I spent a day with KIDNAPPING SURVIVORS
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- Опубликовано: 17 май 2024
- I spent a day with kidnapping survivors to learn about their horrifying experiences and how their lives have changed since escaping.
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❌KIDNAPPING RESOURCES
▸ If you think you may have seen, or know information about a missing child, please report it immediately at: report.cybertip.org
▸ Program for Preventing Abduction: idsmartz.org
▸ Services and Support to Resolve Missing Persons Cases: namus.gov
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▸ JAN BROBERG - / janibroberg , / janbroberg
▸ ALICIA KOZAK - / itsaliciakozak , aliciakozak.com
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HI ( I was first lol)
Ok sounds good
Q: How does the ocean say hello?
A: It waves.
YAY
Ooh that’ll be so cool!
Pedophilia will never 👏🏾 be 👏🏾 a 👏🏾 sexuality 👏🏾.
its sad asf this world is literally legalizing it and making it normal
Amen 🙏
PERIOD
Sometimes on rare scenarios people don’t act on being sexually attracted to kids but like so rare it should not be legal period
Children cannot consent. That isn’t an opinion, it is a FACT.
being kidnapped even for an HOUR would be so terrifying.
alizasucks for 5 mins even. These horrible people. Thank goodness these people r alive today to tell their tale, since not a lot of people have survived💔
just a second would be traumatizing
@@c4tm0chi45 kid
@@c4tm0chi45 ehh ur mom is just crazy not a witch
@@c4tm0chi45 can I make a anime about this
Once a creep kidnaps a child, they should NEVER be released from jail.
Afuckinmen
and should be tortured very badly (:
LITERALLY… nobody would change after willingly kidnapping
At a minimum they should never be let out ever.
@@PydroAJ kidnapping doesnt mean rape, torture or any of those things you listed its just taking someone hostage
Imagine going through major rape or sexual assault, and people say," It was for only 4 days. It wasnt THAT bad." It doesnt matter how long it is,it is of the trauma that the victim has
Yeah, like when someone says they are wary of dogs because one bit them in the past. A bite/attack can range from moments to a few minutes. Or even a car crash. These events can happen so fast but leave years of trauma to resolve. People drown in 3 feet of water and in 10 feet and so on. Don't discount what has happened to a person.
What kind of people are they??? Man 😔😔
@@YukiSilverFox72 Exactly. The most traumatic experience of my life only lasted about 10 minutes, but it took me almost 10 *years* to start recovering.
-come over and see ‘johnny depp harrrases women online absolute proof’
No like being r3ped once is horrible in itself but over and over for 4 days where you can’t escape and then someone has the audacity to say it wasn’t that bad what the actual hell is wrong is people
4 days- that's 96 hours of just torture and abuse....people are so ignorant i swear
Fr. 8 seconds is incredibly long for bull riders. Imagine 96 hours of torture 😣
Ong I wouldn’t even last an hour
jordan it's not 96 hours strait but yes it's annoying they say it like it's nothing
Time
Wait who The fuck said tuhat wasnt a Lontoon time
To all the toxic people who say “only four days” it was four days of hell.
who is even saying four days
who is even saying four days
tiffany philips Watch the video first Moron
The people saying those things deserve 4 days in hell
4 days too long
Those jail times make me sick. 19 days. Kidnapping and violating a CHILD should be at the LEAST like 50 years. Absolutely unforgivable.
It should be death penalty!
@@marissa._ i'm fine with that!
Anyone who would sexually assault a child deserves a painful death
no it should be life in prison
Atleast 20 badgillion years😻😻😻😻
“4 days ain’t that bad”
I can’t believe there’s people like that. I bet they would be crying and sobbing from just a couple minutes of what they went through.
Yeah, a lot of the times when ever I think of someone going through a r@p3 then I forget and often times am in disbelief that it could really only last less than ten minutes sometimes, yet the person is still most likely scarred for life.
if I spent 20 minutes in a car being kidnapped I would literally shit myself
@@NekcropIf I spent TWO SECONDS in a car being kiddnapped I’d pee and poop myself
FR the SECOND i am in that car i have passed out from terror😭😭😭
4 days is
96 hours
5760 minutes
345 600 seconds
one second is enough to get one punch.
let that sink in before saying it's not big.
thank you for this comment!
Hey is it okay if a put copy and paste? I am going make sure they know I copied and I found it from you I already have the comment made if you wanna see it but it is clear that I found it from you
345600 seconds. each one spent fearing for your life. who ever said or is saying "only 4 days?" needs to be more empathetic.
OML Thats actually true- maybe its actually 5 seconds but, yeah
It can take less then a second to get punched accutally so its even worse, i hope these people who kidnapped them burn in hell
CHILDREN CANNOT AND WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONSENT TO ANY ADULT SEXUAL ACTIVITY.
And that’s a fact
@@Shadow-vd7es nice
Period.
Fax
Amen.
I know this video is old, but as a survivor of kidnap & rape by multiple people (including family members) I have to say I am incredibly proud of what the 2 women have done. My long, multi-year story isn’t public & never covered by the news, so I don’t know what it would be like to deal with the emotional trauma in a public way, but I do know how I dealt with it in a very private, hush-hush environment. My trauma wasn’t recognized, nor was there any justice served. I was shamed as a child if I mentioned anything about what I went through. In fact, in January of this year (2022) did I finally admit to someone what I went through. While I have openly talked about a few things, I’d hid the entire horror from my husband, kids & friends. I appreciate you supporting surviving champions who have been through living hell & came out with a an immeasurable about of strength, grace, empathy & resilience in order to help others understand how to do the same, no matter their story or own experience.
