It was time to SLOW DOWN | A self care SLOWCATION 🍵

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  • Опубликовано: 13 янв 2025

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  • @Beavis-et8ox
    @Beavis-et8ox 3 месяца назад +114

    Dont worry Vera, all your videos are worth the time spent watching them, because whatever the content is, it always feels like a short coffee break chatting with a friend.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +3

      Aw thank you, that means a lot 💓 😊

    • @louisehorsfall9400
      @louisehorsfall9400 3 месяца назад +1

      Yes, I learn from your attitude

    • @louisehorsfall9400
      @louisehorsfall9400 3 месяца назад +1

      I really love a date with myself. It's so important to help maintain other relationships because if I can ground myself, then I can be present for others instead of exhausted and even resentful. It helps me keep on course with my life if I can touch base with my values and how I'm living up to them.
      Actually , a video on going on dates with yourself might be eye opening for some people who would not think of it! Lol it is not sad at all, it is strong and so rewarding. The trouble it can be so easy to break promises with yourself that you wouldn't with others.

  • @LisaM.601
    @LisaM.601 Месяц назад +2

    FUTURE VIDEO IDEAS: Hi Vera, you asked what we would like to see more of in the future. I’d love for you to talk more about buying vegan, cruelty free products, including clothing, and get some recommended brands. I’m also very interested in Dutch culture, including common foods, what is considered good manners versus bad manners, how Dutchie’s spend their weekends, etc. Thank you 💗. I look forward to each of your videos and I appreciate how conscientious you are about always presenting your thoughts and content in such a kind, inclusive way.

  • @MamaJayMattBlack
    @MamaJayMattBlack 26 дней назад +2

    For about a year or more I've felt like my stuff was smothering me or just left overwhelming. I found this channel and it really resonated with me and how I wanted to change my life. So, I watch videos often and I'm decluttering a little at the time! Vera makes me feel it's ok to be me, whatever that looks like. 🙂

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  26 дней назад

      @@MamaJayMattBlack Aw that's lovely!! Wishing you all the best with your decluttering goals ❤️✨️

  • @xberniexx4517
    @xberniexx4517 3 месяца назад +2

    I just saw the first 3 minutes and have to tell you that all of your content is so valuable.
    It's like a little tea break with a friend. No matter what you are talking about, I always feel refreshed and clearer afterwards.
    Don't worry, that every video has to be "super fancy", the mixture of both makes it perfect🤗🤗

  • @lauraleecraig3675
    @lauraleecraig3675 3 месяца назад +30

    One suggestion I would have for a future video would be “Caring for yourself/Surviving when life doesn’t go as planned”. Our youngest son has been diagnosed with a debilitating, chronic illness and is completely home bound at age 22. Our lives (and more importantly, his) have been turned completely upside down. Coping when so much is out of our control is hard. Gratitude, self-care, slow living and finding the light in the darkness are some strategies that have helped a lot but I would love more ideas. I’m sure there are many people on here who find themselves in very challenging circumstances. . . for a variety of different reasons.
    Thanks for all you do.
    ❤️

    • @riverstreamturtle
      @riverstreamturtle 3 месяца назад +1

      I’m just a stranger on the Internet, but I care about you and your family’s well-being, and I wish for your son to have moments he can still feel good inside, regardless of this new situation 💗 although I don’t share the same situation or have the knowledge of a healthcare professional, I find that laughter is such an underrated medicine, even for just a little while. Finding something to laugh or smile hard at is so important during dark times. Does he have any interests or shows he likes? Finding silly things related to that also helps relieve some tension because it gets you out of your head 🫶🏻

  • @SeaEagle87
    @SeaEagle87 3 месяца назад +33

    Every time I watch one of your videos I always think 'What an incredible woman she is' You are truly a beautiful soul ❤

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +3

      Aw that is so sweet of you to say, thank you! 🥰

  • @JoL-ch3qt
    @JoL-ch3qt 3 месяца назад +15

    I really appreciate these life update videos. I live alone and enjoy your company. I started watching this video at 2350hrs, the night before my birthday. I have been feeling stressed cos everyone asks ‘what are you doing on your birthday’ and really I would just like a quiet staycation day - it’s such a luxury, as you say. So thank you Vera, clock is now ticked over midnight, so my birthday now and I’m looking forward to a quiet day at home x

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +2

      @@JoL-ch3qt Awesome, happy birthdaaaaaay!!! 🎂 🥳 🎉 Enjoy your day in anyway you love ❤️ Quiet staycation b-days are wonderful. 😊

    • @nazlyahmad5445
      @nazlyahmad5445 3 месяца назад +1

      Happy Birthday🎉

  • @lizadams7662
    @lizadams7662 3 месяца назад +2

    The dress has real pockets! I love this.

  • @sarvene1798
    @sarvene1798 3 месяца назад +13

    It made me chuckle that you bought something when you thought you shouldn't have. My favorite part of the video was when you talked about valuing the time other people spend on your video. You're like a tea friend I've never met in person. I always grab my tea and listen to your anecdotes and life lessons.

