I don’t think I can love a man enough to stay with a man who’s whole family hates me, it sounds soo draining. this lady is soo strong for that😢. I wish her the best
Duuude. An aunt if mine once asked when will I get married, I told her I don't think I'd be able too bcoz ngine nhliziyo eyicane, she said hai sesi it will be hard until your inhliziyo yakho ibe nkhulu. I was like yaa neh, not me 😮 I'm so sensitive angeke ngilunge sesi 😅
Duuude. An aunt of mine once asked when will I get married, I told her I don't think I'd be able too bcoz ngine nhliziyo eyicane, she said hai sesi it will be hard until your inhliziyo yakho ibe nkhulu. I was like yaa neh, not me 😮 I'm so sensitive angeke ngilunge sesi 😅 My sistas y'all are strong sham. May the Most High Keep giving you the strength you need to keep sane ❤
Marry compatibility and companion =,100% happy marriage. Am happily married n we content. No third party no big egos. Hence happy my marriage. Love n self we that. Never fought...no sidekicks. I will come for interview
I don't believe marriage to be always bliss but unhappiness shouldn't be coming from your spouse, partners need to be fight against what life throws at them. There are happy marriages without cheating scandals
I enjoyed this so much ladies. I hope mrs M and hubby move out of Virginia soon. I think it’ll help with their marriage so much. Mr M won’t have too much access to the family
Listen you just retold my story. I believe that he has to be with family because they actually miss that home time it might hurt a tiny bit but the fact that he has your back is everything! I lost all the nicesness, the so called love from in-laws because I stood my ground when I was bullied by my sisters inlaw! One sad thing about females they thrive in putting each other down! It’s so sad. I’ve been body shamed I’ve been told ke jisitse mo guy and that I’m a daughter of a witch heeehhh😂 bahlali! I’m still with my husband because he had and still has my back! Kunzima guys! I don’t wish this even upon my worst enemy!
Bona wena hee o buwa story saka ke re the whole family ho tloha le ka bana ba teng but I stood my ground ka re you know what enough is enough luckily I come from a family e close and supportive ka itswarella ka bona and I became stronger Shame my husband have his own mistakes le ena e le motho but he’s super supportive and loving to me as his wife but ha ke sa rate ntho ha ke rate and I make it a point hore ya utlwahala 😂😂😂
“I don’t know if there’s such a thing as happily married somebody, because of the ups and downs - that is marriage, I believe in calling it a thriving marriage, we do have happy times 100%, and the happy times surpassed the bad times” ~Promise Makunyane Love this perspective of the definition of marriage, Hopefully many people will learn something from this profound sentence, it is changing what we expect marriages to be 🔥🔥🔥
This has to be the best podcast ever😭❤️❤️.... This one hour wasn't even enough... Your conversation was flowing so well and man you just got to love Mrs M there's just something about her ❤️❤️
I love u girls 😊...I love that u love ur husbands and ur marriages in ds times whr ppl are discouraged to get married.may ur marriages flourish and glorify God more and more
The way I am so considerate how I speak with my man neh not him but everyone around me entlik, this podcast really made me say I must keep it up,and him the way he is so considerate about how he say things to me nd he wants me to be happy all the time. A tongue can break a lot of things neh am glad you both noticed your contributions nd u owning up well done mommies.
I fully disagree with there is no happily married. There definitely is disagreements dont mean you not happily married. Two different people doing life together definitely there will be disagreements
Made sure I sit down with my glass of wine when watch this. Thank you so much my beautiful ladies. 15 years married this year and I want 60 more years with the same man. We are not perfect but we are making it work. #marriage❤
A proper My husband this my husband that content 👌👌 bona op die kop! 😂❤ Ge rere "Kgoshi e mpushang" 😂😅❤ Can we have two episodes per week because wow! 🥰😍♥️ I grew up in that Mamazala and Rakgadi drama and it's hectic... I understand fully what she is talking about...even worse for my mom because papa ke moshala lapeng, waking up everyday in a house full of people who just hate you for no reason...a father in a polygamous marriage and the other wives being loved but not your mom #sigh but it is much better when your husband supports and loves you fully❤ Realeboga samma mmereko o mmotse o dirang ❤ ska hlephisha Modimo ago okeletse 🙏🕯️.
