HOW TO LIE LIKE A PRO
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- Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024
- Research shows we are born liars, but we don't naturally become expert liars so many are easily caught. But lying can be improved with practice and skill. Here are top tips to deceive people according to expert liars. This information is to help you detect lies, not to practice it yourself. Honestly.
Lie ethically.
This is also known as paltering. It is the third kind of lie after omission, which is revealing only partial truth, and commission-which is telling something that isnt. Politicians call it the ethical lie, because it is a way of getting away from hard questions by giving out other facts, instead of actually answering the question itself. For example, a reporter asks a politician - if he is involved with corruption. The senator answers "I am not a part of any illegal financial deals". But the truth is he was involved with a shady transaction a few months ago, but technically he isnt when is answered the question.
Believe your lies.
You can never make a good lie if you don't believe it. Good liars enjoy the process of lying and thus watching people play their games. On the other hand bad liars wanna get over the lie as soon as possible as not to get caught, because They feel uncomfortable saying something that is against their belief. In the end they are caught because they cannot conceal being uneasy.
Base it on truth.
It is much easier for a person to believe something that could actually happen, both for the liar and the one being lied to. For example you want to extend your week-end so you file for a leave on a friday. So if youre wearing correctional glasses you might text to your boss saying "I cant go today because my glasses are broken and I cant see anything until its fixed". if youre lucky and your boss is caught by surprise and gullible enough you might get away with a lie that is quite reasonable and easy to remember.
Keep it simple.
Do not give unnecessary details. If you woke up late and you wanna lie about a broken tire, do not include how it happened and how pissed you were. Bad liars are caught because they exhibit abnormal behaviors. While expert liars tell lies while showing normal behavior.
Tell a cold lie.
Inexperienced liars tend to act abnormally and over act by being fidgety, over smiling, and doing unnecessary gestures. If you think youre a bad liar and you wanna look confident, act detached - so if you over act you can leave a small room for error so you would still look normal.
Closeness.
When we lie we want to distance ourselves away from the person we are deceiving because we feel uncomfortable and uneasy. This behavior is often noticeable when we are lying to a friend or romantic partner, who we are usually physically close with and touch intimately. So if you wanna appear believable, maintain physical closeness or be touchy as you would normally do.
Lie Management.
Only lie when it is necessary and you have something to gain. This is how to manage your lies. Lie less so you can remember which ones to keep. This is how you maintain consistency. Bad liars are caught because they commit inconsistencies with their stories. This happens when they tell a lie to too many people. Only share the lie to someone when it's really important and you have something to gain from it.
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What I do is act like a bad liar on the simplest things that aren't that big of a deal. My mother thinks I'm a horrible liar; so if I actually needed to lie then I can more easily do so.
That sounds sinister.
I thought I was the only one! If I do something minor I tend lie about it horribly causing people to think I'm bad at lying when in reality I just lied to them last week about something major and they didn't even notice
Lol same
Achromatopsium I thought I was the only one 🤣
Yep that's true, a lot of people say they are bad liars, but I doubt more than half of them are really are as bad as they say they are.
The key to lying is lowkey believing yourself that you're telling the truth
Tiger and Bear After revisiting this video after a year, yeah this works, but for me personally I’ve come to a standstill where I no longer understand my own opinion on things because it’s mixed up in all my fake “personas”
I can’t actually have a yes or no answer for most things as I’m constantly switching between the two, so when I ask myself what I myself actually think about it and not what other people think, I become confused, wavering between both, but unable to reach a conclusion.
Margaret Thatcher i know exactly what you mean. not to make this awkwardly deep but i don’t even know who i am anymore. i really am like a whole different person everywhere i am. whether i’m at school, home, or in my own head.
to sell anything to anybody you need to sell it to yourself first, if you buy it, they'll buy it
natalie marie i feel the exact same way omg
@@margaretthatcher8246 as an amateur actor I've been learning how to act and feel like a different person. And as I'm improving, I'm realising how my personality aswell is much thinner than I thought and felt it was. I have a stable personality, but I also feel like I can change something in it for a very short time and be totally okay with it.
Let’s be honest. This wasn’t in your recommended. You looked it up.
fine fine fine you caught me
Nah bro. I watched another video about this topic and then I got this recommendation.
watched a different video on a similar topic then got recommended this
You got me
Ah snap
1. Believe in your lie, no matter what. Your lie becomes your truth.
2. Try to act casual, like you normally do
3.Don’t lie too much, keep your story short and simple. Don’t share with as many people as you can.