    • @sarvene1798
      @sarvene1798 3 месяца назад

      I would like to see more videos on self-care, dutch culture, slow living, minimalism, mindsets, meditation videos, cooking and food, life lessons and new topics but no decluttering videos. This year has been better for me. I'm focused on some projects, making my ideas come to life. I'm really happy about committing to them and the time I'm investing in them

  • @patyeaman
    @patyeaman 3 месяца назад +8

    I live a relatively isolated life and even though I am certainly on the HSP spectrum, I watch your videos because you seem like the kind of person I would like to spend time with, even if only to hear you "chat". Not to stress (at least for me) about the content, I will be here listening and enjoying and learning skill to improve mt life.

  • @scotosha
    @scotosha 3 месяца назад +2

    I love De Efteling and realised now it’s been far too long I’ve been. I’ve telling myself I’ll visit Winter Efteling for so many years and never have😢. I live in Belgium, am 65 but at De Efteling I can still meet my inner child. I’ve started walking in the beginning of August because I stumbled upon a podcast of a lovely American gentleman who takes a daily 10 minute walk with you talking about many different topics. Of course he walks more each day and so do I, but since I have to catch up because he started the podcast in 2020, I walk one hour each morning listening to his soothing voice. My first promise to myself is a 90 day chain and I haven’t missed a day because even if I just may not feel like going out every day, I NOT going to break the chain! Good to have you back. Smart thing that staycation.

  • @siany123
    @siany123 3 месяца назад +30

    I love the more chatty videos Vera. I love your normal content too, but it's nice to see a more relaxed Vera and get to see your personality shine through more 😊 I noticed the new dress straight away, the blue really suits you. ❤

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much and I'm happy you enjoyed the video! 🤗🍵🌱

  • @TheFroggie66
    @TheFroggie66 3 месяца назад +4

    These videos are like sitting with a calm, peaceful, funny friend. Your “realness” and authenticity resonates.

  • @sunshinemachine6572
    @sunshinemachine6572 3 месяца назад +7

    Things I world like to see more of, simple vegan food, nature and weather where you live, your friends and family, places you visit. You are doing great as it is.

  • @ShelbyElizabethFox
    @ShelbyElizabethFox 3 месяца назад +13

    Hi Vera! I just love all of your content. My husband and I are huge advocates of slow living as well. Being American, it’s very counter-cultural to live this way. We have a reputation in our country of overworking ourselves. So thank you for being a light and reminding us all that it’s OKAY to slow down and say no and simplify. 🥰 Thanks for all you do!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind comment! 🤗🌳🌱

  • @sheryls4709
    @sheryls4709 2 месяца назад +2

    Hi Vera! Greetings from Canada (I’m originally from Barcelona, Spain)! I’m so grateful that I came across with your channel like a month ago. You’re so calm, endearing and I love the content, and your way to create the videos.
    Thank you for sharing your staycation❣️

  • @louisehorsfall9400
    @louisehorsfall9400 3 месяца назад +6

    I remember being really sick and having guests staying from overseas. We live near London and were supposed to do the whole tour thing. (I never go unless I have guests to entertain.) Well, we all ended up being sick and just had a 'crafternoon' instead. We didn't leave the house. I made soup. It was actually so much nicer than dragging around and we had quality time together.

  • @MariaLiccardo-p9e
    @MariaLiccardo-p9e 3 месяца назад +45

    I stumbled across you, Vera, thanks to RUclips's algorithm. I don't do social media and I don't do RUclips much but you drew me in and I subscribed a few weeks ago and have been listening to your videos every day. Thank you for adding calm and authenticity and so many good ideas and inspiration to my life!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +4

      Aw thank you so much and welcome to the channel!! 🤗🍵🌱 Take care!

  • @alexsierra5034
    @alexsierra5034 3 месяца назад +19

    You are loved just as you are❤

  • @nataschavoll6449
    @nataschavoll6449 3 месяца назад +10

    Hi Vera, I m glad your 2 weeks were restful. I'm a Dutch woman who moved to Canada when I was a teen. I'm learning to be fluent in Dutch again now that I'm retired. My mom has aphasia and dementia and I find speaking in Dutch with her helps her understand me better. I've followed you since you started because of your amazing content. You continue to help me navigate my life, simplify , calm my mind, and find peace in a chaotic world. My mom has requested assistance in death and will soon be gone. I lost my father two years ago. I would love to hear about ways others heal from loss and find joy after difficulty. Also, whenever I see your videos, I feel a bit closer to my Dutch roots. Your accent and your manners are so soothing and familiar to me. They make me feel like I'm home somehow. Thanks for all you do....

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful comment Natascha. I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's passing and your mom soon as well. That must be so tough to deal with. Sending a big hug, comfort and strength your way. I hope you're also taking good care of you, and being extra with all the self care you might need. About your request, I've been lucky in life so far and haven't had to deal with much loss or grief, so I don't know if I feel qualified to give advice there. I hope there are other resources out there from people who have more to share about these things that could be helpful for you. I know Lana Blakely has a video about grief (ruclips.net/video/TD8vTHTnF_A/видео.html) that I thought was very beautifully worded. I watched it a long while ago and don't remember everything, so maybe it's not really relevant for you, but I thought I'd share it. Take good care!!!

