This is my friend's story about his sister's wedding. Destination wedding: Bali. They (he and his parents) flew from Jakarta to Bali. His sister was already there (staying with her groom's family 1 month before). When they arrived that evening, they took their luggages and go to the hotel. No problem so far. When they prepare to go to dinner party before the wedding, he heard his mother screaming. He rushed to his parents' room and found her mother pointing her suitcase. "That's not my dress! " His mother screamed. Turns out, they took a different suitcase. Same color, same brand, same size. And there's no ID tag or anything. His mother expected her dress (red dress, red slayer) on top of other dresses but found a single white puffy dress. It's a wedding dress! Somewhere out there a bride alost her wedding dress! So, they call the airport to notify this. Luckily, just before they called, a frantic woman came to the airport to find her wedding dress. So they (my friend's family, the airport, the woman) talked. My friend can't go back to airport (urgent dinner party with in laws). Turns out, the woman stayed at the same hotel but different floor! And her wedding was at the same place as my friend's sister but earlier hours! That night they successfully exchange the suitcase. And they have a story to tell the in laws. The next day, they met the bride and groom on the way out of the wedding place. They took pictures and all (he show it to me) Happy ending.
Whaaaat that reads like a movie script! Great ending :D but omg they must have been so stressed, especially that bride, when they found out they had the wrong suitcase!
Oh wow. This is why my parents and grandparents have always tied colorful ribbons on every handle of their luggage. It doesn't look great, but it's the easiest way to avoid luggage mix-ups
To prevent lost wedding outfits when traveling for a destination wedding ( mother of the groom here) the bride, groom , myself and the grandmother of the bride put our outfits together in the bridal garment bag, carried them onto the plane and asked a flight attendant to stow them for us. I can't remember if we had to make prior arrangements or not but it is a service provided to help protect the wedding gown.
Don't think I'll ever be in the position to travel for a wedding, mine or otherwise, but I'll keep that tidbit of knowledge tucked away... JUST in case. Never know, might help someone else. lol
And few things will infuriate a bride more than someone f-ing up the cake. My ex still complains about it and we’ve been divorced since 07! Just wanted to say the cake was delicious! It just didn’t have the flowers on it that she wanted. I didn’t even know that was a thing until the reception. #cluelessgroom
I live in OH. I had to go to CA for business. On the way home, we had to change planes in TX. We landed among a large backlog of planes right after a tornado. My luggage disappeared for about 3 weeks and came back with 9 different airport tags, one in S. America and another in Mexico. My luggage had more fun than I did on that trip.
As someone who had her luggage get lost in Mexico: the Puerto Vallarta international airport is VERY helpful and made my lugage magically reappear about 36h later, fully intact, at my resort. They were so nice that I, as a 20 yo woman traveling alone prone to major anxiety, never even had a whiff of worry that my stuff would get lost. So... I'm really glad I didn't fly to Cancun you guys. That'd have been a nightmare.
I was coming home from London and it took a full week for them to bring me my bags. I was a college student coming back from studying abroad I didn't have anything to wear for a week!
My 14 year old sister flew alone a day after my dad's family went to Mexico to catch up with them. From Vancouver to Puerto Vallarta I think. Her luggage never made it. She had to go through the trip with what was in her carry on and stuff they picked up from Walmart. It's been almost 2 months now and it still hasn't shown up. At least the airport is reimbursing her. And me cause it was my suitcase she borrowed
I took my daughters on a cruise from Piraeus to Barcelona (we live in the western US). We switched planes in Vienna and when we got to Athens aiport (after midnight), my older daughter's checked luggage was not there. They were NOT helpful at all, and instead of going to a hostel/hotel, we had to sleep on the airport floor. The last place it was traced to was Vienna. It had all her clothes, medicated soap & shampoos. Needless to say, she had a bad breakout & bad hair days for our 2 week, "once in a lifetime" trip. She also had to spend "fun" money on basic needs. She NEVER got her luggage back. She was reimbursed a bit by the airline, but she wears vintage clothing, so she couldn't get any of it again.
I fell walking down the aisle with my dad. I said "oh shit!" as I fell but thankfully he caught me. Then I whispered to him "am I allowed to say shit?" He started laughing. During our father/daughter dance he said "Thanks kid! I was just about to start crying and then you said shit and totally took the tears away!"
As a retired military officer, the one thing you learn is to always carry-on your uniform in a garment bag, so if your luggage gets lost, you have proper attire for your meetings. All other things can be bought at the other end. Highly suggest this for destination weddings bridal party wear (don't forget your shoes on carry-on as well). If you are NICE to the flight crew, they often will hang your garment in the first class closet for you as well (at they used to). Finally, when wedding plans don't quite work out, RELAX and plan a renewal of vows at the 10 year mark. People will have plenty of time to save up and plan their off time, and usually you'll have more money and less stress.
My dad used to travel for his engineering job and always told me to bring a suit/dress/formal attire, a pair of shoes and a few necessities for a couple of days in a carry on luggage: he had always done it and it proved to be very useful one time they wrongly send his lugguage from Italy to Anchorage instead of Atlanta where he had two very important business meetings XD He managed to recover his suitcare after 3-4 days, but it would have been a disaster if he hadn't boarded the flight with a suit and didn't have a change. Oh, planning a renewal of vows in 10 years and have another occasion to fully celebrate is such a good idea!!
We did a destination wedding in Hawaii. The day of, it was a torrential downpour all morning. Raining sideways and extremely windy. No backup plan. It was to be on the northern beach of the island. One hour before the wedding, the clouds broke, and the most incredible sunset happened. Turns out storm clouds at sunset make for really beautiful photos. We did the ceremony fast, just in case the storm returned. It didn't. The rest of the evening was beautiful and warm!
This is why if you want to get married on a beach you rent a private beach for the ceremony, some resorts off this service, so other people don't crash the wedding or other things ruin it. Also tropical climates have far more bad weather than people think they do and there is a "season" for it which differs from country to country. Always research the area before you book anything.
Yep, a lot of people don't research the weather patterns for their destinations & then act surprised when it starts to storm. I went on a cruise during hurricane season and people were shocked we almost got caught up in a hurricane....during the height of hurricane season lol
There are no private beaches where this took place. The beaches belong to all. 😊 If they were actually tourists, and not locals, they probably didn’t expect the cost of a beach wedding in Puerto Rico. On average, for a smaller size one, you are looking at 30-40k minimum for the hotels that have nicer beaches that they will block off the area. (This couple needed to find a small beach near Vega Alta or something, not an area in Condado or Isla Verde. 😂)
Yeah, people are just so bamboozled by all the beautiful pictures of destinations in media that they don't realize that place might just look like that the minority of the time.
Our wedding cake was delicious. Everybody had some and kept telling me how good it was LOL. The little bakery I got it from received a load of customers, and well-deserved too. It was vanilla cake with raspberry filling and simple vanilla pastry cream frosting. You don't have to spend a fortune for a sickening sweet cake no one will want. Support you mom and pop shops.
I went to a wedding and the bride is gluten intolerant, so their wedding cake was just her favourite cake but then enough for everyone. So tasty! And cute because it was a personal favourite.
We had "cake day" two days before the wedding. Friends and family in the church kitchen. I made my favorite (angel food cakes to be served with berries and whipped cream) along with several friends and family, and my husband's parents made his favorite (a super dark moist mocha cake with creamy coffee frosting). We made a little 6-inch of the chocolate to frost with whipped cream for us to cut together. It was so special and delicious. And we made gluten-free brownies and made sure to have GF snacks so the diet restricted relatives didn't have to pack their own lunches!
We bought three gluten free 9" cakes from our favorite cupcake bakery and when we told them the cakes were for a wedding because our other plans fell through, they decorated the cakes in our wedding colors free of charge 😊
Getting married later this year and I watch Charlotte to 1. Not turn into a bridezilla and 2. Thank myself for keeping my wedding as simple as possible 😂
The first one when the hurricane hit instantly made me think of "We Don't Talk About Bruno" 😂 But seriously, thanks for always posting and giving us a daily dose of serotonin. Take care of yourself, and hope you're doing okay, Charlotte!
When I got married, I walked down the aisle to the bridal march, but after about 10 seconds, it turned into a Rick Roll. It was the one thing my hubby asked for, and we had a blast. It got copyright claimed on Facebook, but then the official account for the company that owns the song liked our wedding video and removed the claim. It was amazing
The puking bride - I feel so bad for her - But - the forrest, lake, her dress, the colors, and even the turtle - GORGEOUS. I hope after the puking things got better.
Feel bad for the people who's weddings were ruined by covid and weather. And side note any guy you deside to marry would be a hell of a lucky guy. Don't put yourself down. You are a catch Charlotte
Hey, my time to shine! I recently had a gorgeous destination wedding in Mexico on March 27th 2022! I was the bride. It was wonderful despite the drama. The downside was my friends and family hung out for a week together and they didn’t end up getting along all the time. First, there was my brother helping try to give my groom a bachelor party which fell through in our home country. It was just misguided as it was drinking related and my future husband isn’t a big drinker. He would have much preferred what the others were initially planning which was a gaming day. Then, My mom was upset she specifically couldn’t take photos. To my mom’s credit, there was a bit of miscommunication on our side, but it was all blown a bit out of proportion in my opinion. The grooms side who showed up didn’t respect our no taking photos thing. I was stressed and busy and trying to enjoy my destination wedding but all the drama made me unable to enjoy it as much as I’d have liked due to drama. Moral of the story, if you do a destination wedding… make sure your friends and family can tolerate each other before leaving.
