Tiisetso Kgomo on how badly she tried to save her marriage as a Christian woman
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Tiisetso has a high IQ. People with high IQs struggle to relate to the people around them. They often sound condescending but they're really not. She is a beautiful, intelligent woman with high morals and standards. I understand her.
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This analysis is spot on 👌🏽
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Very true
She makes a lot of sense. She needs to know that. I understand her too.
This lady seems so smart and any forms of intelligent. But I get people around her seem to box her. She may come across as aggressive because the next person feels small around her. ❤ And Terrific too😊
I get what you’re describing😂😂😂. I know women like her. She needs a man that’s significantly more prominent than her to balance out her presence.
I was so confused watching this, I wish would have told the story of her relationship of what happened before the analysis. It felt like I was eavesdropping on private conversation, not included. It's a pity because it sounded so interesting
I think it would have been way clearer if Promise didn't know Tiisetso personally because they kept on "we had conversation about that"
Exactly. There was no point here
i think she should stop interviewing people she personally knows.
YiWay yakhe. Her interviewing style is chaotic at times
You are so right. We needed the back story. Otherwise little makes sense here.
Shes an amazing woman this one. Very annointed. I know her from primary and high school too!
But promise is rude. “You christians can come off as you know everything”… even telling the friend that she was annoying. 😮😮
She can be craizy 😂
She attacked her Christianity so much! I’m so drawn to Tiisetso and I feel she needs to be aware of the friendships she builds. They don’t seem compatible. They’re both great women but they don’t match on a friendship level and I didn’t even see the reality show. 😂
Had to stop watching the episode because this interviewer just keep switching off "her friend's" light so much. And Tiisetso keeps taking it, even though she doesn't have to. I'm getting so annoyed ....
Very rude.. or maybe English is the problem
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I must say I love that this lady is definitely a woman of substance, beautiful, smart and she loves God. One day that man will regret letting her go🤞🏽
Such a beautiful lady.
It sounds like they weren't equally yoked...he was "newly born again" (but not all the way done with that life) and she was more matured in her Christian journey. When you just got born again you might backslide a few times before you get it right, if you get it right. It's not that he hated that she talked too much or was a Ms Know It All but rather she was a constant reminder of what he knew he was supposed to be as a born again Christian but wasn't hence he probably resented her.
Yup, it is like dating a Chartered Accountant while you just have an Accounting Degree professional as a man, you will always feel small as a man! 😆🤭😂
Mhmmmm 🤔🤔 I get you.
True,
inferiority complex
Promise. I think you conduct interviews very well. I enjoy your interviews but again on this one because you know the story we didn't get to learn the whole story.like when did things start going wrong? What transpired before the Instagram post day. I think u skipped the whole story and went to end of the marriage but we don't know what happened in the marriage.
I felt the exact same way, a whole hour and I still don’t know much about the marriage and why it ended, apart from the fact that they weren’t on the same page spiritually.
He was absolutely threatened by your intelligence. Men like feeling smarter than their partners, & that’s really stupid
She is smart, gorgeous and intelligent. She will have a husband who would love her right. Gods favor upon you on dear.
Her testimony feels like mine, especially the gaslighting, false accusations and not appearing in court! The trauma bonding is also real but we're overcomers in Christ Jesus!
Questions for the next sit down
Does she still believe a man must be born again or dedicated to christ for her to date them. Woman in general dont seem to understand the difference between a good person with values and morals vs a person who knows the bible and knows scripture because they have been going to church their entire lives. Put simply bieng born again does not make you a good person. A person should only be judged on their character, actions and their behavior.
Promise Tiisetso didn't really talk about what happened to his marriage we only heard about her growing up
“Tiisetso was an Annoying Christian”
Yuuuu I felt that shame💔🥲
Coming from her “friend” even.
Yhu. Uncalled for 💔🥺
Yhuuuu 😏
The interviewer is a cow
I felt it too 😢
God wants us to be honest and move with integrity. She had to say it because without the truth from her friend, it just makes the husband look crazy, but the friend added context.
