Ep 5 | Gentle Giant on Giving love a chance & believing in love after Divorce. “Be a marshmallow”

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  • Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024

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  • @madams___speaker
    @madams___speaker  7 месяцев назад +6

    Here’s Just Ketso’s Episode warning people against the smooth talking of the gentle giant after he scammed and blocked her : ruclips.net/video/aOIrwsZni2w/видео.htmlsi=Jf1ohupJ4LWgX1Ou

    • @thabsilemanana6484
      @thabsilemanana6484 7 месяцев назад +3

      You know what I love you maan 😂you make life easy

    • @glamforte6944
      @glamforte6944 7 месяцев назад +1

      Hawu sesiyam jikela njalo😂😂😂😂

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  7 месяцев назад +1

      @@glamforte6944😂😂😂😂😂 just like that

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  7 месяцев назад

      @@thabsilemanana6484you’re welcome 😂😂😂❤❤❤

    • @gwendolinemathebula6763
      @gwendolinemathebula6763 7 месяцев назад

      Proud of you brother

  • @fhatuwanirammese7840
    @fhatuwanirammese7840 7 месяцев назад +38

    My boyfriend brought me here 😊 and I'm glad he did, means he also watched this and i cannot wait to see what the future has in store for us ❤

  • @koketsomaake9133
    @koketsomaake9133 7 месяцев назад +15

    I quote "Let man love you and submit to that" beautiful❤❤

  • @miteamatsheka5655
    @miteamatsheka5655 5 месяцев назад +6

    One thing I love about my husband is he protects me from his family,they know not to disrespect me bcoz he will not allow it.

  • @khosingcobo46
    @khosingcobo46 7 месяцев назад +53

    I believe in love, and I'm trusting God to lead me to my future husband soon. Gently Gaint, I wish there's still men like you out there.

  • @mulaloratsiku6533
    @mulaloratsiku6533 7 месяцев назад +12

    I like his honesty. I wasn't there to protect my wife. His next marriage will work out for his good because he learned from his mistakes ❤❤❤

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 6 месяцев назад +9

    Will like to see more men talking about marriage or divorce.

  • @livhuwaninenungwi2565
    @livhuwaninenungwi2565 7 месяцев назад +9

    Did i not cry, love is indeed beautiful and kind. I will forever let a man chase me, submit to a man that loves and shows me affection.

  • @andiswamata8710
    @andiswamata8710 Месяц назад +1

    Love really is a beautiful thing, I will never stop loving no matter how many times I get disappointed.

  • @helennyamutsamba2977
    @helennyamutsamba2977 7 месяцев назад +5

    This man understand Love and what lLoving is All about..

  • @marthanhole2525
    @marthanhole2525 7 месяцев назад +7

    I won't stop loving until I get that person who knows how to love me,more especially after being loved you will know is the feeling that you can't resist.

  • @ThuliMashinini
    @ThuliMashinini 7 месяцев назад +17

    I got married 2017 and we separated in 2019 my ex hubby failed to protect me our marriage because of our families. I'm learning and working on myself and love is beautiful ❤

  • @nontokozononjabulo450
    @nontokozononjabulo450 7 месяцев назад +24

    I can't believe that how healing this is. Thank you to the both of you for allowing God to use you to heal our hearts. Thank you once again ❤️

  • @Dklady
    @Dklady 7 месяцев назад +9

    You two look good together.
    I feel sometimes we hide behind the word "accountability" to show responsibility while blaming the other person.

  • @valentinehlatswayo4982
    @valentinehlatswayo4982 7 месяцев назад +15

    This interview is giving hope to believe in love yet again. 🤔🔥

  • @LungeloTjatji
    @LungeloTjatji 7 месяцев назад +4

    Very rarely do we come across a man who's self-aware and advocates for women so well. Madam Speaker, I appreciate how authentic you are.

  • @Bongiwemokoena
    @Bongiwemokoena 7 месяцев назад +8

    when we ask for houses we are called gold diggers.

  • @amandabongekile2375
    @amandabongekile2375 7 месяцев назад +3

    The most beautiful thing I've seen on the internet today : A beacon of hope for love😍🙌❤️

  • @sithembilemntambo8119
    @sithembilemntambo8119 7 месяцев назад +7

    The Podcast was done at 9min - parents have such a huge impact on the love language we learn !!!! awesome awesome

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  7 месяцев назад +2

      Done 🙌

    • @sithembilemntambo8119
      @sithembilemntambo8119 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@madams___speaker thank you for having him , indeed insight full and adds on to everything you are about !!!