Unrelated, but good for you for laying down the rule of no one taking photos. I have read stories from so many wedding photographers saying guests ruined their shots, or they couldn't get a an overall photo without people's phones in the way. I plan on doing that for my wedding one day, if I marry.
@@addie-eileenpaige6460 thanks mate. I just wish we enforced it more for the other side as some didn’t listen anyway. So we did get a small portion of shots with phones but less than I think we may have had we not said something. I would also HIGHLY suggest doing a private first look with your significant other. 10/10 would do again. It was intimate, romantic, and something for just us on the day of.
First time I was flying internationally, I got the best advice which was to NOT check any bags on the way. Just took a purse/laptop sized bag and got a backpack that was the absolute largest size you can have as a carry on and used compression bags inside of it to fit a lot of clothing. Brough a rolled up duffel bag tucked in the bottom of the backpack and filled it with souvenirs and then checked that on the way home, but no checked bags on the way because if it gets lost or comes late then you're stuck somewhere far from home without all the stuff you need.
I have flew plenty and only once my luggage was lost for few hours, there was like 20 of us from same flight. they finally locates them. i always pack in backpack something that i get by if luggage doesn't make it (few set of underwear, shirt, pants, socks). my traveller's insurance will cover if luggage is lost and i need to buy stuff. but if you can make your trip with cabin bag only, it's of course safer. just remember that if your bag is max cabin size, flight is full and plenty have max size cabin bags - the crew may order you to put it in cargo (or whatever you call that space in English). first they ask volunteers and if none one steps up, they start ordering whose bag goes.
Hello thanks again for a good laugh, i recently found you on RUclips like a week ago and have been binge watching all of your videos haha can't get enough. Sending hugs from sunny Florida cheers 🥂
Welcome! So glad you found Miss Charlotte. She’s the best thing on the interwebs let alone RUclips! Remember to “subscrahb” if you haven’t already. And if you have, welcome to Tater Nation from your fellow Tater Tots (we’ll explain it later). Greetings from San Antonio TX.
I was once acting as bouncer at my Rugby friends wedding, mainly keeping an eye out for his crazy ex with instructions to stop her from causing trouble by any and all legal means (having spoken with the local police they informed us there was a distinct lack of restrictions on what this could entail, up to but not including kidnapping her till was over). This led to me and one of his other friends wrestling a can of red paint off her which was clearly earmarked for the brides dress..... So it ended with my nice vanilla white suit covered in paint and sand.....
@@thomasjoseph5876 I'm Just 5'10 but I'm about as wide as tall (useful traits for my position in the rugby team) and a Lawyer by trade, However because I spoke the local language (Malay/French) and well as English wore a suit and knew the local customs, the police thought I was some sort of private security expert..... So much so I had to speak with some people before I got on the return plane from an undisclosed agency. There was amusement all around.
My niece had her wedding ceremony at a park beach near her home town. (In Australia). There were people on the beach but everyone was so respectful during the ceremony. They either stopped to watch (which we thought was lovely) or they walked behind where the guests were sitting. The people who were standing to the sides applauded when the ceremony was over.
A golf wedding, while totally not my thing, seems reasonable. You're on a well landscaped, most likely private space, completely unlike the fools doing theirs on a public beach. GREAT nail color, too!!
While planning my wedding, I had stupidly forgotten to re-lace my gothic boots. We were 2 hours behind schedule when I tried to put the boots on (it was the final touch), I felt bad the guests had already been waiting so long that I said, "F* the boots! I'm going barefoot!" and threw the boots aside. It was the best decision, I think- no tripping, no falling, and I got to feel the grass beneath my feet. As a wiccan, it felt natural and wonderful. But a lot of people don't like dirt on their feet, so shoes may be necessary for them.
That sounds beautiful! What was your dress like? I'll never get married again, but if I change my mind I want an outdoor wedding in nature, dressed for comfort. I would hope my friend, Igor the raven would attend. He follows me all the way to town sometimes when I go grocery shopping. Probably to remind me to buy his favorite foods! When I'm outside working, he's always nearby watching. One day I was replacing hardware cloth on a chicken coop using screws and metal washers. Ever since then, he's brought me metal washers and left them by my bedroom door! I actually use them, he's brought a nice assortment!
Dope af! A bride who cares enough about her guests and her groom..... we used to walk barefoot b4 but you right some people wouldn't be caught dead barefoot & on their wedding day? You are a rockstar, hope you enjoyed every minute of the rest of ur day❣️🤘🏾
My wedding was falling behind when I couldn’t find my hand written vows. And we were getting married outside on a hot day with little to no shade. I felt so bad for the guests but it was still a beautiful day to remember
For people hoping to come to the Caribbean for destination wedding....hear this: June too soon, July stand by, August cometh must, September remember(but we get bad weather here still lol) October all over (but not always). This is for hurricanes okay so....
My son is getting married in Cancun on May 22 and these make me terrified we’ll all end up on one of your videos! I told him that no one has ever had, seen, or been to a perfect wedding - expect the unexpected! I also reminded him that if everything is perfect - they won’t have any fun stories to talk about for years and years. 🥴😁
word of advise: take your most important things in your carryon and that includes your wedding outfit, that way if your luggage for some reason gets lost, you at least have your wedding outfit :) good luck to yall!!
I had the perfect wedding. 13 guests, immediate family only. A small party after and 2nites at a hotel. We cancelled the big 300people wedding, as my father in law was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer. I was 23weeks pregnant on the day, we wanted our daughter as our bridesmaid/flower girl, and was planning to wait till following Oct when she'd be around 6months old. So we scrambled so hard to move it all forward, but as he was so poorly, we decided to just say no, family only (my parents and grown son as bro couldn't get off work with his gf and son, hubbies dad, mum, (they were divorced and her husband was not invited) 2 out of 3 sisters, their kids (all over 5, 1 sis isn't I'm his life or his mums so we didn't invite as she's just a nasty person). Was beautiful. No stress, my mum bought and came early to make a lovely buffet for after, and my fil was able to relax and not have to pretend as we all knew and didn't expect it. He passed away 4half months later, after having just 17days with his beautiful granddaughter (should been more but she went to nicu for 12days sadly). Not a single regret. But on our 10yr anniversary (this year is 7yrs) we r gonna renew our vows, have the big party, the white dress, and have 2 beautiful bridesmaids/flower girls now, and will remember his dad with such love. Less is sometimes much much more.
@@janetothen2583 what a sweet story! I’m so glad he got to see his granddaughter and moving the wedding up for him must have let him know how important he was to everyone! I hope you have a blast when you renew your vows - you deserve it! You have a wonderful mother - that’s how my mom would have been if she was still alive. My son and his fiancé have a lot of the same problems. He hasn’t even told his dad or anyone on that side of the family he’s getting married and the bride doesn’t think her mom is going to show up. I told her I can play mom of the bride and groom - not to worry about anything. When she told her mom last year about the wedding, her mom said ‘I won’t be able to make it. I’ll be sick then’. She’s crazy! We were going to have a good size wedding (my 2nd), but when my 45 y/o friends started arguing about who was gonna be my MOH - I noped out of that. We eloped in Vegas - just my son, his friend, my husband and I. We had a great time! I can’t wear dress shoes, so I decided to wear white Chuck Taylor high tops with my formal dress and my husband wore black Chucks with his tux! People in Vegas kept asking us if we were an art exhibit and saying they hope they’re that cool when they get ‘old’.
My daughter had same problem with her wedding due to covid in Scotland was cancelled 3 times so when there was a break. She and her husband got a small wedding day where she was there with witnesses no family but we new there was restrictions due to Covid. She is a animal lover and Her friends prepared her 3 horses which where dressed for the photo shoot and they went well, weather was lovely and sunny. Glad to say she had a great day finally even though not as planned and got to do a tour of Scotland Including islands, She got to meet people from her extended family and friends who new my Parents from Isle of Harris. Scary thing is she is a red head with which reminds me of you ........ :)
I am from Mexico, it is quite shocking to hear that nobody at the airport could help communicating in english in regard of lost luggage. Cancun is a very important tourist destination... specially for ppl from the U.S.A. and Canada.
We just got back from a vacation in Los Cabos and flew in and out of the Cancun Airport. All true. They just pile your luggage on the floor as it comes off the conveyor belt. And they don't speak any English, or at least they pretend not to. But all in all a great vacation.
For anyone wanting a destination wedding in the Gulf of Mexico/on a beach in Central America, Charlotte is correct. Hurricane season runs from June to about the first week of November. Plan accordingly. ❤️
#1 tip for people traveling to weddings in other countries and you’re in the wedding: take the important outfit into the plane with you. Better to show up a little creased and fix it when you get there than it not show up at all!
Charlotte, w all due respect you’re a snack and a half!! You’ve got a great sense of humor and an amazing personality!! 🥰🥰🥰 You might be too good for mortal men.