I'm so proud of you for continuing on with your life and for continuing to do so. It's terrible you went through that, and I'm so sorry it all happened. But I'm glad you can open up about it now and heal further. Thank you for living, internet stranger :)
You are so strong and I hope you can live your life freely from now on.
@@icyhot9850 Thank you friendly stranger! There are no words that can ever express how appreciative I am for the kindness, support! Thank you
@@blorblin Thank You so much! After finally opening up about what happened, I definitely noticed a more positive shift within myself & my relationships which is amazing!
Can’t imagine how incredibly difficult that must have been. I hope you are in a better environment and can continue to heal. Sending love your way ❣️
As a SA survivor, Every minute that things went on, was a minute too long. It’s absurd that someone would say that four days being KIDNAPPED, TORTURED, and ASSAULTED isn’t “that bad”. And it was live streamed? The hell. The ignorance of some people
Pedophilia is not a sexuality, its a disgusting crime
wait who said it was?
@@randomguy9108 that’s gross as shit wtf
@@randomguy9108 their called maps cause they are leading themselves to hell
random guy WTF
@@randomguy9108 AYO TF
It doesn’t matter if you were kidnapped for an hour, a day, or a year. Being KIDNAPPED is terrifying and horrible.
exactly.
Yyyyeeeeeeeessssssss
Exactly
Exactly it’s a traumatic experience that I would imagine you won’t forget
Yea and the kidnappers should be torture just like they did to them
When i was 15 i met a girl online. We started talking and she said something along the lines of "we should meet up in person". I was seriously debating it but decided against it in the end. I don't know if this was a dangerous person or if this really was the girl like she said. If my parents didn't teach me about internet safety i'm pretty sure i would have gone. Knowledge is power.
in 2020 i talked to this boy on playstation messages, (his voice sounded maybe 16) and we never really talked much and when locations were mentioned, he said his actual state but i said a general location (north/south/east/west) and i never even specified in what country either
but then my father found out and i lost all devices up until the middle of 2021
that time alone was filled with the most crippling depression i’ve ever felt, but it was for the best, i guess
My dad once told me even if the person IS who they say they are its not worth risking it because it could cost your life
W parents
Dude I'm surprised I never got catfished or got in any danger after meeting so many girls thru dating apps. I don't do that anymore but yeah you just never know. So many creeps out there
I haven't been kidnapped, but I have been a victim of brutal abuse, sex trafficking, torture, neglect, and a list of other things. And what I gotta say for those who wanna victim blame and for those who want to minimize or degrade all of us who went through those traumas and traumas of all sorts, walk in our shoes for the amount of years, months, hours, even minutes of the trauma we've faced. People need to be aware of these things and need to be taught how to avoid being in these situations. These girls are heroes in my eyes. They deserve every inch of respect. They are trying to make a difference for this world by talking about what they went through and teaching kids and adults how they can avoid these experiences. These women are brave. They don't just speak for themselves, and they don't just speak for other survivors of kidnapping, but they speak for all of us who went through some serious trauma and are our voices. For that, I thank them very much.
Why would someone ever say "only four days" like that's fucking disusing .
Right
I agree, she was terrified for her life... she knew the day she was rescued that she was going to die.... don’t down play the trauma she went through by saying “only _ amount of days”... the time period doesn’t matter, it was traumatizing and shouldn’t have happened..... PERIOD
It’s only four fays
@@yea9677 are you kidding me?! Four days is a long time. For you to even comment that is disgusting
@@yea9677 you can't even spell right so you're clearly not educated
Imagine saying: “that’s not that bad” to someone that has been raped, beaten and kidnapped for four days I-
Anonymous bruh are you making this a gender competition, keep that on tiktok my dude
@Anonymous Well yeah obviously, but the VAST majority are men. Plus starting a sentence with "I felt really sorry for these women *but* " doesn't look too favorable for you
@MB i have seen cases of women commiting equal or worse crimes, i am not saying that there aren't horrible men out there that commit terrible acts against women. but there are just as many women commiting terrible act to men and the truth is that the justice system is far less fair to men than it is to women, women often get lesser sentences for the same crimes, and the system has a nasty habit of siding with women no matter the circumstances, with questions like "what did he do to make her mad?" the male version of "what was she wearing?" once again i am not trying to make light of what happened to either of the women in this video or anyone else for that matter, just saying that horrible things happen to both sexes and are commited by both sexes.
@@savannahssuffering we get that this happens to men too, but you're dismissing what happened to her making you apart of the problem
*_KIDNAPPED IS KIDNAPPED MK_*
(sorry I'm just saying that kidnapped is just kidnapped it doesn't matter how many days or the gender or age oof this might look like I'm saying it's good to kidnap but it's just the opposite of that qnq)
When I was 13, my best friends older brother, who was a decade older than me, attempted to convince me to sneak out and get in his car via AIM messenger. I almost did. At 13, I thought it was cool that someone older would want to ‘hang out’ with me. When I look back on it, it gives me goosebumps imagining what could’ve happened. I wish I had more knowledge about how to interact with people online. I can’t blame my parents because at that time, the internet was so new.
Thank god you didn't get in that car.