  • @user-ip2de8xw9r
    @user-ip2de8xw9r 7 месяцев назад +5

    How i wish the father of my kids can watch this episode or meet this man and have a little chat 🤪

  • @tumelomoeketsi5949
    @tumelomoeketsi5949 7 месяцев назад +8

    Oohhh wow this guy madam speaker i like the way he talks about love❤...he makes you want to fall inlove again😊😊

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  7 месяцев назад

      There’s still hope for the hopeless in love 😅❤

    • @pmo6899
      @pmo6899 7 месяцев назад

      Thank you Madam Speaker. We learned a lot. All of the best for this year for the both of you

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  7 месяцев назад

      @@pmo6899 thank you so much my darling ❤️❤️❤️

  • @boipheto16
    @boipheto16 7 месяцев назад +5

    Gentle Giant wow....❤❤ u hv worked hard to be a great man. May God bless u. May u continue to bless others.

  • @QueenFlo
    @QueenFlo 7 месяцев назад +7

    This guy is so me❤
    I was nearly killed by my baby daddy, but I still believe in love❤.
    So wish I can invite the world the day I will be getting married. I believe that men are not the same. Love is beautiful

  • @kwakha6103
    @kwakha6103 7 месяцев назад +4

    No words, just gratitude and learnings ❤

  • @mphomphonyana4279
    @mphomphonyana4279 7 месяцев назад +7

    Gentle Giant you've gained your self a follower, thank you so much Madam Speaker.. Love is patient ❤

  • @modiehipane7298
    @modiehipane7298 7 месяцев назад +4

    I wanna experience that kind of love🥰. I want to draw hearts on the floor🤣

  • @user-kz8hb8yh3d
    @user-kz8hb8yh3d 7 месяцев назад +2

    Chuuu.😂😂the presenters conment after the speaker always.
    Love is a beautiful thing indeed

  • @Itss_your_girl_bk
    @Itss_your_girl_bk 7 месяцев назад +8

    I honestly enjoyed this interview.I have already given up on love,but with this interview I have regained trust in love again.Thanks to this guy.He is truly a gentle giant

  • @user-rf3go6kl5l
    @user-rf3go6kl5l 7 месяцев назад +6

    I am experiencing the same thing in my marriage and now it's falling apart because my husband stands with his family and swear at me, though he is the wrong person in that situation😭😭. I pray I get someone like this guy who did these things to his wife and saw his mistakes, and someone who grew up from a home with both parents who loves each other cause yoh xem I don't wanna lie my soon to be ex husband is from a single parent up bringing and he doesn't want to experience different things from what he grew up. If you guys you want to get married watch this video and prepare your mind.

  • @maipelobaliki8382
    @maipelobaliki8382 7 месяцев назад +13

    The combination is so good , calm. Be do another one there are so many topics to touch on both married and single life❤. Thank you

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  7 месяцев назад +2

      I enjoyed this episode myself. You’re welcome 😇

  • @DeliciouskFoodSA
    @DeliciouskFoodSA 7 месяцев назад +17

    Is this not Madam speaker’s husband to be?🤔🤔. Why am I feeling butterflies in my heart 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️🤣

  • @justinashoopala5463
    @justinashoopala5463 5 месяцев назад +1

    i love this conversation ten times hundred. it gives hope.🥰😇

  • @GetrudeNdamu
    @GetrudeNdamu 7 месяцев назад +5

    It's completely normal to want to explore new possibilities and seek happiness in different ways. Just make sure to take the time to reflect on your past relationship and understand what you're looking for in a new one. It's important to approach new relationships with an open heart and clear mind. ❤what a fruitful podcast🥺

  • @boitumeloratshefola2508
    @boitumeloratshefola2508 7 месяцев назад +5

    I must say this interview was very educational for me... married bt I still learned a lot of things that will make me improve the way I view things.Thank u sooooo much Madam speaker

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  7 месяцев назад

      I’m so glad. You’re most welcome ❤️

  • @oarabileemmanuel6641
    @oarabileemmanuel6641 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love this man, woman submit to the love a man give.