I had a big destination wedding. I live in the UK but originally I'm from Poland (my husband is Irish). For those who know polish weddings, they know it is always a big party, especially in the countryside. It was 3 days event. On the first day, we had a 'practice' dinner when my parents in law met my parents and our sides of the family met for the first time. It was very stressful as 99% of my family doesn't speak any English but my wedding planner (bless her soul!) helped me manage it with the big help of google translate... On the second day, we had a wedding reception and there were some problems, especially with my elderly side of the family as in Poland there is a custom that bride and groom get the blessing from the elderly side of the family it is very ritual/religion thing. As we had the outside civil ceremony in a beautiful garden and because of issues on the catholic/protestant level we decided to not involve any religion in our union and my grandparents and parents didn't take it well. Even tho I told them months before the wedding we will not have a religious ceremony and we don't want any religion at our wedding... And I repeat it to them multiple times but they just decided to not accept it so I'm getting ready with my dress and all. We are just by to leave for the 'first look' thing and there is a priest enter to my room... Then my mother in law started hyperventilating and all and screaming about it her son will never have the catholic wedding and all. Then my mom start screaming that she need to bless me etc (I might add my MIL screamed in English where my mom was screaming Polish...) Generally big drama. And I on the middle. Then thank God for my MOH and my wedding planner they take over, they kick out the priest, give champagne to drink to the moms and we were ready to go... The rest of the evening was pretty fine. And on the next day, we had this small brunch with the close of our families and friends (20people) and looks everyone had fun and get along. So, generally was fun with small hiccups.
Girl you are just slaying out these videos. I get so excited when they pop up. I love these wedding ones too. Hilarious and fun! 👏👏👏💜 That was the hurricane's way of "objecting" 🤦😂😂
I was at the Oregon coast with my mom checking out a lighthouse and there was a wedding party there trying to take photos. It was a gorgeous, sunny August day but it was 50 degrees and VERY windy up there. The bridesmaids had on super cute dresses but the cut of them was unfortunate for the amount of wind. The front of the dresses was like 2 sides draped over each other so it looked like flower petals sort of? So they were struggling to keep the skirts down while attempting to take photos and hold onto bouquets at the same time. One of the bridesmaids paused to gush about how cute my outfit was and let down her guard. Her dress flew up and her undies were on full display 😂😭 They all looked like they were having fun though! Everyone in the bridal party were laughing their asses off at the absurdity of the situation.
FYI for anyone considering a wedding in the tropics - hurricane season runs from May to November. And check the tide chart any time of year so you can plan the right time of day without all the smelly seaweed. I lived full time in a resort town in Mexico for 8 years and saw so many destinations weddings gone bad.
Another word of advice when planning a destination wedding, if the place you are going has a typical rainy season, don’t plan the wedding in the month on either side of the season because weather doesn’t always cooperate. We were in Costa Rica in early December. The rainy season typically ends in November. It didn’t that there. There was record breaking flooding in large parts of the country.
We got engaged right before the pandemic, and still got married on our planned Sept 2020 date. We went from 250+ guests to a backyard wedding of 20 people (including vendors). We all tested, and no one got sick. It was actually so much more intimate and special. It was lovely 💜
While not a wedding, the last time my luggage didn’t show up for a couple days was a good lesson to carry a backpack with extra underwear, a couple tops, pr of shorts, and a bathing suit. The backpack also has the iPad & iPod, All the chargers, a pen, Emory board, etc.
I got married in Cancun in Nov 2021, and I absolutely carried my wedding dress, accessories, our kids wedding outfits, husband's suit, etc as carry ons. SO heavy but I would do it the same way again. I figured if our regular clothes luggage were lost, we would just buy there. But NO WAY I was willing to risk our wedding day attire. I wore my extensions during our flight too 😂😂. I knew other things would be out of my control, but we have been together for 15 yrs and married legally and have 3 kids, we just finally decided to get married through the church so I guess I wasn't worried too much. Tantrums were expected with our youngest two (1 and 2).
My cousin wanted to go to PR for wedding. She ordered a large delivery of Godiva chocolates for her wedding. She’s big on chocolate. The hot humid PR weather melted them all.
Regarding the lost luggage. My sister had gone on a 2 week group back packing trip around Europe. She checked her only bag and it was lost on day one. The group couldn’t just wait in one spot for her lost luggage because they had a schedule to keep. Her bag caught up with her on the return flight home 2 weeks later. She had to buy all essentials like toothpaste and underwear etc. and she is in the same outfit in Every picture across Europe. Lol.
A travel trick I learned from my dad’s many business trips growing up: pack some toiletries, a few pairs of underwear, whatever clothes you absolutely need when you get there (bridesmaid dress, suit, uniform, etc.), and maybe another outfit if you can fit it in your carry on in case of lost luggage so you’re not like the girl in the video who doesn’t have her bridesmaid dress. I’ve been lucky so far that I’ve had the opposite problem of my luggage arriving before me but the tip has certainly saved my anxious brain.
If at all possible, try to travel with carry-on only - if you also choose a type of bag that carries well, that will make your trip so much easier! For many airlines, checking in luggage is quite expensive, so I quickly realised I could travel more often as well if I never took any checked luggage
I think being able to laugh at things going a bit wrong is one of the keys to enjoying your wedding day. If nothing goes wrong, great! If something does, everyone will enjoy the day more if your reaction is a positive one
It’s just better to expect something to go wrong and roll with it. As long as the bride and groom show up, along with a couple of witnesses and an officiant, that’s really all you need.
Right? It's a day of celebration, why should it be so stressful when something goes wrong!! Shrug it off and laugh, specially if it's something silly and simple
So a couple of months before my wedding I dislocated my knee had to get married walking with crutches. My best man picked up our suits on the morning of the wedding and they gave me the wrong sized trousers which were two sizes too big. I had to use safety pins to try and keep them up. Luckily I managed to not let them fall during the wedding vows.
i went to Florida during gay pride week once and they rented the entire beach for the week, so we got to camp on the beach for a few days which usually isn't allowed. it was so much fun, but at one point a little tornado came and threw a bunch of the tents
Honestly, the best wedding advice I have is, focus on having fun and bring your sense if humor. Plans are great, but they go awry.. don't let that spoil the joy of the act itself.
I was a maid of honor in a Cancun wedding this past February. I packed anything I needed for the wedding, plus 1 swimsuit in a carry on suitcase just in case my full luggage got lost in transit. Fortunately luggage wasn't a problem, though we had all sorts of other issues at the Cancun airport.
Although not as dramatic as the first clip,a hurricane did hit my city during my wedding..It actually behaved quite well and it only rained during the church ceremony, stopped while we were going to the reception, and then it rained for hours! Honey moon was delayed as all flights were suspended. It took us 6 hours to go to the capital that is near the airport(2 hours normally)Venezuela is almost never affected by hurricanes, except on my wedding day🤣
One of my best friends got married in 2020 during the height of the pandemic. There were 10 people total, including the bride, groom, and minister, and everyone was 6 feet apart and wore masks. It was simple but beautiful.
I once stumbled upon some random video by some guy who took his dad on a trip to Iceland to discuss hapiness. They agreed on several points as how to have a happy life but the most importnant one was this - do not have expectations. If you don't have them, no force in the world can ruin them for you.
Never been married, never been with anyone that would make me consider a wedding. I've always seen them as a waste of money, especially since half of marriages fail miserably (Congrats to the people who ended up with great partners.) That being said, you'd probably see a lot more of who a person truly is during the whole planning process, how they treat people, behavior when anything doesn't go as planned or they change their mind about something and lose their mind when there's no time or ability to change things. I wonder how many relationships have ended and weddings canceled days before when people saw the monstrous asshats their fiancés were leading up to the wedding. Wouldn't doubt it's a significant number.
Divorce doesn’t mean failure. People sometimes just realize they’re not with the right person. It’s just a contract, not a measure of value, character, or goal to achieve (unless you’re getting paid). If you don’t know a person before you agree to marry them, that’s really your fault for not caring enough to properly vet them fully
marriages (and weddings) work out when between people who actually love each other and can roll with the punches and not lose their minds over everything. That being said, anyone who has a wedding called off days before probably dodged a bullet. I know planning is stressful but so is life! As a woman, I don't understand the women who use it to steamroll over everyone, their egos need to be taken WAY down
@@kissit012 (Sorry for length. I'm just thorough with my thoughts is all.) Fair enough. But it still stands. A 50-50 gesture in a world where no matter who you're with, there will ALWAYS be someone out there better matched at any given time that you'll likely never meet but just might. We're a species that treats settling on a person, not a worthwhile life, as a necessity to survive. People are brainwashed into thinking they have to be in a relationship, jumping from one person to the next, or they feel their life has no meaning. Then gov sees marriage as a political talking point and a tax opportunity. It's all a joke. We change over time. Little things, big things, random as hell things, all affect us and we lose interest in people and things. Better off as a society recognizing love, sex, and affection for what they are: a comfort and release that helps us get by. And like all things, people can be as picky as they want. Expectation is usually what ruins relationships before anything else.
@@rainestar82 Exactly! People should make up their minds if they want to be with someone BEFORE getting engaged. Don't say yes just cause it is convenient at the time.
Charlotte I just have to say that my little 4 month old likes to watch you and really cracks him up when you yell and scream 😂😂😂😂😂 it's his favourite thing...I'm doing something right
At my wedding we served pizza, over 40 different flavors, plus an open bar of cocktail, beer and juices, ice cream, chocolate cake, over 500 sweets and a dj for the dance floor. Imagine silk tablecloths, crystal glasses, height arrangements with imported flower, while someone eats a pepperoni pizza. We spent over 60k, but we just thought if we gonna spend that much money we better spend on food and things people will actually enjoy, screw what is conventional. Even the waiters were dancing at the end of the night, people still talk about how amazing our wedding was, and my sister wants to hire the same people to do hers now.
That wedding at the Pride parade, I couldn’t get past that grubby wall the wedding was in front of. Imagine that as the backdrop in all your wedding photos!
