I never opened up myself to like Promise simply by association ... die hard Ninja here 🙋🏽♀️🙃. BUT I must say, this was classy and tasteful 👌🏽... no bashing no retaliation, simply mature and unbiased. Well done Promise! And well done to Big Guy too. I used to love Big and Owamie when they were together 🥺💔. Was definitely heart broken when yhey broke up. Hopefully one day they can have the conversation/closure they both deserve ❤️🫂
Something O should have done, tell her story in a respectfull manner. I really wish she never stood so low especially with this man's family. Hope she heals and move on bcoz BG sounds he's in a better place.
@@nokuzolantanga3349 but remember the time was short here ,the issue of divorse delays that provoked owami ,bg was not asked about talking about owam in his family ...according to tis video its as if owam suggested divorse and big guy accepted on the get go simple like that bcz of time i gues .to be honest owam was a bit better at first but divorse delays and allegation of GG family cz a problem .but here BG didnt touch that .
Big Guy is maturing, this interview was way better than the one conducted by Lynn earlier in 2022.They must now do us a favor, call it a day and stop fighting.
I have dealt with a narcissist who was as calm and respectful to the public 🥺 The fact that he feels the need to paint a scenario before answering a question is a red flag. People keep saying he never insulted Owani but if you listen carefully, you will realise he insulted Owami from the onset 😂😂😂😂😂 Anyway 🤧🤧🤧
We literally saw owamie go for hiv tests because she feared she could have contracted it through your cheating. This man is not being honest about the cheating part. You’re a humble speaker, owamie is loud and outspoken. People will definitely believe you over her. Narcissistic tendencies.
But with a qualification in Computer science you would have grown big during covid coz the online space was booming .Owami is very innovative so sticking around an easy going person would be frustrating for her .Look at how she can stick around & do videos all day .That's a hard worker who would need a man who does double what she does for her to feel she has a man .
Imagine people saying Owamie is stupid for leaving a guy who used to sleep with kids(allegedly)😩😩😩we lack self love as basadi mahn😢😢cheating ke cheating
Imagine people thinking it’s ok for a woman to compare her husband to other men and be verbally abusive and he must stay focus on her and not cheat 😂 yol are crazy and think women are angels. Far from it dear.
This is really sad how their marriage got dissolved. I've learned that do not publicize your relationship. 2. Don't publicly bad mouth your ex no matter how things get ugly, just move on in peace.
The biggest mistake is judging someone by his/her demeanor. You all will fall for the mask. Start paying attention to people's actions. The man went outside and cheated on his wife. That alone should tell you the character he is. No amount of intelligence, calmness and explanation can exonerated you from those actions.
The explanation is not there or being made to exonerate himself , rather to shed a more holistic view of a story to eliminate any bias narrative.Cheating is undoubtedly unforgivable , but what he’s sharing sheds light for other woman as to why their husbands cheat.Very informative, and he does have equal right to share he’s story even if he’s the wrong doer.
The other big mistake is judging someone by their gender. Believing what they say because they are a woman and trying not to believe what the other says because they are a man. A lot of women use that because they can see that its easy to gather sympathy out there and they use it for manipulative reasons.
true, he could even shed tears to gain sympathy. and as a woman i can tell owamie told the world probably 60% of the problems she had. let her loose one day you will hear mehlolo
Owami is angry because of what Big Guy did to her. But here is Big Guy talking about how she divorced him because she caught him flirting on FB. I stand to be corrected, but that cannot be the whole story. All I see is a manipulator and someone good at playing the victim like Owami said. And as for the finances, is she not the one who gave him her bank card so he would feel like a man? Fear men.
Kanti Nina don't you listen to understand when you watch owamie as ninjas.....this guy only reiterated what she has always said in her videos....don't follow her anymore , but heared this many times from when I was still a viewer.
@@kingl794 He took no accountability at all, the hurt by a cheating spouse impacts one gravely. Yet see how everyone is now singing his praises? The type that will burn you alive then help your family look for you.
People think my husband is a very nice quiet guy because that's how he acts around them they don't know the real person, only those one who are very very close to us or stayed in my house that knows him , what im trying to say don't judge a book by it's cover
We are not taking anything away from you ne, but the problem is we tend to paint all guys with the same brush because it's so hard for us to admit when a woman is actually wrong. I personally know this man because he was my teacher and he's not narcissistic he's very kind and soft hence his ex saw that as stupidity, he used to share what was happening in his marriage with my brother and show him Whatsapp conversations btwn him and his wife.... There are man who wear masks but each and every person be it a woman or man, deserves the benefit of the doubt.
Yes they we’re good together, and it was good whilst it lasted divorce evokes different emotions to different people… I hope healing will prevail for both parties.
But Owamie did say that she was recommended by the university to attend therapy because she couldn't cope due to depression she suffered after her mother's death. Why Big Guy is making it seem like she was academically excluded because she was not smart?
You still expect Big G to speak fairly about Owamie after all the insults?? Hayi you're not being fair. You must really think Big G is a robot and doesn't hv feelings
I don’t have a problem with BG telling his story, I just wish he was telling it in his own platform so he can monetise his content since now everyone fighting Owamie uses him to promote themselves and he’s not gaining anything from it.
Love this comment, His still slow for a big man that he is tho be used by these 2 ladies to fight owamie... If he want to tell he's side of the story he should be doing on his platform
They're so deceived my dear. No man will come out and make noise, they are always so humble in public but are monsters behind closed doors. And they are liers! I don't believe this guy!
Yes that's why she chose to leave BG and we applaud her for her bravery and choosing her but question is why is she clinging on him like this, why is she working so hard to hurt and try to turn everyone one against this guy. Why is she casting stones as if never made mistakes that she is not proud of? Huuuuu ai it's boring
I’m not a fan of Owamie shame but I do feel sorry for her. Just from a woman’s point of view. Also I find it grossly distasteful for other women to use her story for views , gains and to make themselves appear better. I know what divorce does to people and even though I am aware of some of what she’s shared on her platform; divorce shakes the very core of your spirit. For me it’s just sad , sad for both, sad for all. Sad sad & I hope everyone involved finds healing.
Well said, That's the truth, this Promise lady using owamie for views and people don't see it. she is also, fighting Owamie passively. She has a vanadate against her. Pliz note, im not owamie fan but I can see what promise is doing
It's only sad bcz it doesn't fit the narrative that owamie was pushing all along, now you're hurt just bcz the big is here telling his side, bcz women can never be wrong and it's always a men's fault
@@NdofayaSobethu86 No no women can be wrong, we all know that. Is ok for Big guy to tell us his side of story, we appreciate that. Nd I commend him for not being messy and being a gentleman. He even refused to answer some petty questions. My problem is with the interviewer, she has a hidden agenda, Questions like " She didn't bath, just applied the make up? How much was she making in a month? , so her mother was a helper, etc." Even A blind person can see where interest is highly invested
Big guy and Owamie taught me never to badmouth my ex so I can move on and never revisit my past. The way they go back and forth you'd swear they have a child together, even us with kids get to a stage of finding common ground. I'm happy big guy can vent, but I hope that after this Owamie won't find something new to get him for. Owamie let him finish this because you started it, you've had your shine and moment to character assassinate him.
@@hlengiweyourstruly viewers made Owamie and Promise to fight for no reason... Promise said women with no kids cannot give her advise about raising kids, am just paraphrasing. Then people tagged Owamie for what only they know, then as always Owamie did a video.
They loved each other, but unfortunately Big guy betrayed her. He probably wanted to explore since she was his 1st. I think it’s time for Owami to move on. This relationship is holding her back and Big guy has moved on.
I understand that waiting for marriage is considered good for various reasons. Kodwa sometimes it can be dangerous, it’s important to explore (safely & within reason) when you are younger ngoba once you get into marriage the demon will test you, now you want to live your youth inside your marriage. Jola uzifunde before ushade contradictory advice but it is what it is.