4. STICK TO YOUR STORY AND DON’T CHANGE IT
you missed some tho.... ;)
@@AfterschoolPsychology I know, I’m just saying what I knew before I watched.
@@AfterschoolPsychology the video missed some good strategies as well.
I should send this to Amber Heard
@@MetAlcboy*sigh*
As a compulsive liar, I found this very helpful.
Glad you find it useful
How do we know your telling the truth.....
@@danielgant4373 i am a liar.
Wait a fucking minute
Hold up-
We all lie but politicians has turned it into to a living🙂 Great content👍
And a very lucrative one :) Thanks!
Indeed:)
O was expecting these to be the "expert liers"
@Jagger Wilkins its true and karen isnt even a good insult
@Jagger Wilkins fortnite fortnite we love fortnite
Red: Are you the impostor?
Blue: I wasn’t using vents.
Thats why im here xddd
Lmao 😂
Purple: good enough, let’s vote red
Lol
😂🤣
"To lie to someone You need to lie to yourself and belive what You said even tho You know you're lieing "
It’s true
But I'm not lying
I watched this in case I had any flaws that could possibly get me caught. Turns out I already do all these things.
Good for you mate, dont know if I should say keep it up :)
you're lying!
When you watch this and realize your already a pro lier ._.
I have been doing all these things sense 4th grade just do what you normally do and act natural Easy
@@Jh1lls *since (other people where doing it)
@@dylancolon9756 you just said we are, the correction would be *were
Dylan Colón you look mad dumb rn
@@DEXDOfficial Forgot period :)
And what if you get caught in a lie? Tell a bigger lie.
No you tell a huge lie then you tell the small one
Its the fish and shoe analogy
give in. admit theyve caught you. save the denial for bigger lies
Keep telling lies until it ends
Video: How to lie like a pro
People who grew up with super strict parents: *We don't even have to try*
add expert planning into that and you are *unstoppable*
Its in my blood~
So true
I have strict parents and I’m still watching this video in order to try and improve my game.
@@justsomeguy6240 yes, we need extra caution
I’m already smooth, I just want to be smoother.
I’m already slick, I just want to be slicker.
Him:I can't come to work my glasses are broken and I can't see. Boss:How did you text me if you can't see the keyboard?
"Magic"
Karvack because I used the voice keyboard
I asked someone to write it for me
He asked Siri to do it for him and then he had fun with Siri
I memorized the keys lol
I'm in the middle sometimes I can get away with lies but sometimes I start shaking so I tell the truth instead .-.
Same here, thats why its important to think as if you're telling the truth
Me too help
Weird.I can get away with lying no shaking or anything 9/10 times
I'm too lazy and I usually tell the truth directly. However I find people who know how to lie always more succesful than people who tell the truth only. I guess being lazy about learning how to do these weird skills has its drawbacks.
it is okay to lie constantly as long a you keep track of them and make the lies flow normally
well put, people are caught lying because they cant keep track of small details
among us player: *oh yeah, and it’s all coming together*
Lying is an art that can be used as weapon. Just like a sword, it may fool you with the appearance but when it strikes in your skin, it is painful just like how truth hurts you. With the art of lying, you can escape through anything, you can deceive anyone, you can go anywhere but be cautious for when you aren't careful enough, you will be exposed to three feelings; guilt, shame and fear of getting caught. It's just a matter of decision 😏
**immediately deletes video from history**
*system recovers deleted data
@@AfterschoolPsychology I've been exposed
pov:u have strict parents
For me lying is all about the time spent on the people lying, and upholding the lie.
So If I were to meet someone, I would set in stone my personality with them but slightly tweak it when near them to benefit lies depending on how I like or dislike the person.
So here is an example, if I met Bob and my personality was very depressing or sad, Bob might want to help me more, so I will tweak my personality to seem more stable and happy so he doesn't bother me, but to do this, you have to uphold it constantly believing that, that is your personality near Bob.
Another example involving Bob, If I wanted to set a backup plan for him then I would lie but make it easier for them to detect the lie, whilst also associating an action to when I lie, like excessive blinking or to much of a smile, to slight tweaks in my personality. So If I ever get in a situation where Bob finds out about how much I lie and starts to not believe a word I say, I will quickly switch to the truth and then blink excessively etc, as a sign of me lying, so he feels as if what I said was untrue.