The comments here praising this lady are scary- this lady found it okay that her husband got into a relationship with her whilst he was still hooking up with his baby mama, the husband tells you if you leave he will kill you, he has multiple baby mommas. So many red flags that people are ignoring. I get why this lady is accepting of these red-flags because her behavior screams semi-toxic. You don't risk getting a criminal record for the sake of not wanting to be disrespected.
It is important to create your own Christmas tradition with your spouse and kids, there is a reason why you are married and have started a family. This thing of always going to mamazala's house is not so good because it means your kids are also going to be spending their Christmas holidays at your house with their spouse and not at their own homes or rotationally
I just watched this episode today, I am not married, but I am behind you ladies. We are fighting for the marriage 💯%, loving our husband's and giving them the respect they need 😊
It's interesting how Promise always assumes that people who are not married are problematic. When this lady said her sister-in-law is problematic, she automatically assumed the sister is not married. And she always says OH, when she realized she married. It's weird. It's not the 1st time she does it.
I don't think she meant it in a bad way but it's really strange & painful to be troubled by someone who knows the dynamics of marriage. Wives kinder understand when someone that has never been married hlokoloza u cos most don't understand boundaries and what is expected from them.
Yhoooo bathong. 29 year old wa batho oratile lenyalo. Kore in-law drama, baby mama drama on a police officer salary?…I hope this husband knows he’s found a ride or die for real.
That's why many people divorce. They put money first, something that comes and go. No matter how much money you have, it'll never be enough. Leave that mentality or else you will end up with everyone looking for a bigger bag.
@@Mrs_Motseoile Honestly😭😭😭😭 There is a lot of emotional and psychological poverty here, so some financial abundance would have balanced the scales a bit☺️
Wow this lady with a green dress is flawless 🔥🔥 This marriage is full of drama!! May you guys outgrow it one day cause i don’t see a forever with so much negativity surrounding the marriage
When Promise said "What is kopa" this reminds me of my mom and my husband 😂😂😂. My mom ke Mosotho and Hubby ke Mopedi, he would say "What is qoba?" (Avoid) hearing it from my mom 😂😂😂.. Those 2 likes talking but hardly understands each other and I should be the translator😂😂😂
ladies thank you, you building me, as makoti it's true we striving but spiritually I wanna grow with hubby. Am reflecting a lot on being better better Wifey
I mostly create boundries for those that I care about so there are no grey areas, to preserve and maintain healthy relations with those that are dear to me. My 2c opinion is those that I don't really care about need no boundries created. They are not that important .
Mrs M n Mrs Law❤❤aah shem this was beautiful 🎉. As a Mrs...I'm proud to be one bcz of this episode! I wish I was d third one there...wldnt u have loved my Swati adding flavour to DT beautiful language of URS??? Invite me pls next time. I'm a believer of love n marriage!!!❤❤❤
Loving the narrative mara all i want to say is do not say u will never fight with your inlaws because they not your bloodline.. Other than that cheers to happy marriage 🎉
Your story is very similar to mine, my inlaws are evil... I don't talk to them anymore, it's been 2years now without seeing each other. I've heard enough of them bullying me and wanting to control my husband and our household
I love this podcast ❤have been married for 24 years and I'm 45.i have learnt a lot from you young ladies.frm Botswana ❤thank you
Congratulations sis! May God continue to bless your marriage❤❤.
So no one is going to talk about her beauty
I don’t think I can love a man enough to stay with a man who’s whole family hates me, it sounds soo draining. this lady is soo strong for that😢. I wish her the best
U and me both. It's draining
Duuude. An aunt if mine once asked when will I get married, I told her I don't think I'd be able too bcoz ngine nhliziyo eyicane, she said hai sesi it will be hard until your inhliziyo yakho ibe nkhulu. I was like yaa neh, not me 😮 I'm so sensitive angeke ngilunge sesi 😅
Duuude. An aunt of mine once asked when will I get married, I told her I don't think I'd be able too bcoz ngine nhliziyo eyicane, she said hai sesi it will be hard until your inhliziyo yakho ibe nkhulu. I was like yaa neh, not me 😮 I'm so sensitive angeke ngilunge sesi 😅 My sistas y'all are strong sham. May the Most High Keep giving you the strength you need to keep sane ❤
I think she's coping because the husband protects her until he doesn't then it will be too much
Yes but it's still draining my sister. That's why bare "okase kgone marena a 2"
Marry compatibility and companion =,100% happy marriage. Am happily married n we content. No third party no big egos. Hence happy my marriage. Love n self we that. Never fought...no sidekicks. I will come for interview
You are welcome please come
Please do! Would love to hear such positive stories ❤😊
Beautiful podcast. Marriage is so beautiful 🎉😊
My 4yrs relationship is exactly like that😊
This lady is in love...the confidence and assurance is make sure
Same thing happened to me, the minute I started standing up for myself I became an enemy. Yah people neh
Yep. Me too Sis
Can't wait to get married n give my husband the respect he deserves ❤ . Dear my future husband i think am ready now.....YES I DO🎉😊
Amen, let it be so
Am glad you stood your ground. The trauma that comes with enduring the abuse from in laws can be too much.