@@nondumisomhlongoExactly! Like people don't like women who stand against cheating. They're basically bashing Owamie for leaving a man that cheated! Who does that?😢 Some women tho'!
The story of Big Guy taking care of Owamie and siblings will forever be heartwarming (and I love how Owamie also told the story). Things were once great between them.
This interview was very wholesome and respectful. BG is a well articulated person. It is very important for us to know that in relationships there are always two sides to a story. It was good to hear "this" side of the story. BG admitted to his faults which was good to hear. As wives we also need to reflect on ourselves on the way we address/treat our husband's. No hate just a mature conversation. ❤
Really we women are turned to tigers with these big salaries. Even me when I got big salary, I started to misbehave. I have been married for 17 years. May God help us women. This thing women working is destroying many homes and families.
Yes. He wasn't street smart and that's what made him husband material. He's a good human. Yena she's street smart I guess but here she is having to rely on views to rent a place to stay
Not everyone is street smart. We wouldn’t be having so many graduates sitting at home doing NOTHING. Being street smart and hustling is an art. It’s not for everyone. Certainly not for the unemployed millions who are sitting at home now.
I don't know whether it's because Big guy is so well spoken or he is genuinely a good guy but if he is being genuine in this interview, then I understand why Owamie can't seem to let go. Often as women, we end a good relationship that was worth saving not because we are stupid but because we are simply too young and inexperienced to realize what we have. Unfortunately it's not easy for one to admit to themselves that maybe they could've done better, so instead we resort to blaming the other party and highlighting all their wrongs in the relationship inorder to make ourselves feel less guilty about our part in the break up. Listening to Big guy and having watched a number of Owamie's videos, I honestly feel that they made a power couple and wish they had found a better way of resolving their issues instead of divorce.
Well said, they were a power couple and loved each other and Owamie needs to admit her wrongs for the end of the relationship, forgive herself and move on.
He wouldn't make it as a Data Analyst, you need good communication skills and be very articulate, he's lacking that. The guy was just book smart that's how he got the degree. To make it on the real world you need to be intelligent. There's a difference between academically smart and intelligence.
@@justvee871 my brother is a data analyst at Stellenbosch University and he is not a good speaker. Please don't be negative he is intelligent that's it not siyoyo you were told he is.
@@nomvelisobovu8255 Your brother definitely got that job through bribes or was put in by someone he knows or to fill up BEE quota. You need to be very articulate as a Data Analyst, you need to do presentations in front of the executives and other stake holders. This dude doesn't even know the difference between woman and women 🤣🤣
Guys just because this guy is calm and well articulated doesn’t make anything that Owamie went through less true. Let’s not forget that you can not tell that someone is an abuser by just looking at them.
Abuser he is far from that.....owami do things with anger and now she release she lost a man.....the fact that she wanted her baby sister to have abortion its says a lot about owami
His not an abuser .. Owamie claimed he was a cheater , liar and pathetic (loser isibhanxa) .. This man is not an abuser sungxoka ..🙄🙄 Let the man tell his side and this has nothing to do with abuse …
Remember the intention of many women is not to believe the guy's side of the story. You never questioned Owamie's demeanor when listening to here side. You believed her but a man mustnt be believed.
Also why is it that This Man is went on to grant interviews with people that Owamie has a problem with?, that’s a Classic narcissistic behavior. Lying, cheating on someone is also a form of emotional abuse. I also don’t understand why people keep telling Owamie to move on and to stop talking about this. This is HER story,Her Journey….What gives you people the right to tell her how or when to tell her story?!. I don’t have a problem with the fact that this guy told his side of the story fine good for him. My issue is that why did he decide to tell his story on a platform of people who have problems with Owamie?!.
@@blessingnickiwe4454 kodwa we forget uba u owami she sad that yena can lie and really lie so everything thing nje doesn't make sense ngoba yena can lie so why not believe the guy ngoba yena nje she can lie she make a video saying that but thina we believe in her haybo Kodwa jeso lomntu she look at us and say I can lie really now do we have to follow ixoki in the name of love okanye nathi singamaxoki
I think the biggest problem of their ex marriage was the foundation. They didn't take the time to know each other before they rushed to get married. They both wanted different life styles which was a major contributing factor to the demise of their marriage.
Big guy said he was ready to have somebody in life and prayed about it, and the next day he saw Owamie in a white dress which was the sign Big guy had prayed about, and soon after that he asked Owamie to be his wife and that's how their marriage started. They never really took the time to know each other.
@@nomsatorcida9612You can never know a person only God knows us. My husband paid my magadi in 4 months after we met and had our white wedding four months after that. In total it took us only 8 months and he is everything I prayed for and even more. How many people stay in a relationship and break up after 10 years, you will never know a person, never.
So if you cheat on me and I blame you, and you blame both of us for your cheating then you’re taking accountability? I’m still watching though, I could be missing your point ❤
That's so low of Owamie calling his ex umageza, she's a hustler self. Not everyone will have fancy occupation/career. We are here to survive & work hard.
Women drag unnecessarily nje, if he cheated and they broke up there’s no need to be airing his dirty laundry all year round. She should’ve just moved and focused on herself
😆 🤣 😂 😹 to be honest, this guy wanna look good but deep down we all know that the re 99% chances that he would remind his ex wife about her being unable to give him a child and taking the sister's child was his way to try to prove something that I don't wanna state.
women never leave due to cheating. trust me. ain't no women gonna leave a man with a good income. most women know men chow ngaphandle. hell most women want them to eat outside sometimes if the man is very horny
Speak your truth Big guy Speak your truth… Owami has dragged you a lot n did we have to all know that you lost your job?? NO … but ofcource she had to tell us to embarrass you and bring you down🚮
This is one matured man and so intelligent. Look at how he is so humble and answers with so much sense and it makes me wonder where is the stupidy and slowness... Thanks for the interview Pro Pro ❤❤❤❤
Guys guys guys, let me enlighten you of what is going on here: Owamie told her side of the story. She basically mentioned all the bad things that Big guy did. Big guy however, is a smart guy. He is doing what Black Coffee did. He is saying all the good things and defending Owamie so that he doesn't look like the bad guy. It's called reverse psychology. He wants the public to see him as this good guy and Owamie fucked up. And all of you here in the comment section have fallen for this trap. This is what smart people do. Master manipulators.
This is a true Zulu man. He speaks without embarrassing the people abamkhulisa. He came with the intention to say his side of the story, not to insult anyone. It all comes to No one is perfect. He made his mistakes as a human being and he doesnt deserve that much hate from his wife. Some of us have experienced narcissists and stingy men and this man is nothing close to both. Lets just say they grew apart as the years went by. May they all find healing.
@@sybillamulaHe was angry because Owamie has been making countless videos talking bad about his family and himself. You can see that he has now calmed himself
I used to always be on big guys side just because of how crazy & bitter Owami would tell things, but I’m coming to realize Owami was hurt & still is simply coz she loved him & we overlook that. Big guy was flirting with minors that’s unacceptable guys no matter how well he conducted the interview also I’m glad he admitted the his sick behaviour though. I’m not a ninja or nunju but both parties are wrong in this. Just that the other one has healed & the other one hasn’t. I recommend for payer for Owami to go to a therapist & Big guy pray for yourself coz minors are a no go, & you’re a grown man! I’m officially not on anyone’s side I’m just advocating for these people to both change for their own good.
Owamie has a flood of people who have enabled her behavior "tell your story/truth", "we can relate so much"&"they are just hating on you" Nisile for ill-advising her
They have ruined her completely. She becomes a whole joke, when she talks about having a boyfriend or being married. Who would want to date or marry someone that's so unhinged. And we all know how men are so sensitive about their private parts, which man is going to risk it with "the blogger they blog about". She's about to go through a long season of dryness.