And we need the truth to grow and introspect. Both the husband and the host reacted the same way because the problem is the lady and her annoying sense of self importance. Imagine being annoyed on a road trip, nka jika nna.
This is more like a summary, we want more details mama😭 what exactly happened in your first year of marriage, how exactly did you find out he was cheating, how did you feel, I wish we could get more detailed version coz this sounds so interesting
Your husband is just exactly like my ex husband, I had to leave him for my sanity. He still send me msgz wants to come back but no I can't go back to that trauma,lies, theft, being insulted but smile in the public
We really didn't learn much from this interview? How did a born again woman get seduced to get pregnant before marriage. How did she find out she chose the wrong man to trust. How did she feel when things started crumbling. Where are we now? We don't know "after everything that happened". Please just maybe don't interview people you know because this happens everytime
You ask valid questions, but i picked up that her father's passing had a huge impact on her. Loss and grief can really shake up your faith.
I pray she sees this comment!!
exactly I feel like we didn't get much in this one hour interview
Go check a channel Tiisetso Kgomo,she shares a lot about the points that have been raised
All of that was mentioned. Just that she mentioned it in a post mortem kind of way without mentioning too much juicy details. You probably like people's business too much more than getting the lesson out of a situation. She did mention a whole of what you're asking without a lot of details.
Tip for Born Again girls- If he loves you he will wait till marriage before sex. 2. Some men come to church to take the girls through marriage and make you join them in their worldly life. The Bible says don't be unequally yoked.
What a brave woman she is. I'm so proud of how she handled such a difficult situation. I'm also proud of her for not apologising for her Christian values. You go girl❤. God is faithful and He will see you and your children through,❤🤗.
Mothers mess up their daughters.
We copy our mothers. If her parent's relationship failed and didn't find anything wrong from her mom's side, she probably did everything the same her mom did because apparently her mom was a victim and was never wrong.
....also i think taking marital advice from our mothers whom didn't have a marriage we would want for ourselves, we setting ourselves for failure.
This really got me thinking, I am a newlywed, an only child and raised by a very protective single mother. I get how this can be very problematic 🤔
literally mothers ruin it shame 😢
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@@leratokanomsathe day i stopped confiding to my mother about my relationship I’m happy
Tiisetso, you are such an inspiration. The strength that emits in you. Please bring her back for another episode.
I love Tisetso. Never compromise your faith. Big ups to you. Remain strong in Christ.
Great interview ❤️ Tiisetso sounds like a strong, super intelligent woman, grounded in Christ. We all make mistakes in life, Christian or no Christian I hope she doesn’t condemn herself forever.
The way you sometimes speak to your “supposed friend“ Precious is kinda hard to swallow, please try to use kind words and kinda to not sound judgmental and demeaning, statements like “you Christians…” that whole statement was kinda not kind and when you mentioned that when you first met her she was so annoying😢.
People are already going through the most and we always beat ourselves for what we said and what we did, now while you venting about the red flags of your ex partner and your friend having to mention that don’t you think you were the problem (in my own words) because also when she met you, you were so annoying 🥴”
Accurate
I really love this Tisetso lady, she has a brilliant story and bombs of wisdom. ❤❤❤
I just wish she would get interviewed by a better interviewer.
I really enjoyed this, Tisetso is such a pleasure to listen to very well spoken. Promise thank you for considering our critics you doing very well sis. I did feel the interview was very rushed
. It lacked a bit of flow progression, I feel there's so much that we missed, but I guess we'll wait for part 2... Thank you Mrs Law it's always a pleasure
It sounds like he abused her emotionally. How he treated her was a reflection of how he felt about himself. He didn't love himself. He generally wasn't a happy person and so he took it out on her and probably gaslit her throughout the entire marriage to make it seem like she was the problem. It's emotional abuse at its finest. May she heal and find her way again.