I don't believe marriage to be always bliss but unhappiness shouldn't be coming from your spouse, partners need to be fight against what life throws at them. There are happy marriages without cheating scandals
Agreed. We have living testimony of happy marriage without cheating scandals et c
I enjoyed this so much ladies. I hope mrs M and hubby move out of Virginia soon. I think it’ll help with their marriage so much. Mr M won’t have too much access to the family
Mrs M has such a beautiful skin tone ❤️🥰 gorgeous, gorgeous women!!
And a soothing voice, she is super articulate!
Listen you just retold my story. I believe that he has to be with family because they actually miss that home time it might hurt a tiny bit but the fact that he has your back is everything!
I lost all the nicesness, the so called love from in-laws because I stood my ground when I was bullied by my sisters inlaw! One sad thing about females they thrive in putting each other down! It’s so sad. I’ve been body shamed I’ve been told ke jisitse mo guy and that I’m a daughter of a witch heeehhh😂 bahlali! I’m still with my husband because he had and still has my back!
Kunzima guys! I don’t wish this even upon my worst enemy!
Bona wena hee o buwa story saka ke re the whole family ho tloha le ka bana ba teng but I stood my ground ka re you know what enough is enough luckily I come from a family e close and supportive ka itswarella ka bona and I became stronger Shame my husband have his own mistakes le ena e le motho but he’s super supportive and loving to me as his wife but ha ke sa rate ntho ha ke rate and I make it a point hore ya utlwahala 😂😂😂
My two favorites in one room. Love you both ladies ❤❤❤
Love women who know their stories. Love you guys ❤
This was a beautiful conversation. Thank you wives! Peace above all
I don't believe there is any bad marriage families need to stop interfering and their sons run their own families
“I don’t know if there’s such a thing as happily married somebody, because of the ups and downs - that is marriage, I believe in calling it a thriving marriage, we do have happy times 100%, and the happy times surpassed the bad times”
~Promise Makunyane
Love this perspective of the definition of marriage, Hopefully many people will learn something from this profound sentence, it is changing what we expect marriages to be 🔥🔥🔥
Soo refreshing,breath of fresh air.An episode that spoke positively about marriage.
This has to be the best podcast ever😭❤️❤️.... This one hour wasn't even enough... Your conversation was flowing so well and man you just got to love Mrs M there's just something about her ❤️❤️
When she said me and my husband over shared😭😭😭I felt it Ai but me and my husband also learnt to 🤐
I'm Namibian living in Sweden who luuuurve your podcast & follow, Promise. Can you please have English sub titles when you switch to your language❤.
Sorry i will
Thanks for this I also follow from Kenya the subtitle will do Soo well
Nice episode, am for wife’s thriving in their marriages. When is ndivhu T going to be interviewed? Am still waiting
I love u girls 😊...I love that u love ur husbands and ur marriages in ds times whr ppl are discouraged to get married.may ur marriages flourish and glorify God more and more
Looking up to you ladies ❤
The way I am so considerate how I speak with my man neh not him but everyone around me entlik, this podcast really made me say I must keep it up,and him the way he is so considerate about how he say things to me nd he wants me to be happy all the time. A tongue can break a lot of things neh am glad you both noticed your contributions nd u owning up well done mommies.
Love love her... she doesn't sell only the good side of marriage ❤
Actually that’s the best time to go for therapy, when both of you are happy and in a good place with each other.
Mrs M's sister in law reminds me of mine.. Lmao these people cannot even tell you why they do not like you..
They never have an explanation. Even if you call a meeting, they deny it😂😂😂😂😂
Promise is so beautiful 😍😍😍😍Yoh I can’t even concentrate.Love your podcast and the conversation it flows.