  • @mwmwaniki
    @mwmwaniki 6 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤we all need this because it’s the missing puzzle in many homes. I feel very good to hear this from a man. Gentle Giant you need a big hug from all women out there. God richly blessed you

  • @sibongisenisakhele3114
    @sibongisenisakhele3114 2 месяца назад

    This is an invaluable conversation. Thank you Madam Speaker and team. Well done!

  • @mbalikubheka477
    @mbalikubheka477 5 месяцев назад

    You know I would always read about “expectation” but it wasn’t as deep as it was when just on Wednesday I came across "Expectation feeds frustration.
    It is an unhealthy attachment to people, things, and outcomes we wish we could control; but don't." It hit so hard I actually felt my heart snap like it was letting go of all the control…it felt amazing to be free and not anxious about what the future might hold…thank you for this episode ❤

  • @helennyamutsamba2977
    @helennyamutsamba2977 7 месяцев назад +2

    Yes I do agree with you that Love is a Beautiful feeling, and it is an Excellent Feeling to know that You Love someone and You are Loved...

  • @Maria-yp6le
    @Maria-yp6le 7 месяцев назад +3

    37:57 When wisdom speaks I listen😊

  • @user-db9rq2sp1g
    @user-db9rq2sp1g 7 месяцев назад +3

    The level of EQ here is soooo remarkable ☺️☺️ I loved this interview, learned a lot

  • @kamogelotsepetsi9653
    @kamogelotsepetsi9653 7 месяцев назад +4

    Tell me why I found myself sobbing while watched this because I just realised that in order for one to grow and believe in love again it really takes patience and hard work.😭😭😩😩
    Madam Speaker thank you so much for this interview.
    I needed to hear this.
    😩❤️😭

  • @TShudaa
    @TShudaa 7 месяцев назад +18

    If no one is falling in love after this, stubbornness is our reality😄

  • @Thelotus2020
    @Thelotus2020 21 день назад

    An uneasy feeling about this guest not connecting , but I love this conversation.

  • @matlalemabotha2684
    @matlalemabotha2684 7 месяцев назад +2

    What a beautiful conversation

  • @ameytheistZadkiel
    @ameytheistZadkiel 7 месяцев назад +1

    At first i thought ahe was rustic for me but Gentle Giant❤ you have changed my mind to see her as a gleam of hope spring out there for the rainbow. Cheers to blackness bold fearless and joyful.nshe has a follower.🥂👯💃🎉😇🙏

  • @tshegofatsoaphane175
    @tshegofatsoaphane175 7 месяцев назад +2

    Love is beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Thank you Gentle Giant.
    Love is patient and kind

  • @nonkumonkoe
    @nonkumonkoe 7 месяцев назад +1

    Like it when Madam speaker blushes 😊

  • @sbongilemokwai2027
    @sbongilemokwai2027 7 месяцев назад +4

    I am motivated by the gentle giant , I am divorced n since then I was scared to be in love again but after listening to ur interview the hard rock has been broken please invite him again

  • @yaneliswakhoza5901
    @yaneliswakhoza5901 7 месяцев назад +7

    Okay madam speaker y'all are a match ke ❤❤😂😂

    • @ladyb5843
      @ladyb5843 7 месяцев назад

      Lenna ka ba bona😅

  • @Blacklist_Entertainment
    @Blacklist_Entertainment 7 месяцев назад +2

    Loved the flow of this conversation ❤

  • @dianaushona5896
    @dianaushona5896 6 месяцев назад +2

    😅😅😅 Madam Speaker Melt......Namibia ❤

  • @bongiswaponti-ll6dk
    @bongiswaponti-ll6dk 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks guys for this interview my marriage from the beginning there was love in the middle things changed I did understand why we end up in divorce and I thank God coz I told my self that I will meet my soul mate I trust God and I'm proud of my self I know what I deserve ❤I'm healed I don't wanna to lie and I still speak with my ex husband and i wish he get someone to fill the space I never fill .he failed me to a point where by almost lose my life ladies be strong we will overcome

  • @Sinesipho94
    @Sinesipho94 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you bhuti, best believe you me I believe every word you're saying. My mom once said to me "Mntanam xa unotshata andisoze ndikwaz ukuthi kuwe nyamezela Kuba Nam andikaz ukunyamezela"
    I know n believe in love cz that's what's my parents showed n gave to me. Enkosi tata ngokungqina ba asekhona amadoda afuna ukuthanda nokunikeza uthando. You're the second man after my father to make me believe n trust God for loving husband... Damn love is beautiful, love is excellent I mean love is all.