Maybe next time you can talk about how was their marriage life, give us abit more details, and the final straw that broke the camel's back, and she decided divorce was the only option
Aowa Promise, wa re ropa. We still don’t know what happened in Tiisetso’s marriage. The series of events
This interview felt a bit rushed , we were not taken into the story properly
It was two friends having a conversation assuming everyone knows what they are talking about. It also felt surface level and not delving into issues deeper. The guest is intelligent and processes matters but the host really didn't get it.
Tiisetso is what women in narcissistic relationships need to hear...perfectly narrating love bombing, trauma bond, cognitive dissonance, shame, self sabotage and depression that one goes through when with a narcissist...without mentioning narcissism
May God continue healing you, you are a beautiful woman ❤
Especially a covert narcissist. The most dangerous of them all. Yoh 😢
@@moe_ramz absolutely!!!
every girl should read this comment. this episode was so enlightening
I love Tiisetso so much ❤❤
People who are intimidated by ones personality or presence, are usually the ones who would find one boring, or think they know it all etc. 'I think'
This interview was all over the place, no beginning and ending. We dont even know the cause of the problem or divorce
Shame… I can totally relate to what she was going through.
Her husband was/is suffering from what we call narcissistic personality behavior…
The wife is always the last to know if the husband is cheating
People pleasing goes back to upbringing...your emotional needs as a child were not met and you learned over compensate so people like u & don’t leave u. Ultra religiousness is also over correcting/ over compensating.
I found it funny when she said, she ‘lacked for nothing’ growing up. She lacked the most important aspect.
There is a lot going on here. But a gorgeous woman and wishing her all of the best.
Oh Tiisetso, you are so powerful my sister!!! am so encouraged by your story. Your authenticity shines through and through. Power to you.
I cannot wait for part 2 and 3 if possible...She is so honest and a has a lot to share
Tiisetso sounds like an Angel and I wish her nothing but healing.💕
As for Promise 🤧Yho , you’re definitely the worst friend. Yho . I kept on cringing the whole time from the: “You’re one of the annoying Christians” to “I need to go to my kids what -what my husband is come”
Mntsase your marriage cannot be your whole personality and role you play. How’s about being a friend? 🤷🏾♀️ Read the room please.
Beautiful interview. For second part I think Tiisetso can just take us through her healing journey, trusting God in the mess, life after divorce, her dating life if she has started dating and her upcoming projects
She shares that on her RUclips page
Honestly the guest today just helped me clearly see the situation im in. Even thou I’m not married but he left me while I was pregnant and broke me so much. Now I’m back with him and I don’t want to be here. I cringe at his presence and want to just disappear and I don’t want people to know. I’m just holding on to hope. We can’t even hold a serious conversation about us. The love we have. I want out but I feel stuck and I don’t know how to tell him, it’s over I don’t want you for you.
So sorry, sorry you are in this situation. Whatever you do, co-parent with him. May God give you courage to walk away.
Promise rather let the story be told in a series format less cutting and more narrative. Your friend wanted to talk about how her kids became a burden and that info died like that
I honestly appreciate Tiisetso so much, her boldness and transparency. I know exactly what it feels like to be with a narcissist and the shame associated with coming out of that
Yohhh My childhood friend, we went to the same primary school and I attended her wedding with my then Husband… as a divorcee self the journey was hard! Wishing you all the best in the healing Journey.
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Why did you divorce if you don't mind me asking
Why did you divorce please share …singangeni nathi😂
Great conversation! What a brave lady. Choosing ourselves is beneficial for our wellbeing. Godspeed!