That Sargass seaweed is a massive problem. I live in St Barts and can’t help but giggle a bit when the 1%-ers plan lavish vacations or weddings on the beach and a big stinky wave of sargass shows up. The bloom over the past decade is thought to be due to climate change so they can thank their private jets and mega yachts for indirectly providing their free seaweed decor and aroma at the beach. 👍🤣
Do these people not realize that seaweed washes up on the beach? We spent a lot of time at a beach town in Northern California when I was a kid, and it used to get big piles of brown seaweed. In sunny weather it stank and had gnats swarming around it, lol.
We had planned and paid for a destination wedding in Scotland. A month before the wedding, we had to change plans because I found out that I had a son from a previous relationship after being told I couldn't have kids. We canceled our plans and used the money to fight for custody (because the child was in foster care after severe neglect by the biological mother). So we missed out on our destination wedding but we have a pretty fantastic kid that we are raising. You can see his face in the picture.
I fully enjoyed this video! I am going through covid right now and although i am fully vaccinated it caught me pretty bad. Can't do anything but lie down for days in pain and can't even talk. today is the first day i manage to watch some youtube and this video delighted me. thank you so much and please make another one
Went to a destination wedding at a property in a beautiful remote mountainous area. We spent hours trying to find it, were 2 hours late and I was really upset we'd missed it. But so had everyone else. Trouble is the directions printed on the invitation were wrong and no-one had checked it. Only about 20% of the wedding turned up but luckily the bride and groom did. They got married anyway because the celebrant had another wedding to go to but to say the bride was upset was an understatement.
As someone who has had to deal with lost baggage before, (wasn't Toronto to Cancun but was from Australia (Sydney) to Hong Kong to Israel) Our luggage came two days later (HK was a 1 hr stop-over so our luggage was still in HK by the time we arrived in Israel 11 hours later) and two days later was delivered to the hotel that we were at in Israel. However, we were thinking ahead. We all put two extra outfits into our carry on bags (and pyjamas) as well as important items so that we would be okay until our luggage came two days later. It honestly made things much easier.(Because no one wants to wear the same sweaty clothes after a 20 hours in total flight!) Love your videos Charlotte, keep it up! :)
I live in a tropical country, a destination wedding location. The morning of my wedding the sky was blue and it was so bright then by mid day the clouds came in. By the time my wedding started, there were thunderstorms and the island was under flood watch. Because it was August 2020, people that were to come in for the wedding could not because of COVID so we had set up a live stream, but the lightning knocked out the Internet so those overseas could not watch. Thankfully our wedding and reception were indoors so they weren't affected by the weather. But we didn't get the pics outside that we wanted. All that said it was still a wonderful day.
Not a destination wedding, but they got my song wrong to walk out to after the ceremony. Was supposed to be the theme song from Happy Days, but accidentally played Dancing Queen. We didn't care...makes a fun story now!!
Lol I got bitten by ants the day before my wedding and due to my allergies, my ankle was swollen for 2 entire days. I managed to dance and pretend to be fine but by the end of the night I was putting my entire weight on my good foot, so the last pics came out funny 😂
I usually don’t like laughing at other peoples’ pain (jk, I totally do cuz it’s better than laughing at my own pain!) but this was great!! 😂🤣 Miss Charlotte playing coy pretending she ain’t still a catch cuz she wants to get married barefoot is just precious! That one girl that wouldn’t “walk the aisle” until her song played eventually “crossing the plaza”! 😂😂 And how you gonna leave your man at the altar?!?! He woulda been good with a JP so this wedding was all for you and you don’t show?!?!?! Feel bad for the dude but he lucked out. I just hope he moved on.
Ya not showing up is just so messed up. If you have the balls to do that you could cancel ahead and break up. He did dodge a bullet but that had to have been brutal.
I got married barefoot. We had the ceremony in our living room and my husband is shorter than I am. ☺️ I would've loved to have a wedding at Pride, though! ❤️
I couldn’t really get married barefoot because we were in a synagogue, but I wore ballet slippers that my dressmaker covered with the same lace as was in my dress. Comfy and beautiful!
@@karencotlar2023 That sounds lovely! I can't wear heels without stumbling. My last wedding was by a JP in Vegas, and we walked 1/2 mile from the hotel to the courthouse so I wore very comfy shoes. My now ex-husband was the same height as me, so he didn't want me to wear heels anyway because it hurt his "manliness" for me to look taller than him! That should have been a red flag, among many other warnings I didn't heed. His daughter loaned me a dress that she said was her alternate gown when she was married about a year before. I didn't realize how low cut it was in the front until I tried it on 2 days before. It was cut down almost to my navel! I didn't want to wear something that revealing so I sewed a large lace applique panel to the front to make it less revealing. I used to be a tailor so fortunately I had that lace piece in my sewing stash. I found out later that she hated me and she was mad that I altered the dress even though she told me she didn't want it back and to donate it after the wedding. I'm glad I am divorced now and don't have to be around her snarkiness anymore!
We got married on a cruise ship. As my new wife was coming down the spiral staircase into the ballroom for the reception, she slipped on the stairs and slid on her butt down 15 stairs. Besides having a purple bruised butt, she was ok. It could have been the shortest time being married in history.
I never understood beach weddings or anything outside at all lol. Soo many uncontrollable factors! I'm not spending all that time and money planning something I ultimately have no say in 😅
about that hurricane wedding... I have an Italian saying for you, for when it rains during a wedding :) "Sposa bagnata, sposa fortunata" (wet bride, lucky bride) 😁
This is my friend's story about his sister's wedding.
Destination wedding: Bali. They (he and his parents) flew from Jakarta to Bali. His sister was already there (staying with her groom's family 1 month before).
When they arrived that evening, they took their luggages and go to the hotel. No problem so far.
When they prepare to go to dinner party before the wedding, he heard his mother screaming. He rushed to his parents' room and found her mother pointing her suitcase.
"That's not my dress! " His mother screamed.
Turns out, they took a different suitcase. Same color, same brand, same size. And there's no ID tag or anything.
His mother expected her dress (red dress, red slayer) on top of other dresses but found a single white puffy dress.
It's a wedding dress!
Somewhere out there a bride alost her wedding dress!
So, they call the airport to notify this. Luckily, just before they called, a frantic woman came to the airport to find her wedding dress.
So they (my friend's family, the airport, the woman) talked. My friend can't go back to airport (urgent dinner party with in laws). Turns out, the woman stayed at the same hotel but different floor! And her wedding was at the same place as my friend's sister but earlier hours! That night they successfully exchange the suitcase. And they have a story to tell the in laws.
The next day, they met the bride and groom on the way out of the wedding place. They took pictures and all (he show it to me)
Happy ending.
So glad they found the bride. I’m always worried I’ll grab the wrong suitcase
Whaaaat that reads like a movie script! Great ending :D but omg they must have been so stressed, especially that bride, when they found out they had the wrong suitcase!
What a fantastic story 😂
Oh wow. This is why my parents and grandparents have always tied colorful ribbons on every handle of their luggage. It doesn't look great, but it's the easiest way to avoid luggage mix-ups
Whew! That was a close one!
To prevent lost wedding outfits when traveling for a destination wedding ( mother of the groom here) the bride, groom , myself and the grandmother of the bride put our outfits together in the bridal garment bag, carried them onto the plane and asked a flight attendant to stow them for us. I can't remember if we had to make prior arrangements or not but it is a service provided to help protect the wedding gown.
That’s what I immediately thought of doing. I’d call ahead just in case, but they always have cupboards for garment bags in the cabin.
Noted - friend of mines fiancée is in overthinking panic about how to manage this
Don't think I'll ever be in the position to travel for a wedding, mine or otherwise, but I'll keep that tidbit of knowledge tucked away... JUST in case. Never know, might help someone else. lol
"No one eats the cake anyway" GIRL, speak for yourself 😂
No joke, I'm definitely eating the cake haha!
I only go for the cake.
I ALWAY eat cake at weddings!
And few things will infuriate a bride more than someone f-ing up the cake. My ex still complains about it and we’ve been divorced since 07!
Just wanted to say the cake was delicious! It just didn’t have the flowers on it that she wanted. I didn’t even know that was a thing until the reception. #cluelessgroom
@@davidguidry657 do you bring it up, just to rile her? I would but I’m a jerk.
I live in OH. I had to go to CA for business. On the way home, we had to change planes in TX. We landed among a large backlog of planes right after a tornado. My luggage disappeared for about 3 weeks and came back with 9 different airport tags, one in S. America and another in Mexico. My luggage had more fun than I did on that trip.
And that's why I'm doing carry on only for some upcoming flights that have plane changes
@@MollyFC but my luggage really had a good time and I was okay with it heading out for that free vacation since I was on my way home. 😁
Hahs that's funny. I love your comment
@@JoB1019 great attitude! If your luggage needs an older woman as a chaperone, I’d be happy to accompany it. Keep me in mind!
I was litetary going from Barcelona to Granada (southern Spain) and my luggage ended up in Instanbul somehow...
As someone who had her luggage get lost in Mexico: the Puerto Vallarta international airport is VERY helpful and made my lugage magically reappear about 36h later, fully intact, at my resort. They were so nice that I, as a 20 yo woman traveling alone prone to major anxiety, never even had a whiff of worry that my stuff would get lost. So... I'm really glad I didn't fly to Cancun you guys. That'd have been a nightmare.
I was coming home from London and it took a full week for them to bring me my bags. I was a college student coming back from studying abroad I didn't have anything to wear for a week!
