Oh, I called this one. It was obvious to me almost immediately. As a wise man once said, "Hoe'n be hard, Bruh, Hoe'n be hard...", lol. She was waiting for the other moms to leave to get some alone time and chat him up. This is page #1 in the girl's playbook. They rarely come at you head-on to express an interest, and instead try to orchestrate the circumstances in such a way that you will notice them. I'm sure she was parked around the corner, sipping her Starbucks coffee, listening to NPR and waiting out the clock to get some alone time, and turn her tingle into a trickle, lol. When OP got mad at her for this, that indicated to her that he didn't look forward to that time together in the same was she did. She felt dejected (even though he was oblivious to her advances). That's why she complained. Her approach comes with plausible deniability (that's by design... we all hate it when girls do this, but they do it a LOT, lol). She can simply write him off as "rude" if he doesn't take the bait, then it doesn't appear she had been rejected, she's just another customer with a minor grievance, a smoke-screen to cover any embarrassment she might have felt. To any ladies who might read this: We men can see when you flirt with other men in this manner, but we are typically oblivious when it happens to us. That's why we have the "wingman" system, an objective pair of eye on the situation to let us know when we're being dumb, lol. But in general, we don't care for these mind-games, and much prefer direct, clear communication. Just state your intent. The worst you can be told is "No", which leaves you in exactly the same spot you were in before you asked, so you have lost nothing. And that directness is so rare, we will always appreciate it, regardless of what answer we give. This lady went about it in exactly the wrong way, yet it was still very predictable. The wrong way should not be the norm, lol.
It was so obvious I was shocked there were no comments about it included in the video. She stays late chatting to him, chased him down to get his attention and paid him to stop being mad at her, and tried to hire him as her kids private instructor after their point of connection stopped.
It was obvious there was A REASON, why she kept being there late, trying so hard to engage with OP in coversations and even when ignored. If it was a crush or using him to avoid being home or whatever, something was up.
Oh I wonder why they have such "intensity", after she tried to throw money on his face to get him to stop being mad at her, him getting into conflict with his boss because of her tardiness and lack of respect for his time, and him getting constantly frustrated with her behaviour. I wonder why... OP is self sabotaging and making terrible life decisions. That woman has very stalkerish vibes.
not in a cute way either... this has dark romance vibes but I hope this is fake and not real. If it is, I feel for him; this sounds traumatizing and I hope he can find support for himself outside of someone that has massive issues.
Yeah, I picked up on her liking him right away, but that it was reciprocated... that one kind of surprised me too. I get it, who doesn't enjoy a good MILF? But not one who screws with our jobs. There are limits, lol. That was a hard 180°.
Oh, I feel a little bad with his last comment. I hope I'll be okay. He might benefit from therapy too but if he doesn't have money to it'll be complicated
Something I can't help but think is, since the mom in this story is an abused wife, she isn't taking boxing lessons to get into the sport, it's to develop the forms as a method of self-defense. I mean, it sounds like at least some of the abuse she's suffering at her husband's hands is physical and she's looking for a way to hit back just as physically. She might have also been seeing getting hit with penalties at the gym where her son's lessons were happening was better than allowing the kid to be exposed to the abusive environment at home. And finally, some advice for OP, if this mom does divorce her husband and start dating you, take things slow. In cases like this, trauma bonds can easily take hold as one partner starts to feel indebted to the other, easily turning the relationship transactional, which could easily turn into a pathway to resentment and/or a renewal of abuse. In the best-case scenario, get the mom to talk things out with a therapist, preferably after she's divorced but before things get serious with OP.
I hope OP stays away. In cases like these, the mother needs time to heal before entering any type of relationship with someone who is equally traumatized. I agree with trauma bonding, and that is why he needs to stay away. Even with a therapist, it is still tough to process the trauma while seeing someone with trauma. I believe she needs dbt, to understand others' emotions and needs and how to set proper boundaries and respect them. He needs time to process and grieve as well for the person OP was caring for, and I believe that they need support, but not from each other; from others that are much healthier to be around as it truly helps healing. You have to choose who to be around in the process of your own healing, and sometimes cut out those that may harm it, no matter the intention of the other person.
I knew she had a crush on him long ago with how persistent she was to talk to him about irrelevant things. Her coming late was likely to get him alone to chat.
