a product of his parents parenting. They are just as responsible for this situation as he is.
Bro is laughing at him, but he'd be in the exact same situation if his streaming career wouldn't pop off
It's honestly sad to the parents and their son going at each other on court. I also share a household with my parents but they are pretty happy.
If your Parents don't want you at Home after 18, and your Generally a Decent Person, that says that your parents have always seen you as a Nuisance. Just Facts.💯
@@ZeptoZeno who says staying at home with your parents past 18+ means you're not independent? Plenty of folks in different countries in Africa, South East Asian etc., still live with their parents past 20 whilst having a job, social life and contributing to the house hold and so forth. It seems to solely be an American thing where your childern are forced to move out past a certain age.
Right but this guys in his thirties has a child he doesn’t take care of and he doesn’t pay for anything doesn’t have a job or a degree and expects them to make him food and pay for everything for him so he can just play magic or whatever until he dies
@@groovyhoovy2606 yh yh in this specific example I don't really disagree, but I'm more so talking about the hostility Americans seem to have towards the idea of kids still living with their parents past 20 and thinking it instantly equates to what this guy is doing.
@@s117189mm That ideas getting less and less popular my mother got kicked out at 15 and my dad at 19 but they, my siblings and myself won’t/didn’t do that if that makes sense
America’s economic situation is making this less of a taboo as well not just a cultural shift
@@groovyhoovy2606 yh fairs. I do remember reading comments/posts on reddit, Instagram etc., where folks have mentioned that the cost of living has essentially forced them to move back in with their fam.
This 8 years bullshit. 18 is not a magic number to move out, especially now. At 21 I moved to a different country, but if my kid wants to stay past 18 for while. Who cares.
There's no excuse for not seeking a job in that amount of time. He deserves his status as an international spectacle.
@@gregsalisbury4967 That is true, but in saying that his parents created him and raised him to be like that. He is a result of an unfortunate series of life circumstances, and a lack of motivation and drive. I was very close to being like him, so I can kind of empathise with him.
@ 21:21 " My parents stopped feeding me in, like, December " he speaks as if he was a baby bird in a nest in which his parents had to regurgitate food and feed it to him cause he wasn't able to physically feed himself lol
This is why every son should grow up with a health fear of his father.