    • @nataschavoll6449
      @nataschavoll6449 3 месяца назад +1

      @SimpleHappyZen thanks for your kindness and your referral to Lana's video. I took a listen to it, and it was very thought-provoking. I'll listen again a few more times, as there is much wisdom it Lana's words. I am taking extra care of myself these days.... and using many of your self care ideas. I really appreciate your taking the time to answer my comment!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад

      😘❤️🌷

  • @Ciela887
    @Ciela887 3 месяца назад +26

    Every time I watch your videos, I feel motivated to declutter my space AND declutter my brain. I'm not perfect at it, but baby steps are helping. Thank you!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +2

      Oh that's amazing! 👏🏻 Keep taking the baby steps 😊

  • @MelindaLee
    @MelindaLee 3 месяца назад +5

    Lovely dress AND IT HAS POCKETS!!! I always try to watch everything you give us. I enjoy the art of making tea, how to declutter things that are not needed any more, easy vege meals, Japanese cultural things you enjoy, journal keeping, decluttering one's mind and dealing with negative people. I'm highly sensitive and sometimes it hurts to even go to the mall because of all the negative energy I used to laugh at myself, but lately I've been staying home and no one wants to be home bound if they can help it.

  • @lindahammill5492
    @lindahammill5492 3 месяца назад +1

    I love your videos Vera, reading the comments are collectively how I feel and what I get from your videos. Like catching up with an old friend, calming, inspiring, beautiful and real. Look after yourself, and we will all enjoy your content however and whenever you create. Never put pressure on yourself. Thankyou, sending love from down under 🇦🇺

  • @annemay3897
    @annemay3897 3 месяца назад +1

    I love to see the videos that remind me that I am enough, that I have enough, and that I am so very grateful for all the wonderful people in my life and all the other privileges. Because not a lot of things in today's society remind me to be satisfied and grateful. So if I feel down or disapointed I usually will click on one of your videos and I know that it will calm me down and ease my spirit. So very grateful for that.

  • @trishac6569
    @trishac6569 3 месяца назад +2

    I don’t even follow u but I needed something peaceful to listen to at the end of a hectic day and ur video just happened to come up as a suggestion. Sometimes u don’t need super interesting or specific content - just simply the vibe and energy u put out into the world can have a positive influence. Thank u!

  • @hanneshuette
    @hanneshuette 3 месяца назад +2

    Dear Vera, I love it when you reiterate how travel is a challenge for highly sensitive people - I relate and feel seen and validated. Although I love the idea of travel I have not travelled for many years (and therefore not even seen my family) because I simply get ill. Luckily I absolutely love my home and am very happy to stay home - but the feeling of being weird remains… Thank you for this lovely video - it’s good if you can keep the pressure off yourself and keep the joy you have had making these videos over the years - and I am sure your channel will continue to thrive if you are not „constantly producing perfect content“ - we all love you for who you are and are grateful for everything you offer ❤❤❤

  • @anefs4069
    @anefs4069 3 месяца назад +5

    I love all your videos, and like that you make different types, both these little chats, and ones about minimalism, slow living and so on. You have so much integrity, and I know I'll always feel uplifted after watching something you made. ✨ This year has been like one long staycation for me. I became a mother for the second time last November, and I've been staying home with my little daughter this whole year. It is wonderful. ❤️
    I've been watching your videos for a couple of years, found you when searching for minimalist content and yours is a only channel I consistently watch. About your cat allergy: it can actually happen, at least your allergy may get less intense if you expose yourself to cats a little bit here and there. It happened to my mother, who was very allergic, and now she has a cat. So there is hope! 🐈💛

  • @PaulaMallinson-vl5mq
    @PaulaMallinson-vl5mq 3 месяца назад +5

    Glad you had a lovely break. I enjoy your calm life videos. I run a woman's support group, a safe space for women to talk about anything troubling them, your openness about being a highly sensitive person has helped me understand them more. Thank you.

  • @antiquesrestoration3874
    @antiquesrestoration3874 3 месяца назад +5

    The nature of this type of video is simple, happy, and very zen...so exactly what I came here for. Thanks for sharing and I hope you're feeling well soon.

  • @pedroandrade8513
    @pedroandrade8513 3 месяца назад +3

    I joined the channel because of the slow living videos. It makes me feel better about myself and the problems I have.

  • @christinecancel4386
    @christinecancel4386 3 месяца назад +9

    I started watching your videos because you were talking about minimalism but then was pleasantly surprised because I just enjoy hearing anything you talk about. You and your topic are always fun and interesting to me!❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад

      Aw thank you, that's nice to hear 🤗🍵

  • @flowergirl7260
    @flowergirl7260 3 месяца назад +12

    Love your souvenirs from your staycation, too! p.s. you'll never lose your community because you are offering sometthing refreshingly different for the soul!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +2

      Aw thank you, I appreciate that 🤗💕

    • @flowergirl7260
      @flowergirl7260 3 месяца назад

      Nothing wrong with making your spirit happy!!