I personally emjoyed this. Well done Setso for standing up for yourself and for your sanity. Mrs Law, thank you for this wonderful platform ❤🎉
Yoh Tisetso, thank you so much for sharing your truth with us. May God bless you abundantly. Thank you Mrs Law, I enjoyed this thoroughly and learnt alot
Thank you, you did well on this interview
Promise can be very rude ,You cant a person is or was an annoying Christian
I love seeing you continue to step into your God-given power Ses T ❤
I think that the habit of asking questions about another thing/event without completing the conversation a previous question started is a work in progress. I think questioning according to the timeline of things is also important and can improve. I can't wait for the second part. This platform and you, yourself will continue to grow and be better than the last. I personally appreciate the nuggets, insights and lessons you get from these episodes. Thank you Ses Tiisetso for your consistent and daring vulnerability. I love you so much.💕👑
I love how promise is open to learning from other people.. Yes you can't always please everyone but you really are a considerate person.. This was a great conversation ❤❤❤anyway on part 2. Maybe Miss T can dwell more on how the marriage was.. Were there any issues with in-laws, does she believe that her ex once loved her or was just doing marriage for the sake of doing. Or he was in love with an idea.. Also how's life now does she believe in marriage going further. She mantioned I'm paraphrasing "shame of having a child of wedlock" how now is she managing the devorce stigma.. Otherwise love and light ❤
Content worth listening to and watching, well done Promise.
This interview was Lekker Promise is really taking notes
This lady keeps saying “my friend” but tbh I have never seen her as being a friend to ANY of the women whose stories she exploits for her own benefit. Also calling her friends “annoying” & being so prodding & invasive during the interview wow
Looking forward to this episode
Promose you are really improving on your interview skills but try not to interview friends so will be able to get all tbe details from the interviewees
There is one thing that we need to know as people : life is a journey. It does not matter how far ahead we are from each other in a relationship If love is the base of our connection, we'll catch up each other and journey together. Religion is sometimes delaying us.
I love Tiisetso,so warm,
Waiting to learn and support my sister...❤
My people perish for lack of knowledge . It is your choice who you marry .
I loved this, but my girl Tisetso didn't give us the whole story about her first year of marriage(or her marriage in general), I think she was selective about what to say so she could sound more right not wrong. But she is a smart woman though 🤗
There’s always complaints in the comment section. You can never please everyone. Great interview, as long as I got the point im happy.
The parents reaction at the award show 💔💔💔🥺
It broke her shem
But even the host, Promise, found her annoying and Ms know it all.
So there must be something that pushed all these people to openly have to tell her.
I can tell that Promise stick doesn't like her much.
I got to know Tiisetso from RUclips during my pregnancy in 2021 as she had also given birth by then and I enjoyed her journey. I have been following her since and I am so happy that she is doing great. I am also glad she is going to therapy. She honestly comes across as someone who is very sweet and has a genuine heart❤❤
Promise doesn’t know how to talk/ put words respectfully and she doesn’t see herself. Sis is rude joh
We couldn't get the meat of the matter because Promise was interviewing as a friend, and this felt like a catch-up session. The things said here are things we can find on Tiisetso's channel. I feel like Promise could have expanded on other matters. Calling her an annoying Christian was also uncalled for. I hope you had a conversation about this privately.
Promise saying annoying Christian about her friend is proper wild , the type of friends we keep...
Now I actually understand why some people were accusing her of being a bad friend 🚩👎🏽
Yoh she can be rude at time xam that was offensive
@@nomondetshetshe778she nasty
She's mean yoioiih
She is annoying and Promise helped balance why the husband answered her badly. Rather have a friend that tells you the truth so you can improve.
Wow beautiful conversation, Tiisetso is going places ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for the podcast. Tiisetso is as real as can be. And I knew from the first time we met at DMCC (Gates of Destiny) where she was a guest speaker that there's this fire within her and I strongly still believe that only someone with a much fiery fire can relate with her. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you or that person you are NOW. To purposeful-sisterhood🥂
I'm confused by the whole interview , seems like snapshots . As long as she happy where she is now that is all that matters can't comment apart from that
I think she could have just asked how she asked the question and not call her annoying yhu
She didn't ask because she knows her, she knows she's annoying and probably understands why the husband answered the way he did.
Loved this interview
I can relate to her. Her personality and her toxic trades
Guys guys,how can you conclude without hearing his side of the story,you not don't cease to amaze me
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I guess I will follow your page for the details.
Alot of Christian women/men usually ask God "is this the one for me", like discerning.. I'm just wondering if she ever did (don't know if I missed that part), and if God said "that's him" or gave some sort of confirmation
I still see you as a toxic friend Promise and your friend should zoom on you.