Or maybe he really wanted to hang out🤷♂️
@@obzidian3746shut up
@@obzidian3746 💀
@@obzidian3746 😶😶😦😶
"I didn't know that I wasn't the only 'special one' that grandpa had."
This shot chills down my spine...
Honestly
But what exactly did he mean when he said “special one”
19 DAYS FOR KIDNAPPING A CHILD FOR 4 YEARS? WHAT THE HELL-
ikr
They should get 50 to life
WHAT THE HELL
IKR TF
like i don't understand why people just wanna make people lives worst and just kidnapped them like ugh-
Saying “iT wAs oNlY fOuR daYs” is like saying they only cut off your feet and only ONE of your hands you have your other hand your fine
When did he say that
SADBOYS production he never did, she’s saying that people who told her that
@@bois-se8id its just an example.
SADBOYS production it’s just an example
Would you rather spend four days in an unfamiliar place, or PERMANENTLY lose 3 pretty important body parts. It really isn’t the same. Yes, it would be better if they never went at all, but leaving with all your limbs after a 4 day stay with a stranger is much better than dying
this is the most terrifying video i've watched compared to the nutty putty cave incident. i don't EVER wanna trust strangers. i feel so bad for Alicia too, she got rap*d and tortured, it was terrifying to listen. i learned from this video, i'm never letting go of anyone i know and love.
Oh yeah I remember the nutty putty cave incident…
holy crap 101 likes?
@@Jappa3 the hell is that
@@eriven_tq some dude got trapped in a cave upside down in this very narrow area, he was stuck for days until he eventually passed away. Dude was an experienced cave explorer whilst also being pretty flexible, which is the reason why very few people even managed to reach him
@@Jappa3 ye I just watched it I was curious, that thing is scary
One thing about when you are kidnapped, yeah it may have only been hours, but it may have felt like days, and if has been at least 48-72+ hours, then it seems like the days merge, and the only things you can really think about is death, hope, and the how helpless you are. Its a sad, painful, traumatic experience.
Yup I agree and it’s true. When it happened to me all I could think about was if I would be killed and all I did was pray. Also yea even a couple hours can seem like years and years.
For reference to people who say “4 days isn’t that bad”:
Sexual assault can happen in seconds, and that can be a life altering event.
Imagine how much assault can happen in in 4 days, even one.
My trauma happened in 10 minutes. I can't even imagine what it's like to endure even 4 days of torture. My heart is broken, I want to protect all of them :(
LeneChibi I’m so sorry that happened to you!
Ray Of Fucking Sunshine oh my gosh that’s horrible
Exactly, it only takes one moment to ruin a lifetime.
@@LeneChibi F
kidnappers deserve to go to prison AND NOT LEAVE .
And execution. Depending on what they did to that person.
umm no they dont deserve to go to prison
THEY DESERVE TO GET A DEATH SENTENCE
And to rot in hell
@@the.onesamreid yes
Sadly, that is sometimes not the case...
The fact that it was all live streamed is traumatizing yet it was her life savor.
I’m honestly in constant fear of being kidnapped. I side-eye people suspiciously when my gut and intuition says to, I stay away from creeps, I watch true crime to defend myself, and then hearing voices who speak out about educate me. Hope these women are doing okay.
my father has been teaching both me and my brother self defense at the gym
i’m so grateful for him for that, i know not everyone has that
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Great dad. I've been thinking of figuring out some way to make my son join a self-defense thing of some sort, because he's a fragile, very kind and good nature and have Asperger, but with low self confidence I think.. I've been training HEMA (Historical European Martial Arts), and can probably knock out almost anyone if I just have a stick or similar, it get built into muscle memory, and tried to bring him once, but he thought it was scary with the swords, and perhaps too rough for him. Do you have any advice of what made you interested in it?
Who ever told that brave woman,
"4 days?? Thats not that bad!"
Is a rotten and sick person.
I wouldn’t say that. I think they just don’t understand because they haven’t experienced anything like it
They’re probably 12 ur olds that think they can say anything bc “it’s just a word”
I'm a little scared tht they had to suffer much longer and thts why 4 days seems less?
bhavika Kosambia r u saying that bc of longer experiences 4 days seem less?
The majority of kidnapping victims will be dead, by then.
“4 days? that’s not that’s bad!” most abducted children are murdered within 24 hours of being taken so like... 4 days is actually REALLY bad
It was like a slow murderer
Even worse most places don't take missing reports until its been after 24 hours since the person has gone missing. I'm not sure about this though I've just heard it somewhere
Hay Thi
That is only a myth, however I believe that myth is starting to become a fact...
@@MN-ys2pe this is not true for missing kids
@@eclipseisbmyt666 I hope it stays a myth and not become reality
As a kidnapping survivor myself. This video was so well done and well handled by Anthony and it felt so nice to watch this and feel less alone in such a scary world. Sometimes I watch back at this video again for the comfort. Thank you Anthony ❤️
When I first started going online, my mom sat me down and drew a diagram with just two circles, one smaller and inside the larger. She said “the smaller circle is the people you can tell everything to, inside the bigger circle is things you tell some people but not others, and outside the circle is people you can’t share anything with.” Then she had me go through and put a dot for where family fell on that scale, friends, and online friends. When I was done she explained the dangers of meeting people online and made sure I was aware that I can’t tell people online anything that could lead them to me. I think that every parent needs to have this conversation with their kid
Im sorry, LESS THAN A YEAR FOR REPETEDLY RAPING A CHILD?!?!?! I can't even fathom how that judgement could be just in any way.