  • @csiesel1
    @csiesel1 3 месяца назад +3

    I am happy for your peaceful vacation. I like the encouragement to slow down.❤

  • @sallydansereau1270
    @sallydansereau1270 3 месяца назад +5

    Your videos are so peaceful. I love your variety of topics and your humble and calm demeanour. Glad you had a nice break. 🌸☮️

  • @maggiesagarra
    @maggiesagarra 3 месяца назад +4

    Vera, I used to be very, very allergic to cat and dog fur. I could barely be around them; if a cat walked by even two meters away, I would start sneezing, and my eyes would get red and itchy. The approach I took was the opposite of what you'd expect -what I call "shock therapy", hahaha. I began spending time around cats and dogs regularly, petting them, and gradually my allergy started to disappear. Now I work as a pet sitter, and sometimes I even sleep with cats practically on my face, haha. Very rarely, I might have a mild allergic reaction, but things have completely changed for me. It used to make me really sad not being able to be in contact with animals, but now that's no longer an issue. Don’t lose hope!

  • @MaryPonder
    @MaryPonder 3 месяца назад +13

    I love your videos on savoring life. I need the reminder often.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +2

      I sometimes need the reminders too still, haha 😄 🌱🍵

  • @inger870
    @inger870 3 месяца назад +10

    Minimalism and decluttering. Self-care and mindset. Yes please! 💚🌿

  • @sandracontreras8677
    @sandracontreras8677 3 месяца назад +3

    Love the dress! I have two cats, love them, how sad you are allergic to cats, they are such good companions and easy to look after.

  • @miayana2539
    @miayana2539 3 месяца назад +4

    I was so happy to see a new video. You're my nightly ritual, I fall asleep to your videos every night. You have this naturally calm, soothing voice. I can't do ASMR coz it feels so forced and fake and the content is usually very shallow. But I love your messages. I feel like my subconscious is eating well even as I fall asleep. Thank you for being you❤❤

  • @organicmonica
    @organicmonica 3 месяца назад +4

    I'm definitely going on a solo date soon. Great idea. I've been super busy lately, but life is good. ❤ You're a breath of fresh air. Take regular breaks. Self care is important when you're helping others. Take care.

  • @lisaweinzapfel4240
    @lisaweinzapfel4240 3 месяца назад +9

    I am also an HSP and really want to visit the Netherlands. I would love a video about your beautiful country and best things to do. Been watching your videos a few years and love them! Thanks!❤

  • @Smolbites
    @Smolbites 3 месяца назад +6

    This year I've been trying so hard to get my head straight so I can declutter and minimalize my life! It's hard, but it takes me a long time to prepare for big life changes.

    • @msp4852
      @msp4852 3 месяца назад +2

      I can relate! I started minimalizing a few years ago and have a ways to go but here’s what helped me… I couldn’t deal with a big change either, so I put a small box/bag/basket in every room and every time I came across something I didn’t need, it would go in- once full, Id take it to my car to donate.
      It was productive without being overwhelming☺️

  • @Mar-ME-s3h
    @Mar-ME-s3h 3 месяца назад +5

    Every video you make is super enjoyable. Just create them & we’ll watch happily. You are so charming 🌸. So happy your mom is well 🙏🏻

  • @cynthiady2004
    @cynthiady2004 3 месяца назад +16

    This channel is so refreshing.. I believe in slowing down. After visiting Netherlands.. The culture is amazing.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Aw thank you so much Cynthia 🤗🌳

    • @MyCozyLife-Lisa
      @MyCozyLife-Lisa 3 месяца назад +1

      @@cynthiady2004 I agree about her channel being so refreshing. I’ve never been to the Netherlands, but it’s actually at the very top of my travel bucket list. I feel like I may not want to come back home after haha.

  • @MyCozyLife-Lisa
    @MyCozyLife-Lisa 3 месяца назад +7

    Sounds like you had a wonderful staycation😊 I love staycations as well. My family and I like to pretend we’re tourists in our own town and do all of the local activities and visit all of the local attractions that we oftentimes overlook. It’s so much fun❤
    For video ideas, I’d absolutely love to hear more about the Dutch lifestyle, beliefs, traditions etc. and maybe a video talking about minimal and simple holiday decor as well as how to truly slow down and enjoy the season rather than feeling stressed and overwhelmed. Oh, and maybe a video with simple, useful gift ideas that will not add a bunch of clutter to other homes. Thank you😊

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +3

      Thanks so much for the suggestions and I love the idea of visiting local attractions as if you're tourists in your own town!