@@user-iq8em5nb3j I can't imagine a new boyfriend listening to her insult another man like this. Poor guy will be puzzled, he'll run for his life. Dating in your 30s is tricky especially if u are looking for a rich guy who won't cheat
Lol I think when women aren’t working and men are, women clean and do all the house chores, but when BG had to do it he cheats 😂😂😂😂. Anyway society made it our duty to work and still do house chores while the hubby is locked down and is chilling or else he will cheat 😊
The moment you call house chores "helping" your wife, unenkinga. Chores are just survival activities. Even if you lived alone, you would have to clean, do laundry and cook. Its just that the person who spends the most time at home, does most chores.
People are different and want different things and thats okay. As much as there are women who believe that it's a men's responsibility to take care of them financially, there are also men who believe that women should do chores. People should just choose people they align with and stop enforcing their beliefs on people. Akhukhomnto onenkinga apha
Same women who say a men must but never want the same men to say a women must, that's what he preferred and that ok. She prefferd a different kind of man that's ok for her too. They wanted to change each other it didn't work, each person must marry their type. For example I like taking care of my man 24/7 am domesticated and educated, my man needs to pamper me 24/7.
I was a teacher also before. I left because teaching is too hectic. Marking books, record books, attending workshop, etc. Worse still i did a degree in Food technology. I hate such formal jobs. So i left and now i am better off. BG is smart to choose be a Taxi owner. I have friends i did Food Technology with and now they are doing solar business and making money. Thinking like Owamie that being a taxi owner is low is stupid. She is a RUclipsr. How is being a youtuber better. Only because she manage to make her channel big . So big guy can also be big in the Taxi industry.
This guy is wise...full stop! He's reasoning capacity👌🏽 And the ability to articulate himself!!!❤❤❤ I feel Promise is confusing him when she interrupts him, and he loses his train of thoughts...also jumping from this to that..then back again.... I also love the fact that he raises and highlights that..."we agreed" on certain issues, it's not like she was forced...it was an agreement. But I understand that, it's her interview and she must lead it her way. I wish she could leave him to finish his sentences and story on particular subjects they touch on. I know we also are mindful of time as well. Good job so far!!!
@@Koketso_TI was listening out to the stupidity part, so far...nothing. Ebile I feel Promise is confusing him when she interrupt him, he loses his trail of thoughts...but understand that, it's her interview and must lead it. But I wish she could leave him to finish his sentences.
Kodwa ke indonda kumele isebenze. I too would get frustrated if I were to provide for a man. Big guy cheated coz he felt insecure. Both these parties are flawed. They should’ve kept it between them and not entertain enemies. Close the book and move on. I think I love Promise for not being malicious. As for Lynn, she’s just using Big guy to take down Owamie. I wish they can just close this chapter, both of them. Fair interview. Well done.
Promise you deserve your flowers, you handled this interview with so much maturity and class. Siya bonga Mrs Law. To Big guy you are such a gentleman may God be with you.
Big guy is genuine, rare to find, nobody is perfect, Miss O will never ever! find someone as genuine as him in life. Image after all the bashing from Ex wife he still speaks positive, non bashing, ukhuliswe kahle lo bhuti. He was Gold pure gold husband, she passed by engaboni I golide u Miss O.
Lol after speaking that way about a mans private part, she's about to experience dryness for the longest time. Men are very sensitive about their manhood, which man will risk showing it to Owamie lol
When he said Owamie akafuni ukutshelwa and doesn’t take advice. I hear him mina, the way our ninja will block or remove your comment when you disagree with her😂😂😂😂
@lonagwegwe honestly we really needed to hear both side of the story so this interview was so necessary and yes you right promise have issues with Owami and Owami have issues with Promise so it goes both ways, they both have problem with each other
Im happy how promise was not talking bad about owamie she was even on her side yet owamie is talking trash abt her❤if Lyn was the one entervieweng him yooh i don't even want to say it🤦well done promise ❤
Shame man, it sounds like they had a beautiful love story with a sprinkle of Godliness inside. Wonder what actually happened...we all know the devil attacks marriages most. Men will always come across as the victim because they are calm by nature
There's no reason for cheating bathong Big Guy. It was wrong and it was a deal breaker and it broke it end of story. No reason good enough to cheat from both angles, men or women. Cheating is cheating and it is wrong!!! Doing anything as in helping in the household is good, you did your part. Is not wrong to wash your wives underwear, we too wash their jokies mos!😅😅😅
@@Yassmiinn. you probably have not been that ill in your lives to have to do that! I washed his and he washed mine, 31 years into marriage becomes that comfortable and somethings are not even a matter of "I will never" situations calls for it.😊🤷🏽♀️
Big guy made it easy for Owami to leave when he cheated. One can see that she really did verbally abuse the guy especially when it came to money. Life begins and ends with money with her. What didn't sit right with me is her acting like she endured so much pain yet the guy really tried. If she knew that she endured so much pain and suffering Owami would have left already in the beginning. Let's be honest, the more money she started making, she realized that she actually didnt need him anymore. Nobody is excusing what he did by cheating but that one mistake does not excuse all of the bashing about him and his family yall.. like she says that the guy is useless, there is no need for her to continue bashing him like that. Let her move on with her rich man please. I am happy Big guy got to tell his side. I am happy with this one because all he did was just put everything to bed not like the 1st one. They were both talking from a place of anger and wanted to hurt the other where it hurts the most hence he retaliated. Honestly what he did was human. Nobody will be okay with someone who publickly demeans his mother. now it's enough. Let her rest and move on.
Promise shame on you you coerced this man to say he was bewitched? You were subtley trying to paint her in a bad light. No class there. Say it with your chest Sisi.
I came here fuming on why this man would agree to be interviewed by his ex-wife’s rival but now I’m just smitten by his humbleness and calm demeanor. 😍 I’m here if you want a second wife.
I now understand why they say there are 2 sides to a story, such a humble guy. But, I have learned also that men take pride in being respected through acts of service.
“What’s the highest amount she’s gotten when she was with you?” Promise bathong! 😂🤣 I didn’t think you could stoop any lower but this interview? Now we see who is a fan of whom
Sana you’ll never catch me defending a man on any platform on any given day. A cheater is a cheater, people can dislike Owamie but defending this man🙅🏽♀️
@@nchabelengspeaks5023I can’t speak on why she’s still talking about him because i don’t know but I’m seeing ladies trying to completely santize his image in the comments
The way yoh guys have minimised cheating to normalcy scares me, to the point where when a woman leaves a man for cheating, you all say she left a good guy, and every mean cheats, the sbindi, cheating is traumatic and nobody deserves to be cheated.
you lost a good woman big guy nd you've hurt her so badly that you nearly drove her crazy, she has no malice for you but deep pain!! you hav moved on easily but shs still trapped and scarred !! i wish you both nothing but happiness nd healing
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I never opened up myself to like Promise simply by association ... die hard Ninja here 🙋🏽♀️🙃. BUT I must say, this was classy and tasteful 👌🏽... no bashing no retaliation, simply mature and unbiased. Well done Promise! And well done to Big Guy too. I used to love Big and Owamie when they were together 🥺💔. Was definitely heart broken when yhey broke up. Hopefully one day they can have the conversation/closure they both deserve ❤️🫂
Something O should have done, tell her story in a respectfull manner. I really wish she never stood so low especially with this man's family. Hope she heals and move on bcoz BG sounds he's in a better place.
@@nokuzolantanga3349 but remember the time was short here ,the issue of divorse delays that provoked owami ,bg was not asked about talking about owam in his family ...according to tis video its as if owam suggested divorse and big guy accepted on the get go simple like that bcz of time i gues .to be honest owam was a bit better at first but divorse delays and allegation of GG family cz a problem .but here BG didnt touch that .
I totally agree with you.
Big Guy is maturing, this interview was way better than the one conducted by Lynn earlier in 2022.They must now do us a favor, call it a day and stop fighting.
She doesn't deserve that conversation
Not being sexual active at the age of 21 should not be seen/labeled as "late bloomer".
We have normalized teenage sexual activity
Social constructs are bad😂
@@mafadimakatsosurprise5182 Very bad. We end up normalizing things that should actually be prevented.