It's so messed up. I can't even press charges against the man who repeatedly sexually assaulted me as a child because, get this, the statute of limitations is 7 years in my state. Seven years after he stopped he still had complete control over me financially and since I was still a child I wasn't even fully aware that what he had done was wrong.
Crystal Wolcott I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I hope that you were able to get help to deal with that and that you are able to have an absolutely beautiful life from now own.
Rape charges aren’t taken seriously enough and neither are pedo charges... like they should get the death sentence
Welcome to the American justice system
Crystal Wolcott I’m so sorry that happened to you.. I hope you’re in a better place. ♥️
Just being raped is bad. So being held captive, tortured and raped for “only four days” would be terrifying and if you don’t think so than I’d love to see you live through it.
I agree. Imagine how long 4 days of school testing feels like. Or being grounded for four days. Add being kidnapped, raped, and tortured on top of that. It makes me sick to think that people actually say that to others. Even 5 minutes would be enough to be killed, she survived FOUR DAYS. Back off.
I understand it's sad that people wouldn't think it's "that bad," but I wouldn't wish that on anyone. So instead of saying "I'd love to see you live through it" maybe it'd be more appropriate to hope that person would think more about what they said and understand the circumstances. Not a good thing to say, but I doubt they understood the full story.
@Nathan D. Larson how is your comment relevant?
@Nathan D. Larson wtf are you going on about?
@Nathan D. Larson Sorry, are you defending pedophilia?
I remember being groomed by lots of men when I was 12 (2009) it really is scary. Luckily I didn't meet anyone as they didn't show up and I went with my friend to the cinema so I wasn't alone and another time my mum read the messages and called the police to protect me but they definitely sent extremely explicit messages and showed explicit things on camera as well as asking me to. I feel lucky for never being captured physically but it's still traumatising and I can't imagine the fear these women felt, I'm so happy to see them thriving now.
I'm so inspired by Alicia and Jan for being strong enough to come out and speak about that in this video. Alicia is honestly working so hard to prevent others from experiencing what she did, because she went through it and no one deserves to go through what these brave women went through. Lots of love to anyone who went through such a thing, you don't deserve it and if you haven't overcome it yet (which is a huge step) then I hope you do.
why is no one talking about the fact that the kidnappers got like NO JAIL TIME
It pisses me off too much to even think about it....
It's becuase the cjs look out for their own. Why do you think rich people get like no jail time? They're also rich. Same with rapists.
@@davidela9022 all child molester and rapist, once undeniable proof is given, should have an immediate bullet to the head! Natural selection. Then they can't ever hurt anyone again. And people will be deterred from doing it. People will continue to do this if they know they'll be out of prison in no time.
Strawberry Milkshake in my opinion, that’s the easy way out. I respect your opinion, but pedophiles get treated so poorly in prison (as they should) and I feel like it’s much better for them to have to go through the torture that they put on others.
david Ela I respect your opinion as well my dude(:
“Just four days? That’s not that bad!”
This is the problem I have with today’s society. No amount of trauma is bad enough. We downplay and compare every incident.
It is so retarded to measure drama with a certain amount of time. Jesus Christ. Agree 100%
AG AZ don’t say the r slur!! It’s ableist
So freaking dismissive. “4 days??? That’s not bad.” If you were held captive in a dungeon, deprived of socialising and sunlight, and then r*p*d against your own will... 4 days will feel like 4 years.
star_fruit Retarded isn’t a bad word so many people saw there a words that people say that are worse
I think 4 days is horrible even an hour could be horrible
Giant respect to the victims that can tell about the experiences.
It is so traumatising to think there is at least, AT LEAST 70,000 CHILDREN are missing as we speak💔 They will be in my prayers
I can’t believe someone actually told Alicia that “oh four days isn’t that bad/long.”
Trauma doesn’t have a shelf life.
Yes it does
@@TestChannelOfcourse no, it really doesn't...
FamousBump Elaborate.
People who think that a minute is fast they clearly have not done a plank. Some people are idiots.
I mean, when u compare it to people who hv been kept it captivity for months or longer (like jaycee dugard), then yea. But in no way am i discrediting wat she went thru. Im just saying theres worse out there
EDIT: btw im not referring to the trauma. Im referring to the sentence in commas
“Do not question yourself. Do not judge yourself. Take your time with yourself. You’ve fallen down before and you got back up. That strength is still in you”
Such powerful words to live by. This narrative applies to everyone, abduction survivors or not.
(P.S. for anyone who doesn’t know Alicia said this in the video)
Well said!👍
true thatttttt ....🥰
I never expected a dog to say such things
Avinash Jain I myself am not a dog, but my profile picture is of my dog, though. :-)
Judah Hernandez I was clarifying and trying to make the point that this comment/topic shouldn’t be joked about.
Kidnapping is one of my biggest fears and it breaks my heart to see how much they suffered, I wasn’t “kidnapped“ but I was often trapped in a room with my abu$!ve boyfriend for many months every day. It makes me feel better that there are other people out there who have experienced it too. But I hate when people say “you have to forgive and forget“,
So, I have to just ignore his touch every time I ever shower, or his glares whenever he sees me?! I hate these people. And “just four days?“ Just. Four. Days. Of. FVCKING. HELL!
Hearing this is so disturbing. I hate the feeling, and I can’t see these things too often. Alicia and Jan are so strong.