  • @squeakresidence
    @squeakresidence 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi :)
    I love watching/listening to your videos in the morning when I'm having my tea - your voice is very calming and no matter what you talk about, it makes me slow down, appreciate more, and bring a smile to my face.
    Thank you :)

  • @JudyFitch-g4f
    @JudyFitch-g4f 3 месяца назад +6

    I am so glad you had a great break. You were missed, but we all know everyone needs some time to relax. It is nice to know you were just enjoying your home and spending time together. I like videos that you spend just chatting about your life. I hope you feel better soon.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much for the good vibes! 🤗🍵🌺

  • @leannemartin9204
    @leannemartin9204 3 месяца назад +4

    Hello Vera. I have been watching your videos for about a year and a half now - mostly while I've been on sabbatical this past year. I so, so appreciate your content, the beauty of the videos, the calm vibe... I've needed a calm, slow place. I've had a lot of loss over the past several years and a profound burn-out. I'm beginning to feel better and heal my nervous system. I did your 30-day slow living course last August to kick off my sabbatical.
    It's my first time making a comment on anything. I've never done social media (intentionally), but you are my exception it seems.😊
    I do love your dress, by the way.
    I'd love to see videos about slow living, healthy mindset, Dutch living, beauty, and self-care.
    Thank you for taking good care of yourself. It matters that your sharing comes from a place of plenty and health.
    Warmly, Leanne

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts Leanne and for leaving your first comment on a video of mine! :) Hope you enjoyed the 30-day slow living course and feel free to repeat it anytime you like :)
      I'm sorry to hear about your burnout and experiences with loss. That must all be tough to deal with... Hope you're taking good care, keep taking baby steps and take things one day at a time. 🌱🍵💕 Sending comfort and strength your way!

  • @NintenJon64
    @NintenJon64 3 месяца назад +4

    Chatty vids are my favorite to watch with some cappuccino. I found out these past two weeks that I’m allergic to milk, so I’ve been actually using oatmilk in my coffee as well lately, and I was pleasantly surprised at how delicious it is!
    Last week, I was feeling a bit lost. Being a guy that is an HSP is really complicated and lonely at times because the world really wasn’t made with us in mind. However, it is such a blessing to be able to see life in such brilliant detail, and I wouldn’t change that for the world.

    • @Thiky23
      @Thiky23 3 месяца назад +1

      "However, it is such a blessing to be able to see life in such brilliant detail and I wouldn't change that for the world."
      Definitely holding onto this one, whenever I get overwhelmed. Truly a blessing indeed. Thank you 🩵

  • @leonaisaac1368
    @leonaisaac1368 3 месяца назад +2

    Hi Vera, so glad you enjoyed your break. Yours is the only channel on YT that I watch every new video and always happy when a new video is posted, even though I'm not a minimalist or HSP. I mostly watch then while I'm at my desk at work and want to take a little break, sometimes while having coffee or a snack. It makes me feel like I'm chilling with a friend😊 Especially since my social connections are minimal and I feel quite isolated sometimes.
    Being a person that loves travel, I would love a video that is about dutch culture or your hometown, something like that. I really enjoyed when you taught me about Niksen and Gezellig😊

  • @annavorobyeva6177
    @annavorobyeva6177 3 месяца назад +2

    I joined because of HSP's videos, and as HSP I enjoyed other topicks like minimalism and decluttering. Now watching your videos is my personal type of meditation. I make some green tea or grab a cup of coffe and relax 😌

  • @Flukey_1970
    @Flukey_1970 3 месяца назад +2

    Glad you are feeling better and yes its always good to take some time out every now and again especially when you are not well

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +2

      For sure, breaks are so important! :) Take care and have a lovely day

  • @lauracarvajal8258
    @lauracarvajal8258 3 месяца назад +5

    Thank you Vera, this is my cup of tea. I’m also an HSP. Within the last two years I’ve experienced burn out twice. First time I took a temporary leave from my job. This second time was much worse, so I’m forced to stop working. It’s been challenging, but your chats have been encouraging me.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh I'm so sorry to hear that Laura... burnout is rough... Take good care and I hope you'll feel a bit better as time goes on. Remember, all you need to think about right now is which cup of tea you want to drink next. Sending healing vibes your way 🍵🌱

  • @mpearl0821
    @mpearl0821 3 месяца назад +5

    You are so sweet and I like how real you are about how you feel and very easy to relate to. I hope you feel better soon and thank you for all your videos especially all about the hsp. I didn’t realize I am one until I found you so thank you so much!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh you're so welcome, that's wonderful!! 🤗💓🌷

    • @mpearl0821
      @mpearl0821 3 месяца назад

      @@SimpleHappyZen 🤗

  • @jilloverton3630
    @jilloverton3630 3 месяца назад +5

    I just love your videos! They are so calming. I appreciate your honesty and how vulnerable you are. I would like to see more videos about minimalism and being highly sensitive. Thank you for your videos!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much, I appreciate that 🤗🌳 Take care and have a wonderful day!

  • @YunitaCooking
    @YunitaCooking 3 месяца назад +3

    I always watch your videos over and over again. Thank you, Vera..