100% Agree
Owami is a bully
This guy reminds me of someone I once dated, if he comes out in public you would swear he is an angel, cheating is cheating full stop.
The voice note speaks for itself. That’s the personality / character he was married too. 🤮imagine that for the rest of your life.
She is out of that relationship now she is with son of jesus let's see what is gonna heppend course man cheat shym
@@Vv-fl2rm LOL
Tsege
Periodt!
I have dealt with a narcissist who was as calm and respectful to the public 🥺
The fact that he feels the need to paint a scenario before answering a question is a red flag. People keep saying he never insulted Owani but if you listen carefully, you will realise he insulted Owami from the onset 😂😂😂😂😂
Anyway 🤧🤧🤧
Why? Cause he wants to live in a clean place?
Owamie is a narcissist of note ke
He kept throwing jabs,this guy is not a domkop at all.
He never really gave a straight answer hey
But how many times did we hear about him😮
We literally saw owamie go for hiv tests because she feared she could have contracted it through your cheating. This man is not being honest about the cheating part. You’re a humble speaker, owamie is loud and outspoken. People will definitely believe you over her. Narcissistic tendencies.
But Owamie said also it was messages and he also said it was messages... She went for the test just in case it wasn't.
@@ayandasam2269 LOL!
@@Yassmiinn.felt this LOL😂😂😂😂
But with a qualification in Computer science you would have grown big during covid coz the online space was booming .Owami is very innovative so sticking around an easy going person would be frustrating for her .Look at how she can stick around & do videos all day .That's a hard worker who would need a man who does double what she does for her to feel she has a man .
Yeah neh.. narcissistic tactics 😮 mxii
Imagine people saying Owamie is stupid for leaving a guy who used to sleep with kids(allegedly)😩😩😩we lack self love as basadi mahn😢😢cheating ke cheating
Owamie never said he slept with kids though.
He had intentions to
He was flirting on Facebook. Listen to understand.
Imagine people thinking it’s ok for a woman to compare her husband to other men and be verbally abusive and he must stay focus on her and not cheat 😂 yol are crazy and think women are angels. Far from it dear.
Still wont reveal the age of the person he is with
This is really sad how their marriage got dissolved.
I've learned that do not publicize your relationship.
2. Don't publicly bad mouth your ex no matter how things get ugly, just move on in peace.
The biggest mistake is judging someone by his/her demeanor. You all will fall for the mask. Start paying attention to people's actions. The man went outside and cheated on his wife. That alone should tell you the character he is. No amount of intelligence, calmness and explanation can exonerated you from those actions.
The explanation is not there or being made to exonerate himself , rather to shed a more holistic view of a story to eliminate any bias narrative.Cheating is undoubtedly unforgivable , but what he’s sharing sheds light for other woman as to why their husbands cheat.Very informative, and he does have equal right to share he’s story even if he’s the wrong doer.
@@jerushatogba1969you can never trust a liar and cheater. If they’ve manipulated their way through relationships, you will never hear the real truth.
The other big mistake is judging someone by their gender. Believing what they say because they are a woman and trying not to believe what the other says because they are a man. A lot of women use that because they can see that its easy to gather sympathy out there and they use it for manipulative reasons.
mukadzi anoda guhwa uyu plus kurwisanisa. tsek wake
true, he could even shed tears to gain sympathy. and as a woman i can tell owamie told the world probably 60% of the problems she had. let her loose one day you will hear mehlolo
Owami is angry because of what Big Guy did to her. But here is Big Guy talking about how she divorced him because she caught him flirting on FB. I stand to be corrected, but that cannot be the whole story. All I see is a manipulator and someone good at playing the victim like Owami said. And as for the finances, is she not the one who gave him her bank card so he would feel like a man? Fear men.
Yhoo I know Big guys type.
Kanti Nina don't you listen to understand when you watch owamie as ninjas.....this guy only reiterated what she has always said in her videos....don't follow her anymore , but heared this many times from when I was still a viewer.
@@kingl794 He took no accountability at all, the hurt by a cheating spouse impacts one gravely. Yet see how everyone is now singing his praises? The type that will burn you alive then help your family look for you.
But that's what Owamie said she left cause he cheated via FB messages. U ninjas don't listen to your own Ninja hey.
Owami is bitter, so happy for the big guy,all the best bro ❤
People think my husband is a very nice quiet guy because that's how he acts around them they don't know the real person, only those one who are very very close to us or stayed in my house that knows him , what im trying to say don't judge a book by it's cover
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We are not taking anything away from you ne, but the problem is we tend to paint all guys with the same brush because it's so hard for us to admit when a woman is actually wrong. I personally know this man because he was my teacher and he's not narcissistic he's very kind and soft hence his ex saw that as stupidity, he used to share what was happening in his marriage with my brother and show him Whatsapp conversations btwn him and his wife.... There are man who wear masks but each and every person be it a woman or man, deserves the benefit of the doubt.
What does your husband do?🥹
@sims_sibeko, you must be a single lady,looking for a husband .you don't know anything about these quiet men yet.
Guys Owamie has always speaking highly of Big guy, when it comes taking care of her and her siblings
Now ikhohliwe🤣😂
Yes they we’re good together, and it was good whilst it lasted divorce evokes different emotions to different people… I hope healing will prevail for both parties.
@TheeMsutu how am I acting? I’m also agreeing to that statement they were good to each other but unfortunately it ended.
Yes she did, Owami gave him his props always.
Where is owamie story told wanna hear her
But Owamie did say that she was recommended by the university to attend therapy because she couldn't cope due to depression she suffered after her mother's death. Why Big Guy is making it seem like she was academically excluded because she was not smart?
You still expect Big G to speak fairly about Owamie after all the insults?? Hayi you're not being fair. You must really think Big G is a robot and doesn't hv feelings
@@Blessed224good question
The guy is telling the reason why she did not finish the degree, he never said she is not smart . She was excluded 😢
I don’t have a problem with BG telling his story, I just wish he was telling it in his own platform so he can monetise his content since now everyone fighting Owamie uses him to promote themselves and he’s not gaining anything from it.
This!
Love this comment, His still slow for a big man that he is tho be used by these 2 ladies to fight owamie... If he want to tell he's side of the story he should be doing on his platform
Same
I feel the same way
@@lindagwe1680he is really being used
This is how you tell a story. No insult, no name calling, no swearing of families and no revealing secrets shared in private
No revealing of families health statuses, coz that one is thee most disgusting thing from her mouth.
gentleman
Lol vele if you are the culprit, you will play nice duh?! You guys are so stupid
Akere.....well reserved
Well said.
So just because of the guy is calm and soft spoken y'all think hes a good person weeeee
I mean ❤🤔🥴🙄😂
South Africans are dumb even ANC knows don't be surprised if they win outright next year cos wow 😂😂😂
Imagine!!
@@MphoNeluvholaneluvhola 😂😂😂south africa
@@mbalifisher 😂😂😂😂
The comments are killing me😂😂, the humble respectful guys in public platforms will always show you fire in private, don't be deceived 😅
Like the women who pretend to be angels in public, buy low-key spiteful and devils in real life.
They're so deceived my dear. No man will come out and make noise, they are always so humble in public but are monsters behind closed doors. And they are liers! I don't believe this guy!
😂😂😂😂😂😂fact
He is not as humble as he reveals himself u can tell the guy is so cruel a cheater is a cheater once and for all.
Cheating breaks relationships, marriages, families. I wish it is not taken so lightly.
Yes that's why she chose to leave BG and we applaud her for her bravery and choosing her but question is why is she clinging on him like this, why is she working so hard to hurt and try to turn everyone one against this guy. Why is she casting stones as if never made mistakes that she is not proud of? Huuuuu ai it's boring
Why did she leave vele coz she said there were in an open marriage?