Example for this would be, Bob finds out that I lie about most everything, he doesn't believe a word I say, now lets say I didn't want him to find out im gay (this is an extreme example because you would have to lie every other word for him to not believe that you are actually coming out) as soon as I start to realise a pattern of him not believing me, I will tell him "Bob Im gay" with a smile and act like I want attention, now lets assume that Bob, now assumes that I do want attention and he responds with "No I don't think you are gay, I think you're straight and are trying to get attention, or earn some sympathy" Then I start to tell the truth more often doing the slight cue that I am lying.
In a situation where Bob finds out that i'm feigning my excessive blinking etc, In a ditch attempt you try and regain his trust by acting sorry, doing that cue less, and overall trying to build the relation back up, but don't forget to actually give reason to why you were lying (and then while giving reason you lie but without a cue) such as "I just didn't want to hurt you" or something.
And although it is true that you should try and stay close to someone like in the video, don't go overboard, if anything lying is drawn out and requires practice, these are just the points I can describe when I lie, as I don't know how to describe my facial movements and slight psychological changes to lie.
Garfield Vevo oh yeah yeah
@@ElexisStacy oh yeah yeah
I hate lying but must do it this time.
Also just adding, I don't lie to hurt people, I lie for fun, because I like seeing whether or not the person knows if im lying owo
@@margaretthatcher8246
Don't lie
Truth leads to heaven
And Lies leads to hell
my absolute favorite technique is to disclose something slightly embarassing that normally no one would offer up if it weren't true. also to use more specific numbers and times
Now you're talking.. nice technique!
@@AfterschoolPsychology hahah if you're a seinfeld fan george provides unlimited inspiration, hilarious
0:27 were actually not born liars, it’s a skill we start developing at around age 3-4 I think, that’s the first time children start exhibiting untruthfulness
I told my mom I’m sick when I just don’t want to take Midterms for Algebra. Actually it was harder than that I had to fake puke (3 times) I didn’t lie though I said my stomach hurts and it does because this house smells like the inside of a Ferbreze can and I said to her ‘Do you really think I would lie about this?’ So I technically didn’t lie at all. Other than the puking part.
I’m watching this so I can expose liars if I ever need to, but then again we all have to lie sometimes.
Instructions unclear, accidentally fell into a black hole from another universe
subscribing just to see if you can make it
After School Curiosity thanks so much 😊
I just broke a clock aaand yeah hi I’m here
It's been a year, did you get caught ?
update?
@@ronweasleyop1858 i just told the truth and my grandparents were hella mad at me because my grandfather got it as a gift
@@sstass0 sounds like you didnt lie. not saying its good but if you ever have a cat or a neighbour has a cat or another pet ig you could try from there. my neighbours cat sometimes comes in my house
RandomPerson hahahaha bruh. No i just cant lie and my anger issues take over so cant do anything about it
I’m a somewhat good liar, but sometimes when the other people actually believe my story, I can’t help but laugh so I kind of have to immediately turn away so they don’t see me smile
Same thing happens with me 😅😅it's hard to lie
today I was called a good liar, but then I stuttered and got called an ass liar, so here I am
If there's a school teaching you how to lie, I'll be the professor.
Why is every "liar" in the comment section so illiterate? Lmao i see words like "leing" "lier"
Like ok. English is not my main language either, but man...
First of all the hardest thing about lying is keeping your story straight. You'll find commonly online that liars tell the same sort of lie to their online friends but not the same one exactly. If you ever slip up and they meet, or you tell the wrong lie to the wrong person they will start to be suspicious and notice the inconsistencies. Also be confident and try to keep eye contact. (much harder than it sounds)
Lmao you’d be caught easily if you lied about your glasses being broken because if you couldn’t see anything then you wouldn’t have been able to text smh
Someone types for you or it'll just take a while to type something?
Yeah, it could be youre using an old nokia phone where typing w/o looking is easy or predictive text is on :D
I mean, you can be nearsighted but that wouldn’t also make sense seeing as you can still work (somewhat) effectively without glasses if you’re nearsighted ( unless you’re like me who needs to press my face against anything to actually clearly see it)
so dont text them, call them
Some people who need glasses can still see their phone screen if it's very up close to them.