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +2

      Aw that's sweet, thank you my friend 🤗🌹

  • @allyjoyce
    @allyjoyce 3 месяца назад +4

    Hi Vera, I’ve been around for quite a few years. I relate to and enjoy all your videos. I’m mid thirties, an HSP, love animals (trying to transition from being vegetarian to vegan), trying minimalism. I’m from the other side of the world though, in New Zealand. You’re one of my favourite RUclipsrs. Thank you for all your amazing videos. Have a lovely day 💜🌷

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Aw thank you so much for your support!!! So cool also that you're transitioning into veganism 🤗❤️❤️

  • @susanbarnes6632
    @susanbarnes6632 3 месяца назад +2

    I love your videos, Vera. Especially the chat ones. It's always good to have a change of pace. I loved what you bought, particularly the tea cups and the ninja memo pad. It will always put a smile on your face when you use them 😊😊😊😊

  • @MamaJayMattBlack
    @MamaJayMattBlack 3 месяца назад +2

    I love to hear about Dutch habits and lifestyle. It's so interesting to me. I love the minimalist topics and slow living tips. Feel better!

  • @chrstopherblighton-sande2981
    @chrstopherblighton-sande2981 3 месяца назад +1

    Welcome back Vera, I'm delighted you had a lovely break (except getting ill of course!!) and I thoroughly enjoyed this video. I really like the colour of that dress, it is such a beautiful blue! I can't wait for the interview - I have some ideas as to who it might be with, so I'm very much looking forward to finding out if I'm right! 😀

  • @rachellucas5628
    @rachellucas5628 3 месяца назад

    Time off and solo time are so valuable for one's well being. Glad you were able to indulge in both, and the dress looks lovely and so you!
    I really appreciate the variety of video topics you cover. I'd definitely be interested in additional Dutch culture, mindset, minimalism, self care, and vlog style videos.

  • @NicolleMelanson.Powell
    @NicolleMelanson.Powell 3 месяца назад

    Nice to hear from you Vera. Yes, staycations are wonderful. Sometimes it means taking advantage of what is in your own town, or maybe even going to a nearby city or town for a bit of a change of scene. Much less stress than travelling abroad. It's my favourite kind of holiday. It's so charming to hear you ask, "how are you doing?" For future videos, my interest is mainly about the subject of being an HSP but I also like knowing more about Dutch culture. I am learning to become an emancipated HSP and 'coming out of the closet' to friends and family about this aspect of myself is a work in progress. Your videos help give me courage and make me feel like less of an oddball.

  • @vikieierdam5516
    @vikieierdam5516 3 месяца назад +4

    Sadly, we lost both our dogs in July and I cry every day, multiple times a day. They were my world. My husband, Challenge, Baby Girl and I did EVERYTHING together. We traveled all over in our trailer. They went to outdoor restaurants. We walked all over. I miss them so very much.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Oh no, I'm so sorry for your loss... That's devastating. Sending comfort, strength and a big hug your way ❤️

  • @melaniechilds2095
    @melaniechilds2095 2 месяца назад

    hi Vera, I' m really into slow/simple living & whilst not really a minimalist I can still appreciate & apply some of those principles to my middle-est aesthetic. I identify with the highly sensitive since developing anxiety which has been debilitating at times. I love the simple appreciative life style & have added your channel to my toolbox. It's also great to see a different perspective from another country. Thank you xx

  • @allisonryder4781
    @allisonryder4781 3 месяца назад +1

    Welcome back!! I enjoy your videos very much. Thanks for asking how we are! The last two years have been horrendous. My FIL has been scammed for 60, 000$ and has slid into dementia. We have had to step in and take control of his finances so he doesn’t give away all his funds. His health is not been good so he has ended up in hospital and we have also have to clear out im his house that was full full full of stuff. Oh, and we did take his dog for him as he has t been able to look after him very well. Life has been a nightmare on a daily basis and my husband d and I are in our sixties. We are hoping for a better year next year. Your channel provides some calm in the storm so thank you again for that outlet and feeling of stability and strength. I would love to see blogs about daily life in your town. What the shops look like, etc. ❤🇨🇦

  • @annaread3829
    @annaread3829 3 месяца назад +3

    You are so sweet! Feel like I just visited with a sweet friend:) You are such a relaxing presence in this crazy world!

  • @mimisart
    @mimisart 3 месяца назад +5

    I would like to see some sort of video about ‘quick resets’ when you get overwhelmed or realize you’re stressing out, or even before you get to that point. What can we do to ground ourselves in a short period of time? If you already have a video like that, I do apologize, then please give me the link 😊💚🌸

  • @myrnarenoud3056
    @myrnarenoud3056 3 месяца назад +3

    I joined because your sweet personality drew me in! I could be your grandmother in age and I love all your subject matter! Whatever you decide to share is perfect for me!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Aw that is so nice, thank you!! 🤗❤️❤️❤️

  • @ms.schnapp7415
    @ms.schnapp7415 3 месяца назад +3

    Welcome back! So good to have SHZ videos to look forward to again. I enjoy all aspects of minimalism. I'd love to hear more about digital declutter. And always like learning about anything Dutch. Every time I watch your videos, I'm inspired to have some tea.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much!! And yay for inspiring people to have tea hahaha, I love that

  • @frockinj
    @frockinj 3 месяца назад

    @SimpleHappyZen so happy you’re back and enjoyed your well deserved break! 😊 Life is hard at the moment and I love all your videos - they help me feel better. I’d love more on HSP, quick/easy/healthy vegan food, minimalism, decluttering, simple living, and caring for yourself when you care for others. Thank you for all you do and hope you feel 100% soon! 💐🥰

  • @terribell2945
    @terribell2945 3 месяца назад

    Love your video. What a nice way to come back from your staycation. Sounds like great days off Vera. Love your linen dress too. Very cute. Thanks Vera. I really needed our chat today.