  • @tshepisompala2236
    @tshepisompala2236 7 месяцев назад +2

    CEO of self love beautiful conversation ❤! You're literally incredible!❤
    This generation is blessed to have such platforms

  • @Grow_with_Paballo
    @Grow_with_Paballo 7 месяцев назад +7

    “Are you hitting on me on camera?“ 😂😂

  • @christieultd
    @christieultd 7 месяцев назад +4

    Thank u for the interview Madam Speaker. Thumbs up to Gentle Giant. This is deep and true. I can relate. I am inspired.❤❤❤

  • @sparrow62210
    @sparrow62210 7 месяцев назад +8

    Not me wanting to fall in love with someone's s child after promising myself that i will never ever date or marry again.This episode got to me, my heart of stone is no more 😂

  • @tshegofatsomngomezulu9574
    @tshegofatsomngomezulu9574 7 месяцев назад +1

    The standards post divorce are you knowing your worth!Yes someone will meet the standard!Gentle giant is one of the wisest males I have heard speak on the topic!Very realistic!Mens conference is crucial cause yey man are broken langaphandle.Then we need a womens conference cause is kuningi ❤

  • @BoipeloBrendaMakgale
    @BoipeloBrendaMakgale 11 дней назад

    Madam Speaker n Gentle Giant ..love u for each other..😘😘🥰🤦

  • @thatomaje6064
    @thatomaje6064 Месяц назад

    Mr you are on point, the main reason why relationship fails is that women throw themselves to men they force love.

  • @user-rw2ym3ee2f
    @user-rw2ym3ee2f 7 месяцев назад +2

    Gentle giant, i have heard. Not that I did not know, but this conversation👌

  • @bhekisilentobedzi690
    @bhekisilentobedzi690 7 месяцев назад +1

    We have the right guy here,Madam Speaker Melt😅,such a remarkable interview I learnt quite a lot,Thank you

  • @leratoleelove5605
    @leratoleelove5605 7 месяцев назад +1

    He knows how to talk to the soul. ❤

  • @twinnei1966
    @twinnei1966 7 месяцев назад +6

    I thoroughly enjoyed this interview ❤

  • @Kamo27944
    @Kamo27944 7 месяцев назад +2

    This interview is so healing ❤

  • @victorianemavhulani2519
    @victorianemavhulani2519 7 месяцев назад +1

    Confession time i never listened to ur ticktock videos i used to think they to long however with podcast i am so in love with you , ur presenting skills are remarkable❤❤❤❤may God bless u as ur viewers increase🎉

  • @user-bq7oo6st3v
    @user-bq7oo6st3v 7 месяцев назад +3

    Wow ❤❤❤I'm in love with everything,hence I believe in love nomatter how hurt I can be,I will never stop to try again

  • @user-vj7bd9jp6l
    @user-vj7bd9jp6l 7 месяцев назад +1

    I have that feeling uri hoyu ndi mukwasha to be ❤

  • @Drip3657
    @Drip3657 7 месяцев назад +4

    Shem but this guy is spitting facts about love, just that we too broken to believe such exists. The issue then remains, is he really what he speaks.

  • @carolinemolope3046
    @carolinemolope3046 7 месяцев назад +1

    Love is indeed a beautiful thing ❤️.I sense some electricity between Gentle Giant and Madam Speaker😊

  • @Ref_dilika
    @Ref_dilika 7 месяцев назад +1

    Lol madam speaker is blushing 🎉 5min of the conversation, luv the content though.

  • @SphiweMotsoene
    @SphiweMotsoene 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank You for this some of Us needed to hear this. I'm at a better place and a better man from the Dark corner I was in

  • @phumziledebby
    @phumziledebby 7 месяцев назад +1

    Now this was beautiful to watch❤

  • @claudiandlovu9208
    @claudiandlovu9208 6 месяцев назад

    Took me out when you said "taken for granted?"😂😂😂 Madame! uStout

  • @Tsidyannamohapi2381
    @Tsidyannamohapi2381 7 месяцев назад +1

    Compliments of the season my sister and our special guest the Gentle Giant.