My 14 year old sister flew alone a day after my dad's family went to Mexico to catch up with them. From Vancouver to Puerto Vallarta I think. Her luggage never made it. She had to go through the trip with what was in her carry on and stuff they picked up from Walmart. It's been almost 2 months now and it still hasn't shown up. At least the airport is reimbursing her. And me cause it was my suitcase she borrowed
I took my daughters on a cruise from Piraeus to Barcelona (we live in the western US). We switched planes in Vienna and when we got to Athens aiport (after midnight), my older daughter's checked luggage was not there. They were NOT helpful at all, and instead of going to a hostel/hotel, we had to sleep on the airport floor.
The last place it was traced to was Vienna. It had all her clothes, medicated soap & shampoos. Needless to say, she had a bad breakout & bad hair days for our 2 week, "once in a lifetime" trip. She also had to spend "fun" money on basic needs. She NEVER got her luggage back. She was reimbursed a bit by the airline, but she wears vintage clothing, so she couldn't get any of it again.
I fell walking down the aisle with my dad. I said "oh shit!" as I fell but thankfully he caught me. Then I whispered to him "am I allowed to say shit?" He started laughing. During our father/daughter dance he said "Thanks kid! I was just about to start crying and then you said shit and totally took the tears away!"
That is an adorable story
That’s so wholesome
This is so cute 🥰
The cutest thing EVER!! 😂😂😂
Awww! ❤ This got me right in the feels! ❤
As a retired military officer, the one thing you learn is to always carry-on your uniform in a garment bag, so if your luggage gets lost, you have proper attire for your meetings. All other things can be bought at the other end. Highly suggest this for destination weddings bridal party wear (don't forget your shoes on carry-on as well). If you are NICE to the flight crew, they often will hang your garment in the first class closet for you as well (at they used to).
Finally, when wedding plans don't quite work out, RELAX and plan a renewal of vows at the 10 year mark. People will have plenty of time to save up and plan their off time, and usually you'll have more money and less stress.
Excellent advice. I feel strongly that too many brides plan only for the wedding and not the marriage.
My dad used to travel for his engineering job and always told me to bring a suit/dress/formal attire, a pair of shoes and a few necessities for a couple of days in a carry on luggage: he had always done it and it proved to be very useful one time they wrongly send his lugguage from Italy to Anchorage instead of Atlanta where he had two very important business meetings XD He managed to recover his suitcare after 3-4 days, but it would have been a disaster if he hadn't boarded the flight with a suit and didn't have a change.
Oh, planning a renewal of vows in 10 years and have another occasion to fully celebrate is such a good idea!!
With the craziness of the economy and pandemic I’m not certain if we’re better or worse off financially than we were a decade ago…
Unless you’ve had children in those 10 years……😂
We did a destination wedding in Hawaii. The day of, it was a torrential downpour all morning. Raining sideways and extremely windy. No backup plan. It was to be on the northern beach of the island. One hour before the wedding, the clouds broke, and the most incredible sunset happened. Turns out storm clouds at sunset make for really beautiful photos. We did the ceremony fast, just in case the storm returned. It didn't. The rest of the evening was beautiful and warm!
This is why if you want to get married on a beach you rent a private beach for the ceremony, some resorts off this service, so other people don't crash the wedding or other things ruin it. Also tropical climates have far more bad weather than people think they do and there is a "season" for it which differs from country to country. Always research the area before you book anything.
Yep, a lot of people don't research the weather patterns for their destinations & then act surprised when it starts to storm. I went on a cruise during hurricane season and people were shocked we almost got caught up in a hurricane....during the height of hurricane season lol
It doesn't seem like seasons exist any longer. 💔🌍
There are no private beaches where this took place. The beaches belong to all. 😊 If they were actually tourists, and not locals, they probably didn’t expect the cost of a beach wedding in Puerto Rico. On average, for a smaller size one, you are looking at 30-40k minimum for the hotels that have nicer beaches that they will block off the area.
(This couple needed to find a small beach near Vega Alta or something, not an area in Condado or Isla Verde. 😂)
Yeah, people are just so bamboozled by all the beautiful pictures of destinations in media that they don't realize that place might just look like that the minority of the time.
So your suggestion is "dO yOuR ReSeArCH!" is that right? 😉
Our wedding cake was delicious. Everybody had some and kept telling me how good it was LOL. The little bakery I got it from received a load of customers, and well-deserved too. It was vanilla cake with raspberry filling and simple vanilla pastry cream frosting. You don't have to spend a fortune for a sickening sweet cake no one will want. Support you mom and pop shops.
I went to a wedding and the bride is gluten intolerant, so their wedding cake was just her favourite cake but then enough for everyone. So tasty! And cute because it was a personal favourite.
We had "cake day" two days before the wedding. Friends and family in the church kitchen. I made my favorite (angel food cakes to be served with berries and whipped cream) along with several friends and family, and my husband's parents made his favorite (a super dark moist mocha cake with creamy coffee frosting). We made a little 6-inch of the chocolate to frost with whipped cream for us to cut together. It was so special and delicious. And we made gluten-free brownies and made sure to have GF snacks so the diet restricted relatives didn't have to pack their own lunches!
We bought three gluten free 9" cakes from our favorite cupcake bakery and when we told them the cakes were for a wedding because our other plans fell through, they decorated the cakes in our wedding colors free of charge 😊
I love wedding cake.
I helped a couple of my friends pick out their cake. It had to taste fantastic, not just look good.
Getting married later this year and I watch Charlotte to 1. Not turn into a bridezilla and 2. Thank myself for keeping my wedding as simple as possible 😂
You’re one smart cookie.
Congratulations 🍾🎉
Wishing you and your boo a great wedding and an even better marriage!
@@davidguidry657 Thank ya 💜
Congrats! Hope your wedding goes smoothly!
Congratulations!
The first one when the hurricane hit instantly made me think of "We Don't Talk About Bruno" 😂
But seriously, thanks for always posting and giving us a daily dose of serotonin. Take care of yourself, and hope you're doing okay, Charlotte!
YES! me too!!
This is what happens when you invite Bruno to your wedding, Pepa
Thunder!!!
Yeah same here. 😂
@@zanetapenny8388
Yeah, that's my favorite line from that part!! 😆
When I got married, I walked down the aisle to the bridal march, but after about 10 seconds, it turned into a Rick Roll. It was the one thing my hubby asked for, and we had a blast. It got copyright claimed on Facebook, but then the official account for the company that owns the song liked our wedding video and removed the claim. It was amazing
The puking bride - I feel so bad for her - But - the forrest, lake, her dress, the colors, and even the turtle - GORGEOUS. I hope after the puking things got better.
Feel bad for the people who's weddings were ruined by covid and weather. And side note any guy you deside to marry would be a hell of a lucky guy. Don't put yourself down. You are a catch Charlotte
Fact
I love Charlotte and all but she did name her merch "petty" so I don't know about that.
(...Yes this is a joke)
Decide
i totally agree!
I would 💕 it if you get married. And your husband joins you on your RUclips channel. 🤞
Hey, my time to shine!
I recently had a gorgeous destination wedding in Mexico on March 27th 2022! I was the bride. It was wonderful despite the drama. The downside was my friends and family hung out for a week together and they didn’t end up getting along all the time. First, there was my brother helping try to give my groom a bachelor party which fell through in our home country. It was just misguided as it was drinking related and my future husband isn’t a big drinker. He would have much preferred what the others were initially planning which was a gaming day. Then, My mom was upset she specifically couldn’t take photos. To my mom’s credit, there was a bit of miscommunication on our side, but it was all blown a bit out of proportion in my opinion. The grooms side who showed up didn’t respect our no taking photos thing. I was stressed and busy and trying to enjoy my destination wedding but all the drama made me unable to enjoy it as much as I’d have liked due to drama.
Moral of the story, if you do a destination wedding… make sure your friends and family can tolerate each other before leaving.
Unrelated, but good for you for laying down the rule of no one taking photos. I have read stories from so many wedding photographers saying guests ruined their shots, or they couldn't get a an overall photo without people's phones in the way. I plan on doing that for my wedding one day, if I marry.
@@addie-eileenpaige6460 thanks mate. I just wish we enforced it more for the other side as some didn’t listen anyway. So we did get a small portion of shots with phones but less than I think we may have had we not said something.
I would also HIGHLY suggest doing a private first look with your significant other. 10/10 would do again. It was intimate, romantic, and something for just us on the day of.
@@addie-eileenpaige6460 That's very smart! Save the snapshots for the reception party, those will likely be more fun anyway!
I have a friend who got married on horseback. The grooms horse took a massive dump in the middle of their vows. Shit happens 🤷🏻♀️
Lmfao that's funny
@@lilscenechick1995 it was..and they’re still married so maybe it was a good sign 😸
First time I was flying internationally, I got the best advice which was to NOT check any bags on the way. Just took a purse/laptop sized bag and got a backpack that was the absolute largest size you can have as a carry on and used compression bags inside of it to fit a lot of clothing. Brough a rolled up duffel bag tucked in the bottom of the backpack and filled it with souvenirs and then checked that on the way home, but no checked bags on the way because if it gets lost or comes late then you're stuck somewhere far from home without all the stuff you need.
Those compression bags are fantastic for getting a lot into a small bag. I swear by them.
I have flew plenty and only once my luggage was lost for few hours, there was like 20 of us from same flight. they finally locates them. i always pack in backpack something that i get by if luggage doesn't make it (few set of underwear, shirt, pants, socks).
my traveller's insurance will cover if luggage is lost and i need to buy stuff.
but if you can make your trip with cabin bag only, it's of course safer.
just remember that if your bag is max cabin size, flight is full and plenty have max size cabin bags - the crew may order you to put it in cargo (or whatever you call that space in English). first they ask volunteers and if none one steps up, they start ordering whose bag goes.