I fully disagree with there is no happily married. There definitely is disagreements dont mean you not happily married. Two different people doing life together definitely there will be disagreements
Made sure I sit down with my glass of wine when watch this. Thank you so much my beautiful ladies. 15 years married this year and I want 60 more years with the same man. We are not perfect but we are making it work. #marriage❤
Onething I love about you Promise is that you are a learner, you always give what people are looking for, may you strive and strive❤
Your experience is like you married for 10years 😢. I got married 6 months into relationship ❤
Mrs M looking all types of gorgeous😍
My mom's dynamic with her mother-in-law😂
Forgive and teachable spirit in your marriage. You will truly thrive❤️
Greetings from Kenya. I really love your show kindly translate in English whenever someone speaks your native language. Thanks in advance
Thank you, I will
Trust me as South Africans we also do🤨
Please...love from Namibia
If ur in law hate u and they will never like u no matter how hard ur try to be make the relationship
The day i get a man i will be my husband this my husband that gang .such a nice interview .
In the meantime..,My boyfriend this,my boyfriend that😊
A proper My husband this my husband that content 👌👌 bona op die kop! 😂❤ Ge rere "Kgoshi e mpushang" 😂😅❤
Can we have two episodes per week because wow! 🥰😍♥️
I grew up in that Mamazala and Rakgadi drama and it's hectic... I understand fully what she is talking about...even worse for my mom because papa ke moshala lapeng, waking up everyday in a house full of people who just hate you for no reason...a father in a polygamous marriage and the other wives being loved but not your mom #sigh but it is much better when your husband supports and loves you fully❤
Realeboga samma mmereko o mmotse o dirang ❤ ska hlephisha
Modimo ago okeletse 🙏🕯️.
The comments here praising this lady are scary- this lady found it okay that her husband got into a relationship with her whilst he was still hooking up with his baby mama, the husband tells you if you leave he will kill you, he has multiple baby mommas. So many red flags that people are ignoring. I get why this lady is accepting of these red-flags because her behavior screams semi-toxic. You don't risk getting a criminal record for the sake of not wanting to be disrespected.
Like who mentioned killing?😳something is wrong with you clearly your hearing and understanding is off I pity you
@Mrs_Motseoile she said it in Sotho.
5 years to come when she comes crying or she's dead that's when people will come back here and listen attentively. Bob the builder
@@Mrs_Motseoileshe said it. You just missed it family😂😂
@@nette2144I’m Mrs Motseoile darling you clearly have selective listening because I didn’t say that😂
Loved the conversation ❤ Promise Welldone I like that you even ask deeper/brutal questions 👏👏👏 big ups to that🔥
My life literally , hated just cos me and my husband love each other and we have 6 beautiful kids 😌
It is important to create your own Christmas tradition with your spouse and kids, there is a reason why you are married and have started a family. This thing of always going to mamazala's house is not so good because it means your kids are also going to be spending their Christmas holidays at your house with their spouse and not at their own homes or rotationally
I just watched this episode today, I am not married, but I am behind you ladies. We are fighting for the marriage 💯%, loving our husband's and giving them the respect they need 😊
This is the content we want. Married women 🔥 not negatives njalo🤷♂️
Mrs M is beautiful
Promise is so pretty, yooh!❤
I love both you ladies...i see a very good friendship there❤❤❤
I can't believe that this things are still happening. Our mothers tell these stories...now we are telling these stories.
Imagine this family is very toxic and the husband is not protecting her at all
I've devorced mine after 25 years of narcissistic marriage with his family alongside. I took my sister in-law to court after a mpitse moloi ha ka😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is my second favourite episode. I love love you both💅🌸‼️
It's interesting how Promise always assumes that people who are not married are problematic. When this lady said her sister-in-law is problematic, she automatically assumed the sister is not married. And she always says OH, when she realized she married. It's weird. It's not the 1st time she does it.
No, I thinks she wanted to understand cause I’m sure they’re certain things you can’t inflict on a fellow married women.
I don't think she meant it in a bad way but it's really strange & painful to be troubled by someone who knows the dynamics of marriage. Wives kinder understand when someone that has never been married hlokoloza u cos most don't understand boundaries and what is expected from them.
I understand her, in most instances unmarried sis in laws are always the problem, boils down to Jelousy
This was so beautiful to watch ❤
I understand it's a convo but promise needs to give her guest spotlight to talk freely without interfering she's cut Mrs M so many times
I hope that the engaged lady wasn't paid lobola for. Because if so, she is the legal wife. 👀 I hope. And please check properly on that aspect 🙏
Relax
Three times Promise asked the question 'Are you not scared that it will happen to you too?'