  • @patiencetinyikophaweni5379
    @patiencetinyikophaweni5379 7 месяцев назад

    Amazing & for me hearing "the Gentle giant",affirm that..."How can you expect another person to love if themselve have never been loved"?....Amen

  • @lesedimolepo9429
    @lesedimolepo9429 7 месяцев назад +3

    Madam speaker is crushing haaaarrrd 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mushavhanamadilusani1246
    @mushavhanamadilusani1246 7 месяцев назад +1

    I have never seeen Madam speaker so speechless😂❤… urgh!

  • @spm9130
    @spm9130 7 месяцев назад +4

    I love being in love with, but I am afraid of marriage after the bad experience I had with my ex. I feel like people are no longer genuine and honest with themselves and their loved ones. Love and what it means, needs to be unpacked and understood correctly. Otherwise we’re all dead meat one day 😅

  • @boitumelomangwegape2435
    @boitumelomangwegape2435 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wow Gentle Giant……the protection of your wife that is exactly what broke my marriage 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @buyisileradebe8108
    @buyisileradebe8108 7 месяцев назад +1

    I've learned so much ❤Thank you.

  • @zukiswampalweni207
    @zukiswampalweni207 Месяц назад

    This reminds me of my hubby. He chooses to love me every day with my flaws.

  • @nobuhledlamini2748
    @nobuhledlamini2748 7 месяцев назад +5

    Not me smiling within 2 mins of listening...😊

  • @khensanebaloyi6835
    @khensanebaloyi6835 7 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful interview ❤️❤️❤️

  • @phomolosefala4341
    @phomolosefala4341 7 месяцев назад +1

    I just love you Madam Speaker

  • @sthamthimkhulu2894
    @sthamthimkhulu2894 7 месяцев назад +1

    Shame baku charmile, 10 nil, nama questions vanished My Leader 🙀🤣. Thanks for introducing us to the Gentle Giant and awesome content as always

  • @Sukoluhle88
    @Sukoluhle88 7 месяцев назад +2

    I'm also someone that believes without loves, you an empty vessel. But before giving out love, I study the man first.

  • @MatinettEdnaTshisano
    @MatinettEdnaTshisano 7 месяцев назад

    Love is truly a beautiful ❤God is love ,love is God .”Without love u an empty promise “

  • @fundimbatha1748
    @fundimbatha1748 7 месяцев назад +3

    Great discussion. This guy needs to start a podcast..

  • @nhlanhlasibanyoni7820
    @nhlanhlasibanyoni7820 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow i wish a lot of men and can see this before they lose everything

  • @ritagwangwa1199
    @ritagwangwa1199 7 месяцев назад +1

    Loved this so much! 🥹❤️😭

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 7 месяцев назад +2

    Love this conversation

  • @mnisi_sindile
    @mnisi_sindile 6 месяцев назад +1

    Now I'm here to just laugh 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tibuCooks
    @tibuCooks 7 месяцев назад +9

    Who's from JustKoketso's interview?😅😅😂

  • @OpenfloorbyTima
    @OpenfloorbyTima 7 месяцев назад

    Listennnnnn! I was glued to this episode like a baby glued to her mother😊..yooooo!! I was melting the whole time but I shared your sentiment as well madam speaker😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

  • @auntyb4130
    @auntyb4130 7 месяцев назад +6

    For men its easy to move on,maybe its by design but for women, the wall is too high and we get in self protective mode.........

  • @Layton86
    @Layton86 7 месяцев назад +2

    Depends on ones definition of ❤️ . Some of us loved to the tee but she still left. I guess our love language was parallel

  • @user-lh7eh8mh6q
    @user-lh7eh8mh6q 7 месяцев назад

    That is true My brother Woman they don’t love them selves they don’t value themselves 🤞. Ladies llets change how we do things 🙏

  • @thatorasutho9161
    @thatorasutho9161 7 месяцев назад

    I learn alot as a divorcee from conversations. What an eye opener for me. On my next marrige whn god bless me again .i will use some tools .tnx Madam❤