More than 70% of people in the world say lying is bad. True but it's also good to lye for certain situations. Think if someone you know ran right past you on the street and turned left rather than right being chased by a murderer of thief and asked you which way they turned. Would it be better to lie to protect the person or tell the truth. LIE of course. I'd lie to the killer. Because if you tell the truth then it'll put higher risk on the runner. So there's times where it good to lie. It all just depends on the situation.
However the only time when it's bad to lie in a situation like this is when your a witness to a crime. If you lie to the police then you'll be at risk and everyone else around you. Never lie to the police. Even if it's something bad a friend or relative did. Hold them accountable. People can learn from there mistakes.
Like me.
This is 3 years ago but well put
after watching this I realized that I’m already doing everything they said perfectly. I guess I’m a pretty good liar
I like to tell the truth in a sarcastic tone. It works surprisingly enough which leads some to think the truth is the lie, thus allowing me get away with the actual lie
I'm already so nervous in social situations that its impossible to separate it when I'm lying. If anything my anxiety lowers when I'm being questioned.
Somehow I look like a fool when being honest but look respectable when telling lies
This is the tutorial I need as I get older 😂
The artbof deceit is not just about how good you lie but also how good you tell the truth. Tell the truth in a suspicious way to get the listener to think your lieing and vice versa when you are lieing. When they expect you to lie, tell the truth and they will believe the opposite.
interesting.. wonder how to use this in simple day to day scenarios.
I have always been an honest and fair person. It has brought be more pain and misery than I can describe here. Our parents who teach us that honesty is always the best policy are doing us a grave disservice. This world not only honors and rewards impeccable liars, but it is a necessary survival skill in many instances. I only hope I can reach the level of skill that I need.
I agree with you
As someone with strict parents i see this video as a big W
"Tips from expert liar".
A lie right there..
Does that make him a better liar or worse one
I’ve kept a pretty bad lie going for years now. Nobody doubts it and it doesnt burden me or anyone else but i am proud 😂
I'm sure u have more....which is attractive!
@@perryh.5306 its attractive?? i feel like lying isnt at all lol
watched this so i can be a good impostor and not get voted out
Thank you, I'll finally get away with every kill in among us
I really needed this! But not because I want to lie ! Honestly lying was so hard for me and I realized that I have to explain things that I don't want to just because I can't lie!
So basically my mum has brought me up by thinking that everything I say is a lie (for example that I'm sick when I really am), so I can't get her to believe anything I say unless I lie.
so you've kind of master lying with your mom?😂
@@AfterschoolPsychology ✨yes✨
And I don't feel guilty 🙂
I need this information to approach my crush lol thanks
Honestly I feel the exact same?
We have the same mom confirmed?? 😶
Lmao same
Even lying, which we were taught to be bad behavior, turns out to be a natural method, but it is a double-edged sword. Lying is a human behavior that comes from nature and has contributed to us reaching this point of progress.
it also helps to be prepared if they catch you off guard.
i’m a bad liar when it comes to things that are not important. like, literally.
but when something really matters, i’m literally playing poker with a professional and can lie like a politician.
The way I lie I usually act, since communication is more visual then verbal.
Example I pretend to be angry and out raged, even though I'm happy for the results.
How I make this more believable is that I always act shy and nervous, so when they see me get mad it shocks them and they don't notice I'm lying, instead they think I'm just enraged.
One time my father was crying since we got in a fight, he said I was starting to rebel too much and it hurt me.
Although I felt nothing for him I pretended like I did, I told him that I felt like he didn't love or notice me anymore and notice others over me.
I act crying and he thought he was making me feel left out, when in reality I wanted him out of my life and die terribly.
Lying for me is easy, although I've been lying since childhood just to get what I want by charming and intimidating people.
Others are actually starting to think I might be a psychopath because of it but honestly I couldn't care less about their opinions.
Lying is easy, making a superficial charm is no problem, but perfecting it.
Mastering and making it last and believable is what most people fail.
Try lying to your self, by acting egotistical, and another tip read other people's personalities.
The more better you are at reading people the better you can lie.
At least for me that is~
I almost lost my best friend so I had to lie and now I feel really bad but at least now she’s not that mad.