@@julietkaunda9600 monies and it's okay but only if she can gladly admit this hore guy was no longer meeting her financial status and standards
@@julietkaunda9600 she asked for an open marriage AFTER he cheated, just to spite him.
@@Yassmiinn. Thanks for the clarity.I missed that part
I’m not a fan of Owamie shame but I do feel sorry for her. Just from a woman’s point of view. Also I find it grossly distasteful for other women to use her story for views , gains and to make themselves appear better.
I know what divorce does to people and even though I am aware of some of what she’s shared on her platform; divorce shakes the very core of your spirit.
For me it’s just sad , sad for both, sad for all. Sad sad & I hope everyone involved finds healing.
Well said, That's the truth, this Promise lady using owamie for views and people don't see it. she is also, fighting Owamie passively. She has a vanadate against her. Pliz note, im not owamie fan but I can see what promise is doing
It's only sad bcz it doesn't fit the narrative that owamie was pushing all along, now you're hurt just bcz the big is here telling his side, bcz women can never be wrong and it's always a men's fault
I MEAN.....They're all using him to get to and at her....Funny how women think they "CARE" about "his" side of the story....COME ON!
@@NdofayaSobethu86 No no women can be wrong, we all know that. Is ok for Big guy to tell us his side of story, we appreciate that. Nd I commend him for not being messy and being a gentleman. He even refused to answer some petty questions. My problem is with the interviewer, she has a hidden agenda, Questions like " She didn't bath, just applied the make up? How much was she making in a month? , so her mother was a helper, etc." Even A blind person can see where interest is highly invested
Owamie has hurt people too for views, many people. she was a whole bully even musa khawula is better. She is little better now
Big guy and Owamie taught me never to badmouth my ex so I can move on and never revisit my past.
The way they go back and forth you'd swear they have a child together, even us with kids get to a stage of finding common ground.
I'm happy big guy can vent, but I hope that after this Owamie won't find something new to get him for.
Owamie let him finish this because you started it, you've had your shine and moment to character assassinate him.
The petiness of that girl will not let it rest.
@@LightHouse31073 yazin
This is the think i told my self a long time ago.
I love how Promise conducted this interview, not disrespecting the other party. 😊
What did she do to Owamie? Are they close?
I still don't know why they are beefing
Promise was sarcastic and condescending to Owamie. If you missed that part its ok
@@hlengiweyourstruly viewers made Owamie and Promise to fight for no reason... Promise said women with no kids cannot give her advise about raising kids, am just paraphrasing. Then people tagged Owamie for what only they know, then as always Owamie did a video.
@@ayandasam2269 thank you, I'm not on tik tok so I didn't know how it started
I resigned at work so just I can watch this interview😂
I took leave 😂
😂😂😂
Amanga😂😂😂
Me too🤣🤣
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Emotional cheating is also a deal breaker, though. There were definitely a lot of underlying issues in this marriage, but cheating is cheating.
I guess that's only applies to men bcz when it's a lady 100% of the time we're reminded that it's your body your choice
They loved each other, but unfortunately Big guy betrayed her. He probably wanted to explore since she was his 1st. I think it’s time for Owami to move on. This relationship is holding her back and Big guy has moved on.
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shap, a man will cheat on you for no reason.. now imagine when you disrespect and belittle him, outside is where he is going.
I understand that waiting for marriage is considered good for various reasons. Kodwa sometimes it can be dangerous, it’s important to explore (safely & within reason) when you are younger ngoba once you get into marriage the demon will test you, now you want to live your youth inside your marriage. Jola uzifunde before ushade contradictory advice but it is what it is.
But Owami did mention that Big Guy took care of her siblings the time she wasn't getting an income bathong!
Even now she mentions it, even when she’s bashing BG but she’s forever appreciative of that time between them.
@@nondumisomhlongoExactly! Like people don't like women who stand against cheating. They're basically bashing Owamie for leaving a man that cheated! Who does that?😢
Some women tho'!
The story of Big Guy taking care of Owamie and siblings will forever be heartwarming (and I love how Owamie also told the story). Things were once great between them.
True❤
And she did mention a lot of good things about Big Guy.
oh yes She did mention and she was greatful
And this comment is important- she spoke of many good things about this man.
I think he's a decent humble guy. Not so much that it was between them
Neh?
I’m not a prophet but i know dazzling diamonds and Nunjus are camping here😂😂😂😂😂😂
1.9k 🤣
We are here😂
😂😂😂 Go deeper
Sinje
Then you are a prophet 😂😂
This interview was very wholesome and respectful. BG is a well articulated person. It is very important for us to know that in relationships there are always two sides to a story. It was good to hear "this" side of the story. BG admitted to his faults which was good to hear. As wives we also need to reflect on ourselves on the way we address/treat our husband's. No hate just a mature conversation. ❤
Really we women are turned to tigers with these big salaries. Even me when I got big salary, I started to misbehave. I have been married for 17 years. May God help us women. This thing women working is destroying many homes and families.
Owami once mentioned he was book smart and he got straight As....he just wasn't street smart
Yes we even know his qualifications. Promise keeps trying to act like Owamie never mentioned all these great things about Big Guy.
It convenient for "us" to forget all that. "We" have forgotten that Owamie till this day credits Big guy for her success
Yes. He wasn't street smart and that's what made him husband material. He's a good human.
Yena she's street smart I guess but here she is having to rely on views to rent a place to stay
You need many types of smart to navigate in life. What he lacks in street smarts he more than makes up for it with his emotional intelligence.
Not everyone is street smart. We wouldn’t be having so many graduates sitting at home doing NOTHING. Being street smart and hustling is an art. It’s not for everyone. Certainly not for the unemployed millions who are sitting at home now.
The same red flags you see early on in a relationship, are the same red flags that will make you leave the relationship.
This is the gospel truth!!!
I don't know whether it's because Big guy is so well spoken or he is genuinely a good guy but if he is being genuine in this interview, then I understand why Owamie can't seem to let go. Often as women, we end a good relationship that was worth saving not because we are stupid but because we are simply too young and inexperienced to realize what we have. Unfortunately it's not easy for one to admit to themselves that maybe they could've done better, so instead we resort to blaming the other party and highlighting all their wrongs in the relationship inorder to make ourselves feel less guilty about our part in the break up. Listening to Big guy and having watched a number of Owamie's videos, I honestly feel that they made a power couple and wish they had found a better way of resolving their issues instead of divorce.
I agree with you❤
Well said, they were a power couple and loved each other and Owamie needs to admit her wrongs for the end of the relationship, forgive herself and move on.
@@BabongileM 💯
😂😂
This❤❤❤
This guy is sitting on a goldmine career. Like he can be a data analyst and there're in demand. I hope he realises that.
@@ronellecandice1536 he can also try coding and cyber security
He wouldn't make it as a Data Analyst, you need good communication skills and be very articulate, he's lacking that. The guy was just book smart that's how he got the degree. To make it on the real world you need to be intelligent. There's a difference between academically smart and intelligence.
@@justvee871 my brother is a data analyst at Stellenbosch University and he is not a good speaker.
Please don't be negative he is intelligent that's it not siyoyo you were told he is.
@@nomvelisobovu8255 Your brother definitely got that job through bribes or was put in by someone he knows or to fill up BEE quota. You need to be very articulate as a Data Analyst, you need to do presentations in front of the executives and other stake holders. This dude doesn't even know the difference between woman and women 🤣🤣
Guys just because this guy is calm and well articulated doesn’t make anything that Owamie went through less true. Let’s not forget that you can not tell that someone is an abuser by just looking at them.
Abuser he is far from that.....owami do things with anger and now she release she lost a man.....the fact that she wanted her baby sister to have abortion its says a lot about owami
His not an abuser .. Owamie claimed he was a cheater , liar and pathetic (loser isibhanxa) .. This man is not an abuser sungxoka ..🙄🙄 Let the man tell his side and this has nothing to do with abuse …
Remember the intention of many women is not to believe the guy's side of the story. You never questioned Owamie's demeanor when listening to here side. You believed her but a man mustnt be believed.