I worked at a school, if a kid wasn’t picked up when they were supposed to be (after school got out) the school started calling immediately. For the after school program there were two pick up times at different price points, if you didn’t pick them up at the first we charged you for the second. If you hadn’t picked them up by the second pickup time we charged a dollar per minute per kid. OP’s way too nice about this
If she was into him, why did she report him and lie about what happened? And even if her feelings were genuine, she still wasted and disrespected his time all those instances where she was late
Op just wanted to complain.... Karen was wrong in the beginning but she offered you money for your time that your boss wasn't trying to give you. Just take the money and STFU 😅
All that trouble, for him to end up with her? SMH. It’s a very bad idea, he doesn’t know how dangerous the ex can be, it doesn’t matter if he’s not looking for a serious relationship, he could get hurt. Let’s hope not! Plus, to get sexually involved with someone that knows that “money talks”, especially considering he’s in a vulnerable position, noting from his las comment, isn’t the best decision he can make. They both need therapy.
I came to the comments to see if everybody everyone else thought that commenter from the update was just ridiculous but after reading some comments here IDK if I wanna know how this ends!!!😳😳😳
The last update wtf
Guess it explains why she liked to chat after pickups. Maybe she had a game plan? Make OP spend more time with the kid to like him
I thought it was a fake out at first😂
LMFAOOO I did not see that coming, not this mf doing the whole enemy to lovers route💀
Oh, I called this one. It was obvious to me almost immediately.
As a wise man once said, "Hoe'n be hard, Bruh, Hoe'n be hard...", lol.
She was waiting for the other moms to leave to get some alone time and chat him up.
This is page #1 in the girl's playbook. They rarely come at you head-on to express an interest, and instead try to orchestrate the circumstances in such a way that you will notice them. I'm sure she was parked around the corner, sipping her Starbucks coffee, listening to NPR and waiting out the clock to get some alone time, and turn her tingle into a trickle, lol.
When OP got mad at her for this, that indicated to her that he didn't look forward to that time together in the same was she did. She felt dejected (even though he was oblivious to her advances). That's why she complained. Her approach comes with plausible deniability (that's by design... we all hate it when girls do this, but they do it a LOT, lol). She can simply write him off as "rude" if he doesn't take the bait, then it doesn't appear she had been rejected, she's just another customer with a minor grievance, a smoke-screen to cover any embarrassment she might have felt.
To any ladies who might read this:
We men can see when you flirt with other men in this manner, but we are typically oblivious when it happens to us. That's why we have the "wingman" system, an objective pair of eye on the situation to let us know when we're being dumb, lol. But in general, we don't care for these mind-games, and much prefer direct, clear communication. Just state your intent. The worst you can be told is "No", which leaves you in exactly the same spot you were in before you asked, so you have lost nothing. And that directness is so rare, we will always appreciate it, regardless of what answer we give. This lady went about it in exactly the wrong way, yet it was still very predictable. The wrong way should not be the norm, lol.
he doesn't sound particularly happy about it, more like he's a mess
Dude found a Sugar Mama
And the best part is that she's not even old
how do people on reddit always call it? i had no idea she was into him
She kept staying behind 20 minutes extra to talk to him after picking up her kid late. You don't do that unless you like the person
It was so obvious I was shocked there were no comments about it included in the video. She stays late chatting to him, chased him down to get his attention and paid him to stop being mad at her, and tried to hire him as her kids private instructor after their point of connection stopped.
It was obvious there was A REASON, why she kept being there late, trying so hard to engage with OP in coversations and even when ignored. If it was a crush or using him to avoid being home or whatever, something was up.
I was clueless!!!
lol I haven't reached that part yet, but I definitely called it out.😂😂good for them❤
Oh I wonder why they have such "intensity", after she tried to throw money on his face to get him to stop being mad at her, him getting into conflict with his boss because of her tardiness and lack of respect for his time, and him getting constantly frustrated with her behaviour. I wonder why... OP is self sabotaging and making terrible life decisions. That woman has very stalkerish vibes.
That last update was like a damn wattpad story
not in a cute way either... this has dark romance vibes but I hope this is fake and not real. If it is, I feel for him; this sounds traumatizing and I hope he can find support for himself outside of someone that has massive issues.
"something like that" 😭☹️
😭😭
That is the worst update ever.