Hello thanks again for a good laugh, i recently found you on RUclips like a week ago and have been binge watching all of your videos haha can't get enough. Sending hugs from sunny Florida cheers 🥂
Welcome! So glad you found Miss Charlotte. She’s the best thing on the interwebs let alone RUclips! Remember to “subscrahb” if you haven’t already. And if you have, welcome to Tater Nation from your fellow Tater Tots (we’ll explain it later). Greetings from San Antonio TX.
You're in for a TREAT!! And it's a super supportive comments section community too!
@@ThoughtfulPotato heck yeah we are! We recognize each other’s genius and greatness cuz we all adore Miss Charlotte!
Welcome to the family! This is the most positive community on the internet!❤️
We’ve all been there
I was once acting as bouncer at my Rugby friends wedding, mainly keeping an eye out for his crazy ex with instructions to stop her from causing trouble by any and all legal means (having spoken with the local police they informed us there was a distinct lack of restrictions on what this could entail, up to but not including kidnapping her till was over). This led to me and one of his other friends wrestling a can of red paint off her which was clearly earmarked for the brides dress..... So it ended with my nice vanilla white suit covered in paint and sand.....
@@thomasjoseph5876 I'm Just 5'10 but I'm about as wide as tall (useful traits for my position in the rugby team) and a Lawyer by trade, However because I spoke the local language (Malay/French) and well as English wore a suit and knew the local customs, the police thought I was some sort of private security expert..... So much so I had to speak with some people before I got on the return plane from an undisclosed agency. There was amusement all around.
You were the bride's hero that day LOL
You have no idea how much your videos are an amazing 10-15 min break from the stressor’s in life. Thank you for this. It was extra needed today
My niece had her wedding ceremony at a park beach near her home town. (In Australia). There were people on the beach but everyone was so respectful during the ceremony. They either stopped to watch (which we thought was lovely) or they walked behind where the guests were sitting. The people who were standing to the sides applauded when the ceremony was over.
A golf wedding, while totally not my thing, seems reasonable. You're on a well landscaped, most likely private space, completely unlike the fools doing theirs on a public beach.
GREAT nail color, too!!
And most golf courses have nice clubhouses for the reception. Done.
2.14 Charlotte's quote "I wanna get married barefoot.... if...." I'm here from 2024 where our Queen is engaged! We love you!
While planning my wedding, I had stupidly forgotten to re-lace my gothic boots. We were 2 hours behind schedule when I tried to put the boots on (it was the final touch), I felt bad the guests had already been waiting so long that I said, "F* the boots! I'm going barefoot!" and threw the boots aside. It was the best decision, I think- no tripping, no falling, and I got to feel the grass beneath my feet. As a wiccan, it felt natural and wonderful. But a lot of people don't like dirt on their feet, so shoes may be necessary for them.
You rock.
That sounds like an awesome wedding! Where was it?
That sounds beautiful! What was your dress like? I'll never get married again, but if I change my mind I want an outdoor wedding in nature, dressed for comfort. I would hope my friend, Igor the raven would attend. He follows me all the way to town sometimes when I go grocery shopping. Probably to remind me to buy his favorite foods! When I'm outside working, he's always nearby watching. One day I was replacing hardware cloth on a chicken coop using screws and metal washers. Ever since then, he's brought me metal washers and left them by my bedroom door! I actually use them, he's brought a nice assortment!
Dope af! A bride who cares enough about her guests and her groom..... we used to walk barefoot b4 but you right some people wouldn't be caught dead barefoot & on their wedding day? You are a rockstar, hope you enjoyed every minute of the rest of ur day❣️🤘🏾
My wedding was falling behind when I couldn’t find my hand written vows. And we were getting married outside on a hot day with little to no shade. I felt so bad for the guests but it was still a beautiful day to remember
For people hoping to come to the Caribbean for destination wedding....hear this: June too soon, July stand by, August cometh must, September remember(but we get bad weather here still lol) October all over (but not always).
This is for hurricanes okay so....
My son is getting married in Cancun on May 22 and these make me terrified we’ll all end up on one of your videos! I told him that no one has ever had, seen, or been to a perfect wedding - expect the unexpected! I also reminded him that if everything is perfect - they won’t have any fun stories to talk about for years and years. 🥴😁
word of advise: take your most important things in your carryon and that includes your wedding outfit, that way if your luggage for some reason gets lost, you at least have your wedding outfit :)
good luck to yall!!
Maybe pack a white gown to wear, in case everything is TOO perfect! Just kidding 😂
@@freya33 🤣🤣🤣That would be a sure way to stir things up a little - wouldn’t it? I cracking up just thinking about it!
I had the perfect wedding. 13 guests, immediate family only. A small party after and 2nites at a hotel. We cancelled the big 300people wedding, as my father in law was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer. I was 23weeks pregnant on the day, we wanted our daughter as our bridesmaid/flower girl, and was planning to wait till following Oct when she'd be around 6months old. So we scrambled so hard to move it all forward, but as he was so poorly, we decided to just say no, family only (my parents and grown son as bro couldn't get off work with his gf and son, hubbies dad, mum, (they were divorced and her husband was not invited) 2 out of 3 sisters, their kids (all over 5, 1 sis isn't I'm his life or his mums so we didn't invite as she's just a nasty person). Was beautiful. No stress, my mum bought and came early to make a lovely buffet for after, and my fil was able to relax and not have to pretend as we all knew and didn't expect it. He passed away 4half months later, after having just 17days with his beautiful granddaughter (should been more but she went to nicu for 12days sadly). Not a single regret. But on our 10yr anniversary (this year is 7yrs) we r gonna renew our vows, have the big party, the white dress, and have 2 beautiful bridesmaids/flower girls now, and will remember his dad with such love. Less is sometimes much much more.
@@janetothen2583 what a sweet story! I’m so glad he got to see his granddaughter and moving the wedding up for him must have let him know how important he was to everyone! I hope you have a blast when you renew your vows - you deserve it! You have a wonderful mother - that’s how my mom would have been if she was still alive. My son and his fiancé have a lot of the same problems. He hasn’t even told his dad or anyone on that side of the family he’s getting married and the bride doesn’t think her mom is going to show up. I told her I can play mom of the bride and groom - not to worry about anything. When she told her mom last year about the wedding, her mom said ‘I won’t be able to make it. I’ll be sick then’. She’s crazy! We were going to have a good size wedding (my 2nd), but when my 45 y/o friends started arguing about who was gonna be my MOH - I noped out of that. We eloped in Vegas - just my son, his friend, my husband and I. We had a great time! I can’t wear dress shoes, so I decided to wear white Chuck Taylor high tops with my formal dress and my husband wore black Chucks with his tux! People in Vegas kept asking us if we were an art exhibit and saying they hope they’re that cool when they get ‘old’.
My daughter had same problem with her wedding due to covid in Scotland was cancelled 3 times so when there was a break. She and her husband got a small wedding day where she was there with witnesses no family but we new there was restrictions due to Covid. She is a animal lover and Her friends prepared her 3 horses which where dressed for the photo shoot and they went well, weather was lovely and sunny. Glad to say she had a great day finally even though not as planned and got to do a tour of Scotland Including islands, She got to meet people from her extended family and friends who new my Parents from Isle of Harris. Scary thing is she is a red head with which reminds me of you ........ :)
I am from Mexico, it is quite shocking to hear that nobody at the airport could help communicating in english in regard of lost luggage. Cancun is a very important tourist destination... specially for ppl from the U.S.A. and Canada.
We just got back from a vacation in Los Cabos and flew in and out of the Cancun Airport. All true. They just pile your luggage on the floor as it comes off the conveyor belt. And they don't speak any English, or at least they pretend not to. But all in all a great vacation.
You're trapped and they know it
For anyone wanting a destination wedding in the Gulf of Mexico/on a beach in Central America, Charlotte is correct. Hurricane season runs from June to about the first week of November. Plan accordingly. ❤️
#1 tip for people traveling to weddings in other countries and you’re in the wedding: take the important outfit into the plane with you. Better to show up a little creased and fix it when you get there than it not show up at all!
Charlotte, w all due respect you’re a snack and a half!! You’ve got a great sense of humor and an amazing personality!! 🥰🥰🥰 You might be too good for mortal men.
When things go wrong at your wedding, it’ll be funny when you look back at it.
Love ya, Charlotte, and all of her potato fingerlings. ❤️
I had a big destination wedding. I live in the UK but originally I'm from Poland (my husband is Irish). For those who know polish weddings, they know it is always a big party, especially in the countryside. It was 3 days event. On the first day, we had a 'practice' dinner when my parents in law met my parents and our sides of the family met for the first time. It was very stressful as 99% of my family doesn't speak any English but my wedding planner (bless her soul!) helped me manage it with the big help of google translate...
On the second day, we had a wedding reception and there were some problems, especially with my elderly side of the family as in Poland there is a custom that bride and groom get the blessing from the elderly side of the family it is very ritual/religion thing. As we had the outside civil ceremony in a beautiful garden and because of issues on the catholic/protestant level we decided to not involve any religion in our union and my grandparents and parents didn't take it well. Even tho I told them months before the wedding we will not have a religious ceremony and we don't want any religion at our wedding... And I repeat it to them multiple times but they just decided to not accept it so I'm getting ready with my dress and all. We are just by to leave for the 'first look' thing and there is a priest enter to my room... Then my mother in law started hyperventilating and all and screaming about it her son will never have the catholic wedding and all. Then my mom start screaming that she need to bless me etc (I might add my MIL screamed in English where my mom was screaming Polish...) Generally big drama. And I on the middle. Then thank God for my MOH and my wedding planner they take over, they kick out the priest, give champagne to drink to the moms and we were ready to go... The rest of the evening was pretty fine.