I've noticed that a lot of other interviewers and documentaries refer to kidnapping survivors as "victims" whereas Anthony refers to them as "Survivors"
Mad respect for you, man
Yeah I noticed that too
This. So much of this. All of this.
Calling someone a victim is so awful. No. We survived this. We are survivors, damnit. 💙
They are Warriors amazing! ❤️
Survivors are some of the bravest people I know. They are survivors. ♥️
Who tf?? Bro I was raped and it wasn’t even an hour. How dare anyone say, “Four days? That’s not that bad.” WTF
floweringtowers. That’s fucking horrible. I’m so sorry that happened to you.
that's fucking awful, I hope youre alright homegirl
I got so frustrated ...I was raped too❤
I’m so sorry, torture is torture, no matter how long.
That’s completely awful for someone to even THINK, but to SAY it to THE PERSON ... omg.. 🤬
..I was raped almost 7 years ago on my birthday (and he’s still out there). It was horrific and I know what she means about year after year expecting something that’s *supposed* to be a happy occasion, but instead it brings up pain and memories of the horror you lived thru, the fear, and the confusion of all those feelings.. its enough to swear off birthdays ~or ever even leaving the house~ *forever* . Hopefully that POS will *not* be released on her birthday and she won’t have to live thru that, on top of everything she’s already been thru! 🙏🏻
I feel like people that say things like “four days, not that bad..” CLEARLY have no sense of reality ... and I’m so sorry to you @floweringtowers. and all the other women (and men) out there that have been raped, kidnapped, or abused by someone. The fact that you are here and are able to read this means that you are NOT a VICTIM ANYMORE and you DESERVE EVERYTHING GOOD that the world has to offer you, and *so much more* !!
I know it’s not easy .. Please stay strong and try not to ever feel alone! You are not alone! You are a survivor and you are SO STRONG!! 💗💗💗💗💗💗
"it was just 4 days" 4 days and a lifetime of trauma.
Here's a tip: if your a teen and you want to meet an online friend irl, have an adult and/or a group of your friends go with you. If they don't have ill intent then you can introduce them to some people in your life, no harm no fowl, and if they do have ill intent their likely to not do anything if you're not alone.
another tip:be careful wat info u give to strangers online they can use dat against u
only 4 ?! How dare everyone who says that. I saw and interview about a woman being abducted for "only" 8 hours in these 8 hours he tried to drown her 4 times, raped her multiple times, choked her, beat her so all her rips were broken and she had inner bleeding plus multiple fractures..again in "only" 8 hours. Image having to go through this for 4!! days
That would even feel longer. Imagine waiting 10 mins while bored, it feels longer than it should be. More so when you are in a dangerous situation without any guarantee of escape. Every hour would feel like an eternity, it would would be scarring mentally and emotionally. What really sucks after this is you'll never be the same after these kind of incidents.
They were trying to help the person move on, emotionally. Your outrage makes you feel exhilarated, and is predicated on a lack of empathy, ironically.
@@ladymercy5275 what are you on? Invalidating someones trauma isnt going to help them get over it, itll just make them feel worse.
Yeah, 4 days isnt nothing.
Yeah, time means nothing if you're put in a stressful, painful situation. It doesn't matter if it's a few days, or even a few minutes, or even a few SECONDS. In that moment, every single second is horrible, and intensified. Every moment dragged out to seem like it lasts longer. The fear stays with you, changes you. People who told her that to her face clearly don't understand, and they don't care to either.
the fact the man is going to be released on the girl's BIRTHDAY is horrible. You'll never look at your birthday the same.
😡
THE JUSTICE SYSTEM IS S*$& (I don’t usually swear but this is a serious topic)
He's back in jail.
Filth like that should be purged from society. Call me an edgelord. They just re-offend. Nobody worth "rehabilitating" would ever do that to another human being.
@@lilscenechick1995 exactly. sadists like him don't deserve a life, they are only a danger to others
alicias story reminds me of the toy box killer, poor girls, they mustve been going through a lot after these experiences. Being kidnapped is my worst fear ever! My heart goes out to these strong brave survivors.
I was groomed online by child predators for four years. They brainwashed me into thinking that they loved me when I was just an object to them. And I felt like I had no way out. I finally got the courage to stop engaging in it, and I was lucky enough to not be in a position where I was forced to continue. Stay safe on the internet.
For the “only four days” people, remember, a thousand days of evasion is better than one day of captivity. Trust me.
to those people, i would like them to experience what she did just for 1 day since 4 isn't that bad, 1 must be easy for them...and see how not bad it'd going to be for the rest of their lives. obviously i don't really wish something like this to happen to anyone but comments like that are so incredibly ignorant i can't even believe it
@@edelleaa agreed
Preach
Wats evasion )sorry about the speling)
@@craftcorner3312 to evade something means to be free of it, to avoid it. in this context: evasion = freedom
It's amazing how 19 days can seem like nothing to a criminal
but 4 days can seem like a lifetime for a victim
I was just thinking this
i was was kidnapped by my biological father when i was five, only for 24 hours. but, it felt like days
@@lilyyyy7306 i’m so sorry about that. i hope you’re doing okay.
@@hilol2220 i am doing better! thank you for asking!