Well I thought she liked him, never expected him to like her back lololol
Yeah, I picked up on her liking him right away, but that it was reciprocated... that one kind of surprised me too. I get it, who doesn't enjoy a good MILF? But not one who screws with our jobs. There are limits, lol. That was a hard 180°.
lol I thought he was into her too cause he got so upset when she tried to compensate him😂
@@Arkryal exactly. She reported him to his boss. Automatic and forever turn off. Thought stuff like that only happened in rom coms lmao.
@@SamriddhiSharma128 oooo is that a thing??
Oh, I feel a little bad with his last comment. I hope I'll be okay. He might benefit from therapy too but if he doesn't have money to it'll be complicated
That’s kinda sad. “Something like that?” I wonder what happened
Something I can't help but think is, since the mom in this story is an abused wife, she isn't taking boxing lessons to get into the sport, it's to develop the forms as a method of self-defense. I mean, it sounds like at least some of the abuse she's suffering at her husband's hands is physical and she's looking for a way to hit back just as physically. She might have also been seeing getting hit with penalties at the gym where her son's lessons were happening was better than allowing the kid to be exposed to the abusive environment at home.
And finally, some advice for OP, if this mom does divorce her husband and start dating you, take things slow. In cases like this, trauma bonds can easily take hold as one partner starts to feel indebted to the other, easily turning the relationship transactional, which could easily turn into a pathway to resentment and/or a renewal of abuse. In the best-case scenario, get the mom to talk things out with a therapist, preferably after she's divorced but before things get serious with OP.
I hope OP stays away. In cases like these, the mother needs time to heal before entering any type of relationship with someone who is equally traumatized. I agree with trauma bonding, and that is why he needs to stay away. Even with a therapist, it is still tough to process the trauma while seeing someone with trauma. I believe she needs dbt, to understand others' emotions and needs and how to set proper boundaries and respect them. He needs time to process and grieve as well for the person OP was caring for, and I believe that they need support, but not from each other; from others that are much healthier to be around as it truly helps healing. You have to choose who to be around in the process of your own healing, and sometimes cut out those that may harm it, no matter the intention of the other person.
I knew she had a crush on him long ago with how persistent she was to talk to him about irrelevant things. Her coming late was likely to get him alone to chat.
HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUH?!?!?!?!
Call me aespa cuz that last updatw gave me whiplash
Op really needs a hug and therapy
I worked at a school, if a kid wasn’t picked up when they were supposed to be (after school got out) the school started calling immediately. For the after school program there were two pick up times at different price points, if you didn’t pick them up at the first we charged you for the second. If you hadn’t picked them up by the second pickup time we charged a dollar per minute per kid. OP’s way too nice about this
When I tell you my jaw DROPPED 🤣i was not expecting that update
If the boss wants to cater to this entitled parent then the boss should be babysitting the kid when the Mom is late.
I WASNT EXPECTING THAT ENDING LOL
That last update was a fucking PLOT TWIST WOAH 😧😮🫨
Here in canada. If they're running a daycare and you're consistently late.... It's an automatic call to CPS....
Accept the check?? You do that you WILL be fired. Guarantee it.
If she was into him, why did she report him and lie about what happened? And even if her feelings were genuine, she still wasted and disrespected his time all those instances where she was late
Oh no, wtf is happening. Where's the button to make this ride stop aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah xD
i was NOT expecting that 😅
That, uh... took a twist.
THE LAST UPDATE WHAT?!?
I'm on update 1. I'm nearly positive that the boss is sleeping with the mom.
Might just be me... but I don't think this thing between them will last. Maybe it's just me, but we'll see
The way I slowly turned to the screen like y'all could also see the shock on my face cause W H A T
Kinda thought she wanted him ngl
These Reddit ppl read his ass for filth
Op just wanted to complain.... Karen was wrong in the beginning but she offered you money for your time that your boss wasn't trying to give you. Just take the money and STFU 😅
All that trouble, for him to end up with her? SMH. It’s a very bad idea, he doesn’t know how dangerous the ex can be, it doesn’t matter if he’s not looking for a serious relationship, he could get hurt. Let’s hope not! Plus, to get sexually involved with someone that knows that “money talks”, especially considering he’s in a vulnerable position, noting from his las comment, isn’t the best decision he can make. They both need therapy.
That last update was so fake
LMAO WHAT
I came to the comments to see if everybody everyone else thought that commenter from the update was just ridiculous but after reading some comments here IDK if I wanna know how this ends!!!😳😳😳
This is bot going to end well
All of this just so they endend up tgth 🙄
WTF????
Lol reddit shrinks. They're just fucking, chill
what???????
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