Also why is it that This Man is went on to grant interviews with people that Owamie has a problem with?, that’s a Classic narcissistic behavior. Lying, cheating on someone is also a form of emotional abuse. I also don’t understand why people keep telling Owamie to move on and to stop talking about this. This is HER story,Her Journey….What gives you people the right to tell her how or when to tell her story?!. I don’t have a problem with the fact that this guy told his side of the story fine good for him. My issue is that why did he decide to tell his story on a platform of people who have problems with Owamie?!.
@@blessingnickiwe4454 kodwa we forget uba u owami she sad that yena can lie and really lie so everything thing nje doesn't make sense ngoba yena can lie so why not believe the guy ngoba yena nje she can lie she make a video saying that but thina we believe in her haybo Kodwa jeso lomntu she look at us and say I can lie really now do we have to follow ixoki in the name of love okanye nathi singamaxoki
😂😂😂😂😂 all I’m missing is Owamie’s laugh 😂😂😂😂
Just from listening to that audio clip. I just can’t imagine how BG managed all these years
The platform must be given to Big Guy to also respond and defend himself concerning the divorce
👏👏👏👏👏he deserves to have to his say as well.
Mina I respect him for not doing that big up to him
Exactly
@@noziphokhumalo2963true
I think the biggest problem of their ex marriage was the foundation. They didn't take the time to know each other before they rushed to get married. They both wanted different life styles which was a major contributing factor to the demise of their marriage.
They married after many years of staying together though...
The Lobola was paid in 2018
No. she was greedy
Big guy said he was ready to have somebody in life and prayed about it, and the next day he saw Owamie in a white dress which was the sign Big guy had prayed about, and soon after that he asked Owamie to be his wife and that's how their marriage started. They never really took the time to know each other.
the most sensible comment i have read. they rushed vat en sit at 21 no shem they were tooo young.
@@nomsatorcida9612You can never know a person only God knows us. My husband paid my magadi in 4 months after we met and had our white wedding four months after that. In total it took us only 8 months and he is everything I prayed for and even more. How many people stay in a relationship and break up after 10 years, you will never know a person, never.
I am glad he managed to tell his side of the story👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Of cause
What a humble,humble ,humble , human being
i Out e Sharp
Yazi ngingavuma ukuba u2nd wife 😂
Speaking slow with a soft voice isn't humility 😂😂😂😂
@@Drip3657 we would have picked up bad manners in this conversation.. people with no humility can't hold themselves, at least not for this long.
Mxm
Owamie blames BigGuy. BigGuy blames both of them. Talk about a man who takes accountability. Let’s continue listening.
Listen ❤❤❤
So if you cheat on me and I blame you, and you blame both of us for your cheating then you’re taking accountability?
I’m still watching though, I could be missing your point ❤
Nondumiso said it for me. He cheated!!!!!!
Big guy Indoda, ukhuliswe kahle, morals are top tire 👌🏾👌🏾
@@nondumisomhlongoI am referring to the entire marriage. Not just the cheating. The cheating was right at the end.
HE CHEATED BECAUSE HE DIDN'T WANT TO HELP WITH THE HOUSE CHORES.... WEEEEEEE AMADODA!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂Thats crazy, he just wanted to sit around and do nothing weee.
No. He cheated because he was washing her panties.
No. He cheated because he was tired and done
@@sisg.official he should've just left
@@Yassmiinn. right. He should have left
That's so low of Owamie calling his ex umageza, she's a hustler self. Not everyone will have fancy occupation/career. We are here to survive & work hard.
Women drag unnecessarily nje, if he cheated and they broke up there’s no need to be airing his dirty laundry all year round. She should’ve just moved and focused on herself
shes broken lowo
Nami if someone came for my mother sana I’ll DRAAAAAGGG you with whatever I can think of😩💀💀
Some of us are not sold. We know a narcissist when we see and hear one.
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Most narcissist articulate themselves very well ke sana. Not saying his one.
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Girl, narcissist are calm. Wena U end up looking like you the one whose crazy!! 🤞
And as someone who has a degree in Communication and Language his English and the Host English is Not Engrishing 😂😂😂
I actually like Big Guy, he seem like a nice person … too bad they didnt work out.
Promise enjoys hearing Owamie did not gradute😢. That's wrong cc!
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As if she graduated from UP WITS or UCT we all know unisa is copy and paste university its been like that for years 😂😂😂now
otherwise good interview
@@MphoNeluvholaneluvhola Really?
To me its like an investigation interview to get on something against someone, i see woman bitterness against another woman.
Thank you
Personality issues here clutches. Big guy is "A woman must". Owamie is "A man must"
I totally agree!
Yep wrong combination no 1 wanted to compromise.
Good observation...maybe expectations killed their marriage and also we don't know if those expectations were verbalized
Disaster
Perfectly Put!
Promise wants to reinforce that no woman can leave coz of cheating, so she’s stamping gore Owamie left coz of finances 😂. Oh well.
😆 🤣 😂 😹 to be honest, this guy wanna look good but deep down we all know that the re 99% chances that he would remind his ex wife about her being unable to give him a child and taking the sister's child was his way to try to prove something that I don't wanna state.
@@happiness_moth9295 assumptions, but Owamie never said that. That will be something she would have said.
women never leave due to cheating. trust me. ain't no women gonna leave a man with a good income. most women know men chow ngaphandle. hell most women want them to eat outside sometimes if the man is very horny
@ptalord5198 aowa mara Lord. They do leave. What if they had other issues apart, cheating and finances. That made her consider leaving
@@ptalord5198 you're not making sense.
This lady is like me 😂shes all over the place she must let the guy speak 😂
Speak your truth Big guy Speak your truth… Owami has dragged you a lot n did we have to all know that you lost your job?? NO … but ofcource she had to tell us to embarrass you and bring you down🚮
I want to believe him, something does not add up. I will wait for Owami's proof
Eh! Even though I hope she doesn’t respond, I hope she brings it if she does.
18:38 My current woman can match me, she is too good. That part from BG was a hit.
This is one matured man and so intelligent. Look at how he is so humble and answers with so much sense and it makes me wonder where is the stupidy and slowness...
Thanks for the interview Pro Pro ❤❤❤❤
People can only define you according to what they are, it's their reflection and they believe everyone must be like them
Guys guys guys, let me enlighten you of what is going on here: Owamie told her side of the story. She basically mentioned all the bad things that Big guy did. Big guy however, is a smart guy. He is doing what Black Coffee did. He is saying all the good things and defending Owamie so that he doesn't look like the bad guy. It's called reverse psychology. He wants the public to see him as this good guy and Owamie fucked up. And all of you here in the comment section have fallen for this trap. This is what smart people do. Master manipulators.
!!! And they are falling for it
We want to hear the story anyways. We all know men 😢.
A narcissist of note. Well played
Owami is that you sis?
🤣🤣🤣@@mbalinkosi8621
This guy would say I don't want to say this but say it😂😂😂 narcissist this one
I thought I am the only person hearing this. Narcissists know how to look good in the eyes of the world😅
Ninjas right here
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😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not him saying she was academically excluded 😂, this guy low key threw shade on her, he went in to say she’s wasn’t so clean.
He speaks in such a dignified manner, well articulated
I am in awe.
Kannete mayivalwe le chapter
He speaks well not slow. Atleast he can pronounce words unlike that one who speaks ka fast forward not pronouncing most words well
And very respectful
@@Princess_Lehlohonolo fast what? Haiii😂
Promise was fair in this interview….she handled it well. I didn’t sense any malice.
Finally,,,i was waiting to hear his side of story......thank you big guy
So this whole interview was centered around Owami 😂😂😂😂 aowa lenang Owami is powerful bolelang nnete
The blogger they blog about indeed 😂😂😂
As we wait for Owami to get baby mama s to talk......... This won't be the end.
eya aker we needed his side of the story.. kante???