Rip
guys i swear im only doing this for among us i swear
*Any Among Us Players trying to be a good imposter?*
0:44
1. Play among us for five months
I searched how not to lie and this came up. Now I am learning how to lie like a pro. 😂
Hello Kokichi kinnies 😻😻
I'm an average liar but with the worst conscience. I once told my physics teacher I had a concert to play and had to leave school early because my friend convinced me to skip class and go buy a coffee (the based on truth thing), and he 100% believed me and wished me good luck and all and it was a year ago and I still feel terrible about it
Me watching this at 2 am because I’m not bothered to do my homework :)
ooooops... you might find some useful tips here. ;)
I’m okay at lying to everyone except my mom because she makes me smile
Me, a Kokichi Kinnie:
Cause’ I’m a Liar, Liar
And only that is true
Afterall fire, fire is something
I pursue Just call out liar, liar
And I’ll infect you too
With the addictive taboo
Of bidding the truth adieu~~!
Nehehe~!
Nishishi~!
i got into trouble so much back in school that i slowly developed how to deceive properly to avoid expulsion
Who is else here because of among us?
m e
I'm only watching this vid to make my dad believe me I didn't hit my teacher
I just think about how i would act if i was actually telling the truth and then apply that when telling the lie.
Slight "manipulation" and omission of facts is a good alternative. Remember, keep the details to a minimum. Less to remember and being overly detailed draws more suspicion from people who suspect possible trickery. I read all that somewhere, swear I'm not lying.
Who else is here for among us
Not me
No one
*speech skill increases by 100*
Thanks for watching!
i can imagine people using this to get better at among us
(like me)
Lol mee
I have now gotten my knowledge to become imposter of the year because of you. Thanks!
Great ideas! Ive been doing these things all my life.
Thanks
*Me casually here so I can be like Kokichi*
thanks im now a big liar
People want to know how to be a good liar, well here is how to catch a liar.
1. When they lie about something, ask them a specific detail or improvise on the subject, it is hard to make up a lie on the spot, I used to lie a LOT, so I would know this pretty well. ALWAYS ask for specific details, if it takes long for them to tell you then they **might** be lying
2. Stuttering. Stuttering is a sign of nervousness, but then people could also have social anxiety
3. saying things that could literally never happen lmao, I'm in 7th grade and some kid said that they went on a plane and the plane did a full flip. The other kid believes it
4. If they are known for being rude, they are also **probably** liars
5. They say that they are bad at lying. Only a liar would say that, I said that before
6. If you get one of these signs then ask them to tell the story again, make sure that they don't change their story
You are welcome
Who’s here for among us😂
"I can't go today because my glasses are broken and i can't see anything"
"Then how are you typing this"
"E-"
i lied to this guy by making 2 accounts and he suspects its me ;O I need to watch this
why do you think he suspects its you?
I'm watching this video in order to win the game of triple agent with my cousins the day after tomorrow, i don't see any more explanations why anyone should be watching this lol
Ah yes now i can win every game in among us
Always speak the truth, even if you lie people will believe
Now i can play as an Imposter in Among us
the more you tell the lie, the more you yourself believe it. You can tell the story to a friend or something before the person you actually need to lie to. It makes you more sure of yourself and the lie.
I watching this because I made a Tik tok account using my teachers name and I’m in big trouble so I need to lie my way out :0
How to go to hell like a pro
Why do I blink fast if I'm going to lie? I even tried lying to myself, but my eyes get super watery and I have to blink. How and why?
DEADPOOL wrestler it’s just your tell
So I'm good at lies i just dont express emotion that much its pretty convient
Same
This is 70 percent of this world . When people build their foundations on lies you have think critically about everything they say but most people get caught up in the lies to think critically if you through money into the mix.
I’m an amazing liar, though I don’t lie a lot 😂
I need to lie to save someone from something really bad. I don't wanna mess up
Update i messed up big time
the cartel got him 😔
Anyone else here because of Among Us?
Teacher: did u do ur home work
Me: yes
Teacher: so why isnt in the homework bin
Me: what homework bin
Teacher: .......
why people want to learn how to lie huh...
I'll keep this info in mind for among us
nice video
Thanks!
I find it funny that lying less makes you a better liar.
Me when I lie: “I did not waste money on games.”
My mom: Hmmmmmmmm? (With a smile)
Me: smile-
My name: A- ha!
Another addition to being a good liar is to not talk about the lie more than once because if it is true you wouldn’t need to keep talking about it.
I need this for amung us xd
We all lie, but Sanju is on another level no one can beat her...
Thanks for watching!
Using this for among us
same bro xD
it's hard to be an imposter tho
YES