  • @ReneeHemp
    @ReneeHemp 3 месяца назад +7

    I would love morning and bedtime routine videos. ❤

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for that suggestion! 🤗🍵

    • @miayana2539
      @miayana2539 3 месяца назад +1

      Omg yes please! A night routine especially

  • @mori.curious
    @mori.curious 3 месяца назад +2

    Hi Vera, glad you had a break to unwind and recharge. I got sick on my last vacation too but still glad I took the time. Initially I came to your channel for the wardrobe tips you shared but I keep watching your videos now because you are my advocate voice for self-care, with your gentle natured way of reminding me that it's ok to acknowledge my vulnerabilities as they arise and take in each moment as a gift for allowing myself to feel joy and serenity in myself and in my life. This really comes through in how you share yourself and I appreciate your projection of self-reflection and compassion. Thank you. 💕

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Aw thank you for your kind comment and I love how you phrased that! About acknowledging vulnerabilities and taking in each moment.

  • @anacorona6234
    @anacorona6234 3 месяца назад +3

    I like minimalism, slow living, declutter. Thank you.

  • @coolrae1979
    @coolrae1979 3 месяца назад +1

    I found you while reading a book called Njuta about living a simpler life and finding joy in everyday things. I was searching RUclips videos about simplifying and decluttering, but I really enjoyed all your videos about any topic. I'm in Kentucky in the US. When I get home from work I listen to you to reset my mind and focus on what really matters.

  • @simoneclarke5104
    @simoneclarke5104 3 месяца назад +1

    All the topics you suggested are great! I love a mix of all of them🥰

  • @donnaharwood2240
    @donnaharwood2240 3 месяца назад +3

    I find you soothing,the last 5 months have been difficult with my health, I can no longer work as an rn and I am coming to terms with it. I believe I was burning out as a nurse when I became ill.
    I love your self care, I am 63yr old and have gone from almost hoarding to a Hse under control. Your decluttering videos are helpful. I love tea also. I enjoy you and have recently joined your other patron group.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much for leaving your comment and for joining us on Patreon! I'm so sorry to hear about your health, I hope you're feeling a bit better and taking good care. It's very inspiring you got your home under control, that's such an accomplishment!

  • @rachelchanel7941
    @rachelchanel7941 3 месяца назад +1

    Welcome back Vera! I'm so glad that your mother is feeling better, and I hope you get well soon too. Your staycation seems lovely. My job is stressful, especially since we've been short staffed. I'm yearning for time away from work, but I already used all my PTO. For some good news, I am training to run a half marathon in November. I'm mostly on track with my training schedule. I'm nervous because I've never run that far, but also excited to see what I'm capable of. It has also helped me focus on something that isn't work related. For the record, I love whatever videos you post. Thank you for posting them and sharing yourself with us.

  • @meenapydah5010
    @meenapydah5010 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi Vera. Lovely to have you back. Missed your soothing voice and beautiful smile. Glad you had fun. Loving your videos ❤

  • @Theresaa9
    @Theresaa9 3 месяца назад +2

    Hi Vera! Welcome back! :) i loved hearing about your staycation. I think its so cool you were able to practice speaking japanese at the fair you went to. Nice souvenirs too :)
    I watch all of your videos and am always pleased. You do whatever types of videos your heart desires and you will be successful. Your genuineness draws people in so keep doing you :)

  • @purronnaspaw
    @purronnaspaw Месяц назад +1

    Wishing you and your mom well 💚💫 your videos are so helpful and calming.

    • @purronnaspaw
      @purronnaspaw Месяц назад

      I'm in my mid 60's and you are so wise. I would have liked to be that wise when I was younger 🙂

  • @AndILoveMike
    @AndILoveMike 3 месяца назад +2

    I really like your chatting video! Thanks Vera ❤

  • @michelleevans2445
    @michelleevans2445 3 месяца назад +1

    I live in the United States & I enjoy learning about other cultures. I would really like it if you did some videos about your country. I also like your videos on minimalism, slow living, & life updates.

  • @joliekelly517
    @joliekelly517 3 месяца назад

    I love your channel and I’m so happy that you had a restful time away. I’ve enjoyed and learned a lot about my sensitivities from your videos. Thank you.

  • @lmarieschu2370
    @lmarieschu2370 3 месяца назад +1

    Vera, it is funny to see you do a bit of a haul. I'm cherishing it as I do all of your videos!

  • @patriciatarallo628
    @patriciatarallo628 3 месяца назад

    I totally love that dress and love that it has pockets!