He’s telling his side of the story about his marriage with Owamie 🙄
Very true, she's a young powerhouse
This is a true Zulu man. He speaks without embarrassing the people abamkhulisa. He came with the intention to say his side of the story, not to insult anyone. It all comes to No one is perfect. He made his mistakes as a human being and he doesnt deserve that much hate from his wife. Some of us have experienced narcissists and stingy men and this man is nothing close to both. Lets just say they grew apart as the years went by. May they all find healing.
I really like how he's self-aware of how he was in their marriage.
You should watch his previous interview.
@@sybillamulaHe was angry because Owamie has been making countless videos talking bad about his family and himself. You can see that he has now calmed himself
Maturity got nothing to do with your tribe
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Both Promise and Big guy are nt against Owamie, lets hope she understands .
She won't understand that one
Understand 🤔who, uyadlala
The moment in yo mind u replace a man with money, the marriage will not survive
If “as a woman you should”, then “Indoda must”
Thank you.
One thing about parents...They always know when a partner is not right for you..The voicenote broke me yoooh..My heart sank for Big boy
Look at Senzo's mom.
Even with friends when parents say no I don't like this friend of yours better listen.
@@ayandasam2269 asoze shame
Guys what was in the voicenote?😂
I used to always be on big guys side just because of how crazy & bitter Owami would tell things, but I’m coming to realize Owami was hurt & still is simply coz she loved him & we overlook that.
Big guy was flirting with minors that’s unacceptable guys no matter how well he conducted the interview also I’m glad he admitted the his sick behaviour though.
I’m not a ninja or nunju but both parties are wrong in this. Just that the other one has healed & the other one hasn’t.
I recommend for payer for Owami to go to a therapist & Big guy pray for yourself coz minors are a no go, & you’re a grown man!
I’m officially not on anyone’s side I’m just advocating for these people to both change for their own good.
Owamie has a flood of people who have enabled her behavior "tell your story/truth", "we can relate so much"&"they are just hating on you"
Nisile for ill-advising her
And she fell for the trap hey
she has been exposed
They have ruined her completely. She becomes a whole joke, when she talks about having a boyfriend or being married. Who would want to date or marry someone that's so unhinged. And we all know how men are so sensitive about their private parts, which man is going to risk it with "the blogger they blog about". She's about to go through a long season of dryness.
@@user-iq8em5nb3j I can't imagine a new boyfriend listening to her insult another man like this. Poor guy will be puzzled, he'll run for his life. Dating in your 30s is tricky especially if u are looking for a rich guy who won't cheat
They did, and we were labeled as Nunju or haters for saying ma'am u taking it too far now.
Lol I think when women aren’t working and men are, women clean and do all the house chores, but when BG had to do it he cheats 😂😂😂😂. Anyway society made it our duty to work and still do house chores while the hubby is locked down and is chilling or else he will cheat 😊
The moment you call house chores "helping" your wife, unenkinga. Chores are just survival activities. Even if you lived alone, you would have to clean, do laundry and cook. Its just that the person who spends the most time at home, does most chores.
People are different and want different things and thats okay. As much as there are women who believe that it's a men's responsibility to take care of them financially, there are also men who believe that women should do chores.
People should just choose people they align with and stop enforcing their beliefs on people. Akhukhomnto onenkinga apha
Same women who say a men must but never want the same men to say a women must, that's what he preferred and that ok. She prefferd a different kind of man that's ok for her too. They wanted to change each other it didn't work, each person must marry their type. For example I like taking care of my man 24/7 am domesticated and educated, my man needs to pamper me 24/7.
@@vuyomajikijela8346❤
He told us he use to make bed like it's a crime ,like hello .....who should make bed for him
Atleast he got his type that doesn't wear makeup 😂😂😂
thulawena
I was a teacher also before. I left because teaching is too hectic. Marking books, record books, attending workshop, etc. Worse still i did a degree in Food technology. I hate such formal jobs. So i left and now i am better off. BG is smart to choose be a Taxi owner. I have friends i did Food Technology with and now they are doing solar business and making money. Thinking like Owamie that being a taxi owner is low is stupid. She is a RUclipsr. How is being a youtuber better. Only because she manage to make her channel big . So big guy can also be big in the Taxi industry.
This guy is wise...full stop!
He's reasoning capacity👌🏽
And the ability to articulate himself!!!❤❤❤
I feel Promise is confusing him when she interrupts him, and he loses his train of thoughts...also jumping from this to that..then back again....
I also love the fact that he raises and highlights that..."we agreed" on certain issues, it's not like she was forced...it was an agreement.
But I understand that, it's her interview and she must lead it her way.
I wish she could leave him to finish his sentences and story on particular subjects they touch on.
I know we also are mindful of time as well.
Good job so far!!!
I have noticed that was even wondering why was he called stupid
And he is handsome 😊
@@Koketso_TI was listening out to the stupidity part, so far...nothing.
Ebile I feel Promise is confusing him when she interrupt him, he loses his trail of thoughts...but understand that, it's her interview and must lead it.
But I wish she could leave him to finish his sentences.
@@perekisithat too😊😊😊
@@FromPeloToYourHeart Exactly I agree with you
Kodwa ke indonda kumele isebenze. I too would get frustrated if I were to provide for a man. Big guy cheated coz he felt insecure. Both these parties are flawed. They should’ve kept it between them and not entertain enemies. Close the book and move on. I think I love Promise for not being malicious. As for Lynn, she’s just using Big guy to take down Owamie. I wish they can just close this chapter, both of them. Fair interview. Well done.
Schools were closed during lockdown.
Promise calling Big Guy "late bloomer" speaks volume of her that's uncalled for
sex at 21 is late.
@@ptalord5198for who? Who set those standards?
@@ptalord5198this also speaks volumes about you😂😂
@ptalord5198 Promiscuous much. When you have trauma, then you complain that mjolo is a pandemic.
@@ptalord5198 please go read your Bible please you can't so when should you be active at the age of 12🤦
sometimes it's about respecting your body
Promise you deserve your flowers, you handled this interview with so much maturity and class.
Siya bonga Mrs Law.
To Big guy you are such a gentleman may God be with you.
respect each other secrets. we were once happy and shared a lot together, and I also have your secrets, and I choose not to tell yours.
Big guy is genuine, rare to find, nobody is perfect, Miss O will never ever! find someone as genuine as him in life. Image after all the bashing from Ex wife he still speaks positive, non bashing, ukhuliswe kahle lo bhuti. He was Gold pure gold husband, she passed by engaboni I golide u Miss O.
100
Blessings come from God, we can't decide what will happen to Owamie's future. Can can still bless her, as evil as she can be naye lowo Owamie
Lol after speaking that way about a mans private part, she's about to experience dryness for the longest time. Men are very sensitive about their manhood, which man will risk showing it to Owamie lol
So a cheater can also be a genuine man?! Njani?
The guy cheated🤭
I’m not judging, but this guy seems responsible and intelligent, calm ❤
And I want to be his wife .. kikikikik
Ankere
@@marykhumalo8394 very important to say he wasn't, if wena u the same person u were 3 years ago not everybody. A person revolve, change, grow.
Owami ulahle indoda la and uyazisola uGirl. Watched her reply.... the people who briefed her about this interview lied to her.
@@missymakhoba2499 Yaz bengingayilandeleli lento but I didn't like the way she spoke so negatively about his home and how poor were they
When he said Owamie akafuni ukutshelwa and doesn’t take advice. I hear him mina, the way our ninja will block or remove your comment when you disagree with her😂😂😂😂
Wena 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾 Owamie is like that… Sometimes she even comes for u njeee
I love how matured Promise is and how BigGuy didnt speak from a place of anger and hate. This was beautiful to watch.😊
The is nothing mature about Promise and this guy validated everything Owami said about him.
Promise has issues with Owami and this interview is proof, she is giving these subliminal statements that shows just how much hate she has for her.