@@lilyyyy7306 that’s good! i’m glad to hear :)
If I was kidnapped, I don't think I could think straight or even bring myself together enough to try and get out of a kidnapping situation. These people are amazing ❤
Im so grateful that these girls are safe and got saved and god blessed them!!😊
Its disgusting how most people say, “getting robbed is worse than being raped”- Rape is worse because your traumatized by it, it sticks with you, Yes robbing someone is horrible but rape is worse, I know this has nothing to do with the video but I am just pointing out.
Everything that happened is bad to someone in their own way. Doesn't matter what it is or how bad it is. We don't need to compare things that happened to you or that traumatized you. Yes a robbing is bad, and yes rape is bad. The ones that expierenced this know that what happened to them is worse in their own way and to their selfs. I rescued myself from being raped, yes it was absolutely traumatizing but it was traumatizing to ME. Something worse might've happened to someone but, i don't need to compare that. Because that thing i lived through is BAD to me and not to others.
Unless ur Bruce Wayne.
Who tf is "most people" here??????
@@unusedname2283 rape is worse no doubt about it lol
If someone robbs you,they just take your property.If someone rapes you,they take your confidence and self-respect.
Drug crimes get more time than sexual assault/rape crimes. Disgusting
You have no proof of that
Exactly! Crimes against the government get punished more than crimes against other human beings
@@connordeforest3712 dude, search it up
@@connordeforest3712 the top penalty for drug trafficking is a LIFE sentence bro, common fact you can check. Do you think under 1 year for torture is good and dandy? Are you all goods bro x
@@connordeforest3712 google is free
The fact that these people are allowed to just walk free even if they repeat the crimes is absolute insanity to me. If these judges themselves aren’t the same type of person that they are sentencing, then why are the sentences so shitty? Our world is beyond corrupt.
torture can make even an hour feel like an eternity, just imagine yourself being tortured for an hour, I cant imagine how she felt during those 4 days.
He’s going to be released on her birthday. That is horrible.
Yeah ikr
these people don't deserve to be free they deserve nothing they deserve to be hated by everyone fear for their life i don't care if this is dark they deserve nothing. nothing
The fact that he’s gonna be released at all is horrible..
The fact that people like this exist
@@drista6648 for a second I thought you were talking about the kidnap survivors
The guy that got released early after raping, beating, kidnapping, and truly torturing someone, AND he was about to kill her, doesn’t deserve to breathe our air. Just my opinion.
I agree with your opinion
I agree... He needs to go to the kind of place Hitler would run...
@@messibessi11 agreed our justice system is disgusting
I agree 100%
if someone doesnt even somewhat agree something is wrong with they way they view people
Anyone who says “less than 5 days being kidnapped isn’t that bad” is probably also going to be dead by hour 3 if they ever got kidnapped.
You know, this is the second video I watch from this channel (the first one was about the morticians). At first I thought that it would be anoying because Antony seemed to me like someone who would try to make fun of the situation just to keep it "chill". I have been surprised with how sensible and gentle the conversations have been handled so far. Loving it!
Imagine being raped tortured and assaulted and people say “its not THAT bad” THAT IS STILL TRAUMATIC!!
Yeah like they are like “ It’S NoT ThAt BaD “ like ok then you go through the trauma and they are like “No WhY wOuLd I dO tHaT “ OH I’m sorry I thought it “ WaSn’T tHaT bAd “
Honestly tho. Like, *you* try going through even half of that, and see how you feel
I agree
@Haru_Kobayashi ikrrrrr
I know its just weird
Petition to keep them in jail
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Having these conversations with children is so so so important!
If someone told me “Just 4 days?” I would have responded with “Well, how many days have you spent in a strangers basement getting tortured and sexually assaulted?”
I know right??? Like, excuse me, have you gone through the situation? No, you haven't, so stop pretending like it's no big deal. People can be such idiots.
Say “rape” for some reason “sexual assault” makes people not take it seriously.
Sirama
This. I despise when people label something like forcing a peck on someone’s lips as sexual assault. Was it not good to do? Yes. But was it sexual assault? Absolutely fucking not. It gets downplayed so damn much that talking about rape even sounds like a joke. People literally use rape as a joke these days, like “don’t turn around or i’ll rape u”. I can’t take it, it’s so fucking insensitive.
Right? 4 days must seem like a lifetime, when you don’t know if you are going to live or die. Being terrified for every single second of that time must really mess with your head.
Seriously!? Could you imagine someone just torturing you for even an hour?
“iT wAs OnLy FoUr DaYs” yeah four straight days of torture. That’s nothing! Only 96 hours of T O R T U R E. why would anyone say that that’s so stupid
Imagine saying to a rape survivor "Oh it was only 15 minutes, it wasn't that bad"
She was gone for 4 days, FOUR DAYS, that's not a short amount of time nor does it make it any lesser.
@@seanraftree5905 You're misunderstanding the comment. @LucidDreams said how the people who say "it was only four days" are horrible human beings, and that they don't agree with the statement.
He might of sexually abused her, and he definitely could of killed her. That four days probably felt like a month..
Because of the fact that people LOVES to remind you that, somewhere else, there's people suffering more than you.
As a CHILD
These two are so brave and inspirational...I cant even fathom how traumatic these experiences must have been
man this hit kinda close to home, I was never kidnapped but I was sexually harassed by my guy friend and he's going after my sister now, I literally bust into tears.. I can't imagine how those two felt.. I'm so glad their safe now
Please tell someone ❤️❤️ Keep your sister safe
4 days. 4 straight days. That is a LONG ass time. 4 days is 96 hours. 96 hours is 5760 minutes. 5760 minutes without love, a family, pain.