  • @christineskeen7252
    @christineskeen7252 3 месяца назад +1

    I’m the same with kitties. I have two, but they mostly stay outside and when they come in, I am able to spend sometime with them, but I have to remember to wash my hands before touching my skin, especially my face. This has helped me. I miss London, I lived there for a short time as a young woman, and I hope to go back. I love Japan, been thinking of taking language lessons. We are so similar in nature. Maybe one day you two can come visit the Central Coast of California and we can meet for tea. Healing prayers for you and your mom. Take care and glad you are back! ❤

  • @marisacooper5364
    @marisacooper5364 3 месяца назад

    You role model essential and healthy self care through personal experience that resonates. Yay to staycations! We are inspired by your honesty and kindness to yourself and others. I’m so grateful for you and your channel Vera! You’ve taught me so much about myself and have influenced my daily habits so positively. Now considering what my next solo date will be...Cheers xoxo

  • @annlynngarviefinley5581
    @annlynngarviefinley5581 3 месяца назад +3

    Hi Vera! Everything that you mentioned is why I subscribe to your channel - to learn more about the HSP trait, Dutch culture, minimalism, self care, all of it! I too love Japanese culture and drink matcha daily. So happy you’re in a good spot finding work-life balance now. 2024 has been interesting for me. My boss sold the company and moved to Switzerland so I’m out of work and I have never been happier. Slow living is definitely what I was meant for. Lots of love!

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +2

      Thanks so much for sharing your thughts Ashlynn! Love that you're also enjoying matcha. Interesting that that suddenly happened with your work, do you think you'll look for another job? Yes, slow living is wonderful :)

    • @annlynngarviefinley5581
      @annlynngarviefinley5581 3 месяца назад +1

      @@SimpleHappyZen Fortunately, my mortgage is completely paid so I own my home. I have also saved enough to pay for living expenses. Many people said that I should spend money on a fancy car and a bigger home but I’m so happy that I didn’t! I’m happy I was true to myself and didn’t let them pressure me so I also saved for retirement. I am also grateful that I have a supportive boyfriend. And your videos will help me stay the course regarding not being frivolous but still enjoying your true passions in life. Luckily for me they are inexpensive or even free: walking and exercising with my boyfriend, yoga, a ballet tai chi hybrid, nature, tea culture, etc.
      It’s a huge relief that I can take my time to find a job that will be a good fit for my HSP personality. Thanks for all the wonderful content you create, Vera!

  • @chillibird2511
    @chillibird2511 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for sharing things you did on your break. The park you visited looks so much fun. I would love a video about preparing for Christmas and what the Dutch do for that season. Another would be an update on your wardrobe. I like the dress. Its style and colour suit you. We love your videos ❤

  • @colourandthecity
    @colourandthecity 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi Vera! To your question about new topics, I love everything HSP related. More of that would be great!

  • @liliensommer9477
    @liliensommer9477 3 месяца назад +1

    I myself would love to see an updated video of your current (minimalist) wardrobe!😍 That new dress suits you so well👏

  • @alikatt
    @alikatt 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank goodness for your newsletter! I didn't receive the notification but that let me know you posted. I hope you're feeling better soon.

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +2

      Yes! I wish the notification would just always go out, but unfortunately that's not how it works :) Thanks for being subscribed to my newsletter! And have a lovely day today :)

  • @hannahconroy
    @hannahconroy 3 месяца назад +6

    The dress is lovely and peaceful! :)

    • @SimpleHappyZen
      @SimpleHappyZen  3 месяца назад +2

      Thank you! I also love the pockets in the front :)

  • @mjoysantiago
    @mjoysantiago 3 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful dress Vera. And I love this and all your videos. Your voice and content really lower my anxiety. Thank you Vera.❤

  • @helenfarmer4286
    @helenfarmer4286 3 месяца назад

    Good to see you again Vera! I enjoyed your update!

  • @yuliarakhmatullina8286
    @yuliarakhmatullina8286 3 месяца назад

    Vera, I’d like to say that I enjoy watching all your videos no matter the topic is! I found your channel serendipitously when searching for any channel in English to improve my listening skills ( actually I am currently learning English) I enjoyed your content, your voice and the fact that I understand almost everything you have said! And also, your content is amazing! Thank you for your channel!

  • @feylights166
    @feylights166 3 месяца назад +3

    I like your chatty videos.
    I would actually love to see a video on your journey of learning Japanese, what aspects of Japan are you interested in, etc. I love Japan (and trying to study), so I would love to know 😊

  • @alexadavidson6227
    @alexadavidson6227 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi Vera! So happy that you took a break and enjoyed yourself! That reminds us to do that as well. ❤
    Im just here for your lovely personality and any video you choose to do honestly! I do like your slow living lifestyle advice videos though. And love your new dress! 😊

  • @beatrizjacobo2728
    @beatrizjacobo2728 3 месяца назад

    Hi there! I love your videos. I started watching you because your self care and decluttering advice. I really like this one. I like that you took a stay cation. You are the best