“You Christians, are know-it-alls”
“I remember when I first met you, you were very annoying.”
There is a better way of getting a message across without being this ugly.
Hayi sis learn a bit of decorum.
Promise does not like her friend.
".. you think you're the only one.. if you take my phone there's like 20 more girls..." Yoh amadoda!!! 😫
Mommies/ parents makes mistakes shem, we need to forgive. I also have those big moments where my mom would say she doesn’t remember n it’s like how?
Tiisetso you are echoing my journey
I think I am Tiisetseo and when Promise was like you think you are always right and that you are now matured in that you are no longer who you were when we met, I feel like I am listening to my friends telling me all this.I feel like we are never understood and we don't do anything to men Promise, we don't. I have a very very high standard and if anyone has a problem with how I am, it is okay. I have, because people always tell me gorr I always think I am right, I get to lower them and it is so unfair that I am always expected to be different to fit in, when do they get to fit into my world? The world I am in. You know listening in now, I am somewhat in tears to think that I LOST A PART OF MYSELF JUST SO THAT THE SOCIETY EXPECTS ME TO BE A CERTAIN WAY.
The husband sounds like narcisstic personality behavior. In the real sense. You will go mental trying to change yourself for the person. There is absolutely no winning. He will have everyone wrapped around his finger with lies & you will go crazy trying to prove yourself. Good thing you left baby girl. He punished you for all times he spent pretending to be religious just to woo you. Goodluck to this lady 😊
Mama your interviewing skills and objectivity is top tier 👌👌❤️
I love your content mam. We learn
Love you Tiisetso
What a waste, what's actually being said here people ? 😢
"you Christians" I don't know if I'm too much but that feels wrong
I can completely relate to the reconciliation of what you know God has said to you vs the situation at hand. The contradiction between the two.
Promise this was nice. The conversation was flowing. You were direct when you needed to like calling" some christians annoying sometimes" lol. I could not watch at the same time, but watched it later
At times interpretation is based on one's frame of reference.
It get confusing and disturbing that the host always interrupts or interjects as the quest speaks
Please allow your guest to speak hle
Why is your story so similar to mine like exactly like mine 😢🥹I’m so emotional right now in fact I just got triggered
☹ I'm sorry you've been through this Sis.
Askies hle
Changing the kids surnames has nothing to do with being a bitter ex. Her husband has already showed signs of being a vindictive and controlling person (the Instagram incident while she’s in a psych ward)- by letting her kids keep his surname (while she’s the main caregiver) she’s granting him control over her life and her kids lives in the worst way possible. She herself made a sarcastic remark when asked if he’s providing for the children. He’s going to end up denying them experiences at school or simply traveling with her to trips overseas for example because since they have his surname he will need to be consulted EVERY SINGLE TIME, and all she’ll have is the hope that he’s in a cooperative mood on that day. But if she’s willing to be a patriarchy princess all in the name of being seen as an ex that’s not bitter - then good luck to her. Maybe she enjoys the drama that comes with dealing with him.
I love love Tiisetso❤❤
I like her a lot but the only thing is if your constant feedback is that you are condescending maybe sometimes you need to take that information and try to work on these things (coming from someone who previously also used to get the same feedback).
Finally someone said it. Unfortunately that's not they want to hear, all they want to hear is she's perfect, he's bad, now she's free and healing from him. Nothing else.
Basically all women are good people, they just meet bad men.
Suggest anything else and they will come for you.
This woman is me I'm this woman, what she went through with her father is what I went through with my own father. What she went through with her husband is what I'm going through 😢😢
Own narrative podcast is very nice i really enjoy it, i just wish promise would stop bringing her own stories wen the guest tells her bwt theirs, you wont always relate to everything, a good host shud be a good listener period, we will hear your stories when tou are being interviewed
Personally, i felt like the interview flowed beautifully. Maybe because i know her story very well from her channel. This is the 1st time I've heard it told sequentially and i was able to follow kahle nje
I love Promise.❤