And she was a *child*
I'm sure every minute felt like an hour. Every second passing by, and it feels like you're never going to go home. And to ever blame these people for what they had to go through is disgusting. These woman are strong, and empowering, and brilliant. Never downplay a persons suffering, ever.
this comment deserves more likes.
Exactly, EXACTLY. She had no idea she was going to be saved. She thought she had more time before her own murder, but she thought that time was going to be spent being tormented and raped indefinitely. The strength and courage that young girl showed.... to fight strategically for more time, knowing that time would be the worst time of her life.... wow. Powerful.
I remember watching an interview with a guy who was kidnapped for "only" 40 hours here on youtube and I remember seeing some salty comment about how that's not even 2 full days and the guy's a pussy, because I guess man aren't supposed to get hurt by this? Seriously, the length of it or their gender shouldn't invalidate anyone's trauma.
also, she didn’t know how long she would be there and that just is worse
@@Ax00xL I agree. A lot of times, men have their emotions invalidated because of their gender. I feel like it's way too often that men who are sexual assault survivors or just assault survivors in general feel like they aren't allowed to be upset about it because "men are supposed to be strong" or even worse "emotions are for women!"
It’s awful how they are letting her abuser out on her birthday, it’s totally ridiculous
It’s ridiculous they let him out period.
Seriously like what a greeeat birthday gift
/s
LudoTheMeh exactly
@gamingwith me here is not the time for stupid memes.
if i were making the decisions it would be therapy, mood stabilizers, fifty years of prison, and possibly a mental institution
I watched a documentary about Jan's case. That man spent years manipulating, blackmailing, and brainwashing the entire family, including Jan's parents, all to get to and have access to Jan. It was sick.
She's so brave. The mental recalibration you would have to do to recover... I can't fathom the strength.
It’s so incredible to watch these types of videos and see the kidnapping survivors point of view and see how they escaped and what happened to them!
Imagine being such a disgusting person to respond with “only four days?” to her telling her story about being r*ped and beaten. It doesn’t matter if she was kidnapped for four hours, days, months; it’s still a kidnapping. A lot of kidnap victims are killed within the next 24 hours after being kidnapped and people have the audacity to make it seem like four days isn’t a lot. She’s literally so fortunate to be alive today and people are really downplaying her traumas like it’s nothing.
@@user-pp8db2ll6k I think it was a comment
Honestly though
Such a Pervert Woody 14:50
Actually 14:53 she says a lot of people say it to her saying 4 days isn't that bad
exactly,ugh.
Stupid people: ONly fOUr dAYs
Could be just me but I’m pretty sure any amount of time spent being tortured in a basement is too much time spent being tortured in a basement.
bruhh imagine having to go to sleep 3 times in a row inside a torture basement, not even knowing if you'll wake up 😭
Amen
Exactly I couldn't even imagine an hour of torture. Torture is torture either way and people who think "4 days" isn't bad should learn that so much can happen so easily in such little time
XRYING 5 minutes of torture would break me forever. one minute.
10 minutes or 10 hours. it’s still torture
I love Anthony Padilla's way of interviewing. His videos are always fun and interesting and never biased. Thanks for creating such wonderful content!
This video made me almost cry 🥺 their so strong, for sharing their story and living a lovely life, despite what they have gone though. It reminds me that no matter what happens to you in life you can be strong and move through it.
I hate that people actually say stuff like “It was only 4 days”. It doesn’t matter if it was a few minutes, a few hours, or a few days, it’s still a very scary and certainly traumatic experience. A lot can happen in a few minutes and she was there for 4 days! These ladies are so strong, I can’t imagine how scary it must have been to be abducted and feel that sense of hopelessness and not knowing what’s going to happen next.
Yeah. Death can happen in a few seconds
Who tf even says that- "only" 4 days- this one of the major reasons why people are afraid of opening up.
So true...i feel when ppl are ignorant they need a taste or wakeup call. Though I don't wish that on anyone.
Ikr they annoy me so much. The worst part about judging someone is that you can never know what they went through. You always tend to imagine in the negative way.
4 days..... do people not know how quick death is? It only takes a moment for people to decide to end your life even when its not your fault.
This is why victims don't speak up... justice isn't served.
Exactly, they have to be afraid of repercussions. What happens when they get out?
Seriously
Yup. Because when the kidnapper goes to court, chances are they'll go back for the victim. To "make them pay" for telling someone. Disgusting.
Hmm ur num. Of likes is 666 lol
Law system at its finest
She is very right about it happening a lot within homes and people avoiding talking about it is very true, thanks for telling us your stories ladies, very strong 🥰
The survivors are so brave to say something it makes me sad that this happened to them.
Pedophilia is not a sexuality. Minors cannot give anyone consent, it's not just unlawful it's totally disgusting that people look at kids and have these thoughts.
EDIT: Ya so I don't wanna 'exterminate' them from the society or whatever. If they can get help well and good, we all can move on with our lives peacefully but if they can't they are sex offenders BECAUSE CHILDREN CAN'T CONSENT. No matter what the sexuality is, intercourse without consent is a crime.
They're trying to be a part of LGBTQA+ and we will never claim them
@@SolidCheshire discussing and getting help is fine... but things this and rapes are what make them dangerous. You are right this should be talked about, they need to he understood as well before they become dangerous.