And on the next day, we had this small brunch with the close of our families and friends (20people) and looks everyone had fun and get along. So, generally was fun with small hiccups.
Girl you are just slaying out these videos. I get so excited when they pop up. I love these wedding ones too. Hilarious and fun! 👏👏👏💜
That was the hurricane's way of "objecting" 🤦😂😂
Cake falling always makes me feel so bad... like, the poor people who baked that goodness!!!
My niece's wedding was at her house. The brides and grooms party wore sandals. Comfort came before appearance.
And I’m betting it was a really nice wedding. I think simple and relaxed is the best. The second anyone is uptight it just ruins it imho
I was at the Oregon coast with my mom checking out a lighthouse and there was a wedding party there trying to take photos. It was a gorgeous, sunny August day but it was 50 degrees and VERY windy up there. The bridesmaids had on super cute dresses but the cut of them was unfortunate for the amount of wind. The front of the dresses was like 2 sides draped over each other so it looked like flower petals sort of? So they were struggling to keep the skirts down while attempting to take photos and hold onto bouquets at the same time. One of the bridesmaids paused to gush about how cute my outfit was and let down her guard. Her dress flew up and her undies were on full display 😂😭 They all looked like they were having fun though! Everyone in the bridal party were laughing their asses off at the absurdity of the situation.
Was it in Newport? Sounds like Newport. lol
@@missmeagan8117 haha yes it was! How did you know?
@@ziggystarlust I grew up in the area 🤣 A lot of tourists don’t realize how windy it is until they get there
@@missmeagan8117 oh nice!! Yeah it's QUITE blustery lol
@@missmeagan8117 that area is notorious for wind lol
FYI for anyone considering a wedding in the tropics - hurricane season runs from May to November. And check the tide chart any time of year so you can plan the right time of day without all the smelly seaweed. I lived full time in a resort town in Mexico for 8 years and saw so many destinations weddings gone bad.
0:09 -married in a hurricane.
WE DON'T TALK ABOUT BRUNO NO NO NO *Starts singing*
She is just so funny, makes my day to hear her laugh and funny comments at these videos
Another word of advice when planning a destination wedding, if the place you are going has a typical rainy season, don’t plan the wedding in the month on either side of the season because weather doesn’t always cooperate. We were in Costa Rica in early December. The rainy season typically ends in November. It didn’t that there. There was record breaking flooding in large parts of the country.
Oops, that year not that there. Forgot to proofread.
We got engaged right before the pandemic, and still got married on our planned Sept 2020 date. We went from 250+ guests to a backyard wedding of 20 people (including vendors). We all tested, and no one got sick. It was actually so much more intimate and special. It was lovely 💜
While not a wedding, the last time my luggage didn’t show up for a couple days was a good lesson to carry a backpack with extra underwear, a couple tops, pr of shorts, and a bathing suit. The backpack also has the iPad & iPod, All the chargers, a pen, Emory board, etc.
I got married in Cancun in Nov 2021, and I absolutely carried my wedding dress, accessories, our kids wedding outfits, husband's suit, etc as carry ons. SO heavy but I would do it the same way again. I figured if our regular clothes luggage were lost, we would just buy there. But NO WAY I was willing to risk our wedding day attire. I wore my extensions during our flight too 😂😂. I knew other things would be out of my control, but we have been together for 15 yrs and married legally and have 3 kids, we just finally decided to get married through the church so I guess I wasn't worried too much. Tantrums were expected with our youngest two (1 and 2).
My cousin wanted to go to PR for wedding. She ordered a large delivery of Godiva chocolates for her wedding. She’s big on chocolate.
The hot humid PR weather melted them all.
Regarding the lost luggage. My sister had gone on a 2 week group back packing trip around Europe. She checked her only bag and it was lost on day one. The group couldn’t just wait in one spot for her lost luggage because they had a schedule to keep. Her bag caught up with her on the return flight home 2 weeks later. She had to buy all essentials like toothpaste and underwear etc. and she is in the same outfit in Every picture across Europe. Lol.
Well that's one way to learn how to travel light 😅
A travel trick I learned from my dad’s many business trips growing up: pack some toiletries, a few pairs of underwear, whatever clothes you absolutely need when you get there (bridesmaid dress, suit, uniform, etc.), and maybe another outfit if you can fit it in your carry on in case of lost luggage so you’re not like the girl in the video who doesn’t have her bridesmaid dress. I’ve been lucky so far that I’ve had the opposite problem of my luggage arriving before me but the tip has certainly saved my anxious brain.
It’s such a great tip. I’ve done this.
Also never ever ever pack medication in checked luggage. Keep on you at all times. That tip c/o my grandma
If at all possible, try to travel with carry-on only - if you also choose a type of bag that carries well, that will make your trip so much easier!
For many airlines, checking in luggage is quite expensive, so I quickly realised I could travel more often as well if I never took any checked luggage
I think being able to laugh at things going a bit wrong is one of the keys to enjoying your wedding day.
If nothing goes wrong, great! If something does, everyone will enjoy the day more if your reaction is a positive one
Sets the scene well for marriage and its many ups and downs
Very true. I just expected there to be mishaps and there were a couple.
It’s just better to expect something to go wrong and roll with it. As long as the bride and groom show up, along with a couple of witnesses and an officiant, that’s really all you need.
Right? It's a day of celebration, why should it be so stressful when something goes wrong!! Shrug it off and laugh, specially if it's something silly and simple
The PRIDE wedding... that would have been my reception partying among all of them. Hell yeah!
So a couple of months before my wedding I dislocated my knee had to get married walking with crutches. My best man picked up our suits on the morning of the wedding and they gave me the wrong sized trousers which were two sizes too big. I had to use safety pins to try and keep them up. Luckily I managed to not let them fall during the wedding vows.
i went to Florida during gay pride week once and they rented the entire beach for the week, so we got to camp on the beach for a few days which usually isn't allowed. it was so much fun, but at one point a little tornado came and threw a bunch of the tents
Honestly, the best wedding advice I have is, focus on having fun and bring your sense if humor. Plans are great, but they go awry.. don't let that spoil the joy of the act itself.
This is what I tell people too. Just relax. Don’t get hung up on anything. It’s really not worth it.
Let's get Charlotte to 1 MILLION!!!
I was a maid of honor in a Cancun wedding this past February. I packed anything I needed for the wedding, plus 1 swimsuit in a carry on suitcase just in case my full luggage got lost in transit. Fortunately luggage wasn't a problem, though we had all sorts of other issues at the Cancun airport.
Biggest challenge of Cancun airport, iirc, is getting thru all the "pirate" cab drivers trying to rope you in on your way out!
Probably one of the fastest group NOPE I've ever seen😂 Everyone just HAULING A** off that beach 😅😅😅😅
Although not as dramatic as the first clip,a hurricane did hit my city during my wedding..It actually behaved quite well and it only rained during the church ceremony, stopped while we were going to the reception, and then it rained for hours! Honey moon was delayed as all flights were suspended. It took us 6 hours to go to the capital that is near the airport(2 hours normally)Venezuela is almost never affected by hurricanes, except on my wedding day🤣
That hurricane definitely wasn't a Karen.
Well I hear it means good luck ;)
So you're like Pepa?
"Married in a hurricane"
@@DrawciaGleam02 Ja, ja yes indeed lol..you made my day🤣
That last story, while I’m sure stressful at the time, is just cute. What a unique wedding memory!
Love your videos Charlotte! Your reactions just make them so much better 😂♥️
I appreciate your candor regarding your eligibility/crazy factor for marriage.....
One of my best friends got married in 2020 during the height of the pandemic. There were 10 people total, including the bride, groom, and minister, and everyone was 6 feet apart and wore masks. It was simple but beautiful.
This has made my birthday. Thank you Charlotte.
Happy Birthday 🎂🎊🎁🎉
I hope it’s a good one fellow Tater Tot! Birthday wishes from San Antonio TX USA.
Thank you so much. 😃
SPEAK FOR YOURSELF CHARLOTTE!!!!! The only reason I attend weddings and birthday parties is to eat the cake and pray to god I get an end-piece.
😂😂😂😂😂
the last bride could have maybe found German ancenstry in her family :-D the wedding ring goes on the right hand here haha
I once stumbled upon some random video by some guy who took his dad on a trip to Iceland to discuss hapiness. They agreed on several points as how to have a happy life but the most importnant one was this - do not have expectations. If you don't have them, no force in the world can ruin them for you.
very intrigued in wedding traditions of any cultures and watching your reaction to the delulu side of some is wonderful entertaining
Never been married, never been with anyone that would make me consider a wedding. I've always seen them as a waste of money, especially since half of marriages fail miserably (Congrats to the people who ended up with great partners.)
That being said, you'd probably see a lot more of who a person truly is during the whole planning process, how they treat people, behavior when anything doesn't go as planned or they change their mind about something and lose their mind when there's no time or ability to change things.
I wonder how many relationships have ended and weddings canceled days before when people saw the monstrous asshats their fiancés were leading up to the wedding. Wouldn't doubt it's a significant number.
Wish I could give this more likes!