Because it will happen.
@@phutimadibana9224Exactly!!
Yhoooo bathong.
29 year old wa batho oratile lenyalo. Kore in-law drama, baby mama drama on a police officer salary?…I hope this husband knows he’s found a ride or die for real.
That’s what happens when you don’t marry out of poverty and don’t rely on one salary
😂😂😂😂😂
That's why many people divorce. They put money first, something that comes and go. No matter how much money you have, it'll never be enough. Leave that mentality or else you will end up with everyone looking for a bigger bag.
@@Mrs_Motseoile Honestly😭😭😭😭
There is a lot of emotional and psychological poverty here, so some financial abundance would have balanced the scales a bit☺️
Good that you stood up for yourself
Mrs Law an Mrs M my two faves❤❤❤❤
Promise o montle batho.
Enjoying this podcast❤
Oh I enjoyed the show,thank you ladies ❤
Wow this lady with a green dress is flawless 🔥🔥 This marriage is full of drama!! May you guys outgrow it one day cause i don’t see a forever with so much negativity surrounding the marriage
Owww promise is so cute and funny 😊❤
I am learning so much from your perspectives. ❤
Yoh this story sa Mrs M is similar to mine when it comes to in-laws..
Same here my dear
Same here yazi one day we need to meet and just cry 😫😫
I love you so much ladies❤❤our tribe,bo my husband this my husband that.
Wholesome conversation ❤
I love you my ladies❤❤❤❤yoh This conversation is so deep and helpful. Big ups Mrs M🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤😊
I'm watching this and some of the things being said here.....make me realize just how blessed I am to have the makoti that I have.....😇🙏
I'm looking forward to welcoming my daughter in law in the near future. God willing.
I love the honesty ❤
Watching from Kenya . Please translate when you switch languages. Much love.
My favourite people…Mrs M and Mrs Law🎉
This was a cute conversation, you should have more of these kinds❤
I'm not a podcast fan but I had to watch this one❤️😍. I love you ladies
When Promise said "What is kopa" this reminds me of my mom and my husband 😂😂😂. My mom ke Mosotho and Hubby ke Mopedi, he would say "What is qoba?" (Avoid) hearing it from my mom 😂😂😂.. Those 2 likes talking but hardly understands each other and I should be the translator😂😂😂
😂that's nice and funny conversation rite there
ladies thank you, you building me, as makoti it's true we striving but spiritually I wanna grow with hubby. Am reflecting a lot on being better better Wifey
Ahhh my faves, this was so beautiful to watch ❤️❤️❤️
I mostly create boundries for those that I care about so there are no grey areas, to preserve and maintain healthy relations with those that are dear to me. My 2c opinion is those that I don't really care about need no boundries created. They are not that important .
I love it here❤when love wins
I enjoyed watching this episode. May God send me a husband hle🥰
Wow! I learned a thing or two❤
Mrs M n Mrs Law❤❤aah shem this was beautiful 🎉. As a Mrs...I'm proud to be one bcz of this episode! I wish I was d third one there...wldnt u have loved my Swati adding flavour to DT beautiful language of URS??? Invite me pls next time. I'm a believer of love n marriage!!!❤❤❤
Beautiful ladies 👌The background also bright and beautiful ❤
I am a Pastor and would love toI be a guest on your show to talk about marriage.
Foundation of Marriage verses the unity in marriage
I love it here❤, thank you Mami
😂😂😂yoooo I can't beg people... I hope God gives me the strength to be as strong as the guest 😅
Loving the narrative mara all i want to say is do not say u will never fight with your inlaws because they not your bloodline.. Other than that cheers to happy marriage 🎉
That... Bathong... Kills me😂😂😂😂
Enjoyed the interview ❤
The way I relate to Mrs M marriage 😢at the age of 28.
Loved this conversation ladies
Wow beautiful conversation..
I really enjoyed this talk❤
Danm shes tough! 3 different baby momas
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Your story is very similar to mine, my inlaws are evil... I don't talk to them anymore, it's been 2years now without seeing each other. I've heard enough of them bullying me
and wanting to control my husband and our household
I enjoyed!!
❤❤❤What a beautiful episode ❤
I don't to be disrespected in the process 😢I love that ❤
Loving the conversation
Ya no inlaws are a problem. Its never the men from the in laws, its always women 💔
Mrs M n Mrs Law ❤❤❤❤