They are disgusting. We will never allow them in.
Boboqt Vv the feelings of being sexually attracted to a child, while still disturbing, aren’t inherently illegal. its if that person then decides to act upon these feelings where it’s a problem.
We are never letting them be a part of the community.
the fact these people are allowed out of prison makes me beyond angry and disgusted.
Hi
what's even worse is that a lot of rapists don't even get a day behind prison bars
@@rocki7426 In Saudi Arabia, rapists are beheaded then their heads are thrown down to the crowd and they are hanged
TheFuryOfTheDragon we should normalize that
@@cricketjuice i love your pfp
I am so proud of these women for sharing their stories. What a traumatic experience they had to go through. Even an hour being kidnapped could feel like a day. It must be hard for sharing what happened, and I hope these men who had kidnapped you both stay in jail for life and starve. All kidnappers should just go crawl into a hole and stay there forever. Proud of you both for surviving such a horrible time and getting out. So sorry this happened to you both at such young ages, however it is in the past now and I hope kidnapping never happens ❤️ Focus on the future now, live your best life, and try not focus on those traumatic memories that may flash back. Support and love to you guys and again, so proud of you ❤️
One thing I've always remembered is to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. For there to be change, you have to get used to being in situations or being a part of conversations that are hard to swallow.
Once my therapist said to me. “Trauma might have been a few hours or even a few days, but for trauma survivors it is like a million years long. Your brain keeps repeating that event pretty much everyday and you keep reliving which makes it feel like that”
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So true ❤️
Trauma could also be a few seconds for all that matter. A car accident, an explosion... I've been through a very bad earthquake that damaged my house quite a lot 4 years ago: it lasted less than a minute but I still have ptsd from it
Camila Chávez
That’s basically PTSD
Basically: ADHD
kidnapping is my worst fear. I have so much respect for these people.
edit: thanks for all the likes :))
User damn i hate the world bc of the fact u have to say that
I saw this thing idk how true it is... it says something u fear is probably what killed u in ur previous life... again idk if this is true I just saw it somewhere thought I should point it out
@User yep, but sometimes there may be someone so far gone that they just dont feel it which us scary, thats why a weapon is needed and not just the spray
My worst fear is being trapped in a tiny metal box sealed tight, and I have to escape in like an Hour, or else it will slowly start getting smaller and smaller until my bones break, blood will gush out from every opening and I slowly and painfully become a mangled corpse
If I ever have kids, this will be my biggest fear.
The scariest thing to me, is when the girl said "he drove from Pittsburgh Pennsylvania to Virginia" and I've been to those places, its terrifying to think about
This is just so mind blowing to think about. I just cannot imagine. I am constantly trying to teach my kids to be alert and safe as possible but u never know it could be anyone. These women are amazing!!!!
19 days.
19 DAYS?!
WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL IS WRONG WITH OUR JUSTICE SYSTEM?!
ikr she got more of a punishment than he did
If you payed the wrong taxes on accident you get five years by comparison
we don't have a justice system. we have a legal system. it sucks.
Everything
Its america obv it’s horrible. Only china cares about rape
I wish schools taught THIS. That rape is a horrible thing, that no man or women should have to ever be afraid to walk down a street. In Health we had ONE paper that mentioned rape and it wasn't even factual saying things like "women get raped because their clothes provoked the man". We need to stop teaching "boys will be boys" or "it's okay because it's a girl" rape or molestation is never acceptable. Schools and parents should build stronger generations that don't tolerate rape and know how to defend themselves.
My school teaches us this, and human trafficking, substance abuse topics, and more important subjects
Water Wolf we need more schools like yours!
Katherine Alberca
I agree 100%
The whole "women get raped because..." Is so wrong. Most of the time women that are raped aren't even wearing revealing or sexual clothing or anything of the sort.
@DudeImJasmine no its some sick perversion people have or some sick way to feel like they are in control. And the people who are supposed to protect everyone (police and justice systems) are not doing much to stop it. So ofcourse if you can get away with it, it must not be very bad behaviour and those people will just continue to do the same thing
These woman are so strong I’m so glad they survived to teach us the importance of being safe on the internet they deserve so much
I was 9 when a middle aged man approached me in a coach parking lot in KL asking me to help him with luggage. My gut told me to find my mom. It’s unbelievable how my life could’ve ended at the age of 9
So many people downplay and blame these women because they don't want to think that something like this could happen to them. We need to stop victim blaming and downplaying the impact of abuse.
I got that a lot in comments from when i was on a tv show talking about abuse from a guy. I to this day never knew how to respond to those comments until now. People at work found the episode and i heard comments like that from them as well. It was even harder in person lol but now i know what to say! Im extremely grateful for this video.
exactly!
Victim blaming and gaslighting is so toxic
People sometimes get on my nerves
@@Theconfusedace mhm
"it was only four days"?? BRUH IT WOULD FEEL LIKE A LIFETIME FOR THE VICTIM
Yeah if you were an interviewer you will assume it will be months
That’s true also I love ur pfp
@@ghjikmmllllmm2019 thank you i love yours too
@@ghjikmmllllmm2019 😂🤣
@@nootnoot2068 thank you and yw!
I'm so proud for them for being so brave for sharing their story being kidnaped is hard to share on the internet I can't imagine the stuff they have been through it must have been so hard for them they were so young when it happened.
Thank you very much for sharing this video!!! I hope everyone will pay attention, especially those who have children.