Divorce doesn’t mean failure. People sometimes just realize they’re not with the right person. It’s just a contract, not a measure of value, character, or goal to achieve (unless you’re getting paid). If you don’t know a person before you agree to marry them, that’s really your fault for not caring enough to properly vet them fully
marriages (and weddings) work out when between people who actually love each other and can roll with the punches and not lose their minds over everything. That being said, anyone who has a wedding called off days before probably dodged a bullet. I know planning is stressful but so is life! As a woman, I don't understand the women who use it to steamroll over everyone, their egos need to be taken WAY down
@@kissit012 (Sorry for length. I'm just thorough with my thoughts is all.)
Fair enough. But it still stands. A 50-50 gesture in a world where no matter who you're with, there will ALWAYS be someone out there better matched at any given time that you'll likely never meet but just might. We're a species that treats settling on a person, not a worthwhile life, as a necessity to survive. People are brainwashed into thinking they have to be in a relationship, jumping from one person to the next, or they feel their life has no meaning. Then gov sees marriage as a political talking point and a tax opportunity. It's all a joke.
We change over time. Little things, big things, random as hell things, all affect us and we lose interest in people and things. Better off as a society recognizing love, sex, and affection for what they are: a comfort and release that helps us get by.
And like all things, people can be as picky as they want. Expectation is usually what ruins relationships before anything else.
@@rainestar82 Exactly! People should make up their minds if they want to be with someone BEFORE getting engaged. Don't say yes just cause it is convenient at the time.
You could have the most amazing wedding pictures getting married during pride! Accidental style is the best style
After all, love is love! ❤️ 🧡 💛 💚 💙 💜 🖤 🤍 🤎
Charlotte I just have to say that my little 4 month old likes to watch you and really cracks him up when you yell and scream 😂😂😂😂😂 it's his favourite thing...I'm doing something right
Lol! That guy going over the railing did a nice impression of a Wilhelm scream
At my wedding we served pizza, over 40 different flavors, plus an open bar of cocktail, beer and juices, ice cream, chocolate cake, over 500 sweets and a dj for the dance floor. Imagine silk tablecloths, crystal glasses, height arrangements with imported flower, while someone eats a pepperoni pizza. We spent over 60k, but we just thought if we gonna spend that much money we better spend on food and things people will actually enjoy, screw what is conventional. Even the waiters were dancing at the end of the night, people still talk about how amazing our wedding was, and my sister wants to hire the same people to do hers now.
That honestly sounds amazing
I’ve been to a wedding where they served pizza and I thought it was brilliant
That wedding at the Pride parade, I couldn’t get past that grubby wall the wedding was in front of. Imagine that as the backdrop in all your wedding photos!
That Sargass seaweed is a massive problem. I live in St Barts and can’t help but giggle a bit when the 1%-ers plan lavish vacations or weddings on the beach and a big stinky wave of sargass shows up. The bloom over the past decade is thought to be due to climate change so they can thank their private jets and mega yachts for indirectly providing their free seaweed decor and aroma at the beach. 👍🤣
Do these people not realize that seaweed washes up on the beach? We spent a lot of time at a beach town in Northern California when I was a kid, and it used to get big piles of brown seaweed. In sunny weather it stank and had gnats swarming around it, lol.
And this is why most of my family weddings were dry. The guests usually would get hammered at the after party instead. 🤣🤣
We had planned and paid for a destination wedding in Scotland. A month before the wedding, we had to change plans because I found out that I had a son from a previous relationship after being told I couldn't have kids. We canceled our plans and used the money to fight for custody (because the child was in foster care after severe neglect by the biological mother). So we missed out on our destination wedding but we have a pretty fantastic kid that we are raising. You can see his face in the picture.
The ole 'surprise' hurricane, like it snuck up on them LOL.
I fully enjoyed this video! I am going through covid right now and although i am fully vaccinated it caught me pretty bad. Can't do anything but lie down for days in pain and can't even talk. today is the first day i manage to watch some youtube and this video delighted me. thank you so much and please make another one
"Married in a hurricane...What a joyous day but anyway..." Immediately that song came in mind with that first wedding.
I felt sad for that one bride supposed to get married in Ireland :(
The slo motion wedding cake to the ground cracked me up!!!
Went to a destination wedding at a property in a beautiful remote mountainous area. We spent hours trying to find it, were 2 hours late and I was really upset we'd missed it. But so had everyone else. Trouble is the directions printed on the invitation were wrong and no-one had checked it. Only about 20% of the wedding turned up but luckily the bride and groom did. They got married anyway because the celebrant had another wedding to go to but to say the bride was upset was an understatement.
You do such a great job with your show. The timing of a lot of things is just so perfect. Congratulations you’re a rockstar yeah
Honestly charlotte who wouldn't volunteer to be either stupid enough or smart enough to wife you, you really are great
As someone who has had to deal with lost baggage before, (wasn't Toronto to Cancun but was from Australia (Sydney) to Hong Kong to Israel) Our luggage came two days later (HK was a 1 hr stop-over so our luggage was still in HK by the time we arrived in Israel 11 hours later) and two days later was delivered to the hotel that we were at in Israel. However, we were thinking ahead. We all put two extra outfits into our carry on bags (and pyjamas) as well as important items so that we would be okay until our luggage came two days later. It honestly made things much easier.(Because no one wants to wear the same sweaty clothes after a 20 hours in total flight!) Love your videos Charlotte, keep it up! :)
I live in a tropical country, a destination wedding location. The morning of my wedding the sky was blue and it was so bright then by mid day the clouds came in. By the time my wedding started, there were thunderstorms and the island was under flood watch. Because it was August 2020, people that were to come in for the wedding could not because of COVID so we had set up a live stream, but the lightning knocked out the Internet so those overseas could not watch. Thankfully our wedding and reception were indoors so they weren't affected by the weather. But we didn't get the pics outside that we wanted. All that said it was still a wonderful day.
The guys face when he realized his pants split 😂😂😂 ABSOLUTELY PRICELESS!!! I hope someone got that perfect shot😂😂😂
a great wedding would have charlotte there
As a wedding singer? That would be incredible.
@@pablodelsegundo9502 as the bestie 🙂
Bonus points for the Craft reference
"Light as a feather, stiff as a board"
Not a destination wedding, but they got my song wrong to walk out to after the ceremony. Was supposed to be the theme song from Happy Days, but accidentally played Dancing Queen. We didn't care...makes a fun story now!!
😂 I love that it was dancing queen
Oh, hunny! Dancing Queen is SO much better! 😊❤ Sounds like a pretty happy accident to me. 😊
were you marrying Fonzie?
Charlotte, you rule a kingdom. Any man would be blessed to have you queen.
Lol I got bitten by ants the day before my wedding and due to my allergies, my ankle was swollen for 2 entire days. I managed to dance and pretend to be fine but by the end of the night I was putting my entire weight on my good foot, so the last pics came out funny 😂
Bruno walks in with a mischievous grin-
THUNDERRRRR
I usually don’t like laughing at other peoples’ pain (jk, I totally do cuz it’s better than laughing at my own pain!) but this was great!! 😂🤣
Miss Charlotte playing coy pretending she ain’t still a catch cuz she wants to get married barefoot is just precious!
That one girl that wouldn’t “walk the aisle” until her song played eventually “crossing the plaza”! 😂😂
And how you gonna leave your man at the altar?!?! He woulda been good with a JP so this wedding was all for you and you don’t show?!?!?! Feel bad for the dude but he lucked out. I just hope he moved on.
Ya not showing up is just so messed up. If you have the balls to do that you could cancel ahead and break up. He did dodge a bullet but that had to have been brutal.
I love how sweet and supportive to all women (and all people tbh) you are. I love to see it 😭
I got married barefoot. We had the ceremony in our living room and my husband is shorter than I am. ☺️
I would've loved to have a wedding at Pride, though! ❤️
I couldn’t really get married barefoot because we were in a synagogue, but I wore ballet slippers that my dressmaker covered with the same lace as was in my dress. Comfy and beautiful!
@@karencotlar2023 That sounds lovely! I can't wear heels without stumbling.
My last wedding was by a JP in Vegas, and we walked 1/2 mile from the hotel to the courthouse so I wore very comfy shoes. My now ex-husband was the same height as me, so he didn't want me to wear heels anyway because it hurt his "manliness" for me to look taller than him! That should have been a red flag, among many other warnings I didn't heed.
His daughter loaned me a dress that she said was her alternate gown when she was married about a year before. I didn't realize how low cut it was in the front until I tried it on 2 days before. It was cut down almost to my navel! I didn't want to wear something that revealing so I sewed a large lace applique panel to the front to make it less revealing. I used to be a tailor so fortunately I had that lace piece in my sewing stash. I found out later that she hated me and she was mad that I altered the dress even though she told me she didn't want it back and to donate it after the wedding.
I'm glad I am divorced now and don't have to be around her snarkiness anymore!
Iove you called out the bridesmaids…that IS their job lol
We got married on a cruise ship. As my new wife was coming down the spiral staircase into the ballroom for the reception, she slipped on the stairs and slid on her butt down 15 stairs. Besides having a purple bruised butt, she was ok. It could have been the shortest time being married in history.
💯💯💯 LOVE WEDDING DISAPPOINTMENTS. Great videos Charlotte
I never understood beach weddings or anything outside at all lol.
Soo many uncontrollable factors! I'm not spending all that time and money planning something I ultimately have no say in 😅
Same. And having all those ppl travel. So expensive, so much pressure. Couldn’t do it
@@Mama_Bear524 EXACTLY. I'm not dragging innocent people into something *that* unpredictable! I'm way too much of a control freak I could never lolol
about that hurricane wedding... I have an Italian saying for you, for when it rains during a wedding :) "Sposa bagnata, sposa fortunata" (wet bride, lucky bride) 😁