Promise is dangerous woman l don’t understand why she went this far
@lonagwegwe honestly we really needed to hear both side of the story so this interview was so necessary and yes you right promise have issues with Owami and Owami have issues with Promise so it goes both ways, they both have problem with each other
I think she has issues with Owamie.
All i see i a calm(not slow) guy who loved and protected "his family" until. . .
This🙌
Yazini….I’m even afraid to admit that he doesn’t seem that bad as portrayed by the ex wife.
For me personally.. he is slow 😅
You guys dont know men!!!
It's hard to believe that he is a Zulu man, he is so calm and humble no wonder he is being disrespected to that level...❤
lols i know many quite zulus
Zulu men are like this but bo febe iyhooo
@@curvykay6232but trust me if you instult their parents we both know wat will happen..
Lol you are very gullible
@@curvykay6232😂😂😂
This guy reasoning capacity 👌💯💯💯💯💯
Thank you only smart people will catch that.
@@thegoodchow4385 definitely she did. I think if she did respect him. They could had been together,But I don't condone cheating as it's a choice.
Very true!
@@thegoodchow4385definitely
And he's so respecting when talking about her. He's not insulting her as she does.
"There she was wearing a white dress" 😭 Big guy & Owamie hurt each other yazi
They did love each other Shem, it’s the hurt 😢
Eish,it's so painful
Big Guy must do something he has a very good qualification which is very much needed out there.
true but most people study things they hate like me and afterwards never work or use the qualification. i stopped working in 2012 despite my degree
Im happy how promise was not talking bad about owamie she was even on her side yet owamie is talking trash abt her❤if Lyn was the one entervieweng him yooh i don't even want to say it🤦well done promise ❤
That's why I said yesterday she should have waited for the interview to drop before shading Promise.
Exactly
Shame man, it sounds like they had a beautiful love story with a sprinkle of Godliness inside. Wonder what actually happened...we all know the devil attacks marriages most. Men will always come across as the victim because they are calm by nature
There's no reason for cheating bathong Big Guy.
It was wrong and it was a deal breaker and it broke it end of story.
No reason good enough to cheat from both angles, men or women.
Cheating is cheating and it is wrong!!!
Doing anything as in helping in the household is good, you did your part.
Is not wrong to wash your wives underwear, we too wash their jokies mos!😅😅😅
Thank you mama!❤ Been searching for this comment ❤
His reason for cheating is not make sure, thank you for the comment ❤
Yoh I'd never wash my man's underwear and he'd never wash mine. That's wear we draw the line but I agree with the rest of your comment
@@Yassmiinn. you probably have not been that ill in your lives to have to do that!
I washed his and he washed mine, 31 years into marriage becomes that comfortable and somethings are not even a matter of "I will never" situations calls for it.😊🤷🏽♀️
Imagine people saying Owamie is stupid for leaving a guy who used to sleep with kids(allegedly)😩😩😩😩Jehovah basadi we lack self love strue😢
Im strongly believe the lady was out of marriage before Big guy cheated due to her behavior.
Big guy made it easy for Owami to leave when he cheated. One can see that she really did verbally abuse the guy especially when it came to money. Life begins and ends with money with her. What didn't sit right with me is her acting like she endured so much pain yet the guy really tried. If she knew that she endured so much pain and suffering Owami would have left already in the beginning. Let's be honest, the more money she started making, she realized that she actually didnt need him anymore. Nobody is excusing what he did by cheating but that one mistake does not excuse all of the bashing about him and his family yall.. like she says that the guy is useless, there is no need for her to continue bashing him like that. Let her move on with her rich man please. I am happy Big guy got to tell his side. I am happy with this one because all he did was just put everything to bed not like the 1st one. They were both talking from a place of anger and wanted to hurt the other where it hurts the most hence he retaliated. Honestly what he did was human. Nobody will be okay with someone who publickly demeans his mother. now it's enough. Let her rest and move on.
Promise shame on you you coerced this man to say he was bewitched? You were subtley trying to paint her in a bad light. No class there. Say it with your chest Sisi.
I came here fuming on why this man would agree to be interviewed by his ex-wife’s rival but now I’m just smitten by his humbleness and calm demeanor. 😍 I’m here if you want a second wife.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Are you a neat freak?😂😂😂
@@sunrise7640I can try🙈
😅😅😅😅
Ma’am fr 😂
My notification is on 😂. Owamie is not sleeping tonight for sure 😮
She is watching I wish she can comment
Brace yourself for 20 videos after this. Saze savelelwa 😂😂😂😂
@@proudlysa774😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@thepriestess5969 I didn't tell fibs 😂😂😂
How many videos after BG's interview 😂😂😂
@@proudlysa774 say no more 🙈🤣😂
I now understand why they say there are 2 sides to a story, such a humble guy. But, I have learned also that men take pride in being respected through acts of service.
3 sides actually, but ok
Statistics & ComSci😭😭🥺yoh Big Guy is sitting on a goldmine of a degree. It's a pity he didn't pursue that path entirely.
Yet he is called "slow" 😭
& he can still pursue it, it's not too late. I'm mean his still 33
@@Koketso_TTrue my love.
@@Koketso_The is younger than her?
I think he still has his life ahead of him.
A neat freak who cannot clean up after himself? 🙆🏽♀️ LoL. What a joke my darling 😂
Yazin😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly! He was not supposed to have a problem with maintaining the neatness, it would've came naturally
😂😂😂😅
But he’s not slow: he speaks just okay.
Sad family members were dragged and cussed out 😥
He's not😢
He speaks very slow for me
@@sinehope_wena why are you in a hurry? 😂😂😂
No he's slow😢
@@Lola3853-m3s 😂😂😂😂😂
Wow i never knew his side of the story now i’m balanced thank u Big guy for telling us ur story kusekuyavakala nou
“What’s the highest amount she’s gotten when she was with you?” Promise bathong! 😂🤣 I didn’t think you could stoop any lower but this interview? Now we see who is a fan of whom
At this point it’s giving weird
@@tatsohramsvery weird
Is she a qualified nurse, bathong😂😢 I'm a graduate and having 9-5 job but you have nothing compared to what Owami have..
agree, she stooped so low🤣🤣
Sana you’ll never catch me defending a man on any platform on any given day. A cheater is a cheater, people can dislike Owamie but defending this man🙅🏽♀️
Katllego you are a girl after my own heart. I will never defend a man.
You guys need to heal
@@vuyomajikijela8346there’s nothing I need to heal from spokesperson sa madoda. Big guy is not my man🤣😝
Nobody said defend him, he cheats you dump him but there’s no need for you to be dragging hee for your lifetime
@@nchabelengspeaks5023I can’t speak on why she’s still talking about him because i don’t know but I’m seeing ladies trying to completely santize his image in the comments
The way yoh guys have minimised cheating to normalcy scares me, to the point where when a woman leaves a man for cheating, you all say she left a good guy, and every mean cheats, the sbindi, cheating is traumatic and nobody deserves to be cheated.
Breaking a virginity at 21 is NOT a late bloomer Promise. Educate yourself.
Glad that BigGuy told his side of the story. Finally!!!
Moral fibre of our society is depleted, thats why.
@@thebaddie391I totally agree. And it’s totally sad.
And being late bloomer doesn't mean One is immune from being a serial cheater
You know😂 wow! Not everyone starts early man😅
you lost a good woman big guy nd you've hurt her so badly that you nearly drove her crazy, she has no malice for you but deep pain!! you hav moved on easily but shs still trapped and scarred !! i wish you both nothing but happiness nd healing
Were you there in their marriage, because all we see is a straatmate who bullies others on these streets....we choose who we become.
@@mazwideamahle4091 I wish u peace I sense you r troubled!
@@AFRICAN-TALES.3447 think you're confused dear have you watched her videos ?I was a subscriber for years!
Am literally scared of polite guys. They are very dangerous and good of shifting the blame. Most of them they are very manipulative
True. And very dangerous, looking for sympathy. He's highly insecure and wanted to pull Owami down and he faoled.